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??? this is normal? if you don’t want to do it tho you don’t have to? i don’t get it
/r/RedPillWomen14/03/25 11:41 PM
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If your goal is to get women to like you, or just get women, why do you think the input of women is invaluable?
/r/TheRedPill25/03/24 01:02 PM
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As a woman: no. Leave us alone at the gym.
/r/TheRedPill24/03/24 10:11 PM
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CONTROLLING pleasee don’t put up with this, the fact that you’re asking means you know there might be something wrong which is good. Trust yourself and don’t let this keep happening!
/r/RedPillWomen20/07/23 04:51 AM
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I have PCOS and it sucked so bad til I got laser!!
/r/RedPillWomen15/07/23 08:07 PM
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Hey, man. If you’re saying you wanna paint your face, just go ahead and paint your face. We’ll be supportive!! ❤️🧡💛💚💙💜
/r/TheRedPill19/11/22 04:05 PM
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If you can provide me with sources where that is the case, I’d be happy to have a look at them. Here are a few from the US: https://www.fox10tv.com/2022/08/08/grand-bay-woman-arrested-child-sexual-abuse-charges/?outputType=amp https://www.kcra.com/amp/article/yuba-city-woman-arrested-after-sexually-abusing-foster-child/40551439 https://news.yahoo.com/yuba-city-woman-arrested-sexually-051808448.html All from within the past ~1.5 months. Most of the issue in India is that it was extramarital. Whet…
/r/MensRights09/08/22 12:05 PM
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Most if not all of these screenshots are from Indian newspapers. The reason the fixation is on the fact that the relationship was extramarital rather than pedophilic is because India is a country where extramarital relationships are extremely frowned upon (I would know, I’m Indian). It’s doubtful the headlines would be similar if this occurred in a country like the US or Australia. Yes it’s disgusting but cultural context should be applied - not everything can be looked at through a western lens…
/r/MensRights08/08/22 04:13 PM
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Relax. Most women don’t do this. Just like most men don’t rape. You’ll probably be fine. If you’re that worried, you can always ask for written consent and record her on video signing it to prove that she did it willingly. You’ll look like an idiot, but if it helps you sleep at night, go for it.
/r/MensRights08/08/22 02:26 PM
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Sure, but I wasn’t falsely accusing anyone in my comment, so don’t see how that’s relevant.
/r/MensRights04/08/22 03:01 PM
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I never accused you, you replied to my comment, but if you think I’m talking about you then that says something else.
/r/MensRights04/08/22 08:56 AM
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Not at all - but it’s pretty easy to tell when someone’s staring at us. We just don’t like it. No need to take it personally (unless you do it).
/r/MensRights04/08/22 04:49 AM
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Are you assuming every accusation is a false one?
/r/MensRights31/07/22 10:04 PM
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Yes please, we go to the gym to work out, not to get stared at x
/r/MensRights31/07/22 10:42 AM
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Thanks so much. My heart seriously breaks for him. He’s going to need therapy. Just wish I could help or something:(
/r/MensRights12/07/22 05:02 AM
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Wtf is this, this breaks my heart:( Does anyone have a link to the original post?
/r/MensRights12/07/22 01:14 AM
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This is a sentence I wasn’t expecting to see today
/r/AntiFeminists19/05/22 11:11 PM
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I’m also a woman, guess I’m gonna go self implode now 😶
/r/AntiFeminists19/05/22 11:11 PM
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Thank you so much for the advice, yeah I will definitely be telling him to stop (maybe use humour a bit so that it's not awkward) but I will try my best to make it clear that it's 'irritating' (rather than uncomfortable). In terms of your first point - I definitely have and maintain the boundary that I won't hang out with any guy one on one. Might as well be a date.
/r/RedPillWomen08/05/22 12:54 PM
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Of course, sending love and I hope you find clarity!! <3
/r/RedPillWomen09/04/22 10:52 AM
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It's a two way street. How open is OP about going to temple and reading the Bhagavad Gita?
