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| 327 | [poll] How would you guys feel about a weekly opener/routine challenge? | suppermick | /r/seduction | 22/04/14 01:41 AM | |
| 323 | Willpower is like a muscle. The more you exercise it, the stronger it will become. The inverse is also true, the less you use it, the weaker it is. | suppermick | /r/seduction | 11/11/13 11:33 PM | |
| 5 | [FR] Gay clubs are like fish in a barrel. #-close, almost SNL, and my dirty ass wingman still gets action. | suppermick | /r/seduction | 07/01/14 08:22 AM | |
| 3 | [WEEKLY MISSION 4-23-2014] Since there was so much positive feedback let's give this a try. | suppermick | /r/seduction | 23/04/14 05:23 PM | |
| 1 | Favorite places for day game? | suppermick | /r/seduction | 14/04/14 12:08 AM | |
| 0 | [FR] I indirectly kicked a girl out of my apt tonight. | suppermick | /r/seduction | 16/11/13 10:24 AM |
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| 1 | Approaching A Woman: Why is it so damn difficult?This comment has been overwritten by an open source script to protect this user's privacy. It was created to help protect users from doxing, stalking, harassment, and profiling for the purposes of censorship. If you would also like to protect yourself, add the Chrome extension TamperMonkey, or the Firefox extension GreaseMonkey and add this open source script. Then simply click on your username on Reddit, go to the comments tab, scroll down as far as possible (hint:use RES), and hit the new OVER… | /r/seduction | 10/05/16 12:15 PM |
| 1 | This Sub-Reddit is absolutely terrible.[META]I've said it before and I'll say it again: this subreddit is the mens cosmopolitan | /r/seduction | 28/04/16 06:42 PM |
| 248 | 4 ways you can be better at sex right away...Sometimes this sub is just a men's version of cosmopolitan magazine | /r/seduction | 03/04/16 07:38 PM |
| 7 | 10 Text Mistakes to AvoidYou’re dealing with girls and most of the time they’re unpredictable. Gold | /r/seduction | 30/03/16 12:19 AM |
| 1 | I've become extremely lazy and have no idea what to do. Any tips for solo night game?If you're in Los Angeles we could wingman it and just make it easier for us in general | /r/seduction | 13/03/16 12:32 AM |
| 1 | gay as a circle, but really want to try straight sex. going to vegas (w partner), both of us intending to mess around. any advice for your hopelessly gay, straight-curious bro?Honestly the two of you will have MUCH better luck if you approach girls as a couple. Be friendly, warm, and kind, and the girls will be attracted to your stability. I think honesty in this situation will get you a ton more pussy than pretending to be a straight guy who wants to get laid. | /r/seduction | 25/02/16 08:31 PM |
| 1 | Haven't seen this tip on here, so I'll share it with y'all: Take girls on dates in the rainDon't worry if it's sunny (Like here in Los Angeles it's 85 in February), get a parasol and use it as shade under the same idea | /r/seduction | 15/02/16 08:28 PM |
| 1 | Alcohol and Pick UpSure you can beat the game without game genie but sometimes you just want to have fun and enjoy it and just go apeshit | /r/seduction | 12/02/16 07:23 PM |
| 1 | [21M] I have most other areas of my life in check, but feel completely undateable due to my appearance. What is so wrong?Look man I hate to be that guy and bring race into this but since you keep asking about your appearance: Being black is a polarizing feature. Take it as racist or whatever the hell you want but most girls have a pretty definitive stance on jungle fever....that's just the nature of our culture at the moment. So if you're wondering about your appearance that's it man. That doesn't mean opinions can't change or that you're completely SOL. It just means you're working from a different angle and it's… | /r/seduction | 29/12/15 08:47 PM |
| 1 | How to escalate?Start by touching their shoulder Touch their lower back Put your arm around their waist Walk arm in arm When you take a picture make your cheek touch hers (both face and ass) Play with her hair a little bit (this one is iffy.....a dice roll if the girl is creeped out by it) When you hug her always put your arms around the lower part of her waist. Don't be afraid to touch their thigh if you're trying to get their attention Kiss her when she looks you in the eyes with more than a few seconds of si… | /r/seduction | 19/12/15 11:52 PM |
| 2 | Please. I Need AdviceThere's a lot of comments about self-talk and getting in the right mindset which is all good stuff! Another thing that might help you gain the confidence you need is to be with somebody who is already confident and good with women. Not a lot of people know this, but you become the type of person that you hang out with. | /r/seduction | 25/11/15 05:11 AM |
