“wHaT dO yOu bRiNg tO tHe tAbLe?”

ASeaOfQuotes · 2021-08-14T16:20:35+00:00

And a truly HV relationship will be about complimenting each other’s lives, not providing sustenance. I sustain myself. I don’t need to bring anything to your table because I have my own. Why don’t you show me why I should join you at yours and invite you to mine?

modernmedusaa · 2021-08-14T21:41:29+00:00

Not even interested in listening to a man like this

Immediate reaction is ‘piss off’

I swear it’s always the most low value delusional abusive men who have this mindset too it’s laughable. Men that repeatedly get spat back out.

Its people with low esteem and limited options who screech about having ‘empathy’ on mentally ill lazy broke scrotes and having to ‘lower your standards’ because they are used to dealing with low effort their entire lives & their standards are in the gutter. Great for you, sure that’s working out. Doesn’t apply to me thanks.

Actually no I don’t have to service broke mentally ill abusive lazy man children because you said so. Because it’s MY body and MY life.

I really do have to wonder what is the aim of women looking to knock our standards down? So we can join their misery? So they can birth some kids to a loser? Why does it concern them? Tend to your own backyard.

I get enough interest and don’t have time for the BS- so unless you’re bringing something enticing to the table - I can do without.

giftofnocondemnation · 2021-08-14T16:04:01+00:00

You don’t have to bring anything because you are the prize. We do not “meet men halfway”. We play defense for self preservation. They better really impress us to disrupt our peace at our table they want a seat at.

deadinsidelol69 · 2021-08-14T22:06:53+00:00

This is the only place on the internet where I can say that I have met multiple men who would think a mcdonalds meal on plastic plates is him spending a lot of money. It's not about the money, its about the effort he puts in for you.

movethefurniture · 2021-08-15T01:02:00+00:00

This question is akin to “Why should I like you?” If you don’t know if you like me I am not going to put on a dog and pony show to help you decide. Next.

08__80 · 2021-08-14T19:46:11+00:00

LOOK. You never have to answer this question, because the moment a man asks it, he is telling you "I am a scrote. I am not worth your time." If you are on online, block instantly. If somehow someone has the nerve to say this to you IRL, laugh in their face, get up and leave. You don't need to have the last word. You don't need to explain your worth to a clown.

sitpalsap · 2021-08-14T16:44:24+00:00

Best answer to this is "what do I bring?? I AM the table and you can't sit with us" 🤣

CrazyPaine · 2021-08-14T22:39:09+00:00

Honestly I have exhausted all of my options of bringing something to the table. What have they have to offer besides d!ck, emotional, physical, financial, sexual and mental abuse?

I want to see their tables, but then I would horrified because their tables would be literally hanging on by threads tbh.

circescircus · 2021-08-14T16:43:08+00:00

This is one of the (many) strategies LVM use to hunt down women with low self-esteem. They're looking for anxious insecure women who will ask "how high?" when they tell them to jump. The audacity of asking a stranger "What do you bring to the table?" is incredibly narcissistic.

proudpine · 2021-08-14T16:19:31+00:00

Even in my worst pick-me days I would have hung up on a man who asked me that question. Btch I bring life. I’m the whole city that contains the house that contains this table.

sassyheather · 2021-08-14T17:13:13+00:00

Never got this question, but just in case I ever do - is scoffing and not saying anything else a decent response cause that’s the way I imagine myself 😂

Equal-Ear2312 · 2021-08-15T09:18:35+00:00

I will quote a lady that has it working for herself: I am the table and the door and the ceiling. disrespect the table by not bringing anything to it and I guarantee you're out of the door asap. men want to behave like cavemen and fuck multiple women, they want a piece of eye candy on their scrotey arm. then work for it. make that woman see you as something that adds value to her life. if you make me looks t you, a man, as a chore, I will fucking shut the door in your face. I have chores. I deal with them. I am not going to enter a committed relationship with you, a man just so I can do more emotional and physical labour.

seraphinelysion · 2021-08-15T13:53:58+00:00

sToP tReAtInG mEn liKe aSsEtS!!!

I will stop treating men like assets for money when men stop treating women like assets for sex. I mean, we're still dong this bullshit 50/50, right? Then why do women need to stop if men won't do the same?

Villanelloh · 2021-08-15T22:13:18+00:00

I would laugh uncontrollably then get up and leave.

Title	“wHaT dO yOu bRiNg tO tHe tAbLe?”
Author	springtulip475
Upvotes	449
Comments	34
Date	August 14, 2021 3:47 PM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/p4aend/what_do_you_bring_to_the_table/
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