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Yeah that part was supposed to make you cringe. I wanted it to be satirical but also spark some ideas on how to be more playful
/r/seduction24/03/16 03:43 PM
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Maybe it was ;)
/r/seduction24/03/16 09:04 AM
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So desperate
/r/seduction24/03/16 07:22 AM
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Thanks man
/r/seduction24/03/16 02:10 AM
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Sorry about that, just fixed it.
/r/seduction24/03/16 02:03 AM
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yeah I think acknowledging the tension is big. pretending it's not there always makes it uncomfortably awkward
/r/seduction23/03/16 04:32 PM
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You just said it. Become more and more experienced. Don't be ashamed. Take baby steps. You can't go from zero experience to experienced in one night. Or even better, put yourself out there until you meet a girl who's equally as inexperienced as you...
/r/seduction23/03/16 02:20 PM
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I think it's you not thinking you're worthy enough rather than a fear of competition. You don't think you're good enough for her to choose you over someone else. Work on that self-esteem brah!
/r/seduction23/03/16 02:16 PM
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Interesting take Pete. I really like the last set of bullet points
/r/seduction22/03/16 03:28 PM
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agree with these guys, trial and error is the only way. we all go through the pain and embarrassment, but that's what ultimately makes you a man. If you ever get stuck and get nervous, I think it'll be good to just say "I havn't done this in a while." We think girls want ultra-experienced and smooth guys, but some of them will appreciate your inexperience even more.
/r/seduction22/03/16 03:23 PM
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That's awesome man! Time flies, time flies...
/r/seduction22/03/16 03:17 PM
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fair enough. i was just surprised because it didn't turn her off. it seemed to have the opposite effect
/r/seduction18/03/16 04:00 PM
1

i'm decent looking but i'm no brad pitt
/r/seduction18/03/16 03:59 PM
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not me ;)
/r/seduction14/03/16 06:26 PM
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yeah i agree. it's a subtle difference. standing up for yourself is probably the main attractor but a lot of times you're going to have some anger while you're doing it
/r/seduction14/03/16 05:45 PM
41

EXACTLY.
/r/seduction14/03/16 05:14 PM
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you missed the point. Obviously it's always better to treat her with decency. The point isn't to treat her like shit, it's to be honest about something that's bothering you instead of sucking it up or kissing her ass
/r/seduction14/03/16 05:13 PM
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Not a problem. Appreciate it
/r/seduction09/03/16 02:19 PM
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that's amazing. Nick told me about you and I was happy to see this ballin ass post pop up haha. Awesome stuff. I'm going to email you soon with some marketing questions if that's cool
/r/seduction09/03/16 02:16 PM
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I'm with you there. With that mindset, there's literally no way to fail.
/r/seduction09/03/16 08:10 AM
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You sound like you're headed in a great direction. Keep in mind that it's for you and improving yourself, not just about meeting women. That mindset may limit any desperation/neediness you might bring to the table. Much respect, sounds like you're set to make some big changes!
/r/seduction08/03/16 01:14 PM
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I think that a big part of your anxiety comes from just not knowing what to do. Maybe you havn't done it enough to really become comfortable with it. You need some trial and error. Embrace where you're at and enjoy the process of gaining experience. Don't think you need your game to be extremely on point or to be a seduction master at this point. Practice conversing and connecting with these girls that are attracted to you. From there it may progress to a point where she really wants you to make…
/r/seduction08/03/16 12:55 PM
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that dialogue sounds like it rings true. True story?
/r/seduction08/03/16 12:22 PM
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Nope. Totally agree with Emxif's comment
/r/seduction29/01/16 11:25 AM
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Telling her that you don't want to talk about it and maybe telling her why you don't might be vulnerable in itself :)
/r/seduction28/01/16 02:33 AM
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I think as long as you're being quiet because that's how you naturally are and not because you're scared to speak up, you'll be fine.
/r/seduction28/01/16 02:31 AM
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Try not to overthink it. Do you want to talk to her and get to know her or not? If you do, simply smile, walk over, and say hi. You can say something like: "I noticed you were looking my way" or "I just had to come talk to you." It will come with practice and get easier and easier every time. The important thing is acting in spite of your fear when you really want to approach her and not getting too down on yourself if it doesn't work out perfectly. There's only one way to get the trial and erro…
/r/seduction28/01/16 02:29 AM
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me neither. it was how he could share it without being shameful or proud of it that was attractive. he said it matter of factly and didn't really care whether you approved or not
/r/seduction16/11/15 08:46 AM
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thanks brotha!
/r/seduction16/11/15 04:56 AM
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Tell yourself that everyone has something really interesting about them. And it's your responsibility to find it out, not their responsibility to show you.
/r/seduction02/10/15 02:22 PM
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Take it slow. Start off with stuff you're really comfortable with...and build up from there. Slowly build your confidence and self esteem. It doesn't have to happen all at once. Take it day by day.
/r/seduction02/10/15 02:20 PM
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I've found that being honest about it works better than the whole playing it off bit. Just tell her flat out: I don't have the kind of cash to go around buying every hottie drinks. If I did that I'd be broke by next weekend...
/r/seduction02/10/15 02:17 PM
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Self improvement and self love is the name of the game.
/r/seduction29/09/15 10:00 PM
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The fundamental mindset shift to "quality over quantity" helped me a lot. And that goes not just for looks, but for her outlook and perspective too. If a girl is a 9, but a horrid person, you should be above hooking up with her solely for validation.
