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| 1 | The bald mans handicapLol he might be 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/23 10:14 PM |
| 13 | Are women actually attracted to toxic men?They say you attract more bees with honey than vinegar Well “toxic” traits tend to be honey to young women. Being nice kind and thoughtful isn’t bad for a man but it’s not viscerally attractive unless you’re already attractive physically | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/23 01:30 PM |
| 5 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadYea that’s what I’m saying. Something about penetration causes disgust in women so all I’m saying is when I read these n count discussions I laugh because I know for a fact of their boyfriends came out and said “One time I got fucked by a guy and I liked it” they would have a conniption | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/22 04:46 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadLol I’m just philosophizing I have 0 interest in trying to convince anyone of anything | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/22 04:45 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadAre men disgusted by lesbians? Are women disgusted by lesbians? Lesbian women even date bi women (though sometimes they hate the idea of bi women being bi but I can’t go too deep into that). The disgust factor that both sides feel seems to come down to dick and sleeping with someone that has a dick. I understand what you’re saying but it’s not just because I like men too I have been asked if I was there one taking or receiving because to them that would actually make a difference lmao It’s just … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/22 04:44 PM |
| 3 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI guess that’s fair but the likelihood of that happening would be low anyways but I get it. I’d love to be honest because that’s my policy and all but if I feel like the woman is being lowkey a bigot I just play along as if I’m straight because well TECHNICALLY I am and can be I’m content being in a monogamous relationship with a woman | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/22 04:40 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI’ve had one ask me “Well were you the one giving or taking?” 😂🤣 Like….it’s worse because I’m the receiver? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/22 04:38 PM |
| 4 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadOh it’s perfectly fine I’m actually in an open relationship with a bi poly woman that I met on Hinge lol we clicked right away it was great | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/22 04:37 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadBecause I’m bi….? Why is there an inherent disgust with taking dick when I also like pussy but these same women get mad at straight men when they complain about the amount dicks they take? 🤣 So I guess it goes…. Men: Taking one dick is one too many Women: Okay you’ve taken 50 dicks that’s a little too much for me Then the man gets accused of being insecure | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/22 04:35 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadWhy would sides who takes dick be repulsed by someone else that takes dick when I also like pussy? 🤔 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/22 04:33 PM |
| 3 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadYes being a bottom is associated with being a slut and feminine and soft but funny thing is that when I’m with women I’ve very dominant and assertive in bed so most wouldn’t have a clue that I’m bi at all haha Appreciate you though | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/22 04:32 PM |
| 5 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadWhat do you mean by nasty surprises? Me sleeping with men isn’t dirtier than women sleeping with men imo | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/22 04:30 PM |
| 4 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadToo often lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/22 04:29 PM |
| 10 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadAs a bi guy I have to admit that the n count debates resonates with me me the most but for different reasons Like I wish I could be honest with women and tell them that I’m bi and not only that but I’m a bottom so I enjoy taking dick but most women would think that I have the bubonic plague or something lol they’d never go for it. But these are the same women that turn around and say “Why should my n count matter?” To straight men that care about it. Like okay then why does MY n count matter? 🤷🏾… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/22 04:17 PM |
| 0 | Behind every redpilled/blackpilled man, there's at least one woman who made him soWhile your story may be sympathetic and I do agree with TRP saying that women are a “red pill dispensary” I do have to say that some men kind of delude themselves about female nature far too much. Across different demographics no matter your race or class women will be women and men will be men. I do feel for the men that “wake up” to female nature around college age and up but I don’t have much sympathy for them lol it’s like a lot of them are usually petrified of approaching women and being ar… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/22 04:07 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI wish that was the problem. The girl was 23 and the guy was 27 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/22 10:40 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI made a thread before about the pros and cons of dating both and it started a war 🤣 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/22 10:40 PM |
| 2 | As a guy you should never tell women your intentions directly.When it comes to dating women it’s best to state your intentions AFTER you’ve slept with her. Because at least you truly know she likes you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/22 09:44 PM |
| 3 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadLol I’m a guy I just have porn in the interim | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/22 09:36 PM |
| 22 | Most promiscuous people outgrow itThe issue is I’ve seen several men on TRP talk about women who didn’t treat them well at all because monogamous minded women are more about security, stability, and resources but the desire to truly be with their man isn’t there. So in essence the older “more calm” women treated their younger wild day flings better than their own husbands. I think it’s fair to say that no man wants to be in that position, especially a man that didn’t get to “sow his wild oats.” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/22 09:35 PM |
| 3 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadSaddest thing I’ve had to accept was that neither gender can keep up with my sex drive Last weekend I slept with a woman I’ve been dating and I ate her out until she came and we went one round. Then I ate her out again and she turned over and passed out I was like oh no wait I didn’t get to cum yet 😭 Next day I hooked with a guy and he was done after he came once after I gave him head he took a nap on my couch I was like what’s happening 😩 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/22 09:28 PM |
| 1 | If you want women to give more nice guys a chance, won’t that get expensive for women who split the bill?Lol all I’ll say is that I’m bi and men ask me out but don’t insist on paying but the women I’ve dated wanted me to pay | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/22 09:04 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI think it’s the post nut clarity getting to them 🤣 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/10/22 05:20 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadWomen have to play a different game like some men do who aren’t physically stronger or have martial might | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/10/22 05:19 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI get it and I honestly don’t consider my height a handicap for instance because I’ve still gotten what I want out of dating both sexes since I’m Bi Not to brag but dating men is infinitely easier and I can have pretty any gay man I want and we both know why. Though I’m only attracted to the kinds of men most women would ignore (average, chubby, nerdy/dorky) and they are always shocked that someone as “sexy as me” is crazy about them but that’s a different story With women I’ve found as long as … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/10/22 05:16 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI’m black too and I consider both my height and my race a core part of me because it has affected my entire frame of reference And I never “suffered” dating women or men I’ve been just fine in spite of only being 5’4. That’s like saying are you okay with breeding out black people in America since we have lots of issues here | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/10/22 05:00 PM |
| 92 | What's the male equivalent of a promiscuous woman?The opposite. Being a virgin past a certain age. It’s quite funny actually if you run this experiment yourself. They won’t believe you at all, then they’ll wonder if there’s something wrong with you, after you insist that you’re one then they will slow fade away like a leaf in the wind. Unfortunately for men it’s the kiss of death lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/10/22 04:50 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadThank you what a silly question haha 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/10/22 04:42 PM |
| 0 | What value does a man bring to a modern relationship?Well I literally don’t know a woman in my entire life that hasn’t relied on a man to work more and make more money than them to help support them. Not my mom, sisters, aunties, friends (countless female friends) hell even my female friend’s FWBs make more than double than she did. In fact, he decided to randomly quit his job just to loaf around because he had more money saved up than she makes a year and she was bragging about that. No matter what women will always want men to support them first… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/22 02:22 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadMy “Chad” moments have always involved my exes hooking up with me while in a relationship with someone else | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/22 01:22 PM |
| 3 | do women go sexless like men, or will she always find someone to have sex with?I don’t think that they’re playas I think that if they have a guy in their life that they’re compatible with in bed from their past (like known them for years) then they will keep him around until they’re in an official relationship Most men can’t have harems. As in women he is actively sleeping with. That’s rare. He may be pursuing multiple women but that’s the best they can do And trust me the men are usually top tier in something the average man can’t and won’t be able to sleep with 2-3 or mo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/22 08:38 PM |
| 5 | do women go sexless like men, or will she always find someone to have sex with?Yes with other men Well my point is that usually they’re the same kind of man Usually it’s a man they have history with. They can vary in attractiveness though they wouldn’t be my type because the men I find attractive would be men that most women wouldn’t look twice at (doesn’t mean they’re ugly just unremarkable) Think more of a Noah Guthrie from Glee It’s more about the fact that women can exercise options in ways men can’t is all. A woman can pick and choose to keep a man around for sex or w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/22 05:54 PM |
| 7 | do women go sexless like men, or will she always find someone to have sex with?In my experience women go sexless by choice. I’m bi and I date women and men, and you can tell the difference between a men saying he’s single and a woman saying she’s single. When I date a man and he says he’s single, that usually means he has little to no prospects. No not a FWB that he could call, no not a past fling on speed dial, or an ex that he occasionally hooks up with, it n means his phone is dry and he’s looking (though it’s not always the case). When I date women it’s safer to assume… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/22 05:10 PM |
| 2 | When it comes to men's fortunes in dating.....the few, CONSTANTLY ruin it for the many......But many women sleep with men without knowing or caring about the man in questions extracurricular exploits. Dennis Rader, the BTK serial killer was married with kids. His wife didn’t know what he was doing. Ted Bundy was dating a single mom before being put on trial and married a woman and that had his daughter while on trial. Yes broken women exist but they’re not matching up one too one with broken men. There’s not enough to go around for that. The good women are also sleeping with these depl… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/22 12:19 AM |
| 1 | When it comes to men's fortunes in dating.....the few, CONSTANTLY ruin it for the many......But the men that do some deplorable stuff never seem to rub out of women to sleep with and do deplorable stuff to? 🤷🏾 Can anyone please explain to men that aren’t successful (not me btw because I am) with women why they should care? Honest question or I can make my own topic about this. Inquiring minds want to know. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/22 11:49 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadRight? 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/22 09:36 PM |
| 7 | The only type of people who care about “body count” are those who never would have the opportunity to raise their own.Men don’t talk about the same things around women that they would around other men. Ever. So you’ll never know the truth sorry | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/22 08:12 PM |
| 0 | Why do many women no longer desire sex after marriage?Your source was debunked? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/22 07:34 PM |
| -1 | Why do many women no longer desire sex after marriage?I’ve done worse and never had issues having sex in relationships 🤷🏾 I think if you want an excuse you’ll find one no matter what he does | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/22 07:26 PM |
| 9 | How the Red Pill indoctrinates young men and dismissing the " reasons " to not engage with women who were promiscuous in the past.I read another user ask “If women are expected to look after their own best interests and men are expected to look after womens best interests then who will look after mens?” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/22 06:58 PM |
| 4 | How the Red Pill indoctrinates young men and dismissing the " reasons " to not engage with women who were promiscuous in the past.4) You just defeated your own argument. Since it’s up to no one to decide what’s sacred then who cares if some men don’t like high n count women for various reasons if it’s based on the individual? 5) Lol any proof of these claims? 6) Women aren’t lining up to sleep with virgin men. So again, that’s your answer. Women control the SMP because they are the selectors. Men who can’t get women don’t dictate who women choose to sleep with because they can’t get women to sleep with them in the first pl… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/22 06:47 PM |
| 4 | Manosphere icons like Patrice O’Neal and Andrew tate are highly overratedIt’s because there’s no cookie cutter way to attract women and we all have to find what works best for us Kino and teasing always works though and should be staples | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/22 05:57 PM |
| 12 | How the Red Pill indoctrinates young men and dismissing the " reasons " to not engage with women who were promiscuous in the past.2) Baggage is something nobody wants and women don’t want mens baggage either 3) Okay 4) It gives certain men pause who want women with the same beliefs as them. Believe it or not but not every man wants to have casual sex and they want a partner that sees sex as something sacred. Sex can’t be sacred to someone with a high n count. 5) There is no “patriarchy” and nobody says it’s not masculine lol of a high n man got with a high n women literally nobody would know or care 6) Women aren’t expecte… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/22 05:36 PM |
| 2 | Manosphere icons like Patrice O’Neal and Andrew tate are highly overratedHard to convey but I make jokes and I’m very touchy feely so I will touch their hands, caress their shoulders, etc and apply kino. I go out to brunch and coffee with them, etc. I basically treat them like how their girlfriends treat them except I also make it known that I’m attracted to them | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/22 05:28 PM |
| 3 | Here's an experiment: have the profile of the opposite gender in dating apps.Yea idk what he’s talking about I’m Bi I date men and I was sexually assaulted once as a child and again as a young adult by men and I’m a smaller guy (5’4) that can be easily over powered by most men and I still don’t have the irrational fear he has 🤷🏾 Sounds like misandry to me | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/22 05:20 PM |
| 2 | Manosphere icons like Patrice O’Neal and Andrew tate are highly overrated1) I’m okay nothing crazy 2) U.S. 3) All of my exes would be women that PPD men would kill to date to be honest with you but I am very in touch with my feminine side so my “game” is different | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/22 05:13 PM |
| 1 | Manosphere icons like Patrice O’Neal and Andrew tate are highly overratedI’m 5’4 and I get women just fine 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/22 05:08 PM |
| 13 | CMV, Relationships aren't as difficult as so many people make them out to be.The difficulty is in barriers to communications and past trauma and baggage. Sometimes they aren’t talking to you, they’re talking to the last person they dated that they didn’t get along with and are projecting their failures and faults onto you. I personally do not like the idea of paying for other peoples mistakes. In my experience as a bi man, women will make you pay for what other men did wrong to them. Men won’t do that (obviously there’s other issues) so when it comes to what I’m willing … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/22 05:07 PM |
| 2 | If a woman isn’t interested in you within the first few minutes, just never botherIt’s true that you can’t focus on women who aren’t trying hard to at least get with you in person or move mountains to make it happen. Though I would suggest to also learn how to play the long game as well because you’ll reap the rewards in the back end. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/22 11:38 PM |
| 3 | Where did the ‘nice guy phenomenon come from?I’m sorry you went through that. Truly. I hope things turn around for you for the better. It sounds like you did all the right things and unfortunately didn’t get any positive reinforcement for it and that sucks. It truly does. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/22 11:35 PM |
| 2 | I want to understand why guys complain about women yet gay guys don’t complain about each other?Actually women abuse men in relationships at very similar rates it’s dangerous to suggest that women aren’t involved in DV disputes | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/22 11:33 PM |
| 0 | What’s it like to be born hot and remain throughout childhood then losing it in your 20s letting yourself go?Lol he’s not far off | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/22 11:26 AM |
| 1 | A lot of men's frustration and envy towards the opposite sex comes from how they think every female is that attractive Stacy that rejected them in high schoolInitiate, plan dates, be on their best, pay for dates, ensure that the woman has a fun time, etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/22 12:05 AM |
| 5 | A lot of men's frustration and envy towards the opposite sex comes from how they think every female is that attractive Stacy that rejected them in high schoolI think a lot of men here would love to have any woman interested in them lol not saying because they’re below average but it’s not something that happens too often | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/22 12:02 AM |
| 12 | A lot of men's frustration and envy towards the opposite sex comes from how they think every female is that attractive Stacy that rejected them in high schoolI don’t think so honestly. I’ve found that it’s due to the disproportionate amount of effort they have to spend for even the non-Stacy. But the same non-Stacy would make it easier for a more attractive guy. Men don’t really have unreasonable standards especially average men. The frustrated ones just don’t like how hard they have work for the average women they’ve tried or been rejected by. At least that’s what I’ve seen on Reddit | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/22 08:53 PM |
| 1 | Women who go for hot men and get pumped dumped and average men who get rejected by most women are the sameBecause of r/deadbedroom I imagine | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/22 07:17 PM |
| 0 | Q4M: what do you mean by submission?When she’s really into you she’ll love to do whatever it takes to make you happy in my experience. She’ll put you in high esteem. That’s the nature of submission. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/22 05:59 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadYea exactly! They’re either super shy or just “too cool for school” types I’ve actually tried it but most of the ones around me are older or bottoms ugh the scene is so soft nowadays 🤣 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/22 05:51 PM |
