TheRedArchive

~ archived since 2018 ~

stevecapw Archive

View 1 posts and 197 comments by stevecapw on TheRedPill subreddit and various other subreddits related to The Red Pill community.
Search in:
In subreddits:
More
Filter by year/month:
Upvotes Title Category Author Subreddit Date (UTC)
15

stevecapw/r/TheRedPill06/12/19 10:53 PM
Upvotes Comment on Subreddit Date (UTC)
1

None of what I recommended is "my interpretation" of what to do, it is written scripture. You're talking about MRP, yet the OP isn't even married.
/r/askMRP30/01/25 03:23 PM
2

What do you find moralizing or stupid, especially since you claim to have found value in the Scripture cited? The additional verbiage I offered is based upon said Scripture. If one is a Christian, as the OP claims, he should be following sound biblical advice.
/r/askMRP29/01/25 10:50 PM
4

Deuteronomy 22:10 LSB [10] “You shall not plow with an ox and a donkey together. 2 Corinthians 6:14 LSB [14] Do not be unequally yoked with unbelievers; for what partnership have righteousness and lawlessness, or what fellowship has light with darkness? You already screwed up by dating a non-Christian, and an atheist to boot. You should sever things with her asap, and exclude yourself from the "dating world" for a while because you need to get in right-relationship with Jesus first. Then consult…
/r/askMRP28/01/25 11:58 PM
1

This is supposed to be about marital situations. If you don't like it, get rid of her. It's just your turn anyway.
/r/askMRP17/10/24 01:21 AM
3

I can't laugh enough at that
/r/askMRP17/10/24 01:20 AM
3

Move on from them. The person whom who are trying to become doesn't associate with that type of person. Fixing the drinking issue will help you overcome the lack of confidence and financial concerns
/r/askMRP31/08/24 04:12 PM
6

She hasn't let you around the family bc she/they are ignoring the fact that she has been fornicating with a non-Muslim. Run, and also develop some frame while you're at it.
/r/askMRP31/08/24 04:03 PM
3

If you're looking for some type of "infatuation" version of love, you definitely should not be getting married. Tell this girl that she's wasting her time with a loser. You sound like a woman.
/r/askMRP20/06/24 06:02 PM
7

Your limp-dick post is some shit that women victim-puke to their friends before they divorce their husband. You don't even know who your wife is bc she's all effed up on birth control. At least see what she's like off of those disastrous hormones.
/r/askMRP06/05/24 09:19 PM
3

It's not going to feel like an intellectual shit test when paying child support or getting divorce raped.
/r/TheRedPill22/06/22 06:20 PM
19

No, avoid them. You have no clue what you're doing, and what you're doing can be dangerous.
/r/TheRedPill07/11/21 01:01 PM
0

Trades have nothing to do with your status. I know a number of guys that started in various trades, and then started up small businesses. Trust me, no one in my community, whether they have a degree or not, is snubbing their nose at these guys.
/r/TheRedPill12/10/21 12:55 AM
1

When they meddle, they need put in their place immediately. Frame.
/r/TheRedPill29/09/21 08:04 PM
13

Ditto here. Even extended family dynamics were screwed up for me bc it was controlled by 3 anxiety riddled woman (mother and 2 aunts) who did nothing but harp on the male cousins, while the female cousins got a pass on bad behavior constantly. It took me going to a psychologist to realize that the constant nagging over the years was completely unwarranted and fucked up my self esteem. I've actually had to create a lot of space between my parents and I recently, because of how my overbearing moth…
/r/TheRedPill17/09/21 11:46 AM
2

Don't sweat it, most gyms blow anyway. Lift at home, or at a friend's place. Lifting with a couple guys in a garage or basement is way better than some commercial gym blaring shitty pop music. Even if you don't have room for some plates and dumbbells, or money for a gym membership, you can always do calisthenics and increase their difficulty.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/09/21 12:50 PM
9

If you focus on building your business, and not working for your business, you shouldn't get bored. Do you have employees yet?
/r/TheRedPill29/03/21 08:09 PM
2

I'm in Pennsylvania, and we still have some amount of lockdowns, primarily at restaurants/bars and "public gatherings". but there's still the grocery store and a myriad of other places. It's been a year for this wealth transfer disguised as a pandemic. if you're still obeying orders, you probably aren't getting your dick sucked anyway.
/r/TheRedPill16/03/21 03:56 PM
4

Meeting women without apps or social media
/r/TheRedPill16/03/21 03:16 AM
6

Same exact scenario I've seen in the truck/heavy equipment shop I work in. Guys that don't say a word to each other all day because of some prior issue, will immediately become team players when a tandem dump with front and wing plows rolls in because it got trashed or needs new blades/savers.
/r/TheRedPill21/02/21 02:13 AM
36

We need to vet male friends, just as we do women.
/r/TheRedPill21/12/20 07:36 PM
8

You aren't missing out. Dry spells happen. Focus on yourself, and not "getting" (being burdened with) a gf.
/r/TheRedPill08/11/20 06:13 PM
1

Their perception of reality is such that they don't see it like you or I do.
/r/TheRedPill08/11/20 06:11 PM
2

Correct, biology is amoral, and a number of evolutionary biologists point out the same. To the OP, TRP does not advocate for sleeping around. It advocates for being aware others' sexual strategies and increasing your value, because it will have a net positive effect on your life. The greater the difference in SMV, the greater the risk(regret rape, pregnancy, blackmail, stalkers, societal scorn) in haphazardly sleeping with a majority of women, especially low value ones in the era of MeToo. Look …
/r/TheRedPill02/11/20 07:38 PM
18

