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| 541 | Been at this 10 years, my #1 tip. | sunn_ | /r/seduction | 27/10/12 06:55 AM | |
| 2 | Been at this 10 years, AMA | sunn_ | /r/seduction | 18/09/12 01:26 AM | |
| 1 | 8 years later, am now a natural, AMA | sunn_ | /r/seduction | 07/09/12 12:08 PM | |
| 0 | 10 years of experience, AMA | sunn_ | /r/seduction | 24/10/12 10:48 PM |
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| 2 | Need help interacting in a group situationShy girls might get more shy and reserved and bitter to you if you flirt with every girl (including her). Be flirty and fun with everyone, kino is fine too as long as it's fairly platonic/nonsexual. | /r/seduction | 14/11/12 05:41 AM |
| 1 | Usually I don't let this stuff bother me but this time it did.It is negging. Negging is when you start like you are going to say something nice or interesting and follow it up with a take away to show you don't care about her appearance or attitude or X. It's horrible conversationally because it is a dead end. It's poor frame that the girl can use against you and friend zone you with. It's poor socially because if the girl has a regular sized ego, she won't even care and she'll think you're a jerk and so will her friends. Being high value is not about putt… | /r/seduction | 12/11/12 08:33 PM |
| 11 | How do you get a girl to qualify herself?I don't want to bother listing all the ways you can get a girl to qualify herself, so instead I'm going to give you an advanced tip: the girls who don't qualify themselves or hardly qualify themselves are often the coolest chicks, and the girls who qualify hardcore are the least cool. | /r/seduction | 09/11/12 09:10 AM |
| 1 | What are some of your low points where you look back and think "What was I thinking?"Ex girlfriends can be your biggest inner demons or your best friends and your best learning opportunities. Why process experiences in a negative way? | /r/seduction | 09/11/12 03:58 AM |
| 5 | Going to try day game, not sure what to wear or who to hit on...Day game is my alma mater. Wear something casual but fasionable, i.e. dressier than most people but not too dressy. A nice non-graphic tee, a nice, good fitting pair of jeans and a matching pair of shoes is -fine-. The thing with day game is that, say a girl who works in Barnes n Noble isn't necessarily used to some guy walking up to them and talking to them, whereas barchicks get that alot more during night game. Also when you talk to a girl during the day outside of a bar/club it's far less ex… | /r/seduction | 08/11/12 09:36 AM |
| 1 | How do you guys deal with busy girls?maybe because the undergrad life is so draining, like social life is a full time job, school work is as hard as some grad programs, and dont get started on extracurriculars/greeklife. either way, life is good, stop trying to find issues and you'll find less of them. this isn't a big deal. | /r/seduction | 01/11/12 03:02 AM |
| 1 | How do you guys deal with busy girls?Right because they're just out of school in an economy that sucks. Check back in 3 years, and you'll see that I'm right. | /r/seduction | 01/11/12 02:50 AM |
| 3 | How do you guys deal with busy girls?your'e getting older is all. life gets more complicated and more time consuming. doesn't change much, just makes scheduling more interesting...(sometimes in unpredictably good ways i.e. im only available tonight at 2am can i come over?) | /r/seduction | 01/11/12 02:27 AM |
| 1 | My halloween costume is a smoking jacket a la playboy Hugh Heffner. Is this a bad idea?i'd say it's kinda lame if you say you're hugh heffner for halloween. i would just wear it for fun and just say you're being awesome for halloween. | /r/seduction | 28/10/12 11:31 PM |
| 16 | Been at this 10 years, my #1 tip.I'd just like to thank you for not chiming in with some feminist stance on why we are all pigs, etc. I'll be the first to say I got into this to stroke my ego, I wanted to fuck hot chicks and feel good about myself. The longer you work on this stuff, though, the more you uncover your real issues deep down, and the more you begin to value men and women for who they are rather than how they look dressed-up. It's my understanding that most of the men into this, even the ones who currently think the… | /r/seduction | 28/10/12 05:09 AM |