/r/seduction29/09/15 09:58 PM
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Haha it's crazy how much it works like that! I'm happy for you dude :)
/r/seduction29/09/15 12:04 AM
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I'd say either give her what she wants--be forceful, more in control. Or just let it go if you don't want a girl like that.
/r/seduction26/09/15 02:55 PM
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that condom thing is tough. I get what you mean by being too goal oriented. But also, the chance of STD/baby are pretty devastating. Maybe keep a condom in your wallet and forget about it?
/r/seduction25/09/15 07:39 PM
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It helps to be aware of the stories we tell ourselves. We can make ourselves feel like anything is a do-or-die situation, even if it's not. Providing an alternate opinion like "this shit doesn't matter. I'm going to die anyways" can make us fight through our bullshit excuses and take action.
/r/seduction23/09/15 08:51 PM
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Yeah i'd be patient. If it happens again though...
/r/seduction18/09/15 09:38 PM
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Yeah I'd go with whatever you're feelin at the time. If it offends you, then move on. If you don't mind then give her some time or try to meet up face to face. So many girls are flaky with their texts, especially at the beginning. I wouldn't put too much meaning behind it.
/r/seduction18/09/15 09:33 PM
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Love the first half of the idea. Unfortunately, most women expect men to make the initial moves. Unless you're Tom Brady...
/r/seduction18/09/15 09:27 PM
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I said it "can be a great indicator." Not "it is every single time with no exceptions." When a girl is giving you eye contact to signal she's interested...you can tell.
/r/seduction16/09/15 07:40 PM
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So you think it's mostly a mindset shift? I think I tend to agree with you.
/r/seduction16/09/15 02:46 PM
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No.....
/r/seduction16/09/15 02:45 PM
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Woman love a man that cares about and values himself enough to put the time and effort in to the go to the gym.
/r/seduction16/09/15 03:52 AM
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you're my hero.
/r/seduction16/09/15 03:36 AM
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It's like you're vetting her instead of the other way around....I like it.
/r/seduction16/09/15 03:24 AM
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haha i hear ya...good stuff, keep it comin!
/r/seduction15/09/15 05:43 PM
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i just meant how long she holds the eye contact with you. Or how many times she looks back at you.
/r/seduction15/09/15 05:42 PM
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"Nobody likes indecisive pieces of shit" whoa easy bro haha. I agree with you that taking action is very important but I wouldn't call someone that's not great at it a "piece of shit." Good tips though!
/r/seduction14/09/15 10:46 PM
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A technique I've used (I'm an introvert too) is to remind myself if I'm feeling nervous or anxious that "it's just a feeling." It's not who I am, it's just how I'm feeling at that moment. Just like any other feeling I've ever felt. (feeling confident, outgoing, or in control) Realizing that it's temporary and never permanent helps me get over the uncomfortable feeling and take action.
/r/seduction14/09/15 08:29 PM
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Eye contact is huge. It can be a great indicator of how interested she is in you by how she returns it...
/r/seduction14/09/15 07:59 PM
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I've had a serious girlfriend for a while now but PUA still goes on...
/r/seduction12/09/15 11:04 PM
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Love it, feel like I have the exact same point of view. Appreciate you checking us out. Hopefully we can share some stories at some point!
/r/seduction12/09/15 11:03 PM
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Definitely more about how you're saying what you're saying rather than your exact words. That you make her comfortable and also keep it fun/entertaining. Appreciate you reading :)
/r/seduction12/09/15 09:06 PM
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I love that book! The principles in there definitely apply to seduction and have helped me a lot in my journey... Appreciate the kind words :)
/r/seduction12/09/15 04:49 PM
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Love the story and your point of view :)
/r/seduction07/09/15 03:50 PM
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Yeah i know what you mean. Though I don't quite buy that you don't have anything in common with most women. Even if you don't have common interests, you can relate to them emotionally on some levels. I'm sure they're frustrated about certain things too, just like you are. A lot of them probably feel they can't form genuine connections with guys. Maybe try to find some common ground emotionally i.e empathize with them? That's the best advice I can give without knowing specifics :)
/r/seduction07/09/15 03:48 PM
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Awesome, love to get a woman's perspective too. My issue was making the bold move initially; going up to an attractive stranger and starting a convo. I've found that once I muster the courage to break the ice...the rest comes a little easier. From there it's a matter of getting to know her a little bit and figure out if you guys enjoy each others company. To carry it through maybe think about how the hard work is done initially. Now you can just focus on learning about her, sharing yourself, and…
/r/seduction07/09/15 03:40 PM
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I hear ya. Maybe try to think about how they're just people too. Most of them are just as nervous about interactions as you are. Make what you say to them low-key, casual and don't put too much pressure on it. If you're just trying to meet them and learn some interesting things about them, what can you say that's so wrong?
/r/seduction07/09/15 03:27 PM
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Appreciate you reading :)
/r/seduction07/09/15 03:23 PM
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Thanks :) You and your name are both AWESOME.
/r/seduction07/09/15 03:22 PM
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Thanks man, really appreciate it. More good stuff to come...
/r/seduction07/09/15 02:36 PM
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haha what are the biggest things you struggle with? (if you don't mind me asking...)
/r/seduction07/09/15 01:49 PM
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