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lol - it was your idea! I was backing you up !! haha You're kind of contradicting yourself
/r/seduction21/07/17 06:49 PM
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Maybe a spreadsheet could help to keep track. So, approach girl, smile, open direct and tell her she's cute. Reaction from girl: "go away. I'm not interested" If this happens lots: CONCLUSION: Don't smile upon approach, and don't open direct
/r/seduction21/07/17 06:41 PM
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Direct game isn't good for night game. If you aren't VERY handsome, it's just a guaranteed early rejection. Go indirect
/r/seduction19/07/17 11:11 PM
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I don't think girls like being touched by guys who they don't think are hot, though. Not sure that's a good play.
/r/seduction19/07/17 10:53 PM
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Thinking about it, i'd probably say 'kind of'? I mean, despite what the industry would try to have guys believe, if a girl thinks you are ugly, your confidence and charisma (game) isn't gonna make her want to fuck you! You need to meet her standards in terms of looks before 'game' comes into play I guess for us guys it's similar. If I don't find a girl attractive, there's really not much she can do to make me want to sleep with her. I'd say women are maybe slightly less shallow, however, i'd als…
/r/seduction30/01/17 02:23 PM
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I don't think you need to be a male model, but 'game' is only gonna get you so far. In certain environments (night game/clubs) looks are super important, and if you don't look like what she wants, lots of girls will shoot you down as you open (even if you open indirectly). I don't think it's possible to turn a 'no girl' into a 'yes girl' in them environments. Don't forget that game is just basically social skills. Not some sort of mystical mind control!
/r/seduction28/01/17 08:32 PM
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He was decent looking back when he slayed. I don't know why he plays the ugly card. It's all about FACE when it comes to looks. He has a nice small nose and decent facial features in general. He looks fine.
/r/seduction31/12/16 10:06 AM
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that's the obvious solution, but i'll be honest here! I'd rather masturbate over some top quality porn than have sex with an ugly girl! I really really would! Besides, if you believe in 'game' then there's no such thing as leagues, I guess...
/r/seduction31/12/16 10:05 AM
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I've tried all kinds of openers and stuff. It's just that I go for young, hot girls. If they don't think you're hot, then they just reject you pretty early into the conversation. The 'game' really doesn't seem to matter
/r/seduction30/12/16 11:53 PM
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I'm on about 400 rejections in a row! Just have to keep on trucking until you find a girl who thinks you are physically attractive
/r/seduction30/12/16 06:20 PM
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they say what you actually say doesn't matter (it's how you say it) so maybe it was A+ textbook perfect game! Well done for getting out there
/r/seduction27/12/16 08:05 PM
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I'm kind of torn. I read a few books and then I went out and made hundreds of approaches. I didn't really get any results. Then I read a few more books whilst still approaching, and still not really getting anywhere. Now, i'm looking into buying more books and maybe some expensive programs! I feel as though I've somehow missed something! I can't seem to make a girl attracted to me. 'Game' seems to be humour/confidence/teasing/touching/push-pull?
/r/seduction22/12/16 02:26 PM
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It's maybe not the best format for a journal. I've thought about doing this too, since I posted a fiar few fieldreports and it's better to be able to read previous reports to better provide help to people, I guess. There should be a seddit forum! But yeah, just do it and see how it goes
/r/seduction22/12/16 09:11 AM
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Good FR. That sounds like some of my BETTER interactions (i.e - when I actually manage to have a conversation and try out various ideas as opposed to getting rejected immediately after opening) I also have that kino problem. I can touch their shoulders to make points and brush their arms etc, but it never goes far enough to remove any doubt in her mind as to whether i'm just a 'touchy feely person' or whether I am into her! I plan to really 'attack' that area going forward, even if it means maki…
/r/seduction21/12/16 07:34 PM
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Thanks. Your posts are usually my favourite on this sub. You're right about needing to take more risks. I plan to kind of ONLY concentrate on escalating and touch/better eye contact etc for my next 100 approaches or so. (If I try to work on/remember too many things at once, I think I get way way too 'in my head') I guess I naturally want to wait for clear signs of interest before I start the more 'intimate' levels of kino, but that usually never happens (either she's legit not into me, or I just…
/r/seduction21/12/16 03:06 PM
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but I think it's natural for people to be 'stuck in their head' when they are trying to remember all that they've read, like ''don't forget to tease her about something soon, don't want it to get too serious. Oh, and I need to keep touching her. Wait....was what she just said a shit test? What's am I supposed to do again?....oh, yeah 'agree and amplify'. OK, now what. Shit. What 'stage' am I at? Comfort? attraction??! Errr....I think I still need to make her like me more, and then I can think ab…
/r/seduction20/12/16 04:33 PM
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Has anyone experimented with medication out of interest? It seems that anxiety is the antithesis of seduction. Most people game better after a few beers when they are feeling more relaxed. I wonder what it'd be like to game after taking some Xanax or klonopin or something!
