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| 1 | How do I get better with girls and socially when I don't have the time to?I apologize for not explaining myself clearly, I just didn't want to bore you with the details. I do see what your saying though and I'll try my best to do the things you've suggested. I'm not sure about the dating app thing though, are you sure that's a good idea? | /r/seduction | 15/11/18 08:00 PM |
| 2 | How do I get better with girls and socially when I don't have the time to?make it a priority and think about what you can do to improve yourself and your social skills I understand what your saying but it's hard to make something like this a priority when there are even more important things that I have to worry about. For the record, I've failed 2 semesters worth of college classes and lost my financial aid as a result. I can't afford to fail this semester or else it's over for me. Not to mention there are other important things that I need to work on accomplishing l… | /r/seduction | 15/11/18 07:17 PM |
| 1 | How do I get better with girls and socially when I don't have the time to?Agreed, OP you have plenty of time based on this. Some of these numbers are ridiculous. Maybe on the weekends but not during the weekdays and how are my numers ridiculous? | /r/seduction | 15/11/18 06:09 PM |
| 1 | How do I get better with girls and socially when I don't have the time to?Why are you preparing for classes three hours every morning? As I said before this is just a sample of my schedule. Atm, I'm taking four class not just two. As for why I take three hours for me to get ready in the morning, it's too complicated and weird to expalin so lets I'm not going to waste your time. Do you really need to spend 8+ hours a day at the library? Yes. This is another one where it would be too complicated to explain so I'm not going to bore you with the details What about the… | /r/seduction | 15/11/18 06:08 PM |
| 1 | Is the advice outline in this video useful or complete garbage?Yeah, esecially for a guy like me with little to no social skills | /r/seduction | 02/10/18 01:25 PM |
| 1 | Is the advice outline in this video useful or complete garbage?I’m not sure if the video is going to work or not, so just in case here’s youtube link. For those of you who aren’t going to bother with the video, this is what he basically says: Step 1: Tune Step 2: Practice Step 3: Befriend complete strangers Step 4: Re-tune Step 5: Interact with members of the opposite sex that you find attractive Step 6: Ask women out Step 7: Take them out on a date Step 8: Continue dating your favorite girl He goes more into detail as to why you should do the steps liste… | /r/seduction | 01/10/18 10:18 PM |
| 1 | Any advice on how to improve my looks?Take action. How and where do I even begin? Would the library be a good place to start. Take a positivity challenge. Where can I find one to take? | /r/seduction | 10/09/18 08:23 PM |
| 1 | Any advice on how to improve my looks?Take action. How and where do I even begin? Would the library be a good place to start. Take a positivity challenge. Where can I find one to take? | /r/seduction | 10/09/18 08:23 PM |
| 1 | Any advice on how to improve my looks?The other thing is dont get obsessive over your sexual loneliness That's easier said than done. I haven't seen any sort of action at all. I've been trying to cut the porn and for the past week I haven't touched myself however last night, I could barley sleep and all I could think about was tits and ass. Not to mention that I had a boner that wouldn't go away for awhile. My point is that wouldn't say I'm obessing over my sexual lonliness but I would be lying if I said i didn't want some pussy a… | /r/seduction | 10/09/18 08:19 PM |
| 1 | Any advice on how to improve my looks?How do I change my mindset? I've never been a negative person persay but I'd be lying if I said I didn't think negative things about my appearnce. | /r/seduction | 10/09/18 08:14 PM |
| 2 | Any advice on how to improve my looks?Ahh ok I understand now. Thanks bro for clearing that up | /r/seduction | 10/09/18 06:49 PM |
| 5 | Any advice on how to improve my looks?Those lips could drive ladies wild. That's the first time I've had someone compliment my lips. I also had no idea that girls liked big lips. | /r/seduction | 10/09/18 06:45 PM |
| 5 | Any advice on how to improve my looks?So the ''fish lense'' exaggerates a womens features while it makes a mans features worse. Correct me if I'm wrong | /r/seduction | 10/09/18 06:13 PM |
| 4 | Any advice on how to improve my looks?Phone cameras have VERY little focal length in the lens. It causes a "fisheye" effect that can make women look cute but men generally look like shit why is it different for women? | /r/seduction | 10/09/18 06:09 PM |
