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Sure. 40–50 pgs sounds like a fun read.
/r/seduction17/01/13 04:11 AM
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omg can I meet her? I live in Berkeley. :D "Hey, so...this guy on this subreddit about picking up girls...wants to meet you. Ok, ok...I know it sounds weird. Yes, he already knows your a Lesbian..."
/r/seduction16/01/13 10:59 AM
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lol...The odds of a working engineer being a woman (11%) are less than the odds of a woman being a lesbian in San Francisco (15%). :D The odds that both are true? 1.7% or 1/59. :P
/r/seduction16/01/13 04:49 AM
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Genius.
/r/seduction15/01/13 01:45 PM
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Hahaha, me too. -_- And the girls who are in these classes are usually...the type who don't shave their legs or something. True story.
/r/seduction15/01/13 01:45 PM
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Good advice. Yesterday was the first day of school and I don't even know how many numbers I got (guys and girls) and how many people I met. :D It can be intimidating, but just do it. It feels liberating.
/r/seduction15/01/13 01:44 PM
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I find this really cool. I'm assuming a relationship is the goal because you're not looking for an f-close, so I'll write on that subject. If I'm wrong, oh well. My ex got me to leave Pickup for her, but after a few months, I broke up with her because I got wanderlust, but we kept sleeping together and it stayed like that for almost two years. I wasn't ready to settle down, but if I was I would have probably married her. We're still best friends, and she's the best thing that ever happened to me…
/r/seduction14/01/13 11:51 AM
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Will do.
/r/seduction14/01/13 08:02 AM
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This guide is really amazing. I just got out of a relationship that I started in a relationship, then became f-buddies, then tried to get back into a relationship. Utter disaster. I should have just stuck to my guns in the first place and stayed f-buddies with her. I would Up-vote a hundred times if I could. I wish I had read this two years ago.
/r/seduction13/01/13 11:11 PM
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Thanks, that's very helpful. 1–2 hours per week sounds so much more manageable.
/r/seduction13/01/13 04:42 PM
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Thanks a lot for the info. That makes me feel a lot better. I'm taking six classes this semester with luckily just under 25 hours of class a week. You're right. I'm being optimistic. :P I do want to get a full night's rest every night, but that may be unrealistic. I'll look into the clubs and such; I know the LGBT club has a good presence, and while I'm not gay, I'm sure that'd be an awesome way to start expanding my social circle.
/r/seduction13/01/13 04:40 PM
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Yeah, about the social scene, that was my impression, but I've been reading this PUA book called Conquer your Campus, so I think I may be able to make it work somewhat. If classes are easy, then life should be a lot easier. :D
/r/seduction13/01/13 04:38 PM
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Woah, 10 hours per week? If you have any pointers, I would love to hear about it. The way I've planned my days, I would be studying 50-70 hours per week, so you can tell I'm very nervous about doing well. I would love to hear how you packed so much quality into your study time. We could move to PM if you prefer. :P
/r/seduction13/01/13 01:09 AM
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@CP_Cuddler: Hey, since I'm about to start out my life as an Engineering Student, could you tell me something? Do you know about how many hours you studied per week overall, and especially for Physics, Chemistry, and Math?
/r/seduction12/01/13 11:42 PM
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@Thisesmeaningless: Hey, since I'm about to start out my life as an Engineering Student, could you tell me something? Do you know about how many hours you studied per week overall, and especially for Physics, Chemistry, and Math?
/r/seduction12/01/13 11:42 PM
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I wish it was like that for me. Once I transfer to UC Berkeley, I will be living just a few minutes from campus if not dorming, which will make things much easier.
/r/seduction12/01/13 09:48 PM
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Keys to the VIP, Season 01 Episode 10 to see some pretty...amazingly strange Pickup. I loved him. He didn't get one kiss, and he didn't get one number, but I think he had bad luck. First girl couldn't give phone, but wanted to give MSN because it seemed like she knew her boyfriend wouldn't be able to see her MSN conversations. Second girl was engaged and tried to get him to stay. Third girl...it was just weird as fuck, and hilarious.