/r/seduction20/12/16 03:54 PM
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thanks (only just seen this) Is outright telling the girl that you think she is cute something you do in nightgame as well? (in order to help transition from friendly chat to something else). Most of what I've read on seddit suggests that it's 'wrong' and the correct way is to show them you like them with your touch and NOT your words, but I just feel creepy and like i'm making the girl uncomfortable once I start touching her like on her hips, lower back, neck etc. High 5's and stuff seem OK, bu…
/r/seduction20/12/16 02:59 PM
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How about that! I was unaware. Cheers.
/r/seduction14/12/16 08:40 PM
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I don't own a kindle!! PDF link?! :)
/r/seduction14/12/16 08:17 PM
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Thanks. I do understand what you say. And it is kind of hypothetical, but since I've never had a 'career' as such, If things got awkward, i'd just quit and get a new lame job! Other than that, show your intent as usual, and be careful about her reaction. Showing my intent in general has always been a bit confusing (due to so much conflicting info) so maybe you could elaborate. I mean, in that environment, just something like just being friendly for a few days and giving her a little more attenti…
/r/seduction14/12/16 04:01 PM
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And what if everyone's staring? Do girls care? I had a weird situation a few weeks back. I walked onto the dancefloor and decided to try more 'direct game' and just outright told a hot girl that she was cute. We spoke for about 30 seconds and then she left me. About an hour later, I was still dancing. She'd been in a different part of the bar and as she walked back on to the dancefloor, we locked eyes. She slowly walked towards me, the whole time we both held strong eye contact. She walked right…
/r/seduction13/12/16 05:20 PM
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Maybe i'm not understanding. You DID 'drop the hint'. You asked her out for a drink. You weren't 'too subtle' and done nothing wrong as far as I can see. She wasn't interested as she was looking to get back with her boyfriend.
/r/seduction13/12/16 05:16 PM
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I'd just say that You can't get blood out of a stone. Either she wasn't interested in you and thus lied about having a boyfriend, or she actually did have a boyfriend. Also, she didn't seem that shy/non-talkative! (volunteered her name straight away for example) I'm assuming you're from the US? Come to the UK, and you'll see what REALLY 'hard to talk too' girls are like! (talking to strangers just isn't done here, and so some of the girls are COMPLETELY freaked out by a stranger talking to them …
/r/seduction13/12/16 05:12 PM
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Do you not feel is more about physical attraction, though? It feels like girls don't mind being touched intimately straight away if they think the guy is super hot, but if she thinks he's ugly, then they are only OK with like high-5's and stuff?
/r/seduction13/12/16 02:17 PM
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I understand what you're saying, but how exactly does that translate into being good at talking/flirting with girls? lol, you sound like me. Inner game advice makes no sense to me. Sure you can become amazing at archery and earn loads of money in an amazing job, but when it comes to talking too a hot girl in a bar, it all means shit! I know very successful guys who never get laid, and I know unemployed deadbeats who fucking slay it with girls!
/r/seduction13/12/16 12:17 PM
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I don't have a problem touching them briefly on the shoulder if I've just made them laugh for example. Or high fiving etc. But if I do any sort of touch which might cross the barrier from how 'friends' touch each other to something more intimate, it doesn't often go down well. Last week someone challenged me online to do certain kino things with the girls i'd open that night, and it went badly. I touched a girls leg when she was sitting down next to me after I opened her and we'd been speaking f…
/r/seduction13/12/16 11:04 AM
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so which one is the answer for one night stands, then? Being aloof and trying to make them chase, or showing your intentions and making it clear you want sex/unashamed in your desires?
