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STEM bro. I'm Math with a CS minor. I'm planning to go to law school but really I can do business, education, tech, etc. I'm set and I don't reaaallly have to decide for a while
/r/TheRedPill26/05/17 05:34 PM
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Honestly just do it. The more disciplines you are the better your life gets. I'm in monk mode right now, getting up at 5am, lifting, meditating, working, reading, affirmations, cold showers, reflection. Honestly I love my life right now and dont have any desire to chase girls. I know 100% that it's going to pay off and that's why I improve even when it's hard. On the other hand, I'm definitely a hard case when it comes to the gaming girls part, so maybe that's what motivates me. I still love it …
/r/askTRP23/05/17 05:29 PM
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What is your advice about walking the line between being nice and being a doormat?
/r/askTRP25/04/17 04:44 AM
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I was referring to others mostly, I realize that I haven't been pulling it off very well. On a more constructive note, how do you walk the line between wanting to improve your reputation and without seeming like you're trying to get validation?
/r/askTRP25/04/17 04:28 AM
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Consider yourself warned
/r/askTRP17/04/17 07:04 PM
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I mean your family, friends, etc. It's better to just go online
/r/askTRP17/04/17 06:06 PM
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Don't let anyone find that
/r/askTRP17/04/17 03:59 PM
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I use that mindset as a motivator. I find when I feel like I'm "good enough" I get complacent and depressed, while when I'm yelling at myself, calling myself shit then I can get stuff done.
/r/TheRedPill10/04/17 02:58 PM
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Yea yea biographies are a great idea! I was kind of hoping to avoid more of the self-help kind of stuff. What's so special about this "what is a man?" book?
/r/askTRP04/04/17 03:52 AM
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"Mom buy this 4 me I wana get gurlz"
/r/seduction01/04/17 06:38 PM
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The psychological term is "priming"
/r/seduction01/04/17 03:21 PM
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How do you balance likability with respectability? Sometimes when people like me more I'm afraid that I give off the impression of weakness
/r/askTRP01/04/17 01:49 PM
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How would some girl that I'm having sex with know that I suffer from premature ejaculation?
/r/askTRP27/03/17 12:23 AM
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Um no but if I hook up with a girl sober then she definitely knows
/r/askTRP26/03/17 11:46 PM
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There's one friend who I know is RP. We haven't talked about it explicitly but we've engaged in power talk about it. He's someone who's sabotaged me in the past. He's also a very confusing guy. Not sure if he's being machiovellian but since I backslid his attitude toward me has changed. Just the other day he told me about some girl he wants to marry and stuff. I don't trust him no matter what
/r/askTRP26/03/17 08:58 PM
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Large but not too large that I wouldn't eventually run into friends of friends and have the word get around. Worst case scenaruo I might just have to push through school, get good grades and focus on becoming alpha in my 20's and 30's
/r/askTRP26/03/17 07:05 PM
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Does going into monk mode mean I don't hang out with those friends? Does it mean that I try to make new friends? I don't have any friends at home so other than working a job all I have to do is work on myself. I've seen the monk mode guides but I'd like your advice because I'm not sure how monk mode would look in my current situation
/r/askTRP26/03/17 06:17 PM
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College. It's kind of tough to break into sports at this point, especially since I'm unathletic. I lift but I'm very bad at sports (uncoordinated, I don't run, etc). And I do need a bigger social circle. That's one of the things I need to do for sure
/r/askTRP26/03/17 06:14 PM
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I'm planning on going into monk mode this summer. What I'm thinking is identifying weak points in my frame, lifestyle, etc and coming up with solutions. The tough part is the pain that comes with people laughing at me trying to improve, trying to keep me low status, girls laughing when I come fast in sex, and the mindset I have to be in to get myself to do all of these things. What do you think I should be doing?
/r/askTRP26/03/17 04:24 PM
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Like what? I'm definitely a likable person. People almost always like me but I don't have a good apartment, I don't sell drugs, etc. I'm likable but maybe not enough to have people invite me out? Not sure
/r/askTRP11/03/17 10:55 PM
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I've already made it clear I don't like it. Backing down is the definition of going into his frame "chill it's just a joke bro." If you knew his yoid know its just not going to help with this guy. I get that this is TRP so the most up voted comment is always the "Lol quit being a bitch lol." But that's not the right answer in this case. If I back down he's just going to keep coming at me.
