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| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 311 | Never let your guard down4 hand written love letters in the first 3 months? classic love bombing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/11/21 10:24 PM |
| 6 | A Little Comedy from the Next Generation of FDSersthis warmed my heart🥰 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/21 03:11 PM |
| 25 | Always be on your guard around men, and learn to spot hidden cameras!and in Canada and NZ💔 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/08/21 06:30 PM |
| 40 | Pickmes will blame other women even when it has nothing to do with them. Classy.start off with radfem black and check her followings and mutuals | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/21 08:34 PM |
| 7 | HVM turned to LVM rather quickly..block! three months of courting is too much, he should have asked for exclusivity by 1-2 months, anything else signals disinterest in commitment. he only wanted sex. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/21 04:49 PM |
| 91 | Pakistan Horror: Crazy entitlement and depravity and victim-blaming and gross animalistic behavior - All wrapped in onesouth asian men are the worst | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/21 03:05 PM |
| 129 | What's happening in Afghanistan at the moment is absolutely terrifying. We can never take our freedoms for granted.male depravity* | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/08/21 06:26 PM |
| 108 | Please stop “gifting” threesomes. Also, your friends aren’t “gifts”.her marriage was already doomed considering she married the type of man who wants a threesome as an anniversary gift | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/08/21 04:19 PM |
| 92 | How to Save the Lives of Afghan Womenyou’re speaking as if american troops aren’t also raping afghan women and american military women as well, fuck yeah the american army is guilty of imperialism | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/08/21 04:14 PM |
| 3 | “wHaT dO yOu bRiNg tO tHe tAbLe?”truth. definition of asset: a useful or valuable thing or person. what’s so wrong about that? better than treating women like sex dolls, maids, cooks, therapists… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/08/21 02:00 PM |
| 53 | What does the FDS think about being a stay at home mum?your friends are right to freak out. yes man and woman are equal but we are different. he seems to be another woke bro who uses fallacy of equality in his favour. my advice is: break up with that undercover misogynist. he must seriously lack empathy for women and mothers to suggest going back to work after giving birth. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/08/21 01:46 PM |
| 18 | “wHaT dO yOu bRiNg tO tHe tAbLe?”exactly, it shows an expectation for women to prove themselves to him for a seat at his table. dating is supposed to be organic, through dating you will assess what the other person will bring to the relationship and add to your life, not by asking them a question as if you’re interviewing them or having them audition to be a sidekick in your life. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/08/21 06:27 AM |
| 24 | “wHaT dO yOu bRiNg tO tHe tAbLe?”exactly, just this week someone posted about a kfc date where men and boys in the comments called the girl a gold digger for not being appreciative enough, my post is not far from the truth, LVM think taking you to a fast food chain is a date, LVM think ordering take out is a date, LVM think getting a meal at the drive thru and eating in the parking lot is a date, so to the pick-mes who have a problem with my post, if you want your first date to be fast food instead of any decent restaurant (not… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/08/21 10:34 PM |
| 10 | Best Sports for Self-Defenseyesss absolutely agree! and i would personally suggest kick boxing from experience and i’ve heard good things about jiu jitsu and karate. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/08/21 09:33 PM |
| 47 | Best Sports for Self-Defensethe truth is, against a man, your best bet is to run and scream, or if your country permits it, to taser or pepper spray him, because even a trained woman could not take an average man and in most self defence courses for women, the teacher will emphasize that fighting back should always be your last resort, your first reaction should always be flight, self defence is mostly to build confidence and for fitness although some learned methods will be helpful such as going for the eyes, the throat, … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/08/21 07:20 PM |
| 57 | What is it about video games that I, and many others, find so repulsive?probably because video games are violent and misogynistic and gaming communities are cesspools of hate for gamer girls to navigate | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/08/21 06:28 PM |
| 39 | “wHaT dO yOu bRiNg tO tHe tAbLe?”gotta channel your inner mean girl🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/08/21 04:48 PM |
| 180 | “wHaT dO yOu bRiNg tO tHe tAbLe?”“i don’t need to bring anything to your table because i have my own. why don’t you show me why i should join you at yours and invite you to mine?” 👏👏👏 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/08/21 04:25 PM |
| 81 | “wHaT dO yOu bRiNg tO tHe tAbLe?”exactly, if men want a seat, they need to prove themselves. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/08/21 04:13 PM |
