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| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 2 | Don't do this (from personal experience)She sounds ridiculous, bullet dodged. | /r/seduction | 27/08/19 07:37 PM |
| 2 | Approaching girls is more simple than you thinkHell ya brother super obscure fresh prince reference and of course reddit caught it lol!! | /r/seduction | 22/08/19 01:24 PM |
| 0 | How do I become less normal and serious ond my dates and daygame?Authenticity, speaking your mind, to an extent, where it's not off putting. You will find someone more compatible that way and have WAY more fun. | /r/seduction | 24/07/19 07:52 PM |
| 1 | Broes....geting ghosted A LOT, more lately than ever before, whats am I doing wrong?Thanks man, good call. | /r/seduction | 27/06/19 01:02 PM |
| 2 | Broes....geting ghosted A LOT, more lately than ever before, whats am I doing wrong?I’m beginning to think so | /r/seduction | 27/06/19 01:05 AM |
| 2 | Broes....geting ghosted A LOT, more lately than ever before, whats am I doing wrong?I smoke cigs 😐😐 | /r/seduction | 27/06/19 12:18 AM |
| 1 | Did anyone go from having horrible game to pulling 10s?I’ve done it, usually it’s my mindset. It only happens when I’m not actively trying. | /r/seduction | 03/06/19 03:21 PM |
| 1 | GF didn’t reply with a kiss emoji on IG post. Aren’t kiss emojis supposed to be reciprocated?God I hope your less than 14 years old. | /r/seduction | 03/06/19 03:21 PM |
| 2 | Met girl got number flirted and discussed plans, texted and ghosted, now what?I agree yet often the hardest thing to do. | /r/seduction | 28/05/19 08:32 PM |
| 2 | Can't shake my ex, I love her and feel it's fixable, how do I unfuck this up?Appreciate it. I definitely am. Once I found out she blocked me on everything I had a slight panic attack and sent her a lengthy text. Haven't reached out in a week. I don't plan too. But your advice was much appreciated. | /r/seduction | 06/04/17 03:28 AM |
| 1 | Can't shake my ex, I love her and feel it's fixable, how do I unfuck this up?I dunno...breaking up a perfectly reasonable relationship for no reason. | /r/seduction | 05/04/17 10:36 PM |
| 2 | Can't shake my ex, I love her and feel it's fixable, how do I unfuck this up?Yeah I totally understand this philosophy. However it feels like it's not addressing the issue. Like avoidant or burying the emotions. But I get what your saying. Really it's probably my only option. | /r/seduction | 05/04/17 10:29 PM |
| 2 | How To Get Past ''Hey, How Are You?''Skip the traditional hi's go straight into an off the wall comment. | /r/seduction | 08/12/16 03:53 PM |
| 1 | Whats your thought on approaches to girls you see frequently?JW, has this ever worked? I don't think this has for me haha, not sure what I was thinking. Seems less weird having met her, but not barely knowing her. | /r/seduction | 07/12/16 08:32 PM |
| 1 | Very strong 2 dates but now she doesn't want to meetYeah I like it, good luck! | /r/seduction | 07/12/16 02:07 PM |
| 1 | Very strong 2 dates but now she doesn't want to meetI think you're on the right path. Not sure what you mean by freezing her out. Does this mean your not responding as well? Cause that's no good. Or are you just not texting her? But responding to her? My two exes ago was like this. She had her ex still on the picture. She actually went on a trip to Florida with him while we were dating, which I knew about way after the fact. But on our second date she was very hesitant. Basically I did what your doing. The ball was in her court she knew where I s… | /r/seduction | 07/12/16 12:29 PM |
| 10 | Daygame infield of a hottie buying me coffee then pulling me to her house.A twist girl was actually not hot... | /r/seduction | 06/12/16 02:09 AM |
| 2 | Asked a girl for a date, she said no, but I still feel amazingNice work man!! There is no bigger rush...IMO. Failure or not. | /r/seduction | 02/12/16 12:05 PM |
| 2 | I work at Pandora and girls are all around me, I need to improve my game and ask one of them out, any help?Honestly...people say this and I was always like yeah, yeah that's standard cliche answer. But I did this recently and regret every moment of it. | /r/seduction | 02/12/16 12:03 PM |
| 1 | Whats your thought on approaches to girls you see frequently?Great point in the lack of options. It is a terrible idea. I just need to be more patient. | /r/seduction | 02/12/16 11:22 AM |
| 1 | Whats your thought on approaches to girls you see frequently?Good day sir, quick follow up. I'm asking other this as well. I haven't run into her in a week. Which is rare, I'm worried about losing momentum. Based off of our first interaction, I was able to locate her pretty easily via Facebook. Is it creepy to messenger her there? | /r/seduction | 01/12/16 08:02 PM |