/r/RedPillWomen08/04/22 04:51 AM
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*Hindu, not Hindi. Hindi is a language. However a good point - If you have kids with this man you will be unable to raise them without Hindu influence and if you attempt to, you’ll be stripping them of their rightful heritage. His kids, whether they're with you OP or not, have the right to know and learn about their father's religion and heritage, and it's not fair to take that right away from them.
/r/RedPillWomen08/04/22 04:51 AM
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This is a big generalisation. Devout Hindu men remain virgins til marriage, as do women, just as devout Christians do too (of course there are exceptions in both religions). Please avoid making sweeping generalisations about an entire ethnicity in the future.
/r/RedPillWomen08/04/22 04:48 AM
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Tbh it's important to remember that as important as it is to you to raise your kids Christian, he finds it just as important to raise the kids interculturally. And I actually applaud him for that because it shows some more tolerance/acceptance for another culture (Hindus are usually more accepting of other cultures than Abrahamic faiths). I'm (f) a Hindu and my boyfriend was raised Hindu but became an atheist before I met him. We've discussed it and talked about raising our future kids with both…
/r/RedPillWomen08/04/22 04:47 AM
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I do whenever he comes over!
/r/RedPillWomen04/02/22 02:48 AM
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Go 50/50. Or pay for your own food and he can pay for his. At the beginning, whoever asked out the other person should pay for the first date and any other dates they ask them out on. But once you’re together, you’re going out together, so you should both pay.
/r/RedPillWomen28/01/22 05:38 AM
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This gave me a little peace of mind. Thank you:) <3
/r/RedPillWomen19/01/22 09:00 AM
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Thank you, but it's sad that an opinion like this is considered amazing:( I hope one day it becomes normal. But thank you:)
/r/RedPillWomen11/12/20 06:15 AM
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Yeah, I agree that it's weird, and also a little disrespectful. I don't want to go about trying to change him.
/r/RedPillWomen13/09/20 09:31 AM
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Redpilled or not, at least a little more masculine.
/r/RedPillWomen12/09/20 04:33 AM
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I'm limiting texts and making them sound less excitable. Thanks for the advice :)
/r/RedPillWomen08/09/20 08:09 AM
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Thank you!!
/r/RedPillWomen07/09/20 12:12 PM
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Woah woah woah, I don't want to never talk to him again - we've only known each other for a few weeks, and if I stopped talking to him, I'd have to stop talking to the other five people too, which would be a bit ridiculous. I myself have friends who have rejected me and I'm okay being friends with them. We get along great as friends and I want to keep it that way. It hasn't been that long since we've known each other so it's not like I can just up and leave, that would hurt him a lot more, espec…
/r/RedPillWomen07/09/20 12:10 PM
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I would, but they're things he's insecure about, so I don't want to bring him down further by listing them as the reasons why I don't want to be with him. I think I'll just mention it in passing tonight that he's a great friend/bro and will try to be less flirty.
/r/RedPillWomen07/09/20 11:51 AM
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Thank you so much, this advice really helped! I told B about what I was feeling about A, and he assured me that he wasn't trying to push me to be with A and apologised if he came across that way. He told me to casually mention that A has become like a 'bro' to me during our call tonight. I'm nervous because I've never done this over video before, and I'm trying to figure out how to make it seem natural and like no big deal when I feel really really bad for him. I'll have to do it though. And I h…
/r/RedPillWomen07/09/20 11:50 AM
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I still like him but I’m going to focus on myself and set boundaries. The comments here have really changed my perspective - I never realised I was giving him boyfriend privileges, and I didn’t mean to do that. Nothing much has changed, I’ve been on one late night call with him since this post, but that was only because 20f was on the call too. I don’t think I’ll do any more late night one on one calls with him, and I can’t just give myself away to him when he hasn’t done anything to earn it. I …
/r/RedPillWomen12/08/20 12:40 AM
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Right. Yeah, I'm the one who's always available to talk to him. He's the one who ends pretty much all of our video calls. I just ended the most recent one for the first time at 4am, saying I was tired. I guess I have to try do that more because I think I might be coming off as way too available. It's tough though because I really do want to spend all that time with him. Thanks for your advice, I'll pull back a little and see how it goes. One of my friends gave me some insight - she asked me "how…
/r/RedPillWomen05/08/20 06:09 PM
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It's definitely possible that he only sees me as a best friend and that I'm just overthinking/overanalysing this because I like him. I'd probably go for option 2a - I think maybe with time this might work, but I'll have to see. I'm not comfortable making the first move or just never talking to him again.