| 3 | break up remindercongrats on your divorce and may this new chapter in your life be filled with happiness ❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/08/21 10:38 AM |
| 9 | break up reminderi literally can’t wrap my head around it🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/08/21 07:27 PM |
| 159 | Beware the “Mature Communicator”“any man who makes you upset through his actions, then happy through his words, deserves to be looked at with extreme scrutiny and suspicion” 👏👏👏 i loveeee this post! you articulated it so well! men pretending to be stupid and confused as a manipulative tactic is very common. easiest way to weed them out is to not care about their intentions, only their actions. whether he was deliberately trying to hurt you or not, what matters is that he hurt you. and if he is genuinely clueless, still break u… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/08/21 06:06 PM |
| 7 | Let's play a Game!lorelai and luke too🤢 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/08/21 12:59 PM |
| 305 | Today I found out that quora can be as bad as Reddit“he chose me, i won not them” bestie idk how to tell you this but he never had a chance with an instagram model in the first place lmfao he just settled for your pick me ass💀 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/08/21 09:33 AM |
| 208 | A supportive motherLMAO literally😭 if it’s true then that’s amazing but it really does read like a tumblr fanfic | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/08/21 04:21 PM |
| 28 | This queen! 👏omg someone send her a link to fds!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/08/21 04:05 PM |
| 118 | Why can’t they stop invading our spaces? This guy thinks he can waltz into a sub dedicated to women decorating their homes for advice. Mod thinks it’s fine despite complaints. He’s entitled to a “woman’s touch” I guess.useless pick me mod | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/08/21 02:46 PM |
| 127 | I felt SO positively affected while binge-listening to a podcast (about empowering women as they date/heal from dating), I found myself taking notes like a college lecture 😂 and of course I want to share them with y'all!dating is for data! love this phrase! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/08/21 11:58 AM |
| 441 | AITA, boys shouts at girlfriend, girl moves out the next dayqueen shit fr👑 hope she finds this sub | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/08/21 09:48 AM |
| 78 | LVMs be like🤣🤣🤣 proof love languages are the ultimate scam | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/08/21 12:49 PM |
| 15 | Pick me women make for awful friends. They don't value female friendships and/or are obsessed with men should be avoided.not who you asked but block and delete, trust me. love isn’t reason enough to keep some people around. i just did it one day to my best friend of 8 years although we have mutual friends and i still see her in uni. i feel so free without the doubt about our friendship weighing me down and after cutting ties with her i almost immediately gained 3 girl friends who are now my all time best friends. get rid of the old to make place for the new. <3 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/08/21 05:43 PM |
| 16 | Alrighty Queens, time to start spreading. These *should* work but let me know if not!ouuuh love this! i’ll stick them around downtown! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/08/21 04:48 PM |
| 13 | if you are childfree, vet your partner’s reasons for being childfreeyes recently i’ve seen more of these sorts of posts but they’re still buried under scrote rants | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/08/21 10:03 PM |
| 85 | if you are childfree, vet your partner’s reasons for being childfreethey’re not as active as the main sub but i would suggest female anti-natalism if anyone is interested. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/08/21 04:52 PM |
| 33 | if you are childfree, vet your partner’s reasons for being childfreei mean, i agree with childfree disney land and airlines and all, i love kids from afar, i just said the community should be about truly discussing and sharing about our CF lives instead of shitting on mothers constantly🤷♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/08/21 03:26 PM |
| 34 | requirement for a childfree HVMyes, i was planning on writing a post about vetting CF men’s reasons! being CF for many women is a question of values whilst for many men, it’s a lack thereof as you pointed out. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/07/21 06:26 PM |
| 13 | requirement for a childfree HVM!!! this | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/07/21 06:11 PM |
| 48 | requirement for a childfree HVMi would pin this if i could. many men who use the CF label are both too irresponsible for children and too irresponsible to take the necessary precautions to avoid impregnating sexual partners. they use the label to make their playboy lifestyle seem less juvenile. 🤷♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/07/21 06:10 PM |
| 31 | requirement for a childfree HVMyes, definitely make sure to check medical records, never trust a man’s word. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/07/21 05:35 PM |
| 9 | my quickest vetting strategythat’s lovely to hear! i’m glad you found your HVM! <3 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/07/21 04:28 AM |
