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FDS RESCUE MISSIONthe_ghost_of_/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 10:59 PM
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QUEEN SH*Tthe_ghost_of_/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 01:18 AM
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This is the thing I miss from my ex.... who turned out to be a LV porn addict. When it came right down to it, he sure could get in deep with me in conversations. It was the first thing that drew me to him. It's so important to be able to just talk to your partner. How can men live their entire lives not communicating?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/21 02:58 AM
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My mom died of cancer in 2016. She'd been with my "Stepdad" (IE: she'd been his forever girlfriend), with two of his kid. She told me over and over.... "I hate your father (not my stepdad, my biological father), but he could have a conversation!" I never really understood what she meant, but I do, now. My ex porn addict, my ex serial killer.... They were both narcissists, of course, but hey. They could have a conversation. No wonder my dad could have a conversation. He was a narcissist, too. Fuc…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/21 02:55 AM
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While I think a lot of these are fake, I'd hate to be the woman on the other side of our assumptions that she's not real. She needs our help. These men make these fake posts to make women less credible.... We must believe women. ​ ​ REAL WOMEN.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/21 02:51 AM
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I clicked on this just to comment how much I want to THROW UP at this screenshot.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/21 02:50 AM
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I agree.... reading those subs literally gave me brain cancer that has taken years to silence. It just.. It's like porn. We know it's bad for our mental health, we have to not read/watch/seek it out. Lucky for me, I voiced my opinions in a fabulous way and they all blocked me. Maybe that's a good option? But fuck all those questions. Realizing how many young women are literally being groomed and raped right now by asshole piece of shit males makes me so fucking BID MAD, ugh. Anyway. Thank you fo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/21 02:21 AM
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I've never understood cultural appropriation when people are honoring the art/craft/practice. (Obviously if people are making fun, duh) But.... Wouldn't we all want more people to learn about and invest in our culture? Or should we gatekeep and then wonder why more white people don't indulge in our cultural norms or take an interest? We can't shove white people up against a fence that say LEARN ABOUT MY CULTURE but NEVER EVER EVER EVER USE IT! .... the fuck? Sorry, that just seems SO counter-int…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/21 02:18 AM
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Men only watch indie movies for the tits and we all know it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/21 02:11 AM
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THIS. I started my wedding photography career with my porn-addict ex and he complained to all of his exes about how I spent all of my money on my photography equipment instead of bills.... He made $17/hour and told me he wanted to support me while I pursued my dream. 4 years later, I'm a locally recognized wedding photographer. He works at Dunkin Donuts. We are not the same. If I'd taken his resentment for what it was, I could've escaped much earlier, but that's what it was - contempt.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/21 02:11 AM
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Looking back, I see this saved me once. I asked a man this at a bar once and he laughed in my face. I had an awful night. I cried mascara all over the bathroom and did shots to assuage my bruised ego. I went home with my friends and got home safe. Who knows what would've happened if that asshole hadn't been so egocentric to scoff at my interests.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/21 02:07 AM
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I didn't even read the post, but I 100% agree. The only men that have ever valued me are men that knew they had zero fucking chance.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/21 02:01 AM
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And they cry and wonder WHYYYYYY no women want them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/21 01:59 AM
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Okay, see, as a photographer, "dating app" photo sessions are actually pretty common, usually men, though, since they can't take a decent selfie, but it actually helps them a lot - Because the photographer is doing the posing and usually has some input on the location/styling. BUT.... to be honest, I've never had a guy over 35 even REMOTELY interested in something like that, so yeah, any man over 45 doing this in a weird, creepy photoshoot kind of way and not in a "This could be a professional h…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/21 04:24 PM
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My ex slammed my laptop shut after I put monitoring software on it back in my pick-me days trying to help his porn addiction.... When I caught him looking at my best friend's boudoir photos that I TOOK OF THEM on MY OWN FUCKING LAPTOP cuz lord knows he didn't have one of his own.... He slammed it shut. It crashed the hard drive. He claimed it was an accident.... All of the photos of my late mom were on there. Lost, forever. Along with countless client photos because I'm a photographer. I'm prett…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/21 04:04 PM
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I fell for that one a few times before.... He was sexually molested as a child. It broke my heart. I bent over backwards to save him. We haven't spoken in months, no contact, but I still feel suicidal over him and the hell he put me through while I tried to lift him up. He made it very clear he knew he was depressed and had issues but if I was patient, we could work through it and support each other.... Guess by support each other, he meant that I should just shut up and leave him alone to his p…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/21 01:52 AM
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I dated a guy who's best friend was his ex. Guess who he was still jerking off to? Just had a guy invite me out platonically, even though we used to bang. He basically unloaded on me his recent ex, who he was still involved with sexually, was pissed he was with me. Triangulating me with her, claiming he wanted to be just friends.... His hands said otherwise when we were alone. He wanted more than just friends from me, so no. Men cant be friends with exes. Its the same as keeping their harem.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/21 01:47 AM
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I hope she just dumps him now that she's seen his true colors. When it comes down to illness or children, he won't see it as an obligation to take care of her or the children, either.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/21 07:35 PM
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I literally just got burned within the last few days by this idea. Don’t do it. In the past I fell for this too. Never ever again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/21 07:04 PM
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My partner actively puts other things before me and our emotional connection - like porn or social media.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/21 03:54 PM
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And shockingly - men have never had posters of old women on their walls.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/21 03:18 PM
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Yep, because they are so deluded in their ponsick fantasies, they are literally removed from reality - therefore, they are 100% emotions and zero chill which often leads to abuse or murder.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/21 07:02 PM
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This is so interesting to me. The line "-- that smirk, especially when talking about things that aren't particularly funny: entitled, dismissive, avoidant, afraid, arrogant, and always insecure" -- I literally had to stop reading for a second. My ex. He'd get this look on his face when he talked about people or things he didn't like, and it all started with this little smirk. I even told him about it on one of our first dinners out together. I said, "You get this look on your face sometimes. I j…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/21 06:55 PM
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It also cost my parents each of their marriages and also cost me the best relationship of my life. Porn is insidious.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/21 09:24 AM
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I tried to tell my daughter about how dangerous being choked was. A month later, her boyfriend has his hand around her neck at Homecoming in a photo while she rolls her eyes back and sticks her tongue out. SOO CUTE..... NOT. I snapped at her about that. She literally didn't even take the photo down, just changed the caption: "No one was harmed in the making of this photo". Facepalm. I have failed as a parent. My daughter is too old at this point to change her mind (She's 16, so obviously, she's …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/21 09:18 AM
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This is why we disagree with a man about an opinion on date one - to see how he handles stressful situations like this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/21 09:11 AM
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Polyamory is just a scam, in my opinion. I've yet to meet a single person it's EVER worked out for, and in my experience, I found out I was in a poly relationship after it ended -- When everyone around me said, "But weren't you in an open relationship? He said you guys were poly and open!" .... Oh, that's why ya'll kept it hush hush when he brought other women around? Cuz you thought I KNEW and was COOL with it? Ahuhhhhhh. Eye roll.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/21 08:30 AM
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PLEASE share his reaction. PLEASE. I just need to know.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/21 08:27 AM
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Your fiance is the company he keeps.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/21 11:52 PM
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They KNOW we're smarter, more articulate, more capable, and that given the chance, we'll take over the world. They have to keep us down to stop that from happening. Hence: Patriarchy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/21 08:50 PM
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THIS is the kind of post I needed today. Thank you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/21 05:06 PM
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Just curious - Any tips on repressing emotions in the face of abuse? I've gone the opposite way - I tend to flip out at the slightest perceived abuse now, LOL.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/21 04:51 PM
