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| 12 | If it’s one thing men are good at, it’s low blows.for real though! like seriously? at this point i feel like men have a gene for physical and emotional violence | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/03/22 06:35 PM |
| 273 | If it’s one thing men are good at, it’s low blows.like…….. it’s just so much cruelty within these men and i really think there’s something wrong with them as a collective. these amazing women will roll out the red carpet for dudes who damn sure don’t deserve it. god it makes me sad | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/03/22 04:33 PM |
| 3 | Do these shallow men expect us to feel bad for them? I certainly don’t ¯\_(ツ)_/¯they like vagina. not women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/03/22 08:34 AM |
| 130 | Waterboarding couldn't have gotten this out of me, part 2 😂yep, it’s honestly really sad. i changed the flair to male depravity because it didn’t feel fair to use the pick me flair. she thought she was doing something kind for the person she loves, but - like all these losers do - he took advantage of that kindness | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/03/22 04:17 PM |
| 34 | Do these shallow men expect us to feel bad for them? I certainly don’t ¯\_(ツ)_/¯omg i am SO SICK of hearing these dudes complain about not getting enough hugs or compliments. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/03/22 11:38 PM |
| 138 | Do these shallow men expect us to feel bad for them? I certainly don’t ¯\_(ツ)_/¯exactly! and plus i’m sorry but…even when the women do cheat on these guys, it’s almost somewhat justified 😭 like the other day in Paternity Court I saw this couple where the guy was a Marine and a woman was a stripper AND had cheated on him twice already, yet he expected everyone to feel sorry for him when she cheated AGAIN during another deployment. like sir…you walked right into this LMAO | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/03/22 05:12 PM |
| 330 | Do these shallow men expect us to feel bad for them? I certainly don’t ¯\_(ツ)_/¯RIGHT?! The day I learned that men marry for convenience above love, looks, tradition, and companionship combined is the day I was set free. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/03/22 03:50 PM |
| 311 | Do these shallow men expect us to feel bad for them? I certainly don’t ¯\_(ツ)_/¯Chile the way I’m not even in the military and have heard WAY too many similar stories 😭 Honestly maybe these men have it coming when they bitch and moan about their so-called “dependas” cheating on them while they’re deployed. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/03/22 03:49 PM |
| 34 | Do these shallow men expect us to feel bad for them? I certainly don’t ¯\_(ツ)_/¯omg thanks for the award guys!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/03/22 03:48 PM |
| 7 | Suspicious?I GOT THE SAME THING AND IT SOUNDS SUS | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/03/22 10:32 PM |
| 22 | Water boarding couldn’t have gotten this confession out of me 😭😭THANK YOU! i enjoy a lot of fresh fruits & veggies that my schools dining hall just doesn’t have on hand, best believe i go shopping at the local groceries BY AND FOR MYSELF! are these men not grown? FOH 👋🏽 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/03/22 08:20 PM |
| 28 | Water boarding couldn’t have gotten this confession out of me 😭😭see that’s what i’m saying, to me this SCREAMS “i was passed around by these guys so now they’re parading me around and calling it something cute” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/03/22 08:19 PM |
| 130 | Water boarding couldn’t have gotten this confession out of me 😭😭that’s what i’m saying!! i think a vast majority of women are caught up in pick me nonsense but they don’t get how insidious it is and what it turns into. i’m in college right now as well and the way these girls grovel at the feet of men is just freaking embarrassing | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/03/22 01:34 PM |
| 222 | Water boarding couldn’t have gotten this confession out of me 😭😭i mean…that’s all well and good but i just don’t believe in doing stuff like that for men i’m not in committed relationships with ¯_(ツ)_/¯ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/03/22 12:31 PM |
| 291 | Water boarding couldn’t have gotten this confession out of me 😭😭The comments are eating her up for the most part as they should! https://vm.tiktok.com/ZTdya4rwW/?k=1 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/03/22 12:07 PM |
| 1 | This is what happens when women vent their frustrations. Male depravity at its finest. I’m so sick and tired of this crap.THANK YOU! God I’m so sick of this mess. And then some loser has been going back and forth with me under the post trying to police my tone. I’ve been harassed, my friends have been assaulted, my mother AND i have both been stalked, but my TONE is the problem? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/03/22 08:14 PM |
| 11 | This is what happens when women vent their frustrations. Male depravity at its finest. I’m so sick and tired of this crap.Chile, i’ve been arguing with scrotes ALL DAY on this hellscape app. They are so mad that I’m being “bitter” or “salty” when I’m just speaking facts. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/03/22 07:55 PM |