| 25 | my quickest vetting strategyoh yesss, comparing men to each other is a recipe for disaster because you end up choosing the lesser of two evils, the best of the worst🥴 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/07/21 01:16 AM |
| 14 | my quickest vetting strategynot mcdonald’s😭😭😭 i’m definitely using this from now on, men are pure comedy, it would be proper funny if it weren’t so depressing | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/07/21 11:33 PM |
| 12 | Making excuses for men not approaching me (if he wanted to, he would).yessss absolutely, i’m neurodivergent and introverted too but i worked on myself and my social skills and i expect the same from a partner, we have to take responsibility for our lives instead of being passive and expecting others to constantly carry conversations etc | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/07/21 09:05 PM |
| 34 | my quickest vetting strategyHAHA truth | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/07/21 08:41 PM |
| 38 | my quickest vetting strategyexactly, we are the bar and we shouldn’t settle for anyone who isn’t as amazing as we are <3 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/07/21 08:06 PM |
| 66 | Making excuses for men not approaching me (if he wanted to, he would).i wouldn’t bother if i were you, he doesn’t sound worth it at all, like you stated in your post, how horrible would it be to date someone who needs constant nudging, i’d rather an assertive manly man who can pursue, if he wanted to he would🤷♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/07/21 05:35 PM |
| 67 | What are your standards for Facebook friends?unfriend everyone who doesn’t add value to your life, i did it four months ago and ended up with five friends on my snapchat lmfao, then i deleted my snap because those friends already have my number, it’s very freeing | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/07/21 02:47 PM |
| 21 | Another date, another lessonLMAOOO i just stalked his comments and he’s some kind of depressed anxious mess who agreed with a post saying “girls think the world revolves around them” dodged a bullet for sure😭 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/07/21 01:23 PM |
| 44 | Another date, another lessonokay but next time don’t try to stay friends with a man who repeatedly violates your boundaries or who is romantically interested in you, it’s a recipe for disaster, male/female friendships are NOT real | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/07/21 01:19 PM |
| 61 | Another date, another lessonnever associate with any man who uses reddit lmfao that’s my biggest red flag literally the second i hear “reddit” come out of their mouth i know they’re a pornsick misogynist | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/07/21 01:18 PM |
| 9 | wayne rooney once again exposed for publicly cheating on his wife. interesting perspective in this article.that’s disgusting, proof pickmes are dangerous sex traitors🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/07/21 11:38 AM |
| 34 | Marriage is a bigger commitment??? Huh!?!goddess free the females i beg😩 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/07/21 12:54 AM |
| 49 | You ever get genuinely upset at the amount of effort guys put into themselves?girl you should’ve blocked him like yesterday, male and female friendships never work, he’s making it clear he sees you as a romantic prospect not a friend now that he knows you’re attractive (after you let him see your ig) AND while trying to impress you he doesn’t even do the bare minimum of sending a good picture? lmfao blockity block. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/07/21 12:51 AM |
| 483 | Does anyone remember the video of the wife asking her husband to delete instamodels, which he refused and he ended up getting smacked by his bad? They got divorced 😂🤡🤡good for her, she looks heartbroken and he looks bored, hope she’ll proper level up after this | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/07/21 12:42 AM |
| 28 | wayne rooney once again exposed for publicly cheating on his wife. interesting perspective in this article.yeah the daily mail is a terrible news source but the majority of news articles reported on the story by framing rooney as an innocent victim of manipulative women and praised coleen for staying by his side whereas this one offers a different perspective showing rooney as the cheating bastard he is and encouraging coleen to leave him it’s not so much blaming her as bluntly telling her to stop enabling him and to get the fuck out because he’ll never change | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/07/21 12:40 AM |
| 197 | Lovely bit of standard shaming by TikTok Pickminique 🙄she’s a libfem seeing from her replies in that comment section, handmaidens will be the death of me, she’s even arguing with men calling her a pick-me🤦♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/07/21 03:16 PM |
| 3 | Man arrested after threatening to rape and kill a woman in her home, caught on Ring camerayes that or add sugar according to tik tok | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/07/21 12:39 AM |
| 1 | Vent Sesh.girl i feel you, tik tok is giving me high blood pressure from all the pickmeism😩 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/07/21 04:08 PM |
| 2 | my type😩😍my unorthodox life i think | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/07/21 11:21 PM |
| 1 | my type😩😍all good | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/07/21 10:32 PM |