| 1 | Any advice on how to improve my looks?I'll try my best | /r/seduction | 10/09/18 05:42 PM |
| 2 | Any advice on how to improve my looks?Hit the gym Pick a sport to play year round Been doing that just not on a consistent basis and I'm training to play D1~D2 basketball. | /r/seduction | 10/09/18 05:39 PM |
| 1 | Any advice on how to improve my looks?Otherwise hit the gym. Way ahead of you on that. The only thing that's been hurting me in that regard is lack of consistency but for the most part a pretty avid gym goer | /r/seduction | 10/09/18 05:34 PM |
| 3 | Any advice on how to improve my looks?What is HS? Highschool | /r/seduction | 10/09/18 05:15 PM |
| 2 | Any advice on how to improve my looks?Your style is going to have to become your curb appeal What do you mean by curb appeal? Do you mean the main focus of my style? | /r/seduction | 10/09/18 05:06 PM |
| 5 | Any advice on how to improve my looks?I think I lost it trying to talk to girls and getting tons of ugly ''jokes'' from people I knew in HS | /r/seduction | 10/09/18 05:02 PM |
| 1 | I want to improve socially and with girls I find attractive but not sure where to even start (Long post incoming).You must be pretty attractive Not trying be negative or bring myself down but that couldn't be further from the truth imo because she was the one initiating the conversation. She only really intiated because she knew me and happened to notice me when I was looking in her direction. | /r/seduction | 29/08/18 11:48 AM |
| 1 | I want to improve socially and with girls I find attractive but not sure where to even start (Long post incoming).If the person you're in conversation with doesn't even try, it's really hard to get the conversation going. True. I've always felt that it's a lot easier to talkt to more outgoing people imo. To her defense though, she's not really a very talkitive person, at least for as long as I've known her. She's normally pretty talkitive when she's with people she's most comfy with, so I guess she's not that comfy with me. | /r/seduction | 29/08/18 01:00 AM |
| 1 | Is this actually true or is it just BS?how can you tell? | /r/seduction | 10/05/18 03:50 PM |
| 1 | Should I get better socially first before trying to get better at talking to girls?What do you do now socially? Nothing really. I do play basketball but thats about it. And what town/city/metro area do you live in? I live in jacksonville, North carolina | /r/seduction | 28/04/18 11:13 AM |
| 1 | Should I get better socially first before trying to get better at talking to girls?She's not the only chick I wanted to talk to because there is another one but since I sat right next to the chick I'm interested in, I wanted to at the very least try and talk to her. My plan exact plan was to say this: ''Hey, I know this might seem out of the blue since I've never really talked to you before but I wanted to know if I could get your # so we could talk sometime? I would have asked you sooner but I honestly didn't know how to go about asking you so I kinda held off on it''. As you… | /r/seduction | 27/04/18 06:34 PM |
| 1 | Should I get better socially first before trying to get better at talking to girls?Que? | /r/seduction | 27/04/18 06:19 PM |
| 1 | Should I get better socially first before trying to get better at talking to girls?So, let me ask you this then. What would you do if you were in my situation, socially. You sit next to this cute girl that you've sat next to for nearly the whole semester but never really talked to her at all. You really want to ask for her # but not sure what to say. Do you ask for her # straight away or try something else? Your not very good at conversation and your not very good at keeping it going or building up attraction. Also, not very attractive at all and very short. I hate to be negat… | /r/seduction | 27/04/18 04:44 PM |
| 2 | Should I get better socially first before trying to get better at talking to girls?I've tried but for some reason I have no clue what to say to keep the convo going or making it interesting. Perfect example, just today there I was going to try and ask the chick I sit next to in class for her phone # but me being the pussy and little bitch I am, I didn't say anything at all. Literally, all I had to do was ask if I could have your # but I couldn't even do that. There must be something else that I'm not doing right to improve my confidence | /r/seduction | 27/04/18 04:29 PM |
| 3 | Should I get better socially first before trying to get better at talking to girls?I'm not sure what you mean? | /r/seduction | 27/04/18 04:26 PM |