Well, she's a professional meat-hole, that's how they be.
/r/MensRights02/11/20 02:31 AM
2

Unless/until you have children, you need to be your everything. Focus on being your best self.
/r/MensRights26/09/20 02:58 PM
37

That's what caught my eye. She is already the recipient of charity
/r/MensRights06/09/20 12:35 PM
5

Nah, it's just easier to be a victim, than to actually put legit effort into improving yourself.
/r/MensRights28/08/20 11:50 AM
3

My latest ltr was just like this. Zero spatial awareness
/r/TheRedPill12/07/20 12:48 PM
34

Gonna have to get a bonsai tree for the nightstand now. After I bust a nut, I'll put on a kimono and tend to the tree, while a plate is laying there wanting to cuddle.
/r/TheRedPill09/07/20 12:41 PM
1

File a police report against her for false accusations. Then, talk to an attorney about suing your college, landlord, etc
/r/TheRedPill05/07/20 06:40 PM
39

Bang the tinder thot, all the while maintaining strong eye contact with her mother (to maintain frame).
/r/TheRedPill04/07/20 06:57 PM
1

Even if you're an in shape billionaire, you're novelty has worn off, and she'll still cheat.
/r/TheRedPill04/07/20 05:38 AM
2

Nah, not if she meets a guy who she perceives as higher value. Look at celebrities.
/r/TheRedPill04/07/20 05:36 AM
1

This. It's one thing to read "theory", but it's no comparison to experiencing it firsthand. Their solipsism can borderline psychopathic. I just ended an ltr because she was trying to force things along, with no regard to anything I said or suggested. Plus, I just couldn't get past how different her view/perception of reality is from mine. But, since I have no desire to have kids, I realized I have to put myself first.
/r/TheRedPill04/07/20 05:25 AM
1

It's actually quite the opposite. If you demand to wear a rubber, they realize you aren't a reckless jerkoff, like the guy who just nutted up in her earlier in the day.
/r/TheRedPill25/06/20 02:19 AM
11

Truth. Some at least try to say they're "separated", other's don't even care. Don't forget the ones that travel for work.
/r/TheRedPill20/06/20 03:17 AM
27

Just like with social media, "if it's free, you're the product."
/r/TheRedPill18/05/20 07:12 PM
2

I think I finally need to get them too. I'm fine in social situations, but I internalize a lot of self-doubt because of how crooked my teeth are. Part of my initial fear is having to get wisdom teeth extracted first.
/r/TheRedPill17/05/20 01:53 PM
4

Nope. I started my business up around your age, and I know first time business owners whom are in their 50s. It's never too late
/r/TheRedPill17/05/20 01:51 PM
1

Thank you for posting this.
/r/TheRedPill17/05/20 01:49 PM
1

Depending on the laws/taxes in your country, look into starting a business. Merely understanding things like tax liability will put you far ahead of your peers, but actually getting to execute them will really be a game-changer as far as your economic mobility.
/r/TheRedPill11/05/20 03:47 AM
1

Agreed. If anyone wants a no BS book on wealth building, read The Millionaire Next Door.
/r/TheRedPill03/05/20 04:18 AM
3

Check out Bigger Pockets podcast
/r/TheRedPill03/05/20 04:14 AM
2

+1 for Dave Ramsey. I'm a small business owner, and Profit First has been great for me as far as actual money management/budgeting. I believe it's worth a read for someone that isn't even a business owner, just from the fact that you can customize the system to your own needs.
/r/TheRedPill03/05/20 04:11 AM
2

First you figure out why you have no money, and what you can do to fix that.
/r/TheRedPill03/05/20 04:05 AM
1

The minute you denied AWALT, you were done. Live and learn.
/r/TheRedPill28/04/20 02:51 AM
1

Emma Sulkowicz one was what I was thinking
/r/TheRedPill19/04/20 03:30 AM
8

Its sickening that DA's let false accusations slide. If they prosecuted more, you'd see a lot less false claims.
/r/TheRedPill18/04/20 11:59 PM
7

I would def keep the texts. They document an incongruent course of conduct. It helped the guy that was accused by the mattress girl in college. I think that was the one that destroyed Rolling Stones credibility.
/r/TheRedPill18/04/20 11:58 PM
1

Yes, all victims are informed of their right in regard to criminal and civil matters. I really doubt he would've been able to get anything out of her though, since he was the breadwinner.
/r/TheRedPill18/04/20 11:56 PM
5

Rape kits document trauma and collect physical evidence. Even consensual intercourse causes trauma, for all intents and purposes.
/r/TheRedPill18/04/20 11:54 PM
56

When I was a police officer, this stuff wasn't uncommon to encounter. One of the worst ones I dealt with was when we got a call for a domestic. I showed up, in the wife claimed that the husband had raped her earlier that evening. The husband denied even having sexual contact with her that day. So, I took her to the hospital to have a rape kit performed. At the conclusion of the examination, the nurse pulled me aside and told me this was a legit one. I called my co-worker, who then told me the hu…
/r/TheRedPill18/04/20 05:58 PM
1

Many tech/trade schools offer diesel technician programs.
/r/TheRedPill29/03/20 01:40 PM
5

Reduce your tax liability by investing properly, and diversify your assets.
/r/TheRedPill28/03/20 11:20 PM
1

No, they don't want to hear your solutions to their problems.
/r/TheRedPill28/03/20 03:23 PM
7

