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[–][deleted] 155 points156 points157 points 6 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Why can't he stay with one of the two women he cheated on her with?
Surely, he must be on better terms with them than with her.
[–]abstractsadgurlFDS Newbie25 points26 points27 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
😂 true
[–]Radtron3000FDS Disciple[S] 89 points90 points91 points 6 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
I will say that he made his bed, putting her at risk with two different women. If men aren't putting you first they don't deserve empathy. Think about all the times a man has treated you without regard or empathy.
Note it below. I'm disgusted that LVM think we'll always be there for them, when they were hardly there for us.
[–]AfraidofFollowersFDS Apprentice39 points40 points41 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
You bring up a good point. He cheated and made her susceptible to diseases on two different occasions. Now he wants to infect her again with another disease named after a beer.
I also like your last point. <cheers>
[–]SoulsaltsFDS Apprentice42 points43 points44 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Nope nope nope nope. He will be up to his old manipulative, gaslighting tricks in no time, plus he will probably give everyone the virus.
[–]azureeyksFDS Newbie42 points43 points44 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Tag her in here if you can. There is NO way. Unfortunately these LVM know how to prey on empathetic emotions.
[–]Radtron3000FDS Disciple[S] 15 points16 points17 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I can't even find the thread anymore. It must be buried or taken down.
[–]throwaway23004345FDS Newbie38 points39 points40 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Please post the link so we can all get to her!!
[–]Kindly_CupcakeFDS Newbie36 points37 points38 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
What do you do? You block him on everything like you should have done!
[–]timetofliptablesFDS Newbie36 points37 points38 points 6 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
What in the bloody hell. I’ve had friends in worse situations (fleeing abuse, leaving jobs, etc) that figured out how not to end up on the street. Dude needs to figure his shit the fuck out. It is not her problem.
[–]noavocadoshereFDS Newbie11 points12 points13 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
i knew a man like that. he cheated, his fiancee found out and rightfully kicked him out and if it hadn't been for his friend taking him in, he'd probably have ended up in the street. the last i knew, he was still living with his friend who wasn't exactly keen on this arrangement because it went from staying with them temporarily to setting up shop.
men like the one i knew and this dude usually have no backup plan re: where to live or even save up for the possibility, because they've gotten comfortable and assume they'll never get figured out.
[–]timetofliptablesFDS Newbie1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Hobosexuals is the term I’ve heard 😂
[–]miz_nycFDS Newbie25 points26 points27 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Why would she post this? Does she honestly not know what to do? I just don't understand women like this, he cheats on you and you still want to help him?!?!?
[–]hopelesscanaryFDS Newbie23 points24 points25 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
If he dies, he dies.
[–]radical__daphneRuthless Strategist20 points21 points22 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
This is so bad I thought her question about what to do was sarcastic.
[–]airhostess_inthe60sFDS Newbie20 points21 points22 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Hell Naw!
Doesn't this guy have a family or friends to take him in? Why would she be or feel responsible for him? While putting other people in her life at risk... Me thinks he probably asked others but got shot down, then he figured he'd try manipulating his way back with her.
[–]jewdy09Pickmeisha™️19 points20 points21 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
The only person he has in his life to ask for help is the woman he treated like a doormat? Do a cost benefit analysis. This person is a shit human and a waste of space. Let him figure it out on his own.
[–]9penguinFDS Newbie15 points16 points17 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Let him lay on his concrete bed.
[–]Radtron3000FDS Disciple[S] 11 points12 points13 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
u/pandapanda56789
[–]greensciencegeekFDS Newbie11 points12 points13 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Both sound like reasons to say hell no!
[–]Radtron3000FDS Disciple[S] 8 points9 points10 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/fkqpea/my_f29_homeless_and_jobless_ex_boyfriend_m30_asks/?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share
Okay everyone, she removed the original post but I'll tag her in the next comment. Actually I'm pretty proud of Relationship Advice for having solid judgement and condemning this dude.
[–]Deadgirl1888FDS Newbie9 points10 points11 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I cant believe she is even considering taking him back. Fuck him he deserves to worry about dying and where hell get food and shelter. He could have been kind loving and respectful and he wouldn't have gotten himself in this situation.
[–][deleted] 5 points6 points7 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
NOPE.
[–]CuriousCatNYC777Ruthless Strategist6 points7 points8 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
DM OP the link to FDS
[–]Radtron3000FDS Disciple[S] 5 points6 points7 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I can't find the original thread anymore, if someone more tech-inclined knows how to recover the post... I'll look through my history though, maybe it's hidden away
[–]myousernameFDS Disciple5 points6 points7 points 6 years ago* (3 children) | Copy Link
So my first thought was, "ha, if he dies, then that's just natural selection"
Obviously she shouldn't take him back. It would put her at risk, he could be carrying the virus and he could make her sick.
NGL tho, if she did, it would be an excellent opportunity for revenge. She could be like, "my house, my rules" and force him to clean every surface of her home with a toothbrush. Make him serve as her personal footrest while she watches TV. Leave him to sleep on the floor like a dog 😈
But no, she sounds too "nice" to hold him to any of that.
[–]Radtron3000FDS Disciple[S] 5 points6 points7 points 6 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
I think even being cruel is just her wasting energy, when she can redirect that into being kind/thoughtful to people who have always had her back.
The cruelest thing is for him to learn that he can't have her in his life anymore. She shouldn't even reach out or respond. He isn't her responsibility. The point is he, like many men do, took advantage of her lovingness and now he's finding out the hard way.
[–]myousernameFDS Disciple4 points5 points6 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Yes, deep down I know that's the right answer, and is the best revenge. Plus, by being cruel, she would be degrading herself.
At the same time though, it makes me see red whenever I read such stories of male depravity on reddit.
[–]Radtron3000FDS Disciple[S] 3 points4 points5 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Oh I feel you, but in doing this she's still maintaining her dignity without compromising values. Besides that why give him a reason to justify that a woman wronged is "crazy"? We're better than that. Walk away from that mess and don't look back. We aren't emotional caretakers to men that trampled our hearts.
He'll figure it out if he has half a brain cell. Speaking as someone who's familiar with homelessness.
[–]Radtron3000FDS Disciple[S] 3 points4 points5 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
If anyone can find the thread somehow and the OP let's tag her in comments. I was getting so sick of backlash against this sub I didn't think it was necessary. On the plus side most of the top comments in original thread were advising that she not take him in.
[–]ironymaiden87FDS Apprentice4 points5 points6 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
OH HELL NAW. That piece of shit belongs on the kerb where she left him.
[–]Consider_the_HorsesFDS Newbie2 points3 points4 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Let him reap what he sowed. Besides, if she is already living with 5 other people in an apartment, she shouldn't put them to risk anyway. Already sounds crowded and difficult enough as it is, without some LVM crawling back because he fucked up his life. Women have to stop bailing men out.
[–]greatcathyFDS Newbie1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
No no no no
[–]Goldrosexoxo1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
He can figure it out on his own.
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