| 4 | Women’s main mating strategies are embarrassingI think what you’re saying is that men take issue with women who carry the baggage of their past relationships with them to other men, which I agree isn’t healthy at all. No man should pay the price for what another man did to her. But you can always refuse lol it’s not like you don’t have options. If you don’t then work to get more. If you feel cheated for missing out on fun when you were young then do it when you’re older it’s okay My mom was stuck with my dad for 17 years from age 20 to 37 ra… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/22 05:30 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadThat’s possible! I notice I tend to run into the “oblivious” types and they’re just so terrified to make a move and be assertive and then my attraction just nosedives lol if I have to make the move first then spell out what I want then that takes the fun away for me With women I love being assertive and dominant though | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/22 05:24 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadNot even close lol my ideal is similar to Noah Guthrie on Glee but I have a lot of variance to it But it’s hard to encounter a guy like that with some game to him and doesn’t want me to pretty much trip on my own two feet to chase him which kind of ruins it haha It’s like if I wanna chase so hard then I might as well be dating women sheesh 🙄 I guess that’s because those types don’t get shown a lot of interest though | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/22 05:19 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadSo I’m bi and I have a preference for women (like 80:20) but I’ve found that the men I tend to be attracted to (a lil bigger/chubbier, softer facial features, “beta” appearance) unfortunately tend not to match up with the personality type that I crave (assertive, dominant, flirtatious). Its so sad too cause all I ask is for them to have some kind of game but they just don’t and it’s a huge turn off. It’s like trying to find a unicorn lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/22 05:01 PM |
| 2 | The biggest issues I find in LTRs with both genders is that Men tend to be inconsistent with their effort and Women tend to be too volatileI didn’t put the onus on her but it’s funny how you didn’t say that she put the onus on me. You ignored me saying that it’s about HOW it’s done for the third time and expect me to read through what you’re saying in good faith….? 😬 I explained it in the OP and over and over again. I’m actually tired of being asked by some women here why men retreat within themselves when it’s been explained already lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/12/21 05:13 AM |
| 3 | The biggest issues I find in LTRs with both genders is that Men tend to be inconsistent with their effort and Women tend to be too volatileI’m saying all it took was a little more maturity. Obviously it would have reared its ugly head later but that’s not an indictment against grand gestures and you’re speaking in hindsight because you knew it didn’t work already because I told you it didn’t. Me, at the time, never saw her act out like that. Ever. That’s the equivalent of saying that a woman that gets beat for the first time should have known it was coming the day before when things were a little rough but not near abusive territor… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/12/21 05:07 AM |
| 3 | The biggest issues I find in LTRs with both genders is that Men tend to be inconsistent with their effort and Women tend to be too volatileThe term emotional labor really needs to die. What you mean to say is, being willing to put your partners emotional needs ahead of your own trusting that they will do the same for you. If you’re cannot handle that then that’s a different story. I don’t mean you as in literally you either. No, it’s how it’s done. You literally skipped over me capitalizing the word HOW 😐. Just…be mature about it lol that’s all you have to do. It goes both ways. The woman can’t do something as simple as bother to c… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/12/21 04:50 AM |
| 3 | The biggest issues I find in LTRs with both genders is that Men tend to be inconsistent with their effort and Women tend to be too volatileYou’re reading the entire situation wrong. The monotony of our relationship isn’t neglecting emotional needs or being numb to life and to the people around you, it’s feeling the pressure of work and life and being stuck in a rut. That happens. I dealt with it constructively by comparison to my ex. She blamed me solely for her unhappiness and that wasn’t fair. She didn’t approach me to ask me how things were. She didn’t give me a status update. She called me all kinds of names, and acted juvenile… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/12/21 03:54 AM |
| 3 | The biggest issues I find in LTRs with both genders is that Men tend to be inconsistent with their effort and Women tend to be too volatileYou’re not being fair to the men in the situation. You’re implying that the women do everything right and men are the ones responsible for the rough patch when both parties have a role to play. The point of this entire post was to show the ways both genders contribute to it in my point of view through my experiences and observations. You’re not arguing in good faith, quite the opposite actually. Women have a hard time checking up on the mental and emotional well-being of their man. Even now it p… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/12/21 03:44 AM |
| 3 | The biggest issues I find in LTRs with both genders is that Men tend to be inconsistent with their effort and Women tend to be too volatileThe vacation was to provide a reset. It’s not fair to expect your partner to provide indefinite good feelings day in and day out. Not only is that dehumanizing and selfish it means that your partner only exists in relation to how long he or she can make you feel good. That’s not fair. They’re their own person with their own struggles and pitfalls and shortcomings. You need to fully love and accept them for that and risk not having your way when you want to. You do it and trust that when you’re d… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/12/21 03:01 AM |
| 4 | The biggest issues I find in LTRs with both genders is that Men tend to be inconsistent with their effort and Women tend to be too volatileAlthough what you’re asking for isn’t unreasonable in spirit let’s step into the realm of men for a second. No matter how bad a man feels he’s still expected to work and provide. Most women don’t validate their s/o for that by providing emotional support. Yet when he hits a rough patch, there isn’t enough women with the maturity to take a step OUTSIDE OF HERSELF and say “Okay, up to this point the mortgage has been consistently paid for, the light Bill has been paid, the water bill has been paid… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/12/21 02:58 AM |
| 1 | The biggest issues I find in LTRs with both genders is that Men tend to be inconsistent with their effort and Women tend to be too volatileThank you that’s exactly where I was going with it. He literally described the symptoms of depression and he’s saying someone being depressed means that they just don’t like you lol that’s not realistic at all | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/12/21 02:25 AM |
| 3 | The biggest issues I find in LTRs with both genders is that Men tend to be inconsistent with their effort and Women tend to be too volatileI don’t even know what FDS is 🤣 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/12/21 02:22 AM |
| 1 | The biggest issues I find in LTRs with both genders is that Men tend to be inconsistent with their effort and Women tend to be too volatile1) That’s fair 2) There’s a bit of a nuance to this though. I completely agree that not texting someone for months isn’t the norm. I get it. I’m not advising women to hold on to hope after 6 months of chasing Casper. I’m more saying if it’s been a bit rough with communication here and there, and things are becoming monotonous and mundane and start to teeter a bit, it’s not the end of the world. That’s not a sign that a man doesn’t really like you. It’s not realistic to say that if he liked you t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/12/21 02:20 AM |
| 1 | The biggest issues I find in LTRs with both genders is that Men tend to be inconsistent with their effort and Women tend to be too volatileI definitely sympathize but men can be sensitive to tone sometimes too. Some women don’t fight fair and come off as very “what have you done for me lately” to their s/o. Obviously have some boundaries but express them in a constructive way don’t nuke the relationship. In my example I kindly told him that the problem isn’t that he was going through a tough time, it’s the fact that he straight up ghosted me for months. That’s not acceptable. That’s an extreme case though that no one should put up … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/12/21 02:11 AM |
| 3 | The biggest issues I find in LTRs with both genders is that Men tend to be inconsistent with their effort and Women tend to be too volatileI sympathize completely but that’s the risk you take. You have to trust that your partner will hear you, you have to trust that your partner will be there for you even if she slips up from time to time, and you have to be okay with things not going your way from time to time no matter how hard or painful it is to open up because you trust that your partner will accommodate your emotional needs. And finally you have to believe that you have the strength to walk away and that you will be okay if a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/21 09:30 PM |
| -1 | The biggest issues I find in LTRs with both genders is that Men tend to be inconsistent with their effort and Women tend to be too volatileYou’re not being fair by framing it solely on the man. I acknowledged where men can fail but you refuse to even consider where women can, will and do fall short. Until you’re ready to be honest about both sides I’m afraid that only therapy can mend you. Accountability is hard for everyone. If you believe women are infallible then you don’t see men as human, only as utility in service of your needs. Women sometimes don’t even know how to ask the right way. They blame and accuse and the man will s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/21 09:18 PM |
| 2 | The biggest issues I find in LTRs with both genders is that Men tend to be inconsistent with their effort and Women tend to be too volatileEverything is subjective your experiences aren’t indicative of the whole either lol this is just what I’ve experienced | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/21 08:02 PM |
| 1 | The biggest issues I find in LTRs with both genders is that Men tend to be inconsistent with their effort and Women tend to be too volatileNo but let’s be fair though, every man isn’t neglectful and maybe he is for a reason? You have to be willing to entertain that idea that you somehow someway have failed to show him the warmth that he seeks. Women do tend to speak up first, but that doesn’t mean you never did anything wrong either. Women also tend to blame their unhappiness on external circumstances and put the onus on their partners and that’s dehumanizing. That’s why I said men don’t exist to validate women. He’s not there to m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/21 08:01 PM |
| 3 | The biggest issues I find in LTRs with both genders is that Men tend to be inconsistent with their effort and Women tend to be too volatileMen are less likely to tell you that you’re unhappy. Just because he doesn’t say it, doesn’t mean it isn’t true. Men do need to take onus on communicating that however if they feel as if their partner hasn’t shown them the patience to receive that then women need to learn to wait their turn too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/21 07:55 PM |
| 4 | The biggest issues I find in LTRs with both genders is that Men tend to be inconsistent with their effort and Women tend to be too volatileI’m happy for you truly I know you’ve been hurt before I can feel it and I don’t want to undermine your experiences but you have to be fair too. Some of your arguments insinuate far too much out of something simple. It’s catastrophic thinking. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/21 07:52 PM |
| 3 | The biggest issues I find in LTRs with both genders is that Men tend to be inconsistent with their effort and Women tend to be too volatileObviously not lol nothing in his comment even insinuated that. You’re chasing ghosts. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/21 07:51 PM |
| 5 | The biggest issues I find in LTRs with both genders is that Men tend to be inconsistent with their effort and Women tend to be too volatileThank you she’s been bitter all day haha it honestly breaks my heart but only therapy can mend her wounds. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/21 07:47 PM |
| 2 | The biggest issues I find in LTRs with both genders is that Men tend to be inconsistent with their effort and Women tend to be too volatileYou asked me if he was looking for a mommy while he disassociates which you got from thin air but I’m the one replying to the wrong person? 😐 He admitted that his thinking is more present based and women tend to be more forward thinking due to having a biological clock. Honestly you’re looking for reasons to not have to trust. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/21 07:41 PM |
| 3 | The biggest issues I find in LTRs with both genders is that Men tend to be inconsistent with their effort and Women tend to be too volatileThey both go hand and hand but sometimes a man will want sex because he’s not getting much else anyways. Men aren’t women with dicks. We will separate liking you with sleeping with you. That’s the truth. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/21 07:38 PM |
| 6 | The biggest issues I find in LTRs with both genders is that Men tend to be inconsistent with their effort and Women tend to be too volatileIf you’re looking for your partner to make you feel good for existing every day then you need therapy. If you expect your partner to be validate you on a consistent basis, or you consistently validate your effort, then you need therapy. Because no one can do that and there’s no way that you’ve done that for him either. At some point you have to do more than just mop the floor. If you’re finding excuses to not meet your man in the middle then you’re not ready for anything serious. That’s the bott… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/21 07:23 PM |
| 3 | The biggest issues I find in LTRs with both genders is that Men tend to be inconsistent with their effort and Women tend to be too volatileThey feed into each other. If a woman is volatile and demanding and infantile then of course his effort will be inconsistent. He’s being emotionally abused pretty much and if a woman is too immature to voice her discontent without acting out then that’s a problem. You have to be fair. Be realistic. Your partner doesn’t exist to be your constant validation machine. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/21 07:20 PM |
| 5 | The biggest issues I find in LTRs with both genders is that Men tend to be inconsistent with their effort and Women tend to be too volatileSex takes attention and effort too. Do you expect an asexual partner? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/21 07:16 PM |
| 3 | The biggest issues I find in LTRs with both genders is that Men tend to be inconsistent with their effort and Women tend to be too volatileNo no no sex is very important let’s not downplay it. Anyone, man or woman, should leave if it comes to a sudden stop and it can’t be corrected. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/21 06:51 PM |
| 6 | The biggest issues I find in LTRs with both genders is that Men tend to be inconsistent with their effort and Women tend to be too volatileYou’re not being fair again. If you’re looking for someone to be your validation slave then you’re in the wrong market. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/21 06:50 PM |
| 6 | The biggest issues I find in LTRs with both genders is that Men tend to be inconsistent with their effort and Women tend to be too volatileYou’re not being fair right now and you’re insinuating that overthinking is somehow helpful or preferable. He’s saying he tends to be more present in the moment and less anxious about the future. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/21 06:39 PM |
| 8 | The biggest issues I find in LTRs with both genders is that Men tend to be inconsistent with their effort and Women tend to be too volatileIn the same breath you have to be fair and recognize the effort he’s putting in too. It’s disingenuous to say that he’s doing nothing at all because he could feel the same about you. You might have to do more than just mop the floor because it’s not like he stopped paying the bills. He didn’t stop working overnight. He didnt stop paying for what you need. Be mature enough to acknowledge that. Blaming the man solely for the valley is immature and unreasonable. Be accountable for your part in it t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/21 06:23 PM |
| 3 | The biggest issues I find in LTRs with both genders is that Men tend to be inconsistent with their effort and Women tend to be too volatileSorry I’m debating like 5 people lol I just would rather the men reply with “Here’s what I need to do better” and Women with the same thing or they can challenge but at least be accountable is all. I don’t want to make myself seem like a saint either don’t get my wrong I had to learn to open up but also in a constructive way I used to blame and not fight fair either then go cold. In essence I used to overreact and then brush it off like it’s all good haha I must have seemed bipolar | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/21 06:13 PM |
| 2 | The biggest issues I find in LTRs with both genders is that Men tend to be inconsistent with their effort and Women tend to be too volatileLmao don’t do that 🙄😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/21 06:07 PM |
| 1 | The biggest issues I find in LTRs with both genders is that Men tend to be inconsistent with their effort and Women tend to be too volatileI agree men need to learn how to communicate their feelings in a way that makes them feel comfortable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/21 05:58 PM |
| 3 | The biggest issues I find in LTRs with both genders is that Men tend to be inconsistent with their effort and Women tend to be too volatileRisk assessment is key definitely but again you have to be willing to put yourself out there | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/21 05:56 PM |
| 9 | The biggest issues I find in LTRs with both genders is that Men tend to be inconsistent with their effort and Women tend to be too volatileNo I’m saying don’t nuke a LTR just because things are hard. That’s entitlement talking and it’s dehumanizing. Your partner doesn’t exist to make you feel good 24/7. Obviously if your rough patch is 3 years maybe talk it out lol like jeez have some semblance of a backbone but don’t be ready to jump ship at the first sign of trouble either. But it’s telling how you’re not saying what you can do better to communicate to a man during down times how to get him to open up or to show your support. Con… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/21 05:55 PM |
| 5 | The biggest issues I find in LTRs with both genders is that Men tend to be inconsistent with their effort and Women tend to be too volatileOh no trust me I get it. I’m not saying that you’re wrong because I’m a man and I’ve been in “convenient” LTRs where I never planned on going pass a certain point. It was just nice and easy and comfortable. With that said, some guys can like you but just suck at communicating too. They get stressed and taper off but don’t say anything. They just expect you to be there lol but I get it though. You’re saying that pretty much men never slip up when they like you. That’s just not true. You can love … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/21 05:45 PM |
| 9 | The biggest issues I find in LTRs with both genders is that Men tend to be inconsistent with their effort and Women tend to be too volatileThere’s nuance though. But all that aside let’s be honest. You have to be willing to be hurt. If you’re not, then you’re not ready. You have to be willing to compromise. If you’re not, then you’re not ready. You have to be willing to be assertive without alienating or blaming your partner for not being exactly what you want when you want it. It’s unrealistic and dehumanizing. And finally, you have to be willing to be okay with things not working. You can do everything “right” and still not get w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/21 05:36 PM |
| 5 | The biggest issues I find in LTRs with both genders is that Men tend to be inconsistent with their effort and Women tend to be too volatileSome people have temperaments, mannerisms, and moods that better reflect your own. It’s easy to say “My friend Casey just gets me I wish my man got me like she did.” Either you’re willing to risk getting hurt, or you’re not. It’s just that simple. Go to therapy if that’s what it takes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/21 05:30 PM |