| 1 | Whats your thought on approaches to girls you see frequently?Quick follow up, I haven't seen her in a week, which is rare. Based off of our first interaction and the information I got. I found her on Facebook immediately. Is it creepy to say hi via messenger? | /r/seduction | 01/12/16 08:00 PM |
| 4 | Whats your thought on approaches to girls you see frequently?Yeah I definitely do not plan to stretch this out this long. I will try to number close within the next couple of interactions. But I have been around long enough and done this enough times to know numbers do not mean anything, unless there is actual interest and chemistry etc. So I will interact with her more and try to get a vibe with her. I have been in those work place situations, and from my experience it is a finesse game. I tend to work slower as I am more shy, especially in the work plac… | /r/seduction | 24/11/16 07:13 PM |
| 3 | Whats your thought on approaches to girls you see frequently?Yeah this was exactly my line of thinking, I tend to rush things, which has been successful and unsuccessful in the past. In this instance, I will slow play it for a variety of reasons. And definitely read into her responses. | /r/seduction | 24/11/16 07:08 PM |
| 4 | Whats your thought on approaches to girls you see frequently?Awesome reply, thanks man! Honestly the reason for my interaction came down to a lot of things, First being - I had lots of time to think about this because running into each other was never a for sure thing it was always a ya never know (naturally, the moment i was not expecting and not really prepared to do it was when the best opportunity presented itself and when I actually did it), so naturally it became way overblown and I way over thought it which lead to big time nervousness because when… | /r/seduction | 24/11/16 07:06 PM |
| 3 | My text game is so weak I just don't know how to text women anymoreI hate that this is a thing. Just talk to her like a person, not offensive, joke around and not too frequent. | /r/seduction | 20/11/16 06:51 PM |
| 2 | Getting her numberI don't think you can get too into a girl you have had zero interaction with. I'm guilty of this as well. In high school I'd usually have a big crush on a girl and rarely act on it, most times than not it would not work out. Frankly it's a numbers game and so many non related variables have to go in your favor for it to work. For example she'd have to be single, emotionally available, attracted to you...if you get to that point you'd have to have chemistry etc etc. Point being, if you see someon… | /r/seduction | 02/11/16 11:22 AM |
| 2 | 5 Cheap & Simple First Date Ideas That Don’t SuckIf you get dinner or something and mid level place your probably looking at easily 80 bucks. | /r/seduction | 30/09/16 11:16 AM |
| 1 | What I have learned in 10 years of being in the game.Could you elaborate more on #5? | /r/seduction | 22/09/16 11:26 AM |
| 1 | Warm up to the eventual day game...infield report.Interesting...I got bored with just the Hellos...today I am looking to instant coffee date... | /r/seduction | 15/09/16 11:06 AM |
| 3 | Those Who Have Not Approached...Let's Make A DealI'm in... Is this anywhere? | /r/seduction | 07/09/16 11:04 AM |
| 1 | Met an amazing woman, been dating 1 month, it's one of the best relationships I've ever had. Why can't I stop thinking about pursuing other women?She deleted her online account as of last night and we decided roughly a week ago. | /r/seduction | 16/05/16 11:15 PM |
| 3 | Met an amazing woman, been dating 1 month, it's one of the best relationships I've ever had. Why can't I stop thinking about pursuing other women?I've dated maybe 5 women in the last year some going a couple of months some a month some one date. | /r/seduction | 16/05/16 11:15 PM |
| 5 | Met an amazing woman, been dating 1 month, it's one of the best relationships I've ever had. Why can't I stop thinking about pursuing other women?I agree...it's like I'm addicted to the chase.... | /r/seduction | 16/05/16 09:10 PM |
| 1 | Work downtown, sick of not approaching, how is this cold open?I work in metro area there is probably 100k down here during the day if not more. It's not a small area, if it was I'd totally get your point. | /r/seduction | 20/04/16 07:53 PM |
| 4 | When setting up the date should one call or text?Yeah, there is a lot of overthinking when it comes to dating, don't sweat it. IF she is into it, it wont matter how you set it up. | /r/seduction | 26/03/16 06:24 PM |
| 2 | I feel confident when I'm alone or with one other person, but not when I'm in a group. Any advice?It's a skill it really is, people say "work the room" that's exactly what it is, balancing each person not spending too much time with one person, having a few laughs, moving along while not moving SO fast your done talking to people and circling back within 30 minutes. If you can bullshit with people your in, if you know the group well your in, if not get a few talking points prior to the party, this is just my two cents. | /r/seduction | 18/03/16 11:02 AM |