/r/seduction12/01/13 09:21 PM
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Good post. Cheers~ That is solid advice to high schoolers. Yes, you can make platonic female friends after high school, but during high school, focus on your future. You're still young, and fucking girls means shit all at that time in your life; but learning how to relate to other people (especially girls) in a good way is very helpful.
/r/seduction12/01/13 08:34 PM
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You're right. I will only experience this once. I'm not saying I won't do Pickup. I will. I just want to ease into the more physically taxing aspects of the game (read: clubs, bars, and parties) until my GPA where it should be. Until then, I am looking for less time-intensive ways of playing the game. ♥
/r/seduction12/01/13 08:17 PM
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Oh, also, I fully expect to dial it back to 2–2.5 hours of studying per hour of class. And get an internship. :P And the classes I'm taking are at CCSF, which has classes specifically for Engineering students who are trying to transfer into UC Berkeley. The difficulty is supposed to be somewhat on par, though I'm sure CCSF will still be a bit easier. I'm not too worried.
/r/seduction12/01/13 07:15 PM
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I got two useful pieces of advice from the RSD Forums. You can see my post by clicking on this text. E-book called Conquer Your Campus by Mark Redman. Check RSD Field Reports for a user named HPRJ The advice looks solid, so I hope other people on Seddit can benefit as well.
/r/seduction12/01/13 07:14 PM
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I'm not busting my ass right now. I haven't even started school yet. My first semester begins in a couple days. I'm just planning for the worst—3–5 hours of studying per hour of class. If I'm killing it, I will scale it back. And if I can't handle the work, then yeah, I won't consider the double-major.
/r/seduction12/01/13 07:08 PM
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Sorry, my man. I don't want to function with less sleep. I lift weights, and you don't build muscle on no sleep, not to mention losing sleep is unhealthy. If you're sacrificing your health so you can bone girls, you might have your priorities backward, bro. Then again, I just broke up with my ex, and I spent many a sleepless night with her. :P A 3.4 is awesome, but you're already in the school you need to be in. I'm at a community college, trying to transfer into UC Berkeley next year. (Usually,…
/r/seduction12/01/13 06:50 PM
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BART is a really good idea. I didn't think of that. Back in Manhattan, I fclosed several times, and am still friends with, a girl I picked up on the Metro. ;) I'll be carrying around my bike with me on BART, so my mobility will suck, but there are often cute chicks who bike that stand near the doors. :D You're right about the late night and alcohol—most girls are more comfortable in that situation. The no dates will be tough, and I already said I'd consider parties. I guess I could go on a date …
/r/seduction12/01/13 05:38 PM
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I'll try my best. I'll be honest—college parties intimidate me. But you don't grow if you don't push, right...? I'll definitely make it a goal to get invites.
/r/seduction12/01/13 05:25 PM
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What is this? I don't even... I've got to wake up at 6 AM to make it to 8 AM math class everyday. :D
/r/seduction12/01/13 04:57 PM
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Please explain. ♥
/r/seduction12/01/13 04:47 PM
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They have a gym, but because it's a Community College, there are no yoga classes or anything. But you're right. I will try to join some student organizations, which should expand my social circles.
/r/seduction12/01/13 04:31 PM
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I'm going to a community college for about a year, then transferring out. I actually live extremely close to my target 4-year university because I am trying to get an internship with the professors/student organizations there.
/r/seduction12/01/13 04:29 PM
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Ok, I'll reconsider parties. I do need to be in bed between 08–10 PM because of the commute and early classes, though, and again...I don't see too many parties happening because there aren't any dorms. If I do hear about parties, I'll try to check some out seeing as two people have already recommended them.
