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This is true
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 07:42 PM
2

It's not a good look and generally a big red flag
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 05:17 AM
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This is very much true. My partner used to follow these types of women on IG and if I had known about fds I could have avoided this situation completely. These types of men are red flags and I don't consider them to be relationship material.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/22 10:54 PM
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I don't I watch shows that have excessive amounts of nudity unless it's like a crime show or for a use that makes sense. I don't like random/pointlessly sex scenes in my shows and movies. Honestly I look at the parental guide before viewing so I know I what I'm getting myself into.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/22 03:52 PM
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I notice this often. It's absolutely repulsive.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/22 09:37 PM
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Seriously this. It helps women so it can help men too!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/22 12:59 AM
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I love this YouTuber she's so insightful!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/22 06:21 PM
3

It would be straight up over. I will not compromise my boundaries for some low value man! Or anyone for that matter :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/22 08:46 AM
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I think imma 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/22 08:11 AM
52

Holy shit this post is a truthbomb. Thank you for this and all of the insightful comments.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/22 01:07 AM
7

🤣 omggg true
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/22 09:18 PM
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I can't stand him
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/22 05:35 AM
5

Omg noooooo
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/22 05:26 AM
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Wow this was brave to share. I'm sorry to hear this :( hearing more stories about this makes me aware that this is a growing issue or maybe always was. Idk but this pornified culture is definitely not helping and it's depressing asf
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/21 06:26 AM
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Yes I thought I was because I didn't find the majority of men attractive and that got me unsure.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/21 05:47 AM
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I'm so glad she spoke out about this!! It's such a brave topic to speak about and with her being such a big idol today I hope this makes some impact
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/21 12:51 AM
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I definitely was :(
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/21 06:33 PM
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My dad defended me and did express worry because he told me the world was a cruel place
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/21 10:12 PM
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Fun song!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/21 06:36 PM
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She is a supporter of hentai btw she mentioned watching it in a genius vid interview
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/21 09:39 PM
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I'm going to have to watch it. I'm just afraid I'll be triggered
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/21 07:54 PM
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I used to be a dancer. and believe me most of the time something does happen! i've even had stuff happen drunk and sadly I did let my boundaries get crossed. I do think the drinks made the situations a lot worse. However there were girls who were legit prostitutes there and men would meet them after hours. sometimes older ladies would add on top bonuses for them to get extra $$ like bjs and such. it's honestly really sad. A lot of these men are married and don't care. It was super depressing and…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/21 05:43 AM
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Really?!??? I'm so excited to hear this ☺️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/21 07:42 PM
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I've had a male therapist tell me that I should look for a different job because 3k a month isn't gonna be enough. He really didn't believe in me. And now I make triple that amount a month. I'm so glad I didn't give up on myself and did what he suggested
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/21 06:09 AM
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Who is the YouTuber? "Observer?" If so I follow him
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/21 05:57 AM
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😂😂😂‼️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/21 03:45 AM
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Honestly I get so tired of talking with LVM about this and am not afraid to cut people out of my life now. Especially after being a victim of revenge porn and deep fakes and had a partner who was a PA people don't realize how harmful it is but I'm just too tired now to have that conversation. Sometimes they gotta learn the hard way
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/21 07:23 PM
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Yes!!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/21 05:35 PM
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I love her such a throwback!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/21 08:37 PM
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"Pick me!"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/21 06:09 AM
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lol true
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/21 08:31 PM
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Dude this fucking dark and depressing times :(
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/21 05:48 PM
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This is the truth
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/21 03:01 AM
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I agree do think porn is fueling this to some degree
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/21 08:23 AM
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I had it happen to me. Becareful! :(
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/21 04:25 PM
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This!!! I prefer someone just a few inches taller because it's hard for me to reach up for a kiss and to hug them
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/21 05:09 PM
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Sadly true
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 02:37 AM
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THIS it's an epidemic
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/21 04:32 PM
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Yessssss
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 04:24 PM
5

This is true!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/21 08:28 PM
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Can't wait to listen to the whole album!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 04:21 PM
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Glad to have you here!!! ☺️👑✨✨
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 02:45 AM
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Such a great episode and Gail is fantastic!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 05:10 PM
2