| 5 | The biggest issues I find in LTRs with both genders is that Men tend to be inconsistent with their effort and Women tend to be too volatileIt’s the tapering off that’s the problem. You could live with a man and he’ll taper off emotionally and feel more distant for a time and never communicate what he’s going through. You try to check up on him and he’s like “I’m okay” but the energy isn’t the same. The effort to keep you informed isn’t there. Then when you finally say “Hey, I get you must be having a hard time but tell me what’s going on because going silent for days or weeks isn’t normal,” and it’s “Okay all this happened and I ju… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/21 05:17 PM |
| 6 | The biggest issues I find in LTRs with both genders is that Men tend to be inconsistent with their effort and Women tend to be too volatileTrust me I get it. I’m naturally in touch with my “feminine” side but only to a point. I don’t like expressing myself and gushing because it’s just like ew it seems so fake haha. I’m like if I do it too often it won’t mean as much ya know? There’s a balanced point that you have to learn to navigate for yourself. And be secure in knowing that you’ll be okay if you open up and get hurt. It’s all apart of the process. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/21 05:11 PM |
| 11 | The biggest issues I find in LTRs with both genders is that Men tend to be inconsistent with their effort and Women tend to be too volatileThis is the all or nothing thinking women need to avoid. Truth of the matter is that too often women aren’t willing to be as demanding to meet their man’s emotional needs over their own. And it isn’t “Well I cook and clean every day.” That’s nice but do you check up on him and say “Babe how are you doing?” Even if he seems fine? Don’t over think it and don’t project what you would want onto him. Be as hard as an advocate for him as you are for yourself and trust that he will return the same ener… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/21 05:08 PM |
| 4 | The biggest issues I find in LTRs with both genders is that Men tend to be inconsistent with their effort and Women tend to be too volatileWhat you cant accept is concession with risk of not getting what you want in return. Its easy to rely on people who operate within your comfort zone. Just be honest with yourself about it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/21 04:57 PM |
| 2 | The biggest issues I find in LTRs with both genders is that Men tend to be inconsistent with their effort and Women tend to be too volatileExactly | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/21 04:54 PM |
| 1 | The biggest issues I find in LTRs with both genders is that Men tend to be inconsistent with their effort and Women tend to be too volatileAwh I'm sorry to hear that but its a lesson to learn and grow from for the both of you 💗 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/21 04:23 PM |
| 3 | The biggest issues I find in LTRs with both genders is that Men tend to be inconsistent with their effort and Women tend to be too volatileYes this is true too but its a risk you have to be willing to take. Thats part of being open. You have to believe that you'll be okay in spite of what happens. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/21 04:20 PM |
| 6 | The biggest issues I find in LTRs with both genders is that Men tend to be inconsistent with their effort and Women tend to be too volatileYes men sometimes don't fight fair. Women dont either too but a man can say "I don't care" and let it hang. That can drive women crazy even the best of them. The man will get over it but she wont. But yea cohabitation is a different animal and that takes being strong together through thick and thin | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/21 04:19 PM |
| 5 | The biggest issues I find in LTRs with both genders is that Men tend to be inconsistent with their effort and Women tend to be too volatileYou think I've only dated one man lol it was just an example of a pattern I've experienced | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/21 04:15 PM |
| 3 | The biggest issues I find in LTRs with both genders is that Men tend to be inconsistent with their effort and Women tend to be too volatileYep very insightful | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/21 03:27 PM |
| 10 | The biggest issues I find in LTRs with both genders is that Men tend to be inconsistent with their effort and Women tend to be too volatileTrue but try. True but try. Lmao too true. Sentimental value really. I still have a pic of my ex eating ice cream. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/21 03:26 PM |
| 3 | The biggest issues I find in LTRs with both genders is that Men tend to be inconsistent with their effort and Women tend to be too volatileIt's a balancing act so I get it. Only thing you have to keep in mind on your end is to remember that you can't demand affection or intimacy because the moment you do, the man will see it as an obligation and it will beg the question, Are you that demanding about meeting HIS needs? Do you wait for him to SAY something or do you take the initiative? Men do appreciate effort but like I said its a balancing act. Doesn't mean you can't get what you want either but its quip pro quo | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/21 03:06 PM |
| 6 | The biggest issues I find in LTRs with both genders is that Men tend to be inconsistent with their effort and Women tend to be too volatileIt works initially but unfortunately in the long run it can bite you. Its just about maintenence really and upkeep | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/21 02:59 PM |
| 1 | The biggest issues I find in LTRs with both genders is that Men tend to be inconsistent with their effort and Women tend to be too volatileI'd love to 😊 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/21 02:57 PM |
| 3 | The biggest issues I find in LTRs with both genders is that Men tend to be inconsistent with their effort and Women tend to be too volatileAnd it starts with not lying to yourself too. Dont say what you think you SHOULD say or what you SHOULD want. Just say what is real | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/21 02:56 PM |
| 26 | The biggest issues I find in LTRs with both genders is that Men tend to be inconsistent with their effort and Women tend to be too volatileYou're so dead on. I found myself saying to the women I've dated "When will it be my turn?" A lot. It's sad but true. Women need to learn to be a lot more accommodating. Men do think sex is what they want until suddenly they flip the script and say "Well you're just not there for me." It's like when I try to be you literally shut it down lol. I even had a guy friend like that. He whined that I didn't know his birthday and I've known him for years yet whenever I asked him about his bday in the pa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/21 02:54 PM |
| 16 | The biggest issues I find in LTRs with both genders is that Men tend to be inconsistent with their effort and Women tend to be too volatileA lot of the time its about what flaws can you both tolerate and not only maturity level but a growth mindset. It needs to be built stone by stone and brick by brick. Easier said than done | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/21 02:49 PM |
| 3 | The biggest issues I find in LTRs with both genders is that Men tend to be inconsistent with their effort and Women tend to be too volatileTalking things out isn't a cure all and sometimes it takes more than one talk. That's part of riding the wave so to speak | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/21 02:47 PM |
| 3 | The biggest issues I find in LTRs with both genders is that Men tend to be inconsistent with their effort and Women tend to be too volatileYea if you can meet in the middle more often than not then it's worth it in the end | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/21 02:46 PM |
| 3 | As a Bisexual Guy I think that men are FAR easier to date than women BUT too many guys just don't "get it" so I see why Women tend to be pickyLol I can understand why that phrase can get annoying but I'm short and the "Tall dark and handsome" thing is just a meme really as is this. You could have a big dick but have small dick energy imo | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/21 10:51 PM |
| 1 | As a Bisexual Guy I think that men are FAR easier to date than women BUT too many guys just don't "get it" so I see why Women tend to be pickyIn your opinion. Not at all. They're equally important. A quarterback understands the game of football differently than a middle linebacker but they're both still playing the same game just different sides of it. Lets just say that we interpret the same game differently and leave it at that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/21 10:45 PM |
| 3 | As a Bisexual Guy I think that men are FAR easier to date than women BUT too many guys just don't "get it" so I see why Women tend to be pickyI think it helped that he showed me his personality first. If I had met him through OLD and he sent me an unsolicited dick pic I would have blocked him and that would have been that. But because he showed his Big Dick Energy by casually inviting me to his room to play Super Smash Bros and commandeered the entire interaction it was just perfect | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/21 10:41 PM |
| 0 | As a Bisexual Guy I think that men are FAR easier to date than women BUT too many guys just don't "get it" so I see why Women tend to be pickyDating requires you to be present in the moment and its reading and reacting off of each other. You can't go into it with expectations on either side. I didn't get it until I actually got it. Though honestly I never had issues with women and most of my rejections have been through OLD. I can probably count on my fingers how many times I've been rejected on a date (i.e. not asked for a second date or refused to have sex). But that's where it can be challenging because you vsn get it and not seal … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/21 10:28 PM |
| 3 | As a Bisexual Guy I think that men are FAR easier to date than women BUT too many guys just don't "get it" so I see why Women tend to be pickyI was head over heels with a 5'6 asian guy that didn't have a big dick at all but I couldn't get enough of him and his energy and confidence. The person attached to it matters a lot too | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/21 10:20 PM |
| 2 | As a Bisexual Guy I think that men are FAR easier to date than women BUT too many guys just don't "get it" so I see why Women tend to be pickyI've been on both sides and I think picking up the breadcrumbs is part of it too. You're assuming that the decision is made the moment I lay my eyes on a man. He could still have a shit personality so he still has the power to draw me in. Rejection is part of the dance. The only way you can get to sleeping with lots of women is through rejecting and moving on. I think of it as a game of basketball. The best shooters don't dwell on missed shots they just keep shooting because we all miss sometime… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/21 10:18 PM |
| 4 | As a Bisexual Guy I think that men are FAR easier to date than women BUT too many guys just don't "get it" so I see why Women tend to be pickyIt comes with having options. More options you have the more criteria you come up with to filter through said options. Honestly it sounds more demanding than it actually is I can be flexible with my attraction. I was head over heels for a 5'6 asian guy because he was so deadpan confident and he didn't give a fuck and just said whatever he wanted. Physically he wasn't my type at all and I'm like the same height as him but his personality was literally perfect to me so I did whatever he wanted me … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/21 10:11 PM |
| 1 | As a Bisexual Guy I think that men are FAR easier to date than women BUT too many guys just don't "get it" so I see why Women tend to be pickyI actually prefer women and they're my main course so to speak. Men are the side dish when I'm bored and they're more like the novelty. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/21 10:05 PM |
| 16 | As a Bisexual Guy I think that men are FAR easier to date than women BUT too many guys just don't "get it" so I see why Women tend to be pickyOnly the ones who dated women would get it ime | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/21 10:04 PM |
| 1 | As a Bisexual Guy I think that men are FAR easier to date than women BUT too many guys just don't "get it" so I see why Women tend to be pickyI used to not bring it up because I didn't think that it was relevant but now I do. Women have a visceral disgust with bi men ime unless the woman herself is Bi. One of my exes literally went crazy because she saw other attractive men as a "threat" but for the most part it's because heterosexual women find the idea disgusting and they speak about it with contempt. It hasn't really held me back though but it used to wear on me to feel like only men would fully accept me (straight or otherwise) vs… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/21 10:03 PM |
| 6 | As a Bisexual Guy I think that men are FAR easier to date than women BUT too many guys just don't "get it" so I see why Women tend to be pickyFluffy as in have some chubbiness to them | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/21 09:53 PM |
| -1 | As a Bisexual Guy I think that men are FAR easier to date than women BUT too many guys just don't "get it" so I see why Women tend to be pickyYou're putting the cart before the horse. It's because I don't feel "whole" without exercising my masculine side and feeding my more passive feminine side. I do tend to get more easily bored with men though | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/21 09:52 PM |
| 3 | As a Bisexual Guy I think that men are FAR easier to date than women BUT too many guys just don't "get it" so I see why Women tend to be pickyI think that comes with an abundance of options | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/21 09:39 PM |
| 6 | As a Bisexual Guy I think that men are FAR easier to date than women BUT too many guys just don't "get it" so I see why Women tend to be pickyIt was all in the delivery honestly. He said it so casually and I knew that he had a dry sense of humor and was deadpan about it but thats right up my alley so it ticked the boxes for me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/21 09:38 PM |
| 6 | As a Bisexual Guy I think that men are FAR easier to date than women BUT too many guys just don't "get it" so I see why Women tend to be pickyYes women are far more rewarding to date I agree with that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/21 09:36 PM |
| -5 | As a Bisexual Guy I think that men are FAR easier to date than women BUT too many guys just don't "get it" so I see why Women tend to be pickyi.e. you want to put in near or close to zero effort and evaluate someone critically while they repeatedly put themselves out there. Tight. It's passive vs active game honestly. I leave the breadcrumbs that he has to pick up. Ya more standards and qualifications and regulations that are arbitrary and near meaningless. Hey, either you get it or you don't 🤷🏾♂️ Get what? That you want someone who will put in a shit ton of conversational and social effort to make you feel pretty and desirable? Some… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/21 09:35 PM |
| 1 | [Q4All] Realistically, what does the future / near future hold for women wanting commitment?How many men were in the study? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/20 09:28 AM |
| 1 | Q4A: Do men who have been molested or raped by men have different view of sexuality?I was sexually assaulted/raped in men's locker room by one of my teammates when I was 18 years old. I still can not have anyone waking behind me without feeling anxious. Male or female. My sexuality repressed a bit after the fact. For years I couldn't sleep with any women. Then finally when I was 21 I went to the strip club and hooked up with a stripper. Then I felt better. It also made me bi. I've masturbated to the romanticized version of my sexual assault. It created a dual sexual persona. I … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/20 08:48 AM |
| 6 | When you're a homless man no one gives a FUCK about youDifference is instead of paying upwards to 250 a week I now work and live in a motel simultaneously. I get paid less but that's because part of my paycheck goes to my "rent." I expect to be out of here and in a better place by the spring. Summer at the latest. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/01/20 04:06 AM |
| 6 | When you're a homless man no one gives a FUCK about youShe was someone I had known for awhile albeit briefly. But I reached out to her on and off for months just for some tips and local job opportunities. Eventually we developed a bit of a mutual relationship and advanced from there. I met her while she was working at a department store. She was giving out samples and I chatted with her and gave her my number and told her to hit me up when they were hiring. She texted me to tell me that they weren't hiring but we ended up going out and vibing and th… | /r/TheRedPill | 10/01/20 03:22 AM |
| 4 | When you're a homless man no one gives a FUCK about youThere was literally no way for me to sleep there long term. She had an apartment with roommates and it was against her lease agreement to allow overnight guests for more than two consecutive days. She also lived in an area where I couldn't find work or a living space for myself. Regardless, why put yourself in a position to be living off the whims of someone else? Especially a woman? | /r/TheRedPill | 09/01/20 11:56 PM |
| 19 | When you're a homless man no one gives a FUCK about youI had a failed business venture and stashed the rest into TSP (thrift savings plan) after I cut my losses. I couldn't access it until after I got out but by that time I was evicted and lost everything. I didn't even have a laptop to log on to withdraw my money. Now I'm able to do a partial withdrawal to keep me afloat. Moral of the story is don't place all of your eggs in one basket. Especially if you were already struggling. I was stupid and desperate. Don't be like me. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/01/20 07:07 PM |
| 1 | Why don't men use dual mating strategy?Yeah. My LTR knows I have a high sex drive and she's said that to me on multiple occasions. I also cheated on my previous partner for her. | /r/askTRP | 08/01/20 11:40 PM |
| 1 | Why don't men use dual mating strategy?The best you can get out of most LTRs nowadays is "Do what you want, I just don't want to hear about it." | /r/askTRP | 08/01/20 06:10 PM |
| 3 | What do you do when LTR crosses unspoken boundary, but then obliges after learning about said boundary.Bitches aren't stupid. She knew she was fuckin' up. My bitch got mad at me for joking around with a close female friend. Me and her have known each other for 6 years and we make crass jokes and shit. Hooked up once the first year we met but we never did it again. Meanwhile my bitch was talking to guys and sending pics and shit. I didn't give a fuck until she tried to be hypocritical and call me out. In the end we agreed no more blurred lines. Overt communication doesn't work. Do what you want un… | /r/askTRP | 06/01/20 07:07 PM |
| 4 | Am I overreacting? Drunk gfYou're overreacting. Everyone gets shitfaced once in awhile. While I was dating an ex I got into a drinking contest with her brother in law and her best friend's date. Got drunk and puked all over the toilet and myself. She then dragged me to her room and took my clothes off and washed them. After that we ended up dating for several years. As long as she learned her lesson then this is a non-issue. | /r/askTRP | 27/12/19 01:32 PM |
| 1 | Are men who still believe in Blue Pill Delusions such as "honor" and "integrity" in the SMP forever lost?You get what you pay for. Remember that. | /r/askTRP | 27/12/19 02:13 AM |
| 5 | How many of you who are in supposedly monogamous LTRs have a side chick on the side?He who is without sin cast the first stone. Stop your moral grandstanding. You get known as someone that is dishonest and disingenuous. So who cares about what you say. Stay beta. | /r/askTRP | 27/12/19 12:45 AM |
| 8 | How many of you who are in supposedly monogamous LTRs have a side chick on the side?Lmao @ some of these posts. There isn't anything in TRP that says you can't, or shouldn't, have a side piece. Stop y'all self-righteous dribble and save it for Two-X. In TRP you can get women you want or you can play them all. It is amoral. In y'all bubble of the world it's "wrong". I can't help but assume that once upon a time you were all wide-eyed blue pilled beta that were wronged like most of you spergs that got here were (I mean that lovingly). In my world, you did what you wanted. Law of … | /r/askTRP | 27/12/19 12:24 AM |
| 4 | How many of you who are in supposedly monogamous LTRs have a side chick on the side?Why should men care about honor in the sexual market place? There isn't anything in TRP that says you can't, or shouldn't, have a side piece. Stop your self-righteous dribble and save it for Two-X. In TRP you can get women you want or you can play them all. It is amoral. In your bubble of the world it's "wrong". I can't help but assume that once upon a time you were a wide-eyed blue pilled beta that was wronged like most of you spergs that got here were (I mean that lovingly). In my world, you d… | /r/askTRP | 27/12/19 12:23 AM |
| 2 | Ltr ghosting me mid convo. Do I just block this bitch?I was going to write a detailed response breaking down the psychological nuances of the interactions between you two... ....until I read that you two were in school. This is a non-issue. Do whatever you want and move on. | /r/askTRP | 25/12/19 10:48 PM |
| 2 | Broke frame with LTR after my mother was in a bad accidentThank you, I needed this laugh. You're right, AWALT | /r/askTRP | 12/12/19 07:58 PM |