/r/seduction13/12/16 10:59 AM
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Yeah, girls can work-out and meditate and stuff (self imrpovement)
/r/seduction12/12/16 09:17 PM
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I lean toward humor and confidence when I run game since I am not really good looking That's interesting ; the idea that the type of game you use depends on your looks. I saw an infield a minute ago of a fairly tall, handsome young dude, and he did NOT, in any way, shape or form 'make the girl chase'. He was all over her. Opened. Kino'd straight away. Asked her some boring questions. (like we are told NOT to do here). Told her he liked her. sexualised the convo straight away. Kept angling for th…
/r/seduction12/12/16 08:52 PM
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To add I am a decent looking guy, who is tall :( Only kidding. Nice one.
/r/seduction12/12/16 11:42 AM
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She brought up the topic.
/r/seduction10/12/16 11:54 AM
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So here is the thing. These girls think you're attractive to hook up with. That is why they choose you to host them I don't think so. They just wanted somewhere free to stay in a good location. Much older fatter guys get lots of pretty young guests, too if they are offering a nice place for free for a night or two
/r/seduction09/12/16 11:43 PM
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All of them to some level. I bought maxRSD's product a few days back
/r/seduction09/12/16 09:09 PM
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never heard that 'inn keeper' phrase before, but i'm assuming it's like being the entertainer? But yeah, I mean is there anything I am supposed to be doing other than just 'being myself' in order to get them attracted to me? To seduce them? When I mention things that game teaches, people tell me ''no, just be yourself! You are enough'' etc etc. But when I am myself, they still aren't interested in me sexually! :) I'd like to be handsome for a day to confirm my suspicions!! lol
/r/seduction09/12/16 09:08 PM
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well, yeah - obviously if they are in your house and you have managed to pull them back there, then sex is on the cards. But in the above examples, dno't forget that they are there because they need somewhere to stay, so them being there isn't an IOI in any way. But in general (normal random girls in bars), I never really get remotely close to the point of the girl wanting to come back with me! I do try to joke around and neg where possible, like you say. I bet you're a lot better looking than y…
/r/seduction09/12/16 08:57 PM
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but just based in experience, if I don't try to be fun etc, then they DEFINITELY, 100% WILL fucking walk away! :) So I try to apply the 'game' principles. I mean, the reason most of us got into this is because just 'being there', 'being ourselves' didn't get us any results. So then we learn about DHV, being fun, being interesting, and being interested in THEM etc. If that's wrong, then there is no such thing as 'game', no?
/r/seduction09/12/16 07:43 PM
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Also if you're lacking IOI's, are you walking away or not giving it attention or are you trying harder? Well, I try to stay in set, but i'm never sure of what to say/do in order to make her 'interested' (to the point that she'll give IOI's) if i've already done my best in terms of trying to be fun/intetresting/inderested in her etc. It seems to be mainly about being handsome which I can't change! My handsome friends sometimes get IOI's (that can't be missed) without being remotely charming or fu…
/r/seduction09/12/16 07:27 PM
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I suggest reading Corey Wayne's 3% Man and Mark Manson's Models. hey. I've already read models. I'll check out the 3% man one. Personally I say yes, you should just go for the kiss (what's life without a little adventure). Yeah, especially in your own place when alone with a girl. I had an interaction in a bar last week with a girl and we were vibing and everything was going well and we were having fun, but she dissappeared later, never to be seen again. Got me thinking that maybe she didn't eve…
/r/seduction09/12/16 07:15 PM
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I like them lines. But I doubt i'll be hosting anytime soon now, so I need to try to pull from cold approach again. Typically with cold approach (if i'm able to open without an instant rejection) i'll be able to have a conversation, i'll qualify, i'll touch, tease when I can, but the girl will lose interest at some point and dissappear. I wonder whether I showed too much intent or not enough, or whether I simply done nothing wrong, but she just thought I was too ugly for her or whatever. Do you …
/r/seduction09/12/16 06:28 PM
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thanks. I tend to agree.
