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Example is about form not content but yeah worrying isn't a great topic
/r/TheRedPill17/04/16 03:36 PM
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try this simple mental exercise: begin your sentences with words that immediately convey the thrust of what you are saying. Don't bury the lede, people have no attention span. Example: "I'm worried that someone is going to break into my house." Vs "Burglary is what I'm worried about."
/r/TheRedPill17/04/16 12:14 AM
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Betting she knew it wasn't retouched and simply wanted to humblebrag about being on a cover. "Oh I wasn't retouched, I just look great? Oh okay cool. Hear that everybody?"
/r/TheRedPill02/03/16 07:42 PM
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She texted you about that little stuff because she was hoping you still wanted to hang out. When are you going to quit making this girl wait? Fuck both.
/r/askTRP02/02/16 11:33 AM
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It's easiest to understand Mach. in practical terms. It usually means little more than opening up some (other person's) can of worms so that they are too distracted to pay attention to your actual strategy. Imo the core tenet is misdirection. You only do the heavier lifting of manipulation when dealing with someone who is in a particularly sensitive or vital roadblock position to your plans.
/r/TheRedPill19/11/15 11:38 AM
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When I get to feeling this way, it's because it's been too long since I engaged in an activity I'm really good at. I'm super into snowboarding and music, but there are times (because of seasons, and work) that I go weeks (ugh, or even months) without hitting snow or being able to play. Once I get back in that "flow state" I feel fucking awesome. And it's doubly great because nobody else cares how good I am at snowboarding or music. It's literally all about me. That confidence fills the void in m…
/r/askTRP12/11/15 12:24 PM
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So many people on this threat getting literal and logical. The point here is to gaslight these betches using the same social suffocation tactics they do. And while it's never worth engaging... shit it's fun if you have an audience.
/r/TheRedPill04/11/15 08:24 AM
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You have to raise a woman up, as weird as it sounds. The most perverse part of the SJW agenda imo is the idea that a 30 year old man should date a 30 year old (or more!) woman. That's like having two co-CEOs. There's no one in charge and chaos ensues. Captain-copilot dynamic is really only feasible with a woman who is younger. They're all children (AWALT) but older women are prone to forget this, while younger women have a realistic and appropriate level of self-doubt.
/r/TheRedPill01/10/15 05:46 PM
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I used to get a feeling like this when I was younger. If you just go approach the first time you see her, you won't get this nagging curiosity.
/r/TheRedPill10/09/15 02:09 PM
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Important lesson in this post: people (whether on TRP or elsewhere) really don't like hearing about other people's good situation.
/r/TheRedPill12/08/15 02:24 PM
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"I guess I was just acting like a chick" A great way to kill "nice guy" conversational habits is just to observe what women themselves do. Like kids, they have no compunction interrupting you to reach for food or leaving when things get boring. Guys often do this with bitter flair, but when you're truly selfishly motivated (a persona you should adopt around women, not men) then it comes off as naturally self-possessed. Which is what causes the tingles. There's no malice in it. Just playful reali…
/r/TheRedPill01/08/15 04:49 AM
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Lol you're trolling. Can't afford a Gatorade a day? Time to ask for a raise son.
/r/askTRP24/07/15 03:48 AM
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You need to eat and drink during the workout. Gatorade and musclegel (by MP) are my choice. I was a d-1 athlete in college and its routine for all ncaa teams to do 2-3 hour training sessions every morning. That was 10 years ago, it hasn't gotten any less feasible. Thresholds are in your mind.
/r/askTRP23/07/15 02:16 PM
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It's the opposite. Show her it's not a big deal.
/r/askTRP23/07/15 12:18 PM
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There's nothing unnatural about a 3-hour exercise session. But I realize people have to work. Some days I split it up into to shifts.
/r/askTRP23/07/15 12:17 PM
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GUYS. If you never had reason to record yourself fucking, here it is. I recommend the Canary home security device if you drink and spin plates a lot.
/r/TheRedPill22/07/15 01:59 AM
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She will mirror your level of anxiety and concern. All the hugging says "big deal." Treat it like nothing until it's something. She will do the same.
