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the_savvyhead/r/askTRP04/05/16 05:38 PM
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Okay, thank you. I haven't heard much about this outside of new age-y stuff, but I have a gut feeling it could be something with me.
/r/TheRedPill11/08/16 09:21 PM
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Is there a good source for more info about this?
/r/TheRedPill11/08/16 03:25 PM
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It's a pretty massive ego boost, not gonna lie
/r/TheRedPill10/08/16 03:26 PM
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You're right, I don't deserve that. I deserve the best
/r/askTRP07/08/16 05:56 AM
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Because every woman needs emotional support, and every human wants to get what they need at minimal cost
/r/askTRP05/08/16 02:03 AM
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My dumb girl is learning that apologies don't mean shit. I suggest you learn to teach her the same. Okay, so she's sorry. What does she do to make it up to you? What does she do to improve that behavior? If she's not doing those two things, it's a hollow apology and you're being played.
/r/askTRP04/08/16 10:19 PM
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How so?
/r/askTRP04/08/16 07:15 PM
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Even lesbians want emotional-support orbiters
/r/askTRP04/08/16 05:47 PM
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Better in person I think. I text my gf a lot but she's pretty far away and it passes the time. I also withdraw if she's wasting my time or saying dumb things and try to keep it fun / sexual, but ymmv
/r/askTRP26/07/16 09:22 PM
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That's probably true. I think there's a way to sell it, especially with less pre-planning. "Hey, I'm in town at my brother's place and he's out for the night. Come suck my dick" or whatever
/r/TheRedPill26/07/16 09:12 PM
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Uh, I don't disagree that he did some things wrong, but it seems he went there regardless of her
/r/TheRedPill26/07/16 09:06 PM
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She wants to fuck you but it might be drama. Easy.
/r/askTRP25/07/16 09:23 PM
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Aren't most famous people mostly fictionalized anyhow?
/r/TheRedPill25/07/16 06:24 PM
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Research your city. Find something that sounds fun. Do it with or without her.
/r/askTRP18/07/16 07:06 PM
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Thank you, sir.
/r/askTRP18/07/16 04:29 PM
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Man, that "apology with a bj" thing is nice, isn't it? My wife did it for the first time a few days ago and I was like "shit, the girl's learning"
/r/TheRedPill17/07/16 10:51 PM
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I'm 26 Spent 5 years (20-25) in a shitty LTR (well we fucked pretty often at least, but... shitty), dealt with shitty life stuff including major medical trauma I'm at the best point in my life, physically, mentally, emotionally and improve somehow every day. It's not too late
/r/askTRP15/07/16 06:26 PM
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Wotsm?
/r/askTRP15/07/16 05:54 PM
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You need to learn to flow, not be passive. Learning when to stand firm and when to flow is really hard. Yes, you planned to study at the park, but it was oppressively warm and there wasn't much reason not to move locations (it's a slight waste of time, but think of the time / energy wasted fighting it). If they (the women) weren't proposing solutions, and none of the men were... it's perfect time to step in and show you can be the leader and be a problem-solver. And as noted, everyone wins. I do…
/r/askTRP15/07/16 05:49 PM
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Yeaaaah actually true in my case
/r/askTRP15/07/16 05:32 PM
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Mock, tease, laugh it off.
/r/askTRP15/07/16 03:57 PM
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Just keep it legal... 19 is fine, I think.
/r/TheRedPill15/07/16 01:49 PM
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And, you don't even have to be that attractive sometimes. That said, never stop improving...
/r/TheRedPill15/07/16 01:45 PM
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I'm sure it is meant the LGBT hardcore, not your run-of-mill queers.
/r/TheRedPill13/07/16 09:07 PM
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Goals require strategy. Ethical choices are a style.