| 9 | my type😩😍not encouraging it just laughing about it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/07/21 09:52 PM |
| 9 | Why are all female halloween costumes sexual??omg that’s sooo cute! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/07/21 09:46 PM |
| 10 | Living rent free in his head: A guy I criticized YEARS ago turned his life around because of a comment I made.LMAO i love your energyyyy😩 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/07/21 09:40 PM |
| 535 | Grimes not even at the 50% rule with the richest man in the world smhso she has a kid with him but they’re not married and he’s a billionaire who’s not helping her advance her career? girl tf | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/07/21 12:54 PM |
| 26 | female athletes deserve better. use this to vet your boyfriend, see if he’s the type to justify this double standard by saying “women’s sports have low viewership & sponsorships so they need to show some skin”. 🤮ugh i noticed them too, all standing to ogle the women🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/07/21 03:09 AM |
| 36 | female athletes deserve better. use this to vet your boyfriend, see if he’s the type to justify this double standard by saying “women’s sports have low viewership & sponsorships so they need to show some skin”. 🤮the men should join the protest by wearing speedos but we all know that would never happen | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/07/21 03:08 AM |
| 88 | The Real Reason Scarlett Johansson Divorced Ryan Reynoldshe looks like a perpetual frat boy | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/07/21 02:17 AM |
| 71 | female athletes deserve better. use this to vet your boyfriend, see if he’s the type to justify this double standard by saying “women’s sports have low viewership & sponsorships so they need to show some skin”. 🤮seems to be the purpose | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/07/21 12:10 AM |
| 381 | female athletes deserve better. use this to vet your boyfriend, see if he’s the type to justify this double standard by saying “women’s sports have low viewership & sponsorships so they need to show some skin”. 🤮it’s disgusting, the men are allowed to wear shorts around the same length, there is no valid reason for women to have to wear bikinis other than misogyny & sexual exploitation | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/07/21 09:16 PM |
| 86 | Yet another LV take: “Ryan Reynolds Revealed He ‘Begged’ Blake Lively To Sleep With Him When They First Started Dating And Admitted She’s A ‘Much Better’ Parent Than He Is”seriously, he’s such a man child, no wonder he has girls not women fawning over him | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/07/21 09:04 PM |
| 250 | Yet another LV take: “Ryan Reynolds Revealed He ‘Begged’ Blake Lively To Sleep With Him When They First Started Dating And Admitted She’s A ‘Much Better’ Parent Than He Is”he’s always seemed low value, his humour is one huge continuous neg and ofc the age gap | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/07/21 08:46 PM |
| 86 | Feel like a million bucks without breaking the banki’ll also suggest the ordinary serums, they work really well for my skin and they’re very affordable + long lasting | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/07/21 08:08 PM |
| 24 | Vetting a man while chattingahh okay gotcha! that makes sense! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/07/21 04:57 PM |
| 102 | Vetting a man while chattingokay but why tell him you used to crush on the other guy? couldn’t you have just said you went to the same high school as him? i’m not sure FDS suggests telling men we’re talking to about our past relationships/crushes but i’m glad in this scenario it exposed his LV ass. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/07/21 04:22 PM |
| 65 | Naomi Osaka documentary: Hard to watch due to her LVM boyfriendagreed, he seems like a total LVM, so disappointed | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/07/21 05:11 PM |
| 49 | HVpartner, but no attraction after many years - advice wanted!yes to all of this and check this out on why settling is damaging , don’t stay with him because you can’t find better, it’s best to be alone | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/07/21 02:09 PM |
| 32 | Not having children in this pedophilic society.omg this is random but i’m literally watching teen wolf rn but i’m younger than most of the actors so i can still enjoy it hehe | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/07/21 12:49 AM |
| 63 | We need to start talking about pick me teachers who use girls to keep the bad boys in class behaved. Because I definitely experienced this and it was terrible.i had a kid who would flip tables & throw chairs at students and teachers and another who broke the phones on the wall in every class in school and threw other kids’ shoes in the dumpster outside (including mine) but they always got away with it and the teachers and social workers would take them to the gym and let them throw balls around to release their psychopathy | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/07/21 07:15 PM |
| 12 | ALL of his exes can’t be the “cRaZy” ones…exactly, but most of them would rather call abby shapiro a whore than confront ben shapiro himself🤷♀️ it’s disgusting | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/07/21 06:27 PM |