/r/RedPillWomen05/08/20 05:49 PM
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Word of advice, it would be better if both you and your girl friend pursued a totally different person than this guy. If you both like him, you destroy your friendship with each other. I promised myself that if I ever found myself in this situation, I'd back off. In fact it's happened before where me and another girl friend liked the same guy, and I backed off, turned out he wasn't even a great guy anyway. However in this case it's not the same - she doesn't like him, only I do. She's doing her …
/r/RedPillWomen05/08/20 05:47 PM
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He's my best friend, we've talked about (literally) everything. I know the post made him sound sleazy or like a player or whatever, but he's told me what he wants in a relationship before - he doesn't want to be intimate with anyone he doesn't have a solid connection with, he wants to wait for the right person (not necessarily marriage). He's not into one-night stands or anything without a proper level of commitment. We've been friends for almost two years - but have gotten to know each other be…
/r/RedPillWomen05/08/20 02:14 PM
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I compiled a list with the help of RPW on this subreddit over on my profile! It's pinned so it's easy to find, hope this helps :)
/r/RedPillWomen05/08/20 01:10 PM
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Enya’s song Caribbean Blue is super feminine. Another one that I don’t think would be traditionally classified as feminine but makes me feel feminine is Flume’s song called Never Be Like You.
/r/RedPillWomen04/08/20 05:23 AM
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Of course. This is a generalisation too, but one that I believe is more accurate than "all men are trash". There will always be a few bad apples.
/r/RedPillWomen02/08/20 03:16 AM
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Ah yes, it was a lovely post! I responded too with a similar situation I’d been in on a date as well. It’s crazy how many of these men haven’t been shown appreciation.
/r/RedPillWomen01/08/20 02:51 AM
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You’re right. There’s one girlfriend I’m referring to in particular, and she just broke up with her maybe-boyfriend/situationship a few months ago. He wasn’t putting in enough effort so she was mad and started badmouthing him. Awkward because he’s a mutual friend but the two of us are closer than I am with him. But yeah, this definitely rings true. Just sounds like she’s in pain.
/r/RedPillWomen01/08/20 02:47 AM
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Hey I’m a conservative 20 year old from Australia too! Not many of us out in the open though haha. I suppose I just don’t really speak much about my political views, which sucks, but I have found a couple of friends who agree with me. Unfortunately due to classes changing every semester, I don’t talk to most of them much but there’s one who agrees with a lot of the red pill stuff I like (he’s a guy). So it’s great to discuss this with him!
/r/RedPillWomen31/07/20 06:16 PM
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Laser hair removal is nothing short of a godsend.
/r/RedPillWomen31/07/20 06:02 AM
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The first time I met a work colleague, we discussed this and the exchange was pretty similar. It was just one shift of two hours and then we had about a couple months of holidays (so in essence, we'd only met once). I got a text from him a month into the holidays asking me to hangout - and that's the story on how I went on my first ever date! He really appreciated that I didn't hate men and just blindly pander to feminism because of my gender.
/r/RedPillWomen31/07/20 05:58 AM
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This exactly. People who were 'body positive' told me I looked great the way I was, but it was getting to the point where I couldn't even look at myself in the mirror anymore because I was just so disgusted. I took advantage of the extra free time during quarantine, began working out, and now I'm 6 kilograms down with 1 kilogram left till I hit my goal weight. And I feel so so much better and I've gotten more compliments too!!