| 1 | For those of that were terrible with females in college and high school!Go get into med school. You will NEVER feel complete and no woman you swoon or bed will ever really make you feel accomplished. | /r/seduction | 01/09/15 11:19 PM |
| 1 | I have no friendsYou should check out the book "How to Win Friends and Influence People" by Dale Carnegie. A great read and one of the first real self-help books. Meetup.com is also a great way to find people with interests similar to your own! | /r/seduction | 31/07/15 07:58 PM |
| 1 | Good sign if a girl keeps FB poking?I don't know...my mom keeps poking me.... | /r/seduction | 26/07/15 04:33 AM |
| 2 | If a girl refuses to spilt the bill with me, based on expectations of chivalry, is that a red flag to move on?Very funny, my roommate just went out on a date with a guy who made her split the bill and she never wants to see him again. I don't know why, but girls hate paying for food. | /r/seduction | 25/07/15 09:48 PM |
| 2 | Fresh 21 bar game?Nobody's really covered this but basic protocol when ordering a drink and tipping the bartender is about 1-2 dollars per drink (or 15%-20% of the total tab). And if you want him to hook you up, learn his/her name, be friendly, close out your first drink tab and tip WELL for that one drink. They will pour heavy on subsequent drinks since they'll remember you. Being cool with the bar tender will DHV you through the roof as well. DO NOT over drink. You are sloppy and disgusting when you get hammere… | /r/seduction | 04/06/15 09:09 AM |
| 1 | BEGINNER needs help :/The best way to start a conversation is to ask questions. the best way to continue a conversation is to ask questions. Everybody's favorite subject is themselves. This next part will seem vague but i don't have the answer as to "how". but your question-like responses should be funny and denote a connotation of " I don't care about you but I'm interested ".....that will get most girls to at least be interested and continue talking with you. How you escalate kino and move forward is very context s… | /r/seduction | 29/04/15 10:28 PM |
| 1 | Online dating sites and their efficiencyAlso pics are super important understatement of the year. | /r/seduction | 29/04/15 12:52 AM |
| 1 | BooksI happen to really like this book. But I always get into heated arguments when people call it a how-to book. Its an awesome novel whose subject matter happens to be something men everywhere are interested in. The books major theme is identity and how one defines themselves through external measurements. Examples like how nobody has an actual name (and one could even infer that their pseudonames reflect this....mystery...tyler durden....papa....) Anybody who thinks this book has no substance obvi… | /r/seduction | 28/03/15 01:15 AM |
| -15 | How many of you actually fuck 4's-5's?yeah because /r/seduction isn't about seducing women. It's about self confidence........ | /r/seduction | 05/03/15 11:16 AM |
| 1 | What are your fun first dates?minigolf man. interactive, fun, and doesn't require so much concentration that you can't enjoy a good conversation. plus you can get competitive and make bets...etc. | /r/seduction | 05/02/15 01:41 AM |
| 1 | How important is "social value"?it's kind of an unspoken association, but social "value" is really important. If lots of people like you and want to be your friend, people want in on that. And not to mention if you're always busy with friends then you're in demand making you worth more. | /r/seduction | 23/01/15 08:19 AM |
| 1 | Generally speaking, when should I invite a girl over my house to watch a movie? (x-post /r/askseddit)My personal opinion is to give her a decent reason to come watch a movie. Find a movie that you both like or want to see and have that be the initiator. Or better yet find an interesting movie in a subgenre that you enjoy (like Bollywood Horror movies? Gotta love Combs, man.) Cook her dinner or something. The important part isn't the watching the movie, it's about getting her to want to come over and hang out with you. All the important work is done wayyyy before she actually comes over. Because… | /r/seduction | 10/12/14 12:34 AM |
| 2 | [FR] From 0 experience to NC/KC/FC in a few dayscan i just note that I'm glad you met this girl outside of a college campus? I'm honestly a little bored with the same college FRs. | /r/seduction | 22/11/14 06:28 PM |
| 3 | 50 cheap date ideas to save your walletrenaissance fair is easily 100 bucks.....not exactly cheap. | /r/seduction | 13/11/14 04:38 AM |