| 1 | CMV- Most dating advice in this sub and other subs are more depressing and anxiety inducing than helpful to men and they should seek answers somewhere else.All of y’all need to go outside and find real people to talk to. I know we’re in the middle of a pandemic (some more than others), but STILL. You all base your relationships with real life people over people you talk to over the internet. It literally makes no sense. Please get off of Reddit and get a life | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/20 06:56 PM |
| 2 | Stop Defending Cardi B and Megan Thee Stallioni hope you do, too, without having to label and shame women just as much as the patriarchy does. good day :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/08/20 09:23 PM |
| 3 | Stop Defending Cardi B and Megan Thee Stallionso women can’t like bdsm at all even if it sexually gratifies them and they’re doing it for their enjoyment? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/08/20 09:21 PM |
| 3 | Stop Defending Cardi B and Megan Thee StallionSo your womanhood is no longer valid if you’re not 100% vanilla in the bedroom? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/08/20 09:05 PM |
| 1 | Stop Defending Cardi B and Megan Thee StallionI’m going to have to disagree with this one. Men rap about their dicks all the time and no one says a thing. As a black woman, I’m sick of people telling us what we’re allowed to express ourselves about. We don’t have to be anyone’s role model, and it’s funny how this level of scrutiny is almost exclusively given to black women. Black women do not have to be a Michelle Obama type to be worthy of love and respect. Also, if I remember correctly, there was not a man present in the WAP video and the… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/08/20 06:32 PM |
| 37 | I....this woman tweeted that her date insulted her body and the amount of men defending in the comments.....I’m done with men FOREVER. No way in hell any of them are worth dealing with.We should start having the audacity, honestly. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/08/20 06:27 PM |
| 54 | I....this woman tweeted that her date insulted her body and the amount of men defending in the comments.....I’m done with men FOREVER. No way in hell any of them are worth dealing with.I’m 19 and I’ve already lost hope. Literally no one can convince me that there’s good ones out there at this point I’m sorry. If that makes me bitter so be it lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/08/20 04:58 PM |
| 3 | Has anyone just lost faith in men altogether?This is exactly how I’ve been feeling. They’ve all given me no reason to trust them or let them into my space, so why bother? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/08/20 02:17 AM |
| 4 | Has anyone just lost faith in men altogether?YES! I love that. “I haven’t necessarily lost faith in men. But I have gained faith in myself.” Lemme put that on my wall real quick. As women we are taught so much to depend on a man and that he’s the end all/be all, but they’re not. I was taught this SO MUCH in my super religious, super patriarchal household by all the pickmeisha women in my family, and it definitely did more harm than good. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/08/20 02:16 AM |
| 4 | Has anyone just lost faith in men altogether?Yo, this is a really good way to think about it. Thank you so much! I think a lot of times I get enamored by a guy’s potential instead of seeing who he actually is which, as we all know, is harmful. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/08/20 02:14 AM |
| 3 | Has anyone just lost faith in men altogether?Yessss. Do you have any lit recommendations? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/08/20 02:13 AM |
| 2 | I feel hopeless.I mean it’s just been for two days. I know, I sound so pathetic. I don’t know why but even knowing what I know now about men and just how life works, I’m STILL a hopeless romantic and just always want things to work out. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/07/20 02:44 AM |
| 1 | I feel hopeless.Thank you for the kind words. And yeah, I definitely want to look into therapy, and have been thinking about it for years. My parents are super narcissistic and basically treated me as their marriage therapist, yet they don’t believe in ACTUALLY seeking mental health if needed. lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/07/20 02:43 AM |
| 4 | I feel hopeless.I guess I have an unhealthy need to talk to dudes as well as an unhealthy attachment period. I’ve always thought this dude was cute and nice but we finally started texting two days ago, only for him to leave my message read and “heart” it. Plus we’re both home from college (the same one) and we don’t live in the same hometown. And I’m down to PM! I could definitely use some advise from someone wiser than myself. lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/07/20 04:27 PM |
| 3 | I feel hopeless.Thank you for the article recommendation! I’m going to read that today. And I guess to me, whenever people “like” a message it seems like a dismissal, or a way for someone to politely end the conversation. And I know this isn’t super healthy but I always have a notion that the man has to text first. I don’t want to feel desperate or that I’m bothering him. I love talking to him but I can’t lose my pride. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/07/20 04:23 PM |
| 8 | I.....WHAT? The things some women will put up with. FDS is so necessary it’s not even funny.I’d agree, but the real things I’ve seen women post on relationship subs that they deal with are often on this level of BS, so I wouldn’t be shocked if this is yet another man who wants to keep up disgusting habits. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/07/20 10:33 PM |