| -6 | What are some popular things from TRP that you dislike or disagree with?Just stating facts. And I'm plenty warm at my plate's place right now. Thank you for your concern. | /r/askTRP | 10/12/19 08:16 PM |
| 2 | What are some popular things from TRP that you dislike or disagree with?I'm speaking from experience, and in my current living situation I'm still slaying and gaming - so what's your excuse? I have two plates that will do anything for me. I mean anything. I could move in with either one of them right now but I'd rather have my own place. I cohabitated before and it was a disaster. Will never do it again. They bring me food, send me money, and let me crash at their place whenever I need to. They both had boyfriends and they dropped them for me. Not for my commitment,… | /r/askTRP | 10/12/19 06:47 PM |
| 11 | How To Kill My Ego?Do you know why Pride is the deadliest of all the 7 sins? Because it is an abyss. It is all consuming. A black hole. Meditation and Stoicism may help bring you down to Earth. Trauma and depression did it for me. Read Meditations by Marcus Aurelius | /r/askTRP | 10/12/19 05:19 PM |
| 1 | Weak voice. how to work on it?Talk in the mirror. You think that your mannerisms lack congruence. The only way to know for sure is to look at yourself speak, move, and emote. | /r/askTRP | 10/12/19 05:15 PM |
| 1 | How should I react to friends making a running joke at my mate's expense, who confronted me for starting?Just tell them to stop - it's that simple. I found out that one of my best friends had ADHD and I made fun of him for it. When he genuinely got upset I stopped and apologized. I'm a jokester but I know that sometimes I take shit too far. It's just that simple. | /r/askTRP | 10/12/19 05:14 PM |
| 8 | What are some popular things from TRP that you dislike or disagree with?It's not impossible to find a girl that will do your bidding to the extreme. I'm talking cook, clean, make money and never cheat. Doesn't mean everything will go smoothly, and that doesn't make her a unicorn. It just means that she values you above all else. If you want to have that then you have to learn to vet properly, if not then continue to spin plates. It's up to you. | /r/askTRP | 10/12/19 05:04 PM |
| 1 | How did you stop being a pushover/people pleaser/nice guy?Read "No More Mister Nice Guy". There are exercises in the book that helps. | /r/askTRP | 09/12/19 01:37 PM |
| 4 | Need help escalating with shy girlsShy girls - challenge them Assertive girls - pacify them | /r/askTRP | 09/12/19 01:34 PM |
| 38 | How do I deal with LTR sexual past , it s eating me insideI've noticed the guys that are hurt by their LTR's sexual past is due to the fact that their own sexual history pales in comparison to their partner's. In other words, they feel inadequate. If her sexual past is too much for you to handle than drop her and move on. At this point it's unsalvageable on your end because you're going to resent her. Now go lift and get your numbers up. | /r/askTRP | 09/12/19 01:32 PM |
| 5 | LTR barely initiates anythingWhy should she initiate anything if you always do it for her? | /r/askTRP | 03/12/19 03:43 PM |
| 1 | If you've kissed on the first date, would you give her a peck on the lips to greet her on the second one?Low-functioning autistic sperg shit right here. | /r/askTRP | 01/12/19 11:09 AM |
| 1 | Women with High N-Count and Unsatisfying SexThat's not a lot. If she was sexually active at 18, that's barely three guys a year. I racked up 15 bodies in a year and a half of game. Any guy who puts in effort can achieve those numbers. The only reason it seems like a lot to you is because you don't have a lot of experience. But once you see how easy it is to get laid (especially nowadays) your perspective on n-counts will change. | /r/askTRP | 27/11/19 07:11 PM |
| 3 | You Have More Competition Than You ThinkI only mentioned race because she brought it up, and I flew because I wanted to. I'm not bragging, it's just what I like to do - fuck and travel. Sometimes I match with chicks who live in tourist spots because I can travel and see the sights and get laid and have a good time. Building a good rapport makes the time even better. No disrespect to you and your LTR but you have no control over what she does. The poor guy in my example thought he was with a unicorn and you see how that turned out. I s… | /r/TheRedPill | 05/10/19 06:44 PM |
| -1 | You Have More Competition Than You ThinkIt was a spontaneous decision. But when you have the time, money, and resources, you can make spur of the moment decisions such as these. I enjoy traveling to different places regardless of whether or not I'm going to get laid. She lived in a tourist town anyways, so we had some fun. The lesson is there are guys like me who have the means to fly across state lines and fuck your chick. It's 2019 not 1919. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/10/19 06:39 PM |
| -21 | You Have More Competition Than You ThinkYea and? I had fun, saw some great sights, and she helped pay my way and got us the room anyways. I do this a lot because I can, and there will be other guys doing this to your LTR because they can. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/10/19 06:35 PM |
| 0 | You Have More Competition Than You ThinkYep, I laid it out cut and dry too. I'm not even trying to humble brag. I just presented the facts. Someone got cheated on by a guy that lives across state lines. It can happen to anyone. AWALT | /r/TheRedPill | 05/10/19 03:21 PM |
| -14 | You Have More Competition Than You ThinkI couldn't care less if she was white, black, or hispanic (my preference). I don't care how pathetic you think it is either. Like I said, it was no skin off my back. Got to see the sights, didn't have to pay for my hotel or food or get a rental because she tool care of all of that for me. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/10/19 02:44 PM |
| -1 | You Have More Competition Than You ThinkNot offended at all. I have no shame in my game. I like to travel from time to time to visit places I've wanted to go and fuck chicks while I'm there. I've been doing it for awhile now. Point is any guy anywhere could have done this to someone else's LTR, or your LTR. AWALT | /r/TheRedPill | 05/10/19 02:40 PM |
| -33 | You Have More Competition Than You ThinkTo each their own. It was no skin off my back. I'm not your competition, I'm just a guy who likes to travel and fuck from time to time. But you never know what your little princess has planned behind your back. She could fly a guy out to her or fly out to see him. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/10/19 02:36 PM |
| -46 | You Have More Competition Than You ThinkI was due for some paid time off and it lined up with my vacation plans. Win-Win | /r/TheRedPill | 05/10/19 02:17 PM |
| 3 | How should you handle "grass is greener on the other side" thoughts?It's not about being ungrateful or an asshole or mean, it's about craving different experiences. You want to have your cake and eat it too. We all do, there's nothing wrong with that. But when you try to in spite of dire consequences, then you need to realize the importance of what you have and work towards what you want. I.e. if you want both a mac and a PC and can only afford one, work towards getting both. But in the meantime you need to occupy yourself with an intense hobby, mission, or goal… | /r/askTRP | 28/09/19 03:50 PM |
| 64 | Your not hers, it's just her turn.I like this but it's a moot point to everyone who's not a newbie. My turn. Her turn. Our turn. I don't care about any of that. I personally want to maximize the length of time that I can fuck a chick over and over. That's it. Whether it's 4 weeks or 4 months or even 4 years I'm down with it as long as she's not a pain. This is like the chicken or the egg. Whose turn is it really? The one who initiates or the one who terminates? One would assume the one who terminates, but what if the relationshi… | /r/TheRedPill | 15/09/19 04:50 AM |
| 2 | Update as promised: Lost virginityNot only that. When I lost my virginity the ex who I lost it to said "Oh great that means no STDs" so my first time was done raw. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/08/19 01:00 AM |
| 1 | Can a woman ever truly love you?Hey man it works for me. You stick to what works for you. I don't judge. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/04/19 05:07 AM |
| 3 | Can a woman ever truly love you?Thank you. I roll my eyes at these catastrophic hot takes some poor sap makes about women because he had his heart broken. "Women aren't capable of love...." Yes. They are. They just don't love the way that you want them to. Boo-hoo. Cry me a river. It isn't even about "loving conditionally" vs "loving unconditionally". I'm sorry but your dear princess isn't your blood, she's not family. Your family loves you unconditionally. Specifically your parents. It makes no sense to put that kind of burde… | /r/TheRedPill | 03/04/19 04:03 PM |
| 1 | The Queer ConversionI'm in Atlanta too and when I read your story I thought to myself "why does this sound familiar?" Good read. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/03/19 01:01 PM |
| 1 | My Red Pill StoryHip-Hop is a part of the music industry and the music industry's primary goal is to make money. The point is that the people that make the music have been dispensing red pill truths for decades and those of you who are just now discovering these truths are behind the curve. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/03/19 08:44 PM |
| 5 | Women don't want comfort and security, they want to compete and "win"I've found with most women they go through "stages" as we may know. First stage they're intrigued by you. They like your confidence, style, and demeanor. It could be as something as little as your smile or as big as your six-pack. At this stage the woman doesn't want you to know that she's enamored overtly due to fear of either driving you off or lowering herself to a fuck buddy only. Second stage they begin spending more time with you and may even seek you out for advice on small things (what t… | /r/TheRedPill | 03/03/19 01:16 AM |
| 2 | My Red Pill StoryYou know I don't want to bring up race but I have to ask since we're both black (I assume), but what is your background? I raised in the city dirt poor and I listened to a lot of rap growing up. I always idolized rapper's lifestyle because to me it meant freedom. It didn't mean I wanted to be "rich", I just wanted to be the master of my life. It's hard to be "blue pill" listening to songs like "Shawty Wanna Ride Wit Me," because it's a gold mine of truth. Rappers talking about stealing and fucki… | /r/TheRedPill | 25/02/19 01:35 PM |
| 1 | I've become too cynical, should go see a psychiatrist? A broken individualTRP does not advise against seeking counseling for those who need it. Past/childhood trauma is extremely powerful and can control your thoughts and actions well into your 40's if you let it. But like what was mentioned before, most people seek a psychiatrist because they have been diagnosed with depression or any other kind of mental illness and need to be medicated. Psychologists diagnose you, psychiatrists prescribe medication based off of the diagnosis. These are traits that impact your life … | /r/askTRP | 24/02/19 12:09 PM |
| 2 | Women need us (as their on-demand entertainment slaves)I'm the same way and it's because men are wired to spread their seed. Men want nothing more than to sleep with as much hot women as they can handle. All men share this goal from the bottom of the totem pole to the top. And women know this as well. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/01/19 05:55 PM |
| 5 | It's annoying everytime u getting to know a woman there first question they ask is where you work at. Smh gold diggersThat'll attract them in my experience. | /r/MGTOW | 01/01/19 12:23 AM |
| 13 | Nagging Plate or GF? You are the one at Fault. Not HerOf course you will be disrespected. That's part of life. There's levels though, and that's where boundaries come into play. You talked about her berating and belittling you for being beta. Again, you didn't put your hands on her, cuss her out, or ghost her for days on end. You're saying the "worst" thing you did was shower her with gifts and affection and she slowly but surely spazzed on you? Like, I get it. I really do. Sometimes when you feel like your partner is turning into something undesir… | /r/TheRedPill | 27/12/18 07:25 PM |
| 121 | Nagging Plate or GF? You are the one at Fault. Not HerI understand the spirit of this post but at the same time I must stress to exercise caution. I don't care how "beta" your behavior is. That is no excuse to tolerate abuse. Did you hit her? Did you cuss her out? Did you go MIA for days on end? No? Then why the fuck is she disrespecting you? There are normal women out there that won't treat you like shit for buying them gifts and being more "beta". Learn to set and have boundaries. This is what normal people do. Unfortunately TRP has a slew of men… | /r/TheRedPill | 27/12/18 08:44 AM |
| 1 | I have a hooker i go to once a month just so i dont get too stressed from my daily life. Is this correct coping?Nothing is wrong with it as long as you aren't using her as a crutch. | /r/askTRP | 24/12/18 02:15 AM |
| 3 | Learn how to game mentally ill women, because most women are mentally illAge is the trade off. I've dated older single moms in their mid 30s and they have a sense of humor, purpose, and are generally better to get along with. I will never commit to one though because raising someone else's child is a hard no for me, but they have something called perspective. Too many women don't. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/12/18 06:49 AM |
| 17 | Learn how to game mentally ill women, because most women are mentally illWomen are generally high on neuroticism, especially younger ones, and we're in a climate where a lot of young adults are anxious, depressed, stressed and broke. So the issues compound on each other. I think it's best to get seriously involved when you're older, that way you can meet people who have, for the most part, dealt with their issues. I say mid thirties is when people start to mellow out a bit in general | /r/TheRedPill | 11/12/18 08:00 PM |
| 1 | Your LTR is sad but hurts you in the process. Proper reaction?I know exactly on what you're talking about. And I think a lot of people here who responded are doing so from the "best case scenario" stand point. As if it's up to you to find the "right" response to make her feel better every time, and if not then you need to leave, when im reality all you're doing is playing a game where you lose no matter what. There's two kinds of solutions to these kinds of dilemmas, and this goes beyond LTRs. Short term and Long term. The Short Term solution is to try and… | /r/askTRP | 11/12/18 06:50 PM |
| 1 | Most women keep in contact with multiple men they have been sexually intimate with in the pastRight now I'm in a rather small town near a large city and a good friend of mine shared a startling statistic with me. 70% of African-American women in my area are HIV positive. 70 fucking percent. Nothing against black women because I'm black as well but holy shit there are trifling ass hoes here. That's sickening. | /r/MGTOW | 11/12/18 09:27 AM |
| 12 | This happens often with black nice guys. They weren't "thug enough".I prefer black women to casually date or fuck, but not to marry or engage in a serious long term relationship with. Nothing personal but in my experience they come off as combative and neurotic. I "can" be "thuggish" if I want to be, but that side of me only comes out when I'm with my very close friends or when I'm around other "thuggish" black people. It's just speaking a different language to me. I like how sweet and supplicating mixed girls can be, and I have a thing for Hispanic women, as we… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 09/12/18 05:59 PM |
| 3 | Female redditor strongly believes that gender has nothing to do with physical strength differences, and that it all depends on the "situation".I literally get insulted when a woman thinks that she can overpower me in any capacity. This also goes along with me being shorter than average (5'7) and some women believed that they could overpower me. I just give them the "wtf" look and then proceed to shatter their hopes and dreams. My ex used to play wrestle with me all the time and one time she told her brother that I was "a lot stronger than I looked" lol. I'm like, you're a woman, you never had a chance. Most of the women that think they… | /r/MGTOW | 09/12/18 03:56 PM |
| 9 | Most women keep in contact with multiple men they have been sexually intimate with in the pastThis is hilariously true. Two of my exes cheated on their boyfriends with me. At the time they did not tell me that they were seeing anyone. I told one of my exes that I was going to tell her boyfriend that she cheated on him if she didn't break up with him and admit what she did. She ended up telling him but he tried to stay with her to "work it out." I didn't know who disgusted me more, him or her. | /r/MGTOW | 09/12/18 03:24 PM |
| 2 | On SlutsWell even women know that being a slut is a bad thing and that men would never commit to one. It's not just biology, or evolution, it's also an optics issue. No man likes the idea of being with the village bicycle. This isn't a mystery to either gender. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/12/18 01:22 AM |
| 11 | On SlutsThis is very simple to explain. Women will call other women sluts to disparage them. Simple truth. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/12/18 06:04 AM |
| 1 | The "I'm seeing a guy" shit testAnd if she really likes you then you'll end up like me and never know that the chick you were dating had a boyfriend the entire time until she calls you to tell you that she's pregnant with his child. ...Then she'll turn around and try to date you some more after her miscarriage. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/11/18 08:30 AM |
| 1 | Show a slutty girl true acceptance, and she'll be slutty for you, tooIt's funny how much a girl's "slutty" past doesn't bother you once you've been in on the fun. When I was in my first LTR I wanted to "spread my wings" so to speak and hook up with other women. I had far too much lust inside of me to commit to her even though she took my virginity and had a modest N-Count (8 total in a 5 year span). All I could think about is how much "fun" she's had and how I was missing out by committing to her. Hell, she even offered to "wait" for me after I've got it all out … | /r/TheRedPill | 17/11/18 08:13 AM |
| 6 | Overcame Oneitis by... Cheating? What I LearnedI went through a very similar situation with my first LTR. While we dated it was fun and exciting because she had past experiences and she took my virginity. After awhile of fucking her day in and day out I became a freaking Sex God in my mind because she could no longer keep up with my sex drive. That's when my mind kept asking me, "Am I really a Sex God? How would I know if I've only been with one woman?" So I cheated on her with another woman, which opened my eyes to how the universal the tec… | /r/TheRedPill | 30/10/18 01:39 PM |
| 3 | And this is why feeling shame, pity and sorry for yourself earns you no respect. Knowing the masculine way of dealing with pain is one of the largest mental muscles of a strong man.Good read. I usually tell women who are having relationship issues to "let their man be a man." Women hate seeing their men or boys make bad decisions or be wrong because their father jumped in for them at every turn (generally) but what they don't understand is that men are forged in fire. Period. Also I think we can all relate to what that woman posted. No man here would like the idea of having to "train" someone to be attractive 24/7 like a woman would have to with a beta or a chump. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/10/18 07:58 AM |
| 7 | My notes from Illimitable Men's website.Funny thing is if she found out that you were constantly accepting free shit from other women she'd feel some type of way about it. So I somewhat disagree. Women know if they're doing something wrong - they just don't care. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/08/18 01:04 PM |
| 1 | The "Where are all the good men who will treat me right" shit test.Saved this comment. Thank you for this I'm sure it'll come in handy one day to keep me on the right track. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/08/18 12:50 PM |
| 1 | How to TheRedPill with your ADHDMy ex had ADHD. I assume most of these traits differ between males and females? Although she functioned pretty well without medication. So well in fact that whenever her behavior "regressed" around my friends and family (who then assumed that she was autistic) I'd get upset because in private she didn't have those issues at all. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/08/18 04:01 PM |
| 1 | To stop masturbating you need to understand the energy.Masturbation burns calories. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/08/18 01:52 PM |
| 40 | She wants to feel smallTall women hook up with small guys. It's a fetish for them. In my experience I hooked up with a taller girl before. Whenever we walked out in public she would make comments like "I bet when people see us they're like 'what are they doing together'" and laugh it off. Like you I was leaner but still had a decent amount of strength. The first time we hooked up was when I was chillin in her room and she complained about her back issues so I gave her a massage. She liked it a lot and started horsing … | /r/TheRedPill | 01/08/18 09:08 PM |