| 1 | The awkwardness of undressing womenpants are easiest when they're laying on their back. you take off their shirt while they're still upright. kiss their stomach while unbuttoning their pants. | /r/seduction | 03/11/14 07:10 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Where did I go wrong?maybe after a glass of champagne i would have dragged her out to the dance floor and escalated kino from there. the thing about seduction is that there is no end all be all to what you should and shouldn't do. every girl and situation is different. I wish we had a team of experts that could say "well x x and y happened" and we could all take notes. Instead we're stuck with some generalizations and vague confidence tips. It really is a numbers game, and I bet if you had the same situation with 10… | /r/seduction | 31/10/14 08:36 PM |
| 66 | I want a girlfriend, I have gotten massive success using everything I have learned here but this persona I've taken on never makes the girls want to stay.It's because there's no substance to your being. girls are attracted to people, not facades. not to mention, getting a girl to want to sleep with you is a lot different from getting a girl to wanting to be in a relationship with you. Have you read Mark Mansons Models? It's a very good guide and talks a lot about the PUA's dilemma of not having girls stick around for very long. long story short, be the kind of person that you want to attract. | /r/seduction | 16/10/14 04:43 AM |
| 1 | Tinder and OkCupid have helped me meet many great women. Outside of these apps, my real world confidence, feelings of self worth, and motivation for self improvement have all plummeted. Seeking help from the wise minds in this sub.because online you have time to think about what you say. start more conversations with random strangers. the more you're put on the spot, the better you'll get. | /r/seduction | 31/07/14 08:30 AM |
| 1 | Female PUA looking for tipsi forget the what the specific URL is but there's a forum made specifically for strippers to share their tricks on getting bigger tipouts from customers. There's a lot of building attraction and rapport techniques in there. Lots of information for girls. | /r/seduction | 15/07/14 06:40 PM |
| 1 | How do you actually f-close?tell her you have a teacup pig. that's the best way to get a girl back to your place. really the best way is just to have something interesting that you're passionate about (it really doesn't matter what it is, girls are attracted to passion, not coin collection or model cars or 5.1 surround sound), and be enthusiastic about showing her. | /r/seduction | 11/06/14 07:51 AM |
| 1 | [WEEKLY MISSION 4-23-2014] Since there was so much positive feedback let's give this a try.Try and number close while waiting at a red light. | /r/seduction | 16/05/14 06:04 PM |
| 13 | Seddit,what is your go to "excuse" for inviting a girl up to your apartment during or at the end of a date?teacup pig. | /r/seduction | 15/05/14 05:34 AM |
| 10 | I have flirting girls come up to me, but I'm still to much of a mess to try anything at all with them.In the book Models, the author talks about not necessarily throwing you into the deep end and leave you to sink or swim, but slowly building up your exposure so the dance floor approach isn't as nerve wracking. He suggests just going up to people and just asking for the time, and that's all. Do this until you're comfortable asking for the time and then build on that, ask for the time, and then ask them how their day is going until you're comfortable with that. Keep building on top of it until th… | /r/seduction | 11/05/14 07:56 PM |
| 10 | [FR] Was I in the wrong?next time open up the night with "I got the first round, second is on you" and then you can get the 3rd. three drinks on the first date is a heavy investment. Next time get only one and baby sit it. Especially if you're going to be driving, you're playing with fire. And let me put it to you this way: You buy the first 3 rounds. 6 Drinks, right? 3 drinks is going to take you at least an hour, anything faster and you're gonna get tanked. This is an hour of putting on the persona of "don't worry I'… | /r/seduction | 11/05/14 06:43 PM |
| 2 | Why are girls so afraid of players?There's a negative connotation associated with the word player. Yes you can be charming and good with lots of women and still not be a player. A player, in this context, refers to somebody who is dishonest with themselves and in turn the relationship between him and the girl. | /r/seduction | 29/04/14 06:05 PM |
| 1 | [WEEKLY MISSION 4-23-2014] Since there was so much positive feedback let's give this a try.The whole point is to push us past our comfort zone. Approaching a girl with a little bit of makeup? fucking crazy as shit. but after you do it, approaching a girl without makeup is piece of cake. | /r/seduction | 23/04/14 07:12 PM |