| 62 | After stringing me along in a situationship for three months, fuckboy is now angry and upset I’m dating someone else (LONG, sorry)I never understood why the fuckboys come around only AFTER they see that you’ve dropped them/moved onto something better. And it’s literally ALWAYS like this. I’m a college student and earlier in my first semester, I was into this guy but he was a commitmentphobe and I pretty much had to beg him to hang out. Then when he saw me out to dinner with a new guy, he was BLOWING MY PHONE UP. It’s hilarious to me. Like clockwork. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/06/20 01:54 PM |
| 9 | THE D.E.N.N.I.S SYSTEMThis is eerily realistic to what a lot of men do to reel women in. I have no hope. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/06/20 01:41 PM |
| 6 | Oh, honey. I could barely read past the title. NINE YEARS?! AND NO RING?!?!? relationship_advice is full of this crap. So sad.THIS IS THE STUFF THAT BLOWS ME!! I’m hate that in our society the “starter wife”/“starter girlfriend” is acceptable. So she’s spent nine years building this man up but he could turn around and marry some other women. FUCK men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/06/20 05:10 PM |
| 6 | Oh, honey. I could barely read past the title. NINE YEARS?! AND NO RING?!?!? relationship_advice is full of this crap. So sad.r/relationship_advice is a cesspool. Women will be in the most fucked situations imaginable and 95% of the advice is “talk it out”. TALK IT OUT?? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/06/20 05:09 PM |
| 8 | Oh, honey. I could barely read past the title. NINE YEARS?! AND NO RING?!?!? relationship_advice is full of this crap. So sad.PERIOD! I won’t even buy a FISH with a man unless we’re married. This is how women get got on the regular. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/06/20 05:08 PM |
| 2 | Oh, honey. I could barely read past the title. NINE YEARS?! AND NO RING?!?!? relationship_advice is full of this crap. So sad.They probably do know it, they just don’t care. Men are notorious for being emotional robots. I will go to my grave saying that men don’t care about how they affect women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/06/20 05:07 PM |
| 13 | M*le wondering if he's an asshole for subscribing to an OnlyFans account behind his wife's back (the woman in the account also looks 15 years old at a push)I wish I could relate. Where I’m from, women of my race are deemed ugly and to get a man is extremely hard. For me, it hasn’t even happened yet. I don’t want to get hitched to a LVM, but I really want a family one day. I don’t want to put up with BS in order to get it but I’m sick of being lonely. I try to keep true with the FDS teachings, but it’s hard. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/06/20 07:19 PM |
| 60 | My friend sent this to me. She told me in under a minute, 6 other girls retweeted this. I hate how universal this is!I fucking HATE THAT! Where do they learn that garbage? Oh right....porn. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/06/20 06:57 PM |
| 15 | This makes me sad :/THIS ONE HIT!! Not only is my family full of LVM, but also full of insecure women with self-esteem issues who have always told me to put up with things and “make it work” instead of just leaving a shitty situation. It’s so annoying and makes me feel helpless sometimes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/06/20 06:20 PM |
| 58 | This lady knows how to treat a piece of shit cheater.Ehhh I was with you up until the kids bit, only because those kind of statements can be used against the mom in court. Leave kids out of your marital business. But other than that, YASS! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/06/20 02:09 AM |
| 10 | Queens what are your feelings regarding being childfreeIt sucks because I’ve always been a hopeless romantic and have always wanted a family, but growing up and not being as sheltered as I was when I was younger has made me realize that men ain’t shit. It’s SO HARD to find a HVM that I just don’t even want to try anymore. And I’m 19. I hate that I feel like this, but it is what it is, I guess. :/ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/06/20 04:09 PM |
| 2 | A rant about my mother's "dating advice" and her pickme ways.WHEW! Are you me? Is this my mother and I? It’s so funny how a lot of women in the older generations will spew this “Cool Girl/pick me BS but they’re often stuck in non-fulfilling relationships. I can’t tell you how many times I’ve listened to my mom cry about how my good for nothing father doesn’t care about learning more about her and her interests. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/06/20 04:00 PM |
| 20 | i’m tired of the fetishization of latina women and men assuming all of us are “spicy” and crazy. being called “creatures” is so disgusting.I BEEN WAITING FOR THIS ONE....TURN IT UP No but for real though. This offends me as a black woman but also for my Latina sisters. And we know how it came to be - black women are seen as the bottom of the barrel, especially in dating, so anything we do is bad. But if anyone else does it, it’s good. Of course there’s an entire history behind this, but this is FDS and I don’t feel like typing it all out. lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/06/20 03:35 PM |