/r/seduction12/01/13 04:24 PM
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Thanks for the pointer. I will definitely try to minimize studying with stragglers. Unfortunately, parties are not really an option. I need to get up freaking early everyday because of the commute, and I don't want to mess up my sleeping schedule every weekend. Plus, the college is full of commuters—there are zero dorms—so it's not the classic college setting where there are parties on campus all the time. =\ Not like if I end up transferring to Berkeley, where there are rows upon rows of Frats …
/r/seduction12/01/13 04:18 PM
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Dorritos smothered in 7/11 Nacho Cheese - breakfast of champions.
/r/seduction14/06/11 10:33 PM
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Agreed, but I am going out all the time. I get in field experience. The question is, do three nights with an Rsd instructor measure up THAT much?
/r/seduction05/06/11 07:41 AM
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Something's wrong with my car. :( I'm out until it gets fixed. =\
/r/seduction05/06/11 04:24 AM
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Most likely. XD
/r/seduction05/06/11 04:23 AM
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Just skim material for routines and techniques and write those down in a spreadsheet. Go through just a few books/videos doing that and you'll very quickly amass a large collection of techniques. Ta da. :)
/r/seduction05/06/11 01:59 AM
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Why not anther city? I never thought to blame the city for my difficulties. I only blame myself. Plus, girls are hot in LA/HW. Lastly, we can't discuss difficulty in hooking when I only did three approaches.
/r/seduction04/06/11 10:00 AM
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Right, on! I went out this past night. Since then, I've told the story many times to many muchachas. XD
/r/seduction03/06/11 12:36 PM
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Message me your number. By the looks of things, we tend to go out in Hollywood and Downtown LA.
/r/seduction02/06/11 09:51 PM
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Message me your number. By the looks of things, we tend to go out in Hollywood and Downtown LA.
/r/seduction02/06/11 09:51 PM
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Maybe you can come along. Just make sure you charge your car battery first.
/r/seduction02/06/11 08:48 PM
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Lol, my bad, bro - I just got your message. ;) I didn't get the name of the Hipster place, just the address. Message me your number and I'll get you the details.
/r/seduction02/06/11 03:41 AM
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Now who's racist, mah nigga?!
/r/seduction01/06/11 08:46 PM
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In the Moore family, Micah is the Uzbek. P.S. Micah, I love you. I truly do. Partly because you are now enduring a shit storm. Partly because you seemed like a fun chick with a sexy attitude. Mostly because your cheeks are so adorably and squeezeably huge! ♥ Uzbek
/r/seduction01/06/11 08:40 PM
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Edit: The place I went to Monday and Tuesday had tons of hipster chicks. They're both in the same area of Hollywood. The Tuesday place is...well, let's just say it's a very colorful crowd.
/r/seduction01/06/11 07:59 PM
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The place I went with Monday is 18+. Send me a PM and we can go next Monday. ;) I hardly do day game due to my schedule. Fashion Island in Irvine is a fantastic place for it though.
/r/seduction01/06/11 03:02 AM
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hahahaha
/r/seduction31/05/11 05:34 PM
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Yeah, let's game together. ;)
/r/seduction31/05/11 05:32 PM
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Er, sorry for the lack of clarity. It was two completely different people.
/r/seduction31/05/11 05:30 PM
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Definitely. I did one set from in front of the bathroom. Girl went ice cold on me. I'm probably giving off a creeper vibe lol. In front of the water closet is great.
/r/seduction31/05/11 05:29 PM
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It's okay. We still love you. :) Upvote for being a misunderstood pseudo-misogynist.
/r/seduction31/05/11 12:14 PM
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I'll tell you when I take a Boot Camp.
/r/seduction31/05/11 02:23 AM
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I second that. Last night, I was making out with a very conservative friend of mine who kept saying how bad I was. We were just dancing, and as we danced closer, I started to grind my boner against all her places. This led to a make out, which led to slow dancing, probably because slow dancing is better for even more intense boner grinding. You love it, they love it, everyone loves it.