/r/seduction09/12/16 05:27 PM
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Doesn't sound like you are getting anywhere with the innocent touching, if they are "brushing their forearm". It's not them brushing their forearm. What I was saying was that they are fine with me touching their shoulder, but if I try something that breaks the 'friends' barrier (such as brushing their forearm or touching their leg etc) then I can sense that they become uncomfortable. Like they don't want to lead me on. I'm not afraid to escalate, but they only seem to like being touched by guys …
/r/seduction09/12/16 05:26 PM
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Maybe you read it too fast. This is couchsurfing. Random young foreign girls who are travelling, staying at random strangers houses who they meet through the website/app
/r/seduction09/12/16 03:21 PM
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Just going for the kiss out of nowhere shows you don't know what you're doing and don't have much social awareness. ha. Well that's the exact reason that I DON'T go for the kiss when I can sense that there's no interest (social awareness) Talk about first kisses, talk about horrible kisses you've had that are good stories. I've actually tried that, too. (tlaking about dating/kissing/porn etc) Doesn't change anything, really.
/r/seduction09/12/16 03:18 PM
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I guess that's true, but maybe it's a bit different when you are hosting someone as opposed to approaching a random girl in a bar? Like she's feel rude for NOT 'still being there'? And even if it still IS the case, would you suggest just 'going for it' lke: ''OK, girl hasn't shown any interest in me sexually. We're now sat on my couch talking about the price of houses in London. Just go for the kiss mid sentence now?!!'
/r/seduction09/12/16 01:56 PM
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lol, I wonder the same thing about the guests on Jeremy Kyle! They have so much sex. Cheating on their girlfriends every week. one guys cheated on his girlfriend with 18 girls in like 2 weeks on a show I saw recently! And there was this guy in his 50's banging (and cheating on) a half decent looking 16 year old a while ago! (legal here btw) how does that happen? As for teh Gerodie shore boys, I don't watch it, but I guess it's a bit like 'the only way is essex'. Just good looking, very confident…
/r/seduction09/12/16 01:12 PM
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Maybe he's very good looking He is pretty handsome, but then I was under the impression that looks aren't everything. ask him how he does and that you want to know how it's done I did. That's where I got what I wrote in the OP from. He just implies that 'it just happens'. Go out. Chat. Go back to his place. Sit down and have some drink. Then they just kiss. I'm assuming that maybe his good looks mean that the girl is instantly interested in sex with him, and thus gives out all kinds of signals s…
/r/seduction09/12/16 01:07 PM
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I only stop if say she seems uncomfortable and maybe pulls away as soon as I do anything more than the type of kino you'd do to a friend. Should I just keep trying lots more times? Also, it doesn't even seem like my friends does any kino at all! Just small talk. Back to the house. Sit. And then kiss/have sex.
/r/seduction09/12/16 12:47 PM
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Omg people who are saying you've waited too long have no idea what they are talking about Yeah, I must admit that I've known loads of friends hook up with either work mates or school mates after waiting an eternity to actually 'make a move'.
/r/seduction09/12/16 12:44 PM
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thanks, man. I wish posters always answered questions like that. Concise and to the point with actual examples. It's helpful. cheers
/r/seduction17/11/16 03:34 PM
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i think one is 'where are you from? Problem is that whenever I ask a girl this after opening and then post a field report, I get told I shouldn't have asked that question as it's a resume/interview question, and i'm supposed to be asking fun stuff. (not to mention that I live in a small town in the UK, so basically everyone I meet is from here) But it's just hard with a young girl stacking shelves who's busy at work.
/r/seduction16/11/16 10:22 PM
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well opening isn't really the problem. I'm fine with just saying ''Hi, You're cute, what's your name?'' as an opener. I don't really have any anxiety over opening girls. It's more that I don't know what to say after that and talk about, EXPECIALLY in 'difficult' settings such as a girl at work. What would you have said after you opened her? (girl stacking shelves)
/r/seduction16/11/16 07:17 PM
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give me your description of how YOU 'run game' out of interest. Try to be detailed, and include conversation examples. thanks
/r/seduction04/11/16 09:40 AM
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no. You can't make someone sleep with you using game lol. I'm defining failure as not having sex. I only approach hot young girls. Game isn't magic.
/r/seduction03/11/16 10:01 PM
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why is the beer and wine flowing at work!? haha. I think you missed the bit where they ask you out?
