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| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 10 | It's as simple as thatSaving this response! You articulated yourself so well. I also have felt very strongly bonded as a result of inconsistent behaviour and this just makes it make so much sense. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/20 06:44 AM |
| 1 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered: October 7 2020I love Asha Christina she’s so boss | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/10/20 08:28 AM |
| 12 | Roll call! HVWs partnered with HVMs: what does your relationship look like?So so happy for you❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/20 01:34 AM |
| 2 | How to date young and avoid forever gf territory?Okay I have a few questions. Would you have been okay if he was talking to other women the way you were still talking to other guys and all? Also, to what extent were you still talking to other guys - like romantically or just in general in a platonic way but considering them as potential other options? Was he aware you talked to other guys? And how long were you guys together before you got engaged? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/20 10:21 PM |
| 0 | My HVM keeps buying me flowers knowing I can’t take them home?I mean I appreciate that you’re trying to tell me what you feel is in my best interest given my situation, but I’m not wasting my time dating around on tinder. I’m in a committed, serious relationship with my boyfriend who adds value to my life and he talks to me about marriage. I can’t break the news to my parents because they would pressure me to get married too fast because they view our situation without marriage as improper and ungodly. I’m only 21 and I don’t plan on getting married until … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/08/20 11:01 PM |
| 5 | My HVM keeps buying me flowers knowing I can’t take them home?I mean I get what you’re trying to say, but I genuinely have emotionally abusive, controlling, extremely religious parents. My situation is not that easy or simple. My sister tried moving out and they absolutely LOST their minds. I appreciate your advice, but not every situation is so black and white. And I’m not financially independent to move out. I live in a very expensive city, and working full time to save up for that would take much of my time and effort away from school. And I plan on get… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/08/20 10:55 PM |
| 10 | My HVM keeps buying me flowers knowing I can’t take them home?Your point is totally valid. My bf has actually asked me in our earlier stages of dating before he got me any whether I liked flowers and I said yes because I do. But, now the act of getting me them just seems aloof? I haven’t expressed it yet but I guess I would expect for him to be more thoughtful and give me something I can at least take home? Like, literally even some candy I like or something? You know what I mean? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/08/20 10:51 PM |
| 13 | My HVM keeps buying me flowers knowing I can’t take them home?I haven’t. I don’t want to sound ungrateful, but at the same time I should ask. Cuz like I don’t see the full point of the gesture if I’m not even getting to keep the gift? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/08/20 10:41 PM |
| 3 | Men and farting/burping.Omg yes! 🤦🏻♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/07/20 08:57 AM |
| 2 | To date a Sentient Petri Dish 🦠I literally lost my appetite reading this | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/06/20 11:26 PM |
| 6 | Advice/thoughts on the 90 days before sex rule?SCROTATION😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/06/20 09:02 AM |
| 19 | Get Yourself Boss Lady FriendsI’m happy for you. Where did you find them lol? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/06/20 07:26 AM |
| 18 | Comments on a post discussing about how men have unrealistic and unfair expectations for women. The guy’s comment is EXACTLY the reaction pickmeisha’s crave when they they claim “men have it just as bad!” I’m glad I am past my pickmeisha phase.LOL | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/06/20 07:25 AM |
| 5 | I've COMPILED the whole HANDBOOK within one single file for a easier read for all you Queens ❤Thank you for your time and effort into this!❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/06/20 07:22 AM |
| 17 | Theres still hope!https://www.google.ca/amp/s/problematicfcs.tumblr.com/post/156549822155/cole-sprouse/amp Yeah you all should really take a look at this... I used to have the biggest crush and I kept up with his life pretty consistently when he was in his relationship w Bree.. and I immediately was so turned off by him once I found out about everything. I literally was obsessed with him and his brother y’all I’m telling you, I’ve watched everything they’ve posted online ever like the fan girl I was and they did … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/06/20 08:42 PM |
| 9 | Is a guy being highly concerned with his looks a red flag?Yeah a HUGE pet peeve of mine about my ex was that he would literally be looking at the mirror while I’d be talking to him.. and even while he would talk. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/06/20 07:35 AM |
| 7 | Is a guy being highly concerned with his looks a red flag?The point you made about the projection is exactly where my mind tends to go too which is why I think it may be a bit of red flag for ME personally. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/06/20 02:28 AM |