| 1 | Tinder messages: Go straight to the number/date or make small talk?20 is intense...I was thinking 2-3 then end the convo hopefully with the number | /r/seduction | 16/01/16 08:03 PM |
| 1 | Tinder messages: Go straight to the number/date or make small talk?This is exactly how i feel....thanks man, you confirmed my thought with the success as well. | /r/seduction | 16/01/16 05:44 PM |
| 6 | Which attractive qualities in women are very underrated?Nice smile... Crooked teeth, brown teeth, snaggle tooth, under bite, over bite, unequal teeth to gums ratio, big teeth...all these can be huge turnoffs for me. | /r/seduction | 12/01/16 09:37 PM |
| 2 | Got rejected badly but at least I triedAgreed...for the sake of the next guy, we all need to take rejection politely and respectfully. | /r/seduction | 04/01/16 12:29 PM |
| 1 | Please judge my day game plan...thanks!Thank for the input! Got any good opener suggestions for me?? | /r/seduction | 27/12/15 03:59 AM |
| 1 | Can't get past AA...I choke every time.Sweet, I will definitely check it out, thank you! | /r/seduction | 17/12/15 01:16 AM |
| 1 | Can't get past AA...I choke every time.Per another comment an AA camp suggests asking women the time 5 times a day as a good step, i like this... | /r/seduction | 17/12/15 01:15 AM |
| 1 | Can't get past AA...I choke every time.Great point...I am sure it will definitely make their day. Fuck...I just need to do it. | /r/seduction | 17/12/15 01:15 AM |
| 1 | Can't get past AA...I choke every time.Great stuff man, thank you! I'll try the aa camp as well! | /r/seduction | 17/12/15 01:08 AM |
| 1 | Not being needy vs being too passiveI feel like it's like balancing a scale....give a little receive a little. Give more wait for more...read her reactions as a result of your behavior. Obviously, don't overwhelm, by telling her you love her date 3. But you can't be too passive either. You're going to have to take risks, but calculated low level risks. I.e. - last girl I was seeing I really liked where it was going. I told her " I like how this is going" she obliged and said she did too with a smile. It was perfect. Fast forward..… | /r/seduction | 10/12/15 03:23 PM |
| 1 | Today is the day! I am going to do some cold approaches during the day time.The goal is three a day.... | /r/seduction | 10/12/15 01:48 AM |
| 1 | Today is the day! I am going to do some cold approaches during the day time.See above...the good news is I have the opportunity 5 days a week. I work in a huge metropolitan area all connected by skyways, it's a true gold mine. | /r/seduction | 10/12/15 01:48 AM |
| 1 | Today is the day! I am going to do some cold approaches during the day time.So...I definitely went in with the attitude of making a move. I talked to one girl only. There were no great opportunities without being creepy. The one girl I talked I did not escalate far. It kind of feels like you can force it but shouldn't at times in regards to timing of running into attractive girls. I saw a few girls in groups but resisted as that seems hard. | /r/seduction | 10/12/15 01:47 AM |
| 1 | Would you date yourself if you were a girl?Wow, I never thought of it this way....damn.... | /r/seduction | 04/12/15 09:41 PM |
| 1 | Wanted to ask out a girl, failed badlyPopped your cherry! Next one will be easier! | /r/seduction | 06/10/15 11:13 AM |
| 5 | Why you should make your intentions clear (x-post from TIFU)Shitty...but I am of the philosophy that there is ALWAYS someone better out there. | /r/seduction | 26/09/15 02:08 PM |
| 1 | What do you talk about when approaching stranger girls?Great stuff thanks for taking the time man! I will have to try this out! | /r/seduction | 22/06/15 04:40 PM |
| 3 | Becoming emotionally attached too quicklyLets say it like this, it's like your a pitcher in baseball and she is the batter. Your throwing to her right? Approaching, calling the shots, seeing where it goes. All hoping to get the result you want... a strikeout... aka....that being sex, a relationship whatever. You kept coming with the inside fastball, you were predictable easy, quick to get emotionally involved, your are not fooling anyone, and trust me you have to keep them guessing in this stage. Guessing as in...is he in to me? He is … | /r/seduction | 08/05/15 01:58 AM |
| 1 | Have my first date ever tomorrow. What are your best tips or things to say or do on the first date?This is what you need to do: Search for emotions not facts. Instead of where you work, ask do you like your job? Or both but illicit emotions not facts primarily. Have positive Body language, smile, face her. At a four person table? sit NEXT to her not across, this makes light kino easier Create Light kino hand holding, light touching, kiss her goodnight IF it goes well. Give her Light compliments, "you like nice", "you're funny", etc. Have Positivity-energy, don't dog your ex, try to speak posi… | /r/seduction | 06/05/15 12:18 PM |