/r/askTRP22/07/15 01:27 AM
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Here's the way I look at this. Someday you'll be old and sitting in your own shit. You'll be glad you fucked anything that caught your eye. You have a zillion sperm for a reason-- spend profligately. On the other hand, I do have one rule: age over beauty (cochise)! Younger girls have energy and tightness that belie their HB-number. Older but perhaps slightly more attractive women in my estimation are not worth the easy lay, because they often are hiding mountains of crazy. So in summary: do it i…
/r/askTRP22/07/15 01:23 AM
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The 5x5 thing gets oversold on this sub. You really need more training volume (eg, more sets, more time under tension) after the first year or so. Arnold's encyclopedia of bodybuilding has two beginner/intermediate workouts that imo are all you need. But they're full-body and up to 3 hours long. So wake up early.
/r/askTRP22/07/15 01:18 AM
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Gotta support the way you acted here. Patience is only a virtue if it has limits and they are enforced. In fact, snapping at him (after repeated goading) is a great display of control; you obviously do not lack self respect. A big dog lets a little dog nip and bark until it draws blood. Then one deep growl puts it in its place. Never let the fear of showing emotion temper your will to demand respectful treatment.
/r/TheRedPill21/07/15 10:40 AM
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This is going back 15 years for me, but I remember thinking doggystyle was easier to get your dick in. Missionary you need to make sure her legs are back far enough that you can dip in easily; her vag is not at the angle you probably think. Honestly girls usually just find it sweet if they need to help you guide it in, so this isn't a big deal. But who wants to be sweet?
/r/askTRP17/07/15 01:15 PM
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or Heavy Metal style like that south park
/r/TheRedPill11/07/15 10:25 PM
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Start a campaign for more lenient treatment of female drunk drivers, especially those who were carrying passengers. "A woman can't consent to sex when she's drunk, so she can't consent to drive either." Did you know 40% of peer pressure happens in a car? Did you know men can force a woman to drive without even touching her?
/r/TheRedPill11/07/15 10:03 PM
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You can bet on the Uber model here. You order a sexbot, she shows up in all leather on an autonomous motorcycle, parks outside your house, fucks you, plugs into your 240 outlet for 60 seconds, and peaces out. Then you get a push receipt from Apple Pay.
/r/TheRedPill11/07/15 04:36 PM
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Yeah the ladies like to feign fear and weakness if it suits the situation. Often they'll later tell you how fearless they are. Lol
/r/TheRedPill10/07/15 05:58 PM
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Does this whole sub live in the same town in Texas or something?
/r/TheRedPill09/07/15 11:46 PM
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It feels like you pulled her out of her usual orbit, but she's playing you by delaying sex. Classic branch-swing opener. "Can I control this guy?" She won this round. Still bag her tho, otherwise there's an imbalance in the universe.
/r/TheRedPill09/07/15 11:44 PM
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Keep in mind that short women feel the same way. They're worrying they're too short--even if she's your height! It's not logical, but it's how people think.
/r/askTRP09/07/15 12:47 PM
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Yeah follow the iceberg principle. There's often much more shit they hide.
/r/TheRedPill16/06/15 11:47 PM
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Part of swallowing the pill is tacitly acknowledging that the girls you're fucking are doing God-knows-what when you're not around. Also, don't teach people lessons. Focus on yourself. Fuck her.
/r/TheRedPill18/04/15 01:25 AM
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It's insanely convenient. If you make any money, you're living in a neighborhood where everything you could ever need or want is within a few blocks. No loading the kids into the SUV and getting on the freeway to go to the movies. And by the time kids are 10 they can take the train themselves. I don't have kids, but at my age many friends do. Parenting is tough anywhere but you don't have to be a rat-racer. You can live comfortably in Park Slope or something and raise your kids on a quiet tree-l…
/r/TheRedPill18/04/15 12:25 AM
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"Not here in NYC" is something I think a lot on this sub.
/r/TheRedPill18/04/15 12:17 AM
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You should do a post about this. Dead on.