| 3 | Should I get better socially first before trying to get better at talking to girls?I've been doing alot of research and I want to start practicing but I have no clue where to begin. There are so many questions that I have but I feel like if I ask them they'll either get ignored or be too stupid to even answer. | /r/seduction | 27/04/18 02:46 PM |
| 5 | I approached a girl for the first time todayno one told him to not talk to more girls, all they were doing was applauding him for getting out of his comfort zone, which is not very easy for most people. I get what your saying but still I think you should dial down your tone abit imo | /r/seduction | 25/04/18 12:42 PM |
| 2 | Date at homeGood luck, bitch. Damn lol. | /r/seduction | 21/04/18 01:04 AM |
| 1 | Is it too late to try or should I still try anyways.I mean it doesn't really seem like she's into me like that, at least not yet anyways but I can change that right? | /r/seduction | 16/04/18 09:41 PM |
| 2 | Why is being a virigin so looked down upon?Any books/magazines ect. you would recommend for this sort of things | /r/seduction | 01/04/18 11:50 AM |
| 2 | Why is being a virigin so looked down upon?Porn is a terrible good. What do you mean by that? | /r/seduction | 01/04/18 03:11 AM |
| 1 | Why is being a virigin so looked down upon?So, what should I do to ''get good'' at sex while still being a virgin? | /r/seduction | 01/04/18 03:03 AM |
| 3 | Why is being a virigin so looked down upon?So am I just shit out of luck then? Should I just not tell a I'm going yo have sex with for the first time that I'm a virigin? Also, how am I supposed to practice when girls don't really have the patience for it? Should I just watch porn and practice the motions while I'm alone, all by myself? I apologize if the tone of this comment comes off as me not being serious but I truly am. | /r/seduction | 01/04/18 02:42 AM |
| 5 | Is it ok to watch this sort of thing? If not, then what should I watch?...I'm not even sure how to respond to this. | /r/seduction | 01/04/18 12:42 AM |
| 1 | How tf do u get into the game under 21guess I'm screwed then | /r/seduction | 28/03/18 12:31 PM |
| 1 | Have I been waiting too long?Should I try to sit next to her and talking to her during class? | /r/seduction | 21/03/18 03:46 PM |
| 1 | Should I focus on my long term goal or should I focus on getting better with girls?How so? I get what your saying but I never said I didn't want to at least try and get better with girls or at the very least make it work. | /r/seduction | 18/03/18 01:47 AM |
| 1 | Should I focus on my long term goal or should I focus on getting better with girls?If I wanna become a world class athlete and play pro basketball, I can't cut corners period. | /r/seduction | 17/03/18 04:28 AM |
| 1 | Should I focus on my long term goal or should I focus on getting better with girls?I don't think you need to be training for 5+ hours tho World class athletes on average train about 36+ hours a week. Unless my math is wrong that's about 4-6 hours a day just on body training alone. I'm not about to let anyone out do me. Its either get big or go home. | /r/seduction | 17/03/18 04:27 AM |
| 2 | Questions to all female lurkers of r/seductionif i was obviously offending you, i apologize. You weren't offending me at all. Without a doubt I already have a great amount of respect for you or for anyone that will just tell it like it is because I really hate it when people sugarcoat certain things. All I'm saying is there are better ways to say certain things. I'm not saying you have to be super nice but at the very least tone it done just abit. | /r/seduction | 16/03/18 02:26 PM |
| 1 | Should I focus on my long term goal or should I focus on getting better with girls?After that it's smashing weekend warriors at the YMCA. Be smart and pick an attainable life\career goal. Not trying to be rude here and I do appreciate the advice but playing pro basketball is an attainable dream and I will achieve it no matter what. I admit, I may not go to the NBA straight after college but theres always the NBA G-league and overseas. After that all I have to do is work my ass off and eventually after a few years I could get my chance to play in the NBA. As much as I want to g… | /r/seduction | 16/03/18 11:37 AM |
| 0 | Should I focus on my long term goal or should I focus on getting better with girls?It's not that it's fake, I'm just not really a big time player, at least not yet. I'm not complete garbage either because I've been playing basketball since I was in 7th grade. Long story short, I messed up my chance to play in HS and at the very least go to a small school where I could play for about a year or two and then transfer to a bigger school because of my grades and now I'm paying for it. I can still do what I want to do but I'm gonna have to get my grades up first and do alittle bit m… | /r/seduction | 16/03/18 11:30 AM |