🤣🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 05:10 PM
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Haha I love his videos he's very fun to watch
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 04:49 PM
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THIS
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 06:17 PM
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THIS
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/21 03:59 AM
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My bf used to follow him and he ended up being a PA. Warning for you ladies out there. It's a massive red flag!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/21 03:58 AM
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Someone made like 5 deepfakes of me and honestly it's the creepiest thing ever.... Idk how someone even has the time to want to do that. Sick minded scrotes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/21 03:51 AM
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Omg I am reading this book right now!!! And it's really really fascinating. Honestly this book makes me wanna get a concealed gun permit because I would love to defend any incel scrote from harming anyone or myself. My sister was on campus during a shoot out and it honestly freaked me out since. You never think something could happen to you but now n days with these Elliot Rodger worshippers you never know
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/21 03:49 AM
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I agree. And Marina's new music I want to add is really amazinggggg
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/21 03:32 AM
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This honestly sums up what I've been trying to say! Thank you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 11:49 PM
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👑👑👑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 10:42 PM
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Lilith is a queen 👑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 12:17 AM
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Boundaries really needs to be priotized in the dating sphere (srsly wish they had a class on this in school) because it's really about feeling safe in a relationship. I'm tired of people framing themselves or others as being "insecure" and reddit dosent help considering they are so many porn sickos on here the overall majority of people just want to defend themselves and project
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 09:43 PM
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This was honestly the case for me most of my life until I entered a relationship where someone actually cared and tbh it was really shocking because most of my life it was pretty depressing
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 09:36 PM
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Def a red flag!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 10:46 PM
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This!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 04:11 PM
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I remember my ex bfs friend told him he was pussywhipped. And then my ex bf told me he didn't want to be pussywhipped.. man was I mad. Just to be a respectable human towards your gf and you question yourself. This was like ten years ago but man was I upset. If he only had a backbone or thought of his own and wasn't so dependent on pleasing other males to "fit in"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 02:53 AM
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Honestly this scares me so much ..more of a reason to own a weapon
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 02:48 AM
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🤣😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 02:11 AM
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Exactly 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 02:10 AM
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Yeah it's unfortunate :( but yeah good dialogue in these movies!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 02:05 AM
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WOW this is insane what a world we live in. Ugh this man is literal trash I'm glad these women caught him and recorded him I hope his wife finds out and leaves his ass
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 05:59 PM
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This!!!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 05:55 PM
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Omg this is horrible sorry :(
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 09:34 PM
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I had a guy literally knock on my driver side window I was looking for something in my car and parked my car before heading into a store and I heard some aggressive knocking on my window and I had an anxiety attack it was so scaryyyyyy. All of that just to ask me for my number. Dude. Bad bad tactic. I swear I need to carry a gun or something shits crazy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/21 04:52 PM
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Omgggg I hate those pop up stalls. They are so relentless it's creepy. After I say no they still try
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/21 04:47 PM
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I used to be a sex worker a few years ago. Glad you saw the light and happy you're here 💗
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 04:20 AM
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Whoaaa this actually blew my mind
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 04:13 AM
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Oo I have this book! I have to start it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 04:09 AM
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I liked this video. Her content confuses me but this video was pretty spot on
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/21 12:01 AM
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This is true
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 05:33 PM
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Yess her new song is amazing!!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 11:20 PM
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Omg sameeeeeeee he annoys me
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 04:26 PM
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Lmaoooooooo
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 06:22 AM
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Stays in the bathroom for a longggg time. Super protective of his phone. Follows provocative ig accounts. Acting out porn learned things in the bedroom and telling me to do them for him. These are the things I'm aware of when I found out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 07:38 PM
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😭😭😭😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 07:36 PM
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Even taking a nude photo is bad even if you don't plan on sending it. I got hacked. It happens even if you don't send a photo.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 10:45 PM
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Same. I unfollowed. And of course it was a dude.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 04:53 PM
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It will advance you in today's society however be aware that it can have it's drawbacks like "losing" the feeling of being attractive when you're much older (however remember that that's our cultures fault) pretty privilege is a real thing, I definitely experience it and try my best to look nice in certain situations however it's difficult to maintain this heighten look"" all the time and can be exhausting at times. I just try to be happy with my mental health 💗
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 12:16 AM
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I love her videos!!!!! 👑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 03:36 PM
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Ex sex worker here and I agree with you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 04:06 AM
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Omg I remember seeing that original post on a relationship advice thread. Good for you! I'm proud my queen and so happy you're here 👑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 04:34 PM
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lmaoooo
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 05:52 PM
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Omg this is horrible :'( sorry
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 05:49 PM
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That is true.....those men are sneaky
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 01:16 AM
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How do you date then? I'm genuinely curious. It sucks tbh :(
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 01:15 AM
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So delusional
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/21 09:02 PM
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It sucks that IG got rid of the option of seeing what posts ppl like - def gave away who is a PA. But you can still see who they follow and I guarantee it will weed them out. If they follow lewd girls they are most likely a PA. I say this because I had a partner who followed some porn stars and lewd girls he knew and guess what he admitted to me that he was a PA and he couldn't stop So carefully vet
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/21 08:54 PM
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I stopped buying awards a few months back. I bought awards only to give awards to the posts that speak up against porn. However now that I realize that reddit is my enemy and won't remove my revenge porn images that got posted in a subreddit and won't really help me with my situation (I was hacked - long story anyway it was distressing) anyways now I'm against giving them money and sort of see them as complicit to my harassment. I won't be giving them any more money as they didn't react in a way…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/21 08:48 PM
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I've had this happen except it was like a half a year later and I found out he lied. Believe me when I say this. You will not forgive him you will develop Betrayal Trauma and spend years trying to recover if you stay and that's IF he doesn't relapse if he does than it'll cause more pain. And if you leave sure this will still haunt you but at least you won't be constantly reminded and triggered. He def has a porn addiction and isn't aware of it. It's not going to be your job to help him he needs …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 03:46 AM
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Honestly too relatable 😵
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 08:09 AM
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Honestly he gives me such creepy vibes. After I saw him talking with belle he just rubbed me the wrong way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 07:57 AM
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He's a real one
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 05:26 AM
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This is true
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 05:26 AM
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I love her
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 05:24 AM
6