| 1 | Been at this 10 years, my #1 tip.Ehhh it's not about getting laid but it is an indicator that you're doing something right. I treat seduction the way I treat my spiritual life: take what makes sense and works and leave what doesn't. If this doesn't work for some people or is "too simple/beginner-oriented" then so be it, what I don't get is people saying "this could never work". This is such a common response to my posts on reddit: "wah wah wah, this could never work." Look, I'm in the select few who have gone out there, and put… | /r/seduction | 28/10/12 04:51 AM |
| 2 | Been at this 10 years, my #1 tip.This was targeted at people like you, I figured the more advanced would find no help in it. I'm glad it was helpful. Delivery is hard because when you're new you don't believe in yourself or your ability to seduce or attract or succeed in life in general, in time, you learn you can open with pretty much anything and so long as it reeks of self-belief, it works. My best tips for AA is simply to expect the worst possible rejection. Fight Club the interaction. Go in hoping to get massively blown ou… | /r/seduction | 27/10/12 11:25 PM |
| 5 | Been at this 10 years, my #1 tip.it's just a -very- good tool for beginners, i think, nothing more. the three dialogues are applicable, if kind of lame. take from it what you will. if you've been actively approaching for a year then you probably shouldn't even read this thread. | /r/seduction | 27/10/12 10:24 PM |
| 2 | Been at this 10 years, my #1 tip.:\ its targeted at beginners, I would hardly call this advanced. There's so much more to be discussed, this is square one: your mindset at approach. | /r/seduction | 27/10/12 09:26 PM |
| 3 | Been at this 10 years, my #1 tip.take an upvote for honesty. i think that's an important opinion in this discourse, but i'm not sure it's valid because love and war are simply not fair battlegrounds. girls are equally bad about this. i've been with women who eventually got the truth out of me: that i didn't want a relationship with them, and they pushed and pushed and pushed and argued and manipulated to try and get what they wanted: a boyfriend. i don't think there's anything morally wrong with it, it's just nature. | /r/seduction | 27/10/12 09:17 PM |
| 9 | Been at this 10 years, my #1 tip.yeah, kinda. i get that sometimes. | /r/seduction | 27/10/12 08:57 PM |
| 1 | Been at this 10 years, my #1 tip.I wouldn't go that far. | /r/seduction | 27/10/12 08:53 PM |
| 2 | Been at this 10 years, my #1 tip.Exactly. This isn't some golden piece of advice that will completely transform you and you shouldn't base your entire strategy around it, but it is something I realized that I've been doing that leads to unpredictable success, despite the fact that it is often the sloppier, less smooth way to go about things. Friendzoning is simple to avoid: physical escalation. | /r/seduction | 27/10/12 08:53 PM |
| 1 | Been at this 10 years, my #1 tip.Do what works: the only rule in seduction. This isn't really a rule or tip that I live by, just something I noticed I do that has given me great results in the past and am trying to pass it along. | /r/seduction | 27/10/12 08:48 PM |
| 6 | Been at this 10 years, my #1 tip.I have to check the baking aisle too? edit: FUCK raisins, this should be an issue made more aware to the world. | /r/seduction | 27/10/12 08:47 PM |
| 2 | Been at this 10 years, my #1 tip.true dat. examples are so corny, but for whatever reason, they were 24-hour seductions and strike me as instances where this mindset worked. | /r/seduction | 27/10/12 08:46 PM |
| 2 | Been at this 10 years, my #1 tip.haha | /r/seduction | 27/10/12 08:45 PM |
| 2 | Been at this 10 years, my #1 tip.I wouldn't call this tip gold, but for the person new to this community, this is a great mindset to approach with that should make things alot easier. | /r/seduction | 27/10/12 08:45 PM |
| 1 | Been at this 10 years, my #1 tip.Really? Interesting. | /r/seduction | 27/10/12 08:45 PM |
| 1 | Been at this 10 years, my #1 tip.This helps. | /r/seduction | 27/10/12 08:41 PM |
| 2 | Been at this 10 years, my #1 tip.? These are like the most uncool / gay / cutesy examples I can provide... This is me at my most unsuave. Cool, yes, I guess I am cool, guilty as charged, I can be pretty lame at times, just re-read the examples they're all hugely lame. I guess being "suave" is just about giving yourself permission to do and say the things you truly want to say and do, and if you don't want to be suave then maybe you're in the wrong community. The definition of seduction and instant-approach is suave because you'… | /r/seduction | 27/10/12 08:41 PM |
