| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 20 | If anyone watches Mad Men, thought this scene was pretty funny and relevant. | technohubz | /r/seduction | 21/11/12 03:47 PM | |
| 15 | [FR] My first #-close followed by date - early success | Field Report | technohubz | /r/seduction | 14/11/12 06:34 PM |
| 1 | Most related film scene and in fact film about women... | technohubz | /r/seduction | 06/12/12 06:24 PM | |
| 0 | A message my friend texted me. Thought it belonged here. | technohubz | /r/seduction | 08/11/13 05:38 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 1 | A message my friend texted me. Thought it belonged here.Cool! | /r/seduction | 08/11/13 09:42 PM |
| 3 | When a girl accepts to go out with you, does it necesarily means that she's interested?If she doesn't ask to invite her friends then it's a date. | /r/seduction | 26/10/13 09:03 AM |
| 1 | I have gone from medium to mild acne over my teens and now I have both mild acne and medium scars. What do?Hi, I have spots and I'm 23 years old. I still manage to pull with no troubles. It's all about being comfortable in your own "skin"...but yes go to the doctor because they can give you a stronger treatment. I've been using a cream that I apply over my face. | /r/seduction | 02/09/13 10:07 PM |
| 2 | How to keep up attraction if you can't schedule a date right away?I guess as guys we didn't want to come off as needy? Constantly sending text messages. | /r/seduction | 17/07/13 07:42 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Thank you Seddit: A Field Report from a beginnerDid I just comment in a totally different topic...mobile tech! | /r/seduction | 21/02/13 12:34 AM |
| 2 | [FR] Thank you Seddit: A Field Report from a beginnerI very interesting opener with pretty direct intentions. Over the years I've dropped the words 'hot' and 'fit' from my vocabulary and replaced them it with 'pretty' and 'cute'. It just seems, in my opinion more respectful. Anyway, I think this opener will work but not every girl is the same. | /r/seduction | 20/02/13 02:29 PM |
| 1 | "You didn't even kiss me, you bitch."http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bVVsDIv98TA | /r/seduction | 15/01/13 12:40 PM |
| 5 | "You didn't even kiss me, you bitch."You'll have that one date, that one girl, that one moment were you just stop. Your Game was perfect upon this moment, those inches between her lips and yours. Well, I'm not going to add details into the nervous k-close but I've had that one date were I said 'Never again'. You miss 100% shots you do not TAKE | /r/seduction | 15/01/13 09:59 AM |
| 2 | Advice from the Sidebar and making it yours: Keep them guessing and make the scenery new.I like this strategy for a dinner date. Might work with bar date....different bars/pubs in one night. | /r/seduction | 14/01/13 04:17 PM |
| 1 | Her vs. Your Idea of HerI feel your pain! | /r/seduction | 14/01/13 10:26 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Many mini FRs in Asia and a couple of lessons from an HB7.5I was in Hong Kong only two days ago and went on two dates with this girl I met. I'm a British Born Chinese. Anyway, I'm busy at the minute because I'm still jet lagged but I'll add a detailed comment tonight. One thing I'll add is:- The Asian girl I met were really hard to read in terms of IOIs | /r/seduction | 11/01/13 04:57 PM |
| 2 | Above The Game Part 2: Fundamentals of Attraction: Authenticity, Desire, Excitement, LifestyleMayb add in posture? My parents got me thinking about my posture all the time, my dad always said to me 'walk tall' vice versa my mum said to me 'don't slough'. Even at the dinner table my family don't hold their head up with their hand because it is seen as rude towards the person who cooked the food...elbows off the table etc. | /r/seduction | 04/01/13 05:51 PM |
| 2 | A late starterTwo things you can change now. New and nicely fitted clothes. Go to malefashionadvice for tips, colours and matching. Then go shopping and redefine your wardrobe. And posture, walk tall and with purpose. Don't slough and smile. Watch Mad Men for the confident posture of Don Draper and the other characters. One step at a time. :) | /r/seduction | 04/01/13 04:39 AM |
| 2 | SashaPUA on "Social Freedom" = Must Read!Yes we do! Keep calm and carry on queuing. | /r/seduction | 04/01/13 04:33 AM |
| 4 | The One Defining Moment That Changed My LifeDo not go where the path may lead, go instead where there is no path and leave a trail. Ralph Waldo Emerson | /r/seduction | 01/01/13 09:47 AM |
