Gaming is low value

Shadow__Account · 2020-01-12T09:31:09+00:00

"A 10/10 guy does not go out for the sole purpose of approaching."

My response to that would be : A 3/10 guy will never become a 10/10 guy without training.

A fighter does not just wake up walks into the ring and performs like the star we see, there is years of ugly training with failure that we don't see when we see a 10/10 guy perform

So you can take 14 years to get good with women, like i did, or you can just go out for the sole purpose of approaching and maybe get there in 2-3 years.

sparklesum · 2020-01-12T04:18:32+00:00

Pretty obvious post. But in my experience just going for drinks with mates doesn't result in getting to know many new people because you're mostly focused on the group you're with talking to them at your table or whatever. And I guess you shouldn't go out with sole purpose of picking up girls but rather to meet new people while having a great time. You're not desperate to want to increase your social circle.

jamesjoeitsago · 2020-01-12T16:56:55+00:00

Im not a PUA or in this community at all, I do however enjoy some of the inner game stuff you all get on with so I like some of your info, I've never had trouble getting girls, I enjoy being in relationships and am right now.

I have to say when I see a guy who is approaching a girl , it is low value to me. Approaching women is low value. High value men let women come to them.

Dating apps are cool because your only suggesting to the women your available, not bullying them.

Yes it takes guts to cold approach a girl. But it takes guts to shoot yourself in the foot too.

A high value man does not care about a woman that has no interest in him.

Don't obsess over women.

I've "cold approached" girls before, just to make a joke or comment on something but never with intention of sleeping with them. That's pathetic .

If your not getting laid it's a problem with who you are at your core, you need to change who you are not your tactics or up your numbers.

You get anxiety because you have no right to approach these women. If she is giving you no sign don't approach her. If you want to non sexually approach a woman with no intention of anything other than talking, only then will you really be able to .

ChelseaDagger14 · 2020-01-12T03:09:56+00:00

What’s the point in this post? Don’t game alone??

Some guys can do just fine like that

grrinchas · 2020-01-12T18:39:32+00:00

Don't get this logic:

Going to approach women and work on yourself is a low value behaviour, while going with a bunch guys to drink all night is high level behaviour.

I must be missing something.

Hubblenobbin · 2020-01-15T21:54:52+00:00

In my experience if the girl is attracted to you, she reframes it to "Oh he's so self-confident he can go out alone." That might not work as well with the friends though. But yeah totally, if you can engineer a situation where she makes the decision to talk to you it gives you a head start. Any time you can make it seem like she's gaming you, do so. Any time you can make it look like you're trying less, do so.

The point of game is to not look like you're gaming.

Title	Gaming is low value
Author	Don_Drapist
Upvotes	4
Comments	13
Date	January 12, 2020 3:00 AM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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