| 19 | Been at this 10 years, my #1 tip.they mostly dealt with taking responsibility. when my buddy jay and i are hiring, one of us sits in the "waiting room" with the candidate, posing as a potential candidate, and spills a glass of water and then gets "called in for his interview". across the room is a prominently displayed roll of paper towels and trash can. we re-enter the room in 10 minutes. if the potential candidate has cleaned up the water, we -almost- instantly hire the person. if the water is still there, we almost instantly… | /r/seduction | 27/10/12 11:51 AM |
| 4 | Been at this 10 years, my #1 tip.never realized that haha i wish i could find my other posts, but I think they had hotlinks to #pickup and they seem to have been removed. | /r/seduction | 27/10/12 11:39 AM |
| 31 | Been at this 10 years, my #1 tip.hahaaha grocery store pickup is my favorite. the raisins story is my favorite too, me and this girl wandered for 15 minutes trying to find raisins, we refused to ask for help because we didnt want to admit we were retarded. i swear try and find raisins next time your at your grocery store. they can be anywhere. dried goods. snacks. with the oatmeal. with the fruit/grapes. with the salads. it's unreal. even after we asked for help, we had to ask 4x before someone actually gave us the correct loca… | /r/seduction | 27/10/12 11:35 AM |
| 3 | Been at this 10 years, my #1 tip.my posts on other accounts http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/tpm95/been_at_this_10_years_fielding_questions/ http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/qtu5r/10_things_you_probably_do_wrong/ | /r/seduction | 27/10/12 11:16 AM |
| 1 | 10 years of experience, AMATake it easy... | /r/seduction | 25/10/12 12:55 AM |
| 10 | What ONE change gave you the biggest improvement?an interesting side note to this is that most dominant males dont actually look people in the eyes when they pass them on the streets, they are off in their own worlds | /r/seduction | 24/10/12 10:42 PM |
| 11 | What ONE change gave you the biggest improvement?this, also when i did have sex i had no stamina. im all for using the hand. | /r/seduction | 24/10/12 10:41 PM |
| -2 | How do I deal with girls that want me to be "sexually exclusive" with them?it's actually also worth reading my post here: http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/100dg4/how_do_i_recover_from_this_one/c69ba0c regarding the myth of having a harem of women, no matter how good you are at this stuff. the fuck buddy thing just doesn't work. at least you are getting women who are straight up with you before they let you taste their vagina. i respect that. | /r/seduction | 22/09/12 06:03 PM |
| -12 | How do I deal with girls that want me to be "sexually exclusive" with them?theres too much talking going on and too much deadspace before sex if you have this sort of discourse about it. trust me. once girls feel like they can gain ground with something they will. so with these girls you may have lost out. with other girls escalate to sex ASA(appropriate &)P. the quicker you move, the more turned on you get them, the more the sex -will- happen. without a condom, even. most guys talk too much. "should i use a condom?" "i hate condoms" etc. no. just put it in her. she wi… | /r/seduction | 22/09/12 05:37 PM |
| 2 | Lets get your opinion on somethingyeah i mean, these girls seem pretty picky, but yeah it's a good rule of thumb to never make a dinner date with a girl you're already in a quasi-relationship with. she should be the one begging you to take her out for dinner. "let's make reservations somewhere nice for tomorrow night!" those words should come out of her mouth, not yours. after awhile it's okay to make plans for dinner... | /r/seduction | 21/09/12 07:38 AM |
| 2 | Lets get your opinion on somethingmaybe they feel like you're not being adventurous enough, letting the relationship run it's own route. trying to force things to get serious, which is a beta mistake. i hardly ever plan my dinners more than 6 hours in advance. why? because im busy. my time is important and is constantly up for grabs and i like to do things at the last second and see what happens. spontaneity is the spice of life, when you start mapping out the relationship, maybe girls can see where that's going and they lose in… | /r/seduction | 21/09/12 07:21 AM |
| 1 | how to make an approach genuine to a woman?you have to throw off the slightest hint that you are excited and have never done this before. slight. slight. slight. | /r/seduction | 21/09/12 07:19 AM |