You either aren't focusing on your own goals, or are getting over-invested/outcome independent with them.
/r/TheRedPill15/03/20 09:59 PM
3

Yep. I'm a small business owner (home service industry). I don't take credit cards payments, and I have yet to lose a sale due to that fact. Many industries don't have that ability this day and age, such as retail or restaurants.
/r/TheRedPill15/03/20 09:07 PM
15

There are transaction fees for processing the card payments too.
/r/TheRedPill15/03/20 03:15 PM
1

Yes, I think I saw a TED Talk about this.
/r/TheRedPill19/02/20 03:26 AM
1

Because they are so conditioned to believe that they can act with impunity, and can't fathom consequences to their actions.
/r/TheRedPill19/02/20 03:16 AM
1

My best friend calls his wife his "90/10". 90% of the time she is awesome, fun, doesn't really care what he is up to. 10% of the time she acts bitchy and throws half-hearted shit tests for a little attention.
/r/TheRedPill30/01/20 01:56 PM
2

Also, many father's don't even get the chance to be a significant influence in their children's (boys & girls) lives due to divorce/family laws that skew in favor of the mother. I also agree that the entertainment industry (media in general) is one of the absolute worst influences on children, and adults for that matter.
/r/TheRedPill30/01/20 01:51 PM
1

As far as procrastination, what helps me is to look at the future pay-off of doing something now. No different than going to the gym, eating well, getting decent sleep, and investing. When I used to procrastinate, it was bc I was "distracted" by something that brings instant gratification.
/r/TheRedPill25/12/19 08:54 PM
2

Rich Dad Poor Dad is a good book regarding personal finance.
/r/TheRedPill14/12/19 04:15 PM
11

Which can further entangle you in litigation lol
/r/TheRedPill12/12/19 02:23 PM
3

I agree, and honestly feel that pursuing "happiness" is a fools errand, and why so many people suffer from depression. People grow accustomed to dopamine, and then need a greater stimulus to get it. For the vast majority of human history, merely surviving was a great feat. Under such conditions people didn't have all day to shop online. Across multiple religions, cultures, and mythologies, one common story that was revered was that of overcoming adversity, often via sacrifice. Our culture now gl…
/r/TheRedPill12/12/19 02:01 PM
29

Except when they change their mind and level rape charges against guys
/r/TheRedPill12/12/19 01:38 PM
1

Yup. Not caring and turning a blind eye to the state of things is kinda bluepill.
/r/TheRedPill07/12/19 02:36 PM
1

Exactly. It's easy to say enjoy the decline, but the problem is the more people like this in the world the shittier our society becomes.
/r/TheRedPill07/12/19 02:33 PM
0

Maybe it's bc I spent all day working my ass off on my business. But I just can't understand why anyone would sell themself that short. A modicum of lifting, eating decently, and clothing upgrade (which need not be expensive at all) would have those guys pulling trim well beyond that.
/r/TheRedPill07/12/19 12:40 AM
1

Same here. Most women love beards.
/r/TheRedPill22/11/19 09:32 PM
1

Talk to people, wherever you are. It may seem awkward at first, but it's a skill, in the only way to get better is to do it. A place like a coffee shop would be a great start. It doesn't have to be at great length or anything important.
/r/TheRedPill19/11/19 04:32 AM
13

You're completely missing the message, and coming from a feminocentric frame. The reason you pursue bettering yourself is because it's challenging, and therefore rewarding. Women finding it attractive that you endured struggle is a byproduct, not not goal. In the first world, people are so coddled and entitled by society that we are raised thinking that everything should come easy, and anything we desire should be ours. The result is people that are fat, depressed, and complain about everything …
/r/TheRedPill15/11/19 07:13 PM
4

You're missing the whole message. You focus on and better yourself because it's of benefit to you, not to attract women.
/r/TheRedPill15/11/19 06:18 PM
6

I would've pulled over, and my Mother would've kicked her out
/r/TheRedPill13/11/19 02:29 AM
13

You're depressed by that bc you want to believe the fairytale. You thought if you screwed enough women, you'd eventually find a unicorn. But instead you just found women, flaws and all. You don't want a girlfriend. you want your idea of what you think the perfect girlfriend is. Which doesn't exist in most societies today.
/r/TheRedPill24/10/19 03:20 AM
11

You nailed it. I noticed this when I realized that every birthday, graduation, etc party I've been to in the past year is decorated exactly the same because of Pinterest. Zero originality
/r/TheRedPill23/10/19 02:25 PM
84

Yeah. Plus, things go smoother if you get an Uber. Some friends have an ability to unintentionally cock block.
/r/TheRedPill21/10/19 04:24 AM
12

I agree. It may take a few instances of awalt to confirm trp lol
/r/TheRedPill27/08/19 12:25 PM
1

Women going to Dubai and getting defecated on are prostitutes. Enjoy the blackpill!
/r/askTRP31/07/19 01:06 PM
1

Why are you obsessed with preselection? If you really believe what you're saying, you aren't RP. Go find comfort in some other philosophy.
/r/askTRP31/07/19 01:04 PM
2

Go where there are more Asians
/r/askTRP31/07/19 10:19 AM
4

Dude, it sounds like you're expecting others to deliver women to you on a plate just because you share a hobby. It doesn't work that way. There are thousands of different hobbies out there. While some by their very nature are social, like sports or boating, others like hunting may not be immediately social. It really just matters that you pursue something YOU enjoy. For example. One of my biggest hobbies is fly fishing. There is quite a bit of solitude involved with it, and very few women that a…
/r/askTRP31/07/19 02:57 AM
2