/r/RedPillWomen31/07/20 05:45 AM
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A couple of my female friends disagree with what I believe. I just don't discuss the topic with them as much as possible, but when I do, we keep it light-hearted and banter-like. We've mutually agreed that it's okay to disagree which is important for maintaining harmony in a friendship. Coincidentally, my two best guy friends agree with what I believe, which I think speaks for itself.
/r/RedPillWomen31/07/20 05:42 AM
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Oh wow, Isabel's channel looks awesome! Thanks, I'll add it in :)
/r/RedPillWomen15/07/20 05:26 AM
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I was going to counseling for a fear of unfamiliar men, just before quarantine happened (unfortunately only had one session before we were put on lockdown). I was abused at age 9 by an older kid and that messed me up quite a bit (I thought it didn't, but now at age 20 I can see that it's had lasting effects). I started getting panicky or nervous, basically just very uneasy, whenever I'd see a guy I didn't know. And this made it difficult at college because I'd see them all the time. Just knowing…
/r/RedPillWomen09/06/20 01:47 PM
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woah dude
/r/RedPillWomen12/04/20 11:26 AM
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"Do nothing all day" Lol. There was a piece on the news two days ago where a man was interviewing a woman who was trying to comfort all the viewers who would have to stay home and take care of their children and actually parent. She was like "this will be hard, but you can do it" and I told my mum (who is a SAHM) "they always said that stay at home mothers were lazy - but now they need tips on how to parent their kids because they have no idea how to be parents."
/r/RedPillWomen12/04/20 07:18 AM
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Ah yeah, that's another book! We have three main books: Bhagavad Gita, Ramayana, and Mahabharata. The Bhagavad Gita is actually just a small section of the Mahabharata but told in way more detail. In case you can't find it at your book sale, many books can be found here. I plan on reading the Bible and Quran sometime too, but never considered the Torah. Might be an interesting one to check out!
/r/RedPillWomen11/04/20 03:51 PM
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You should read the Bhagavad Gita too (Hindu book), since the three biggest religions in the world are (in order) Christianity, Islam, and Hinduism!
/r/RedPillWomen11/04/20 09:22 AM
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Wow, awesome!
/r/RedPillWomen11/04/20 09:21 AM
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I'm a Hindu :)
/r/RedPillWomen11/04/20 09:21 AM
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Just added. Thanks for all the suggestions! (P.S. love your username!)
/r/RedPillWomen01/04/20 12:08 PM
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Thanks so much for suggesting Lisa - I'd never heard of her until you commented but I read her 'about' page on youtube and I'm so excited to see that she's a bellydance fan and posts bellydance tutorials! As someone who is just beginning to teach myself bellydancing, I was so happy to find this. Thanks again, and I hope the list helps you out! :)
/r/RedPillWomen01/04/20 11:55 AM
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Of course, I'm glad it's helped you!
/r/RedPillWomen01/04/20 11:54 AM
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Check out my compilation of femininity YouTube channels here which I made with the help of other Redditors here on RPW. Especially now that everyone should be staying at home, there’s heaps of footage to keep you occupied which is another bonus! It’s awesome to hear you getting into this at such a young age. I’m 20 and when I was 17 I was still behaving like a child (mostly due to my narcissistic parents, but that’s another story). I found RPW so appealing (even at age 17 I knew I wasn’t a femin…
/r/RedPillWomen01/04/20 11:46 AM
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Thanks so much! Yep definitely planning on posting nature-related stories once I can get out of my house, lol.
/r/RedPillWomen31/03/20 03:50 AM
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Thanks so much for your comment! Yeah to be honest I wasn’t expecting this much social media hate. I just downloaded Unfold and it’s such a beautiful app! Definitely something I’ll be using from now on. Reviews are also a great idea, I’d love to post clothing related stories that don’t include me in the picture (I don’t post pictures of myself on social media). I definitely see it as a resource too, and follow primarily my friends and femininity-related influencers. Especially given the quaranti…
/r/RedPillWomen31/03/20 03:49 AM
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I can't offer any advice since I'm super new to RPW myself, but the ring idea sounds lovely and is something I'll do. As soon as the virus is over and I can get out of my house, I'll go buy a beautiful ring!