/r/seduction03/11/16 09:35 AM
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but I was 'being myself' before I ever heard of pickup. That was the problem. And so I read a lot of pickup books, but I still don't really know what im' supposed to be doing and saying most of the time I kind of get jealous when I read someone write ''I saw her and 'ran my game'on her" - It' makes me think they have some sort of formula and have somehow understood everything much better than me, as if they now always know what to say and what to do. I wonder If I know what 'game' even is, despi…
/r/seduction02/11/16 11:33 PM
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nope! Endless possibilities! If that was your first ever approach, you'll likely see what I mean soon, lol Sometimes a certain open will seem to go down well. The next time, the exact same open goes awfully for an instant rejection. Depends on the girl. Sometimes I think I came off to needy. Then I'll rain it in for the next girl and I come across too friendly. Sometimes you think it's going well and then her friend pulls her away. etc etc Or maybe the good interaction was nothing to do with you…
/r/seduction02/11/16 10:15 PM
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I'm on about 90 rejections in a row so far. I Wouldn't necessarily recommend that! :)
/r/seduction02/11/16 08:25 PM
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He's got you interested without using 'game'! Who say's looks don't matter! :) But yeah, I don't think most guys would be creeped out at all. We're used to doing the chasing so it'd be surprising (unless this always happens to him), but a pleasant surprise.
/r/seduction02/11/16 09:28 AM
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what's your plan of attack in places that are NOT parties or bars out of interest? Are you able to pull girls from your social circle or from work or something? If so, how?
/r/seduction02/11/16 09:23 AM
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You don NOT get girls like that first girl in the UK :( - Hot young fun, bubbly, super happy girl making out with a stranger in the DAYTIME within like 20 seconds, lol. Whatever you say she's is all up beat and 'OK!!'. ''Give me a kiss on the cheek'' OK!!! ''make out with me real quick'' OK!! ''Quick handjob by the parked car??'' OK!!!. crazy. Wish I lived there!! Must be the sunshine. I imagine that like every American guy over the age of like 21 has a 100+ notch count!
/r/seduction02/11/16 09:13 AM
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I know that i'm kind of looking at things the wrong way, but at the same time, I feel as though I need to be able to vizualize interactions in order to replicate them. I think things just seem different in my head since the few pulls I've ever had have been when out drinking in bars at night. It was meet a girl for the first time in a night environment and take her home. As a result, I at least have some sort of reference experience to work from. But not with any other situations When I pulled i…
/r/seduction30/10/16 12:43 PM
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Good FR. Why the down votes? I notice that it's only when someone get's laid in a FR that they don't get downvoted, lol
/r/seduction30/10/16 09:34 AM
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what about if you just approach a girl at a bar. I never really know how to have a 'fun' conversation after I open, so tend to just ask how their night is going. maybe try to guess what they do for a job etc, but it doesn't tend to end well for me. But i'm not sure what sort of things I SHOULD be saying/talking about after the open in order to make things less boring.
/r/seduction28/10/16 02:04 PM
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I've never been on a date so I find these sorts of threads useful in the event that I ever get one! I imagine it just being super awkward, a bit like a job interview. So.....tell me about yourself - what are your hobbies?...etc. You see this on programs like 'first dates' (Uk tv fly-on-the wall program) Often the dates are just awkward,but every now and again, 2 people will meet and they'll be bantering and laughing etc straight away, and always makes for a good date. I'm just not sure how they …
/r/seduction28/10/16 10:31 AM
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Out of interest, what would you say if I asked you the difference between 'using game' and just talking to a girl who you think is hot. How would you advise someone to 'run game' if they'd never heard of 'pickup'?
/r/seduction27/10/16 08:57 PM
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You mean ask their opinions on things? ''what do you think of xxx?'' give me a pretend conversation. An open, and the first few minutes of the convo. You just spotted a cute girl in a bar. Go!
/r/seduction27/10/16 08:19 PM
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There are no rules in seduction. Bit if there are no rules, then there is no 'game'
/r/seduction27/10/16 05:10 PM
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*also, just read your story. That opener threw me off haha. I don't think calling her hot was a mistake. Sounds like you already had a good conversation going and it fit in naturally. Don't know why you haven't had any success lately. Seems like you did everything "right" in your success story. Did you change what you were doing? Seddit tends to agree that you never verbalise that you are into them, but that you only show them with your actions (kino) I tend to just open in a 'normal' way now as…
/r/seduction27/10/16 03:53 PM
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the 250 is a guesstimate, but it's probably not a million miles away. I approach maybe 10-15 girls on nights out, which is when I game. Usually on a Friday or Saturday night. I think the silly approach helped me. But I don't always want to be the 'hey I recognise you from bla bla'' or the ''are you my blind date?'' guy. But it seems without some silly way to start the conversation, I immediately get drawn into a boring interview with the girl, where we are both as bored as each other. ''hi, who …
/r/seduction27/10/16 03:51 PM
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So, instead of focusing on why I can't, I want to focus on how others did This sounds like me. Everyone always says 'get out there and keep getting rejected, and you will learn' but that really doesn't seem to be the case for me. I'm kind of someone who needs to see it being done successfully (or at least read about it in brain-numbing detail) in order to better understand things. I can spot certain patterns easier that way. Fr example, I have NO IDEA how someone would go about hooking up with a…
/r/seduction27/10/16 02:18 PM
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OK. thanks. See, I was told to never ask if they are single and to never tell them (verbalise) that you are interested in them/think they are hot.