You can go to any bar any night of the week and watch rich, good looking, white, etc guys get shot down. There are no shortcuts. You need to improve yourself, and stop thinking with victim mentality. That's your biggest hurdle.
/r/askTRP31/07/19 02:45 AM
5

Explore something that YOU are interested in. Few people have legit hobbies or passions, so why bother with their opinion on what you enjoy. Fwiw, I took an entry level sailing course last year, and if I lived in a city that was on a river/lake/ocean that has mooring, I'd consider buying a sailboat. Hell, if that were the situation, I'd just live on it to greatly reduced my living expenses.
/r/askTRP31/07/19 02:38 AM
1

If she's ignoring you she's not treating you bad, she's just ignoring you. Don't try to analyze it, bc it's a fool's errand. Our idea of logic, and their idea of logic are on completely different wavelengths.
/r/askTRP30/07/19 09:56 PM
2

Wrong. They want attention, and drama. When they act up, if you show that it affects you, they see it as weakness. If you go radio silent, they may even intensify it. (This is the drama they crave). As long as you hold fast, they'll be satisfied with their little game, and then act like decent humans beings again. Awalt. The biggest problem in relationships, is that men are brainwashed into believing all the romance and love bullshit. When you are holding a strong masculine frame, the shit testi…
/r/askTRP30/07/19 08:40 PM
1

Because you confronted her about it. Her acting like that shouldn't even faze you.
/r/askTRP30/07/19 08:26 PM
2

She's shit testing, and you're bombing
/r/askTRP30/07/19 08:13 PM
2

When she reaches out, act as if nothing is wrong, because you should be focusing on your priorities
/r/askTRP30/07/19 08:12 PM
1

Since you want a plan, Look into Jordan Peterson's self authoring program.
/r/askTRP30/07/19 08:08 PM
9

Yes, you didn't strike while the iron was hot. She doesn't care that you want to get sleep before you go to work lol
/r/askTRP30/07/19 12:18 AM
3

Do whichever you enjoy more, bc The odds of you being in a street fight are abysmally low, and either one would serve you well.
/r/askTRP30/07/19 12:15 AM
1

Strike up some random banter with people in public. It's a skill you can develop.
/r/askTRP30/07/19 12:10 AM
2

This might be out of left field, but get your finances in order and invest in something if you aren't currently. Not worrying about money, and feeling financially secure, is a big confidence booster.
/r/askTRP30/07/19 12:05 AM
2

So women haven't been able to have sex with whomever they wanted throughout the full length of our evolution!? Lololol
/r/askTRP27/07/19 03:35 PM
2

From an evolutionary biology perspective, if below average dick size was truly a problem, evolution would have weeded it out.
/r/askTRP27/07/19 01:34 PM
8

This is the answer I lean toward. Some people can't handle being by themselves for even a short period of time, on top of social programming of the soulmate myth they're forcefed their whole lives. I feel the most underrated relationships for men, are friendships with other men. Boys grow up so castrated because of being told masculinity is toxic, and then don't know how to develop good friendships with other guys. Women like you for how you make them feel, men like you for who you are.
/r/askTRP27/07/19 12:57 PM
1

Stop focusing on women, and focus on improving yourself.
/r/askTRP16/07/19 12:54 PM
18

You set an appointment for a threesome in Bangkok. Translation: you just hired a ladyboy to bang you and your friend, and if you don't pay you'll wakeup in a bathtub of ice, missing some organs
/r/askTRP16/07/19 12:47 PM
24

All of the above, and by a "chick" with a strong jawline and an Adams apple
/r/askTRP16/07/19 12:44 PM
8

Whether she was legitimately raped, or just vying for attention, the answer is the same. Next.
/r/askTRP16/07/19 12:42 PM
9

Betas are notorious for backstabbing, and I feel your take on alpha behavior is convoluted. That being said, it doesn't sound like you understand how friendships work. You become friends with people because you have common interests, enjoy hanging out, etc. If you're trying to cherry pick specific traits bc you think that will improve your ability to get women, You're better off developing yourself. It seems to me that you're mixing up gaming women/pickup with having Game. Anyone that does thing…
/r/askTRP16/07/19 12:35 PM
1

If you have a marketing degree, offer social media/seo/AdWords management services for small businesses.
/r/askTRP16/07/19 03:35 AM
4

There is no other angle. You are providing her with attention, which has little value because it's so easily given. That's all there is to it. it's not like you're the only guy trying to flirt with her on social media hahaha
/r/askTRP13/07/19 07:31 PM
2

Since you're hanging out with her, but not fucking her, she sees you as one of her female friends. Bc you're asking for nudes on social media, she's already getting all the validation she needs from you.
/r/askTRP13/07/19 07:02 PM
1

Vet potential friends as much as you'd vet a potential ltr. Behavior like telling your business to his gf, is a red flag. It's very beta/blue pill. I have a neighbor who is very similar. We hung out a few times, and they invited me over for a few parties at their place. He's a "nice guy", but his blue pill conditioning has him completely out of touch with how to maintain male relationships. He's also come off somewhat condescending a few times in regard to my bachelor lifestyle and some financia…
/r/askTRP13/07/19 06:55 PM
6

Very few hate their boyfriends. But, thanks to social conditioning, most will all cheat with someone who has a higher smv than their bf/husband. Their solipsism allows this.
/r/askTRP13/07/19 06:26 PM
6