/r/RedPillWomen30/03/20 11:45 PM
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I understand some women prefer not to post on social media. But I'm 20 years old and I love doing it. It's not controlling me. I understand this is your opinion but I would really appreciate some advice with mine.
/r/RedPillWomen30/03/20 11:28 PM
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I'm not looking for attention. I see people such as The Feminine Fancy, AlexandrasGirlyTalk, and other femininity figures posting things about being feminine on Instagram. Especially now that I'm stuck indoors 24/7, I'd like to portray myself on Instagram in a feminine way, I guess as a replacement for going outside in a feminine outfit, makeup, etc. I also think a part of it is because I just discovered RPW really recently and I'm still feeling the 'high' of finding it, if you know what I mean?…
/r/RedPillWomen30/03/20 12:21 PM
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You could throw a miniskirt over your tights maybe? Like tennis players' outfits.
/r/RedPillWomen30/03/20 10:13 AM
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Ah this is perfect, thank you! I literally can't cook anything but with what's going on, it's a great opportunity to ask my mum to teach me - she's an excellent cook and a SAHM. Thanks again!
/r/RedPillWomen29/03/20 11:21 PM
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Wow, thanks! Just needed some verification from a guy, haha. Will look out for some nice ones when I shop next time then!
/r/RedPillWomen29/03/20 11:18 PM
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I'm a girl but I can definitely see what you mean. It makes the girl look sweet and innocent. I totally get it. Just wondering on your opinion, though - I'm more of an hourglass figure (think pretty much the exact same as Bindi Irwin, for reference) and I'd love to wear sundresses but I don't think they'd look good on my body type. What's your opinion on this? Sundresses good for all women or just the girls with the classic model body (don't really know how to describe this but I hope you know w…
/r/RedPillWomen29/03/20 11:07 PM
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I’m so confused lol You say you’ve never had a boyfriend, but you’ve had an ex??
/r/RedPillWomen29/03/20 02:04 AM
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Thank you for all these, I’ll add them!
/r/RedPillWomen26/03/20 03:36 AM
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"But I do use a vintage brush and mirror set and feel like a princess" I thought about this and realised that I'd feel like a princess too, if I had some nice vintage grooming tools. Would love to go out and buy some :(
/r/RedPillWomen25/03/20 05:31 AM
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Those boys that are suddenly disinterested when you tell them you're a virgin are the ones you want to stay away from. They're not in it for the long haul, they're just in it to get some. You're repelling all the guys that aren't good for you, so don't be worried about that. I'm 20 and if it wasn't for my family's religious beliefs, I probably would have had sex by now, most likely in my teens. However, now that I'm 20, I'm not too sure whether I would like to do it before marriage or not. I sti…
/r/RedPillWomen23/03/20 10:14 AM
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I've been working out and have taken up belly dancing! (Teaching myself thanks to youtube tutorials). Also practicing my make up and trying to improve my fashion & jewellery sense.
/r/RedPillWomen16/03/20 09:21 AM
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She’s going through some health problems :( I hope she recovers and posts soon! Her videos are the best.
/r/RedPillWomen15/03/20 01:29 AM
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Her channel is amazing, I was binge watching it yesterday! She literally calls herself 'your big sister' and she and her channel are just overall so inclusive and welcoming.
/r/RedPillWomen15/03/20 12:47 AM
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Two sprays on the front of the neck, one spray on the back of the neck (so they can smell it if they give you a hug). These are both on skin. Then one or two sprays on the inside wrist of each hand, depending on how strong I want it to be. These are also on the skin.
/r/RedPillWomen12/03/20 11:44 PM
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Lose 4-5 pounds Eliminate all sweet foods Practice my belly dancing for at least ten minutes per day Work out (HIIT) for 20 minutes every day (not including the belly dancing)
/r/RedPillWomen06/03/20 01:45 PM
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Any tips on how to develop a sexy attitude? (Without going overboard, of course)
/r/RedPillWomen28/02/20 07:40 AM
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Ah yep I have already checked out that post. Thank you!