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AND as a woman who's tried to just "fuck them more", THAT DOESNT EVEN WORK. Half the time, they dont want to fuck you - They want to fuck the girls on pornhub.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/21 04:46 PM
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Okay, this makes sense, sure, but around the 2 minute mark, I clicked in and yelled BULLSHIT. Men think their relationships would be better and they'd show us more intimacy if we just fucked them more? NAHHHHH SIS. This is some more Men-As-the-Victim BULLSHIT. The fact that men are SOCIALIZED a certain way does NOT hold a fucking candle to my actual human needs. Men KNOW they are expected to show emotions, they KNOW repressing them is unhealthy. They just care more about impressing their dude br…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/21 04:46 PM
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It has definitely painted my friendships in a different light. Now I see these relationships for what they really are. My best friend is a beautiful woman who is trapped with a LVM.... But he doesn't hit her. So I think he'll keep her captive for a long time. My other closest friend is 10 years my junior and thinks she knows more about the world than I do. I watch men use her for sex constantly, but she thinks she's in control. Even my "friendship" with my daughter has been affected. Now I see h…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/21 05:15 PM
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I just want to say - How have I been alive this long and never knew this guy had a British accent? He's suddenly much hotter.... Especially because he recognizes this LVM's behavior, LMAO.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/21 04:35 PM
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Same. I wish yesterday me knew this. Shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/21 04:34 PM
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So glad you left him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/21 04:32 PM
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Daddy issues. Daddy never loved them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/21 02:44 PM
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We should get rid of the term Karen altogether. It's just a crappy term used to silence women every time we speak up and there really is no male equivalent, because men aren't seen as unreasonable or hysterical when they voice their opinions, but we are.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/21 02:38 PM
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This is so true. In th last year I've kept my place to live and realized how much easier it is without a man usurping my money and energy. Financial freedom is truly the key to happiness.... They say money doesn't buy it but just like everything else, they lying.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/21 06:22 PM
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Fwiw, I also have a lot of tattoos and look alternative, so not sure if that's also contributing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/21 12:22 PM
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Ugh. :( Im sorry for you and your puppy. I had to take my kitten to the vet a couple months back because she fell off the cat tree and her tooth cut through her lip and I wanted it looked at, cuz she wasn't eating. My usual vet, a nice lady, wasn't there and, we saw a man instead. He wouldn't even listen to me or my daughter, looked at her, said she was fine and left within three minutes, dismissing my concerns. He wasn't even rude, just so quick to walk out, I was shook. I swear, they literally…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/21 12:22 PM
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I've never read VC Andrews but I used to listen to the podcast MFM and they talked about this book specifically and how, rereading it now, they see it's really gross. I saw this post title and was like what???
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/21 11:58 AM
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Queen.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/21 11:03 AM
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"They mean nothing to me." Yeah, that's why you threw away our three year relationship for them right?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/21 11:00 AM
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I wouldn't pretend with my ex. He very quickly turned back to his porn addiction once he realized I wouldn't be a performer for his ego and actually expected him to make me cum. They only use us for their pleasure and their ego.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/21 10:46 AM
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All my exes have the murder eyes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/21 10:37 AM
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THIS IS WHY KAREN IS A SLUR.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/21 02:18 AM
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Your little quips don't bother me at all, but please continue to try to discredit me. Peer reviewed - Reviewed by which peers? Male peers? Reputable journals ran by who? Men. Scientists are usually who? Men. Viewing the world through a lens of only your own experience is the only one that makes sense to a narcissistic mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/21 02:34 PM
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I've been physically attacked and taped by incels. Guess I need to get raped more than 5 times for it to count.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/21 04:47 PM
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No blood vessels burst here. Just single and not having to take care of a grown ass adult man and happy about it. I'll take my experiences over biased "research" put out by men to groom women into thinking marriage is good for them when it's literal slavery.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/21 04:46 PM
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I just ask them if they'd rather stock shelves or get anally pounded by a big black dildo on a fuck machine while getting punched in the face, choked, and jizzed on for 8 hours straight everyday?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/21 06:56 PM
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My daughter's 15 now, but I'll never forget the feeling of terror when after 2 days, they handed her to me, gave me my shit, and said BYE! I'm like.... that's it? Now I have to do everything all alone? I still have a fucking ice pack on my vag for christ's sake! There's no sympathy for mothers in the human species.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/21 06:49 PM
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And also because they're dangerous and we need to look out for ourselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/21 06:37 PM
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Misogynist comment of the day goes to:
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/21 06:20 PM
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I mean, how many women are married to men that ACTUALLY carry 50/50 of the child-rearing, housework, and contribute FAIRLY financially? How many women are married to overgrown porn addicted video-game losers that would wear the same clothes for weeks on end if they could? I tend to think WAY more women are married to misogynistic pieces of crap than the opposite, since those kinds of men are just far less prevalent in our society due to toxic misogyny. Henceforth, I find that more married women …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/21 06:12 PM
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Every year I get older, I get hornier. (Female) It's literally on my mind all the time, and driving me CRAZY... and I'll be 34 this year. I wasn't horny so much as I wanted affection when I was younger.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/21 06:03 PM
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Just like the laundry, if they play dumb long enough, we usually just give up and do it ourselves. They're so lazy and entitled.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/21 05:41 PM
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Just look up Chris Chan and you'll see how truly fucked up some of them are to their mothers. It's disgusting. Your poor mom. :(
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/21 05:24 PM
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You literally just explained my last two serious relationships to me. It's eye opening to read it so plainly and see behind the mask these guys all wear - that they literally do this shit on purpose. It's .... insane.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/21 03:20 PM
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My uncle Jeff turned out to be a pedophile. He molested my daughter. :( Definitely no Jeffs....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/21 03:03 PM
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Buying one right now to wear specifically to the gym.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/21 02:41 PM
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Oh they definitely do - they're just too busy jerking off 5 times a day in the bathroom and then claim they have no libido, LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/21 02:28 PM
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I did. It's hard cuz his sister has me booked as a vendor at her wedding but I did block. He already knows and so does she.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/21 04:35 AM
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This happened to me, today. A man said, lets do coffee Monday? I already acuescied cuz I know him. He said, wanna play it by ear on time? I said sure, just to see what would happen. It's Monday, 2 hours after said location we decided upon closed, and not a single message from him. IF THEY WANTED TO, THEY WOULD. I knew when he didn't confirm with me yesterday it wasn't happening.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/21 06:53 PM
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Compared to ALL men in America? I mean.... it's still a chance.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/21 06:50 PM
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I was going to start crying, however I realize, it's not officially done yet.... But it's still SOOOO incredible! This gives my tiny, dead, blackened heart a sliver of hope that somewhere, someone.... sees that misogyny is literally killing humankind.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/21 06:46 PM
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Atrocious. I went to a party with some girls I didn't know super well, but we all went to school together. I had one beer, barely had three total drinks out of it, before I started feeling sick. I was young, only 18 or 19, but wouldn't have been feeling that sick from one beer. I had left my beer in the living room while I went into the kitchen with some other people, so I know my drink was left alone. I'm pretty sure I know who did it. I went out to the back porch because I was feeling so messe…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/21 01:13 PM
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I am a true crime aficionado. I'm literally listening to a podcast about it right now. I eat, drink, sleep, and BREATHE True Crime! I've been dying for something like this to come out for forever, but never considered ever being a part of it, but that would be SO cool. Either way, I'll definitely be listening!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/21 12:57 AM
