| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 12 | Possible hook up after div | tdwriter2003 | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/09/23 10:10 PM | |
| 11 | so how do you do the final goodbye | tdwriter2003 | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/10/22 01:44 AM | |
| 10 | Update on Poss hook up posting | tdwriter2003 | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/09/23 08:33 PM | |
| 9 | this is more light-hearted but what's your go to recipe during week | tdwriter2003 | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/12/22 07:59 PM | |
| 7 | anyone got experience winning a share of spouse's inherited property | tdwriter2003 | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/10/22 09:54 PM | |
| 3 | dilemma need feedback should I stay or should I go | tdwriter2003 | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/12/22 12:09 AM | |
| 1 | Child support issue if child not in custody | tdwriter2003 | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/07/24 05:56 AM | |
| 0 | Nickname for your buddy | Lifestyle | tdwriter2003 | /r/seduction | 11/11/24 11:55 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 1 | minorities who have had success with women. what did you do in order to have that success? Not playing victim, I genuinely want to learn what you guys did.Are there any advantages to go to another country for example a Latino guy may be a 5 in this country but a 10 in Europe where girls go crazy for him | /r/seduction | 21/01/26 02:10 AM |
| 3 | Is my female coworker coming onto me?Love, exciting and new | /r/seduction | 07/01/26 10:40 PM |
| 1 | What’s the craziest in person approach that worked for you?You got the Kervorka | /r/seduction | 03/11/25 11:18 PM |
| 4 | An active sex life with 2 FWB’s Thanx to this sub!Don Juan | /r/seduction | 23/10/25 09:55 PM |
| 1 | Stop looking for excusesHow find motivation? | /r/seduction | 14/10/25 05:17 PM |
| 3 | Thailand Cities?Phuket | /r/seduction | 14/10/25 05:00 PM |
| 5 | Thailand Cities?Bangkok | /r/seduction | 14/10/25 04:59 PM |
| 1 | Approached a girl. Got her number. What to do next??Pray. Actually no pressure on you or date. Have fun mentality | /r/seduction | 12/10/25 09:00 PM |
| 3 | What to talk about when making conversations interesting with a date?Break the monotony of a conversation. Don't wanna make it sound like an interview who are you what are you like where are you from. Share a story of your week You wouldn't believe what happened to me a few days ago air conditioner now to repairman came out he wanted a $1000 and you know what I did I ordered the part online watch the YouTube video and somehow was able to fix the air conditioning for the whole louse. What exciting thing has made you proud this week, etc... Try to tell a little sto… | /r/seduction | 24/09/25 12:58 AM |
| 2 | Any tips for guys who aren’t attractive?If you make her laugh, you're halfway up her leg | /r/seduction | 13/11/24 02:43 PM |
| 1 | Nickname for your buddyYou got it | /r/seduction | 12/11/24 01:57 AM |
| 0 | Nickname for your buddyI will try it out | /r/seduction | 12/11/24 01:57 AM |
| 1 | Nickname for your buddyShe's had 3 dates 3 different weekends with 3 different guys. | /r/seduction | 12/11/24 01:21 AM |
| 0 | Nickname for your buddyI like that. | /r/seduction | 12/11/24 12:53 AM |
| 48 | How do I primed my space for sex?Personally think a clean bathroom, and clean sheets | /r/seduction | 30/10/24 01:44 AM |
| 26 | What are some things you look for in an apartment to maximize change of getting laid?This may be a small detail But she may enjoy coming back if you have fresh bedsheets that p smell nice | /r/seduction | 05/10/24 11:07 PM |
| 5 | How to make a girl laugh?Old Irish saying- if you make her laugh , you're halfway up her leg | /r/seduction | 01/10/24 04:31 PM |
| 1 | How to get laid with minimal conversationClassic line. I'm not from around here which one do I buy you first the drink or the condom | /r/seduction | 27/08/24 01:18 AM |
| 2 | Where would you guys find her?Single girl , college bar, late at night | /r/seduction | 07/07/24 05:30 AM |
| 44 | I’m (23m) the only man at a new job, how should i make the most of this?Time to start wearing a special Cologne my friend. Sex Panther is a cologne which is illegal in 9 countries. It is also made from bits of real panthers. 60% of the time, it works every time. | /r/seduction | 01/07/24 11:37 PM |
| 44 | Never go on Dinner DatesHotel rooftop bar w city views | /r/seduction | 05/05/24 04:45 PM |
| 1 | Nurse at the hospital gave me her number because she wants to work in the same profession as me???Yes flash your hardware into her software | /r/seduction | 02/05/24 11:57 PM |