/r/RedPillWomen28/02/20 07:39 AM
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That’s ok but you have to understand, if people are telling me I look thirteen to fifteen years old, I want to change that!
/r/RedPillWomen27/02/20 11:35 PM
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Oh, damn. This made me feel all tingly inside. I love it.
/r/RedPillWomen27/02/20 10:55 AM
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I love 'Act Like A Lady, Think Like A Man' by Steve Harvey.
/r/RedPillWomen27/02/20 06:52 AM
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Thank you so much for this detailed answer! I will try to place more emphasis on the things in the 'sexy' list. What confuses me is that I'm an hourglass shape but get mistaken for a child often. I think this is primarily due to my clothing choices. I've noticed if I put some thought into wearing 'womanly' clothes, then I do look older. Wearing big earrings helps me too. Yeah, hopefully I lose that babyface soon, especially with the exercising I've been doing!
/r/RedPillWomen27/02/20 06:27 AM
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Ah the tip about bras and underwear is a good one. Thanks, will definitely try to find some, especially since I need to get fitted properly soon anyway!
/r/RedPillWomen27/02/20 06:17 AM
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Thanks! Been watching a lot of Nora Fatehi (example) whom I love. I'm actually planning on learning belly dancing because of her! This music video makes me feel a similar type of way too. (I'm Indian so I watch a lot of Bollywood, haha) I'll make sure to keep trying to feel sexy. It often heightens when I listen to that ^ type of music or if I dress particularly nice that day/put in more effort.
/r/RedPillWomen27/02/20 06:15 AM
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Thank you! I'll take on your advice. I notice when I watch music videos that feature sexy women in them, I feel compelled to work on myself. It's what actually led me to make this post, haha. My style isn't very feminine at the moment (I love the art hoe style) but I'm trying to introduce more dresses because I want to have that be part of my style too. Thanks again!
/r/RedPillWomen27/02/20 06:03 AM
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Aw thanks! Yeah just working on trying to feel sexy first, by putting on lipstick & BB cream, exercising to lose my baby fat, and wearing clothing more suited to women than girls (including dresses, which up till now, I've only worn on special occasions).
/r/RedPillWomen27/02/20 05:42 AM
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Thanks for the advice! Though the reason I haven't worn mascara is because I'm Indian, and I already have super thick eyelashes. I have tried but it doesn't make much of a difference.
/r/RedPillWomen27/02/20 04:15 AM
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Thanks so much!! Yeah I'm a Indian (born and living in a western county though) but unfortunately not petite, I'm an hourglass figure (big top and bottom, narrow waist and thin calves), it makes me look weirdly proportioned (hence why I'm trying to lose weight). The reason I asked this question was because I hate people thinking I'm younger than I actually am, and I'm trying to figure out how to transition from a girl into a woman.
/r/RedPillWomen27/02/20 03:04 AM
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Wow, thanks so much - the website is super helpful!
/r/RedPillWomen26/02/20 02:51 AM
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Haha thanks!
/r/RedPillWomen25/02/20 02:10 PM
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Lol. Thanks! He wasn’t like this when I wasn’t putting in effort. It’s crazy how fast that changed.
/r/RedPillWomen25/02/20 02:09 PM
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I had no idea! I definitely know now, though. I'm honestly so clueless when it comes to this type of thing but I've taken it upon myself to learn as it really interests me :)
/r/RedPillWomen24/02/20 10:58 PM
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Thank you so much! I’m going shopping in a couple of days with a girlfriend of mine who loves perfume, so I’ll check it out with her. I don’t have any deodorant (I am super new to this femininity thing) so I’m definitely buying that soon, too!
/r/RedPillWomen24/02/20 09:24 PM
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He touched my thigh in the car on the way there, too. Yes, I think I’m blind haha. Might buy that other perfume he said he loved!
/r/RedPillWomen24/02/20 09:19 PM
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I wore Good Girl by Carolina Herrera, he said he loves a perfume called Panache :)
/r/RedPillWomen24/02/20 09:18 PM
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