Men who watch porn, masturbate to nudes, visit strip clubs, or subscribe to Only Fans while in a relationship gaslight their partner(s) and make up the most illogical excuses.

They desire their last day as a bachelor to be ogling another woman's breast and ass, "the last day of freedom". If you imagine your 'last day of freedom' with another woman (stripper) then why are you in a monogamous relationship? Same applies to married men who spend their children's college tuition on strip clubs. Often times the excuses for his crude behavior is that he's a visual creature whatever the hell that is , that you're jealous and insecure, or he proceeds to compare you to an object. Cue the casual analogy that men don't want to eat stake everyday so that is why he lusts after other foods such as pizza.

Please enlighten me how it's possible to expect to raise kind intelligent children when your 'hubby' objectifies women on a daily. No, she's not insecure or jealous Kyle it's called respect no woman wants a man who obtains wandering eyes, no one wants to hear "that's why your man in my likes", nor does she want you to compare her to porn stars. Many women try to be the 'cool gf/wife' which the outcome is in no surprise unpleasant. Bottling up your emotions doesn't solve the problem as shown on AITA relationships, I believe most of us have seen the post when a woman's husband bought a stripper for his son's birthday in a basement.

Men will get mad if their wife has an Only fans, strips, or takes promiscuous photos on Instagram. They don't like it when their homeboy jack's off to his girlfriend's photos nor do they enjoy other men objectifying and dehumanizing us as he does other women. He only takes pleasure with his homies masturbating to his gf if he leaks her nudes, men love getting validation from other men. Male pleasure revolves around hurting women physically and emotionally, for instance breaking their significant others trust. Then they get butt hurt when women win custody, maybe you shouldn't have had your hand around your d1ck all the time and spent time with your lovely children and wife. Multiple statistics have proven the negative side affects excessive porn consumption has on relationships, what it does to men and women.

Please spare me of healthy porn consumption, sorry but I personally don't believe it exists. "It's just a fantasy" or "he comes home to you" are both poor excuses and such flawed logic. Just because it's a fantasy doesn't mean it's not morally wrong to add on, child p0rn is a fantasy so is race play but that doesn't mean it's okay... It doesn't matter who he comes home to, cheating is cheating. You would be upset if you found another person grinding and shaking their tits/ass/d1ck in your partner's face while your S.O groped them. Why is there a difference when money is involved?

My apologies for the lengthy post, just wanted to get this off my chest since I don't have any radfem friends to speak about this with. Have a good day queens and remember to never settle!