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I dunno, I do this. I also hug people instead of shaking hands since I find it awkward. Worry less about what others do. Worry less about what you do. Have fun.
/r/seduction30/11/13 08:24 AM
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for privacy reasons I'd rather not, but I will put it together and pm you with it in a little bit.
/r/seduction19/10/13 04:06 PM
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Frat parties blow anyway.
/r/seduction26/08/13 08:29 AM
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Okay here is a good article that shows what I'm talking about. How this contributes to seduction I don't know, but I hate the alpha-beta terms. It basically says if you're not on top you're on bottom which is ridiculous.
/r/seduction14/08/13 02:42 AM
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Actually modern science has found the whole wolf pack alpha-beta paradigm to be incorrect. Let me dig a little bit and I'll be back with sources.
/r/seduction14/08/13 02:38 AM
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It's not beta to alpha. It's you to the best version of you.
/r/seduction13/08/13 07:44 PM
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Just to for the kiss. Just do it. It's either a yes or a no. I usually grab their chin and do it.
/r/seduction05/08/13 07:53 AM
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The Hitchhiker's Guide To the Galaxy series Cell, The Long Walk, most things by Stephen King Anything by Neil Gaimen. The Fountainhead. (The main character straight up rapes a chick in this book, don't do that, it's still a good book)
/r/seduction05/08/13 07:49 AM
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Guys who get laid ten times a month by different girls are getting rejected a hell of a lot more. You don't hear about the blonde they tried talking to that just kept walking, or how many times in a day they hear "I have a boyfriend." Just food for thought.
/r/seduction24/07/13 09:53 PM
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You work in a shop, outright asking for numbers and hitting on customers is unprofessional. If you actually get a girl down to chat and flirt go for it, but while you're at work you should probably focus on working.
/r/seduction24/07/13 09:13 PM
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Be comfortable in your body. I'll preface this by saying I'm 6'2", so if you want to disregard my opinion on this you have every right to, I have had body issues before though. But yeah, you have to be comfortable with your own body. Unless you're still pretty young, you won't be growing much. So get used to it. Sometimes being comfortable in your body means you need to change a few things about it, your posture, get rid of that gut, etc. Going to the gym and building muscle can really help with…
/r/seduction24/07/13 06:25 PM
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Often times I number close only to go home and later on not really want to do anything with it. So I don't. I keep numbers in my phone and would have by that point given her my number so if she ever wants to hit me up I know who she is, otherwise I get on with my life and forget about them.
/r/seduction24/07/13 06:04 PM
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Set it as a goals. Concrete goals. Goals you either did, or didnt do. Bad goal: I'll try to pick someone up. Good goal: I will start a conversation with one woman I find attractive today. Start small. Start a conversation. Then maybe start conversations with two women. Then I will physically contact a woman during a conversation. I will ask for a phone number. I will ask a girl if she is single. I will start conversations and ask girls for numbers until I get one. I will call this number. I will…
/r/seduction19/07/13 06:41 PM
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I think you're setting yourself up for failure the way you say you "can't" do it. You haven't done it, but that doesn't mean you can't. Most people want to have a pleasant time with other people. Most people are either in, or want, a romantic relationship of some kind. The regret of not going after something is much worse than the rejection. And honestly, rejection is not that bad. "Hey, want to go out?" "No." And then you get on with your life. If it helps, think about her taking a big nasty sh…
/r/seduction19/07/13 06:11 PM
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Sorry. To expand, the anxiety you get when you approach someone is something that everyone experiences. But if you don't just go and do it anyway, you never will. I'll leave it you to figure out how to make yourself do it, but I would say that the two biggest things about the game come down to approach them, go for the close. Also, I don't think there's anything wrong with online dating. It works for a reason.
/r/seduction19/07/13 05:56 PM
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You should probably start by approaching someone.
/r/seduction19/07/13 05:36 PM
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"I know, it's crazy how close we've gotten so quickly."
/r/seduction06/07/13 09:55 PM
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Just fucking talk to them. Ask them out to coffee. Don't be too drunk around them. They're people, and they usually want to have a positive experience with everybody. They aren't special, imagine them taking a big nasty shit because they probably have within the last week. They're the exact same as everybody else.
/r/seduction05/07/13 06:40 PM
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This is a perfect example of how to take seduction theory and apply it to the wibbly wobbly goop that is reality.
/r/seduction28/06/13 06:56 PM
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I probably wouldn't even put myself in that situation.
/r/seduction25/06/13 06:34 PM
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As much as you let it. Sharing a dorm is hard. In an apartment there's a place for them to go, the couch, a dorms harder.
/r/seduction23/05/13 04:45 AM
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Well you're on it.
/r/seduction13/05/13 06:07 AM
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How would you make it known for example?
/r/seduction04/05/13 06:55 PM
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Stop having a terrible personality. Act the way you think you should.
/r/seduction16/04/13 11:50 AM
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Talk about things you like. People who are interested will converse and the conversation will flow. You will have better success with these people and you'll like them more and have more fun. The key is to find things you may have in common, or at least might interest both. You also don't have to say every goddamn thing that comes to mind, think signal to noise ratio. Don't waste your words either, make what you say count. A wise man speaks because he has something to say, a fool speaks because …
/r/seduction02/04/13 09:53 AM
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Coffee, taking a walk, and going swinging is usually my go to. It's not too big a commitment and gives you further options to expand or escalate the date if things go well.
/r/seduction11/02/13 01:34 PM
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I went through a girl-crazy phase after I got better at seduction and using my sexuality to get girls. It fades and you focus on other things, girls stop being the cake and start being the frosting.