| 2 | I've realised that my main problems are having an awkward vibe and lack of conversational skills. Best ways to fix both of these things?Jokes, ask questions and get the other person talking, then tease them about light hearted things they talked about previously. | /r/seduction | 03/05/15 03:07 PM |
| 6 | Staying Out of Your Head?Sometimes it's just a matter of saying fuck it and doing it. There is nothing I can say to help this, no trick, no mental game, nothing. Assuming you can semi hold a conversation, you should be able to approach anyone. Although I do not like to go up to complete strangers unless needed. You have a class with this girl, time to create a convo and hit on her. Cliche but true....just do it. | /r/seduction | 30/04/15 05:20 PM |
| 3 | Kissing on first date?I have never had a girl turn down a kiss. Its more of measuring how the date went...if it sucked obviously don't do it, but if it went well, all for it. | /r/seduction | 04/04/15 08:49 PM |
| 3 | How to deal with your gf's nice guy friendOne better try to get him to meet a girl? See how that goes? | /r/seduction | 13/03/15 05:15 PM |
| 1 | So Valentines Day is coming up. As a single guy, how can I make the most if it.Be thankful you don't have someone. Seriously, say you get a gift...depending on the length of the relationship maybe it's 20 bucks maybe it's 200 bucks. Then you go to dinner...prices are inflated for the holiday...maybe you spend 50 maybe you spend 150. If your spending big it's roughly a 2-300 dollar night if your more normal it's a 100-120 dollar night. Take that money you would spend on a date and buy something that's a gift that keeps on giving like a fucking Xbox game. | /r/seduction | 10/02/15 12:46 PM |
| 7 | So Valentines Day is coming up. As a single guy, how can I make the most if it.Serious question...who would go on a first date on Valentine's Day? | /r/seduction | 10/02/15 12:43 PM |
| 2 | So Valentines Day is coming up. As a single guy, how can I make the most if it.This...you know she's single. My thing is...do I look lame for being there also? | /r/seduction | 10/02/15 12:42 PM |
| 1 | Could this be THE BEST LOCATION to meet women? (+ openers you can use).Fuck no, I'm either going to work (shitty)or still stuck down there from leaving work (shitty) I wouldn't nor would I want others to spit game. Neither the platform or on the train are good IMO. Might be one of my least favorite. | /r/seduction | 22/01/15 05:45 PM |
| 5 | I have no problem meeting girls and talking to them, but I have no idea how to cross the "just friends" state and escalate things further romantically.Yeah from my experience...physical contact and compliments do mean a lot. | /r/seduction | 13/12/14 01:44 PM |
| 2 | Love is the goal. Why r/seduction needs a paradigm shift.Inner self worth learned to being projected outward. The underlying tones in this sub aren't even about fucking chicks but just being better in every way. | /r/seduction | 02/12/14 10:21 PM |
| 1 | What do I do when I'm just not feeling it?Same here...I usually bitch out to mainly cause my game will suck. Need to move past this. | /r/seduction | 21/11/14 03:34 PM |
| 1 | Looking for an Article About Handling Break-upsId search breakups then top all time, good stuff there. | /r/seduction | 19/11/14 12:28 PM |
| 2 | "We're not going to have sex tonight" twice in a week from two different girlsI've had this happen...literally she said this and I was completely indifferent...she was already blowing me...then all sudden we are fucking. | /r/seduction | 12/11/14 06:07 PM |
| 2 | Sedditor Locator 2014. Find awesome buddies for sarging!Minneapolis | /r/seduction | 07/11/14 02:44 AM |
| 1 | 3 numbers, zero responses...wtf?Good to know, I guess I was trying to chat her up with small talk sounds like I should go straight for the date. | /r/seduction | 23/09/14 11:07 AM |
| 1 | 3 numbers, zero responses...wtf?Yeah your probably right, oddly I never remember having this problem. Just got out of a relationship. So it's weird to be back doing this. | /r/seduction | 23/09/14 11:05 AM |
| 1 | 3 numbers, zero responses...wtf?Good call, never tried this really, I will give it a go. | /r/seduction | 22/09/14 03:06 PM |
| 1 | 3 numbers, zero responses...wtf?So basically lock up a date time and place upon meeting them in addition to the number? Also, all three of these girls are lost causes as well Id assume... | /r/seduction | 22/09/14 01:37 PM |
| 3 | What do you think is more important, a car or your own place?Own place for sure. I was in this almost exact same predicament, the car was a minor hurdle in my last relationship as I was a little ashamed of it. But not having my own place was a consistent issue. | /r/seduction | 31/08/14 01:51 PM |