| 29 | Just LVM ThingsI love how much we’ve meme-ified this Tupperware story lol. Gold. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/05/20 05:04 AM |
| 3 | How levelling up has affected me socially :/I love everything that you stand for and admire you for wanting to do your part in making a difference! Go you! ❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/05/20 05:02 AM |
| 2 | How levelling up has affected me socially :/Oh yeah, don’t worry I’m super polite I’ll continue that for sure! I just won’t spend energy on trying to impress women who aren’t interested in giving me a chance. Lol I feel like I sound like a man rn. Ew 😭 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/05/20 04:50 AM |
| 3 | How levelling up has affected me socially :/This is encouraging. Once the covid situation is I already plan on volunteering somewhere because I need to for grad school so maybe that can be an environment where I click with someone! But if not I won’t dwell and keep myself occupied with other settings and activities as well. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/05/20 04:48 AM |
| 4 | How levelling up has affected me socially :/You’re right. I just struggle with the loneliness aspect. Despite being mostly introverted, I feel a strong sense of security with having good female friends because the life I envision for myself involves a reliable net of emotional support from people that I know I can count on long-term to fulfill my social needs. Growing up, my family moved around all the time and it really messed up any opportunity of me having any properly deep friendships because by the time I’d get there with someone..my… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/05/20 04:44 AM |
| 3 | How levelling up has affected me socially :/Literally. The just by existing line got to my soul lmao. I FEEL that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/05/20 04:27 AM |
| 3 | How levelling up has affected me socially :/Thank you for your advice! I think I’m just going to calm down now and be less women-pleasing lol. Life is short, I’ll save my energy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/05/20 04:26 AM |
| 3 | How levelling up has affected me socially :/Thank you so much for your empathy and your positive energy towards me ❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/05/20 04:23 AM |
| 4 | How levelling up has affected me socially :/Thank you for getting me so well! You put my perspective into words perfectly. I would NEVER put anyone down over weight or skin or ANYTHING like that, ever.. it’s precisely the fact that I feel I don’t have an encouraging environment that will receive my success. And lol I did not even mention my own self-depreciating jokes habits in my post.. BOI o boi do I need to stop with those. I am just often viewed as ‘stuck-up’ plus all the other things I mentioned in my original post, and as a result I… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/05/20 04:20 AM |
| 3 | How levelling up has affected me socially :/This is encouraging. I guess even if it takes a LONG time it will be worth it finding the right people even if there are only a few of them.. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/05/20 03:58 AM |
| 3 | How levelling up has affected me socially :/This is so kind, thank you so much! ❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/05/20 03:55 AM |
| 2 | How levelling up has affected me socially :/Sadly true. I guess the sooner I come to terms with this the less I can focus on other people although I really value social relationships because of how important they are for your health throughout your entire life. :/ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/05/20 03:54 AM |
| 6 | I used to be a whole messGo you ❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/05/20 02:56 AM |
| 24 | I might give him a whole dollar if he acts rightLMAO | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/05/20 08:40 PM |
| 4 | Thank you FDS! I found a HVM and I'm very very happy! I never believed it could be possible for me to love myself.So happy for you! ❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/05/20 08:23 PM |
| 14 | Would you date someone who’s has morally gray ethics ?Absolutely not. COMPLETE deal breaker if someone does not have a moral compass. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/05/20 05:27 AM |
| 1 | What if YOU’RE the one who played the HVM?That’s so true. Thank you for your empathy, I’ll definitely learn from this ❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/05/20 04:55 PM |
| 5 | What if YOU’RE the one who played the HVM?It’s comforting to hear someone has been through something similar to me! Good on you for feeling more confident about your second guy! And wow your ex showed his true colours fast. Rejection seems to brings out the worst in men. I hope I don’t have to endure anything similar since we do go to the same uni and know many of the same people since we’re the same ethnicity as well :/ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/05/20 06:34 PM |
| 12 | This is your average male on purple pill debate. Why argue with them or give a shit about what they write? 🙄Sounds like he’s narrating himself like the entrance of a wwe wrestler 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/05/20 03:22 AM |
| 39 | Is it a red flag when they’re laying on the cheesy pick up lines/ flattery early?^ This. When it comes to men, trusting your gut is usually in your best interest | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/05/20 10:26 AM |
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