| -6 | Best response to: Why don't you have a girlfriend?don't be a cunt, don't be feminist of sexist. that won't get you anywhere. women are your new best friends. girls only ever ask the "why don't you have a gf?" question when they actually really like a guy but are skeptical of how he feels about them. the bold, correct way to respond is actually something like: ive been waiting/looking for someone like you. (if you want her to be your girlfriend) if she says: you hardly know me. then your response to that is: youre not good at first impressions a… | /r/seduction | 21/09/12 07:14 AM |
| 2 | Lets get your opinion on somethinghows the sex? how do breakfast and lunch go? this doesnt make any sense but realize there is probably a reason why if it is a trend in your life... edit: it may be worth asking girls what happened, i'm serious, this is your life, and you should figure this shit out | /r/seduction | 21/09/12 07:08 AM |
| 1 | Funny way to make diminish AA, anger and "oneitis"This. Is the best starting point I know of for day game. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Kth7yAtvauM Watch this guy's talk in full. | /r/seduction | 18/09/12 08:35 PM |
| 1 | Dealing with rejection like a proIt's irrelevant what you've done, really. Cheating is (hardly) ever justified, and you can't control another person's actions, especially when they are doing something behind your back, it's better to just brush it off. Later on you can reflect and learn what you did wrong and educate yourself and grow into a better man, but immediately after a breakup is not a good time to be questioning yourself. | /r/seduction | 18/09/12 10:30 AM |
| 1 | What are some good terms of endearment?alright. i'll give away my best secret here. you can get away with saying pretty much anything if you include this term of endearment in the sentence... "m'lady" you can say the dirtiest most sexual things, you can even be rude, but so long as the m'lady is in there, they will respond with some baseline level of kindness and grace. there you have it, my ninja, the ultimate secret. | /r/seduction | 18/09/12 10:25 AM |
| 1 | Texting back and forth for a week. Seems like a stalemate. Any last things I should do to try to progress this before I call it quits?You should make things sexual if you are going to reply and you should setup an activity with her, not a date. | /r/seduction | 18/09/12 07:19 AM |
| 1 | Texting back and forth for a week. Seems like a stalemate. Any last things I should do to try to progress this before I call it quits?heres an idea: dont just text about nothing. that's called the friendzone | /r/seduction | 18/09/12 06:49 AM |
| 1 | Dealing with rejection like a proalways wanted to read it but never have, what are the parallels between him and this? i think im goign to have to read it now | /r/seduction | 18/09/12 05:05 AM |
| 1 | Is there a unspoken competition between smart guys and tough guys?like pretty much 99% of my comments on this subreddit. you want to be somewhere in between ideally. the attractive, tough, scoundrel who sometimes has a lack of words, but in general is articulate, whose wealth comes effortlessly, he is classy and smart yet humble and not obnoxious. it's possible to be both sides of the coin. also, to my mind, you failed to list any of the maybe top 10 traits i think a woman would want in a man. | /r/seduction | 18/09/12 04:32 AM |
| 2 | Is there a unspoken competition between smart guys and tough guys?Bill Nye? | /r/seduction | 18/09/12 04:29 AM |
| 0 | How to be charismatic?charismatic people secretly love attention, and will do whatever it takes to command it. uncharismatic people yearn for attention but once it's there they aren't comfortable with it. | /r/seduction | 18/09/12 04:28 AM |
| 3 | Funny way to make diminish AA, anger and "oneitis"Nothing wrong with it but once I had sex with a girl that came very close to my perfect 10. I realized that there is more to life than fine women: refined women. I'm not looking down on anyone, I just think it's ultimately a shallow pursuit that will eventually land you where it has landed me after 10 years of bullshit. Take a decade's worth of advice: day game, day game, day game. | /r/seduction | 18/09/12 04:24 AM |
| 5 | Dealing with rejection like a proahaha sometimes i think im on another level, like meta-seduction. i do the exact opposite of what is espoused in the community and get laid doing it. it's funny because there are two mentalities that seem to act the same, but in reality their actions and their emotions are completely different.... let's say a girlfriend cheats on you. now there's one scenario where you brush it off your shoulder because you are insecure, weak, you cannot deal with the pain so you'd rather pretend it didn't happe… | /r/seduction | 18/09/12 04:15 AM |