/r/TheRedPill13/07/16 09:04 PM
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I love girls. Girls are for flirting, dating, children, homemaking, showing off, and fucking on the regular. Trans are just a fun easy hookup
/r/askTRP09/05/16 07:54 PM
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shrugs I'm sure some people will think so, especially here. But to me, it's 0 cost 0 investment 0 effort 0 commitment. It's a (usually) high quality bj and (usually) a tight, nice feeling ass. It takes away my "need to fuck something" pressure and I focus on what I want (success in my career, getting actual pussy, improving myself), whereas if I try to do that shit blue balled my mind is just on "I need to fuck asap". It's not my preference and I chase pussy just fine, but it's a nice easy alter…
/r/askTRP09/05/16 07:09 PM
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Maybe not hard next but go to your buddy's party
/r/askTRP09/05/16 04:19 PM
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You should be a writer. If I were still on the east coast I'd make you get out. You'd have fun
/r/askTRP09/05/16 04:17 PM
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I'm down to fuck'em but I don't touch their dick if they're pre-op and I wouldn't plate or ltr one... prefer bio women tho
/r/askTRP09/05/16 03:26 PM
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No
/r/askTRP09/05/16 03:14 PM
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There will be other holes man. It sounded like you prioritized your homies which is a pretty good reason to miss some pussy. I'd wait it out, if she pursues go for it but remember that abundance mentality and don't feel bad for spending time with your friends (in that case)
/r/askTRP09/05/16 02:18 PM
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Get charming / funny, successful, talented. It helps
/r/askTRP06/05/16 08:21 PM
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Sounds like a good time. Honestly "food pellets" sounds pretty gross and you can fuck the regular breed of woman while dinner's in the oven, so I'm pretty content
/r/MarriedRedPill06/05/16 08:17 PM
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Theoretically, but I don't expect it to be followed that well
/r/TheRedPill06/05/16 08:15 PM
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They don't much care about the first amendment. It won't protect your career. It won't protect you when they bend the definitions of hate speech. This isn't about them triggering our feels. It's about them using manipulation and violence to attack our lives and livelihoods.
/r/TheRedPill06/05/16 07:59 PM
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Haha yep, you volunteering?
/r/MarriedRedPill06/05/16 07:37 PM
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I've definitely done the second one before
/r/MarriedRedPill06/05/16 07:13 PM
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What are your hobbies? What's your job? Read more. Exercise more. Force yourself to go out places.
/r/askTRP06/05/16 06:06 PM
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He fucked a (married) woman because he wanted to, killed her husband, lost all his wealth and status but kept working hard to advance himself, explored the reaches of the world, commanded and manipulated every situation he was in, tried to protect his offspring while DGAF about pretty much everyone else, and made pretty decisive decisions and sacrifices which changed the world. He also excelled both mentally and physically and embraced a commanding presence.
/r/askTRP06/05/16 06:03 PM
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We do. We're a mixture of a semi-traditional male-led relationship with strong BDSM elements. Though it's only as strong as her respect for me, which requires me to push myself and stay on top of things.
/r/askTRP06/05/16 05:50 PM
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I enjoyed His Dark Materials when I was younger (and I'm still fond), I think in some ways Asriel might qualify (though it's been a while since I've read it).
/r/askTRP06/05/16 05:48 PM
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During the day? In a public area? Quite frankly most guys - even the really macho thuggish ones - aren't usually strolling around looking for trouble. If you show signs of meekness or whatever you might be a target, and if you're obviously wealthy (good clothes, expensive stuff) maybe you'd get mugged? But otherwise I doubt it. I spent 3 years or so walking / bussing through my city, including some of the "rougher" parts and I definitely encountered guys like that pretty often. My usual response…
/r/askTRP06/05/16 05:42 PM
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Mental / societal parasites are memes
/r/TheRedPill06/05/16 05:24 PM
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Oh, and long-term I went through a serious BP phase with an LTR who manipulated and controlled me from day 1 until I got so disgusted with myself I forced myself to make a change so I got selfish, focused on myself (my own happiness as well as self-improvement), took charge of my life and dedicated to being the master of my fate, dropped the harpy, and found a girl who suits me.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/05/16 05:16 PM
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"Here" being MRP / TRP? I don't remember, I think I saw some feminist blasting it which got my interest. I'm not dissatisfied in my relationship and I'm not a single guy looking to spin plates so I'm probably not the target audience but I still feel TRP has lots of good insight and things I can learn.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/05/16 05:08 PM
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Uhhh, sure? It works. Not sure what you mean by "playing pretend"
/r/MarriedRedPill06/05/16 05:06 PM
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Quite frankly, my relationship isn't really typical. We have a dom/sub relationship with strong focus on traditional relationship dynamics, as well her mindset is pretty red pill (lots of things she tells me line up with RP ideas even if she doesn't use the same language), even if she does sometimes prove AWALT and fall into some of the same feminine traps. So I honestly think "results may not be average" and not sure it'd apply to many. I'm also a RP newb in most ways.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/05/16 04:43 PM
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"can't be seen as overcompensating"? By who!? Who's opinion matters to you that much? Lift how much you want to lift, if you want to do other things do them for you, not just because you're worried what plebs think...