| 10 | I kicked her outI've never been with a woman that refused to give head. Massive red flag already and deal breaker. I also wouldn't have invited her over if she was trying to play the field like that (sex should be a sure thing if you have a history of fucking her). Also keep it simple. Just shrug and tell her that you're going to go hang out or something. Women use sex as a manipulation tactic. You can too. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/08/18 12:30 PM |
| 10 | Women ARE capable of taking accountability for failed relationshipsWomen are not capable of taking responsibility....publicly. That's the key point. Publicly. Women will confess to their exes in private that they fucked up. All four of my exes have done this and I know guys who exes have as well. The most guys she doesn't know or are perspective dating prospects will get is "We just didn't fit." What's hilarious though is that after I broke up with my first ex we harassed each other for months because we didn't want each other to talk shit about the other to ou… | /r/TheRedPill | 01/08/18 12:19 PM |
| 7 | All you have to be is different for her to cheatWomen will sleep with guys for the most mundane reasons. It could be someone's eyes, lips, teeth, smile, cologne, shoes, etc. Doesn't matter. I could name you countless reasons as to why, but it probably wouldnt satisfy you because there's no logic to it. Sometimes women will sleep with long time friends because they caught them at the right moment, then they will ghost and or never sleep with them again or regret it later. There's no rhyme or reason to it. It's best to not over think these thin… | /r/TheRedPill | 01/08/18 12:31 AM |
| 1 | Jordan Peterson can’t handle the truth.Thank you for your response. I find the PTSD hard to understand though since I personally don't have PTSD from being circumcised (I don't think???) or a harder time with stress? Overall I'll look into it though. I do agree that it's a very unnecessary practice. Imagine if parents were still chopping off women's clitorises. They'd be strung up a tree. But taking away a boy's foreskin? Nah no big deal. Personally I don't see how being circumcised has negatively impacted my life in any way. Sometim… | /r/TheRedPill | 29/07/18 06:10 PM |
| 2 | Jordan Peterson can’t handle the truth.Is circumcision really that bad? Honest question. Me being circumcised has never crossed my mind be it positively or negatively. I've never once looked down at my genitals and cursed my father and mother for giving the doctor the go ahead to give the head of my shaft a nice clean cut. And yes mine does look nice and even, I understand a lot of men/boys's don't though. I see people up in arms about the issue but I'm trying to understand why. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/07/18 04:38 PM |
| 73 | HOW BLACK AMERICA HAS PREDICTED OUR FUTUREThe black community has always been ass backwards. I used to always joke about how my dad is the most racist person I've ever known...and he's black. He's never said a good word about black people. That's because he grew up very poor and he knows what the black community values - gangstas, pimps, drug dealers, and criminals. These are the guys that have the most clout, money, and women. You'll find that most black men who grew up under these circumstances are "naturally" red pill. They understan… | /r/TheRedPill | 27/07/18 03:55 AM |
| 5 | Experiments at a nightclubIf you make up ridiculous stories then people (read: women) will be less likely to take you seriously. That "You're so bad at this" was a shit test btw. Just A&A. "Yea, my special agent mentor said the same thing," or "Did I mention that I was an agent in training?" Deliver both lines with a jokey vibe. Either way if you truly want to succeed then drop the gimmicks and play to your strengths. You seem to have a decent grasp of kino so go that route. Escalate while you dance with her and then esc… | /r/TheRedPill | 19/07/18 05:20 PM |
| 13 | You shouldn't be worried about her happinessThis post is both right and wrong. First off if you haven't ever cohabitated with someone that you're dating then you will never understand. I don't care if you see your LTR 6 days out of the week because at the end of the day you both sleep in separate places. Being around anyone day in and day out and putting up with their various mood swings can be both taxing and challenging. Men and women both do this. Secondly for those who do understand, there's a nuance to all of this. If you know that y… | /r/TheRedPill | 19/07/18 05:08 PM |
| 2 | You Don't Need a Wife, Just a Blowjob.While I do agree, people can be shitty and sometimes even good principled people can do shitty things. Nowadays with marriage the way it is and the rise of degeneracy you can't be naive. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/07/18 09:56 AM |
| 0 | You're Riding the Cock CarouselI'm personally in a "down" period in my life right now so I've been on here much more than I used to be but I love reading about other people's experiences and it was my time here that I realized my calling was to help people and give advice. So now I'm working on writing self- help books. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/07/18 01:53 PM |
| 4 | You Don't Need a Wife, Just a Blowjob.This kind of reminds me of a comment I read here on Reddit when a chick claimed that her husband could share a hotel room with Scarlett Johansson but believed that he would do "nothing" with her. I was like how delusional could you be. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/07/18 01:22 PM |
| 7 | Approaching Women with a Red Pill lens for the first time.You're a good guy. Good natured, a bit anxious, but you like a good conversation. I can respect that. Unfortunately, women don't. You're taking baby steps though which is great. I think you should focus on physical escalation next. Start with something small. When you laugh, lean in and touch her shoulder or arm. My go to move is giving them a massage/rubbing their back but that might be too much for you. But physical escalation is the greatest indicator of attraction. Lock arms with them, or ho… | /r/TheRedPill | 15/07/18 11:31 PM |
| 3 | Went to the bar at closing time for the easiest pull of my life.A $6 bottle of Corona?! That's the most unbelievable part. Good job inviting the other guy though. That way it was framed as a bit of a party which works wonders. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/07/18 04:07 PM |
| 9 | Newbie's First TRP date- sex with a much taller girl hb8.I had a banjo as a kid but my brother broke it :( Good FR. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/07/18 07:29 PM |
| 15 | The Wrong Idea about DisciplineI can relate. I was in the Navy and I hated running. I wanted to get better but running sucked. And you're right, people who are good at it make it look so easy. Then one day I ran with this older Chief. He was about 38 years old. As we ran further and further and I fell more and more behind he looked back and screamed "I've had surgery on both of my knees, several ankle sprains, and my cartilage is almost gone. There is no way your young ass is in more pain than me right now." That flipped a sw… | /r/TheRedPill | 04/07/18 07:47 PM |
| 1 | What Is It Like To Date A Guy? Things Guys Get Right (And Wrong)Yea the honesty is refreshing. With women you can't be honest with them because they don't speak overt language. I hate the games they play but sometimes I play them too because it's a necessity. As much as I'd like to say that it's as easy as finding a guy that's attracted to me, and I'm attracted to him so we bump uglies in his car after a 10 minute meet up, it just doesn't happen that way. How do I know that you know how to be a man in the sack? You have to prove it. That's where the shit tes… | /r/TheRedPill | 21/06/18 02:18 AM |
| 2 | What Is It Like To Date A Guy? Things Guys Get Right (And Wrong)It's true. In the gay community guys know that guys want sex, and lots of it. So to circumvent this they have open relationships. Unfortunately one side tends to grow jealous/possessive anyways. It's human nature. Some gay guys just want to try and climb the ladder. Get with a gay guy from an older generation that's successful. Though since I'm bi I've been with gay guys that were bi-curious about women and wanted to experiment with them, so they'd ask me to set them up with one and coach them t… | /r/TheRedPill | 21/06/18 01:53 AM |
| 5 | What Is It Like To Date A Guy? Things Guys Get Right (And Wrong)Oh I see. Yea when I'm around a masculine guy I'm the king of shit tests. Unless you're like 6' 250lbs of solid muscle. Then shit tests aren't needed. When I read posts on men here being shit tested I cringe because I do it too. I feel bad but at the same time if shit tests break your frame then you aren't that masculine to me, and as a dating prospect I lose respect for you. But when I'm around a feminine woman I love to tease them and get them flustered. I like making opinionated women fiery h… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/06/18 10:06 PM |
| 16 | What Is It Like To Date A Guy? Things Guys Get Right (And Wrong)None taken. These are dark times for us all. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/06/18 09:23 PM |
| 9 | What Is It Like To Date A Guy? Things Guys Get Right (And Wrong)I honestly think if you're bi/gay you almost "have" to be red pilled because there isn't an "idealized" image of your sexual and intimate horizons. I had to accept early on that men and women aren't shit. Men will play you, women will play you, just in different ways. Women swear they're slick sometimes, it baffles me. There was a woman I liked a lot. We had the same sense of humor, we got along great, and we vibed well. She was short and had a nice ass and I wanted her. But there was one small … | /r/TheRedPill | 20/06/18 09:20 PM |
| 16 | What Is It Like To Date A Guy? Things Guys Get Right (And Wrong)Competition, lifting, and I don't mind fucking and dominating women though either. But my masculine side is my "default" until I run into a more masculine man, then after I've sized him up I immediately switch gears and become subservient to him. One of my therapists told me that it might be survival instinct. That pleasing an alpha male and being under his "protection" sheltered me from social isolation and being ostracized so it developed into sexual interest. Pretty deep theory but I disagree… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/06/18 08:21 PM |
| 3 | Red Pill: TRP doesn't guarantee success with women. It just raises your odds.I started to comment but I had a lot to say so I made a post instead. You should check it out! | /r/TheRedPill | 20/06/18 05:37 PM |
| 2 | The Frog and the Scorpion applied to RelationshipsGreat show but the story has been around forever. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/06/18 12:55 AM |
| 2 | Fucking UnicornsI think what's worse was that the worse I treated her, the more attracted to me she became. I told her flat out after she refused to move out that "Maybe I should start treating you better to scare you off," She nonchalantly replied, "You aren't capable of that." Psycho of the highest degree. I stopped sleeping with her and she tried to grope/molest/rape me while I slept and I threatened to call the cops on her. She got spooked and finally ashamed of what she had done and left. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/06/18 12:10 AM |
| 10 | Red Pill: TRP doesn't guarantee success with women. It just raises your odds.Yea there's literally zero reasons anyone should take a woman flaking or ghosting them personally. Generally their ASD goes into hyperdrive and they just don't go through with it. It's a sign of immaturity though to just choose not to say anything but then again how many young women (and people) are mature? I've been on both sides of it and completely ghosted people I had a good rapport with simply because I didn't want to go through with it all or an easier/better option came up. And I speak as… | /r/TheRedPill | 19/06/18 11:29 PM |
| 2 | Fucking UnicornsI was there with my ex especially on our first date she mentioned how she never slept with a dude on the first one but had slept with a guy that she never dated at all. She used to hang with him at kick-backs then she went to his place and fucked him. Only thing was I found this out a year into our LTR though to be honest I had pretty much checked out mentally this just gave me all the confirmation I needed. The issues I had with this ex lingers within me the most because deep down I knew that I… | /r/TheRedPill | 17/06/18 10:03 PM |
| 1 | When Should a Man Apologize to a Woman?My ex used to apologize for any percieved slight she felt that she might have done to me but I got so tired of it that I told her something that my dad used to tell me: "I'll know your sorry when you don't do it again." Whenever she wanted me to aplogize because "it made her feel better" to "hear" me say it I always countered with "You'll know if I'm sorry by my actions. Not my words." Talk is cheap to me. "Thank you," means little to me. When someone thanks me I usually follow that up with "How… | /r/TheRedPill | 17/06/18 07:20 PM |
| 1 | The purpose of emotional armor.I lost my virginity to one of my exes and even though our relationship wasn't all that bad I was legitimately terrified at the thought of settling down with her because I didn't want her to be all I ever experienced meanwhile she had an n count of about 7 or 8. Not too bad by any means but I just couldn't bring myself to do it. She offered to let us do threesomes, but she would back out at the last minute every time. Pair that with my rising SMV and confidence and it was a recipe for disaster. I… | /r/TheRedPill | 12/06/18 09:26 PM |
| 17 | Height-related Red Pills from a Short ManI've found significantly less issues with my height as an adult than I did when I was a teenager. It became such a non-factor that it shocked me. I'm 5'6 but most women are even shorter than that, or around that height. But a real short Casanova once told me that "We're all the same height in bed." | /r/TheRedPill | 11/06/18 11:13 AM |
| 2 | The purpose of emotional armor.I never understood why some men couldn't just understand that most women (and people) aren't worth being emotionally invested in. When you've been treated like shit like I have by most of your peers during your formative years you learn to not put people, especially pussy, on a pedastal. I'm still a pleasant guy though and I almost always have a smile on my face. But I just don't care about most people like that. If you're not my friend or family you're going to have to prove to me beyond a shad… | /r/TheRedPill | 10/06/18 09:46 PM |
| 1 | The Double Standard: Body CountWow what an angry post. Most men who struggle with the idea of a woman's body count is because they didn't get to her first and they generally want to wife her up. Body count means nothing to me because I'll never get married or be in a serious LTR. It's just not for me. Why would you care about a woman's body count if she means nothing to you in the long run? Just practice safe sex and have fun. Enjoy your turn. Don't be emotionally invested in things that are completely out of your control. He… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/06/18 04:50 PM |
| 1 | Still struggling with shit tests? How to pressure flip in 4 easy stepsYou INTJs are weird ones. Very emotionally volatile on the inside. You don't explode, you implode. Self-absorbed, aloof, and complete isolationists. Don't use your personality type to box yourself in. You can rewire yourself little by little. It's an exhausting endeavor but well worth it. A lot of people in the MBTI circles do not believe my type. It's not a perfect science of course and should never be treated as such but you can minimize your weaknesses so well that you'll practically appear a… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/06/18 03:18 PM |
| 4 | Back From the Grave. I bring a Message from the otherside: No feelings for hoes until 6 months of steady sexWorks for both men and women. My dad used to say "let them hang themselves." Though some of the things you hear are downright revolting and at the end of the day you realize women aren't special at all. Though I've always said that people in general aren't special anyways. Including me. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/06/18 02:43 PM |
| 5 | Got Hit with the Ultimate ShitTest"Did your mom dress you in that outfit?" "No, but my dad did." "I bet you're gay." "Only on Tuesdays." "But today is Tuesday." "Well looks like I gotta move it to Wednesdays." "I bet you're a player." You can play this both ways imo. You can disagree with a smile and a overly dramatic gesture. "Who me?! No way! I'm an innocent guy!" Most of the time they'll either give you that "yea right" look and press you and keep the teasing/ banter going or they'll give you a light chuckle. Either way it's … | /r/TheRedPill | 25/05/18 07:15 PM |
| 2 | Broke up with a gf of 2 months because she went for a walk with another guy, whom she has known for 4-6 weeks only. Did I do the right thing?Would she have liked it if a girl rode her bike to walk alone with you? If the answer is no then you did the right thing. | /r/askTRP | 23/05/18 06:52 PM |
| 9 | MGTOW Moment Today: Helped a Young Man, Shut Down Two Women Right After.Wakanda Forever | /r/MGTOW | 23/05/18 10:04 AM |
| 1 | "It's only sexual harassment if you're unattractive"I thought everyone knew this? When I was in high school there was a nerdy chick that I used to hug all the time but it was deemed "harassment" by the teacher because I wouldn't stop hugging her even after the girl would tell me to stop. I kept doing this every day until the teacher threatened to send me to the principle's office so like a good boy I stopped. The next day after I didn't give the nerdy girl my patented "harassment" hug she came to me and said somberly "where's my favorite hug?" | /r/TheRedPill | 23/05/18 09:17 AM |
| 2 | Reddit will defend thisMen are deathly afraid of defending themselves from a woman but they have to understand that most women don't and won't call the cops anyways- the neighbors do. Regardless I'd rather take the chance and defend myself then let someone, man, woman, or child, put their hands on me. | /r/MGTOW | 17/05/18 03:12 PM |
| 4 | Reddit will defend thisHahaha my ex had bruises on her arms and wrists after we had some fun time together in the bed and she decided to wear a sundress when we went out together. Well on that same day we visited her family and her mom asked her what happened and my ex told her the truth: that she got it during sex. Her mom shook her head and said "I'd rather you tell me that he hit you." | /r/MGTOW | 17/05/18 03:06 PM |
| 3 | Woman Says Harry Potter Ride 'Fat-Shamed' Her Because She Couldn't FitHaha I'll never forget when I was 9 years old my mom took me to a racing track for my birthday and I was too short to drive it. That's right. I was the only person not allowed to ride the track for my own birthday. I had to sit and watch my brother, sister, and friends ride while I threw a temper tantrum and blamed my mom for not making sure I was tall enough before I came, for being the reason why I was too short (she's 5'0), etc. I was completely livid. The whole time my mom didn't say much. S… | /r/TheRedPill | 10/05/18 08:02 PM |
| 1 | female doesn't like my game mod, calls my mod shit and calls me names (juvenile female behavior)It means she likes you. I'm not even kidding. You gave her the "tingles." Enjoy. | /r/MGTOW | 10/05/18 06:45 PM |
| 3 | Reminder: Never discuss your feelingsUnlike most guys in TRP I haven't experienced this (because I've only done it once to an LTR) and my results were vastly different then the standard "she lost attraction." In fact she became even more attached. I've opened up to an ex before without any disastrous consequences. I was very upset over work and was stressed about personal issues and her attraction for me didn't go down in the least. She even saw me cry a couple of times. However, she did try to use my emotions against me as if she … | /r/TheRedPill | 10/05/18 02:05 AM |
| 2 | Holding Frame = TinglesGreat post OP. What I liked the most was how you handled her after her emotional tirade. I'm always a proponent of just letting sleeping dogs lie. I'll never let myself get stressed over what a woman says and when I see you next I'll smile and wave and act like nothing ever happened. Once they understand that you realize that their little episode was just that, an episode, then they'll move on too. My mom told me once a long time ago after she spanked me that she doesn't hold grudges (generally)… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/05/18 04:43 PM |
| 1 | Don't you think it's weird MGTOWs shame cat ladies when they will grow up aloneMen are more successful since women fail at even that. Every human being can be independent and strives for it to some degree, however, time and time again women have willingly slept with the enemy barbarians and have weaponized sex. There have been countless instances of women throughout history attempting to use their feminine wiles to gain power. The narrative that women were second class citizens while they were coddled, rarely ever fought on a traumatizing battlefield, or were unwillingly f… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/18 04:23 PM |
| 4 | Science: Genes have nothing to do with your weight gain. A new study from Deakin University reveals it’s not your genes that determine your sensitivity to fat – it’s what you’re stuffing into your pie hole!They say "the more you eat the faster your metabolism burns" but that's bro science. If you eat 40000 calories worth of salad you'll still be as fat as the guy who goes to McDonalds every day. The reason they tell you to eat more healthy foods is because they know you're gonna eat anyways, so just make it healthy. But yes your metabolism does adapt. When you eat less it takes less to fill you up. Also the food industry wants you to eat more. Point blank. | /r/MGTOW | 23/04/18 10:53 PM |