/r/seduction27/10/16 08:20 AM
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here on seddit, they say 'it's not what you say, but how you say it'. so maybe don't worry too much about being witty, since it's kind of irrelevant
/r/seduction26/10/16 11:05 PM
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by 'direct', do you basically mean tell her that you think she is hot? (I've seen a few definitions of what 'direct' actually means) Anyway, if so, that seems to be the wrong way to from what I've read on seddit so far
/r/seduction26/10/16 10:50 PM
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my instinct is to say something like ''You are kinda cute'' as I inch closer and look deep in her eyes, but apparently you're not supposed to say anything like that (no compliments) but then, It just looks weird in my head to go for the makeout without verbalising your intent at all. Like talking about sport and then just going for the kiss I also kind of think that verbalising that you like them makes it easier for them to in turn show that they like you back in a more obvious way which obvious…
/r/seduction26/10/16 06:05 PM
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but my issue is that they aren't outliners. it's the majority. Vast majority. I'm not even sure i'd say that they are all bitches, either. They just don't seem interested in wanting to talk to me. I'm wondering if some sort of routine will better get their attention and get them to drop their guard a little and open up. Do you typically go into the ''who are you here with/how is your night going?'' type questions after you open a girl in a bar?
/r/seduction26/10/16 11:03 AM
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this is what I fear! I can be smooth in text, but I think i'd be awkward as hell on a date! I imagine it being a bit like a really awkward job interview Sit down. 'Hi!' - so, tell me about yourself? Ah....you have 2 sisters?...cool....'' kind of thing
/r/seduction26/10/16 09:16 AM
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adjust and change something Such as? I feel as though I've already chopped and changed around a fair bit in terms of energy, and opening style. I feel as though I need to ask different more interesting questions/say more interesting stuff at after the open, but I don't know what. But then other people say that after the open, it's expected to be a bit awkward and just to wait until you get through that stage, but don't seem to be able to do that. What are the first things you would say too a gir…
/r/seduction25/10/16 07:47 PM
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I might get a bit shot down for this, but here is my opinion. I have lots of friends and I've been going out on weekends bar hopping for years. All of my friends who get laid NOW get it ALL from tinder. All of my friends who done Ok with girls in the past (pre tinder) pretty much got it all from work girls and social circle. I have met almost nobody who does well with 'cold approach'. Not to say that they don't exist, but tinder seems to be about 100x easier. I guess since half of the deal is do…
/r/seduction25/10/16 07:26 PM
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If you start going out regularly and approach few dozen of times in first few weeks you will gain a lot of confidence. After that it will stabilize. I wish this was the case for me. I really haven't improved at all, despite making a good number of approaches. I often hear people say that 'practice make perfect' etc, but I find myself failing at the same things and at the same points over and over again. That is (mainly) running out of things to say talking to a girl for a few minutes who just do…
/r/seduction25/10/16 07:19 PM
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yeah, you're right. I mean, i'm only on season 2, but so far, almost all of his instant hook-ups is when a hot girl more or less picks HIM up and introducing themselves to him since they are very interested in him without him doing/saying anything! And then he uses his 'charm' to seal the deal. So yeah, not remotely like real life, but the idea of 'playing a character' still interests me in a way, based on my own experiences. It's kind of hard too explain though, because I wasn't quite in my own…
/r/seduction25/10/16 03:35 PM
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Well I've never had a date, but i'm talking about more approaching girls in bars and stuff. But I very rarely get to the point where I can really implement any of the stuff I read about (passing shit tests etc) because ever interaction tends to end very quickly indeed. I assume i'm saying/ask the wrong sorts of things after I open. Not sure. edit: oh, and thanks for your lengthy reply
/r/seduction25/10/16 02:35 PM
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the sidebar seems to be mainly interview (ama's) and glossary of terms stuff. Are you referring to the AMA's, when you mention the side bar, because I admit i'm yet to read them (although have read a number of game books) The actual 'guides' on the side bar don't seem great? Like the 'learning pickup' link is just a post about basically, 'getting your shit together' (dress well, clean your room etc) but isn't really gonna help much when you're trying to seduce girls and is kind of a 'given'. I'd…
/r/seduction25/10/16 01:20 PM
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I guess you need to 'seduce' her (although should be a lot easier since she obviously likes how you look) How to 'seduce' someone? I guess you need to be funny, interesting, flirty, display higher value, pass her shit-tests and use kino?