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100% agreed. All of the porn they watch, they know where the damn clit is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/21 07:22 PM
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My vision went black when I got my IUD inserted and I wanted to throw up, it hurt so, so bad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/21 07:13 PM
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God if I could just en masse spam this to EVERY scrote on this fucking website..... Perfectly said.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/21 04:18 AM
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Check Check Check Check....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/21 04:06 AM
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Well you know, showing ANY kindness to women, even sexually, makes them a simp and they just cant have THAT....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/21 04:00 AM
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It takes her so long because she's developing an aversion. Wow. This explains SO MUCH with my porn addicted ex. At first, I was a fountain of orgasms.... Once I found out about the porn, the betrayal, the lies? I couldn't cum, even with my vibrator, when we were together. It's like my pain put up a wall where I just couldn't feel pleasure with him. I think it was my body's way of protecting me and saying - Hey, this drug is hurting you, we can't let any endorphins escape or YOU will never escape…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/21 03:56 AM
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It drives me mad when people misuse the plural form of woman. She is not a women. FFS. It's pathetic how women have been so socialized to put their desires in a box under the bed just to please the egos of their pathetic loser boyfriends/husbands who STILLLLL after years cannot figure out how to TRULY pleasure a woman (probably cuz they watch so much degenerate loser porn).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/21 03:53 AM
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Rude to service workers? BAD IN BED.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/21 03:52 AM
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As a teen mom who wasn't educated when I was taken advantage of by a low-value scrote, I kind of wish this comment wasn't quite as crappy as it feels. I'm a smart woman, but I was young and didn't know better. I wish this sub was a little friendlier to those of us who found FDS a little later in life. I didn't know what I was doing back then. I do now and I try to educate my daughter to be better as well, but reading comments like this almost makes me feel like it's my fault I didn't know better…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/21 12:31 AM
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Living with your boyfriend shouldn't mean being a bangmaid.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/21 12:16 AM
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I would literally cry over the cum-soaked socks I would find not in the laundry baskets. If you're going to jerk off to porn and be a total degenerate piece of SHIT, at least put your cum socks in the fucking laundry basket. But nah. I won't accept any of that anymore. If they watch porn, jerk off into socks, or can't put clothes in the fucking basket, they're worthless.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/21 12:15 AM
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I have a male friend, lets called him Morgan. Been friends for 10 years, met through my boyfriend at the time. He's made it clear he likes me, and he still comes and helps me anytime I need, despite me telling him it's not like that between us. I now ask him for help anytime I need it. He gets to see me, which he wants, and I get helped, which I want. Then he leaves. That's the only kind of male friendship I want.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/21 11:42 PM
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They only think with their dick. Their dick is literally ALL that matters to them. He knew he had a better chance of fucking her than you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/21 11:34 PM
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Charles County Health Department.... LOVE LOVE LOVE
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/21 11:28 PM
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Lost interest after the first time we had sex. Would lose his erection during sex when we "switched positions". Couldn't cum during sex, pretty much ever. Men that talk dirty right off the bat in a gross way -- obv. porn. Dirty talk can be sensual, sweet, and loving, but not with a stranger, and not with a porn addict. Negative comments about women's appearances. Negative comments about your appearance. Negative comments about YOU in general. Brings up any porn-induced fetishes.| HE CANT GET IT …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/21 07:22 AM
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I so agree with this. As a child of a family that's "won awards" in our town, call them out. Public humiliation is a fabulous tool, and what are they gonna say? "She's evil!" .... Cool. Well, you can't get it up for anything other than teens, so who's the real bad guy, here? Time Discovers Truth.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/21 07:19 AM
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THIS, even with a father present, is how entitled ass men are created. How sad. God, girl, please escape! You deserve PEACE over all else!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/21 07:17 AM
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Thank god you ran.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/21 07:16 AM
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I really fear for this woman's life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/21 07:14 AM
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Can we start an entire sub of said photos? I'd be very happy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/21 07:10 AM
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So do you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/21 06:46 AM
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Please don't accept a beautiful home over emotional health. As a child from that situation... It just doesn't work out the way you want and your child deserves a way better life than this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/21 06:46 AM
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This gives me ideas on marketing campaigns for a product aimed at making men insecure. I know that's not "right", or a solution, but dang, it sure would be nice to see them knocked down a peg or two, considering they're already in Hell will how low the damn bar is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/21 06:43 AM
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Our natural bodies will NEVER be enough for them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/21 06:40 AM
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Most men I've dated never even deleted their online dating profiles, come to find out.... Beware, ladies.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/21 02:32 PM
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I'm a firm believer at this point that BPD is literally CPTSD and so why do all women on FDS have CPTSD? Couldnt be the abuse we've all suffered at the hands of men....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/21 02:31 PM
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Oh no, time I don't have to spend begging for affection, begging him to quit watching teen porn, begging him to pick up his dirty socks or do the dishes, begging him to help with the child care, or the bills, begging him to mow the lawn instead of watching onlyfans, begging him to come see me in the hospital while i die.... Naaaah, I don't beg men for shit anymore.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/21 02:29 PM
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Unfortunately, I see this the same way, but also with "love". Men don't even care about love.... It's just a tool they use to get laid. :/ Not always, but often. It happened to me. It happened to my sister. It happened to my daughter. Once they get what they want, suddenly, the HV behavior is gone. So important to vet.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/21 07:41 PM
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He just used you for fun and validation for his ego. Block.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/21 05:11 PM
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My ex definitely had an eating disorder. He was skinny fat for sure, only ate one meal per day (dinner, with me, which was usually take out because if it wasn't, he wasn't interested in eating it), and then drank coffee and mountain dew the rest of the time. He'd go days without eating if I wasn't around to initiate a meal. What's sad is he could cook decently, he just cares more about being skinny than being healthy. It's fucked up too cuz he's like 6'3" and 145 lbs.... But when he actually eat…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/21 03:21 PM
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I wish I knew. I've been celibate 9 months or so now and it drives me mad. I have the best vibrator in the world (womanizer pro), I know what I'm doing with my body, and I have NO desire for casual sex, but I can't stop thinking about sex constantly. I'm about to turn 34 and think my hormones are amping up on me, but it's driving me crazy. I don't feel it's entirely a desire for validation... I honestly think it's a desire to fuck, which is natural, but I don't have casual sex, so I'm stuck unti…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/21 05:19 AM
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Crying.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/21 12:57 PM
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I learned this of men when I was a camgirl sexworker. I learned men's nature then, but I still gaslit myself into believing that that wasn't ALL men, that I was painting men in a bad light, that it was ME and my perception that was the issue. Finding FDS reinforced to me that I'm not wrong. I'm actually so right, my feelings, my intuition, it's always been right. Most men are poison.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/21 12:27 PM
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The hours of video games and porn have truly taken a toll.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/21 11:57 AM
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Organs.... Liquefying? Wow. My morning is now .... different. I didn't even know that was possible, but I'll never forget it, LOL.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/21 11:54 AM
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My dad did the same - He would turn the heat off at night and I would literally shiver all night long, even sleeping in bed with my little brother, PURELY for heat. We had separate rooms. We chose to sleep together because it was warmer. I hate that I had to literally spoon my little brother to keep warm (considering he and I are NOT close and never have been, he's a misogynistic prick just like my dad, ofc). I was 13. I remember crying to my mom that I didn't want to go to my dad's house becaus…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/21 11:50 AM
8