| 16 | ALL of his exes can’t be the “cRaZy” ones…yeah i fucking hate them but men who hate them use it as an excuse for their misogyny, you can hate them for their views without attacking their femaleness, that’s my point | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/07/21 06:12 PM |
| 59 | ALL of his exes can’t be the “cRaZy” ones…i disagree with and dislike her but what i’m saying is watch whether men dislike her for her views or because she’s a woman, a lot of these woke men love to send her rape threats and call her the n slur | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/07/21 12:38 PM |
| 160 | ALL of his exes can’t be the “cRaZy” ones…they always tell on themselves when it comes to women outspoken about differing views on politics/feminism, i always pay attention to their thoughts on high profile women like j.k. rowling, tomi lahren, candace owens, hillary clinton, kamala harris, tulsi gabbard, angela merkel, jacinda ardern etc. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/07/21 02:38 AM |
| 367 | Red flag - married coworker randomly negging me?don’t go to drinks with a man you’re meeting for the first time & always pretend you’ve only ever been treated well by men, your coworker seems like a juvenile looking for a new party girl since his mommy is busy with their actual baby | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/07/21 12:58 AM |
| 20 | He makes a ton of money. Why is he upset over this?i wish we could figure out these men’s identities to warn their wives/girlfriends | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/07/21 12:12 AM |
| 45 | Scrotes are the ones coming at us empty handedi loveeee the energy in her comment section🥰 all the beautiful ladies with high standards who know their worth😌 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/07/21 12:10 AM |
| 18 | He had audacity to say, it's not cheating if it's not physical. So porn, only fans, sexting aren't cheating“have faith in your partner that they are not going to cross boundaries” he IS already crossing boundaries😩 fucking men | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/07/21 07:55 PM |
| 6 | Emotional Memory Management: Positive Control Over Your Memorywhat an interesting read! thank you for sharing! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/07/21 06:54 PM |
| 13 | The absolute AUDACITY of men who want to have their cake and eat it too.leave him and his store a one star review on google for his mansplaining and harassment, call his store and ask to speak to the manager and report him, and like another commenter said sign up his phone number for everything | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/07/21 12:14 PM |
| 55 | Teaching daughters to be High Valuesit them down and have an honest talk about men/dating/relationships, tell them you made mistakes in these spheres you never want to see them making, tell them it’s a learning journey that the three of you can take on together to support each other, tell them about sexism/misogyny and how it manifests into relationships with men (porn, manipulation tactics, red flags), tell them male attention and validation are worth nothing and why, tell them the importance of focusing on their studies to have… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/07/21 04:53 PM |
| 65 | YouTube scrote almost pops a blood vessel during his rant on how men are the “logical” sex. Anger is an emotion ladies!!!stop giving them views, views = money & engagement | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/07/21 08:49 PM |
| 6 | LVM never change-lesson learnedblock him | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/07/21 12:58 AM |
| 14 | Let's discuss usage of racist and sexist slurs in rap musicracism affects men too but misogyny and sexism solely affect women, men are only respectful when social issues affect their sex class as well (racism, colorism, “body shaming” (small dick, short height…), poverty) and even then | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/07/21 08:44 PM |
| 40 | Uncovering 30 years of repressed emotions and realising how I allowed so many people to treat me like dirt and it HURTS, so much greif I literally feel ill, how do you deal with this?i really relate to you (my mom is a pick me and my dad is an LVM). we didn’t consciously choose LV people as friends and boyfriends, we simply didn’t have the knowledge or the tools to recognize that we were recreating our relationship dynamic with our parents with other individuals. it’s better to come to these realizations late than never. therapy is an extremely useful tool to sort through your emotions, manage them, understand them, learn from them etc. examine your relationship with your pa… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/07/21 05:09 PM |
| 16 | Adopting a nonchalant attitude to female dark triad behavior while dating.think of the trope where an attractive woman compliments and flatters a nerdy awkward unattractive man for favours like picking up her shift at work or sending her homework answers. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/07/21 08:28 PM |
| 25 | Adopting a nonchalant attitude to female dark triad behavior while dating.the dark triad are the personality traits of psychopathy, machiavellianism and narcissism, for example manipulation, pride, deceit, flattery… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/07/21 07:24 PM |
| 12 | List of Boundariesfor sexual boundaries, i would personally add no requests for nudes/no sexting and no calling me his slut or his whore or asking to be called daddy etc. but this is a great list for reference, thanks for sharing it! :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/07/21 02:47 AM |