| 0 | What are some things you guys say when approaching in real life.?How you doin" ? Joey | /r/seduction | 07/04/24 01:21 AM |
| 3 | I slept with her on our first night hanging out. Thankful for this sub.King ! | /r/seduction | 03/04/24 12:16 AM |
| 2 | I did it!King ! | /r/seduction | 25/03/24 12:34 AM |
| 3 | Process of moving onIt sounds corny but it does get better over the long-term. I work in an office Front of a screen the whole day. My brain is fried at the end of the day. But I took a part-time job at a dollar store. Pays $10 Hour. The big thing was getting out of the house. I got tired of idling around watching TV or playing PlayStation for hours. The part-time job is kind of relaxing. I don't have to think about anything open box put stuff in shelf. I think that's gonna be the practical idea to start finding an… | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/02/24 01:13 AM |
| 1 | If she re-marries does that affect child support?Clarify for me this issue but if he gets remarried ( the guy paying child support ) And he has a stepchild that's he's helping to support and I believe the calculation could change in his favor slightly. | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/10/23 11:52 PM |
| 1 | Are AP's really this dumb?The dog days are over ! | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/09/23 08:35 PM |
| 1 | How to start a new relationship with a women when you have to keep paying your ex wife child support and alimonyTalking about financial system of the year can be tough. I got current insurance bill coming up for the next 6 months. my share for half of the kids. Then house insurance in November. Since housing prices are higher in this crazy market Insurance is higher now. And property Taxes. Back-to-back things. Can be in the back of your mind it's only you're doing weekend outings and restaurants with your girlfriend. | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/09/23 04:18 PM |
| 1 | I'm confused on how marital earnings get divided in a divorce (after a long term marriage)Another scenario. Guy works saves up 500k in his 401k an at work. The wife does not contribute but owns half of it since it's a marital asset | /r/Divorce_Men | 25/09/23 12:08 AM |
| 1 | Update on Poss hook up postingMaybe like my case Part of it was his luck | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/09/23 10:58 PM |
| 2 | Update on Poss hook up postingIt's a boost in confidence for sure. She's actually in the same boat divorced and horny. Neither of us or supermodels both could be a little exercise. I don't know with this information helps you In your search. There's somebody I knew an old flame We have not spoken in years. Things just worked out in our favor. A little bit easier than trying to Find a new person. My heart still blank I know I'm not ready for relationship. Hopefully I'll have a little bit more fun but it is a reminder I need t… | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/09/23 05:12 PM |
| 10 | It’s doneControl what you can control. It's not up to us to understand a woman's reason. Even if we had an explanation probably would not make any difference. Don't try to seek out her reasoning It will drive you crazy. It's a hard lesson to learn but Doesn't matter if you were good and treated her like a Queen your actions don't matter. That was a hard part for me how could this be happening to me if I was a good man. You'll find peace once you realize it doesn't matter what you do. When it's all up to … | /r/Divorce_Men | 21/09/23 06:53 PM |
| 2 | Possible hook up after divThank you my hope is that it's gonna boost my confidence when I'm ready to start dating | /r/Divorce_Men | 21/09/23 03:12 AM |
| 2 | 5 months laterMany of us don't like it but we gotta carry on and the only way is to accept the unacceptable. I was listening to a song from guardians of the Galaxy movie the song is called the " dog days are over. " See if you can find a video on the internet. The dog days are the longest days of summer kind of hard times. The song is about finally seeing a little bit of the lightAt the end of the tunnel and Realizing happiness is coming | /r/Divorce_Men | 21/09/23 12:45 AM |
| 1 | How to deal with the fact that my stbxw is going to be sleeping with other peopleYou have to accept the unacceptable to survive. | /r/Divorce_Men | 20/09/23 02:04 AM |
| 3 | Possible hook up after divRoom reservation set up for Thursday. We will see how it goes. I need to make sure I have some protection andAnd I'm clean and smell nice. We're gonna make it a date.go to nice restaurant with live music, bar, Then We'll see what happens once we get to the hotel. It's a resort so everything's on the property we won't have to drive anywhere. | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/09/23 07:16 PM |