He would be WORRIED about his damn kids in that hot ass house and would've put them up somewhere his DAMN SELF, if he had to.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/21 11:45 AM
12

I don't even really like dogs that much (I don't DISLIKE dogs, I'm just a cat person) and I've been seriously considering getting a dog just for protection.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/21 11:42 AM
8

Trust. Your. Gut.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/21 11:31 AM
21

I have tons of work to do, good friends, hobbies. But some days, I just really miss being hugged and kissed. :(
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/21 11:30 AM
23

What do you do when you feel so torturously lonely?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/21 01:46 AM
5

Applying this to men who have an unhealthy obsession with instagram models, porn, etc.... Imagine the chemical bonds these men are making with these women by investing so much time and effort into following, watching, and jerking off to them..... All of that socail energy that could be invested in true intimacy, wasted on sexual endeavors (most of the time). Just makes me sad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/21 08:44 PM
19

This. Not only that - But you can easily see what most men are attracted to via their porn habits. If it's the opposite of you, consider yourself settled for. (At least in my experience, ymmv).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/21 08:36 PM
19

Not only that, my thought with single fathers is - If he was a great father and partner, why isn't the mother still with him? Same with divorced men. Why are you divorced? Instant red-flag to me, and maybe that's me vetting TOO hard, but if some other smart woman already kicked your ass to the curb, why would I want to bother with you? If you were worth a damn, she would've wanted you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/21 07:35 PM
74

Now that I look back, I see a trail of porn starting with my father and every boyfriend I ever had... They're all cheaters, liars, misogynists, and surprise! They all watched a ton of porn. My life was almost lost more than once over the relationships that were the most strung out on porn - not just by my own hand, but a couple of times at theirs. The last guy choked me during a fight and the look in his eyes terrified me. Black. Empty. He snapped out of it and let me go, but later told me, he d…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 08:17 PM
8

He doesn't want to have sex with her. He has his porn. What a total loser. This is the future of men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 09:45 PM
198

And the funny thing is, from what I've heard, her last song and this one aren't doing so great. Probably because she just alienated most of her fanbase that wasn't jerking off to her to begin with.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/21 02:31 PM
342

Yeah, and the newest music video, she's twerking, and while it's all "Girl fun" in the video, its obvious she's sold herself out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/21 01:30 PM
88

Yep - I had a huge crush on Cole Sprouse and then felt sick over it once I realized who he was.... Come to find out, he's only 4 years younger, but I STILL feel gross about it for some reason, maybe cuz he was a child star and I saw him on TV then, just didn't realize who he was when I later saw him in Riverdale. I feel gross even admitting it. Men would have made a whole ass insta fan page and wrote fanfics about that age difference. Eyeroll.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/21 01:30 PM
749

Sad that Billie, who covered up to avoid being sexualized by gross men, is now dating one of said gross men. Disappointed, not surprised.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/21 01:27 PM
4

Its just like when I'd be telling a friend (as a child around 8 yo) my dad was mean to me and my mommy last night.... But then afterwards, I'd cope with "But hes really nice sometimes! Hes not that bad. He goes to work so we have food." I was terrified of him. Even as a child, I knew I had to add in that last line about "Hes not ALL bad though..." It's a cope for women, to try to pander to men, and for the men, it's just a delusion so they can live in this world and not give a fuck.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/21 12:29 PM
11

AND that their depravity is normal and WE are the weird ones, the PRUDES, the HYSTERICAL WOMEN.... It's the ultimate brainwashing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/21 12:26 PM
19

Once I realized the Government is literally all of the most evil people in one big group in control of everything, I gave up on the entire world.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/21 11:46 AM
19

I don't know. I have great relationships with my friends.... It'll still never hold a candle to being held in bed at night when things are rough and having someone's strong arms to cry into, or having someone to rely on when things at my home go wrong. Sure, I can call my friends.... But they're all partnered. It feels like I'm a drain when I'm constantly asking them for help with this or to go do that, cuz I'm lonely. I know my friends love me and have my back 100%, but they can't lay in bed wi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/21 11:38 AM
63

Women need to stop fucking and procreating with LVM and NVM. Then they'll die out and we'll all have an opportunity for a better world. LMAO. Who am I kidding?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/21 11:32 AM
31