She did. She was on an allowance, basically like any housewife is, except he didn't actually have to out up with her day to day lol
/r/TheRedPill13/06/19 05:15 PM
6

Apparently you can't comprehend what I wrote. Enjoy your blue pill life.
/r/TheRedPill13/06/19 04:29 PM
10

This guy was in great shape and good looking. Guess what, you're always paying when what you're doing isn't your #1 passion or priority, either in time or money. That's why so many who go out and "game" women get tired of it. They come to the realization that there isn't anything special about sleeping with women. Anyone who is actually redpill knows for a fact, that if you aren't doing what you want to do, you aren't fulfilled. My guy just wants to have fun on his yacht, empty his balls on a wh…
/r/TheRedPill13/06/19 04:18 PM
19

You must not know many prosts lol. In my former career as a cop, we ran into them from time to time. Some actually enjoy the work and lifestyle, regardless of how self destructive it can be at times. Furthermore, many of them actually liked and were attracted to their clients. Granted, there is a difference between a decent call girl, and a lot lizard hanging out at truck stops. Here's another eye opener. During one investigation, we discovered one of these chicks had some higher end clients, po…
/r/TheRedPill13/06/19 04:01 PM
5

I completely agree with this. Tons of women 30-40 cheat on their beta and "alpha" husbands simply because they crave feelz. Hell, nearly all TV shows have this as a normal in their shitty plots, which further encourages it and makes it acceptable.
/r/TheRedPill08/06/19 10:52 AM
20

Yeah the 1 in 4 cracks me up. who the fuck would go to college if there's a 1:4 chance of getting raped lollll!?!?!?
/r/MensRights24/05/19 09:28 PM
36

I'm a former police officer. Of all the rape complaints I've personally investigated, not one was legitimate. Actual rapes were extremely rare. Most were fabricated bc of being caught cheating, "regret rape", or just a need for attention. Advocates often say that there are very low rates of successful prosecution because the victim is too scared etc. But it's really bc during the course the investigation the complaint is found to not be legitimate. Illegitimate rape complaints are a great displa…
/r/MensRights24/05/19 08:36 PM
2

Carelessness
/r/MensRights24/05/19 08:27 PM
3

Bull. I've boned a lot of chicks whom I fumbled years prior when I was blue pill. Most of them I just happened to bump into went out and about at a bar or grocery shopping. I believe the important thing, was that I did not approach them in these circumstances. We made eye contact, I just smiled casually, and continued talking to whom I was talking or whatever I happened to be doing at that moment. They approached me, probably wondering why I didn't come over and orbit, and initiated conversation…
/r/TheRedPill23/05/19 09:31 PM
7

Romance is a very new creation, around the 12th century. I think it's crazy to think that it could overcome millions of years of evolution. No fault divorce, and social acceptance of infidelity we're the final nail in the coffin.
/r/TheRedPill01/05/19 10:48 PM
2

I prefer audiobooks, as I retain info better and can multitask while listening. I started mostly with nonfiction, but have begun reading/listening to fiction as well now. It's way better than just sitting on the couch watching television, which is mostly complete garbage nowadays. You should incorporate it into your Game too. Whenever I'm talking to a new woman, I always ask what she's reading. This usually catches them off-guard, especially the intellectual types.
/r/askTRP17/02/19 08:18 PM
1

An easy way to defeat a line like that would have been to walk her to another venue, push-pull to create tension, and go for the kiss again. One thing you messed up, was mentioning a second date while still on the 1st. You need to put yourself in the mindset that you are the prize, and she has to work for your attention and time. It's what they want, and it's what we want. If you would have just ended the date (and not mentioned going out again), even without getting a kiss, giving her space (ti…
/r/askTRP10/02/19 12:55 PM
2

You didn't miss out on anything if you're only regretting it now. You're regretting it bc you aren't happy with your current relationship. Do something about it.
/r/TheRedPill01/02/19 04:21 AM
2

To clarify, are you straight or gay? Bc twice in your post it says "guy" instead of girl/woman. TRP may not be useful in navigating homosexual relationships.
/r/askTRP01/02/19 04:16 AM
1

Game is merely a way that you live your life and interact with others, both male and female. I personally don't go out with the intent of picking up women. I just go out and live my life according to my goals and what I want to do. If I stumble upon an attractive woman, I'll chat her up. I don't drink, so I'm rarely at bars or clubs. All of the women I meet are in "mundane" daily situations e.g. grocery store, coffee shop, social type events, friends' parties etc. When you truly embrace Game, es…
/r/askTRP01/02/19 03:16 AM
20

This. The divorce-rape cat is out of the bag, and men are wising up. The fact that many fields, often male dominated and decent paying, don't require working from a brick and mortar office. Add that flexibility/freedom to the current landscape of female hypergamy, and a roller coaster economy and you have a greater number of men not wanting to get married.
/r/askTRP01/02/19 02:59 AM
4

Handling it with a call would be breaking frame bc it would convey that he's worried. Because he handled it via text, he showed he wasn't as concerned with it, ie The Cardinal Rule.
/r/askTRP30/01/19 08:09 PM
1

My bad, didn't see that. Wtf!? Lol
/r/askTRP29/01/19 08:45 PM
1

Mentioning it isn't disrespectful, her saying that she acted on it/ communicated back is disrespectful. News flash: any woman who's SMV is >5 has guys sliding into her DMs on a daily/weekly basis. She's just creating a little drama to test his frame.
/r/askTRP29/01/19 08:43 PM
1