| 2 | 5 months laterWe've all been there ..you're not alone. It does get easier once you find you're routine and time goes by and maybe some monthly counseling. We can only worry about what we can control. | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/09/23 05:05 PM |
| 2 | Need a divorce but can't survive financially. How to pull the trigger?Many of us have been there. Feeling like starting over financially. I am 51. Just took out s 30 year loan on our paid off house to be able to cash her half. Squeezed by retirement saving and kids in college. Focusing om what I can cut back on. Working overtime on Saturdays. New reality Working 6 out 7 days from now on. Would look at a part time job for Sundays of I could. It all depends on your effort and maybe compromise on both sides. | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/09/23 07:40 PM |
| 1 | It’s been over a year since she had an affair and we separated but the divorce just started. When should I start dating again? How do I know that I’m ready to start dating again?I'm trying to wait a year. I still feel right now if I'm with somebodyMy heart is blank I would be with someone just for for being there. Probably not fair to me or the other person. It's a shift in thinking. Since all we know is relationships . Then having to start over again being single. It sucks going to bed every night alone. Most likely any dating I do at the beginning will be casual. would I want to marry again yes. Would probably have to be someone I'm friends or dating for a long time. … | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/09/23 01:09 AM |
| 3 | Possible hook up after divI think everyone's right it's time to enjoy life. Long-term I will not mind being in a relationshould , be married with an active sex life. Not necessarily to this lady. But that's part of our journey trying to find the next step forward | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/09/23 09:14 PM |
| 2 | Possible hook up after divYou got it. | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/09/23 09:12 PM |
| 13 | Possible hook up after divYes I will score | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/09/23 12:09 AM |
| 3 | Possible hook up after divThanks guys We all need need a little fun and a little confidence. | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/09/23 11:08 PM |
| 1 | Does anybody feel like they are drifting away from their kids?For me there would be some advantages like Getting a fresh start. But it wIt would put me in a bad situation for that 1 tiime kids needed me. | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/09/23 10:13 PM |
| 1 | Does anybody feel like they are drifting away from their kids?The first time I don't put my kids on a school bus when school started definitely felt like an empty nester when that bus drove in front of my house and didn't stop. Not being there I do feel like somewhat of a failure as a father. And 1 year into this journey I don't have a lot of motivation for some things. It even crossed my mind to go to another state. But I need to be here because there may be a time when they need me and that's the main thing keeps you around. | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/09/23 10:02 PM |
| 1 | If you were to remarry, who would you look for?If she's a bigger girl but checks off the other boxes would you go for that ? | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/09/23 10:00 PM |
| 2 | If you were to remarry, who would you look for?A friend of mine says I would not remarry all I need is beer and football. | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/09/23 09:59 PM |
| 1 | If you were to remarry, who would you look for?Would you want a prenup to avoid getting burnt the second time ? I'm no supermodel my next lady doesn't have to be a supermodel but I would Need to find somewhat cute. The intimacy would be high on the list of wants. | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/09/23 09:58 PM |
| 6 | How to get some pussy quick (no dating apps)4 am last guy standing at bar | /r/seduction | 13/08/23 04:50 AM |
| 2 | I got laid!Go player | /r/seduction | 02/07/23 06:40 PM |
| 1 | dilemma need feedback should I stay or should I goShe texted me something different today saying if I'm getting the money together for half of the house share but I need to buy from her. Maybe she changed her tune I did not bring it up but it looks like she's desperate for money because she mentioned she has some unexpected Water and Power bills from this cold spell. | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/12/22 07:09 PM |