/r/askTRP06/03/17 03:34 PM
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Coolcool. I know his dad is some hotshot lawyer. He went to private school and all that. I'll look into it some more and see what I can find.
/r/askTRP06/03/17 05:21 AM
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How do I go about finding out this kind of stuff about people? Might as well starting making a bank. Also, shouldn't I try to preserve plausible deniability when doing this?
/r/askTRP06/03/17 05:09 AM
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I'd prefer to be a little more subtle. I'm already known as a hot head and I'd like to cool it down a bit in general.
/r/askTRP06/03/17 05:05 AM
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Lol why? Does it matter?
/r/askTRP06/03/17 05:04 AM
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Yea I mean if she's talking to you that much might as well. Talk to other girls while you're at it I wish I had a lot of free time. I'd fill it with more and more awesome shit
/r/askTRP06/03/17 05:02 AM
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Get a better life. When you're less worried about what she thinks then text game/making plans starts to come naturally, at least for me. I have enough going on that I don't really want to have to text some girl all day
/r/askTRP06/03/17 04:44 AM
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Right right I should probably read the same "theory" for the 10th time instead of something that will help me act. Very RP
/r/askTRP27/02/17 05:01 PM
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Hur dur I don't feel like giving a real answer. I've read it bud. It's not a resource on how to interact with women to get fuck
/r/askTRP27/02/17 03:57 PM
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I feel that given the context it was pretty obvious what was going on and what my intentions were. Ya know, subtext, body language, etc.
/r/askTRP27/02/17 01:25 PM
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Went with a girl to study at the library, couldn't close. She didn't want to come back to my place even though I "forgot my book." Invited her over to study more and she wasn't interested. Eventually ghosted me
/r/askTRP26/02/17 08:58 PM
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OK. How?
/r/askTRP22/02/17 01:04 AM
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VERY hard gainer. Probably not eating right has something to do with it. I feel like I'm challenging myself in the gym but idk man. I did take a break from lifting for a while. Like I said I'm trying to take it more seriously now. I've doubled my squat and dl easily, but barely made any progress on the bench
/r/askTRP22/02/17 01:04 AM
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I mean I want to increase both but I suppose mainly bulk. I want to look good and feel good. The problem is with my numbers not growing, I'm not getting any bigger
/r/askTRP21/02/17 08:56 PM
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What are other good ways to make friends outside of the fraternity? Things to do and stuff
/r/askTRP07/02/17 04:14 AM
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You don't sound apathetic at all. Pathetic, but not apathetic.
/r/askTRP29/01/17 08:27 PM
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Yea, Im starting to get the sense that it's more about her experience than anything else. She's not going to fuck you if her experience would be better not fucking you.
/r/askTRP29/01/17 07:14 PM
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Doesn't she need plausible deniability? Isn't it good to have logistics a little more flushed out? I get it but it seems like you need to have some sort of premise as to why you're taking her home. A high enough value girl isn't going to take "adventure" as a good enough answer
/r/askTRP29/01/17 07:10 PM
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Ok. Thank you. I keep thinking I can handle things on my own but I suppose not. As far as the attention seeking, you guys are the only ones that I've told so while I feel you, I disagree. I wanted to die in that moment. However, you're right that these endless posts on reddit aren't going to solve any of my issues. I have a psychiatrist's phone number that I've been sitting on for a while. After Christmas break I will give them a call and see what I can do. Thanks for your advice and your servic…
/r/askTRP15/12/16 05:14 AM
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You're completely right. But what do I do? Like what can I do about this?
/r/askTRP05/11/16 04:22 PM
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This is very interesting. I've made a lot of these connections myself just by reading the sidebar. Can someone else vouch for this?
/r/askTRP05/11/16 04:21 PM
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I'm at school, currently a pledge for a frat. I don't have time to eat well this semester but next semester should be easier. Priorities my friend
/r/askTRP31/10/16 08:45 PM
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6'2" 190lbs. PHUL 4 days a week. 285lb squat, 245 lb deadlift, 160lb bench
/r/askTRP31/10/16 01:24 PM
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Yea I'm making an appointment with a psychiatrist about my lack of "mental clarity" so we'll see. I hear that meds are a last resort though
/r/askTRP30/10/16 09:58 PM
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I mean thanks, that's obviously a part of the plan but like I say in the post it's a problem I have even when I'm not drinking. Any other advice?