/r/TheRedPill18/04/15 12:05 AM
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Going out to clubs may feel like the main event, but there's no correlation between being there and getting laid. Guys since time immemorial have had this problem, since girls never get carded. Sneak sex whenever you can. If you feel like she's game, get her alone, kiss and then the rest (logistics) is easy enough.
/r/askTRP12/04/15 01:04 AM
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Agree with above advice, but note that she is shit testing you to see whether you'll be reigned in (to boyfriend status) if she pouts a little. At least she likes you enough to LTR, that's a good sign.
/r/askTRP11/04/15 10:28 PM
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Everything (almost) is about repetitions. Your biz strategy skills are probably making use of ancillary abilities you developed in everyday school and life. Something like a musical instrument or drawing is probably not adjacent to your daily life, so the learning curve feels steeper.
/r/TheRedPill11/04/15 10:05 PM
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Calling it the "Afro-feminist" betrays a little bias. Black men are perhaps more than any male group fucked by the big government / social democrat libs. And they are quickly waking up to it. Don't assume these segments will stay united very long.
/r/TheRedPill11/04/15 10:01 PM
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You're bored. Try to figure out hypothetically: what would need to happen at one of these parties for you to actually get excited? That's how I figured out I that for me the music really matters. If they're not playing my kind of shit, I got no energy.
/r/askTRP11/04/15 02:56 AM
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Unless you do it by example. If he's smart, he'll feel your relaxed, content, amused mastery vibe and think "I wonder how he can feel like that?" That's the first step for a lot of guys I think.
/r/askTRP11/04/15 02:52 AM
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What I do is see them every week but push it back a day or two each week. This means you're really getting 8-9 days instead of 7 day intervals, but she feels like she's seeing you weekly. Plus different nights of the week set the stage for different types of activities, which reduces the feeling of routine. By activities I mean low-key hangout settings -- fuck her in a park on the weekend, in the bathroom at trivia night on Tuesday, in her office late on Friday, etc.
/r/askTRP11/04/15 02:49 AM
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You're allowed to bring friends too. It's a party. And way less pressure for her means more likely you can get her open.
/r/askTRP11/04/15 02:46 AM
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Feel that. I suspect my dad is low-level aspergers or something; he can't read social cues very well, so while he likes people, he's never been confident enough to try to impress on me any kind of worldview. Apparently he thinks no advice is better than his advice, which personally I see as a cop out.
/r/askTRP11/04/15 02:34 AM
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The 5-month thing is dead on
/r/askTRP11/04/15 02:24 AM
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-don't see them too often (1x week or so) -don't meet her family and friends -don't go on "dates," just "hang out" -refer to her as friend, with a wink; make it feel like a fun secret -don't text with her except for logistics -don't ask her questions about herself; talk about impersonal topics (especially with younger girls) -wear a condom!!!! I love raw dogging as much as the next man but if you aren't dark triad then you risk sending intimate intimations -don't eat together -fuck her anywhere …
/r/askTRP11/04/15 02:20 AM
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When girls want to cheat on their boyfriends they usually have a reason. That means that you don't have to work hard to convince anyone. You just have to spot the girls looking for a revenge fuck. Generally these fucks are reserved for AF not BB since she doesn't want you clinging on afterwards; you need to be chill enough not to blow up her plot. If you go the other route -- hard selling sex to a girl who wants to be faithful but has no self-control -- then indeed you're waking in the zone of d…
/r/TheRedPill09/04/15 01:37 PM
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There's nothing wrong with what they're doing, that's my point. They're just exercising their negotiating power. It's a shit test. Getting caught up in it like OP is failing the shit test. If you're not familiar with shit tests read the sidebar.
/r/TheRedPill09/04/15 12:07 AM
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She's making you aware of her competing opportunities with the same professional courtesy that you might use in the workplace. It's similar because the goal is the same -- namely not to burn bridges if the other opportunities suddenly dry up.
/r/TheRedPill08/04/15 09:28 PM
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When job hunting, it's always good to look for counter offers -- dating is a similar process for women and they don't take it personally (as you shouldn't).
/r/TheRedPill08/04/15 06:42 PM
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They're even worse than the U.S.