My ex would get up immediately, put on all his clothes (after wiping himself off with a towel of course and then throwing it at me), and would go outside for a cigarette. Its like he couldn't get away from me fast enough. So gross.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/21 06:10 PM
9

How did he react? I hope he cried. LMAO.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/21 06:08 PM
23

My porn addicted ex smashed my hitachi wand and my womanizer and threw them in the garbage. Fragile little things, their egos.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/21 06:07 PM
148

Wedding Photographer here. Can't even count the # of times groom complains about the photography part of the day and just wants to get drunk with his bros while the bride apologizes and looks embarrassed and tries to convince him to take just a few more. They're literally like toddlers and they're so drunk and just gross most of the time. I don't even want to get married anymore.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/21 05:21 PM
14

This just enrages me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/21 04:20 PM
6

My last ex. Every. Single. One. Except pressuring me for sex. Little did I know, that's because he was a total porn addict.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/21 04:01 PM
54

Dostoevsky. Which works of his taught you this? I want to read them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/21 03:56 PM
11

"She was annoying and wouldn't leave me alone and then once i realized shes just like my mom and i need a mom til i die, i decided to trap her into being my mom for the rest of my life so i never have to grow up!"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/21 03:41 PM
50

Wearing filters, pandering to the unattainable beauty standards set by men, etc.... It harms ALL women. Even this beautiful woman is STILL wearing a damn filter.... on top of all of that makeup, hair serum, lighting, etc. Even beautiful women need to wear a filter... All it's doing is normalizing this shit even more. As a mom to a teen girl, I see exactly what it's doing to young women, and disagree with the fact that women should be making these feminist message videos while pandering to the pa…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/21 03:28 PM
36

100% agree with her message. 100% disagree with her presentation of it. Stop pandering to what men think is "attractive". It's only hurting the rest of us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/21 02:48 PM
65

Yup. Any man I gave myself to selflessly only wanted more and more and more until I was nearly dead. They get what they want, they don't appreciate it and abuse you. They don't get what they want, they kill you. It's a no-win game for us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 11:24 PM
327

Its gotta be all that pumping, dumping, and negging!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 11:23 PM
68

I think there might be 5 total special men on the earth at any given time. 5. The rest are trash.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 11:23 PM
39

LOUDER FOR THE SCROTES IN THE BACK WHO ARE SECRETLY GAY FOR THEIR BROS!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 11:14 PM
63

Having a baby "ruined" my body. I had my daughter at 17... I've had severe sagging skin, stretch marks, "mom bod" since I was 17 (my body literally didn't even TRY to snap back... I'm 33 and have a huge pouch that STILL has skin hanging from it...). I feel like I never even got to EXPERIENCE my "beautiful" body before it was ruined.... While my daughter is an amazing part of my life, I still feel so sad that I don't get to be beautiful like I did before, or experience sex with a body I'm not rep…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 10:41 PM
145

Just listened to this and I got chills a few times and feel like crying. Porn has been so damaging to me, as a past sex worker, as a child, and as a relationship partner. It's so validating to hear it all laid out and I'm so proud to be a part of this community that's working towards a better world for women and men alike, even if we roast a scrote sometimes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 12:29 PM
32

Wow, this one makes me want to cry. That's so, so scary.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 11:30 AM
46

They want to shut you up because they too watch porn. I just distance myself from people that invalidate my experience. Great post. I feel this 100%.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 11:28 AM
18

I also vote for the Womanizer.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 02:25 AM
4

I know what decriminalization means. The Nordic Model would decriminalize the sex worker and criminalize the sex buyer. How is that more harmful to the sex worker? Because it harms their customer base?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 02:21 AM
1

Ahh, so let the sex workers continue to sell themselves -- that's the solution.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 07:25 PM
58

Perfectly said. I needed to read this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 09:06 PM
105

swerfs unite. As a past sex worker who had to be drunk to get on camera, I concur -- I was at the lowest points in my life at these times. I try to speak out but no one listens. I've been shamed in my community and referred to as "bad porn girl". At least once a year, my photos/videos get shared on facebook and I get slandered. Its exhausting and humiliating. I wish this wasn't our reality.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 08:33 PM
37

Not necessarily picked a fight, but destroyed every place we had.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 08:26 PM
11

Imagine if we said that the men not wanting to fuck men made them homophobic....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 04:49 PM
168

My credit and ability to rent is ruined for this very reason.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 04:32 PM
20

Every chef I've met has thought he was god's gift to the world. Like, cool, you can sautee, big whoop.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 04:21 PM
12

The cat call boosted his ego, most likely. Men love showing off their trophies to other men. My ex told me as much -- He loved having an attractive girlfriend because it made other men jealous of him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 04:17 PM
6

We don't even have 100% nude strip clubs in my town, never have.... So "extras" are always offered in the VIP room. Definitely prostitution at every strip club.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 03:57 PM
3

Exactly. I 100% agree with you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 03:25 PM
2

Men get so upset cuz they know they'll never be able to actually compete with even the bottom of the barrel women. They know they're worthless to us and so they have to try to drag us to make themselves feel better.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 03:17 PM
31

He probably spends more daily on his Only Fans subscriptions.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 09:42 AM
1

LMAO. You're delusional. You're not even operating from the basis of facts. Men are also raped and assaulted by --- shocker --- MEN. That's not misandry. It's more male violence, since men commit over90% of all violent crime. "A CDC study found that, in the US, 1 in 71 men had been raped or suffered an attempt within their lifetime. " " In a 2000 research article from the Home Office, in England and Wales, around 1 in 20 women (5%) said that they had been raped at some point in their life from t…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/21 01:59 PM
0

LOL.... Not being able to play with children in your family? What the actual fuck are you talking about? If your family doesn't want you around the kids, you're the issue. Not misandry. What's funny about the rest of those is.... All of those laws, rules, decisions? Made by men. Not caused by misandry. Try again. Men are in control of the court systems, men are in control of educational funding and requirements, men are in control of literally everything. Why don't you change it then? Probably c…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/21 01:47 AM
1

How does misandry affect your life, other than hurting your feelings? Please give examples.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/21 12:35 AM
1

The difference being the power imbalance between men and women makes misandry a funny idea that doesn't really affect men's lives in any way and misogyny a very real experience women go through every single day. But I'm done debating. You guys refuse to listen to women's experiences, make up your own narrative, and then lay it down like law. It's hilarious. Have fun debating yourselves. P.S. Men commit over 90% of violent crime.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/21 10:05 PM
1

I dont follow TRP bullshit, LMAO, but that certainly explains the waaaaahmbulance you have for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/21 10:03 PM
1

.... So wait. If I ask a man to be HONEST with me and he isn't, and he fucks me over, it's on me to make better choices and not on the guy to, oh, I don't know, not be a piece of human shit? Typical misogynistic rhetoric. "Not all men!" but when you get burned, "Dont know know men are dangerous?? make better choices next time!" It just never fucking ends.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/21 07:50 PM
0