/r/askTRP30/10/16 09:56 PM
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You do you fucking pussy. I shouldnt have to spell this out for you. Sidebar.
/r/askTRP28/10/16 05:22 AM
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Its more of a joke than anything man. I'm sure there's better ways for you to screen girls
/r/askTRP23/10/16 03:17 AM
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That's actually really comforting, thank you. What does "alpha" mean to you then?
/r/askTRP17/10/16 11:27 PM
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I'm subbed man. It makes things worse. Maybe I'm just applying it wrong, but something about the whole thing feels negative
/r/askTRP17/10/16 09:56 PM
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Yep. There was a period where I almost became BP again from the feelings of regret
/r/askTRP17/10/16 08:57 PM
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Um I've kinda tried that. I am pretty good at keeping my mouth shut but it obviously comes off in body language, etc Edit: plus that's the attitude that usually leads to backsliding
/r/askTRP17/10/16 08:39 PM
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Lift and meditate
/r/askTRP16/10/16 04:04 AM
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Ok, op. It's me again. I would not recommend smoking weed. It makes me lazy and anxious. I have high t as well. It's not that simple. Sometime we, as animal creatures, have thought patterns and traumas from our past that cause these issues. Sometimes it's a chemical imbalance. Secondly, I lift, I approach, I get laid. The happiness/satisfaction aspect is not that simple. I like that second part though: figure out what exactly is the problem and how you can fix it. This is something I've been doi…
/r/askTRP05/10/16 05:07 PM
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I can only speak to where I am in my journey. 5 months in, still dealing with problems. Right now its PE. Last night I hooked up with some tinder chick. I came early, became very embarrassed and depressed. Kicked her out. A few months ago I would've been ecstatic to hear that I'd gotten to fuck s girl, but even now it feels so empty. I mean, even if I had lasted 30 minutes, made her cum multiple times, etc, what would've been the point? This early into my journey and I'm already becoming disillu…
/r/askTRP05/10/16 04:02 PM
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Hold on here OP. We don't really know enough to be giving you this kind of advice. It's definitely possible that these meds are in your best interest, but this is not the place to go for this kind of advice. Maybe find a therapist who you like? One who you look up to? Just have an open mind and remember, they're professionals
/r/askTRP04/10/16 01:56 PM
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^ why bother with A? Abundance mentality
/r/askTRP04/10/16 01:36 AM
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Why the fuck are you even asking this?
/r/askTRP01/10/16 02:50 PM
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Hobbies man. Hit the gym, talk to people there.
/r/askTRP01/10/16 01:59 PM
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Thank you. This is helpful. It's comments like these that get completely ignored by the RP-hate communities. I'll work on this.
/r/askTRP29/09/16 01:09 PM
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But TRP is about becoming satisfied with your sex life (in my opinion) for the purpose of being ABLE to pursue more satisfying and fulfilling pursuits. See maslow's hierarchy of needs. Love and acceptance. The desire to be desired has to be fulfilled before I can move on. Believe me, all I want is to not worry about girls anymore but I have needs, and, like NMMNG says, I should be putting my needs first. Doesn't that mean that I should be chasing the poon for a while until it's not an issue in m…
/r/askTRP29/09/16 05:07 AM
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How long will this last?
/r/askTRP29/09/16 05:01 AM
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Interesting. I like this. There's always been something missing. However i'm not at the point where my sexual needs are taken care of, so I guess I have to focus on that now. But I'll definitely begin that search. Thank you.
/r/askTRP29/09/16 02:26 AM
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Yea I mean I didn't care when it happened, I'm making this post because I got anxious after I hit her up again. She was shit testing heavily and I guess I failed or lost frame control despite having what I considered good responses. I'd post them but I deleted all her shit. Side note: Looking back at it, I'm starting to see the whole "women are children" thing in action. That's just not how a man would handle that situation. Very immature. So I suppose that's another insight I got out of the exp…
/r/askTRP16/09/16 04:51 AM
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Asked her to chill and she said no because "6 seconds isn't worth shaving for 😂😂." The fact that the sex was so bad gave her frame control and I couldn't recover. I wasn't going to accept disrespect so I hard nexted her
/r/askTRP16/09/16 04:47 AM
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Went down on her, made her come multiple times. She was like "so you wanna head out?" Like I said I'm inexperienced so I just left
/r/askTRP16/09/16 04:03 AM
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So you think it's legit PE, not just inexperience?