Omggg truth
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/21 06:01 PM
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I loved this read. It makes so much sense tbh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/21 05:57 PM
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lol even IF he didn't touch himself this isn't acceptable like wtffff
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/21 04:32 AM
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I do the same thing!!!! I can't stand objectification/maze gaze stuff it's kinda bleh to me. I already know they are just trying too hard or trying to sell something/get more views
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/21 04:27 AM
6

I loveee the podcasts! Thank you so much!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/21 04:14 AM
5

Sigh. Thank God he's gone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 05:22 PM
3

This comment is perfection
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 05:36 AM
16

I never felt comfortable at gyms. This makes sense now 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 11:21 PM
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I live right next to one too. Ive never seen him either at least not yet anyway but i am very aware of what he looks like 👀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 04:07 AM
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Honestly not surprised. With all of the revenge porn and pedo porn on here they truly are complicit asses
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 03:52 AM
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Honestly not surprised. Reddit is kinda fucked up
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 03:50 AM
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Yeah that makes sense sadly... Trauma bonding is a real thing :/
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/21 01:10 AM
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I listened to the first episode the other day and it was so fun! Keep it up
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/21 01:06 AM
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I only trust those who know the cognitive functions when talking about mbti. Otherwise it means nothing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 05:24 AM
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This is very true and frightening
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 04:50 PM
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Expanse - if you're looking for something sci Fi I recommend this one
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 05:26 PM
5

Definitely entitlement
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 05:25 PM
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Yikes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 07:30 PM
2

Yasssss I can't wait ✨✨✨
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 07:28 PM
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Same this place helped me tremendously
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 05:50 PM
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Vice can fuck off
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 06:20 AM
4

Thisssss
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/21 07:50 PM
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Rents about the same and I'd have double the square footage here (I solely work from home so it helps) if I spent more than I wouldn't see it as worth the cost. There are other reasons too but yeah it all added up for me like I had a neighbor below us who kept interfering with my work because of sound issues and just in general wasn't enjoying the drama that was going on in my spot
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/21 07:01 PM
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This is kind of my situation at the moment except a lot of money that was put into the house he bought was from inheritance. It's honestly risky. I have a lot of money saved in case something does happen so I won't worry about that thankfully so I'm in a different position and I put a timelimit to how long I will stay in this relationship. However in most cases I would say this is a dangerous and risky situation to be in and my mom even cautioned me early on
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/21 05:03 AM
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Thisssss omggg 😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/21 04:43 AM
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Thisssss
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 03:45 AM
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I'm proud of you!! Porn is a deal breaker for sure!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/21 07:11 AM
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Seriously tho
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 10:22 PM
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rolls eyes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 03:16 AM
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^
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 03:08 AM
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Mega yikkes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 03:54 AM
3