| 1 | Don't you think it's weird MGTOWs shame cat ladies when they will grow up aloneSuicide statistics by demographic and age are harder to get a hold on but generally speaking... Women attempt suicide more, but succeed less. Teenagers attempt suicide more than any other demographic. Middle aged men succeed more than any other demographic. etc, etc. It's very hard to pin-point as to why people commit suicide in general. Eventually a person can get to a point where they've forgotten how or why they started to get depressed in the first place. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/18 03:48 PM |
| 1 | Don't you think it's weird MGTOWs shame cat ladies when they will grow up aloneYou didn't refute my point at all, so I'll break it down for you once more. According to [ https://afsp.org/about-suicide/suicide-statistics/ ] "Adult females reported a suicide attempt 1.2 times as often as males." Females attempt suicide more but are less successful. So yes, women will kill themselves over a man. They just aren't good at following through. Men can handle it because they've been doing it for hundreds upon hundreds of years as monks, shamans, spiritual/religious leaders, etc. So… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/18 03:41 PM |
| 1 | Don't you think it's weird MGTOWs shame cat ladies when they will grow up aloneWomen attempt more suicides but are less successful. Plain to see why the numbers are skewed | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/18 01:13 AM |
| 1 | Q4Men: is it true that women expire at age 25-30? Would you marry a woman who is 34 but childless, low n count, and mentally stable?Protect your assets. I'd do what John Cena did and make it 200 pages instead. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/18 08:45 PM |
| 1 | Q4Men: is it true that women expire at age 25-30? Would you marry a woman who is 34 but childless, low n count, and mentally stable?No. I don't believe in marriage* *Unless she's 18-21, a virgin, willing to be a stay at home mom, signs a prenup, has nice boobs (Cs) and a plump, fat ass, long flowing black hair, gives fantastic head, is obedient and submissive, is close with her family, have respectable female friends, little to no male friends, and if she wants a career is able to make her own way while still cooking and cleaning for me daily. But no such woman exists. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/18 08:22 PM |
| 1 | Don't you think it's weird MGTOWs shame cat ladies when they will grow up aloneAll your saying to me is that the less violent sex is "surprisingly" less violent. Women attempt suicide more than men but they also fail more than men. Accept it. An ex attempted to commit suicide right in front of me once I broke up with her. When I was depressed it had nothing to do with women. When she was depressed it had everything to do with potentially losing a man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/18 08:11 PM |
| 1 | Don't you think it's weird MGTOWs shame cat ladies when they will grow up aloneDeath of close family/friends, PTSD, financial ruin, etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/18 07:56 PM |
| 1 | Don't you think it's weird MGTOWs shame cat ladies when they will grow up aloneIf you think that the suicide rates for men are 100% due to women alone then you need to check your sources. Financial ruin, death of close family members, PTSD, etc. Generally it's a combination of all of the above. You have no data to back up your claims as to why men commit suicide. Also, men are more successful at committing suicude. Women attempt suicide more but are less successful than men because most women either 1) do it for attention or 2) are less likely to take a bullet to the head.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/18 07:53 PM |
| 3 | Don't you think it's weird MGTOWs shame cat ladies when they will grow up aloneMen handle being locked out of the SMP poorly. Women handle being locked out of relationships poorly. Which means they end up getting cats. Which was the point of this discussion. Besides, you're trying to argue to MGTOWs, which are men who (generally) couldn't care less about women. Obviously they are your statistical outliers, but they are the point in this discussion and proof that men are one paradigm shift away from walking away from women entirely. No such paradigm shift exists for women. … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/18 02:50 AM |
| 3 | Don't you think it's weird MGTOWs shame cat ladies when they will grow up aloneSome men reach an acceptance phase. Or they become black-pilled and understand that in the end, women just aren't that great. So they convince themselves that they aren't missing out on much. A lot of men falsely attribute companionship with intimacy. Men yearn for intimacy, not companionship. And women have committed suicide over men, grew bitter old and alone. But instead of complaining on reddit they complain on FB, instagram, and Twitter. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/18 02:31 AM |
| 2 | Don't you think it's weird MGTOWs shame cat ladies when they will grow up aloneBecause they are locked out of the SMP. Ergo, they can't have sex. Give any incel an HB9 to fuck 2 days out of the week and they'll be fine. They don't want an LTR, they just want consistent sex. Most men believe that constant sex comes with companionship but they can live without it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/18 02:13 AM |
| 5 | Dating experiences of attractive men validate TRP?It's one of the essential pills that BP men have to swallow. To see that women are in fact, no better then men, knocks them off their pedestal. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/18 12:48 AM |
| 2 | Don't you think it's weird MGTOWs shame cat ladies when they will grow up aloneBecause women generally have a harder time with dealing with loneliness. Men want sex. And lots of it. But men can be rational enough to understand that if the juice ain't worth the squeeze then it's better be alone. Women aren't built like that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/18 12:32 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Using the anger-phase defense is intellectually dishonest.He is an alleged sex offender. He used his money and influence to sleep with women. When you have enough money you can do that. Rich men pay for sex almost all the time believe it or not. But as they say "you don't pay for them to sleep with you, you pay them to leave." Some guys take women out on dates for the faint glimmer of hope that they'll sleep with them. At least with an escort it's guranteed. Most would rather stay anonymous. GLO and redpillschool are fairly succesful though - among oth… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/18 08:28 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Using the anger-phase defense is intellectually dishonest."Being a shitty person--" Was an emotionally charged statement with zero facts to back it. However, if being a "shitty" person yields success in the SMP then so be it. Harvey Weinstein probably has an N-count higher than all of us combined. Is he attractive? A lot of men on TRP are successful financially so getting women/escorts is nothing to them. Some lift and are decent, some are novices, others like me are in the middle, etc. Like most places on the internet you take what you hear with a gra… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/18 04:39 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Using the anger-phase defense is intellectually dishonest.Emotional responses have no place here. No one forces you to debate with men on TRP, or to read about it. Furthermore most men on TRP are successful with women. So it's a win-win not a win-loss. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/18 04:20 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Using the anger-phase defense is intellectually dishonest.If you're a sexist and turned to TRP to help you in the SMP then TRP has done its job. The SMP is amoral. It doesn't care if you're fat, bald, short, white, black, ethnic, a boxer, a garbage man, a CEO, etc. All kinds are welcomed and accepted. TRP gives men the tools to be successful in the SMP. That's all that matters. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/18 04:10 PM |
| 1 | Q4BP: is RP and the men who find themselves there at all concerning to you to any degree, or just a source of curiosity/amusement for you?Ignore my comment. It was aimed at the other poster. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/18 10:27 AM |
| 0 | CMV: Using the anger-phase defense is intellectually dishonest.It's not sexist because it doesn't advocate for women to be treated any better or worse, just different. There's no stereotyping, prejudice, discrimination, gender bias, etc. TRP tells men that women are not like them and that they must adjust accordingly. Expecting women to be like them is flat out wrong. Women don't love like men. They do love, just not in the same way. I was civil. Nothing wrong with being ignorant. Women are the most responsible teenagers because of how they act. They look f… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/18 01:43 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Using the anger-phase defense is intellectually dishonest.Those aren't examples of sexism. You just linked me the sidebar. And if you think that TRP is sexist at it's core then you truly don't understand TRP. That's not a not true scotsman fallacy either. You simply don't understand. You're ignorant which can be corrected. TRP gives men tools to be successful in the SMP. That's it. That's the core. I could care less if an actual sexist advocates for TRP. If he's successful in the SMP then so be it. But that would say more about the SMP than that person… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/18 12:36 AM |
| -1 | CMV: Using the anger-phase defense is intellectually dishonest.100% RP fortunately. I've looked at it, and it isn't sexist. Your rant hasn't proven anything. Show me examples. BP is a parody, TRP saves lives. You're lucky that I'm engaging you right now. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/18 11:48 PM |
| -1 | CMV: Using the anger-phase defense is intellectually dishonest.It means as much as what your asinine statement meant: nothing. Show me. I know the sidebar. The burden of proof is on you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/18 10:05 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Using the anger-phase defense is intellectually dishonest.You're painting a makeshift scenario that I have not argued for or against. What anyone's LTR do on their own time is just that: on their own time. It's no one's business. Both women and men shit test btw. Hell men shit test other men, it's called "busting each other's balls." If my woman says she can cook a good steak and I say that she can't, that's a shit test. If she lashes out then she failed miserably. If she shrugs it off or admits she can't, then it's dropped neutrally. If she tries to p… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/18 10:02 PM |
| 1 | Q4BP: is RP and the men who find themselves there at all concerning to you to any degree, or just a source of curiosity/amusement for you?Not if you want to sleep with them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/18 09:51 PM |
| 0 | CMV: Using the anger-phase defense is intellectually dishonest.Do you think TRP preaches terminating your relationship because your LTR gets angry? Go read the side bar. When you've reached the stage of enlightenment that I have you don't "judge" anyone. You know what you want and you live how you want and deal with things the way you want (within reason). Point is every LTR would prefer their man to rant to a bunch of guys on reddit then to bitch her out. If you're a man and you get angry, don't let it show. Laugh, shrug, and walk away. Then log on reddit … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/18 09:45 PM |
| 0 | CMV: Using the anger-phase defense is intellectually dishonest.You're moving the goal posts. Men need a place to vent about women without being judged. MGTOW and TRP are those places. But the parody known as BP thinks that a man saying bad things about women is inherently wrong. As if it's wrong for someone to vent? You really expect someone to say rational things while angry? No one does so if you read something that is (obviously) coming from a place of anger, frustration, and bitterness then just move on lol. Simple really. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/18 09:36 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Using the anger-phase defense is intellectually dishonest.No. Go read the sidebar that talks about the 5 stages of TRP. I skipped the anger phase completely because I was in an LTR and I terminated it once I realized that I couldn't salvage it. I was actually relieved. Happy, even. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/18 08:44 PM |
| -1 | CMV: Using the anger-phase defense is intellectually dishonest.A woman has never flat out told me that she wouldn't rape her children. Comments these days lol. Can you prove that TRP advocates, accepts, and encourages sexism/misogyny? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/18 08:40 PM |
| 11 | CMV: Using the anger-phase defense is intellectually dishonest.This. Men expressing anger is seen as a negative thing. We all get frustrated at men and women alike. There's posts on both MGTOW and TRP that vilify men and say that "most are cucjs, manginas, white knights," etc. But no one cares about that. Can't say one bad word about a woman though lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/18 05:27 PM |
| 4 | Don’t you miss it, boys? I don’t.Why take a girl out when 99% of the time they've fucked a guy without him having to? | /r/MGTOW | 18/04/18 07:34 PM |
| 51 | Being A People-Pleaser: what it actually means, and how to rid yourself of this disgusting conditionI alyways had this problem because I was heavily bullied in school by both men AND women. I was 4'11 at 12 years old. I was shorter than 99% of the student population. Do you know what it's like to get punked by a 5'1 girl that could legitimately kick your ass? Talk about being at the bottom of the totem pole. I used to miss the bus on purpose in order to avoid school but then they threatened to take me away from my mom because I missed too many days. I learned to adapt by being manipulative, we… | /r/TheRedPill | 18/04/18 04:17 PM |
| 5 | Men that get married are cucksLmao so true. Told my ex why would I marry someone who had slept with a guy on a "whim" before? I wasn't judging because I slept with girls on a whim but at the same time it's just not flattering behavior. The top 1% of the population are hedonistic and they can afford to be. They have different rules than us. But if I'm "locked out" of marriage then I'm fine. I'll be locking this hoes out to though lmao | /r/MGTOW | 18/04/18 02:01 PM |
| 3 | [FR] She'll Cheat if the Time is Right, and You're NotNot sure if I'd believe a cheating whore's description. When has a woman ever said "My boyfriend is perfectly fine. He's alpha and dominates me and does all the right things." While she's taking it from behind by another man? | /r/TheRedPill | 18/04/18 01:31 PM |
| 5 | [FR] She'll Cheat if the Time is Right, and You're NotDo you really think that a chiseled swim team Chad free from his girlfriend is at home like a love sick puppy while you bang his girl? Get real. He's probably out gaming HB9s and getting laid while you're bragging about banging his gf, whom he probably doesn't even care that much about. At least, I hope I'm right. Either way you did the right thing and made the right moves, just don't go making assumptions to give yourself an ego boost. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/04/18 06:20 AM |
| 1 | Q4ALL: How soon should a woman be showing obvious attraction toward you?Most people aren't good judges of people's personality types. One of my exes used to ask me all the time how did I know that she wanted to kiss me on our second date. She's extremely shy, quiet and a lil insecure but I noticed that she'd stare at me a lot. One time her mouth was literally open and another time she licked her lips but looked away quickly. So I subtly took her hand in mine, looked her in the eyes (and lingered there for awhile) and kissed her. Meanwhile, another ex of mine showed … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/18 04:47 PM |
| 2 | What I've learned about being red pilled as an introvertINFPs are awful people. Caring, sensitive and sweet on the outside, but irrational, emotional and vindictive on the inside - yet they hate to own up to their mistakes. "I didn't act out - you MADE me act out." Very common for an INFP to say. I know because I dated several for years. But most women act like that anyways. One of my biggest pet peeves in people is lack of accountability. I have zero tolerance and patience for it. Unfortunately your post reeks of it. Let me simplify it for you. You … | /r/TheRedPill | 10/04/18 04:45 PM |
| 5 | Another PSA That All Women No Matter How "Cool" Are CrazyExactly. Most guys exchange gifts and services yet gives females a pass. Makes no sense to me. | /r/MGTOW | 03/04/18 06:05 PM |
| 2 | A Family Man Experiences the Light-Switch, Loses Everything, Baffled that the Rules Don't ApplyIt's interesting you say that. Theres a lot of things I've seen other men been through or complain about that I haven't experienced. This being one of them. I drove one of my exes crazy with dead though. To the point that when I broke up with her she tried to OD right in front of me so I called the cops and she ended up locked up in a psych ward. But I've never experienced this unless we're talking in small doses like arguments. I've also never experienced an LTR that refused to sleep with me. I… | /r/TheRedPill | 23/03/18 04:05 AM |
| 1 | Thinking back on any relationship I’ve had, this is pretty accurateYea I don't get it either. Not once have I ever apologized to my exes without meaning it. No one can "make" you apologize to them or "nag you to death." The problem is that most men just don't know how to handle women. They're used to mommy yelling at them no matter what they did so like a good little boy they apologize and go back to sucking on her teet. Just end the conversation and move on. Laugh in their face. Or just leave them. Men don't know how much power they have over women because the… | /r/MGTOW | 26/01/18 12:14 PM |
| 7 | Reporter tries to bait Bill Burr with 'Can women be funny?' + Jimmy Fallon getting uncomfortable during Bill’s men's rights speech (funny!)Women are funny to tease and poke fun of. They're pretty much the set up but never the punch line. | /r/MGTOW | 25/01/18 07:14 PM |
| 4 | One of the most vicious techniques deployed by women to get men trapped - you might be right before the trapWomen tell and don't show. They want to make your imagination run wild. I used to show and not tell. "Oops tiffany just texted me she's my cousin I swear." Watch that hamster spin. This was back in my vindictive days with my exes whenever they tried that crap on me. | /r/MGTOW | 25/01/18 07:12 PM |
| 4 | She says about her closest friend staying over "I trust my husband but I don't trust her"Women know that most women are sluts. Women also know that men love nothing more than an easy lay. Put two and two together. | /r/MGTOW | 25/01/18 11:41 AM |
| 5 | 11-Year-Old's Response to Nude Teacher Sex Proposition: 'OK IDC'My senior year in high school my Spanish II teacher was an attractive white woman that loved the attention she got from the male students. However she used to tease me relentlessly since I was worried about getting in trouble with her since she was so attractive and I never hopped on the bandwagon to worship the ground she walked on. She made a lot of sexually charged jokes and comments when she thought no one could hear them and encouraged the flirting that her male students did to her. For ins… | /r/MGTOW | 23/01/18 06:06 PM |
| 2 | Your unicorn will not be a nurseThis is hilarious. I used to work with nurses and they were all high strung and creepy. And in the medical field jokes are always inappropriate. We used to joke about dead and or dying cancer patients, even kids. It's fucked up but sometimes it helps you cope. One nurse I knew was Asian and she was supposed to be my mentor but instead she was a grade A creep. I'm black so she kept asking to touch my hair, then told me to touch hers. When I refused she kept going on about how its okay and so I ca… | /r/MGTOW | 20/01/18 05:10 PM |
| 1 | Most women are absolutely awful at sexThis is true and you know Why? Flip it. If you're a stud in your LTR and you can make her cum buckets she's going to think about all the women you've done that too already, and all the women you COULD do it to. So they get possessive and become paranoid. I fucked a woman once and she said that she had to "take me off the market." Just so that she would be the only one to enjoy it. But I consider myself the gift that keeps on giving and I'm extremely selective as is now. It honestly takes endless… | /r/MGTOW | 13/01/18 12:38 PM |
| 17 | How a kid's TV show made me understand about the most important lessonThe show was Sonic Boom. Dr Eggman gave Tails the same advice. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/01/18 08:27 PM |
| 2 | Masturbation Kept Me From Making A Huge MistakeBecause I was about to do something stupid so I felt down about it. It was from the come down after I jacked it. I had never felt so bad in my life honestly for that brief, three second moment. Then when my mood stabilized after a few seconds everything became so crystal clear. | /r/MGTOW | 27/12/17 07:08 PM |