/r/TheRedPill07/04/15 12:48 PM
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She just wants to fuck and is offering a pretense.
/r/askTRP06/04/15 09:33 AM
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Amazing how she doesn't protest about the way you worded your summary. The Hamster gets underestimated easily -- it sees shit all too clearly when it steps off the wheel.
/r/TheRedPill03/04/15 05:42 PM
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He is sort of willfully misinterpreting the principle, but in a way that clarifies a major pitfall for recovering BPs who unwillfully misinterpret the principle.
/r/TheRedPill31/03/15 01:43 AM
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This is a great post. I get it. Imo the only reason to get into an LTR after 30 is to have a kid. Never thought it this far ahead, though. Nice work.
/r/TheRedPill31/03/15 01:42 AM
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Awesome post. One thing you didn't mention -- stoicism is easy when you've internalized the value of your actions.
/r/TheRedPill31/03/15 01:25 AM
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In your 30s, if you've been living the kind of lifestyle we preach here, inbound female interest should be going up -- more than canceling out the drop in tail chasing motivation. I'm only 31 in NYC but watch my successful older friends absolutely crushing it at 35, 40, 45. Many of them have squeezed in a divorce/family in there, and the older ones have definitely fallen off the gym wagon, but their confidence is like a rail gun. Also your vacation game gets next level and bitches love trips.
/r/TheRedPill30/03/15 03:06 AM
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Then I misinterpreted. Apologies!
/r/askTRP29/03/15 12:55 PM
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Get off it
/r/askTRP29/03/15 12:17 AM
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Nah, that's not it. Women aren't usually intimidated by a guy's physical presence (unless maybe they've been abused). If anything, she was probably just practicing good gym etiquette. As the bigger beast, it's your job to smile first and be friendly. If you aren't, she'll simply think you aren't interested, take the tacit insult, and move on. I've been doing 2x a day at my neighborhood gym and the cutie behind the desk used to flirt with me constantly when she first got hired. (I make good money…
/r/askTRP28/03/15 03:21 PM
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I love ice queens. They have no recourse when you pump and dump. Bitch I thought you were "tough!"
/r/TheRedPill28/03/15 02:27 PM
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Don't let yourself care about this. The answer is always the same: her number is as high as she could get it without severe reputation damage. (Or sometimes with it, if she's reckless.) Obviously the result is a product of her context: girls in cities have lots of access to anonymous dick variety, girls on the farm have less. All women are thirsty, and yours is no exception. Find out how to turn her on and harness that energy for yourself.
/r/askTRP27/03/15 12:13 AM
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Agree & amplify. "You sound like you're still hung up on this guy. Why don't you go give him a call?"
/r/askTRP27/03/15 12:08 AM
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often this is her way of challenging you to re-frame and make a move. "oh, we're not going to be friends..."
/r/askTRP26/03/15 12:35 PM
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I've worked in and around startups for years, and watched how their design teams deal with criticism from product owners / technologists. Basically there are two strategies: 1) have a hypothesis and 2) show your work early and often. The hypothesis thing is best explained by Frank Chimera in his book "the shape of design," but basically it means having a clear understanding of the message your work is sending. While great execution is obviously the end goal, bringing the work's message into view…
/r/askTRP25/03/15 05:32 PM
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1) When I'm in mixed company, with people I don't know well, I err hard on the side of revealing less -- to the point that I'm dismissive of personal questions. I do this because you never know who people are, or what criteria they're using to judge you, so it's better to figure them out before visa versa. E.g., started a new job in the Fall, and I'm at lunch with new colleagues. I'm 30, and a clearly feminazi colleague casually asked whether or not I'm in a serious relationship. I told her with…
/r/askTRP24/03/15 03:33 PM
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Yes. Being stoic requires suppressing your instinct to word-vomit every single time something piques your interest or your frustration. To help with that, remind yourself that when confronted with an emotional situation, that you reserve the right to do nothing about it. This wait and see mentality serves you incredibly well, as you find that simply delaying action usually renders action unnecessary. For example: I'm on the subway and a woman sits down next to me. Unbeknownst to her, her scarf d…
/r/askTRP24/03/15 01:13 PM
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Don't assume she's so innocent. She probably also sighs when she's next to chad from downstairs. You sound like you're in college. Guys, bitches are just like you: out to get ass.