It's hilarious when strangers on the internet think they know me better than I know myself. I am a very empathic person and when ANYONE cries, it breaks my heart, but especially guys, cuz it's just so rare to see.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/21 07:44 PM
3

More "Women are evil" bullshit propaganda. Every time a man cries in front of me, it softens me, breaks my heart. Ya'll know that and use it to your advantage when you get caught cheating..... But women are at fault. Ahuh.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/21 11:33 PM
5

n to believe someone has designed it. It's fleeting because everything happe See, that's cool... Just don't go telling women you want the white picket fence to fuck them and be honest up front you're only looking for sex. It would save ya'll men lots of time.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/21 11:30 PM
0

No one forces men into marriage. They choose it to maintain their image and then drag their wives when they cheat. How adventurous.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/21 11:28 PM
0

"The thing is, women are terrible at committing." That's where I stopped reading and starting laughing my ass off.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/21 11:25 PM
33

50/50 = he's gonna use you for sex and then ghost you most likely
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 09:21 PM
13

He'd get on my last nerve doin all that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 06:34 PM
145

I find smaller dicks are just stabbing me in my vaginal walls and that's why it's painful. It's not that good, full push against your entire genitals that a big dick gives, it's more like a stab-stab-stabby little jab over and over and yes, it fucking hurts.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 10:32 PM
51

"Hypofrontality" is the key. Reduces grey matter in the frontal lobe, leading to impulsive decision making and a lack of impulse control overall -- Hence reverting them to overgrown toddlers with a raging sex drive.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 09:06 PM
19

100% agree.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 09:05 PM
7

Porn addiction. It crippled me emotionally. I'm still recovering. I don't know if I'll ever be the same. Never brushing teeth or taking a shower. Ever. USBs of porn of his exes and using my best friends social media as porn... Caught him jerking off to them. Crushed me. Unhealthy -- 2 packs of cigs a day, 10 mountain dews a day, and one fast food meal per day.... He looks so sick. LAZY LAZY LAZY.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 08:28 AM
8

My ex admitted he watched porn all the time at work in the toilets.... As well as at the gas station nearest our house (especially when we'd get into a fight). Gag.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 08:18 AM
21

I'm single now, but I still jump every time I hear the car door.... My body says "Run!" to my room, to hide, to wait, to see what mood there would be. I don't have to do that anymore. He's gone. And has been gone for almost a year. But everytime I hear a car door slam, I tense up, twitch, ready to run. Sometimes I wonder if those triggers ever go all the way away, but I am so so happy you have a man in your life showing you how you deserve to be treating. Men say this sub is full of female incel…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 07:48 AM
37

The last time I fucked my ex (Dec 13th, 2020), he told me needed to take a shower before we fucked. I Fell for it. Or my brain blocked it out after the trauma of his porn addiction for 3 years straight. I let him seriously go into the bathroom, with his phone, "take a shower" and then come back out to have sex with me. Realizing now he DID have to look at porn to have sex with me, even 5 months after we'd initially broken up. :( Heartbreaking. Porn is a dealbreaker, ladies.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 07:39 AM
6

I make anti-porn tiktoks. The amount of times I've been called Karen is astounding. It is most definitely a slur at this point.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 07:35 AM
10

t's the new "white knight." "Captain Save-A-Hoe"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 07:33 AM
42

" "I Haven't had sex for a while" or "im out of shape" or "you're just so hot I cant control myself" or "it's just from the alcohol/whiskey dick" in regards to finishing fast are his way of saying he is pornsick. " Please elaborate. I understand having PE can be a sign of pornsickness, but I'd love to hear more thoughts on this!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 07:29 AM
8

Also speaks to what he thought of women -- objects. One of the first red flags I ignored. #2 -- He obviously doesn't think too highly of himself if he wants to show off a girlfriend in order to gain status vs. yanno, getting a job, taking a shower, etc.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 07:23 AM
17

My ex specifically said this to me. "I like dating really attractive women because it makes other men wonder why they're with me - my dick, my wallet. It's a status thing." Now, I understand -- He likes a trophy because it gives HIM status among other men. How pathetic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 07:22 AM
6

Women having scrote babies are ruining the world.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 07:20 AM
14

I go through these phases where I question my sexuality because it's so rare that I find a man attractive while my women friends seem to find these dumpy schlubs so appealing. Same. I tend to find very feminine men attractive and it makes me think that if we had a more matriarchal society, where women were teaching empathy to all children from a young age, we'd see a much happier society/species because many more men would be attractive to women on an emotional level to begin with, but hey, what…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 07:14 AM
6

I actually gave this dude a chance. The stubbed toe dude. Just as much of a chode as the rest.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 07:08 AM
12

This one. I swear, once they realized they couldn't control us with marriage anymore, they just stopped trying entirely and now are in an endless state of pouting, tantrum throwing, and jizzing their pants.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 07:07 AM
11

Because they're lazy and want to do the least amount of work possible.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 02:42 PM
18

These messages give me the tiniest, almost imperceptible, fraction of hope.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 11:53 PM
12

Can't wait to listen. I just know that listening to this podcast is going to keep me alive. Thanks for bringing this content and community to women everywhere.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 08:45 PM
5

radical_femme
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/21 04:18 PM
77

This encourages me to get up and get fine tomorrow JUST to make a damn tiktok about this.... Especially after I posted a tiktok the other day about how I wanted to die and got a ridiculous amount of support I wasn't expected, considering my channel is rad-fem and anti-porn. I love these queens on tiktok!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/21 03:58 AM
6

No, they like little girls.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/21 03:10 AM
34

Because they don't want the truth of the sex industry to get out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 07:54 PM
12

Literally put more effort into that text, and into all of his pornhub searches, than he does into showing his gf she's important to him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 07:49 PM
38

Just signed up to piss the scrotes off. Die mad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 07:44 PM
40

Our pubic mound.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 07:30 PM
8

They secretly take joy in it, but they know if they express it, we'll come for them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 04:25 PM
3

We've been broken up since June of last year. Yesterday would've been our 4 year anniversary. He unblocked me on FB and posted our thing, knowing I'd see it.... Then when I finally messaged him, he told me doesn't love me and he has no idea why he unblocked me. I shared our conversation with his current girlfriend.... She took his side of course and blocked me. They both blocked me again. I wasn't even rude or crazy, I just asked if they were still sleeping together since his answer was vague an…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 11:08 PM
10

Thoughts? Two words. Tiny dicks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 01:12 AM
7