| 27 | Instead of allowing Disney to demonize strong, independent women to be portrayed as villains, can we just agree we need to stop the narrative of "keeping sweet", "being complacent" and "having faith" to remain a "pure princess" trope when others mistreat us?Getting older and wiser is realizing that the villains in princess or superhero movies made a lot more sense than their adversaries. Especially the women. And don't even get me STARTED on how Malefecent was screwed over. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/06/20 08:58 PM |
| 3 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered 5/31/2020Yeah...it makes me cringe because I’ve definitely been too available, and I dread seeing him on campus in the fall. But, when you know better, you do better, I guess. :/ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/06/20 01:02 AM |
| 3 | STAY WOKE, ladies. Unless you’re The One to him, men have no problem stringing you along and playing mental gymnastics. Also, no answer is also an answer.Yeah, that’s the only problem I had. Men act like they’re all innocent yet love to play all types of mind games just for some pu$$y. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/06/20 01:01 AM |
| 2 | STAY WOKE, ladies. Unless you’re The One to him, men have no problem stringing you along and playing mental gymnastics. Also, no answer is also an answer.Yoooo whoever gave me the silver, thank you, sisters!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/06/20 01:00 AM |
| 33 | STAY WOKE, ladies. Unless you’re The One to him, men have no problem stringing you along and playing mental gymnastics. Also, no answer is also an answer.Same! I’m still working on it and had a minor setback today, but Twitter blessed me with this and it showed up right on time. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/06/20 09:39 PM |
| 6 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered 5/31/2020I fell back into some stupidity, y’all. I snapped this guy who I know is a LVM and isn’t good for me. And of course, he left me on read. I was embarrassed, but then I thought of my FDS teachings and I remembered that HE’S the one who’s losing out on something great, not me. I want to thank this community for reminding me and re-teaching me of my worth! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/06/20 09:14 PM |
| 25 | My ex was so insecure when I even talked to women and complimented them since I'm bi. :'D Now I choose to date women only.It’s crazy because men only want bi women when that can turn into a fmf threesome, but they don’t actually want to accept the fact that their partners are attracted to other people. Worms for the brain. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/06/20 05:11 PM |
| 3 | some men need to learn thisSomething I’ve learned from both observing others and my own experiences is that nine times out of ten, when it comes to women they’re not related to, men will only engage with women they are attracted to, even on a platonic level. I love my mom but she has a lot of “Cool Girl”/Pickmeisha behaviors from growing up in a different time, and it’s no surprise that A: she has mostly male friends and B: they all think she is attractive. I don’t fault her completely, though. Men are so shallow and surf… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/06/20 02:53 PM |
| 2 | This man boldly made SEVERAL antiblack sentiments in the face of me, a black woman.Exactly! If people want to hate themselves and not claim their heritage, it’s not going to keep me up at night. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/06/20 02:39 PM |
| 2 | This man boldly made SEVERAL antiblack sentiments in the face of me, a black woman.This is EXACTLY how it comes across. Such vile behavior. It just makes me want to quit altogether. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/06/20 02:37 PM |
| 4 | This man boldly made SEVERAL antiblack sentiments in the face of me, a black woman.I agree. It's a nice sentiment but often times, black people - especially black women - are put in the role of educating people who otherwise wouldn't give a damn. Just more emotional labor. Google is free, and also, it's 2020 - we should be past the prejudiced BS but I guess we're not. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/06/20 05:25 PM |
| 3 | This man boldly made SEVERAL antiblack sentiments in the face of me, a black woman.The racism was already bad, but the "you're-not-like-other-girls" shit BURNS ME UP! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/06/20 02:30 PM |
| 12 | This man boldly made SEVERAL antiblack sentiments in the face of me, a black woman.It's INSANE! They think because I'm light skinned, I'll fall in line with their colorist BS. Nah, buddy, I love ALL of my sisters and stand with them in the face of colorism. Bye! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/06/20 02:29 PM |
| 1 | I’m sorryLet’s add Lorena Bobbitt to the list, who was subjected to decades of ridicule and being the butt of a joke, all for finally deciding enough was enough and standing up against her abusive husband. For the longest time I didn’t even know that she had been brutally abused every day by her husband, I was raised to know her as “crazy woman who cut her husband’s penis off.” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/05/20 02:11 PM |
| 1 | Myth: Beautiful Women Don’t Need A Dating StrategyNot to mention the women who have never been approached or given the time of day because they’re “too intimidating” or “looked like a bitch”. 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/05/20 04:45 AM |
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