| 1 | Been thinking about this for a while: Is approach anxiety just the biggest shit-test in the world?To extend this further with approaching. Last year and probably my best approach I've done was on a cashier who was behind a glass window (Post Office setting). I'll leave out the details but the approach was short and simple with no touching involved, because of the glass window between us. I knew I had to convey a confident frame and friendly smile/body language. Basically, a shotgun opener (I've made that up ha!). We on our first date after she finished her shift, which nicely ended in a k-cl… | /r/seduction | 01/01/13 09:12 AM |
| 2 | Been thinking about this for a while: Is approach anxiety just the biggest shit-test in the world?i seconded this. Having the confidence and boldness to approach is attractive towards a girl. Ive asked this question and talked about it with my female friends. | /r/seduction | 31/12/12 07:03 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Boring is better, F closeI stand up and salute you! | /r/seduction | 07/12/12 06:18 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Successful Cold Approach in Class and Why You Should Read Field ReportsNice one. God I wish I was back at University now. | /r/seduction | 06/12/12 08:00 PM |
| 2 | Being asian...A disadvantage?I think you've answered this question in a paragraph. | /r/seduction | 05/12/12 10:46 PM |
| 2 | Being asian...A disadvantage?Now I'm back home I can properly give my take on your questions. Short answer - Being asian is NOT a disadvantage. Please please please change your inner game and frame to embracing who you are. Some girls I've dated have loved the fact I'm Chinese and can show them a whole different culture rather then the average white man. I'm a British Born Chinese and therefore all my girlfriends have been white, the closest to Chinese has been a half Italian/Chinese girl. You're not the typical asian guy, … | /r/seduction | 05/12/12 09:59 PM |
| 1 | Being asian...A disadvantage?That's an old stereotype... | /r/seduction | 05/12/12 06:58 PM |
| 17 | Being asian...A disadvantage?This has been discussed before. http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/13ex8z/im_asian_and_find_nonasian_women_intimidating/ | /r/seduction | 05/12/12 06:00 PM |
| 2 | Kino is incredibly awkward for me. Any tips on how to get over this?When I first started touching it felt strange but it was all about your inner game and frame. I think - I'm a confident, bold and high-energy guy. And touching is part of my personality. So, think of it as kino/touching as not awkward but good to break down her shield. It's hard to explain but kino is good. | /r/seduction | 04/12/12 10:47 PM |
| 2 | Kino is incredibly awkward for me. Any tips on how to get over this?Yep, kino and touching makes both parties comfortable and relaxed. Last week I was at an event with lots of women, so it was easy to open and less competition. I opened with a HB8 and started Kino/Touching and within 5 minutes of teasing/compliments (Push/pull) she was touching back. Hope this helps. | /r/seduction | 04/12/12 06:43 PM |
| 1 | Kino is incredibly awkward for me. Any tips on how to get over this?Also, another tip is to start touching and kino from the very START. If you meet someone, girl or guy and don't touch and then suddenly start touching then it looks a bit strange. | /r/seduction | 04/12/12 11:51 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Proving a point: Sometimes it just doesn't matter what your opener is.Good post. And agree with you on the confidence and how you say it. I'm more into day game and that requires more confidence and delivery. I need to try night game soon. Different scene. I've saved your FR. | /r/seduction | 02/12/12 08:27 PM |
| 2 | Most succesful way to ask her out? text, call, or in person.I second this. Aim for a strong confident and clear delivery. Build up the attraction between the both of you. Then texting will be communication tool for setting meeting, location and where are you? | /r/seduction | 02/12/12 08:14 PM |
| 1 | "They" say go out 4 nights a week to practice picking up women in order to really improve, but this seems a bit excessive...I have to say I have shit nightgame, though I've only been out once but vice-versa, I've k-closed more girls in Daygame. | /r/seduction | 02/12/12 12:30 AM |
| 6 | Most succesful way to ask her out? text, call, or in person.Asking in person shows you have the confidence and boldness, which is attractive towards a girl that you're asking. | /r/seduction | 02/12/12 12:25 AM |