/r/askTRP06/05/16 04:27 PM
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1: make sure you're right as often as possible. If she can't trust you to be accurate and helpful most of the time, she won't bother listening even when you are. 1a: admit when you're wrong and improve, don't make the same mistakes. For me, already my explicit role is to train, guide, and protect her, so in many ways it's easier for me. I can point out how not listening to me was both disrespectful to me and detrimental to her, and I can punish her for it. So, most of my advice probably won't wo…
/r/askTRP06/05/16 04:18 PM
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TBP? Also your therapist is radfem??? :(
/r/MarriedRedPill06/05/16 03:35 PM
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This has worked wonders with my girl. Went from avoiding me sexually, to asking my to fuck her ass but being totally disengaged (playing on phone) and stopping early, to waking me up at 5am and desperately begging me to fuck her like a whore. In like 3 days.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/05/16 03:26 PM
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Meetup, Reddit (for your city / region), CL sometimes lists events, go out to places
/r/askTRP06/05/16 03:04 PM
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My girl went from pretty much never listening to me and never apologizing when it went south, to listening 50% of the time and apologizing and acting to improve if she doesn't listen and it ends badly.
/r/askTRP06/05/16 02:42 PM
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Women are like dogs. Some (probably most) are just vicious and feral, barking to scare you off or locking their jaws into you to keep you. Some can be trained. (And yes, AWALT naturally, but I do think it's possible to push for improvement if you've set the proper foundation)
/r/askTRP06/05/16 02:41 PM
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Yeah, this is a common thing I've seen. My ex was hugely bad about this, to the point of buying things she wanted (but for me) then she'd get pissed when I called her out. "How come nothing I do is good enough, you never appreciate anything I do, you're so ungrateful" PS: she bought it with my money lol
/r/MarriedRedPill05/05/16 08:54 PM
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I thought Tolstoy had a story like this, but for my life I can't find it now
/r/askTRP05/05/16 06:06 PM
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There was a caller on Stefan Molyneux's show that said similar. I don't remember if it was Thailand but it was similar, and he said all the hookers got paid well but just blew through it with nothing to show (and he bought a hooker a cow lol)
/r/TheRedPill05/05/16 12:44 AM
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First link looks dead?
/r/askTRP04/05/16 11:01 PM
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Okay. I think a lot of the "emotional provider" criticism around here comes from the (very very common) situation where the girl isn't providing an equal value. I view TRP ideas as internal leverage; apply when you're getting a raw deal.
/r/askTRP04/05/16 10:31 PM
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I'm in a committed LTR and get frequent, great sex. I still learn and apply ideas and insights from TRP daily and further have my own insights which end up matching up to TRP stuff.
/r/TheRedPill04/05/16 10:27 PM
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I think any good strategy evolves around knowing when to press and when to flow. Start with being firm on the critical things and see if there's a response. Or if it does bother you, something short and direct might work. "When I send you a message, I expect a prompt response. This relationship won't work if I'm not your priority."
/r/askTRP04/05/16 10:23 PM
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If there's no time concern on your part, why worry? I don't expect a fast answer unless I need one, and if I do need one I make my expectations clear. I don't think sitting down and saying: "x, it bothers me when you don't reply to me, especially when I know you're online". I think that's torpedoing your own boat. Maybe there's a way to present it, idk atm but maybe.
/r/askTRP04/05/16 10:03 PM
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Having some female friends isn't bad and it gives you a target-rich environment if you're careful and don't poison the well. I'd say find a low-investment (time/money) hobby you can share with other guys. Also focus on getting familiar with the faculty, this has a dual benefit.
/r/askTRP04/05/16 09:54 PM
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Was she providing value equal to or greater than the time / energy investment to listen to her?