| 1 | Past UltimatumsNever. In fact I tended to give the ultimatums. | /r/MGTOW | 23/12/17 03:01 PM |
| 0 | I'm the only guy out of my friends that doesn't put up with women getting physical in arguments.My ex was terrified of me haha. She's like 5'2 and I'm 5'6 but I have very "quiet" anger. I don't yell or raise my voice. One time she was annoying the shit out of me while I was on the phone with my best friend. I warned her once. She kept trying to egg me on (women love doing that). I warned her twice and then said that there wouldn't be a third time. She then said "What are you gonna do? Hit me? You won't do nothing!" I then put my friend on hold/mute and I walked over to her, grabbed her by … | /r/MGTOW | 23/12/17 02:12 PM |
| 1 | Reminder that men are unironically superior to womenNow go post this on Two-X | /r/MGTOW | 23/12/17 01:26 PM |
| 29 | Why do women do this to themselves? (Half rant)My dad used to always say "One day you'll grow up and realize that your mom is just another woman." Greatest father ever tbh he red pilled me at age six. | /r/MGTOW | 23/12/17 01:25 PM |
| 3 | #ShortGirlAppreciationDay NUMBER ONE on Twitter. How many people out there are appreciating short guys?I'm a short guy and I can NOT stand short women. They can't take dick. At all. They talk a good game but they can't ever back it up. It's sad. | /r/MGTOW | 22/12/17 05:28 AM |
| 8 | How did your last relationship end?I stopped liking her because she was a loser and I regretted being the only sap to invest so much time and money into a used car. After I broke up with her she obsessed over me (and still does) so now I make her buy me shit lol. | /r/MGTOW | 21/12/17 04:37 PM |
| 3 | If most women can't stand each other where does that leave us?Women have a good sixth sense of other women but not on other men. Usually when a woman tells me that another one is a bitch in pleasant good girl clothing she's 100% correct. They can smell it. And it's because they're like that too. | /r/MGTOW | 29/11/17 11:00 PM |
| 7 | Ex claims that I "ruined her"That's very true lol. Sometimes I feel like that maybe I'm the crazy one and she's been driven mad by me. But my hormones have been going crazy lately. I've been masturbating 5-6 times a day, fucking my ex and another girl I used to date, and it still feels like nowhere near enough. I used to be such a chill guy when I was younger and practically asexual. It's just crazy. I wish I could turn it off. | /r/MGTOW | 29/11/17 06:45 PM |
| 1 | Ex came begging; 2 months later she’s engagedWhat a classic line. You took me back with that one. | /r/MGTOW | 27/11/17 01:57 PM |
| 3 | For those who are still on the fence regarding MGTOW, get it through your heads: there is no unicorn. The unicorns in your life are even more hypergamous than the average femalePlot twist - she's cheating with him. | /r/MGTOW | 27/11/17 01:02 PM |
| 1 | The Saga fucking continues... Now bare in mind, I haven’t seen this chic in 4yrs and had only a handful of conversations in the last 2yrs. Thank fuck she lives out of state. Hopefully she’ll take the damn hint. SmfhWhile we were dating whenever she owed me money she used to pay back immediately but then she lost her job and had to find another one that didn't pay as good and then her payments kept getting longer and longer so I essentially threatened her that I'll cut her off completely if she didn't pay what she owed in full first. | /r/MGTOW | 27/11/17 10:04 AM |
| 3 | The Saga fucking continues... Now bare in mind, I haven’t seen this chic in 4yrs and had only a handful of conversations in the last 2yrs. Thank fuck she lives out of state. Hopefully she’ll take the damn hint. SmfhLOL I tried to get her to increase her credit limit but her credit is too shitty. I've also been a complete evil dick to her and now even though she still tries to "kill me with kindness" I just keep bitching at her about how much of a failure she is and it's made her back off some. She knows me too well and that once it's over then it's over. I also screenshotted our agreement so if she tried to back out of it then I'd take her to court. | /r/MGTOW | 27/11/17 05:01 AM |
| 6 | The Saga fucking continues... Now bare in mind, I haven’t seen this chic in 4yrs and had only a handful of conversations in the last 2yrs. Thank fuck she lives out of state. Hopefully she’ll take the damn hint. SmfhShe owes me 1200 so I can't just let that slide. Well I could in theory but I had a really bad experience with a woman that used me for money, said she'd pay me back, then ghosted me. My ex to this day, even though she's a liar and a whore, has been consistent with her payments at least. She's used to it with all of her debt. | /r/MGTOW | 27/11/17 04:41 AM |
| 12 | The Saga fucking continues... Now bare in mind, I haven’t seen this chic in 4yrs and had only a handful of conversations in the last 2yrs. Thank fuck she lives out of state. Hopefully she’ll take the damn hint. SmfhCrazy how they work. I made a post about how my ex used to be all over me even when I'd yell, cuss, and bitch her out. She still owes me money though and said that she'd pay and return some of my stuff so our contact is limited to that. | /r/MGTOW | 27/11/17 12:08 AM |
| 4 | In Case You Need A Reminder - NEVER Cohabitate! AWALT!She spent her escort money on me already to buy me a new game, some food, and clothes after I told her that I wanted her out of my life completely. You can't make this shit up. I literally do my best to treat her like absolute dog shit every waking moment so that it would encourage her to leave but it hasn't worked so far. She even offered to give me her entire paycheck. | /r/MGTOW | 22/11/17 12:23 PM |
| 1 | A CHALLENGE TO THE BRIGADERS:Glad you know that I'd find it humorous, because it is. "Sharing a space" vs living with someone is completely different. Let's see how you feel when you have work in the morning and she's nagging/bitching at you from ten'o'clock until 1 in the morning on a work day. The sense I'm getting from you is that "everything is fine so why worry about what could go wrong?" The fact of the matter is, statistically and anecdotally, things WILL go wrong. Things will go REALLY wrong and most men won't pull … | /r/MGTOW | 11/11/17 04:59 AM |
| 1 | A CHALLENGE TO THE BRIGADERS:You don't live with her, so you don't even truly know her. Let's just both accept that reality before we move on. You can't truly know someone unless you live with them and enter the real world together, where you have to make sacrifices for one another. Not "sacrifices" that both of you may make now, but I mean REAL sacrifices. Financial, physical, giving up your dreams, goals, and aspiraitons for another all for the sake of "compromise", trying to learn to deal with someone else's past issues … | /r/MGTOW | 11/11/17 03:37 AM |
| 1 | A CHALLENGE TO THE BRIGADERS:So no to cohabitation? Check. Together for 7 years (lol at high school and college years wait until you're in the real world) and no real struggles? Check. Save the stuff about the "pitfalls". Every relationship have the same ones believe it or not. Incessant nagging and bitching, too afraid to share how you feel about a certain issue so you hold on to it until it boils over and "you've been feeling this way for months" yet didn't have the decency to discuss the issue when it was still relevant.… | /r/MGTOW | 11/11/17 12:12 AM |
| 2 | Men who have been married or engaged...what red flags did you ignore before/during the relationship that could have saved you time and money?Living with her parents. Claims ex was "abusive" (loe and behold she claimed I was abusive too which made me lose ALL sympathy and respect for her while we were together) Can only get dead end jobs Hyper sexual (because that's all she brings to the table) "Daddy" issues (her dad ran out of her life because of her mom and it took her years to realize this even though he sent her money and tried to stay active in her life) Bitching, Nagging, complaining about you to her family (her family loved me… | /r/MGTOW | 10/11/17 11:40 PM |
| 1 | A CHALLENGE TO THE BRIGADERS:How long have you and your girlfriend been together? And are you two cohabiting? These are two VERY important questions btw and will tell me all that I will need to know. | /r/MGTOW | 10/11/17 11:32 PM |
| 2 | Few Thing Make Me Happy Like Women being Denied Marriage due to Sexual PastWhat's great too is keeping her around for sex. I keep my gf around now purely for sex. I never intended on marrying her due to the fact that she lied to me about sleeping with a man she never went on a date with. It turned out that she "forgot" she did and I told her that I'd never marry her or have kids with her and she still sticks around LOL. Desperation at its finest. She knows that the clock is ticking (she's 26) and doesn't want to die alone. Meanwhile I get to run her ragged by making he… | /r/MGTOW | 28/10/17 06:52 PM |
| 1 | So it begins....No.....now it ends. Couldn't help but do the GoT reference lol | /r/MGTOW | 25/09/17 12:39 PM |
| 1 | Anon defines the Wall and its stages.I'm 23 and I see it even now. It's hilarious because I tell women I'm dating that I don't plan on nor believe in marriage and at first they say "oh okay I don't either! Yea marriage sucks." And then as time goes on they try to keep sliding it in little by little. "IF you were to marry what would you want the wedding to be like?" "Is there anyway to change your mind?" Obviously I don't budge so they do one of two things. "I believe in marriage so we won't work out...." Or "Well marriage is stupid… | /r/MGTOW | 22/09/17 07:33 PM |
| 1 | Wall Wednesday - Rose McgowanMy ex cut her hair a few months after we started dating. I kept telling her that I wouldn't like it but she did it anyways. Then she wondered why she got the dick less and less and finally broke down crying begging me to be attracted to her again. If you really cared about being attractive to me then you wouldn't have done it. She just felt bad because she didn't know how much it meant to me to date a woman that's actually you know....feminine lol. | /r/MGTOW | 21/09/17 02:13 PM |
| 2 | What was the Last Straw?I just don't feel emotionally invested in any of this right now. I literally only care about hanging out with my friends and becoming as rich as possible so I can travel and do whatever I want. That's all. | /r/MGTOW | 14/09/17 10:29 PM |
| 5 | What was the Last Straw?I've made my LTR sleep on my couch or go home actually. It's hilarious because she would cry herself to sleep every time and I could hear her cry but I literally didn't care. It got to the point where I would sleep even more peacefully to it in the background. | /r/MGTOW | 13/09/17 10:30 AM |
| 1 | What was the Last Straw?Don't worry I don't do second chances. | /r/MGTOW | 13/09/17 10:07 AM |
| 96 | What was the Last Straw?That's exactly how I feel too. The thing is I place a much higher value on intimacy and companionship then sex. Sex is great but I don't care for it that much, never have really. The thing is women make for shitty companions. And I refuse to be with a woman who indulged in debauchery for most of her life (like my now ex) and then decided to one day "settle down". It's sad because the more she told me about herself, what she's done, and to hear her try to rationalize it made me disgust her more a… | /r/MGTOW | 12/09/17 05:24 PM |
| 1 | White Men Have No IdentityTrust me I'm black. I'm just not blind either. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/08/17 07:23 PM |
| 0 | White Men Have No IdentityThis was more an American issue not a global issue. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/08/17 06:45 PM |
| 1 | White Men Have No IdentityMy father grew up as a very poor black man and as I grew up he never said a single good thing about black people. He may be the single most racist person I've ever known but as someone who grew up surrounded by predominately black peoples a lot of what he said was true. Also my father used to watch DBZ and Yu-Gi-Oh with me. Black people love anime especially DBZ it's all we talked about at home and at school. Hell my sister had a crush on Trunks. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/08/17 04:34 PM |
| 1 | White Men Have No IdentityWell professor, I believe this affects the sexual market by making it harder for the people without "exotic" features (read white men) stand out amongst the crowd. I'm not even attracted to white women, I fall head over heels for Hispanics, but I can't tell you how many times white women have tried to awkwardly hit on me by randomly talking about rap music or by speaking Ebonics. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/08/17 04:30 PM |
| 3 | 5:00am. My soon to be Ex (6 years) is sleeping right next to me. I just caught her cheating. What's the next move? How do I dump her?What makes cheating so power and alluring is the thrill of getting away with it knowing that your partner is none the wiser and has (perceived) limited options in you. You are absolutely right when you say that it's a power play but all it means is that one party believes that the balance of power is in their favor. Tip the scales and suddenly they're at a loss because they're no where near as powerful as they thought they were. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/07/17 02:31 PM |
| 10 | 5:00am. My soon to be Ex (6 years) is sleeping right next to me. I just caught her cheating. What's the next move? How do I dump her?Personally I'd dread her. Just go out to the bar for hours on end and if she asks where you are or what you're doing then just radio silence or give her vague answers. "I'm busy." "I'm out." "I'll be home whenever." I (to my knowledge) never had my LTRs cheat on me but I was big on dread even before I knew what dread was. I can't tell how many times my LTRs broke down just because I missed a few of their texts/phone calls while hanging out with my friends or just at the gym. You don't have to ch… | /r/TheRedPill | 30/07/17 01:38 PM |
| 1 | I Wanna Thank You GuysNot a lot super hot girls around me :/ but I'll definitely be on the look out. | /r/askTRP | 30/07/17 01:14 PM |
| 16 | I Wanna Thank You GuysLmao yea I'm not a sperg about it. I can only imagine how a weerdo would go about it. "I am downgrading you to a plate." "????" I just told her that we can't be together anymore but if she wants the dick then I'll be here. She chose the dick of course. | /r/askTRP | 30/07/17 01:07 PM |
| 1 | LTR Says "I'm glad you're not the type to take me home after the first date" Turns Out She Slept With Someone Without A Date At AllNo. She never went on a date with him. He never paid for dinner until one time after he fucked her. I was fortunate enough to take her out to Chilijs first and then out again before I had the chance. All she had to do was not put it out there that she wasn't like that. But I guess I should have known better. AWALT. And this is coming from a guy who refuses to marry anyone and fucked married/engaged women so if anyone should have known better then it should have been me. I'm salty about that too. | /r/askTRP | 26/07/17 08:46 PM |
| 2 | LTR Says "I'm glad you're not the type to take me home after the first date" Turns Out She Slept With Someone Without A Date At AllShe claimed that she knew him for 2 months, invited him to kick backs from time to time and ended up going over his place and sleeping with him. She claimed that he was "annoying" and cut him off/never slept or spoke to him again. Lots of hamstering but you know how it goes. Must have been nice to fuck without paying. | /r/askTRP | 26/07/17 06:23 PM |
| 2 | LTR Says "I'm glad you're not the type to take me home after the first date" Turns Out She Slept With Someone Without A Date At AllWe're extremely compatible sexually. I think downgrading her to plate would be for the best. | /r/askTRP | 26/07/17 10:43 AM |
| 1 | LTR Says "I'm glad you're not the type to take me home after the first date" Turns Out She Slept With Someone Without A Date At AllRandom conversation. She mentioned offhandedly that a guy bought her dinner after they had sex. Instantly I caught that as, "sex without a first date." One year. I'm 24. She told me off hand. Again, wouldn't have given two fucks if she never said those words to me on our first date. I made the connection immediately. | /r/askTRP | 26/07/17 04:16 AM |
| 14 | LTR Says "I'm glad you're not the type to take me home after the first date" Turns Out She Slept With Someone Without A Date At AllYea it's constantly on my mind now. It took me two dates but I guess that's a grade of a B+? Or maybe a B-? Either way all she had to say for herself was how "attractive" he was and how they had been friends for a couple of months before she did it. Also claimed that he was "annoying" but none of that matters. If being annoying let me fuck bitches without a date then call me Jar Jar Binks. | /r/askTRP | 26/07/17 03:33 AM |
| 2 | LTR Says "I'm glad you're not the type to take me home after the first date" Turns Out She Slept With Someone Without A Date At AllLmao maybe I should just tell her all that and see how she takes it. | /r/askTRP | 26/07/17 02:24 AM |
| 3 | LTR Says "I'm glad you're not the type to take me home after the first date" Turns Out She Slept With Someone Without A Date At AllBoth. But I understand. She does work hard to validate herself to me so it's whatever but at the same time I just wanted to move the fuck on before I became too emotionally invested. | /r/askTRP | 26/07/17 01:20 AM |
| 7 | LTR Says "I'm glad you're not the type to take me home after the first date" Turns Out She Slept With Someone Without A Date At AllLet me reveal to her that I'm an ex con who can't land a job...oh and I used to beat on my last 3 LTRs. But it doesn't matter now, it's in the past and as long as she enjoys my company then she has nothing to worry about. /s | /r/askTRP | 25/07/17 11:36 PM |
| 9 | LTR Says "I'm glad you're not the type to take me home after the first date" Turns Out She Slept With Someone Without A Date At AllBecause she put it out there that she wasn't like that. If she never said that then I wouldn't have cared. | /r/askTRP | 25/07/17 11:18 PM |
| 5 | LTR Says "I'm glad you're not the type to take me home after the first date" Turns Out She Slept With Someone Without A Date At AllBecause she said she's not the type, which to me brought up her SMV. But now I know she wasn't, so it's taken a hit. Now I'm trying to reconcile that. If she was up front about it then I wouldn't care. But she wasn't so now I do. | /r/askTRP | 25/07/17 11:16 PM |
| 1 | All of the posts here regarding LTRs ending seem to revolve around AWALT and seeing through the shit tests. I'm certainly not saying I have a unicorn but how many of you have sacked up and ended a perfectly good relationship simply to enjoy the finer side of the single life.Yea it's painful. I want to see the world more, and the longer I'm with her the more bitter I am about her, as if it's her fault that I can't break free. I love her to death but I'm only 23, and she's only 24. I've known her for years and she's made some very poor choices that set her back, so now in my mind I'm getting every Chad's throwaway. Yet she does her best and built her life around mine completely. From agreeing to not marrying me since I didn't want it to working 2 jobs and busting her… | /r/TheRedPill | 18/07/17 02:40 AM |
| 1 | All of the posts here regarding LTRs ending seem to revolve around AWALT and seeing through the shit tests. I'm certainly not saying I have a unicorn but how many of you have sacked up and ended a perfectly good relationship simply to enjoy the finer side of the single life.I'm in the exact same boat. It's extremely frustrating. I've been reading up on philosophy in an attempt to "liberate" myself. More specifically, Frederick Nietchze and the Ubermensch. I feel too attached, dependent, and invested. The longer I stay the more invested I become yet with each passing day I try to convince myself that she's not worth it. The reason I found TRP was due to the fact that I felt something was missing in my prior relationship. I realized it was because I was too supplicat… | /r/TheRedPill | 16/07/17 01:44 PM |
| 1 | Giving a woman legitimate advice like you would to a man, on occasion only.Women want you to feel what they feel. That's it. Also it's advised not to dump your problems onto a woman because they will compound the issue. "Oh, I've felt that way before too." Then they go on a tangent. How does that help you work through your problem? | /r/TheRedPill | 16/07/17 02:22 AM |
| 2 | "The Tao of Pooh"Great stuff. Lao Tzu once said "Looking to the past makes one depressed. Looking to the future makes one anxious. Looking at the present puts one at peace." That quote alone literally changed my life. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/07/17 02:26 AM |
| 1 | How to Deal with an Angry GirlfriendIt's all about your style of discipline. I, like my father before me, prefer a very no nonsense approach. I start off with a warning, and if ignored I put my LTR in her place. I don't have to yell, scream, or cuss, I just have to be firm. "I am not talking to you while you are like this." If she carries on, I ignore her. Now if your LTR doesn't take you seriously, she will completely steam roll over you. You ignore her? It's inconceivable. All she has to do is raise her voice some more, maybe ta… | /r/TheRedPill | 12/07/17 03:39 PM |
| 39 | Monogamy is a lie.. save yourself the time and angst, esp. if you are new hereAbundance mentality will help you oust your LTR if she's cheating. Seeing you with options like she has ruins the "thrill" and thus, the "high" because you could just as easily cheat on her or replace her without a second thought. There is nothing on this Earth that breaks a woman more than seeing her man surrounded by hordes of "sluts". She'll either drop her side piece in secret or oust herself by acting extremely controlling and confrontational over the slightest hint of dread. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/07/17 11:42 PM |