| -1 | Funny way to make diminish AA, anger and "oneitis"Correction: a lot of beginners like him because they still think that hot babes are where it's at and that clubs are like a Pokemon Safari zone where you can trawl for shaved pussy and big tits and if you fuck enough 10/10s youll eventually reach some sort of Nirvana. When in reality you'll wake up some morning with a girl who doesn't even know what day of the week it is, she's 29 and is an out of work stripper/bartender/dancer, and you guys don't even remember each others names. These days I'm … | /r/seduction | 18/09/12 01:31 AM |
| 0 | I don't understand the obsession of getting someone's phone number.'s don't really mean anything but it is important that you be able to find the girl in this crazy world after the first time you meet her. she might work at that Dior store on Rodeo Dr. and within a couple days time she could be x-ferred to a different store nearby and you'll never see her again. C'est la vie. That is why getting numbers is important. | /r/seduction | 18/09/12 01:25 AM |
| 7 | Dealing with rejection like a proEvery girlfriend I've ever had I am still best friends with, even the ones who cheated on me, I take them out for dinner every once in awhile and pay. Someone please call me beta. Anyone? | /r/seduction | 18/09/12 01:22 AM |
| 2 | How to give a girl shit for being late without sounding like an ass...Honestly. 10 minutes, 15 minutes. This is pocket change for a girl getting ready to go on a date with (what we hope) is a smashing archetype of the ideal masculine embodiment. Let alone traffic, parking, maybe she forgot tampons in her bathroom and had to run back to the house. Give the chick a break. Calm down. Really. 10 minutes is nothing. Put your name in for a table and tell them you're going to sit at the bar if the restaurant has one. Never sit at a table before the girl gets there. Not o… | /r/seduction | 18/09/12 01:20 AM |
| 1 | Is there any type of "facebook game"?fb game is so 2010 edit: keep it to the text messages gentlemen. no more fb messages, ty. | /r/seduction | 18/09/12 01:07 AM |
| 0 | The art of not creeping girls out?Watch interviews of Russell Brandt, the ones of him and Fifi Box are of special concern for those wishing to learn how to just keep things fun and dirty. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LenqrU05Yr0 | /r/seduction | 18/09/12 01:05 AM |
| 0 | The art of not creeping girls out?Being creepy is about having mixed intentions, being too serious, and being nervous yourself. If you are just having fun, it's impossible to be creepy really. | /r/seduction | 18/09/12 01:03 AM |
| 1 | Managing girl friendsSex begets more sex in college. You can screw a girls best friend and it will only make them want you more if she has good things to say about you. Be a good man, be a good person. Treat every woman you've ever stuck your dick into like she is your lover, mother, sister, and daughter (cue the John Mayer song) all wrapped in one, and you can't really go wrong until you're in your mid 20s when the majority of girls start looking for something more serious. It's all about attitude. | /r/seduction | 18/09/12 01:00 AM |
| 4 | Funny way to make diminish AA, anger and "oneitis"I've always had a distaste for RSD except Blueprint which I think is good for beginners. This reaffirms everything I knew. It's all about club game, hot bitches, huge phonebooks, etc. Tyler seems shitfaced in the first 15 minutes of this video, he's either high on life or high on something. I'm happy for him if it's the former, but if you get mixed up in club scenes too long you do tend to lose sense of what is going in your body. The moral of the story here is that this is decent advice, but my… | /r/seduction | 18/09/12 12:57 AM |
| 1 | How to deal with the hard to get, super confident type?jesus christ. i hate women like this. "the only reason im letting you put my arm around me is because im cold" yes, m'lady you are cold. cold as ice. move on my ninja, better pastures and fields full of frolicking women await you... | /r/seduction | 18/09/12 12:26 AM |