| 1 | Should I focus on my long term goal or should I focus on getting better with girls?I'm trying to start training around 4-6 hours of body training, since most world class athletes normally train for that long and indefinite hours of basketball training, I never really count the hours when bball training but if I had to guess at least 4-5 hours+. So yeah, not a whole lot of free time lol. Sorry for the late reply btw, had to go to bed. | /r/seduction | 16/03/18 11:26 AM |
| 2 | Should I focus on my long term goal or should I focus on getting better with girls?Wow. I don't even know what to say lol | /r/seduction | 16/03/18 03:34 AM |
| 1 | Finding a women has to be the hardest thing in the world.Sooo, basically what all of you are saying is that, its generally not worth the time to look for women at all, or am I wrong? | /r/seduction | 15/03/18 09:49 PM |
| 1 | Do cold showers really help with talking to chicks or is that just a myth?ahh, I see. I do try and meditate but it's more for sports than anything else. How many times a day should you meditate? | /r/seduction | 14/03/18 05:32 PM |
| 1 | Do cold showers really help with talking to chicks or is that just a myth?Has it worked for you? Assuming you've tried it of course. | /r/seduction | 14/03/18 02:49 PM |
| 1 | Do cold showers really help with talking to chicks or is that just a myth?So could i try meditating while taking a cold shower? Does that have any benefits? I've always wanted to meditate under a waterfall like they do in some anime but if it has no benefits, then I'm not going to bother. | /r/seduction | 14/03/18 02:44 PM |
| 1 | Do cold showers really help with talking to chicks or is that just a myth?why do you take cold showers? | /r/seduction | 14/03/18 01:56 PM |
| 3 | Girl texted me a few weeks later after ghosting me, why?I was thinking about talking to this girl in one of my classes but not sure what do to. I have no experience with talking to chicks in a school setting. | /r/seduction | 07/03/18 02:28 AM |
| 2 | Girl texted me a few weeks later after ghosting me, why?For clarification, I am pretty bad with women. It's very difficult for me to escalate things sexually, in part because I'm a 23 year old kissless virgin I can relate lol | /r/seduction | 07/03/18 01:53 AM |
| 1 | Not sure if I should talk this girl in one of my classes.So, where exactly did you meet up with these girls to chat later with? | /r/seduction | 07/03/18 01:00 AM |
| 1 | Girl texted me a few weeks later after ghosting me, why?ahh, I see. Were you dating her or no? | /r/seduction | 07/03/18 12:57 AM |
| 1 | Not sure if I should talk this girl in one of my classes.When I was in HS i would have girls just walk up to me and say "hello [myname]" and walk off. It was a signal for me to chat them up later I get what your saying but you must have been one hella fine dude then (no homo) if you have chicks saying hi to you in highschool. I've never in my life been that lucky. I'm ugly and short as hell, two really bad combinations. Also, most of the time it's guys who walk up to girls not the other way around, so I can say hi to her all I want but that doesn't me… | /r/seduction | 07/03/18 12:51 AM |
| 2 | Girl texted me a few weeks later after ghosting me, why?Pardon the stupid question but what does ghosting mean? | /r/seduction | 07/03/18 12:35 AM |
| 1 | Am I a loser?I'll try. When though? Should I wait after class or before. I'm in college btw. | /r/seduction | 28/02/18 04:34 AM |
| 1 | Am I a loser?Well there was this one chick I wanted to talk to but like I said in the post, I have no real game and no real experience when it comes to trying talk to girls that I like. Not to mention I have no car or a job (theres actually a legit good reason for that). Is it worth trying to talk to her anyways or should I save trying to make a fool of myself? | /r/seduction | 28/02/18 03:12 AM |
| 1 | Am I a loser?I get what your saying but won't it come to light eventually? I mean you can't hide it forever. | /r/seduction | 28/02/18 03:09 AM |
| 2 | Am I a loser?A girl who is 18-22 is more likely to go for a loser who is her own age than a guy who has his shit together but is 25+ I get what your saying now but that still doesn't make much sense. I thought girls like it when guys know what they want in life and has is stuff together? Reverse psychology? Also if that were the case, why don't I have a gf rn? | /r/seduction | 27/02/18 08:08 PM |
| 1 | Am I a loser?I am genuinley confused on that last part. | /r/seduction | 27/02/18 06:32 PM |
| 2 | Am I a loser?side note your short and a basketball player who likes anime? Are you a cartoon character? Not sure how to answer that. | /r/seduction | 27/02/18 05:46 PM |