| 1 | [poll] How would you guys feel about a weekly opener/routine challenge?The Game is definitely not a how-to book. Sure it has some detailed accounts of the routines they used, but it's definitely a novel. The guy talks about how his life revolves around the art of pickup. Just as much as the book Kitchen Confidential doesn't teach you how to be a chef, The Game doesn't teach you the secret art of picking up women. | /r/seduction | 23/04/14 05:27 PM |
| 42 | [poll] How would you guys feel about a weekly opener/routine challenge?My personal vision is that the challenges aren't necessarily difficult (eg nothing like "get 5 numbers from girls with boyfriends"). I'd want things that are fun for people of all skill levels. More like "bring up your favorite color every 5 minutes. " or " only approach women who are taller than you" Something that sounds inherently like a bad idea but could be a really fun exercise. The point wouldn't be to necessarily to succeed.everytime but to enjoy trying something outside your.comfort zon… | /r/seduction | 22/04/14 03:11 AM |
| 1 | At 23, I've just been handed my first breakup. I fucked up alot and I'm still in the shock stage. Can you guys recommend some things to me?The first time we fall is always the hardest. Its time to reinvent the image of you without your ex. Good luck brotha were here for you | /r/seduction | 14/04/14 10:36 PM |
| 0 | Seducing or acting on IOIs from a woman with a boyfriend - This sub needs helpI agree with that. My view is that if the girl is going to cheat, its going to be either with you or somebody else. She's already opened the doors to cheating, she's just deciding who she's gonna walk through it with. Is the single guy just as guilty for cheating? Is the girl more responsible since she's taking advantage of the trust given to her by her spouse? If youre the other guy, does that mean youre more likely to cheat when you finally do get into a relationship? These are all rhetorical … | /r/seduction | 14/04/14 12:14 AM |
| 4 | (fr) Terrible dateasian girls love white guys. abundance mentality. keep fishin | /r/seduction | 09/04/14 06:50 PM |
| 1 | [FR] California Girlsbeen living in los angeles my whole life. CA girls are very rarely natives. most of them move to LA from bum-fuck-wherever. In fact my favorite opener is always to ask them where they're from, because it's always somewhere. That being said, most people who move to LA have the same mentality. And are usually too caught up in a wanderlust attitudes to really give a shit about anybody but themselves. IE most of them are pretty vain. They are usually pretty damn hot though. most of the time they're … | /r/seduction | 01/04/14 01:53 AM |
| 8 | Approaching two girls and one of them acts rude/ignores you, what do you do?she's being rude because she's being isolated. include her with the banter and rapport. nobody likes being left out. | /r/seduction | 05/03/14 10:49 PM |
| 1 | How to have endless, interesting conversationthis might help you. good in depth resource for conversation building | /r/seduction | 13/02/14 08:58 PM |
| 5 | How to have endless, interesting conversation"oh really what show were you on?" "how to live with a 15 inch penis...except i got kicked from the show when they found out it was 19 inches" | /r/seduction | 13/02/14 08:49 PM |
| 5 | [Noob Post] How do I go about picking up a girl dancing at a club?I just pull out my phone without saying anything and hand it to her with the add contact screen already pulled up. Or if im feeling ballsy, ill ask for her phone and text myself from it. | /r/seduction | 09/02/14 09:56 AM |
| 1 | [Noob Post] How do I go about picking up a girl dancing at a club?Tap her on the shoulder, when she faces you, smile at her, and ask her to dance. She'll Either say yes, or no. If she says yes, then you grab her waist and pull her closer. Compliment her earings, and that's all she wrote. After a few songs tell her to come with you to get water, that's how you isolate and get her to a place where can actually hear what she's saying because the dance floor is loud as fuck | /r/seduction | 09/02/14 09:53 AM |
| 13 | Worst Date. Of. All. Time. (Advice?)But you would have seen it regardless. Youre mad because you let another man establish dominance over you and the situation. It was a direct attack to your ego and anybody would be pissed if that happened to them. But it happens. Take these feelings, and let it motivate you to keep it from happening again. | /r/seduction | 05/02/14 05:25 AM |
| 3 | How do you imagine failure vs. victory? Repost from r/decidingtobebetterfailure is settling for less than what you want. | /r/seduction | 27/01/14 09:07 AM |