/r/seduction25/10/16 01:15 PM
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you mean just tell them you think that they are hot? This has always been my natural instinct, but from what I read here, it's definitely not the way to go. Say it with your actions (kino and flirting) as opposed to your words, I believe is what I've learnt
/r/seduction25/10/16 11:40 AM
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this is kind of what confuses me. Is there really such a thing as game? It seems as though every PUA has a COMPLETELY different philosophy about what is 'right and wrong'. And then there are people who seem to break every single 'rule' you've ever read, and still do well.
/r/seduction25/10/16 10:58 AM
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I am with you 100% I'm in my 30's and have only had sex with one girl. I'm so happy that I won't die a virgin, but feel lucky, too! It could easily have happened Now, it's true that I've only really been approaching girls for about 10 months, but because of depression and anxiety etc, I am just in my head and awkward and so can't hold a conversation or I unintentionally creep girls out, I guess. My confidence is super low, but only really as a result of feeling pathetic since most guys have like…
/r/seduction24/10/16 06:35 PM
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Every torrent get put online for free at some point, but I haven't found the natural anywhere yet. You know of any links? my conversation skills directly after opening are non-existant, although I seem to be OK once that first awkward 3-4 minutes is behind me, but the problem is that girls usually bail on me before that point arrives as I just don't know what to say. Lots of girls just give me one-word-answers so I need to keep coming up with new questions/statements, and my brain can't seem to …
/r/seduction24/10/16 02:09 PM
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For free? I do!! :)
/r/seduction24/10/16 08:59 AM
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You could have talked to the friend. You don't have to use seduction on every girl When you say 'use seduction' in this context, are you talking about things like kino and teasing? I believe she was expecting more from you but you didn't meet the expectations so she kindly excused herself Yes, that was almost certainly the case - although I was fairly aware of that at the time.
/r/seduction23/10/16 01:29 PM
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I'm still not much clearer on what I SHOULD be saying, though. I am fine with not asking them questions, but I need to say something. Do I just keep making assumptions/cold reads? And what about? Assumptions about what they are doing that night?(obviously getting drunk I guess). Assumptions about what they do for a job? Other assumptions based on what they are wearing?? Give me some conversation examples. Regarding the girl who opened me, I was just standing in the smoking area and a girl who wa…
/r/seduction23/10/16 12:20 PM
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OK, so tell me what to ask edit: I actually did go out once after watching a simplepickup vid who said to ask crazy questions (they asked things like 'what's your favourite vegetable' after the open), but it just made me look like an idiot and I looked retarded instead of just boring with the same end result
/r/seduction23/10/16 11:31 AM
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do you mean all cold approach is creepy, or only when someone is at work?
/r/seduction21/10/16 11:38 AM
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Sounds like you must live in the UK if the girls are shocked by you approaching them. But i'm guessing you're in the US?
/r/seduction21/10/16 07:59 AM
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'show vulnerability' and just tell her? Like in 'models' by Mark Manson?
/r/seduction20/10/16 10:34 PM
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fair enough. I don't want to break any rules. I assumed it would be fine since I just literally meant going somewhere for a few months and spending all your time in bars trying to get laid, but obviously not. Thing is, i'm tying everything where I live, but it's getting to the point that it's feeling highly likely that I will NOT ever get laid again! I've read all the material and i'm making approaches. Not sure what else I can do
/r/seduction20/10/16 02:12 PM
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oh. I didn't mean to pay for it, as in prostitutes!
/r/seduction20/10/16 01:28 PM
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that's cold approach for ya!
/r/seduction20/10/16 12:22 PM
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