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Buy yourself something
/r/Divorce_Men03/02/25 09:24 PM
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Hell if I know
/r/Divorce_Men11/10/24 08:36 AM
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I drive a train…… it’s squished as a pancake 😇
/r/Divorce_Men09/10/24 03:15 AM
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And divorce decree states that alimony is non- modifiable That’s effing lovely 🥰
/r/Divorce_Men09/10/24 03:14 AM
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Does my attorney that represented me during divorce still represent me? Another retainer fee or it still carries with me?
/r/Divorce_Men31/08/24 12:42 AM
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If you’re ready to date…. Go for it. You two are legally separated. My divorce lasted over a year without a set court date. I love my right hand but a 50 year old dude jerking off for 2 years waiting for attorneys to make a decision- that was easily a hard pass!!!! Go out and enjoy this new chapter in your life!!
/r/Divorce_Men20/02/24 02:25 PM
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Very true
/r/Divorce_Men16/12/23 07:34 AM
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And it’s like everyone always asks about the kids when I bump into acquaintances and they have no clue what’s taking place
/r/Divorce_Men16/12/23 05:21 AM
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My attorney and the judge in our case corresponded earlier…. My attorney explained this was a cut and dry situation signing over my house rights. The property now belongs to my ex as of today. As far as ex refinancing within time period- I’ll have to wait until August
/r/Divorce_Men16/12/23 03:30 AM
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This is what I’m afraid of and the fact if she misses payments it can affect me
/r/Divorce_Men15/12/23 08:37 PM
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The 365 days was an order from the judge …. I wish the judge would’ve made a smaller timeframe
/r/Divorce_Men15/12/23 02:21 PM
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lol.
/r/Divorce_Men03/12/23 07:53 PM
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🎉🎉YAY!!!!!! 🎉🎉 must be nice going through an easy divorce!!! Fuck my ex!!!!!!!
/r/Divorce_Men03/12/23 07:06 PM
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“Gamble” some 401k savings and put it in a safe place. You will need it
/r/Divorce_Men12/11/23 05:50 AM
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You did your best to keep the waters smooth even though in the back of your mind she may decide to divorce…… the harmless motorcycle ride was the only exit strategy she had to go with. My ex did the same
/r/Divorce_Men11/11/23 08:48 PM
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I’m in that line along side you. Not being motivated at times is depressing. I want to do what I planned but when the time comes to do it I talk myself into staying put. Here lately even though motivation has had the upper hand I’ve put my plans in action and just robotically got behind the steering wheel and went. Once I’m at my destination I have a great time. So far at least. What I’m really looking forward to is getting a puppy!!!
/r/Divorce_Men31/10/23 01:22 AM
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That’s what I needed to know… thx
/r/Divorce_Men31/10/23 12:59 AM
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I’m curious- when my ex gets the money from my 401k will she be paying the taxes from that or will I have to?
/r/Divorce_Men30/10/23 04:42 PM
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If she files first she possibly will want you out of the home…(speaking from experience) based on her telling judge she wants temporary use of martial home, and when you get served you will be ordered to get personal belongings and leave. No abuse or violence matters none for this to happen. But if you have a lawyer they can 99.9% get you back in the house until divorce hearing. Which may be 2 years away so why rent and support 2 households???
/r/Divorce_Men14/10/23 04:36 AM
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I live in Georgia and my divorce hearing was 4 weeks ago. When it came to the home, I knew it would go 1 of 3 ways… buy her out, she buy me out or we sell. Never thought that she would win the home and the equity. It’s true what we hear about men in divorce about courts being fair and equal- it’s bullshit
/r/Divorce_Men14/10/23 04:28 AM
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Mine turned into THE devil too….. they just gotta be related.
/r/Divorce_Men15/07/23 02:41 PM
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It seems we were both married to sisters 👺👺👺👺👺
/r/Divorce_Men15/07/23 10:16 AM
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Oh man….. if I could’ve lived in the same house with my kids since the separation (lil over a year) …… and what I’ve been though without them- I’d call it a slice of heaven. Do your best to keep the bad emotions in check and just be a good daddy 👌👌👌👌
/r/Divorce_Men15/07/23 10:14 AM
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Distract distract distract
/r/Divorce_Men28/04/23 12:40 AM
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I think I missed your opening
/r/Divorce_Men23/04/23 03:58 AM
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Then we wait🤝
/r/Divorce_Men23/04/23 02:34 AM
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I’m one year almost to the day of being evicted from my house…..and your situation is and was exactly like my marriage. Although she was the one who passed me the hot potato of divorce, when she did my world caved. I’m a 50 year old southern boy and in that moment I turned into a lil bitch. I accepted her wishes but the tears spewed out!! I stayed another30 days until paperwork came and kept my composure and emotions somewhat intact in front of our kids …17 and 20. Knowing my days in my house as…
/r/Divorce_Men23/04/23 02:15 AM
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It’s allowed in Georgia to kick the on being served out. No grounds just kinda getcha shit and go. I wouldn’t have signed had I known.