| 0 | University dining hall...golden opportunity?I understand what you are coming from. Fortunately, I had the opportunity of opening with a HB8 because she was sat next to me, we looked at each other and I opened. However, the best thing would be to keep it short, simple and clear. For example:- "Hello, I was just sitting over and I wanted to say hi" "My name is R-- and I know you're studying but would you like to go for a coffee after you've finished?" Something like that but you get the picture...I hope? Many of my female friends I have tal… | /r/seduction | 01/12/12 01:19 AM |
| 4 | It's Not Always You...Why You Shouldn't Take Rejection To Heart.Rejection improves your confidence! And you will always learn something new. | /r/seduction | 30/11/12 05:08 PM |
| 2 | University dining hall...golden opportunity?Another place is the university library for approaching girls | /r/seduction | 30/11/12 12:55 AM |
| 1 | A note on baby stepsThis is a very interesting post and I like the points you've made regarding baby steps. I am by no means an PUA but I've never really taken baby steps to build up to my first approach. Before I knew about the game I had success in approaching women e.g. Library and nightclubs. I merely thought that was luck but after the discovery of Seduction and reading the various techniques I began to improve my game massively. 2 dates and k-closes in 2 weeks. When starting out with this prior knowledge of s… | /r/seduction | 28/11/12 10:52 AM |
| 2 | A note on baby stepsAlmost picking up chicks! | /r/seduction | 28/11/12 12:06 AM |
| 1 | I approached 2 girls todayWell done, some of us have to start somewhere. Read more material on Seduction and you'll get better but don't overload yourself. | /r/seduction | 27/11/12 11:58 PM |
| 3 | Game On [Part 2]: An Amputee's Seduction Experiences and FailuresVery inspiring! | /r/seduction | 26/11/12 01:09 PM |
| 2 | How to be humorous - Is there a book that I can read, that will make me funny?Hey George, I don't think you can read a book to make you funny. Likewise, you can't read a book on 'how to land a 747' and you suddenly become a pilot. However, what I say is practise witty and funny things with your friends. Main thing is it has to be natural in order for it to work with others. | /r/seduction | 26/11/12 12:21 AM |
| 2 | I'm looking for a serious relationship not really to pickup. Are the techniques here still helpful with this cause?Unfortunately it doesn't work like the films, when a guy and a girl are friends since childhood, the girl has a series of bad boyfriends while the boy is secretly in love with the girl. Then boom! she is in love with the boy from her childhood. | /r/seduction | 25/11/12 05:29 PM |
| 10 | I'm looking for a serious relationship not really to pickup. Are the techniques here still helpful with this cause?You'll might be friend-zoned if you don't show interest. | /r/seduction | 25/11/12 01:04 PM |
| 1 | Anyone have a high amount of number closes but atrocious conversion/date close rates. What am I doing wrong, what's the missing?I followed this method, not exactly to plan but it got me a date from a cold approach for Tuesday http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/ecmm8/how_i_go_from_number_to_first_date/ | /r/seduction | 22/11/12 11:03 PM |
| 3 | Day game seems really weird and uncomfortable. Has anyone felt the same but then transformed their opinion?Changed my life...or my daygame to approach. If you're talking transformation, this is probably the video that changed me. Sorry if that sounds a bit strange. | /r/seduction | 21/11/12 11:48 PM |
| 3 | Day game seems really weird and uncomfortable. Has anyone felt the same but then transformed their opinion?http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AdymCQ5PXrs | /r/seduction | 21/11/12 11:46 PM |
| 2 | Day game seems really weird and uncomfortable. Has anyone felt the same but then transformed their opinion?Oh boy, a lot. I had to read a lot of material, not 'game' material but field reports and success stories from daygame. Mainly to get inspired and motivated to approach women in the day. My first approach was a short-conversation with a girl in HMV on whether she preferred Snow Patrol or Stereophonics. When I got my first #-close, date and k-close it took me an hour to get psyched up, watching videos (the Seconds video) etc. A good warm-up is asking girls for direction, the time or where they go… | /r/seduction | 21/11/12 11:38 PM |
| 2 | Meeting women for me isn't the problem, it's the getting their number that I can't seem to do. Tips?Agreed! | /r/seduction | 21/11/12 08:08 PM |
| 2 | If anyone watches Mad Men, thought this scene was pretty funny and relevant.Don Draper! | /r/seduction | 21/11/12 04:18 PM |