Incredible
/r/askTRP29/01/19 08:36 PM
2

That isn't bad news, it's just a test. Shit prob hasn't been dramatic enough, so she is testing his frame. If it were bad, she'd be silent and aloof, while messaging other guys under the radar.
/r/askTRP29/01/19 08:35 PM
14

Ugh, I've had the displeasure of watching two friends' marriages that are just like this. "Stay at home moms" that don't do any Mom tasks.
/r/TheRedPill29/01/19 08:30 PM
7

+1. This has become a go-to move for vetting women.
/r/TheRedPill29/01/19 08:27 PM
5

I stumbled upon this gem the other day. https://youtu.be/5gnpCqsXE8g
/r/TheRedPill25/01/19 05:44 PM
1

Yes, but marriage and child custody laws which favor women keep men in line.
/r/TheRedPill20/01/19 06:27 PM
1

That's honestly your best move. Because even if she does reach out to you, your unavailability will increase her attraction. Never forget, they WANT to chase us.
/r/askTRP18/01/19 01:28 AM
1

Yes. Do not initiate anything at all. She might try and throw more smoke though since it's already Thursday night. If she doesn't reach out until late Friday to do something Saturday, tell her you have plans. If she legitimately wants to see you, she'll let you know ASAP before your schedule fills up.
/r/askTRP18/01/19 01:22 AM
1

Doesn't matter how well things went previously. She's spending time with Chad. Soft next her, and see what happens.
/r/askTRP18/01/19 12:44 AM
2

No More Mr Nice Guy
/r/askTRP29/12/18 12:51 AM
1

Yes. Along with NMMNG and Rational Male.
/r/askTRP28/12/18 05:09 AM
1

When you described yourself, all you did was list a bunch of provider traits. That's going to attract women looking for a provider. But then you tell them you don't want to provide (have kids)... Your actions/words aren't congruent with your desires, which is a red flag. There are plenty of women that want to hook up with guys, with no intention of having children. I know a couple of guys that had vasectomies, and they are all drowning in pussy.
/r/askTRP25/12/18 08:26 PM
1

If they ghost you, never be the first to say hi if you bump into them somewhere. That's feeding their ego. Glance over them, and be indifferent.
/r/askTRP22/12/18 09:02 PM
1

It's curable. Man up and tell her.
/r/askTRP21/12/18 01:46 AM
4

Don't say stuff like that. It's a declaration, with an expectation that she reciprocates. Plus, if she doesn't know where you stand she will be more interested.
/r/askTRP21/12/18 01:19 AM
2

Also, you need to show that you choice to not drink isn't a big taboo. Chicks will shit test you on this to see if your frame is strong, especially because they are commonly conditioned to drink a lot. While I normally don't do bars, depending on the weather, availability of other venues, and their level of attraction for me (specifically if it's not really high yet), meeting at a bar is often the best bet for a first date. One way I have found to avoid "if you don't drink, why did you suggest w…
/r/askTRP21/12/18 01:15 AM
1

Without going into too much detail I'll just throw out date ideas that I've done. - mini golf - meet at a more upscale bar that offers cool apps like charcuterie trays etc,. in these places drinking isn't necessarily the main focus like most bars, and I'll just get a water or soda and lime. -just drove through the Christmas light display that Hershey Park puts up every year. -art galleries or showings -Museums -live music -local fairs or festivals -riverboat tour. This has been my ace card the p…
/r/askTRP21/12/18 12:58 AM
3

If there is sexual innuendo, yes.
/r/askTRP20/12/18 01:03 PM
3

I was having a lot of joint inflammation, which I originally attributed to having started BJJ. But then I noticed the joints that weren't necessarily injured were still inflamed when I was out a few weeks for a different injury. Carnivore solved the joint pain issues, got me extremely lean (even when not working out), and provided greater mental clarity in focus (I have ADHD, and have been a lot more productive with my business), and depression/anxiety. I also feel that it helped with my accepta…
/r/askTRP20/12/18 01:02 PM
12

5'10", fairly thin rn as I unwantedly lost weight when going carnivore.
/r/askTRP20/12/18 06:31 AM
2

From what I've seen here (Mid-Atlantic US), really attractive brown chicks only stay within their own culture if the guy is also good looking and making fuck you money. The exception being if they are right off the boat and really traditional. One generation here though and that drops off. Usually they're with good looking white guys making good money.
/r/askTRP20/12/18 05:30 AM
22

I don't drink. so the only time you'll see me in a bar or club is if a band I really like is playing, which isn't too often in my area. Nearly every woman I meet is a cold approach during the day. Within the past month, I've met women at the grocery store, mall, house parties, coffee shops, hiking. Once you really embrace and like who you are, you lighten up and realize that's okay to cold approach women in areas that aren't "pickup spots". Just like us, they like to flirt and fuck.
/r/askTRP20/12/18 05:24 AM
3

This. You need to remember you're doing all these things because it benefits you, not to impress others. Put another way. you can never win a game that you don't control the rules for, ie women will still branch swing. But what you can do is create your own game, which by default you will be very good at. Even "alphas" have women that will drop them bc a beyyer prospect comes along.
/r/askTRP20/12/18 05:17 AM
1

There really isn't any incentive for men to get married in this day and age. Years ago a"family man" was considered a stronger prospect for employment, but that isn't the case anymore. Marriage really only works in societies that enforce the marriage (usually more traditional and religious-based). If you're a man, even if your wife makes more than you, she'll likely still be given the role of primary parent, and therefore you're paying child support. My best friend is one of the few guys I know …
/r/askTRP20/12/18 04:49 AM
3