Seriously this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/21 07:24 PM
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This is a very good point to make! I was hacked like months ago for photos taken like 4 years ago and people are posting it on a subreddit. Guys really are clueless....and they truly don't even care it's really messed up they feel entitled to these images but little do they know it is often times revenge porn P.s never take any nude photos of yourself even if it's on your camera gallery and even if you don't send it. because people will hack that shit, I learned the hard way
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/21 07:17 PM
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😭😭😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/21 01:37 AM
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I agree. They did the bare min to help me out with revenge porn that got posted on their site
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/21 01:31 AM
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lmaoooo
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 08:01 PM
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I agree with this. I took a few photos for myself years ago and forgot I even had them. And bam I got hacked and now my images are floating around. It's really scary how quick it happened. You never think it will happen to you but getting hacked happens unfortunately and there's a lot of creepy men out there 😒
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/21 05:20 PM
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Nah, I def upvoted
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/21 12:47 AM
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Yikkkkkes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/21 07:35 PM
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Thisssss
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/21 01:25 AM
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It's okay we grew up in this misogynist society and it's affected us in this way. Heck I used to be a sex worker too! As long as we know now we are good 👑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/21 10:08 PM
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👑👑👑👑👸
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/21 06:51 AM
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Shutting him down 😭🙏 I love it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/21 06:00 PM
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I hope so too!! 🙏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/21 05:35 PM
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Porn has ruined society. I hate it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/21 08:29 PM
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Honestly I'd rather be single now than be with a porn user
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/21 06:09 PM
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Sameee
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/21 04:59 AM
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Yessss this dude gets it!!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/21 03:45 AM
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Same it makes a HUGE difference sadly..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/21 09:31 PM
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I love her!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/21 12:19 AM
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Despite what fds says I actually like this sub they have helped me through a lot of crap that I dealt with - body dysorphia thoughts/pain/sadness. And they haven't pushed the notion for me to stay in my relationship actually the opposite. Especially because I joined so early on when there wasn't many followers there and there wasn't a safe space to talk on reddit about porn's destruction. There's only limited spaces on these websites that actually have an agreement against porn. So I may not agr…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/21 10:54 PM
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I've been there. Never again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/21 09:49 PM
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Someone made a few deepfake porn videos of me. It's lame. And messed up -.-
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/21 09:46 PM
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I want to write about it but I'm afraid to mention because of creepy dudes that lurk. Plus I'm semi popular on social media. But I might make a separate account so I can disclose more info.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/21 03:54 AM
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Haha I sometimes make manscaped ads on my channel and honestly it's fun. Women have been grooming and doing all sorts of stuff for years it's about time men understand what it's like/ promoted
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/21 01:47 AM
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😭😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 06:35 PM
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This is very true
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 01:22 PM
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"FaNtaSy" oh God i
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 01:01 PM
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rolls eyes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 12:56 PM
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This subs view on porn gives me hope for the future
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/21 03:22 AM
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I agree too
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/21 03:21 AM
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I love this comment so much
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/21 02:45 AM
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Exactly
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/21 09:00 AM
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Porn destroyed my bfs childhood. He first watched at age 5 and like had seen childporn and other stuff and it progressed from there on to violent stuff which made him abusive and hypersexual. It's sad. A sad world. This society is scary...and I hope things change.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/21 06:29 AM
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Lmaooo
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/21 09:13 PM
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Damn I didn't know one piece changed I used to watch that show and love it. Sigh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/21 09:01 PM
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Mob psycho 100 is wonderful. I love how they don't focus on hypersexuality
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/21 09:00 PM
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I think parasyte could be added to this list I don't remember it being sexual. However correct me if I'm wrong. Also ajin is amazingggggg I love the manga too ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/21 08:59 PM
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Death parade is amazinggggg
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/21 08:58 PM
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I live in the pnw and this is too damn accurate
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/21 01:12 AM
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I can relate to this 🍵 they thought nothing of it when I brought it up. Definitely a red flag.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/20 03:42 AM
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This is a masterpiece
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/20 09:58 PM
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I kinda was kinky too. And it's weird now I love and crave vanilla sex and it being tender and romantic. It's never been better. Thanks for your post ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/20 10:21 PM
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I wish more men publicly outed themselves so I know who to avoid
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/20 10:12 PM
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I've been physically abused in the past by a bf. He'd choke my if I disagreed with him or confronted him on something that has been bothering me. Pin me to the ground, drag me by my hair. I never hit him back because I was always afraid. Afraid of it escalating. he would shout in my ear and frighten me threatened suicide a few times. Basically I never thought id happen to me. I never in a million years would have guessed I'd been a victim. And it generally happened when he drank he would drink s…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/20 09:42 PM
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I love these anti porn posts. Keep em coming! I'm never dating a porn viewer after what I've been through. I was physically abused by my partner and my partner told me it was from a the hardcore porn he consumed as a kid and later in life, started at age 5. It's crazy how the porn industry brain washes people at such a young age. get them hooked young, it's actually fucked up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/20 08:21 PM
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I did have a guy who hurt me physically because he told me he was brainwashed into thinking hitting was "normal" because of all the porn he watched. This wasn't even bedroom stuff just straight up physical abuse. I'll never date a man who watches porn ever again after that experience. So much trauma from that and I'm trying to recover
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/20 07:59 PM
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I saw that post too and I practice witchcraft. I was pretty disappointed tbh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/20 05:40 PM
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I'm tired of relationship_advice's shitty stance on porn
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/20 05:32 PM
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I was a victim of there exploitation. They kept a revenge porn nude on there of myself and I asked them to remove it because I did not consent to it and they did absolutely nothing. I will never forget how garbage they are! I received a lot of harassment because of it. But now that they removed unverified accounts I'm no longer on there site. Good riddance. Hopefully one day they completely shut down
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/20 07:02 PM
39

Hello girl and welcome 💞🌼
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/20 02:58 AM
1

Basically in a nut shell
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/20 02:00 AM
21

THIS fucking scary
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/20 11:59 PM
11

For a pickmeisha this is much highervalue stance than some other comments on this thread tbh 🧐🧐🧐
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/20 11:54 PM
28

Lewd instagram pics = softcore porn and for a PA that's a way to achieve a similar hit of dopamine. Liking those types of photos is very low value imo
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/20 11:51 PM
4

I'm the same actually. Weirdly enough it usually feels better to me than piv. But I don't do it often because it's sometimes a lot of work to clean up. So piv is usually is for me! And I don't think men should be pushing it on woman because of the normalization of porn it's pretty lame
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/20 12:40 AM
18

Biggest sign would be is that he is following porn or lewd accounts and is liking / commenting on these accounts on instagram/website. He isn't afraid of making his porn sickness visible to the world. It also means that he needs that dopamine hit from these images while mindlessly scrolling through his feed. checking can REALLY weed out people fast you'd be surprised to find how many men follow these types of people or maybe not bc porn sickness is everywhere now bringing his phone into the bath…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/20 12:32 AM
1

Same I'm a witch! Well kinda a Christian witch lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/20 12:37 AM
18

Danganronpa! Hell yeah!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/20 05:08 AM
58

And then he will find a nude photo of her on a subreddit page post a thread about how mad he is and somehow twist this on her. I've seen this all too many times. Yet hes the hypocrite. But yeah it's unfortunate. The normalization of this is shitty and hopefully things change all we can do is be aware of this stuff
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/20 06:24 PM
52

I was reading this earlier. Omg it's horrible ...I hope she leaves him
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/20 05:22 AM
1

I love her!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/20 12:54 AM
2

Yeahhhh this is exactly what I keep hearing too 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/20 09:18 PM
16

That's fucking scary
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/20 01:49 AM
43