| 2 | How to break the Yips.Seems to me like you don't really understand the importance of self love and the importance of being yourself. You are the only person you can ever be. You are awesome too. If everyone else in the world died, you'd be fine living in your own skin, all alone. You are the ultimate realization of self. You are so money and you don't even know it. Once you become this thought process, and embody it. Those HB8's would probably have responded to you. You were way too invested in their responses it see… | /r/seduction | 17/09/12 10:51 PM |
| 1 | How do I recover from this one??Cockiness can and does work. True confidence though is much more subtle. And I think there is a small element of cockiness that comes through at times, most of the time as a subtle joke, but largely true confidence is more humble and self deprecating than anything. More down to earth and real. Vince's early days on Entourage are a great example. Hank Moody on Californication is a perfect example. Robert Downey Jr. in most of his roles is also a good example. You're trying to walk a fine line bet… | /r/seduction | 17/09/12 10:43 PM |
| 2 | idk if this is the right place but I'm a girl and I want to know how to tease my boyfriend ;)time yourself. from the moment you and he touch to the moment he climaxes. make it no less than an hour or an hour and a half. just take your time. slow down. be a tease. be appreciative, talk dirty. slow down the taking off of clothes. more touching, carressing, massaging,. more kissing, licking, biting, etc. ideally the two of you will be so hot and bothered before you've even taken off an article of clothing that you or he may just cum at any moment. that's going to make for good sex. | /r/seduction | 17/09/12 10:07 PM |
| 1 | How to break the Yips.what is the yips, i'm not hip on this seduction lingo anymore | /r/seduction | 17/09/12 01:49 PM |
| 1 | just so damn beta...about my reaction as well. i'm sure she wants a stranger to just give her a hug out of the blue. the #1 thing this guy needs to get through his head is that girls only cuddle after sex. you can't cuddle with chickfriends unless you are gay. | /r/seduction | 17/09/12 01:48 PM |
| 1 | Finding long term motivationdo you do day or night game. | /r/seduction | 17/09/12 01:43 PM |
| 2 | idk if this is the right place but I'm a girl and I want to know how to tease my boyfriend ;)Okay so he wants to feel like sex may or may not happen. He wants anticipation, he wants foreplay. This is good, because the sex will probably be better for both of you, give it a try. | /r/seduction | 17/09/12 01:42 PM |
| 2 | two conflicting viewpoints on pickupI love your type, but you realize that on the other end of the spectrum there are women who literally are so outrageously selective, picky, etc. that men have developed strategies to get these women to think they are losing some sort of social ground by not chasing them, and lure them to bed. Guys who are successful at this quickly learn that cute is better than hot, smart = sexy, and boring = boner killer. There's a reason why most hot chicks end up with ugly guys and it's because the best guys… | /r/seduction | 17/09/12 01:35 PM |
| 1 | two conflicting viewpoints on pickuplike all things in life, think of things in a specturm, or a gradient. shades of grey, to borrow a phrase from poplit for women. method 1and 2 can both be used to success but neither are ideal. my style falls somewhere in between. it's very easy to tell when a girl is the type of who views herself as very selective, very hard to get, some less experienced and chivalrous among us might even use the term "bitchy" etc. and it's also very easy to tell when a girl is waiting to be swept off her feet.… | /r/seduction | 17/09/12 01:16 PM |
| 1 | How do I recover from this one??so thats on you for not being chill and assuming sex was a given. girls dont work like this at first, not until they trust you/know you. you can't just fuck a girl and then afterwards say "so yeah, i can't wait for the next time we fuck" which is what you said in so many words. what does this say about you? your intentions? your perspective of her? her value to you? look, i'm a guy, alright. i understand. we want fuck buddies. i get it. but girls don't work that way. one night stands and boyfrie… | /r/seduction | 17/09/12 07:04 AM |
| 1 | How do I recover from this one??what do you mean by "meeting" what did you text her, chances are I wouldn't have even replied to that text. | /r/seduction | 17/09/12 05:41 AM |
| 1 | Alright. How do I transcend from just messing around to sex?You just keep doing more erotic things until sex is inevitable or she says "I don't want to do this" (or some variation of that) You don't have to say a word. | /r/seduction | 11/09/12 02:34 AM |