You're too invested. I've hooked up with quite a few women that have previously ghosted me. Before I was red pill, I used to take it personally when a chick would ghost, bc I invested time, etc. into her. With how we've been brainwashed into thinking, there's actually some entitlement that you should get something out of that investment. This is why you shouldn't over-invest, and ultimately why marriage is disastrous for men. You need to learn to not take it personally, bc awalt.
/r/askTRP20/12/18 04:32 AM
47

If approaching an attractive woman that's out in public feels creepy, you need to work on yourself more. There are only a handful of circumstances in which you shouldn't approach women e.g. doctor/patient
/r/askTRP20/12/18 04:25 AM
2

Hank Moody
/r/askTRP18/12/18 10:59 PM
3

"Simple like a cow" 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
/r/askTRP18/12/18 10:51 PM
1

I agree completely with the above. Setting small easy to achieve daily goals has helped me a lot bc they provide you with that shot of dopamine you need and the momentum to start tackling larger goals. I recommend reading up on different strategies to cope and take advantage of your ADHD. While there are many hindrances with it, there are also some positive benefits. Starting your own business once you're out of school is highly recommended, as it allows you to manipulate things to suit you and …
/r/askTRP18/12/18 04:15 PM
2

If they only want to socialize all social media, and set time aside to actually do things, don't invest much in them. Get outside, do things that you're interested in, and you'll find other people who aren't addicted to social media.
/r/askTRP17/12/18 01:29 AM
3

You need more social time, and you need to deepen your friendships. My whole life I kind of "cycled" through friends, usually made in relation to where I was working, every four to five years. The past few years I started realizing that while I had friends, I didn't have any close ones, or ones that I have remained (actively spend time with) friends with for a long time. I started making a conscious effort to reach out to my closest friends at least once or twice a week, even if it's just to tal…
/r/askTRP17/12/18 01:07 AM
1

Do you spend a lot of time hanging out with friends or family?
/r/askTRP17/12/18 12:55 AM
1

Read up about high dose Niacin (the flush kind).
/r/askTRP13/12/18 11:51 PM
1

The feeling you have is the fact that you now know your worldview has been wrong for years, due to conditioning by society. Something like that is upsetting, but don't worry about getting jaded or anything. You'll come to terms with it and accept it. Read No More Mr. Nice Guy as well.
/r/askTRP11/12/18 05:20 AM
2

What's wrong with acting on desire?
/r/askTRP11/12/18 05:11 AM
1

Lol, your post is literally all about trying to figure out if you should hide your wealth because you want a girl to like you for "you", and not your wealth. My comment about the one-time decision, is in regard to the fact that a woman can like "you" one day, and be completely indifferent the next or encounter Chad and blow him in his car. She isn't yours, it's just your turn.
/r/askTRP10/12/18 10:53 PM
2

I think you're putting the cart before the horse by approaching with the intent of sex or a date. When I approach, it's as a way to find out if I'm interested in them. Women know why you're talking to them, if anything, it comes off as weak disguising it. There isn't really a best way, because it's all situational. Obviously, if you get some eye contact and she sends IOIs, that's permission to come aboard. But, sometimes you have to do something to get their attention. I was doing some work on m…
/r/askTRP10/12/18 10:47 PM
3

You didn't end a great relationship, you ended a relationship in which she lost interest in you. You did the right thing. The reason you feel bad is explained by basic psychology. Our brains are wired to focus on positive things, because negative things are obviously bad. It's a self-defense mechanism. It's also why people get addicted to gambling. They focus so much on that how great it feels to win, regardless of the fact that they are engaging in a negative expected value game.
/r/askTRP10/12/18 09:34 PM
1

You wrote that you want them to like you for you, and not for your money. That is a beta mindset, because you are concerned with how they view you. Women don't make a one-time decision on whether or not they are attracted to you. A woman can be completely in love with you one minute, and not give a shit about you the following day because you may have done something that lowered your value in her eyes.
/r/askTRP10/12/18 09:29 PM
1

If you want to hang out with her, hang out with her and just maintain frame.
/r/askTRP10/12/18 09:11 PM
2

Remove social media apps from your phone, they create a facade of others' lives, and can make you resentful of yours. Plus, not spending time on social media means you have more time for yourself to pursue your passions.
/r/askTRP10/12/18 09:05 PM
32

Daily gratitude journal, scheduling and goal setting, waking up earlier than I used to, and each morning I actually think about what good things will happen in the upcoming day. That stuff may sound a bit corny, but it opens your eyes to the positive things which occur daily, instead of focusing on the negative.
/r/askTRP10/12/18 08:59 PM
3

Read or listen to no more mr nice guy, and Models. TRP is separate from "pick-up". In my opinion, TRP is more of a rationalization of how and why people behave the way they do. It also shows that developing yourself, for yourself, will attract others to you. Trp is a logical and truthful explanation of relationship dynamics.
/r/askTRP10/12/18 08:49 PM
10

You tell her you want time off, she starts talking to a guy, and you're mad at her for doing so? How did you not bring this upon yourself?
/r/askTRP07/12/18 05:48 PM
2

"Logic is absent where emotions reign"- perfectly stated.
/r/askTRP07/12/18 01:22 PM
2