| 2 | Cats and HVMslots of love & good vibes to you and your kitty! i hope she gets well soon! and i’m glad she’s getting along with your boyfriend, it’s a green flag! ❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/07/21 08:14 PM |
| 4 | Man Takes Woman's Shoes Off Her Feet After Rejected Proposal | I think she dodged a bullet.the men in the comments are delusional as usual | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/07/21 06:59 PM |
| 6 | Need some advicethe 10 year relationship alone is a gigantic red flag. block and delete. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/07/21 06:06 PM |
| 51 | men are self-aware, when they truly want to help, they give FDS type of advice. HVM agree with FDS, only the misogynists whose tricks are exposed by this sub slander it.this is spot on about neoliberal woke men | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/07/21 01:55 PM |
| 32 | men are self-aware, when they truly want to help, they give FDS type of advice. HVM agree with FDS, only the misogynists whose tricks are exposed by this sub slander it.i’m not claiming he is HV, just that HVM generally agree with FDS and are aware of the manosphere’s misogynistic dating tactics, you’re right that usually woke “feminist” men are just another type of manipulative narcissistic LV misogynists | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/07/21 01:53 PM |
| 166 | men are self-aware, when they truly want to help, they give FDS type of advice. HVM agree with FDS, only the misogynists whose tricks are exposed by this sub slander it.yeah i disagree with asking her scrote questions, there’s nothing to elaborate, she should block and ghost | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/07/21 11:42 AM |
| 21 | Report and block… report and block… must remember talking back just stokes their egook and lol are my go to non-answers answers | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/07/21 10:01 PM |
| 43 | I'm done 😪never message him again? as if it wasn’t her husband in this woman’s dms. she could have blocked her herself since she has access to his account but sis really chose to embarrass herself talking bout she’s married to an unemployed cheater😩 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/07/21 10:00 PM |
| 13 | This is what breeding with a LVM will do to youthey want other women to suffer as much as they do while simultaneously not wanting to accept that they are indeed suffering | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/07/21 09:21 PM |
| 62 | This is what breeding with a LVM will do to youi’m sorry but i genuinely cannot empathize with these women anymore, it’s one thing to fuck yourself over by staying with an LVM, but another thing to have a baby with him and subject the innocent child to his neglect/abuse. speaking from experience with my LVW pick-me mom. edit for those downvoting: i’m referring to women who willingly have children with men they know are LV in hopes of improving their relationship, women who don’t think they deserve a better husband and consequently don’t thin… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/07/21 04:38 PM |
| 45 | Ladies, what are your current level ups?learning to disengage, grey rock and preserve my energy by avoiding being provoked into arguments with my LV father practicing spirituality consistently, meditating every morning, journaling, expanding my crystal collection walking 10k steps daily, exercising 4 times a week, learning how to cook and eating healthy vegan meals to overcome my BED getting my driver’s license which i’ve been procrastinating for the past two years building a skin care & hair care routine and consistently following it… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/07/21 04:30 PM |
| 52 | Weekly FDS Check-Infor me, it didn’t even cross my mind that dinner dates are a thing, i thought it was just asking too much and unrealistic, i literally thought dinner dates were only a movie thing because low effort dates are so normalized and no one in my friend group or even anyone around me had been asked to dinner so i settled for coffee💀💀💀 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/07/21 12:46 PM |
| 72 | With no disrespect to other religions, I do NOT get this. At all. It’s a no from melol this is why i left islam😩 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/07/21 12:32 AM |
| 9 | Young celebrities, their boyfriends, age gap relationships, and the cultural impactthere are so many new woke excuses for age gap relationships too: women can make their own choices, don’t deny women’s agency, women are mature, let women be happy, they’re two consenting adults thanks libfems for grooming a generation of young women | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/07/21 04:00 PM |
| 6 | “Boost your confidence by humiliating yourself and subjecting yourself to constant male rejection.”if you were truly doing this for yourself and not for male validation and approval, increasing your confidence would not be tied to male interaction? if you were truly working on your confidence, you would prioritize working on yourself to channel it from within instead of seeking external validation from scrotes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/21 05:12 PM |
| 15 | 'Is this the final one?'ugh yes expose his ass | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/21 04:49 PM |