| 1 | There's been on consistent theme in all my approaches...What am I doing wrong?I actually generally play it as indirect as possible, going so far as to make comments to myself near a girl and hope she strikes up a convo with me. For instance, in a bookstore, I see a girl looking at a book. As I walk past I'll say "I hate that book. Be careful." with a smile and keep going and I'll let her reel me back in. OR after our 30 second talk as strangers, when we're about to say goodbye, I'll say "Come here, check out this book. What do you think of books like this?" In other words… | /r/seduction | 09/09/12 11:37 PM |
| 1 | Is there any coming back from this? [FR?]I mean, the real question is are you going to live with anger the rest of your life. Sure, the stupidity of college life can be trying at times, but when you get in the real world and there are consequences and people fuck up, and when they do your anger WILL be tested in a much more real way. You gotta calm down. I don't know what the situation w/ the girl is, who knows, only you can find out. Don't worry about her though, until you learn how to control yourself, worry about your future, becaus… | /r/seduction | 09/09/12 12:12 PM |
| 1 | There's been on consistent theme in all my approaches...What am I doing wrong?Girls are extremely good at the I have a boyfriend thing, but trust me 80% of random beautiful women are not attached to some guy, at least not seriously. The best response to the "sorry, i have a boyfriend" gambit is to affirm the fact that she is taken but not address the boyfriend situation, so a correct response would actually be: "Is he the jealous type?" or "Great, hell let us be friends though right?" or "Bravo. Bravissimo. Do you know any Italian?"(talk about languages and change subject… | /r/seduction | 09/09/12 11:57 AM |
| 3 | Just moved to China and trying to get back into the gameThis isn't true at all. Chinese chicks aren't particularly beautiful so you really are aiming at the top 1%, and these bitches, .....these fucking bitches.... I never use the word bitch, but let me just say that the shitstorm of shit-tests that you have to endure is so horrible, it's almost like a temper tantrum. (If you are White). For some reason these chicks will readily go home with Chinese men but they give White guys a hell of a time. And it doesn't help that there are no white girls anywh… | /r/seduction | 09/09/12 09:41 AM |
| 1 | special type of girl: any theories/experience/advice?In general, I know what you mean. I don't know why you would say they are dangerous. What kind of thoughts are you looking for? You mean they are harder to game? You realize these are the types of girls who will go on a coffee date with pretty much anyone, and let's face it, it's really not hard to stand out when she's used to "hey would you like to grab some coffee with me? we can ride my scooter and watch wes anderson movies on my iphone 5 on the way. i drive safe because i think driving safe … | /r/seduction | 09/09/12 09:20 AM |
| 3 | How do I handle "You look like a kid?"a well-fitted slim dress shirt with some give in the sleeves and the neck will go a long way lose the glasses, get contacts get a tan good shoes. something stylish but casual. shoes can really make someone look young. experiment with hairstyles and get a matching haircut. for some, parting their hair makes them look older, for some, younger. McLoving LAME: http://www.popcritics.com/wp-content/uploads/2008/08/mclovin-2.jpg McLoving BETTER: http://p.twimg.com/Ayn4OosCIAEfw6O.jpg also squint a litt… | /r/seduction | 09/09/12 09:13 AM |
| 2 | Can anyone give aa crashed course on Body Language?To further add to this, when you walk, you should take each step with deliberation, you shouldn't be shuffling and you shouldn't be striding, each step should be a deliberate, relaxed choice. when you walk, you should have the tiniest bit of bounce in your upperarm/elbow (feel it in the tricep muscle) as each arm finishes swinging forward and pulls back. it should make you feel like you just won a million dollars. also your torso should be tilted slightly back. | /r/seduction | 09/09/12 09:03 AM |