| 1 | How do i survive being dumped?I got dumped a month ago. Dated for a year, I thought I was madly in love. I can honestly say I am over it. I feel good, I feel back to normal. The only odd part is having those daily routines and rituals gone that occurred and losing a friend. I am now happy it's over. Things to do that I did to help me get over it. -remember the bad times. Focus on this. I gave up a lot of things I liked to be with her, she was just quicker to end it than I was. -work on you. I compromised a lot of my goals in… | /r/seduction | 11/08/14 05:06 PM |
| 1 | I think the number one problem is putting a girl on a pedestal, I was wondering what makes a girl feel like she's a pedestal?It's a few things: One your too passive, if you fail to take the lead, be domineering, or go along with whatever she wants this makes her uneasy because your anxiety and desperate need for approval is subconsciously at the surface. Because your not being honest it creates no positive emotional tension. It's basically an extreme form of passive lies of omission. When you seek approval and are submissive the anxiety on your end creates anxiety for her, it's contagious. As a result of not being tru… | /r/seduction | 12/05/14 05:45 PM |
| 1 | Seriously, how the fuck can I not get one response on match.com?Is it cool to follow up after no initial response? I'm running out of women here. | /r/seduction | 07/05/14 01:56 AM |
| 3 | Seriously, how the fuck can I not get one response on match.com?All he said was "it's too long" | /r/seduction | 06/05/14 11:00 PM |
| -3 | Seriously, how the fuck can I not get one response on match.com?This is amazing advice actually...how much information is too little. I probably was trying to hard, although its mostly honest. Mostly trying to show being the ultimate alpha male. See I went to match specifically because it was a paid site and i felt like weeded out the mass spammers on OKC, which I tried very very briefly. I think its discouraging to say the least. | /r/seduction | 06/05/14 12:15 AM |
| 1 | Seriously, how the fuck can I not get one response on match.com?Thanks man! Check your inbox... | /r/seduction | 06/05/14 12:14 AM |
| 1 | Girlfriend gave this to me during a mutual breakup, to me this is what seduction is all about.cool, if it were me though i would have to sever ties until i had significantly less emotional investment, its too hard being around ex's when there is a possibility of other dudes moving in. | /r/seduction | 26/08/13 10:58 AM |
| 1 | What am I supposed to do after a successful first date? What's the protocol?Update? | /r/seduction | 10/06/13 11:10 AM |
| 0 | Best ways to get rid of guys (puas) who hit on my gfActually no, I prefer to be shut down right away, that would be not wasting my time. | /r/seduction | 06/10/11 12:31 AM |
| 1 | Best ways to get rid of guys (puas) who hit on my gfI guess, my reasoning was based off the original topic. I don't have time to look back, but the original poster complained about guys hitting on her when he wasn't around and he had to intervene. I would not, under most circumstances depending on the amount of drinks I had, hit on a girl directly in front of her boyfriend, although I would most likely measure him up and may do this, you never know. Lets be honest, its way more fun to visibly rattle the bf than get a number. All that tells me is … | /r/seduction | 06/10/11 12:29 AM |
| 6 | Best ways to get rid of guys (puas) who hit on my gfSpeaking for single people, I'm doing my job well and definitely getting an ego boost if you instantly have to jump in to defuse my attempt at hitting on your girl. All it tells me is you are insecure, your relationship is vulnerable, and you think I am good looking enough to get the job done. But you know what really pisses me off? When I talk to a girl for a few minutes and things seem well, and she randomly drops she has a bf in the conversation. I know not to fuck with that shit and move on.… | /r/seduction | 02/10/11 04:38 PM |
| 3 | Pursuading Women: 7 Tips That Will Change How You Do ThingsThis is too technical, what I have fun to be the simplest way to get women is just straight up think of them as a dude or guy friend, it's weird but this removes that sexual tension and interjects more logic than emotion. It also allows you to be more reasonable in your execution of the interaction. Hey we're friends, are we clicking? Would I actually want to spend more time with this person? Just view them as friends. Looking over how too manuals will not only brainwash u but probably make you … | /r/seduction | 12/08/11 08:02 PM |
| 1 | Grooming body hair (chest, back)You are really hairy, so I would say you should, take some if it down at least. If you have bad back hair definitely do that. Also I would recommend nair hair remover. Wont grow back as thick and quick. But I do think women generally don't mind one way or the other, my girlfriend hated it when I removed my chest hair cause the stubbles were annoying she said. | /r/seduction | 29/05/11 07:30 PM |
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