I bet he watches porn 🧐🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/20 04:49 AM
17

Queen energy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/20 05:35 PM
10

This is serious the truest thing. So hypocritical.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/20 05:33 PM
8

Ughh do many men tell me I took like this one pornstar and honestly I can see it facially but like......telling me it like wtf. It gets really annoying.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/20 11:43 PM
11

Good job!!!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 08:47 PM
14

This sub is my safe place
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 04:53 AM
2

I feel this post 💯
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 04:52 AM
68

This is the truest thing. I'm an ex sex worker and the amount of men who are hypocritical is astonishing to me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/20 07:51 PM
53

Honestly this is one of the reasons I backup FDS is that they are aware of how harmful porn truly is and they really spell it out well. This probably one of the main reasons I love this sub.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/20 07:49 PM
15

Upvoted. Very true.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/20 04:01 PM
3

She's a queen ✨ and I aspire to be more like her
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 07:02 PM
7

Seriously
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 09:40 PM
4

I've never faked one too
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/20 08:25 PM
4

Omg I've been hit on in a an Uber ride too it was pretty uncomfortable he asked for my number at the very end... FDS is a sanctuary for me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 03:35 PM
2

Thissssssss
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 01:07 AM
7

Porn makes women seen as a commodity rather than a whole person. People always dismiss guys watching porn because it's just fantasy. But these are REAL people with actual lives. Porn has killed our society in many ways harming both men and women. And one day we will realize it - like we did smoking but it'll take some time... My bf is a porn addict and he was groomed into it at the age of 5. It's really sad because it warped his way of thinking. He told me it totally messed him up and that he's …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 12:51 AM
9

Thisssss
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 04:17 PM
6

I vomited
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 09:11 PM
3

THIS
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 04:19 PM
1

Tru
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/20 02:50 AM
3

'more visual' another word for shallow and can get away with it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/20 11:55 PM
18

It's so bad that it's seeping onto platforms like netflix. For an example the new movie called cuties. The sexualization of woman as a whole and girls! Pedophilia is trying to be normalized in our society and we gotta take a stand. They are literally grooming children at a young age while traumatizing them. This society makes me sick sometimes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/20 11:52 PM
6

Imagine now a 5 year old getting access to that type of stuff it's actually crazy. My bf had this happen and it's warped his mind so much :( it's a scary world
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 12:03 AM
6

I always felt like this. And wished I was lesbian because there are always so many pretty women but men not so much. There's a shortage. If dude's even dressed better I'd make a whole lot of difference.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 08:17 PM
3

It's refreshing to see this video get many likes. I'm following her content now :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/20 09:26 PM
30

Our society is fucked
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/20 07:18 PM
10

Katy found a rare one tbh in this day and age
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/20 07:29 AM
7

THIS
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 03:06 AM
6

THIS. This is exactly why I can't have guy friends and I definitely don't keep ex's around because all they do it try to get inside my pants. I have only one guy friend and that's it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/20 04:07 AM
2

This was my bf and damn this is the biggest red flag ever believe me. He came out to me as a PA a year after still following random naked accounts. So ladies if he is doing this it's a high chance he could be a porn addict. However many people on this sub are smart and already know this 🙏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/20 12:50 AM
2

Thissssssss
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/20 12:16 AM
1

I can't do birth control I become sucidal actually it totally ruins me hormonally. I'm on a low dose on ssris though because of my pmd. And my anxiety
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/20 10:20 AM
6

^ this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/20 10:19 AM
13

Had this issue before in my relationship and my partner admitted to a porn addiction later on and honestly I wouldn't be surprised if like half of men have it. It sucks. However I won't settle for less.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/20 05:51 PM
9

My bf did this and he ended up confiding me that he has a porn addiction and then went to therapy for it. It really took me for a spin. Men who follow those accounts or like that type of content on the reg on IG are probably addicted to porn. At the time I didn't know that was even a possibility but he confirmed it. Now whenever I see guys who follow those accounts I think they could be PAs too. At least in the future I know what to avoid. It can cause all kinds of problems. It sucks that a lot …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/20 09:21 PM
4

Proud of you sis
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/20 09:19 PM
5

I got banned from askwomen too. And honestly don't know why till this very day lmao I didn't even say anything remotely "out there "
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/20 09:18 PM
11

I learned that later on. It's really a shitty place for posting. Bad advice in most cases.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/20 08:47 PM
20

Im still suffering from betrayal trauma from my relationship because of the lying of porn use. It's basically cheating and this is coming from an ex sex worker. I refuse to date a man who engages with porn! :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/20 05:10 PM
4

I've never been asked this and I've been on many dates lol 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/20 06:25 PM
13

Nah I'll pass on a guy like that
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/20 05:48 PM
3

I love her channel she's amazing
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/20 09:13 PM
3

They got rid of that? Omg that's actual horse shit. I mean that website was a helpful place for those wanting to leave those toxic relationships
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 12:45 AM
8

I want to watch the show but can't really watch shows with nudity and like sexual themes rn. but I agree with not accepting a man calling you that, ever.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/20 03:21 AM
2

Lmaoooooo I can't 😭🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/20 06:18 PM
17

LMAO WTF IS THIS
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/20 06:17 PM
1

It's sad. I've been there. This is what addiction does to the PA. I'm still struggling because of the aftermath.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/20 03:45 PM
3