There is nothing more true. A man that can DO something competently without me mothering him through it? NOTHING IS HOTTER. A man builds a shed? Fuck me in it. But nope. They'd rather jerk off in mommy's basement and talk mad shit about us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 12:53 AM
10

Wow. Just.... wow. His dick is probably broken.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 12:51 AM
108

But when I post tiktoks about this, they all come out of the woodwork like "mY dIcK sTiLl wOrKs!!!!!" ..... Yeah, to porn, you fucking moron.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/21 03:32 PM
19

Makes me think of the movie/book "Where the Heart Is" where Novalee's friend Lexie gets taken advantage of by a man she meets because he singles her out for her kids before he rapes her, beats her, and does the same to her children. Never trust them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/21 06:54 AM
24

Decorating my new apartment.... I've NEVER decorated anything in my life before, but damn, I am SO IN LOVE with my own bedroom now! Whimsical curtains, 12 pillows in different sizes and textures, faux plants EVERYWHERE. It's all I've ever wanted and I never even tried to do this stuff when I was with my LVM ex because I was too traumatized by his porn addiction to care about myself or what made me happy. I've bought myself a drill, taught myself how to use it, and hung a bunch of curtain rods fo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/21 06:47 AM
6

He sounds like my bratty little brother when he was 9. God. Give me all the cats. At least they're appreciative, sometimes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/21 06:40 AM
5

100%
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/21 06:37 AM
10

YES AND ITS GREATTTTT.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/21 06:32 AM
24

Long Bathroom Breaks Protective of Phone Friends with/following a lot of attractive women on social media Friends with Exes The "Porn Eyes". Just dead eyes that look so vacuous, like they want to suck your soul out. Rejecting sex, making excuses. Commenting on your appearance. Looking at other women in public, even if sneakily. Misogynistic views that spill over into other areas, like politics, feminism, etc. If he has ED.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/21 06:30 AM
14

Nothing because 5'3" Me living alone can't reach that ish.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/21 06:25 AM
15

Am a wedding photographer -- I shot a wedding this weekend. A man with a face tattoo wouldn't leave me alone, going so far as to employ using his son as his wing-man, to corner me and ask me if I liked his dad after he tried to ask me to dance. I am a fierce woman who has a nasty mouth, but I ALWAYS freeze in this situations and can't use my voice to stand up for myself or be direct. Any advice? I did not want his attention at ALL, especially as I was at work.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/21 06:22 AM
18

"My bACk hUrTs" <--- My porn addicted teen-loving ex used that excuse alllll the time. This dude's clearly a porn addict and trying to cover it up with nice gestures like doing the dishes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/21 06:09 AM
23

You just described my ex. He was the first "nice guy", as I'm shallow AF and refuse to date a man I'm not physically attracted to, so I usually ended up with the hot bad boys. This time, I tried something different and where did it get me? Nowhere. But I must say, I'm actually enjoying being single, finally. This post is 100% spot-on. Nice Guys are just as awful as the rest, if not worse.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/21 06:06 AM
2

See, I'm one of those women that really doesn't mind a short man at all - As long as he's my height and I'm only 5'3". The issue is they always have this overcompensating asshole attitude. I actually prefer sex with a shorter man - Much easier to match our mouths and genitals for an intimate exchange (Not that THAT ever happens anymore, so) but just a note for all the angry manlets - I'd date you if you weren't such a low value POS. :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/21 03:23 AM
12

Good. We won't stand for this shit anymore.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 05:51 PM
7

Yep. They're officially broken and trash. Worthless.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 01:46 PM
17

Even the cheaper womanizer starlet is totally worth it. My ex hated my clit suckered. He could never make me cum like that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 01:21 PM
20

Nope. I miss intimate sex, sure, but its been over 10 years since I've had any of that and not for lack of trying. I miss having my best friend that I can hug, make-out with and just BE together with. So, the total opposite of what men want from women, hence why I've accepted spinsterhood. Its never worth the pain it causes and I know everything they're saying is just lies. I can't even take a man seriously anymore. I get angry when they hit on me, even politely. I know all they're doing is play…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 01:16 PM
27

Where can I rent this dude?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/21 03:07 AM
4

This is the encouragement I need. Thank you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 05:23 PM
34

This is so hard to hear. I've been her so many times. Hysterical, documenting the proof, only to be laughed at by everyone and made a joke of. It's one of the things in my life that pushed me the closest to suicide -- How could people be so callous, so sick, so completely disassociated from the obvious pain in my voice, in my words? It makes you feel so small, so sick.... The fact that this is what men aspire to is proof that I really have no reason dating at all, ever again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 03:52 PM
15

I literally dated a meth baby porn addict and he was just as awful as the hot man with the huge dick.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 03:49 PM
15

LOL when "love" to them means jerkin it to porn 14x a week and ignoring everything I say, sure. That's totally enough. NOT.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 03:46 PM
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Abusers aren’t hiding behind kink, it’s kink itself that is abusive. THIS x a fuckin' million. OVER AND OVER AND OVER AGAIN. FFS.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 03:42 PM
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Same. People think I'm crazy cuz I snap off at the slightest things sometimes, but when I feel that slight abuse again, sometimes it takes me right back there, and I hit fight instead of fawn now and I lash out.... But I'm "BPD". Eyeroll. Also 30s. Theres a reason men like young women -- Not just because they're "hotter", but also less traumatized and less likely to recognize the abuse.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 03:32 PM
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I just cackled so loud my neighbors probably heard. YES.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 03:29 PM
5

I love ya'll.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 03:27 PM
14

Sometimes this sub just makes me want to die. Men are truly fucking worthless.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 01:50 PM
15

YES. YES. YES. Thank you for this post.... My ex, too, chose porn over me. He thinks he got the better end of the stick cuz he now gets to go to strip clubs and get lap dances.... But in ten years, when he's still sucking down cigarettes outside of a strip club, feeling the sting of abandonment while I'm busy loving myself and nurturing my life, he'll finally figure it out and I'll just be so god damn long gone, it won't even matter. I'm angry, too. I'm furious, enraged, I could smash a fucking …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 12:55 AM
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I want to scream and never ever stop screaming.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 11:02 PM
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I saw that post, too. Heartbreaking that all a woman wants is to be seen and loved and men act like a fuckin PRESENT is too anxiety inducing, yet expect us to deepthroat and do anal for them? Fuck these losers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 10:47 PM
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THIS!!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 10:44 PM
6

Same....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 10:42 PM
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When I was younger, I became a cam girl because I thought sexualizing and objecting myself was the only way to gain a man's love. Now I know that all I did was hurt myself more, trying to compete. I nearly killed myself so many times, begging, pleading with God - Why can't I just be beautiful enough? This post hits home today, especially as I'm looking into plastic surgery. Thank you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 10:40 PM
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Yup.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 05:31 PM
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Not exactly, but thank you for asking. I'd rather not say, though! All the love.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 03:37 AM
4