| 2 | Can anyone give aa crashed course on Body Language?Body language is all about threading the fine line between laziness and nervousness, you want to be relaxed but not look like you took a bongrip out of a 6footer, you want to look strong but you dont' want to look tight or nervous... Body language is a curious thing because you can do all the wrong things and its possible to still look fine... for instance (sorry if pics are funny, had to run back to couch after starting the timer) you can take up space, (you might even choose not to cross your … | /r/seduction | 09/09/12 08:57 AM |
| 3 | Can anyone give aa crashed course on Body Language?What is commonly called "swagger" matters a whole lot more than adjusting specific body parts. Some examples from film that should be easily accessible...(ignore the fact that they are all essentially psychotic/insane) We all know that the ultimate example of "swagger" whatever "swagger" is...is Brad Pitt in "FIGHT CLUB" David Duchovny as Hank Moody in "CALIFORNICATION" Michael Madsen as Mr. Blonde in "RESERVOIR DOGS" Here's a female example of swagger I saw yesterday, Angelina Jolie as Lisa in … | /r/seduction | 09/09/12 08:11 AM |
| 6 | Need help opening and getting over AALose the ulterior motive of pickup. Just have fun and make it a goal to talk to as many different people(of both genders) as possible. Be Bill Murray. Bill Murray never runs game, he's never trying to please people, but everyone loves him because he's just being himself and chilling and he's a funny guy. Bill Murray is notorious for pulling pussy in clubs even in old age. Think about it. It's just about being fun, if that means ordering shots topped with 151 and borrowing a lighter to flambe the… | /r/seduction | 08/09/12 09:32 PM |
| 1 | I've noticed myself getting stuckThat's when you go for the kiss, with the full expectation that she will probably reject you, but she'll appreciate the effort. | /r/seduction | 08/09/12 08:54 PM |
| 12 | "Practicing" pickup while attached?Dick move, kemosabe. I dare you to tell her, "yeah this is just so I'm not rusty at picking up chicks you know when we're not together anymore". It's safe to say that you aren't perfectly happy in your relationship or this would not even be a question. If you loved this girl this question would never come up, trust me. What's probably alright, at least in my book, is meeting men and women with the intention of making friends and introducing them to your GF -ASAP-. But even then, this might make … | /r/seduction | 08/09/12 08:51 PM |
| 1 | How do you direct approach a two-set during the day?Day game is 100x better than night game. Girls actually want to talk and will readily offer their numbers and actually pick up the phone and text you back. Also they have a brain, and aren't just some flitty nightclub chick. Two sets are complicated. Here's my take... The other girl won't really be offended you didn't pick her, she might be a bit jealous and a bit excited for her friend, but she won't take offense (or shouldn't). If she asks "why not me?" a good answer is "i like you too." Anoth… | /r/seduction | 08/09/12 11:05 AM |
| -2 | Girl in my yoga class class might be interested. How do I approach her?LOL | /r/seduction | 08/09/12 07:06 AM |
| 9 | Girl in my yoga class class might be interested. How do I approach her?Next time you catch her looking at you, walk over and say "what was that look for?" with a smile, follow it up with an introduction. you'll make her feel slightly creepy so theres no risk of you coming off as a creep. | /r/seduction | 08/09/12 06:56 AM |
| 7 | What am I supposed to do/say in this situation?If he'd said that to me, I probably would have just been given him a face and been like.... "Right..." and then turned towards the girls and asked them their names. "Anyways, what's your names?" But I have a few other tricks I sometimes throw out I guess... I might have basically ignored him: Give him a face and turn to girl: "....Anyways..." Or reframed: "Yeah, keep your eyes on him for me, I wanted to meet these girls." Or worst case scenario misinterpreted, like I couldn't hear him: "Huh? You… | /r/seduction | 08/09/12 06:29 AM |
| 8 | Did girls notice you or take interest in you before you "upped your game" ?What you believe; you perceive. What you want to see; you will find it. If for a few days you deluded yourself into thinking everywhere you go you are Casanova you might be surprised at how your subtle body language changes and also in what you perceive and pick up on in female's subtle body language changes when you walk into a room. If you are always concerned about yourself, you are so self centered that you will never pick up on these things. Get out of your head. | /r/seduction | 07/09/12 11:23 PM |
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