👏👏👏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/20 11:09 PM
5

Same lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/20 04:24 PM
7

Bf used to do this when he had a porn addiction. So yes now it's a red flag for me due to personal experience
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/20 11:06 PM
25

👏👏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/20 10:22 PM
3

Your cute!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/20 07:59 PM
4

Oh God this is horrible :( and honestly relatable sorry you went through this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/20 05:01 PM
12

I agree libfems aren't making this easier
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/20 05:00 PM
5

This was an encouraging post. Thank you for sharing :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/20 04:58 PM
15

This is exactly relatable. I actually currently am suffering the aftermath of betrayal trauma from a PA and going to therapy so I can recover from it. It's deep stuff. Hopefully gets talked about more as time goes on. It's really sad ..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/20 04:57 PM
5

Hahaha
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/20 10:52 AM
16

Bf can't get over the fact that I used to be a stripper but currently in the relationship is watching porn and ig thots?? Sorry you tell me you dont want a "girl like that" yet you publicly show and spend time watching girls EXACTLY like that It makes sense why some girls dress or sell nudes because men are always giving attention to these girls. They think that's "what men want" men only want it when it's not their partner lol and will continue consuming and defending their porn usage what hypo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/20 08:20 PM
8

THIS
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/20 04:58 AM
5

Yeah he sounds like he's trying to live in secrecy so his porn addiction stays alive
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/20 09:54 AM
8

!!!! This
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/20 09:53 AM
1

People with a porn addiction?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/20 06:24 AM
5

I used to post for advice there then after the responses I got on there I had a feeling it just wasn't right. They would use the words "insecure" to make me feel like I was crazy when I was just asking for a basic thing in a relationship?? So glad I found this sub
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/20 08:02 PM
27

Seriously!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/20 07:55 PM
8

I would set some clear boundaries and if he violates these than you can decide whether it's worth staying in or not. I've had this problem before.
/r/RedPillWomen20/04/20 08:00 PM
1

Ohh they do? I guess when I posted there they told me to leave him and that it doesn't get better but maybe that depended on the severity of the addiction who knows. I've been on that sub for a very long time too and really felt like I was helped which is why I mentioned it. Oh there is a mod that called this place toxic! Sigh. I want both places to get along 😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/20 07:14 PM
1

Can you explain? What you mean by pro addictions model. I just found it be helpful. I guess I'm not sure who runs it exactly but I thought they were a csat?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/20 06:39 PM
6

This is very true. My porn addicted partner was following a lot of these lewd girls on insta and it caused problems in our relationship I kept asking if he could stop and he really couldn't he later confessed he was addicted to porn. Since the age 5. He got rid of his insta because he couldn't stop. If he refused to get help I would have left but he is going to therapy for specialized help. If I had known about all of this I would have reconsidered this relationship. It's damaging to the mind an…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/20 05:33 PM
7

This makes me sad :(
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/20 04:41 AM
2

Word
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/20 06:21 PM
4

😭😅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/20 06:17 PM
1

THIS
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/20 12:11 AM
6

Yes my bf at one point was threatening to commit suicide he had a knife to his throat and he was in the floor inside our kitchen it was really scary but also ridiculous. Like what was a simple conversation ended up him trying to look like he was "the victim" and honesty it's really childish and manipulative Actually I'm surprised a lot of other woman experienced this. I've never heard so many similarly stories in my life. Damn
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/20 06:39 PM
8

THIS is very true. It's like porn for them and actually beyond that because some of these baddie account have little followers and it can become interactive with DMS. It's hella sketch
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/20 11:52 PM
6

I asked my bf if he could stop following those accounts he did for a while then went straight behind my back and followed again and I was like ?? and later admitted to a porn addiction and like deleted his IG account. Now if I see a guy following those types of accounts I'd be wondering if they too have a porn sick mind
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/20 11:50 PM
2

There is a lack of hvm here
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/20 01:38 AM
4

They are both so pretty but idk I guess for me I think Jess is prettier? She's a mix and idk if it's the tan but she's just so perfect and cute. But the other girl looks so cute too I mean genetically they are perfection
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/20 01:32 AM
2

Interesting post. My bf used to follow porn stars and like lewd photos of woman on Instagram. It didn't bother me at first until it became more and more blatantly in my face. Until I asked him if he could unfollow those accounts. He did but then a month later refollowed them. And came out to me that he was a porn addict. And has been since around the age of 5. That really caused him to sexualize things and that in order to stop following these accounts that he would need to deactivate his accoun…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/20 09:40 PM
3

As an ex stripper I agree tbh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/20 08:50 PM
3

Hell yes. Glad you were able to get out of that 🧘‍♀️👏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/20 05:44 PM
2

I relate with this. I used to be pro porn until my bf would choose it over me and I'd always initiate and try to make something work between us sexually. He later admitted to being a PA since the age 5. :(
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/20 04:09 PM
26

😂 true
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/20 07:12 AM
21

Yeah I'm not really a fan of the little girl tropes in anime. I'm watching castlevania rn and its super cool with 4 vampire female characters who rule over a castle and want to take over the world. There's more too it but I like how it's not oversexualized
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/20 04:35 AM
23