| 13 | Thank You :Di love these types of posts! happy for youuu! ❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/21 03:47 PM |
| 3 | Please share stories of some weirdly specific rules you set after *that* one guyj names are the worst men alive😩 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/21 10:36 AM |
| 18 | Please share stories of some weirdly specific rules you set after *that* one guyno men who watch anime, adult cartoons (family guy, the simpsons… ) or violent movies no men with long hair/man buns no basketball/hockey/contact sport (football, rugby…) players no motorcycle drivers or car/truck obsessed men no men who own weapons (guns, swords…) no men who fish/hunt no men who play video games (COD, GTA, FIFA, 2K…) no J names | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/06/21 07:43 PM |
| 48 | EXPLAINING WHY 50/50 IS BAD FOR YOUNGER GENERATION OF WOMEN (TEENS)yes and young boys that age will be working minimum wage if they even have a job and most are selfish with their money, they’d rather spend it on themselves than on a girlfriend so dating as a teenage girl is not something i would recommend | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/06/21 04:33 PM |
| 52 | EXPLAINING WHY 50/50 IS BAD FOR YOUNGER GENERATION OF WOMEN (TEENS)women need to view things from men’s perspectives so for those who think paying proves they’re independent, that’s not how men see it, they see it as a way to exploit liberal feminism’s idea of equality to use women without making a dent in their pockets. men’s words are also very cheap so they need to put their money where their mouth is and invest in us. most men want to go 50/50 so that they can go on as many cheap dates as possible to maximize their chances of getting laid. a man who is seri… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/06/21 04:27 PM |
| 9 | if he wanted to he wouldthat sounds like such a sweet idea! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/06/21 01:34 PM |
| 30 | if he wanted to he wouldstaged or not i just posted it as an example for anyone who wants to see ideas of what men should/could do to make your birthday special | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/06/21 02:41 AM |
| 18 | FDS is not just about man bashing - it’s looking at your own pick me behaviour too.the personal is political. we do not have the privilege men do of being treated as individuals under patriarchy, whether we like it or not, each woman is a representative of all women. this is why negative generalizations about men are rejected and positive generalizations about men are encouraged but the opposite is true for women. this is the reality we live in, we can’t deny it because we don’t like it, we have to accept it and unite against it and that includes holding other women accountabl… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/06/21 09:57 PM |
| 100 | Hating cats... a red flag or the biggest red flag?i remember a post on tumblr about how society’s love for dogs and hate for cats is another manifestation of misogyny, not only because of cats’ boundaries but because cats are often associated with women like the “crazy cat lady” stereotype whereas dogs are “man’s best friend”. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/06/21 07:46 PM |
| 32 | “Keeping the peace” just passes the problems onto another woman to handle. Stop the bullshit dead in its tracks when you can.keeping the peace means sacrificing your inner peace | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/06/21 10:39 PM |
| 5 | Part of handbook deleted -yeah lots of posts in the handbook are deleted or removed, there was also a PDF of the handbook which was deleted. does anyone still have a copy? maybe the mods? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/06/21 05:09 PM |
| 4 | Worried about coworkersame i have more empathy for the cats😩 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/06/21 04:27 PM |
| 8 | Worried about coworkerthat should have been a wake up call for her, what level of pick-me hell is she in to leave her cats behind to accommodate a quasi stranger? my cat is my baby, rehoming her for a man is equivalent to putting my child up for adoption. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/06/21 04:24 PM |
| 14 | If you say "I pay for my own dinner so that I don't owe the man anything" then you are admitting that you believe women are obligated to sleep with a man if he spends money on her.and besides, if a man feels entitled to sex from you, he will feel you owe him even if you split the bill 50/50. and i do think many of these “feminists” think a woman’s right to withdraw consent can be revoked when a man spends money on her. many of these women believe consent can be bought (they support prostitution, pornography and all forms of “sex work”) and that extends to dates. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/06/21 01:49 PM |
| 96 | Worried about coworkerimagine picking a man you’ve known for 4 months over your cats big fucking yikes | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/06/21 12:02 AM |
| 42 | The 4 Horsemen of the Relationship/Divorce“the communication is more problem-focused than solution-focused” THIS it should be the couple vs the problem rather than vs each other !!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/06/21 08:08 PM |