| 8 | I have crippling AA and it's bogging down my confidence. I've been at it for a year now.Find a good wingman to throw you into the deep end of the pool. You already know how to swim. "have you met Ted? " | /r/seduction | 24/01/14 09:37 PM |
| 1 | Can we do a date idea megathread?Minigolf is one of my personal favorites. It's easy, fun, gives you guys a good chance to talk and the one I usually go to has an arcade attached so we play air hockey or whatever afterwards. | /r/seduction | 03/01/14 08:05 PM |
| 0 | Tips for a babyfaceI'm 25 and people consistently ask me if I'm 35. | /r/seduction | 26/12/13 03:09 AM |
| 20 | [FR] #-close at a gay bar (with a straight girl, you fools)Gay bars are like fish in a barrel. Though one time I got really drunk and depressed and made out with a cross dresser. I went to go pull "her" hair, and the wig came off. Totally killed my vibe and made me switch to day game for a while. :P | /r/seduction | 14/12/13 08:25 PM |
| 6 | [FR] Sweater Power or: how I botched an F-close and snatched a separate #-close from the jaws of defeat. (Long)Sometimes people just have clothes that stick out. I have a power sweater too. It's a blue mickey mouse sweater but I get compliments all the time. It's definitely a more subtle version of peacocking. You know what happened with nosering? You ignored the gay man. The key there is to get the gay guy to want to hang out with you. That's where your wingman should have picked up. If you can get the gay guy to like you and to want to hang out at your place, then the girl will want to follow without e… | /r/seduction | 18/11/13 10:09 PM |
| 4 | [FR] I indirectly kicked a girl out of my apt tonight.This is good feed back. I gave her control over situation when I should have been the alpha, especially in my own apt. Thank you for the insight! | /r/seduction | 16/11/13 08:10 PM |
| 3 | [FR] I indirectly kicked a girl out of my apt tonight.Yeah, I agree with you. I should have spent more time building comfort, which can't be done if you're sitting side by side silent during a show. STILL, she came over at midnight to watch a movie. It's not rocket surgery on her part. | /r/seduction | 16/11/13 07:48 PM |
| 1 | [FR] I indirectly kicked a girl out of my apt tonight.yeah. I'm not entirely surprised that this was how it turned out. I most likely jumped the gun since I figured she'd already be attracted me since we talked for a while via text and OKC. I mean, attraction is the reason they give you their number right? | /r/seduction | 16/11/13 07:26 PM |
| 2 | [FR] I indirectly kicked a girl out of my apt tonight.This was probably why the whole evening failed. I never once said failure. I learned some things tonight. And that's what's important! | /r/seduction | 16/11/13 07:22 PM |
| 3 | [FR] I indirectly kicked a girl out of my apt tonight.I know where you're coming from, and I don't mind if you disagree with my seduction methods. However, insults without any addition to the discussion besides harsh judgments of my character are uncalled for. " Suppermick, please don't do anything outrageously sexual towards this girl if she rejected your kino. The naked man, while a hilarious concept, falls under this category and could be seen as a form of sexual harrassment. This is not our style. It is the art of building attraction " That's a… | /r/seduction | 16/11/13 07:20 PM |
| 12 | Don't let the game define youThe world isn't black and white, my friend. Practicing pick up techniques and learning about attraction doesn't mean you're artificial. Completely lacking those skills/knowledge and being in a LTR doesn't make you sincere. It's about understanding yourself, and understand what YOU want from life. This kind of pendulum swings happens a lot. A dude with no social skills learns to say the right things, and realizes that while this isn't want he always wants to say, it gets him the results he wants.… | /r/seduction | 12/10/13 08:49 PM |
| 1 | Rejected for the first time todayLook at it this way, if this was the last time you'd ever be rejected in your entire life, you'd have it pretty fucking good. | /r/seduction | 19/09/13 08:59 AM |
| -5 | A quick text to send to the women in your phone on Valentine's Day.Her: Damn that's impressive! But I can't take the credit. Me: Oh ok I get it. I "didn't get the card" and you "didn't send it" and it's not "rape" .....no response yet.... | /r/seduction | 14/02/12 08:20 PM |
| 4 | A quick text to send to the women in your phone on Valentine's Day.I know you left the 40 roses and the box of kittens on my porch so don't play dumb. | /r/seduction | 14/02/12 08:18 PM |
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