/r/askTRP24/03/15 01:05 PM
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You have been girl-gamed. Womyn in the United States are such pigs that it's easy to forget some of them can still charm your balls off. The sweetness isn't real. Don't flatter yourself.
/r/askTRP24/03/15 01:01 PM
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When a beta affectionately orbits a woman, she sees that he is totally clueless; she figures this guy is never getting laid. So out of pity or sympathy she allows him to do odd-jobs for her. In their own retarded way, owing to ego, self-righteousness and a general lack of respect for men, most womyn think supplicating this loser guy is being a "good person." "He should be honored I let him bask in my feminine glow!" The reason bitches are so derisive when this beta needs help in return is that s…
/r/TheRedPill24/03/15 04:19 AM
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Male both control (coming to market in a couple years) is not hormonal. It involves putting a stent into your urethra that shreds the sperms as they pass through it. All mechanical and reversible.
/r/TheRedPill23/03/15 04:10 PM
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This is true, she'll TRY. But obviously it's a shit test.
/r/TheRedPill22/03/15 12:49 AM
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You're scared you can't make it in the world without safety nets: your mom, mom-government, and your mom-replacement girlfriend. Don't try to flip the script. Try to stand on your own two and then come talk to us.
/r/TheRedPill22/03/15 12:40 AM
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Eh, in a 7-year relationship, dread game is a pretty obvious bluff -- unless she's fucked up big.
/r/askTRP20/03/15 06:30 PM
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Boy, talk about taking yourself too seriously. If you're really holding frame with her, then it's fine (necessary, even) to make a show of small meaningless concessions like this. You're about to put her legs behind her ears and have your way -- the "please" is meant in irony. Ditch the pride and be fun.
/r/askTRP20/03/15 06:29 PM
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Seriously. Why the hell would you ask that?!
/r/askTRP20/03/15 06:26 PM
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You guys are nuts to care about her numbers. It's a sucker's game. For one, they NEVER tell you the truth. For another, the numbers vary on context: where you live, etc. But mostly it betrays your pedestalizing. You're asking, "is she good enough to be on my pedestal?" The answer is no. Awalt. "Wahhhh but I want to know if I can trussst her!" Don't think about whether you can trust people. Think about what motivates them. Girls are loyal when they're motivated to keep you. Whether she's had one …
/r/askTRP20/03/15 03:52 PM
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Yes, drugs. For me it made sense. My actual life wasn't blowing my mind every day, so I found chemicals that would. I know now that I am a person who craves novelty in real-life experience. I'm a hunter-gatherer, not a farmer. Started panicking when I approached 30 and realized that even the opiates and hallucinogens were getting... Not boring, but routine; the mystery was fading. To get off drugs you need a life that is more exciting. You need to ask yourself: is there anything out there that w…
/r/askTRP20/03/15 03:46 PM
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Girls talk about boyfriends the way guys talk about jobs. They're proud of them; in her eyes, her boyfriend is an indicator of her quality. She's young, so this feeling has novelty. That said, loving your job doesn't mean you aren't interested in a better one.