| 65 | Planning to end things with LVM tomorrowi’m proud of you, you will feel freer and happier, i promise! you deserve the whole package, not a christmas man (i’ve seen this comment before, a christmas man is a man with a mix of green and red flags). you deserve someone who values your opinions and experiences, empathizes with your perspective and does not challenge every position you take. you deserve to have someone respect your stances without pressuring you to justify, explain or defend yourself. you deserve someone with a good sense o… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/06/21 12:10 AM |
| 42 | I need to vent but I also need advicetheir eyes always give it away, they have these empty cold dead murderous eyes. and their body language. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/06/21 09:07 PM |
| 24 | Recently Got Back On ‘That app’ and Here’s My Bio Hall Of Shamei love when they tell on themselves but the sad thing is there are women who will still swipe right. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/06/21 09:01 PM |
| 13 | How to distinguish between "potential" and low value.the difference is, women unlearn our conditioning on our own, with female support systems (friendships, family, forums such as FDS…), through therapy, through reading books and watching documentaries, through research and education, through inner work and journaling and meditation and spirituality etc. we don’t expect our male partners to perform the emotional labour required to “train” us and teach us to be confident, independent, assertive, unapologetic and other qualities we are taught to rep… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/06/21 08:37 PM |
| 3 | Great TV shows that will undo damage to the minds of scrotesthanks for the rec! my mom & i were wondering what to watch next and she loves foreign series so we’re looking forward to giving it a shot! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/06/21 04:08 PM |
| 6 | How to get over fear of men?your fear of men is your intuition triggering a defence mechanism to protect you from the threat they often pose. however, you should not let your fear of men dictate your life. of course, as women, we should take precautions to avoid the dangers men create, but fear is how they control us, and we cannot cede that power. i find that self-defence classes (aikido and boxing in my case) increase self-confidence and diminish the fear i have of men, i am stronger and i know how to defend/protect myse… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/06/21 03:57 PM |
| 43 | It’s so hard for me to forgive my pickmeisha pasti am embarrassed of my pick-me phase as well but it’s a stage the majority of women go through and now we know how to be better and do better from experience, we can learn from our mistakes. you have to remember that we are conditioned to be pickmes by the patriarchy, this is a universal female experience, and it takes strength to break free of the conditioning. it doesn’t serve us to dwell on the past and punish ourselves for things that are out of our control, things that we were taught to bel… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/06/21 03:49 PM |
| 21 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-Inhey, i’ve been wondering how to vet a man’s family when meeting them. i’ve looked for strategy posts about first meeting with parents/siblings and how family gatherings should be like but i haven’t found anything. if anyone has any tips or strategies they’d like to share, i’d love to hear them. and i think it would be a good idea if anyone would like to write a strategy post on this! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/06/21 01:08 PM |
| 10 | What is FDS’s official stance on online dating? A shift to more productive conversationsagreed, OLD is a red flag for me and i don’t believe any HVM or HVW would use the apps. can you picture an HVM advertising himself on an app, selecting his best pictures, pondering on what to write in his bio, swiping left and right to decide which women are worth it on an app where we are the product and the entertainment, i think any man using the apps views women in a dehumanizing and objectifying way, apps are making it even more convenient for LVM to have sex for the least effort and invest… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/06/21 01:07 PM |
| 144 | Objectification versus sexual attraction desire and arousalthank you for the distinction. i constantly see men complaining about sexual objectification under posts of women praising a certain man’s physique and i could never figure out a good argument against their nonsense. but yes, there is a difference between being sexually attracted to a person and seeing that person as an object to fulfill your sexual desires. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/06/21 03:14 PM |
| 173 | “Build with him”men love gold diggers, the second they make an extra 10 cents they start chasing after them | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/06/21 03:09 PM |
| 47 | Is anyone else here a virgin who is disgusted by slutty guys?i’m with you, personally i would rather my first time be with a virgin or a man who has only had sexual relations with women he was in long term serious relationships with in the past. a man who engages in hook-up culture definitely does not share the same values on intimacy and sexual relations as i do and most likely does not value women’s pleasure and comfort. then again, i don’t see myself ever willingly being so vulnerable with a man, i’m a febfem but i have the same standard for women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/06/21 12:02 AM |
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