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I think it's unprofessional, and definitely out of place when in front of such a large group. If you're going to do it, do it discretely.
/r/seduction13/01/20 02:58 PM
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So I went to get some food and those girls standing next to me said I shouldn't buy that because it's unhealthy and whatnot so they ask me to eat Thai food them and it was pretty tasty. I talked about how I ended up here and they thought I was pretty cool but I guess they also felt sorry for me and they took me in their group.
/r/seduction13/01/20 01:15 AM
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I have more interesting stories to share as well if you want to hear them. Like the time I went to another country to be with a girl. Or when I found someone 11 years older while I am 22.
/r/seduction13/01/20 12:44 AM
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Here I wrote down my experience with being at a festival alone. https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/enwcxm/a_story_about_the_time_i_was_left_behind_on_a/?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share
/r/seduction13/01/20 12:42 AM
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I'm thinking about going to Tomorrowland alone this year. Should I do it or is it just foolish? I'm really into the music there and the scenery is amazing. I've been left alone at a festival once before, maybe I'll write the story on this subreddit some time.
/r/seduction13/01/20 12:05 AM
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Exactly what I'm going to do this Friday, live music always works.
/r/seduction13/01/20 12:01 AM
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I guess I agree. That's why dating apps don't really work that well because they're not designed to meet new social groups, which you kinda need to make a relationship easier, if you have absolutely no common friends or colleagues or whatever it's so much harder to get along with them at first imo. I think it's definitely a lot harder to get a girl with the intention to be with her from the start rather through mutual friends where you slowly build up the tension.
/r/seduction12/01/20 04:27 AM
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Pretty obvious post. But in my experience just going for drinks with mates doesn't result in getting to know many new people because you're mostly focused on the group you're with talking to them at your table or whatever. And I guess you shouldn't go out with sole purpose of picking up girls but rather to meet new people while having a great time. You're not desperate to want to increase your social circle.
/r/seduction12/01/20 04:18 AM
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I think you missed your chance... Better luck next time. Not enough information to say if you got close to achieving it but at least you learned a lesson right? There will be more chances in the future but don't wait till the opportunities come your way like the other guy said. Yeah sometimes girls will come to you if you're lucky or just that good but usually you're going to have to make a move first.
/r/seduction12/01/20 04:06 AM
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It's true it's a either a hit or miss, however if you go do something you'd enjoy by yourself regardless like a concert or something you'll always end up having fun even if you don't meet anyone.
/r/seduction11/01/20 03:36 PM
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And I'm talking about IRL encounters, online dating excluded
/r/seduction11/01/20 03:26 PM
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I don't think it has that much to do with being attractive. It's just not a thing that happens often to regular guys. I've been deemed attractive by many girls in the past but I can count all of the encounters where someone initiated contact with me first on one hand pretty much... I guess I depends on the culture, the environment, etc as well.
/r/seduction11/01/20 03:25 PM
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This is probably one of the most memorable things I've ever read here. Nice analogy, well done
/r/seduction11/01/20 03:11 PM
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Been in the same situation. Just accepted it the way it was. I don't think you should overthink it.
/r/seduction11/01/20 03:03 AM
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I don't think that will have a meaningful impact on her daily life. Just forget about Snapchat and meet girls IRL
/r/seduction11/01/20 02:58 AM
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I always end up meeting new people when I lose my friends at a concert/festival club or whatever. This is why I don't mind going out alone. I guess it's not so straight forward for everyone, but you shouldn't be afraid to approach new people because in the end it can only make for a more memorable time for both parties. Just have fun and don't try too hard.
/r/seduction11/01/20 02:28 AM
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If she invited you it's not creepy because she's already interested. Personally I don't think drugs make for a good basis for a relationship. Even if you haven't had one before I think you should have a standard like seriously know what you're getting yourself into and see if she's really your type.
/r/seduction11/01/20 02:21 AM
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I usually wouldn't say this, but you don't deserve her.
/r/seduction11/01/20 02:15 AM
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Calling a girl cute isn't memorable so don't worry about it. Cute girls get called cute a lot. If you call her cute then what? She's not going to magically be into you because you said that. Try to learn about the person in question and come up with a plan. I think it's more about action rather than plain compliments. Nobody can really say what works best because everyone is different but what you need to understand is that it's all about confidence. Doesn't matter what move you try to make as l…
/r/seduction11/01/20 02:09 AM
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Agreed almost 100% but you should take it seriously to seek improvements and not complain about it on the internet.
/r/seduction10/01/20 03:51 PM
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Pretty much but yeah this isn't very helpful is it?
/r/seduction10/01/20 03:49 PM
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Getting rejected is part of the process, it's better to have tried than to wonder what if. If personally have never been directly rejected but rather ghosted, I never forget about such things even if I wanted to but what can you do about it? Not much until you have a successful attempt it won't be on your mind anymore so just keep trying till you succeed. I mean courage to you my friend!
/r/seduction10/01/20 03:46 PM
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I completely feel the way you do. In my experience the dating game is pretty superficial, I've always found the best partners when I wasn't looking for anything specific but just trying to enjoy myself and get to know new people without the intention of finding a SO. However, I still think you need to be somewhat good at seductive skills to not miss a real good chance with women you really want. Don't stop looking or going out of your comfort zone, but instead try to do it in a such way that you…
/r/seduction10/01/20 03:40 PM
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