Absolutely Not

abstractsadgurl · 2020-03-19T02:12:52+00:00

Why can't he stay with one of the two women he cheated on her with?

Surely, he must be on better terms with them than with her.

Radtron3000 · 2020-03-18T23:44:36+00:00

I will say that he made his bed, putting her at risk with two different women. If men aren't putting you first they don't deserve empathy. Think about all the times a man has treated you without regard or empathy.

Note it below. I'm disgusted that LVM think we'll always be there for them, when they were hardly there for us.

Soulsalts · 2020-03-19T02:15:32+00:00

Nope nope nope nope. He will be up to his old manipulative, gaslighting tricks in no time, plus he will probably give everyone the virus.

azureeyks · 2020-03-19T02:24:15+00:00

Tag her in here if you can. There is NO way. Unfortunately these LVM know how to prey on empathetic emotions.

throwaway23004345 · 2020-03-19T02:10:39+00:00

Please post the link so we can all get to her!!

Kindly_Cupcake · 2020-03-19T02:29:23+00:00

What do you do? You block him on everything like you should have done!

timetofliptables · 2020-03-19T02:31:55+00:00

What in the bloody hell. I’ve had friends in worse situations (fleeing abuse, leaving jobs, etc) that figured out how not to end up on the street. Dude needs to figure his shit the fuck out. It is not her problem.

miz_nyc · 2020-03-19T03:15:18+00:00

Why would she post this? Does she honestly not know what to do? I just don't understand women like this, he cheats on you and you still want to help him?!?!?

hopelesscanary · 2020-03-19T05:48:24+00:00

If he dies, he dies.

radical__daphne · 2020-03-19T02:33:13+00:00

This is so bad I thought her question about what to do was sarcastic.

airhostess_inthe60s · 2020-03-19T03:34:36+00:00

Hell Naw!

Doesn't this guy have a family or friends to take him in? Why would she be or feel responsible for him? While putting other people in her life at risk... Me thinks he probably asked others but got shot down, then he figured he'd try manipulating his way back with her.

jewdy09 · 2020-03-19T05:08:43+00:00

The only person he has in his life to ask for help is the woman he treated like a doormat? Do a cost benefit analysis. This person is a shit human and a waste of space. Let him figure it out on his own.

9penguin · 2020-03-19T05:38:46+00:00

Let him lay on his concrete bed.

Radtron3000 · 2020-03-19T07:02:41+00:00

u/pandapanda56789

greensciencegeek · 2020-03-19T03:24:15+00:00

Both sound like reasons to say hell no!

Radtron3000 · 2020-03-19T07:01:44+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/fkqpea/my_f29_homeless_and_jobless_ex_boyfriend_m30_asks/?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share

Okay everyone, she removed the original post but I'll tag her in the next comment. Actually I'm pretty proud of Relationship Advice for having solid judgement and condemning this dude.

Deadgirl1888 · 2020-03-19T09:13:45+00:00

I cant believe she is even considering taking him back. Fuck him he deserves to worry about dying and where hell get food and shelter. He could have been kind loving and respectful and he wouldn't have gotten himself in this situation.

2020-03-19T06:21:23+00:00

NOPE.

CuriousCatNYC777 · 2020-03-19T06:46:51+00:00

DM OP the link to FDS

myousername · 2020-03-19T07:08:53+00:00

So my first thought was, "ha, if he dies, then that's just natural selection"

Obviously she shouldn't take him back. It would put her at risk, he could be carrying the virus and he could make her sick.

NGL tho, if she did, it would be an excellent opportunity for revenge. She could be like, "my house, my rules" and force him to clean every surface of her home with a toothbrush. Make him serve as her personal footrest while she watches TV. Leave him to sleep on the floor like a dog 😈

But no, she sounds too "nice" to hold him to any of that.

Radtron3000 · 2020-03-19T06:26:36+00:00

If anyone can find the thread somehow and the OP let's tag her in comments. I was getting so sick of backlash against this sub I didn't think it was necessary. On the plus side most of the top comments in original thread were advising that she not take him in.

ironymaiden87 · 2020-03-19T11:47:19+00:00

OH HELL NAW. That piece of shit belongs on the kerb where she left him.

Consider_the_Horses · 2020-03-19T20:25:09+00:00

Let him reap what he sowed. Besides, if she is already living with 5 other people in an apartment, she shouldn't put them to risk anyway. Already sounds crowded and difficult enough as it is, without some LVM crawling back because he fucked up his life. Women have to stop bailing men out.

greatcathy · 2020-03-19T21:15:12+00:00

No no no no

Goldrosexoxo · 2020-03-20T22:26:43+00:00

He can figure it out on his own.

Title	Absolutely Not
Author	Radtron3000
Upvotes	76
Comments	35
Date	March 18, 2020 11:41 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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