/r/seduction31/05/11 02:14 AM
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Thanks man. That was a great reply. Can you imagine working at RSD and being around these guys constantly? How motivated would you be just in general? Guys who push past boundaries, fears, limiting beliefs, guys who are positive...it'd be awesome to develop a social circle like that. I think it's really worth focusing on. You're right - I can't be too hard on myself. It's counter-productive. If I'm continuously going out, I'm going to improve. No doubt.
/r/seduction31/05/11 02:09 AM
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Thanks ThrowAway. I agree - self-esteem/respect/acceptance is probably the most important concept of Pick Up. Read good books. Have good friends. Do good things. Be something you are proud to be. Meditate. Do Pick Up. I'd say these will help a person get there. ;)
/r/seduction31/05/11 01:58 AM
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Most def. Once approaching mixed sets is no big deal, it'll be off the hook.
/r/seduction30/05/11 08:12 PM
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Ice. Thanks for the tip. ;)
/r/seduction30/05/11 07:57 PM
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I dressed up, showered, and got ready to go approach some girls. I was looking pretty good i guess... This all took a while I feel you. I'm scared. There's no trick, especially when you're by yourself. Sometimes in life, you just have to do the hard stuff. Sometimes, you're too afraid. Don't give up though. Do a search for a guy named Lapuma. He's a wingman of mine. He was telling me about a PUA who has exercises that may seriously help you. Do a search for Lapuma, tell him I was talking with yo…
/r/seduction30/05/11 07:05 PM
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Oh, you two - take that to /r/gonwild, you love birds!
/r/seduction30/05/11 06:13 PM
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Lol, can you believe that retro shit worked like a charm? What are the odds? The brunette was drunk and just wanted to talk and talk and talk. Have you guys seen the Purple Rain routine by Jeffy? XD
/r/seduction30/05/11 06:05 PM
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Yeah, that shit's fucking scary. I approached a mixed set last night and the guy turned to me and told me to fuck off. He put his arm around both girls and said, "They're with me. This is my cousin, that's my...uhh...that's my niece, so you better mosey on out of here." Pretty smooth. ;) By the way, everybody, the guy was around 220, built like a tank, ITALIAN, fucking from the JERSEY SHORE...AND BLACK...and, uh, had squinty eyes. So, there.
/r/seduction30/05/11 06:01 PM
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Lol, hear that Owen? I'm promoting RSD for free. I want a free Boot Camp in return. With Jeffy and Brad...oh, and you...and Julian. Uh...can I just work at RSD? That'd definitely be a trip. P.S. What are the unethical things RSD has done? I'm not privy.
/r/seduction30/05/11 05:57 PM
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Tofu, you're so racist. hug
/r/seduction30/05/11 05:50 PM
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Tyler and Jeffy use them. :P P.S. If I don't hate Lebanese or Indian people (I'm half-half), and..well, okay maybe I hate myself? I don't think so, but maybe it's denial! Mind fuck! So, how do I learn to love myself and stop judging myself. Can you be more specific? I think this topic is worth pursuing in general, tbh.
/r/seduction30/05/11 05:38 PM
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So, yes, I do see a person's race very quickly. First? Hard to say. If we're talking girls, I probably look at general sexiness first. ;) But you know what? Let me play Devil's Advocate against myself and say I do see race first. Let's take a step back and see what RACISM actually means. lol Racism is the belief that there are inherent differences in people's traits and capacities which are entirely due to their race, however defined, and which consequently justify those people being treated dif…
/r/seduction30/05/11 05:27 PM
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Okay, I'll try to keep that in mind. Can you give more detail about how Kumar got aggressive with him? I'm very unaggressive, so I can't imagine what I'd do.