/r/Divorce_Men08/04/23 01:43 PM
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Georgia you might as well have a bag packed the day your papers are served….. Ex parte- nisi is a trick whoever files first can get the other out of residence for no fucking reason at all.
/r/Divorce_Men08/04/23 09:55 AM
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Thx. I’m definitely gonna look into that today🤜🤛
/r/Divorce_Men07/04/23 01:51 PM
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I’d love to see it….. may get to update today😜
/r/Divorce_Men07/04/23 01:42 PM
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That’s interesting as hell…. I’m guessing she had to say something along the lines of me being a threat or abusive ? Or can one spouse just throw another spouse out all willynilly? Renters and squatters seem to have more rights than a served spouse! I can see why sooo many men just say “here…. take it all I’m done”
/r/Divorce_Men07/04/23 12:34 PM
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Holy fucken shit!!!! Been separated for one year and how have I not come across ur post? Much needed to hear- I’m in a whole lot better place these days but reading that sure recharged my battery. Number 4 especially…… daughter 17 (ex to be and stepson who I raised who is now 20) seem to think I’ve died or become invisible. The occasions where we are all in the same area(stadium..school functions) is a feeling that is honestly unexplainable unless you’ve gone thru it……………I could keep going but n…
/r/Divorce_Men07/04/23 08:22 AM
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Always thinking of the next project for the house…. Major projects. We wouldn’t be finished with a project and she has thinking about the third project. We had… rather I had….. a really nice home and at our age major projects for an already beautiful home seemed like a waste since we planned on moving once retirement. Lolol it just hit me that she knew all along the final outcome. I got played lol
/r/Divorce_Men25/03/23 03:51 AM
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Holy shit…. I did the same thing with pictures of the kids. I want to put them out but / as of now I think I shed tears to often for that.🙄 ur ex my ex … why or how can people be this hateful to people they were snuggling up to get warm with saying I love you only a few months ago? I not hardwired that way . I could/ would never have the kids turn on their mom and not do something about it. Fucking devils
/r/Divorce_Men19/03/23 07:43 AM
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PTSD…. What parental alienation group should I join? I feel like I should join them all but which is ur favorite?
/r/Divorce_Men11/03/23 03:41 PM
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It’s all about what level of crazy you can live with.
/r/Divorce_Men05/03/23 02:13 AM
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We are walking the exact same road ….. I’m just a years walk ahead of you…. miss my kids like you wouldn’t believe-not the exWife so much since I believe she has been possessed by satan himself the day I step off the property. 18 yr marriage and rolling to a full year of waiting on finalizing. Damn.. It seems like only a couple of months ago I that happened. I just realized it’s been a whole year!!! Anyway.. I unclench your fist because nothing makes this situation better……..but TIME. When I fin…
/r/Divorce_Men18/02/23 10:57 PM
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The last month at “our” house my wife was oddly sweet and seemed to listen to my conversations……. BUT THEN …….. when I shut the front door for the last time and drove away, that all fucken changed!!!! Somehow I became the enemy.
/r/Divorce_Men18/02/23 10:29 PM
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I drive a locomotive and when the signing day arrives I’m gonna squish the ring
/r/Divorce_Men21/01/23 02:57 AM
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Trust me…. She will be financially stable.
/r/Divorce_Men28/12/22 05:38 AM
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I did the ole one night stand about 3 months after she ordered me out of house. I wondered about my performance going in but lemme tell ya….. 2 times before bed and then again in the morning!!! I was pleasantly surprised!!! You’ll be fine
/r/Divorce_Men04/12/22 04:48 AM
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My ex wants the divorce too…. I thought I was going to be able to stay at our house but she had a court order to have me out of the house the day I was served papers(4 months ago)
/r/Divorce_Men23/09/22 04:16 PM
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👍🏼👍🏼
/r/Divorce_Men09/09/22 01:38 PM
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I’m going thru this also….. since I’m out of the house should i have her to do this before our mediation or wait until the attorneys give the go ahead?
/r/Divorce_Men09/09/22 12:38 PM
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Yeah it’s an awesome job….. been there 25 years. I get lots of rocks and “the finger” thrown my way.😅😅😅
/r/Divorce_Men26/08/22 07:50 PM
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I’m not gonna lie…. For me it took nearly 2 full months to get out of the fog. I cried cussed God… screamed behind the steering wheel. Luckily I was alone … even at work I’m by myself (train engineer) it was sooooo hard to concentrate. 5 months into it it still hurts but I can listen to ALL songs on the radio… I can talk without my emotions kicking my ass. You will get there… not saying ur taking it like me but I put myself into therapy once a week. Omg that helped…….friends and family have grea…
/r/Divorce_Men26/08/22 07:13 PM
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Let’s go thru this together…. 18 yrs marriage here and a 17 year old daughter. Blinded sided in nApril with papers and was told I needed to leave. I felt it coming too…. As u did.
/r/Divorce_Men26/08/22 06:22 PM
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Is this possible? I’m in Georgia….
/r/Divorce_Men03/05/22 01:40 PM
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