| 3 | Am I a loser?I remember the famous Jordan Peterson (you will find him on YouTube) saying: clean up your room, and you will start to attract positive things in life. Does he mean that literally or metaphorically? | /r/seduction | 27/02/18 05:45 PM |
| -1 | Am I a loser?lol thanks? | /r/seduction | 27/02/18 05:27 PM |
| 1 | Most guys don't have game!THIS | /r/seduction | 27/02/18 04:07 PM |
| 1 | Sort of a weird question that I have.I've never really cared about what other people think but I am catious of what I say and do around people, especially the one that are really judgemental of others. | /r/seduction | 01/02/18 11:11 PM |
| 1 | Sort of a weird question that I have.What kind of girls are you going for? That's kinda tough to answer because I'm not really a picky dude. I'm not really a great looking dude https://imgur.com/a/OlLCf (yes, this is really me), I'm pretty short for a dude, 5'6 to be exact, and I'm still a virgin. I'm not even sure if I should even be going for specific girls, considering the situation I'm in but it would be nice if I could find someone into anime/gaming, although it would also just be nice to date someone who doesn't really mind t… | /r/seduction | 30/01/18 04:48 AM |
| 1 | Is getting into a relationship/sex all it's cracked up to be?ok, thanks man | /r/seduction | 19/01/18 02:48 AM |
| 1 | Is getting into a relationship/sex all it's cracked up to be?Well, I have no experience with girls at all. How do you test/practice something that you have no experience with at all. Do I just go up to a random girl that I think is cute and just start talking to her or what? There are so many un answered questions about this sorta thing. | /r/seduction | 18/01/18 10:03 PM |
| 2 | Is getting into a relationship/sex all it's cracked up to be?Go do cold approaches during the day Not sure what you mean by that. Could you elaborate if you don't mind. | /r/seduction | 18/01/18 10:01 PM |
| 1 | Need help improving myself but I just don't know how to do it.Well I have no idea how to approach or how to practice approaching girls that I find attractive and my concept of confidence would be, me being able to talk to girls with ease and being able to keep the convo going and get them interested. I also have no clue how to keep girls interested in me at all. | /r/seduction | 02/01/18 04:55 AM |
| 1 | Need help improving myself but I just don't know how to do it.Confidence issues, to sum it up. | /r/seduction | 02/01/18 04:31 AM |
| 1 | Need help improving myself but I just don't know how to do it.Let go of my thoughts? How in the world do I do that? | /r/seduction | 02/01/18 04:29 AM |
| 1 | Need help improving myself but I just don't know how to do it.yeah, I get it. Thanks for the help man. | /r/seduction | 01/01/18 05:56 AM |
| 1 | Need help improving myself but I just don't know how to do it.I get what your saying and I appreciate the help but where do I start putting all of this stuff into practice. Wouldn't it be akward just to start talking to random girls, just out of the blue? Goal or not wouldn't people just look at me funny. I apologize if I sound like I'm being difficult, it not intentional. I just want to make sure that I understand everything you're trying to tell me and to make sure I don't miss anything. | /r/seduction | 01/01/18 05:20 AM |
| 1 | Need help improving myself but I just don't know how to do it.you'll also compare yourself to other people's versions of success which will end up with you being an indecisive person who is always insecure and stuck and frustrated. I've done this so many times, its actually sad. How do I not do something like this because it really has always frustrated me when someone that I'm good friends with, have all the girls chasing after him and I'm stuck over here not getting a damn thing. My friend that I've known since MS is exaclty the dude I'm talking about an… | /r/seduction | 01/01/18 05:06 AM |
| 1 | Need help improving myself but I just don't know how to do it.I would say confidence the most but I feel like its abit more than just a lack of confidence. I would say probably not really knowing how exaclty to get over my problems is whats tripping me up. | /r/seduction | 01/01/18 03:55 AM |
| 1 | Need help improving myself but I just don't know how to do it.I'm not really sure how to answer that tbh lol but I'll try my best. I guess for me anyways, success with women would be to be able to walk up to any girl that you want and at the very least get them interested in you if nothing else. I know that's sort of a generic answer but I honestly couldn't really think of anything else lol. Sorry about that. | /r/seduction | 01/01/18 03:46 AM |
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