/r/seduction30/05/11 04:47 PM
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Uh...I guess it's possible that I have a racism issue. I just meant to be descriptive. If I was racist, I'm not sure how would I become unracist. I'm half-Arab, half-Indian. I've had good friends who have been black, white, yellow, purple, whatever. I've dated and slept with a decent ethnic slice of the planet - White, So. American, Black, Asian. I try to open my life to all kinds of people. But I admit I have many stereotypes. What do you suggest I do to fix this issue, ThrowAway? If I stop ref…
/r/seduction30/05/11 04:43 PM
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Yeah, you're right. I even saw Tyler deal with AMOGs in the way you describe during the Hot Seat, so I knew I should just be chill, that these guys wouldn't do anything to me, but in the moment, my mind was just saying, "OMFG big black man is angry." XD Looking for a place to go tonight. Any LA sedditers want to wing with me tonight? Monday ;)
/r/seduction30/05/11 03:31 PM
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^ This. Ice. Be icy.
/r/seduction30/05/11 02:15 PM
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Honestly, working for rsd would be fun. If any of you guys live in LA, hit me up. And in a few weeks, I'm heading back to nyc, so if you're in that area hit me up. ;)
/r/seduction30/05/11 02:09 PM
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NYCProwl, How'd it go with the mamacita?!
/r/seduction30/05/11 03:34 AM
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Guys on the RSD Forums are already indoctrinated. O_o As my momma always told me, "Spread the brainwash. It's only polite." Okay, my mom never said that. I may post it on RSD Nation. shrug
/r/seduction30/05/11 02:04 AM
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Honestly, I've heard a lot of the lessons before, so nothing was ground shattering. The most important thing was, hands down, just seeing the pick ups being done. I definitely think going into the club with guys who are good at this stuff teaches you a ton. Hot Seat is like that, plus explanation and analysis. The downside is it's one day of ridiculously dense information, so it's not as good as having mPUA/natural friends. If that shit was on DVD, it'd be worth buying. Have I tried anything? Th…
/r/seduction30/05/11 02:02 AM
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Another woman's point of view: My ex told me after she moved away that she had wished I had waxed. According to her, she would have been more creative with how she used her tongue. How's that for motivation? ;) She's from Cali, though, were manscaping is more normal.
/r/seduction29/05/11 11:21 PM
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In one video, he was talking to a girl who was handing out food samples on the street. He starts talking with her, then a blond passes by. He walks over to the blond, says something to her about how the food samples girl was trying to poison her with carbs AS he grabs onto her elbow. She moves closer, then puts his arm around her and continues to banter. It was a 10-20 min interaction, maybe, and ends with a number close. ;) As for the "Nervous" thing, picture it like this: Tyler sees a girl wal…
/r/seduction29/05/11 11:14 PM
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What's up, nomdeanon! Owen Cook (aka Tyler Durden) You're right about that - it's not always okay to hug a girl. But I hear it's something you'll be able to feel out as you gain experience. Probably true. One example of this was shown in one video. Tyler was holding this girl's hands, but she was avoiding eye contact. She was shying away when it looked like he was going to hug her. So, he stopped and asked, "Are you ready?" "No!" she said, but she giggled, so it wasn't really a hard rejection an…
/r/seduction29/05/11 10:56 PM
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I'm going to assume you're kind of shy...just in case. When you arrive at the venue, immediately start talking with people. Don't get a drink, go to the bathroom, etc. Talking to people right away will get your brain into a social, having fun mindset. Don't be afraid to touch people as soon as you meet them. I don't mean feel them up. As you talk, touch their elbows, hands, whatever. Something I've discovered: You can get a lot more touchy feely than you think is possible. Talk to tons of girls …
/r/seduction29/05/11 07:41 PM
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One more thing: Tyler was way fatter than you and supposedly picked up mad chicks. Okay, he was Tyler, but you're you and you have it in you to do it too. Get in shape though. In three months, you can completely change the way you look. More muscle means you burn more calories by just moving around normally, so building muscle and getting your diet sorted out should be your priority.