/r/askTRP16/09/16 02:19 AM
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Elaborate?
/r/askTRP09/09/16 03:24 AM
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Don't most chicks get thrown off if someone asks them to chill later at night, as in after 11?
/r/askTRP07/09/16 10:13 PM
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Haha flaking is a bit of the problem rn but I'll keep that in mind
/r/askTRP07/09/16 10:02 PM
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I met a friend irl who is redpill. The advice he gave me is "always push through." Idk how long you've been at this but I've been working for a long time and I'm still not there yet. Just keep moving. Side note, maybe a change in friend groups is in order?
/r/askTRP07/09/16 02:28 PM
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That makes a lot of sense, thanks
/r/askTRP23/08/16 06:18 PM
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It seems so feminine to be in touch with emotions, to be honest and have oodles of bubbly self love (/s). All the men I know who I look up to in a masculine way don't deal with that bullshit. They're coarse, no-bullshit types. The type who just tells a woman, "come here, sit on my lap." And she does. Like most guys on here, I had a weak father who, to this day, is an emotional teddy bear. And he passed those traits on to me. I still find myself smiling too much, being too nice, too agreeable, et…
/r/askTRP23/08/16 04:35 PM
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I'm looking for very low emotional commitment. I'm a serious, passionate person and I'd much rather channel that passion into something other than a woman. It doesn't seem like there's many girls who are into that type of personality though
/r/askTRP23/08/16 04:23 PM
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Cool. School is starting so I'll have much more opportunity for that kind of thing. Any reading material, tips, overviews?
/r/askTRP17/08/16 12:04 AM
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Few friends, no girls. I worry way too much what people think about me. There's a lack of purpose in my life beyond getting laid which both inhibits my happiness and (ironically enough) my ability to get laid Edit: ya know, I think I just answered my own question to a certain extent. Thanks man
/r/askTRP10/08/16 08:35 PM
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Yea, I mean I'm an incel right now and it's always been a big problem in my life. I guess that's one thing to shoot for. I also don't have many friends at the moment which sucks. I've never really had a good group of friends like that. Don't get me wrong. I'm a LOT better than before. It just happens after a particularly harsh rejection, the realization that my friends were ignoring me, etc. Do you have a purpose in life? That's a piece that I'm missing right now for sure.
/r/askTRP10/08/16 08:19 PM
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Ok. Thank for your your response.
/r/askTRP10/08/16 08:15 PM
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I've read that Journaling is almost like CBT if done properly. How I do it is I start in one mental space and I write and write and eventually come back to a mental space of determination and resolve. After that I read over it and think about it. I already exercise.
/r/askTRP10/08/16 08:12 PM
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I read pretty consistently that therapy is BP and will fuck with your goals, which is why I was asking about medication specifically. Why do you think therapy is a good option too?
/r/askTRP10/08/16 08:08 PM
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Any. Never been on medication or to the doctor
/r/askTRP10/08/16 08:00 PM
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Should I go for the second date?
/r/askTRP07/08/16 02:53 PM
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Then what's your suggestion?
/r/askTRP31/07/16 12:44 AM
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Hey man whatever it takes to get respect amirite? I've been lifting 4x a week for months and I know I can take a hit. I'm not looking to get into a fight but I'm not running away from one
/r/askTRP31/07/16 12:34 AM
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Interesting. I'll try that out
/r/askTRP31/07/16 12:28 AM
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How do you get to that point where you "truly" don't care?
/r/askTRP28/07/16 01:40 AM
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Good idea. Should I just walk away and come back later?
/r/askTRP25/07/16 06:50 PM
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Ok. Makes sense. What about the depressed chick? I could probably still get in that if I play my cards right
/r/askTRP25/07/16 04:01 PM
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So you wouldn't call that a red flag?
/r/askTRP25/07/16 03:09 PM
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What about if I get her number but can't get her back to my room on the first night?
/r/askTRP20/07/16 02:02 AM
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I like this. What if my boss talks to me about it on Monday? He's extremely BP, beta to the extreme. It's a shame. I like the guy, but at this moment he's a threat to my reputation
/r/askTRP09/07/16 01:36 AM
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Thoughts on applying some covert dread game? As in putting up a story on my snapchat of the place that I took her too? ("Do you take all of your girls here? How many times have you made this walk?")
/r/askTRP
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Fair enough. Is it worth going for a second date?
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