Apalling.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/21 03:29 PM
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We NEVER stop feeling sorry for them. They are brainwashed, they are victims. How do I know? I used to be one of them. Thankfully people never stopped shoving this shit in my face until I woke up. Never assume a woman's life isn't worth saving.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/21 03:28 PM
11

I've had people not use my business because I'm anti-porn. It can be very detrimental, but I applaud you for standing up and sharing. We are the pioneers of the anti-porn movement.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/21 03:24 PM
3

Success Story: NOT. BEING. HIS. WHORE. ANYMORE.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/21 02:58 PM
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Yep. Kids are a deal-breaker, especially younger ones. It always involves another woman and drama and unless she's willing to meet me and be on a friendly level, he's not a trustworthy guy. How his BM feels about him will say it all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/21 02:57 PM
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I just came here to say -- The Womanizer (Worst name EVER) is hands down the only vibe I can use now. Nothing compares. NOTHING.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/21 02:52 PM
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LMAO OK. My FAVE answer from a scrote, cuz you know they literally know they can't argue.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/21 02:51 PM
4

Yep! I had a serial cheater ex with the best dick I've ever had, but he also knew how to use it (no foreplay though, douche), but he was a cheater, so.... Not worth it. Last dude had an exceptional dick. Not the biggest, not the best, but definitely in the top 85%, and he could never get it hard, unless for porn.... What a TOTAL WASTE of the ONLY job you've ever had, LOL.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/21 02:42 PM
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It wasn't an autocorrect. I meant bananas, LOL. But I learned something new about Bonobos today!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/21 02:40 PM
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I can relate to this -- I see my daughter's smooth, young skin, her well-defined jawline and her adorable little nose and just can't believe that I ever hated those things about myself. I see the beauty when I look at younger photos of myself, too -- Clear blue eyes, long blonde hair, thick thighs and a small waist. I'd give anything to go back to that girl, to start it all over, but I'll just have to try to help my daughter on her journey, but I have to also mention -- My daughter is 16 this Se…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/21 02:39 PM
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I suppose this post wouldnt hurt so damn much if I didn't feel that the only time I've ever received approval from a man was when I was beautiful. Men withhold love from their wives, children, etc.... And then we grow up, striving for that love, no matter how we have to get it -- even via libfem toxicity -- and when we wake up, well, we end up on FDS. I've been meaning to read the Beauty Myth by Naomi Wolff. I feel like despite having not read it yet, I already know what it's going to say and as…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/21 02:34 PM
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Not only that - Women go to the bathroom in packs because DESPITE sex-segregated bathrooms, we know we're still not safe in them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/21 02:26 PM
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I thought it was because we shared the highest DNA percentage with chimps? Although don't we also share a realllly high DNA percentage with bananas?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/21 02:25 PM
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Connections were made long ago. We just get silenced from repeated this connection under the guise of "misandry".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/21 02:23 PM
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This is proof of how porn damages men --If they dont want to hear how it hurts women, they should read this comment. DUDE HAD A HUGE DICK - Literally the holy grail in terms of natural dickitude, and he wasted it, ruined it, and hated himself -- all because of PORN. See dudes? It hurts you too. This guy could've been a God in bed and had AMAZING sex. Instead? He's broken his dick to porn, like the loser he is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/21 02:21 PM
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Spent 3 years going through this and was constantly told it was my "body", my "personality", my "attitude". I "made him feel bad about himself" and he needed to see "new bodies". I have years of recovery ahead of me because of what he did to me over his sick porn obsession. I can't stand to look in the mirror and feel like I'll never be able to have sex with a man again, even if I wanted to. They'll all look at me and think I'm too ugly, or go soft. The fear is so great in me, I don't know that …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/21 02:18 PM
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I sea what you did there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/21 10:57 PM
11

My mom drove over to her house and threatened to beat her ass if she ever touched her children again. It was pretty awesome. She wanted to beat her ass then, but she kept threatening to call the cops like the little bitch she is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/21 10:49 PM
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Same.... Finding "Latina Teens" magazines when I have a half Mexican teen daughter was the last straw for me that ended in me chucking those magazines at his head. It's been 8 months, I'm still devastated and feel sick every time I think of it. The nicest men will deceive you the best.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/21 01:10 PM
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You're on the only one, basically.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/21 01:00 PM
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THIS. I've been told I'm "too angry", "too emotional", "too loud" when I'm mad .... I also have told every single one of these men that cheating on me will lead to this outcome. What do they do? Cheat. Lie. Betray. Abuse. And then they get mad at ME when I have a big reaction to their BS. Dude, FUCK YOU. You did this, not me. I'd probably be on my knees if you weren't such a POS, but look at us now. Cuz of you. They're morons.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/21 12:45 PM
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Same with their kids -- My ex stepmom hit my little brother the first time we met her. HUGE red flag.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/21 11:56 AM
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My roommate's boyfriend set my ferret loose during the winter. We never found her. My heart breaks for that poor baby. He also abused their puppy. Ladies, there's a reason animal abuse is a red flag, and it's cuz that's where serial killers start.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/21 11:55 AM
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It's hilarious to me that most men say that we'll never find a man like this... They're admitting that they're worthless.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/21 11:40 AM
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100% agreed. It was once I realized that my PA ex literally didn't care that I was on the brink of suicide that I had to accept the truth: He never loved me, and he will never be capable of loving me or anyone else, because he's ruined himself with porn. Pornsickness it he #1 reason I am now avoiding men. They don't care when they hurt us -- In fact, my ex said part of the thrill eventually became hiding it from me... Literally, the act of betraying me began to turn him on (or most likely always…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/21 11:49 PM
3

Just pathetic. No woman wants to date a crybaby.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/21 02:09 PM
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This is literally terrifying....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/21 12:58 AM
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I agree that 99% of men are pornsick. It's made me very, very sad because I just will not accept pornography use in my relationship, ever again. I feel so, so sad because I don't think I'll find a man that isn't pornsick, and I'm 33, but I appreciate this post. I'm glad to see other women recognize this, even at other ages. When I try to mention this to my friends, they shrug it off, it's no big deal, but I know the truth. Men these days are completely ruined, like they were even worthy of redem…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/21 12:47 AM
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I was a member here before I got my account 187'd around the time gendercrit went under. I'm so glad to see this sub has grown so much and glad to be back. Maybe this is what I need to shake me out of this funk. I've been free of my dbag porn addicted ex for over 6 months and I'm still heartbroken and wishing he would come back. I need to read this sub everyday to keep my head in the right space. It was reading here everyday that lead me to kicking him out to begin with, and now he's (of course)…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/21 02:35 PM
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