/r/seduction29/05/11 06:52 PM
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I posted pics of me, hairy, on /r/gonewild. I'm half-Indian, so I'm only half as hairy as you (hehe), but UNIVERSALLY, all girls said, "DON'T SHAVE IT, DON'T WAX IT!" I personally would like to wax it, but I'm going to wait until I look more like Thor I think hair looks better the more buff you are, and I think the same goes for shaving/waxing - you'll look better when you're fit, so I say: wait until you're fit, then do it. There's another thing - shaving can make your hair more brittle and can…
/r/seduction29/05/11 06:42 PM
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Yeah, you can play up the size. Her: Wow, it's so huge. Is that really your phone? You: Yeah. Maybe I'm compensating for something. OR You: Yeah. Everything I keep in my pants is ginormous.
/r/seduction16/05/11 09:20 PM
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I'm sorry. What I meant to say was, "Logic has nothing to do with why your mom is dead." ♥
/r/seduction16/05/11 07:45 AM
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It looks like all three numbers are flakes. :P Time to get some more. lol
/r/seduction16/05/11 04:49 AM
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Awesome FR. One of the best I've read.
/r/seduction16/05/11 04:42 AM
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Logic has nothing to do with your mom!!!!
/r/seduction16/05/11 03:24 AM
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To be honest, I have a hard time considering most men to be adults. Men often act just as illogical. Many men fuck a girl and suddenly feel like they know what's up, that they're the shit, or that this girl is into him for the long haul. That's classic AFC. So let me rephrase that, it's hard for me to consider most adults mature, especially when it comes to relationships. P.S. That's not to say I'm super mature either, because I'm not. XD
/r/seduction15/05/11 10:03 PM
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I think this can be handled with a lot of communication. If they continue to sex and she gets clingy, he can tell her that it seems like her expectations of the relationship are different than his. He can say that he encourages her to date others and that he doesn't want to hurt her or lead her on. In the end, he might have to end the relationship, but I think it's still worth a try. She may be able to deal with the relationship fine, especially when she realizes that he is trying his best to do…
/r/seduction15/05/11 09:56 PM
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Maybe it's possible. You can try it out. With regards to having lots of sex with lots of girls, I'd say, "Don't knock it 'til you've tried it." Getting out of your comfort zone to experience different ways of living is a good thing too. If you're getting laid constantly by different girls for a few months and then you decide you don't like it, that's what I'd call an informed decision, otherwise, your decision is possibly being influenced by less by experience and more by what other people tell …
/r/seduction15/05/11 09:30 PM
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Lol, so defensive. No one says bringing strippers home for a threesome doesn't happen. No one is challenging your abilities either. What's more, I AGREE with a lot of what you said - as I mentioned. Why am I repeating that to you? All we're saying is that the way you wrote your post was unclear, and you were especially ambiguous about whether you fucked the girls at the end. If that happened, awesome, if not, well it is still an awesome night you had. No worries. Anyway, good post, upvoted, lots…
/r/seduction15/05/11 09:08 PM
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Agreed. The post was unclear, not yo mention your writing style. (I'm a hipster. Of course I'm an elitist prick.) Did your penis enter both of these women that night? If so, that's killer. ;) Anyhow, I agree with most of what you said. Upvote. When people ing the community say, "Women are like this or that," in reality, they're people in general. Society is made up of alphas and betas. Half of those betas are women, half are men. I find that most guys are illogical, emotional, and indecisive.
/r/seduction15/05/11 07:45 PM
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I sarged for five months until I found a girl like that. Because if pick up, I was able to game her and she became my girlfriend. I was so in love with her. All those months of sarging were 100% worth it, not only for the end result but for the life-changing journey. Don't give up - if that special someone was every other girl, she wouldn't be so special. You may also have to spend more time with a girl before you discover that she is that girl you've been searching for.