/r/askTRP20/03/15 03:12 PM
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I didn't know the word "incel" until I started reading this sub, which alienated me; I lost my virginity at 16 and have been in the zone for 14 years. I've had great LTRs and ONSs and every kind of fling in between. I get the sense there are plenty of guys like me here: they have success, but they're still beleaguered by the flashes of inhumanity in the margins of their female relationships. It's those glimpses that hint at a deeper truth about the real power dynamics that underlie the romantic …
/r/TheRedPill20/03/15 02:49 PM
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First, this is a good sign: it means you know what you want, and you know when you're being played. At first, honest nexting can feel abrupt, but do everything you can to laugh them off. Like those bitches could actually get the drop on you! Also, feel some empathy: this is the woman's social world with guys. For any chick over HB6, it's a constant carousel of these stunted social interactions. Trying to manipulate guys, or being manipulated. Never wonder why the wall hurts them so much; they ha…
/r/TheRedPill19/03/15 07:29 PM
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If you're less at ease with peer guys, then you're probably working too hard. Guys are most impressed by realness. Girls are most impressed by self-awareness. The latter is harder; it requires a lot of covering your ass, so if you're good at this you're probably just used to being on high alert. Relax. Just be about something (in college I was an athlete, my frat bros understood even when I couldn't make big events bc of away races) and make it known. Other guys will respect that, and once you h…
/r/askTRP16/03/15 07:29 AM
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Don't correct people. Don't admonish them. Anyone worth spending time around will know immediately when they've fucked up -- and while you may give them a knowing glance, you don't always need to explicitly state the lesson. She's gonna be childish. Be loving and patient and have the grace to treat small transgressions with humor and kindness. Lead her, don't break her.
/r/askTRP16/03/15 07:11 AM
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Since there's a lot of bro science out there, is advise you to pick up Schwarzenegger's encyclopedia of bodybuilding. Your body type and level of experience (with sports, and weights) will dictate which routines will help you gain definition without going catabolic and losing your gainz. You don't have to read the whole book -- the stuff you need is all in the first 1/4 of the book. Also Instagram: the best guys I've found are @lcfitokc and @musclepharmpres
/r/askTRP16/03/15 04:01 AM
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Ask if they have to be there when you guys get naked.
/r/askTRP16/03/15 12:44 AM
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This is a non-verbal example of agree and amplify which I'm glad you pointed out. Agreeing and amplifying without explicitly saying you're doing so is imo the best way to use the concept. Warning: Don't try this if you tend to verbal diarrhea when you get upset, cause then this will backfire. A few years ago I fucked a much younger HB9 (I'm 30) and she would hit me up whenever she visited my city. The bombest pussy. Anyway. After a year or two of this, she happened to show up when I was having a…
/r/TheRedPill15/03/15 11:59 PM
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Yeah, in many ways Tinder is too good to be true. Since you said you're in school, I'm assuming you're in your early 20s. I'm 30, so I have a slightly different perspective, but here's how I choose which girls I hit on IRL. I think of myself in third person, and then ask myself which type of girl is most likely to be susceptible to a guy like me. A lot of guys on this sub seem to think there is an objective measure of male attractiveness, but in reality you're competing only within a niche. This…
/r/askTRP26/01/15 12:37 AM
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Keep in mind that culture matters. I've stopped fucking with American 9s and 10s. I'm 30, live in NYC, make 250k in a non-finance/non-law field, 6'1"/180/7%. I almost exclusively aim for European women now, which is easy enough here. Lots of French in particular. They find American women's "liberation" repulsive and generally are fastidious about dating one guy at a time. They usually LTR up for years.
/r/TheRedPill26/01/15 12:07 AM
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Yeah, stick to your day game if you have any results there. Lately I've actually had a couple plates ask "can I see your phone?" and swipe through the app screens. This could be because I run a tech startup, and they're curious what apps I have. But I think they're looking for that tinder icon and are always visibly pleased when they don't find it.
/r/askTRP25/01/15 03:43 PM
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Tinder isn't working for you because tinder isn't for you. You only need to play a high-volume-matching game like that if you aren't the type of guy who usually gets his pick. Or if you're in a less-densely populated area where it's rare to meet people randomly. I'm in NYC and maybe this is endemic behavior, but girls here use tinder for throwaway guys -- and better looking guys are a more dangerous as throwaways/objects than other high-smv types, because attachment happens faster when physical …
/r/askTRP24/01/15 11:48 PM
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One thing to consider is that if she's being this way with you, it's happened with other patients and will happen again. That said, I would personally LTR her for 1-2 years to get the best possible therapy. As long as you're clear-headed about why you're in it (ie., to improve your condition) and you don't get attached, then you'll come out having greatly benefitted whenever the relationship implodes. As they tend to do after a year or two, when she realizes she can't ride you like Falcor into d…
/r/askTRP24/01/15 11:27 PM
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