I had to unsub from any relationship advice sub it was too depressing and the responses were severly lacking any sanity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/20 04:31 PM
5

That and "INFJs" I find they often mistype
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/20 04:47 PM
2

ISFP (ennegram 4)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/20 04:45 PM
26

I'm always amazed how they rate such beautiful women so low
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/20 12:09 AM
3

^
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/20 11:59 PM
24

I was a dancer and I would never want my bf going to a club. They are hella sketch. Believe me when I say this it's rare when they ARENT sketch ive worked at like 4 different locations and it's all the same. So having this boundary is important and not at all absurd Pretty much all the guys who go are gross
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/20 09:02 PM
3

Thisssss now I dont get creepy men msging me anymore
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/20 02:52 AM
6

This. It's important that they are taking action and getting help! Being selfaware is important.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/20 02:50 AM
13

This is real. My bf was like this following softcore porn and pornstars and liking clad photos of friends sometimes. It sucks you gotta train them in this day and age. It kills the romance
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/20 05:07 AM
6

Bf had these problems and i honestly would have left him but he's now working on his problems. I used to be ok with porn until I met him and his addiction. If things dont work between us I'll be sure to steer clear from pornsick men in the future
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/20 05:04 AM
4

🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/20 05:02 AM
24

And it wasnt just one video it was about 4 of them :/
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/20 06:23 AM
62

Deepfakes are so common now. Some anon asshole made one of me and it sucks
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/20 05:00 AM
2

Yeah he was shown it by his older bro :(
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/20 05:49 PM
5

I almost left bf because of this. I told him it's a dealbreaker. It really sucked. And he later admitted to having a porn addiction since the age of 5. And he had to delete his ig because it was too tempting I guess. I don't quite understand it but guys often start young and it becomes worse and worse. In this case id say this is a form of child abuse though But it's been tough dealing with this. Thankfully there are groups on here that understand. I never been with a pa before so its def a stru…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/20 05:44 AM
0

^
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/20 03:24 PM
1

Well its like it takes me longer than a guy generally it's how we are built. So it's like when they are done the sex is over and it sucks. Because I can come I just need more time
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/20 12:16 AM
1

If casual sex was worth it I'd continue that it but honestly it's generally for the pleasure of the man. I've slept around quite a bit and honestly maybe one has cared about my orgasm lol it's sad
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/20 05:16 PM
2

This
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/20 01:53 AM
17

The realist shit tbh. Then when you dont reciprocate you're the bad guy and it gets messy. Basically i lose a friendship meanwhile they were looking for ways to get inside my pants
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/20 05:59 PM
3

Like 4 out of 40
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/20 05:57 PM
15

🤣😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/20 11:22 PM
5

Hahahahaha your response killed me
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/20 09:53 PM
1

100 every 6 weeks for my extensions 55 every 2 weeks on nails 100 every month for lash extensions Skin care- 500 a year Makeup - I think like 500 a year? Brazilian blowout every 4 months - $300 (I've got frizzy hair so I light it smooth) I think it ended up being around 4k a year with all the other stuff I get
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/20 12:26 PM
3

It cant come down I've tried for years . Plus it was on pornhub I tired notifying them but they dont reply :(
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/20 07:49 PM
2

Rosanne?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/20 06:54 PM
5

I've had one leak photo before (revenge porn) but it's barely one because my face is somewhat hidden a past guy I dated got super jealous of me and posted it and someone created a digitalized porn of me (used my face without any consent) I forgot what the word is for it but they do it to celebrities often it's a new thing. And sure it's weird and violating. I felt like I was going to die of embarrassment and like the whole world would judge me. And I guess now I dont feel as horrible about it be…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/20 06:49 PM
31

Same. But when I find an attractive man he's a unicorn.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/20 01:14 AM
1

Nope
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/20 09:24 PM
3

I need to watch this
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/20 04:08 AM
1

$ isn't a big deal. Just have enough to support yourself and I'm good
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/20 11:12 PM
1

I think if they were a stripper in the past I'd be okay with that, pornstar probably not because there is recorded footage and I'd probably be overly sensitive about it if ever exposed to it. So it depends.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/20 09:31 PM
2

YES
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/20 04:30 PM
4

😂🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/20 04:21 PM
4

Link to the original post: https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/f2h3ai/i_found_my_husbands_porn_and_now_i_feel_inadequate/?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/20 07:11 AM
26

This. Honestly $ helps
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/20 03:06 AM
23

She's seriously the most beautiful lady! 45 damn she's aging like fine wineeeeee
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/20 03:06 AM
5

😂🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/20 08:41 PM
10

I agree with this post and about porn. It's a huge turnoff actually I'd rather be single than settle.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/20 06:55 PM
5

This
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/20 06:30 PM
13

I saw this post on the relationship advice thread. And when I read she allowed him I literally shook my head. This is whyyyyy you set boundries and not be the cOol GuRl
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/20 05:41 PM
8

Thisssss 100%
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/20 05:39 PM
43

Used to be a dancer long time agoo. And would never want to be with a man who enters strip clubs - no excuses. A lot of them are sleazy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/20 08:19 PM
8

You're strong for doing what you did! I'm impressed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/20 04:11 PM
1

This
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/20 02:17 AM
14

Wow those comments are messed up. It's actually really sad how brainwashed people are in society.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/20 06:39 PM
10