/r/seduction15/05/11 07:28 PM
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Anxiety doesn't always present in the same way. Sometimes anxiety will make you feel indifferent. Another feeling it gives is anger and a strong dislike for whatever you're doing. IOI's and all those signs are meant to give you the confidence to move forward. When you see those signs, move forward aggressively. When you don't see those signs, move forward anyway. Lack of guide signs wouldn't prevent you from moving forward. Also, don't be so certain of what the signs mean. This isn't a simple ma…
/r/seduction15/05/11 07:19 PM
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I know how that feels very well and I've had some wings with a similar issue. The reasons behind it differ from person to person, so it's ber hard to say why you feel the way you do. Here's some advice: That connection may come later in the interaction or it may not. The thing is, you won't know if you aren't closing. Or maybe that connection you seek is a one in a thousand thing. Isn't that rare and awesome connection supposed to be just that - rare and awesome? You also don't know if it's fear…
/r/seduction15/05/11 06:48 PM
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I agree that canned can act as a crutch. When I first began pick up (did it for about five months, then stopped for a year when I found a girlfriend), I went with zero routines. It's a tough, but rewarding way to go. This time I'm trying canned. This is all speculation, but I wonder if using canned allows a beginner to automatically have things yo say without effort. Removing the extra burden of "What do I say next?" allows him to focus on vocal projection, tonality, kino, body language, etc., w…
/r/seduction15/05/11 05:53 PM
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He grinned and when I walked away did exactly what I said. Her response was positive. Later on he was putting his hand on her shoulder to punctuate his conversation points like a fucking boss. That's so beautiful. Sparrow wipes a tear from his eye.
/r/seduction14/05/11 09:07 AM
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Moral Gymnastics: Or does the BF Destroyer do the couple a favor? If the BF Destroyer works well on a girl, perhaps it's time that the couple breaks up. The girl will have an adventure with the PUA and the guy, after crying his eyes out, just might do a google search on how to pick up women...dun, dun, dun! If the BF Destroyer doesn't work, the relationship might be solid. In that case, it'd be very tough for you to mess it up.
/r/seduction14/05/11 07:43 AM
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There is no easy way. Tomorrow, ask several friends where the bigger bars are. Ask Sedditers where the "good" bars in your area are. This weekend, spend 10-15 minutes learning ONE opener. That night, go out. Approach in the first few minutes just with that opener. Add one opener a week. That's the beginning. It's not easy, but that's one way to start.
/r/seduction06/05/11 06:32 AM
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/r/seduction04/05/11 08:34 PM
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lol oops...that was my intention...brain fart
/r/seduction02/05/11 05:08 AM
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A cultural movement draw all kinds of people. Some of those people latch on and eat up whatever cheap bullshit is vomited out in the name of said cultural movement. Hipster, Punk, Hippie were major counter-culture movements and they all were awesome. At the same time, nature works on a bell curve and some of the products of these movements were total bullshit. Perfect material for satire. Satire is good. Satire be keepin' it real yo, mah homie-g. Many people will jump on a hate bandwagon. A few …
/r/seduction30/04/11 11:05 PM
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Yes, I am being a douche-bag. All I'm wondering is if I'll, for once, actually feel like a douche-bag. ♥♥♥
/r/seduction30/04/11 10:28 PM
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High-five, man. I respect how you dealt with his post and revised your own. ♥
/r/seduction30/04/11 10:22 PM
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Okay, update: We made plans to hang out yesterday - didn't happen. She had mentioned that she was running out of minutes, so maybe that's it... We made plans to hang out tonight, but for some reason it didn't happen. I think her boyfriend went over because I called her fifteen minutes ago and she was in the car with him. She invited me to go to the beach then Six Flags with them tomorrow, so I'm going to have a lot of quality time with her boyfriend. Man, I wonder if I'll feel like a total douch…
/r/seduction30/04/11 07:55 AM
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Ok. When I have a car, let's go for it. Unless Beverly Hills is stupid far. It's pretty close to Long Beach, isn't it?
/r/seduction30/04/11 07:31 AM
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I remember Tyler from RSD talked aobut this. He said that even awesome PUAs will hang out with newbs if the newbs push themselves and don't stand around being boring.
/r/seduction30/04/11 07:24 AM
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If you come out to LA, hit me up. I can help you get over it, at least for the night. I will pull you kicking and screaming into sets.
/r/seduction30/04/11 07:23 AM
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That sounds great though. Wish I had read them. REDDITORS, is there a way to access only the THREADS posted by a member?