| 5 | Meeting women for me isn't the problem, it's the getting their number that I can't seem to do. Tips?Try to steer the conversation flow to a meeting after your initial approach. For example, 'Yeah have you heard of X on this street, really nice place' 'We should go some time? Let me grab your number' It's important to have your phone out and ready to give it to the girl so she can type in her details. Another situation would be at the end of the conversation, when you're about to part ways. Though, it's really hard to come up with a perfect routine, building up an attraction and a good conversa… | /r/seduction | 21/11/12 04:06 PM |
| 5 | Day game seems really weird and uncomfortable. Has anyone felt the same but then transformed their opinion?I've been doing daygame a lot recently, since I've not had the opportunity to go out on the bar/club scene. When I first started out, it felt awkward because it wasn't socially accepted to talk to random people on the street. However, after a couple of approaches and successful ones (dates/numbers) it got a better. The main thing with daygame is that it shows that you are confident and bold towards women to strike up a conversation randomly in the supermarket or street. | /r/seduction | 21/11/12 12:46 PM |
| 1 | I'm Asian and find non-Asian women intimidating. Asian sedditors, how did you over come this?:) | /r/seduction | 20/11/12 01:50 PM |
| 1 | I'm Asian and find non-Asian women intimidating. Asian sedditors, how did you over come this?Missing out! | /r/seduction | 20/11/12 01:12 PM |
| 1 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 11/19/2012Thanks, I only used the search option, basically typing random stuff in. | /r/seduction | 19/11/12 11:23 PM |
| 1 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 11/19/2012Thank you. Such a tricky choice call or text. If only there was a guideline to this :) | /r/seduction | 19/11/12 10:47 PM |
| 2 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 11/19/2012I approached a girl today and #-close, after this meeting I sent her a text saying - it was nice to meet you this afternoon. Don't have too much on the train home! Anyway, I'll call you later this week to organise a date next week. I got a reply saying the same thing - nice to meet you blah blah and yeah sure :) (in reference to the I'll call you) I've not replied to the text and just left it at that. Not really into the texting business. I was wondering how I should call her or text her when or… | /r/seduction | 19/11/12 10:33 PM |
| 2 | I'm Asian and find non-Asian women intimidating. Asian sedditors, how did you over come this?Hello SedditNewb. I want to add what I did today in relation to Asian Approach Anxiety. It basically didn't cross my mind because of one simple rule, it took me a little to workout why but it was the 3-second rule. You've heard of this? It's the way you can dismiss negative thoughts not to approach a girl i.e. 'I'm Asian I shouldn't approach' or the cliche one 'She's way to hot no go no go no go'. Anyway today I was walking round the supermarket, waiting for my sister and I saw a cute girl walki… | /r/seduction | 19/11/12 09:43 PM |
| 7 | I'm Asian and find non-Asian women intimidating. Asian sedditors, how did you over come this?Simple Pick up http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lJEf_uNEdHI&list=PL3C5DEFE3E73BB9B3&index=6&feature=plcp | /r/seduction | 19/11/12 12:49 AM |
| 1 | I'm Asian and find non-Asian women intimidating. Asian sedditors, how did you over come this?Oh a kino/touching is also important. Making the physical barrier to make them comfortable. | /r/seduction | 19/11/12 12:41 AM |
| 1 | I'm Asian and find non-Asian women intimidating. Asian sedditors, how did you over come this?No one can really say but I advise that you approach more women and see what works. Having a relaxed approach is important and being not outcome dependant. I asked my female friends and they've said far more attractive in a guy when doing a cold approach. | /r/seduction | 19/11/12 12:40 AM |
| 2 | I'm Asian and find non-Asian women intimidating. Asian sedditors, how did you over come this?I say, I have a confident frame about yourself. I can't say I've had negative rejection from white girls but I see Cynical Optimist point on victim mentality. Positive inner game is needed. | /r/seduction | 19/11/12 12:38 AM |
| 9 | I'm Asian and find non-Asian women intimidating. Asian sedditors, how did you over come this?Hello SedditNewb, I'm Asian (British Born Chinese) and I would like to add my experience for you to get inspired :) I am by no means an experience at picking up/approaching women but what I can say is that I've had early success while doing the 'game'. Prior to the game, I had a very confident and natural approach to talking to ALL women. Here are my field reports for you to read: http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/136yk1/fr_my_first_close_followed_by_date_early_success/ http://www.reddi… | /r/seduction | 19/11/12 12:34 AM |