| 3 | dilemma need feedback should I stay or should I goYes that was some mistake abandoning the marital home and maybe one of the first rules of divorce not to move out. But I don't want to fight I do want my kids to be comfortable. I do worry if my kind Heart being taken advantage of. I don't have a plan for the future that's why I wanted to stay here. Friend of mine thinks housing prices are going to stay stable to do a shortage of houses but interest rates may come down the next couple years. So i may not see a bubble burst anytime soon necessary | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/12/22 03:17 AM |
| 1 | Too soon to start dating?Still vulnerable. Give yourself time. I would be afraid to find someone just to fill in the void. Do it right take your time to yourself and then in time baby steps friendship with that person and then see where it goes. Depending on your age it's possible that you may want your next person too be there for the long term into your golden years. | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/12/22 10:37 PM |
| 1 | Can you intentionally gamble away a few hundred grand before divorce in the stocks market so no one gets anything?What about estate planning letting family and friends inherent stuff early ? | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/12/22 10:33 PM |
| 2 | Anyone thinking of dating a single mom?I would be open. I'm 50 years old . Not ready to date yet still going through my crap. But I would consider it if it's the right woman for the long haul. I hate to think my next marriage would be until we grow old together. Maybe that's the Romantic part of me. And maybe it would be a shot of being a dad again to kids that need you. | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/12/22 10:45 PM |
| 8 | Anyone thinking of dating a single mom?Oh we need is beer and football until we die | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/12/22 10:42 PM |
| 1 | this is more light-hearted but what's your go to recipe during weekNo wife to remind us to have veggies w meals and eat healthy. | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/12/22 02:20 PM |
| 1 | this is more light-hearted but what's your go to recipe during weekI was curious about those gadgets and never have owned one but wasn't sure if that was too much for one person | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/12/22 08:04 PM |
| 1 | Is it normal to find your ex wife incredibly attractive ?That could be a possibility you may still have her on a pedestal. The best way to shake your vision back to normal is to remember the times you were neglected and how you were treated. | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/12/22 08:03 PM |
| 2 | this is more light-hearted but what's your go to recipe during weekI'm going through the divorce process out she moved out with the kids. I used to be the cook in the family so the fridge was always stocked would make several things I would experiment with new recipes. Right now I'm kind of in a rut and I've been making chicken fried rice and alfredo with chicken pasta and macaroni and cheese with hamburger meat and peppers. So this meals since I'm by myself will usually last me a few days to carry me through the through the week. Would love to have a few more … | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/12/22 08:01 PM |
| 1 | Is anyone else thinking about deliberately staying single as a life decision?Not sure I'm there yet I'm going through the divorce process right now after 20 years and I'm already thinking I wish I had somebody to fill that void because loneliness sucks. But of course I'm realistic enough that that's not the right mind frame. Right now I'm not sure I would see myself alone on purpose I think I do want a relationship in a few years. That would be my biggest obstacle that loneliness if I were to make a decision to be single the rest of the way. | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/12/22 07:55 PM |
| 1 | anyone got experience winning a share of spouse's inherited propertyI tried to talk to her and it went ugly she asked me to leave basically. Then she asked me later on we still had no trespass signs she could put one up at the place she's staying at so I'm thinking that was for me. I think both of us take it personal like my retirement account I'm thinking it's important to me for my old age and the land is important to her. We both feel something strongly that this is for ourselves. I got two kids in college and I'd rather pay legal fees money to support them w… | /r/Divorce_Men | 25/10/22 06:11 PM |
| 2 | so how do you do the final goodbyeWe agreed on division. Just curious more if anyone was glad they said something or regretted anything , etc. | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/10/22 02:16 AM |
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