A: you're only 25, some never take trp until they're in their 40s or 50s. B: you aren't the only person in the world whose life has had setbacks and they've had to rebuild. Some never rebuild. You need to change your perception of the above two things, and see them as positive and not negative.
/r/askTRP07/12/18 01:15 PM
12

Her parents are nice to you, because they want someone else to take care her, which she obviously cannot do herself.
/r/askTRP07/12/18 12:53 PM
1

Yes, although I think it normally falls on the length of the relationship and other factors.
/r/askTRP07/12/18 12:35 PM
2

Agree 100% with this. Once you factor in interest, taxes and repairs, many homes aren't much of an investment. Talk to an accountant, and work out what your financial goals are.
/r/askTRP07/12/18 04:44 AM
4

Smile, have fun, flirt. Women communicate differently from Men. For them, it's more about emotion and how you convey what you want to communicate, not what you say.
/r/askTRP06/12/18 01:35 AM
4

Well, for the most part it's not actually their fault, the whole scenario has been imposed by society. Men are BP, because they're raised on rom-coms, constantly under the heel of women during their adolescence (mother to school teacher). It's all laid out in no more mr. Nice guy. It sounds like you're still swallowing the pill. Once it comes full circle you won't have the resentment, and it's actually kind of a relief.
/r/askTRP06/12/18 01:25 AM
3

As a small business owner, who appreciates the hustle. That is a terrible market to get into, because it's already saturated. You will literally make more money working a part-time job, or a legal hustle, if you would actually sit down and tabulate the hours that you're investing.
/r/askTRP06/12/18 01:21 AM
3

I think what you outlined is a mature and well-thought-out plan, especially since you're college can be covered by the GI Bill. This will also be a good route to get away from your parents, given that you're having issues with them.
/r/askTRP06/12/18 01:17 AM
12

She just wants attention, and she's doing the bare minimum to get it from you. You aren't the only one getting pics of her.
/r/askTRP04/12/18 02:39 PM
22

If you understood attention whores, you would understand that the medium is the message. Soft next her
/r/askTRP04/12/18 01:20 PM
2

I would talk to an attorney and press the police so they prosecute her for the false claim
/r/askTRP04/12/18 01:15 PM
72

Plow his mom
/r/askTRP04/12/18 04:54 AM
3

Write out your daily goals every morning
/r/askTRP04/12/18 12:16 AM
1

I don't know the climate of where you live, but if I were in your situation I'd lean toward wearing ocbd, casual button down shirts, henleys, tshirts of bands, chinos and jeans. Also, unless at a formal event, roll up your sleeves. It makes you more approachable, and lets you show off your forearms.
/r/askTRP03/12/18 11:58 PM
1

You mentioned you like dressing well, but what you described sounds like you might be dressed up (overdressed for the situation). When I think of dressing well, I put it in the context of where I'm going, and what I'm doing. For instance, I'm a 35y/o small business owner (pressure washing). My closet has the following, in order from dressiest to most casual. Black suit, gray suit, navy Blazer, made-to-measure dress shirts (not button collar), wool pants, navy cardigan, v-neck sweaters, chinos, o…
/r/askTRP03/12/18 11:46 PM
2

If money was tight for me, I would do calisthenics (of which there can be many difficult variations), and then find something to deadlift or push a car.
/r/askTRP03/12/18 11:04 PM
1

Have you had vitamin levels checked, especially vitamin d? I had some pretty bad depression for nearly a decade, and switching to a carnivore diet helped greatly.
/r/askTRP03/12/18 10:54 PM
1

What do you think a woman would find more attractive? A guy who dresses like a slob and doesn't work out, or a guy that uses a cane, holds his head up, dresses well, and works out.
/r/askTRP03/12/18 10:35 PM
1

In my 20s, I was completely oblivious to game, leading the interaction etc. But, I was a police officer, and that is massive social proof, even for someone who didn't go to bars or party much. If you wear a uniform and gun at work, women will throw themselves at you. It's a good thing they did because I was clueless otherwise lol
/r/askTRP03/12/18 10:22 PM
2

Just listen to the audio version of it when you're driving, and you don't actually have any time invested.
/r/askTRP03/12/18 10:05 PM
1

You're only 20. Set some time aside now to work on yourself, you have years ahead of you to snake women.
/r/askTRP03/12/18 09:51 PM
3

If I were in your situation, I'd get some blood work done to look for any deficiencies. If things come back okay I would then start to explore a better diet to reduce inflammation and lesson the depressive symptoms.
/r/askTRP03/12/18 09:38 PM
1

Have you ever been tested to see if you have ADHD? One common trait is to constantly seek novelty, such as picking up and getting engrossed in a new hobby, but then losing all interest, or getting distracted by something else. I'm 35, and just found out earlier this year that I have it lol. There podcasts and books that offer strategies to work around or with it. Medication may be an option as well, but I can't provide any insight on that.
/r/askTRP03/12/18 01:55 AM
1

Yep, the longer you stay away from it, the better your erections get.
/r/askTRP03/12/18 01:42 AM
1

There are a ton of exercise you can do that do not involve arms, like squat and lunge variations. I have no knowledge of guitar related tendinosis specifically, but if you have an inflammation issue, prednisone should be helping. You may want to speak to a physiotherapist or chiropractor. It's possible you don't actually have tendinosis. A pinched nerve could bring on symptoms like tendinosis, and can be corrected with physical therapy. If you are having depressive or suicidal thoughts, you need…
/r/askTRP03/12/18 01:25 AM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

© TheRedArchive 2026. All rights reserved.
created by /u/dream-hunter