| 4 | The pick up game! [FR]Apocalypse openers. Nice! | /r/seduction | 18/11/12 08:26 PM |
| 6 | Approached a lot. Still no result at all.Now I feel bad! However, see your 200 approaches as a good learning experience. You must have got rid of your approach fear? | /r/seduction | 18/11/12 08:01 PM |
| 2 | [fr] First meetup - coffee - salsa dance class - makeout at my place - EX CONVICT??I know, if only logs onto ebay... | /r/seduction | 16/11/12 03:05 PM |
| 1 | [fr] First meetup - coffee - salsa dance class - makeout at my place - EX CONVICT??Hehe well the tables have turned. I dated for 4 weeks a half italian/half chinese girl which I picked up in the library. Such a stunner. Do you want to trade? Italian for the Irish? | /r/seduction | 16/11/12 02:34 PM |
| 2 | [Lessons Learned] So here is a tale of my crazy learning curve of a year Seddit, I hope you enjoy. [IG]A very good read decoyman1. Break up are always difficult, no matter if you're the one breaking or not. My first break-up years ago was the hardest but now we're are best friends. My last break-up a couple months ago was difficult but good in a way because it sets you free again. However, I wish I was more mature at time we broke up and left on good terms. I read this quote somewhere, I can't remember the source but it said: One day, I want to look at your boyfriend or husband straight in the fa… | /r/seduction | 16/11/12 02:29 PM |
| 3 | Looks Don't MatterI met a guy at university who was very over average of being fat and study Computer Science. However, he was a guy who you wanted to have a conversation with and very confident. Anyway, his girlfriend was stunning. Another guy I knew was fat but was the rugby captain for our university's team, and had a stunning/sexy girlfriend. Don't know if it was the captain status or the amount of drinking he did. Oh well! Sucks to be a pretty guy with no personality. | /r/seduction | 16/11/12 01:52 PM |
| 2 | [FR] My first #-close followed by date - early successUnfortunately, no reply from my offer of a second date. Time to move on :D | /r/seduction | 16/11/12 01:45 PM |
| 1 | [fr] First meetup - coffee - salsa dance class - makeout at my place - EX CONVICT??When people start in the game, they are dependent on the outcome e.g. F-close or a girlfriend. My is basically to get a cute irish red-head. So jealous :) Yep, no real contribution to your FR but I like that 7 hour theory. | /r/seduction | 15/11/12 10:52 PM |
| 1 | All I can say is thanks guysIn England we say 'Keep Calm and Carry On' | /r/seduction | 15/11/12 06:07 PM |
| 2 | All I can say is thanks guysDon't text her again, don't be the AFC or nice guy. As Seddit said 'Do something to take your mind off her' the gym, go out with friends etc. In fact go out and approach another girl. My recent approach resulted in a instant date and a kiss close. I texted her for a second date but no reply but I've been so busy I almost forgot about it...but now I'm thinking 'Why hasn't she texted me back!!!!' face to desk That's the ugly side of the game. | /r/seduction | 15/11/12 05:34 PM |
| 2 | All I can say is thanks guysWell done dude! I'm in the same boat though different history but I've had great success in the last 2/3 weeks of properly trying this stuff. Please share your date on Monday. | /r/seduction | 15/11/12 03:40 PM |
| 1 | Extremely boiled version of what I need to knowBE BOLD, BE CONFIDENT AND APPROACH. | /r/seduction | 15/11/12 01:51 PM |
| 1 | [FR] My first #-close followed by date - early successThank you! I'm currently looking into more direct/statements towards women. Might try the difference maybe question and a direct statement approach. | /r/seduction | 15/11/12 01:49 PM |
| 1 | [FR] My first #-close followed by date - early successThank you! I still amazed that she said 'Yes' to the drink, it was certainly a boost of confidence towards my game and inner mind and to have something like this early on. However, I must not get too comfortable. I've got to take what I've learnt/experienced onto my next encountered (as you said). I don't see what I did wrong personally but each person is different - I guess. I see what you are saying by making girls wanting to chase you as well. I'm suppose this is trying to break the 'nice' gu… | /r/seduction | 15/11/12 01:17 PM |
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