/r/seduction29/04/11 06:05 PM
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I think I'm guilty of that. I personally think all FRs should be up-voted. XD TBH I'm a bit surprised to see that almost ten people down-voted my initial FR with this girl. I guess the Hitting on girl in front of boyfriend thing didn't go over too well...lawl
/r/seduction29/04/11 05:24 PM
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Lol, Sparrow looks up Throwaway's FRs. Reading...please wait...
/r/seduction29/04/11 05:20 PM
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He was adventuring and decided to make a video. :P
/r/seduction28/04/11 11:33 PM
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P.S. Guys - is this FR too long and full of unnecessary description? I'd like to write FRs that are manageable to read.
/r/seduction28/04/11 10:17 PM
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As Confucius once said, "Drama is the spice of life." XD
/r/seduction28/04/11 06:15 PM
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Lol, I may have to run for my life. ...Oh, she just called. Straight up loco. I like crazy though. My life has never had crazy.
/r/seduction28/04/11 06:13 PM
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http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/gz5xg/tyler_durden_discusses_reframing_how_we_approach/ Here's the link.
/r/seduction28/04/11 08:28 AM
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Agreed. I once had a full-on, crazy, half-hour makeout, hour set with a woman who was 39, married, with one child. I had no idea until I Facebooked her the next day from her business card. And she was one of the hottest women I've ever gamed. Point is, maybe it's not our responsibility to make sure everybody stays faithful to whomever. What's more, perhaps we give their lives something awesome and exciting. How many guys come along who (are learning to) sweep girls of their feet?
/r/seduction28/04/11 06:45 AM
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High-five for tree-huggin', almond milk-drinking bruddas! :)
/r/seduction28/04/11 03:03 AM
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Delicious, Thanks for the critique. @2. Yes, interview questions are weak. I'll add those two lines to tonight's line memorizing session, thanks. :) Natural is better, I admit, but I prefer to use canned during these beginning stages. @3. No, I firmly believe she was fibbing about having a boyfriend. At the most, she might be dating a few guys while keeping her options open. Like I said, she could have been a runway model.
/r/seduction28/04/11 02:51 AM
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I know, right? It's funny how when faced with such a hot girl, my brain completely melts. This other girl I approached two days ago, though, is not intimidating in the least. Tyler Durden suggested a fix for this. I'll post it.
/r/seduction28/04/11 12:13 AM
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lawl, you are right - giving value is number one the best way to interact! Bashing defenseless cultural movements just for the yuks is a close second though. XD Oh, and I probably DO have low self-esteem. Thanks, jackass. jk jk ♥
/r/seduction28/04/11 12:04 AM
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Absolutely. Just kidding. Well, not really. Let's just say, it's personal preference and it depends on the situation. :) P.S. Plenty of people, as soon as they get bored in a relationship, will start looking for other options.
/r/seduction28/04/11 12:02 AM
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And then if you lose the weight, you'll be the freaking Terminator of Pick Up, screwing women faster than they can walk in the door. Think about it. ;)
/r/seduction27/04/11 06:12 AM
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Lol, if my balls aren't deep in her by the end of this week, I'll be really blue-balled. She has some smoking FB pics. YouTube moment: Two hipsters down-voted this. Oh, and they also love Justin Bieber.
/r/seduction27/04/11 06:05 AM
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As in Dirty Fucking Hippie? Hahaha, probably. XD
/r/seduction27/04/11 02:27 AM
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You don't need her number. Day two should be near your place. Get drinks to go (not necessarily booze), drink it someplace cool or while walking around, then pull her. Once she agrees to the day two, send her an FB message with just your number in it. They say never let a girl close you because she'll never call back. This is an exception.
/r/seduction24/04/11 03:21 AM
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Stupid tips for being in the moment: Jog up to do the approach. (day game obviously) Use an obviously fake name. Talk with an accent.
/r/seduction24/04/11 12:32 AM
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