| 2 | July 07 - Weekly Improvement & Progress ThreadLost frame with LTR and we are cohabiting. I told her to pack her things and go whilst I get some well deserved space. She agreed that space was needed. The stress of my LTR and lack of drive/motivation/ambition has made my week a shit show. I haven't stuck to my diet, my work outs, and I haven't been working on coding like I said I would. Positive takeaway was that I recognized what the problems were and made some changes. We'll see how it goes. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/07/17 05:02 PM |
| 5 | The Nuance of Intergender "Friendships"A quick way to kill the "he's just a friend" cop out is saying that you're about to go hang out with a "friend" too. If you see the worry on her face then you know that you have her. You don't even have to have real female friends. The very thought that her man could be fucking another "slut's" brains out should dread her enough to end the friendship. Keep in mind that women do not trust women. Ever. They think every girl is eye fucking you, every chuckle at one of your jokes is an indication of… | /r/TheRedPill | 07/07/17 12:59 PM |
| 8 | 6 Common Things Women Say To Show DisinterestIt's a double edged sword. She thinks you're "nice" so she drops her guard. Use that opening to get in through the backdoor. Women, and people in general, love an oxymoron. " He seemed so nice but..." What is your "but"? I'm 23 but I'm short with a baby face. I literally look 12 years old. I'm nice too.... But I'm an asshole. I'm funny too. I also make lewd jokes and I speak my mind. My LTR told me that I "seemed nice" on our first date until I emphatically disagreed with her. What it was about … | /r/TheRedPill | 30/06/17 05:31 PM |
| 4 | Never Stop Gaming: Especially If You're In An LTRWhat you said actually coincides with my points. Running game/socializing/being approached all provide the same thing - abundance mentality. Telling men who are at a negative on this sub that they need to just "become a high value male" when they have tasted very little to no success is setting them up for failure. Especially since some men don't have the looks to get approached. They need game. Bad. They need to learn how to be comfortable around people, how to socialize in a crowd and how to n… | /r/TheRedPill | 27/06/17 06:04 AM |
| 3 | The first draft of my program to fight feelings of inferiorityHe's already been a great father to me. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/06/17 11:55 AM |
| 3 | My Seduction Journey #33Gotta say I look forward to these because this is the mentality every man needs to have. LTR or not. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/06/17 02:42 PM |
| 1 | June 23 - Weekly Improvement & Progress ThreadStressful. Work gym LTR and learning coding on the side. Ready for the weekend. Got a cuties number just to see if I could. Not interested in her but I have to keep my gaming skills up just in case my LTR doesn't work out. Mulling over dedicating a post for RPers in LTRs on the importance of constantly gaming. It should never stop. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/06/17 04:15 PM |
| 2 | The Sword is mightier than the Pen. Don't let anyone fool you, communication isn't always effective.Women respect and understand actions, not words. I told my LTR once to always tell me where she's going before she steps out of our place as courtesy. She didn't do it once and I scolded her. She didn't do it again after and I was understandably disappointed so I stopped talking to her. Now she tell me every time. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/06/17 02:44 PM |
| 4 | Practical Advice on LeadingLmao "Get your ass back where you belong!" My LTR walks ahead of me because I'm a very slow strider when I'm not at work. I'll change that. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/06/17 03:31 PM |
| 2 | Women don't want monogamy or courtship so men don't offer itI think the caveat is that if you're a male of high value - i.e. "The prize" then women will practically beg for your commitment by doing anything and everything for you and letting you do anal. Of my 4 LTRs 3 of them asked me for my commitment. They want sex and commitment out of men they view as high value. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/06/17 04:37 PM |
| 1 | Can You Use Porn (Or Is It Using You)?I watch porn and furiously masterbate when my LTR is at work because I found that I can last longer once I get the initial nut off. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/06/17 01:05 PM |
| 3 | So I think I handled a confrontation well... Why can't I stop thinking about it afterwards?I've been a short guy my whole life and I always had been hesitant to stand my ground because I didn't want to get my ass beaten bloody. Then I had enough one day and I told off a guy I worked with that was 6'2 240 "to get out of my fucking face" and his eyes went wide as he put his arms up and slowly backed away. Honestly he was just picking at me like he always did but I wasn't in the mood that day. He never picked at me again after that. When people see it in your eyes, that you won't take sh… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/06/17 04:14 PM |
| 5 | So I think I handled a confrontation well... Why can't I stop thinking about it afterwards?You will be amazed at how non-confrontational people are. Big or small. No one wants to fight and go to jail, it's actually pretty rare unless there's some intense build up prior. Standing your ground is usually more than enough but your adrenaline is to aid you if it escalates beyond that. It rarely does. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/06/17 03:23 PM |
| 2 | Where do I start? Self esteem, be a man?? ADVICEListen to "I'll make a man out of you" from the Disney movie Mulan. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/06/17 03:26 PM |
| 1 | It's insane how your entire life potential is determined by the bones in your faceI don't know if that pic is you OP but it's actually not that bad. Clear the acne up a little and hit the gym and you'll be fine. The thing you also have to know is that there is a "niche" for everyone. For ugly guys, for boyish looking guys, for long haired effeminate looking guys, for ginger haired guys, etc. There is already a "niche" for you that you haven't tapped into. But you can also maximize your assets in order to "break out" of your niche and expand your horizons. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/06/17 03:21 PM |
| 1 | June 09 - Weekly Improvement & Progress ThreadVery true. I was on it for about 3-4 months but I wasn't seeing the results that I wanted so I researched and stumbled upon StrongLifts in order to seek the improvement that I sought. You're right though. I just need to recalibrate and keep it going. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/06/17 09:51 PM |
| 1 | June 09 - Weekly Improvement & Progress ThreadHit a wall in my fitness goals. Extremely disappointed because I'm no where near my goal and yet I'm struggling mightily. Took a week off and started StrongLifts 5x5 and haven't been as consistent as I would like to be. Not giving up though. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/06/17 08:33 PM |
| 2 | Even if you're Nice you'll be the Bad Guy afterwardsBut in the hands of a woman it can turn toxic. Them feeling a certain way is YOUR fault. So you have to take responsibility for it. She makes you take responsibility when she's horny because she wants you to fuck her. But if she "feels" unhappy then you have to take responsibility for that too. When she starts "feeling" as if you're verbally abusive because you tease her, as if you're cheating on her because you stayed an hour extra at the gym/work and you told her that you would ahead of time, … | /r/TheRedPill | 07/06/17 10:15 PM |
| 3 | Even if you're Nice you'll be the Bad Guy afterwardsYou don't need to actively listen to someone whose feelings are based off of nothing substantiated. i.e. "I feel like you're a crackhead." When anyone speaks to me, man or woman, about a pressing issue I prefer that they do it while they have a handle on their emotions. It doesn't mean that I don't want them to express their emotions, just that I want them to express it constructively. Emotions are like driving without a steering wheel. Sure they can get you somewhere, but it might not be where … | /r/TheRedPill | 07/06/17 03:52 PM |
| 2 | DO NOT GIVE INYou should get an endorsement point for this. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/06/17 12:38 PM |
| 27 | Even if you're Nice you'll be the Bad Guy afterwardsYou don't know how many times I've stopped my LTR dead in her tracks when she says "always" and "never". Then after she apologized for saying it she turned to "I FEEL like you always/never" then I told her that that's not acceptable communication language either and all she's doing is using her feelings to justify her embellishments. I say to her "too often for my liking you do [x]" or "you could always improve on the way you handle [x]" I try to be constructive - too often her critiques come of… | /r/TheRedPill | 07/06/17 12:28 PM |
| 5 | What is the best possible outcome of a LTR?As a man who engages in serial LTRs and am in a current one now I'd say that the best possible outcome is increased intimacy and connection with someone. And the cool thing is that you don't even have to end up marrying her at all. I told my LTR that I refuse to get married and she submitted to my wishes. Of course most women will agree with your choice but hold on to the hope that you will make an exception for her. Just remember that LTRs are hard work. There's a reason why it's called TRP on … | /r/TheRedPill | 05/06/17 11:51 AM |
| 17 | Swallowing the red pill was your second loss of innocenceAs a short guy it's really different and difficult because you literally get it from both sides. In middle school I was 4'9 at 12 years old and when I tell you that everybody picked on me I mean EVERYBODY picked on me. I feel no sympathy for women who say that they were bullied because women are rarely physically abused by BOTH men AND women. Small, weak men are. They are even sexually assaulted like I was. By a wrestling teammate. I had to realize early that I had to fight for myself and that n… | /r/TheRedPill | 03/06/17 02:33 PM |
| 4 | SMV And The Importance Of VettingI can empathize but at the same time you have to understand that there will be angry and hurt men in here, there will also be enlightened men and anything in between. Men who care for LTRS, men who don't, men who fuck escorts and men who think that it's not their cup of tea. Regardless it's men who got fed up and decided to do something different in their lives that through empirical evidence has proven to work for other men as well. Some things get lost in translation however but that's what th… | /r/TheRedPill | 26/05/17 03:47 AM |
| 5 | SMV And The Importance Of VettingI wasn't trying to come from a point of bitterness. My post was about the importance of vetting a woman you want to be in an LTR with. For instance in your case if you were dating and told a guy that you don't sleep with people after the first date, but later on admitted that you did so for another guy your SMV will drop. Not because you slept with someone on the first date, but because you were dishonest about it. So the perceived SMV that you displayed to the man was nothing more than an illus… | /r/TheRedPill | 25/05/17 02:46 AM |
| 1 | The Coward's Glance: A Common Folly of Men New to Red Pill Philosophy.Looking men in the eyes is a good first step. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/05/17 02:56 PM |
| 2 | You're probably doing something right, but you're also doing a lot that is wrong.Up voted for reminding me why I chose to take the Red Pill. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/05/17 03:17 PM |
| 23 | Be a Hero to Your Past Self, Not a DisgraceVery insightful post. When I revealed to my dad the amount of bullying and abuse I suffered from school and my exes he said something very similar. "Be strong for the sake of that little 12 year old boy that was picked on." I was suicidal and ended up in the mental ward but I decided to press on and become the man that I wanted to be. And I owed it to my past self that I realized my full potential because otherwise their sacrifices would be in vain. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/05/17 12:17 AM |
| 2 | Being assaulted my a man in my youth turned me into a beta.I feel it man. I joined the wrestling team my senior year in high school. I was (still am) short, about 5'6. But at the time I was a little stocky as well. I lost a lot of weight while on the team and one day I was in the locker room changing out when one of my teammates came in too. He was a sophomore and he was 7 inches taller and at least 150 pounds more than me. He was kind of like the clown of the team as in everyone teased him including the coach. He started trying to horse play around wit… | /r/TheRedPill | 04/05/17 07:11 PM |
| 1 | What Does She Bring To The Table?An acceptable woman is one who can actually contribute something to your life. When her looks fade, when she can't go Sex Goddess on you anymore, when her cooking grows stale and her attitude turns bitchy and her cleaning skills falls off a cliff, she needs to provide you with SOMETHING substantiated. Financial stability, child rearing, confidant, well educated/well read, etc. You want traits that will last the test of time because if you invest yourself into an LTR JUST for the sex, or JUST for… | /r/TheRedPill | 01/05/17 06:44 PM |
| 1 | What Does She Bring To The Table?While I do agree this just goes back to my previous point of things that should be the standard. It's rare to find a woman who you would want to spend the rest of your life with within itself. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/05/17 06:24 PM |
| 1 | What Does She Bring To The Table?It's about seeing through manipulation and knowing that you deserve to be treated like the prize that you are. Your time is valuable and you shouldn't be wasting it with someone who drags you down. But hey, at least she does your laundry for you? Sex, cooking, and cleaning are things that you should expect from your LTR. A good baseline would be, for instance, that she treats you like a decent human being. But too often men excuse shitty behavior because they focus on the (very little) that thei… | /r/TheRedPill | 01/05/17 10:38 AM |
| 2 | If You Don't Like Her Past Then LeavePretty much the same thing. My ex used to do coke and she was extremely reckless with her life even while we were dating. The thing was she didn't even sell her body for coke she just liked to fuck and do coke at the same time. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/05/17 10:26 AM |
| 1 | What Does She Bring To The Table?Too many people here seem to think that I'm angry even though my post history can tell you that I'm far from the anger/bitter phase. This post was about men in LTRs evaluating what their woman brings to the table and weighing it out. Sex is s big deal? That's good. But if sex is ALL she can offer you (no job, can't cook, can't clean, shitty personality, etc) then you need to take a good long hard look at your relationship. If she gives you sexy times, cooks, cleans, makes her own money, and is a… | /r/TheRedPill | 01/05/17 02:37 AM |
| 2 | What Does She Bring To The Table?It's about the woman being well-rounded and for men to not hyper-focus on one thing that she brings and ignore how she bogs down your quality of life. I edited my post to make this much clearer. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/05/17 02:28 AM |
| -14 | What Does She Bring To The Table?You completely missed my point but I won't blame you because I wasn't concise enough go read my post again. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/05/17 02:26 AM |
| 5 | If You Don't Like Her Past Then Leave"Shows effort from not repeating past mistakes" That's the caveat. Some do and some don't. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/04/17 05:22 AM |
| 7 | American girl breaks up date when I don't pay for drinksGreat post, OP was simply unaware of how he came off to her. You don't buy drinks after drinks and then turn around and make her pay for it as if you're entitled to her money - that's a covert contract. Only you knew what was expected from the get go - she didn't. It would be no different if a girl slept with you a few times and then looked at you and said "Okay we go together now." In her mind she said that if you two slept together one more time then you'd both have to be exclusive yet this wa… | /r/TheRedPill | 21/04/17 01:44 PM |
| 3 | Look Within Yourself Before You Blame Your LTRI think the biggest issue most people have is that they want to do something "grand." If i was to tell someone "cut yourself down to 10% body fat" they'd reply "okay but then what?" Or "that's it?" They don't understand that you have to watch your macros, try different diet plans study up on nutrition and the most optimum workout routines, etc because that goal seems to "small" and short sighted. But it is THROUGH these things that you find your purpose. You don't allow yourself to sit idle and … | /r/TheRedPill | 05/04/17 08:54 PM |
| 1 | Tell Us Your Sacrifice And PainI just made this topic for people to speak on the pain and sacrifices they had to make in order to get to the other side. I don't think enough is said about the time between being where you were getting to that better place where things fall in line better. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/03/17 04:31 PM |
| 1 | HELP! Thinking About Ending My LTR???What does that mean???? | /r/askTRP | 27/02/17 01:23 AM |
| 1 | HELP! Thinking About Ending My LTR???I think this is what I've been grappling over the most. Whether to stay and "hope" things get better, or cut my losses and leave and work on myself and my life. What's the best way to break this to her? We live together to save us both money and that's about the best it gets. | /r/askTRP | 26/02/17 07:34 PM |
| 1 | HELP! Thinking About Ending My LTR???I didn't mean for it to come off as if I wasn't confident in myself. 90% of women love having their assholes played with I did it with every girl I've been with so it wasn't new territory or anything it's just when she casually brought up her past like that I just felt as if I'm getting practically every Chads sloppy seconds. It was just a moment thing usually it doesn't bother me but for some reason that did even though I knew already. | /r/askTRP | 26/02/17 07:09 PM |
| 1 | HELP! Thinking About Ending My LTR???I'm not sure I just feel as if the only thing missing from her is a bit more financial stability and independence but I also feel as if I can help her with that but on the other hand I feel as if it's not my job to... I do love her but I don't think "I wanna break up with you until you get more stable and be worth more than we can get back together" will be received well but that's what I'm leaning towards. | /r/askTRP | 26/02/17 07:05 PM |
| 2 | HELP! Thinking About Ending My LTR???I feel like I'm the "prize" that she always sought but of course I'm the "prize" when she's been messing around with low smv guys for most of her life... I just don't get it sometimes. I've met so many irresponsible people that, like her, "gave up" on themselves and threw everything away yet even after my sexual assault and abuse in the military and deep dark depression I was never willing to throw everything away. I just don't get people sometimes I had every excuse to fuck myself over but I di… | /r/askTRP | 26/02/17 06:44 PM |
| -1 | HELP! Thinking About Ending My LTR???I had resolved to keep her around as a "plate" while I focused more and more on myself but I guess it's just I feel bad because I think she really loves me and admired me so much that I literally might have single-handedly changed her life around (she told me this) but my issue is that she had more of a life than I ever have... I think that she'd make a good mom because of good maternal instincts but then again you're right in the sense that someone with her history shouldn't be having kids anyt… | /r/askTRP | 26/02/17 06:36 PM |
| 0 | HELP! Thinking About Ending My LTR???I also want to add that we moved in together but the only reason we did it was so that we could save money and split all of our expenses down the middle. | /r/askTRP | 26/02/17 05:26 PM |
| 2 | HELP! Thinking About Ending My LTR???At first everything was on me while she got back on her feet but now that she has a job she spends money on our groceries and to take me out as well. | /r/askTRP | 26/02/17 05:25 PM |
| 1 | Did I Do The Right Thing? I Told My GF To Get Some HobbiesMy hobbies are writing and going to the gym. My INTERESTS are basketball and LoL (rarely play anymore though) as well as a slew of other things. I'm building up on my hobbies though. Might get into learning another language or a musical instrument. I'm glad my GF was receptive though I plan on being with her for the long haul. | /r/askTRP | 08/02/17 06:26 PM |
| 1 | Did I Do The Right Thing? I Told My GF To Get Some HobbiesI understand what you're saying, but I must reiterate that I don't play often at all (once or twice every other week) and that normally I spend much of my time with her. I can see why she got that impression but it's not like I was actively avoiding or neglecting her. Of course she might seem to be a low priority to me when all she ever does is stay at home and do very little. She'll think "why is he putting all of these things ahead of me" when really I felt she was being unreasonable. Again th… | /r/askTRP | 08/02/17 06:21 PM |
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