I love marina!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/20 04:06 AM
2

This is sarcasm
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/20 07:04 PM
3

The Expanse ' scifi tv show on amazon prime with strong women leads :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/20 06:23 PM
12

Birth control sucks tbh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/20 07:20 AM
4

Now I lay down hard consequences and it works. For an example one of them was no video games for 2 months haha
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/20 05:00 AM
1

This this is very true. all of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/20 10:19 PM
5

I'm like 90% never visually attracted to a man. Most men just aren't attractive to me. They look meh or average I guess? However due to socialization many heterosexual men just dont put as much effort in time into their appearance. So when I do find a guy I'm attracted to they stand out so much because it's a rarity. I think I might be demisexual and I'm not sure because I don't see very many attractive men or because I'm just this way. Women on the other hand just look better overall - and I'm …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/20 04:52 PM
9

Same tbh lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/20 05:50 AM
3

Same! I think it's weird to fantasize this with a complete stranger, I mean I'm not opposed to people thinking that way but I'm also not sure how they can if they dont even know them? Seems super primal maybe. I've thought I was on the asexual spectrum for 10 years now and I'm starting to realize I'm probably demisexual
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/20 05:49 AM
14

I've kinda related with the term demisexual for a while now and it could actually be because I don't find a lot of men attractive. It actually might be that instead hmm
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/20 09:17 PM
5

Same it's really upsetting. And they never understand why which is so frustrating. It sucks like almost all dudes are pornsick
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/20 07:21 PM
3

Current bf was a creep at one point and would follow porn stars and softcore porn on ig. It really is weirder when its like its specific girls on ig versus like a random porn video, it feels somehow more personal? And I guess it makes me sad but this is my life sometimes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/20 11:44 AM
6

I think they could masturbate without porn but were exposed to it early on. A lot of it seems to be socialization honestly
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/20 11:42 AM
53

She dodged a bullet
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/20 03:58 AM
1

This year I'm buying my bf a nice ticket to see a comedy show and also getting some VIP goodies for him. He deserves to be spoiled. Honestly I dont expect too much because I usually was single before. I think it depends on how they were gendered and if they were given more in the past maybe. Or if they are on fb a lot and post to brag. But make vday whatever you want it to be. I just want to eat inexpensive chocolates and laugh :)
/r/MGTOW201/02/20 03:06 AM
23

Same tbh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/20 02:43 AM
2

The lima comment made me burst out laughing tbh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/20 02:27 AM
1

Same hahaha
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/20 02:17 AM
21

I like anime. However I guess it depends on the type of anime they are watching? The ones I watch have strong female leads that arent overtly sexualized. Hentai is a different story though.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/20 09:29 PM
1

So true
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/20 08:18 PM
2

Idk but I've never been asked. I've been with my partner for 2 years and I'd rather not know. It's the past it's better left that way lol
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/20 12:50 AM
1

I lurk
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/20 05:40 AM
5

Haha I live in Portland and I haven't really dated much around here because nobody really likes monogamous relationships. My bf moved up here from San Francisco and have been together since which is nice.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/20 05:02 AM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/relationships/comments/evuyab/i_25f_found_my_husbands_30m_secret_gmail_with/?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share The rest of the thread is here. She found his porn stash. Edit: it's now deleted
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/20 02:05 AM
3

It generally dosent feel that fulfilling for me unless I'm with a partner who is willing to learn my body but other than that I slept with many guys (sad but tru lol) and honestly I can only say I've cum like maybe 1 or 2 times? Which is insane
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/20 04:33 PM
3

I've never had my bf ask and I wouldnt ask him the past is the past. It just breaks jealousy if we do and its unnecessary
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/20 09:40 PM
4

This ^
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/20 09:35 PM
1

It feels good but it's not like amazing- penetration at least. Oral feels much better. Piv is more for men I feel envious they get direct stimulation and like my clit gets unnoticed most of the time -.- But sex with my bf is good so that's good
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/20 09:34 PM
8

True
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/20 11:25 PM
4

I hate it when guys say that
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/20 06:41 AM
3

Yikes those responses
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/20 08:49 PM
1

My bf gained a bit since being together but I find him still attractive. I think if they work out and try that's what matters. If they are okay with gaining more and more and become very unhealthy than that could be a problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/20 01:53 AM
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I'm curious what you mean with the quotation marks? lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/20 09:48 PM
1

I actually dont like that movie lol idk why it's so popular but it just didnt jive with me tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/20 09:46 PM
2

This ^
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/20 08:31 PM
20

11 is hard because people dont generally reveal these things right away its information that slowly unravels. Sadly I sort of agree with the therapy/mother role. My bf had something to him when be was younger and he's now going to therapy bc i pushed him. He was exposed to porn verrry young which is considered abuse which can affect him later in life. However this information isnt usually given till later in the relationship I didnt know this until over a year we started
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/20 06:47 PM
1

This I agree with
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/20 10:59 PM
2

I've seen a video of that and omg its messed uppoooo
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/20 10:29 PM
1

"Cut you off" and "Rare" Selena Gomez's new album for an empowering feels good to be me songs
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/20 10:10 PM
1

Hahahaha
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/20 10:05 PM
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