/r/seduction04/01/13 06:52 PM
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You don't need wingmen. They're fun to have though. Get good at picking up chicks alone. Then get good at picking up girls with your wingman. That's male bonding time, picking up chicks. It's a night to hang with your bro, and get laid.
/r/seduction03/01/13 06:31 PM
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Coffee is the best date because It gives you a place to be stationary, establish rapport, and kino Its not that long so you can pick it up and move the date when you want, I usually go for a walk, the coffee shops in my town are all close to some of my favorite spots so its convenient Don't say coffee is a bad date, coffee is non confrontational, not a big commitment, and its friendly, you don't have to say whether its a date or just hanging out.
/r/seduction29/12/12 07:13 PM
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Start working on yourself. Work out, read more, spend less, pick up a new hobby, take a drawing class, etc. figure out who you are as a single person, then get back out there.
/r/seduction07/12/12 07:44 AM
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Prefacing it with saying its random is good because it breaks the ice, makes you seem like you don't do that all the time, and this is more for when you're in the streets but it gets rid of the 'salesman' attitude.
/r/seduction07/12/12 07:14 AM
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One thing I will tell you is pay attention to models, actors, people on the street, etc. that seem to have a style and fashion that you like. Emulate to the best of your abilities, then make it your own.
/r/seduction09/10/12 08:42 PM
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Talk as little as you have to. This will be different on a guy to guy basis, as well as what girls you're picking up. If you can pull the silent type well then go for that. If you can't then don't. Each girl will require a different level. You'll know if you've found a good girl though if conversation flows naturally and you aren't worried about this.
/r/seduction06/07/12 12:22 AM
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I have many friends that are many types of people. Especially in a smaller city this is great because it demonstrates that I'm valued socially. I play volleyball, hacky sack, and frisbee golf often. It's summer time, get outside and enjoy the heat. I spin poi, which if you didn't know is a type of dance, a subset of which is fire spinning though I do it with LED's for various reasons. I dance often, and don't care if I look goofy doing it. I actually have very good rhythm. I have a vast and well…
/r/seduction06/07/12 12:14 AM
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Palm reading is fun, light, interesting, and gives you an excuse to create closer physical contact with her. Even if both of you think it's bs it's still fun.
/r/seduction30/06/12 11:46 PM
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Yes. Getting out as part of your day is very important.
/r/seduction30/06/12 11:43 PM
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Learn some french. In the heat of the moment nothing is sexier than babbling off in french.
/r/seduction07/06/12 04:50 AM
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Dude, you just need to get your head in the game before you head out and meet her friends. Chug a coffee or two, throw on some music that will get you pumped up and happy, this is my personal favorite, do some jumping jacks, make yourself smile, you'll be in the zone. If you start to feel like bailing then just tell them that you are gettin tired and need to work tomorrow. Then you can go, ask her if she wants to come with you, if not then just tell her to have fun with her friends. Thank everyo…
/r/seduction05/06/12 05:43 PM
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When you flirt the point is to create sexual tension. It's basically creating the idea that sexual contact is an option, but not a guarantee.
/r/seduction05/06/12 05:21 AM
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You really don't. If you put yourself out there and keep practicing you'll get over Approach Anxiety quickly.
/r/seduction04/06/12 06:21 AM
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Talk to everyone, don't focus on one person for a little while. Get over there, ask them how they know each other. Build rapport with the group as a whole. You have an entire evening to focus in on one person. If you're friends with the group you're in.
/r/seduction02/06/12 10:41 PM
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I once was bombing a hill on campus on a longboard. This hottie was walking up the hill so I decided to do it. I jumped off the board in front of her, almost ate shit when I landed, caught myself, and started talking. I said something like, "Hey. I was just bombing that hill, I don't know if you saw. But I saw you walking and thought, 'Wow, even though jumping off at these incredibly high speeds would be dangerous to both myself and my longboard, I need to talk to this girl.' Hi." Probably the b…
/r/seduction02/06/12 10:35 PM
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Did you ever end up doing this Budapest? Could you give a quick FR on how it went?
/r/seduction19/05/12 04:36 PM
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Oh oh oh, more. Buy some chalk at a dollar store and run around town writing and drawing stuff on the sidewalk. Even better if you take her to the dollar store first, always fun to be had at the dollar store.
/r/seduction17/05/12 03:16 PM
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Dude, swinging. Seriously. Take a girl to a park with a playground, I usually do this after a more set thing like coffee, but go swinging. She'll love it, it'll bring back childhood excitement and glee, and totally pull you out of the ordinary for her. Surprise her with it.
/r/seduction17/05/12 03:44 AM
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You are so right. A true alpha will realize that it's silly to think that there's a "best". You can think that you're better than some certain people, but there really is no "best" person.
/r/seduction16/05/12 07:44 AM
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Alpha and being nice aren't mutually exclusive. You can certainly care about girls, I hope you do. You should read the What is and isn't onitis post. Basically, you shouldn't let yourself get hung up on one girl, that's a weak character trait to invest that much in someone too fast.
/r/seduction16/05/12 03:38 AM
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Just throw it right back at them by pretending to misinterpret it like, "Are you coming onto me?"
/r/seduction16/05/12 03:30 AM
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So, it seems that you did a pretty good job of building rapport, which is good, that is a great thing to do on a first date. What you didn't do was build sexual tension, this is where teasing and kino come into play. I usually have a basic outline of a first date, and this is always maluble. Take her somewhere public, somewhere like a coffee shop or a resteraunt, build rapport here, become comfortable talking to each other. You already did a bit of flirting in order to get her on the date, so no…
/r/seduction15/05/12 05:56 PM
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