/r/askTRP04/05/16 09:52 PM
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Behavioral changes: Force yourself to not jerk into her panties. Fuck, throw them out. Only fap to porn / fantasies with an aggressive / dominant man. If you start thinking submissively, force yourself to exercise, do a hobby, whatever. "The nature of submission": There's sexual submission and social / relationship submission. If you want to walk the balance you need to separate them. Plenty of " dominant" guys are actually beta in the RP sense, with their "submissives" having way too much contr…
/r/askTRP04/05/16 09:51 PM
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Don't ask or beg, tell her what you expect. If she doesn't listen and there are some consequences, make it clear it's on her. If she doesn't like that, cut her out. Examples: "I'm going to the store on the way. Tell me if we need bread before 5:00." ... no response, you need bread and there's none or she needs some and whines... "Go get bread. I told you to let me know and you didn't reply." M: "I'm going to a movie tonight. Let me know by 6 if you want me to pick you up." ... no response but la…
/r/askTRP04/05/16 09:45 PM
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Two ways I guess. One, there's no easy solution, but just willpower and behavioral changes over time. Second way, this will be really really hard but if you can't break your need for sexual submissiveness... Do it only on your terms and only in the bedroom. Don't ever let a woman control your daily life or finances. Set hard limits and keep them (don't let her play with other guys for example). Play subbie in bed and double down on being in control in every other arena. Use some Machiavellian bu…
/r/askTRP04/05/16 09:39 PM
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Bikini line? Some girls find it more comfortable / hygienic I think
/r/askTRP04/05/16 09:31 PM
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I've definitely played the environmentally concerned angle. It's actually plausible, too, since there really are guys who prefer PT because of that
/r/askTRP04/05/16 09:19 PM
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They show up late? looks at watch Hey, x, you know high-class escorts like me charge by the minute, right?
/r/askTRP04/05/16 09:15 PM
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If she's whining and venting, just kind of be there (if she's worth the patience). If it's an actual solvable problem, tell her how to fix it. If she doesn't listen and keeps whining about the same issue, cut her off.
/r/askTRP04/05/16 09:04 PM
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Do you have skills and savings? If you don't have both (or at least one) don't consider moving (unless you go armed forces).
/r/askTRP04/05/16 08:53 PM
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Tbh my first response was to shrug neutrally and say something like "well, since you want to so badly" which was probably a bad response, but I managed to assert myself in a way that was kind of funny (not laugh at me funny but laugh at the situation), arousing (for her), and got me something I want. So I think I partially failed but flipped it, but I still think it's kind of a complex situation that isn't really talked about (where both options seem kinda bad). Bottom line is what you said, the…
/r/askTRP04/05/16 08:23 PM
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I feel like if you can paint whatever as a smart tactical decision it helps. Like, I'll do dangerous shit if I gotta, but I'm not gonna do dangerous shit just to look cool to some pleb.
/r/askTRP04/05/16 08:18 PM
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Please note I'm not an expert by any means, but I appreciate your response.
/r/askTRP04/05/16 06:52 PM
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I basically did the last one.
/r/askTRP04/05/16 06:51 PM
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Spend a summer working at a (boy's) summer camp Almost die / endure severe physical trauma (and recover) Move (far) Ride public buses daily for a while
/r/askTRP04/05/16 06:24 PM
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To me the definition of shit test is: something done/said to ensure alpha status of (prospective) mate. Maybe wrong. Anyhow I didn't say I was scared and didn't say anything at that time about my accident (though she knew about it), I just said I found them dull and unenjoyable.
/r/askTRP04/05/16 05:57 PM
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Oh yeah, I definitely embellish it differently. I gave the no-shit version for y'all.
/r/askTRP04/05/16 05:55 PM
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Quite frankly, there is still value in learning things like female psychology, shit tests, masculine polarity, etc... And learning the Game / PUA stuff will probably help with conversational tactics etc in that area. Most guys in TRP seem anti-LTR so I haven't seen a lot of good advice if you want the whole marriage deal. You will have to walk a balance between AF and BB, keeping control and attraction while also showing you can be reliable. If you don't want to be a player but want to find the …
/r/askTRP04/05/16 05:48 PM
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Look, if they're still there and you don't have them tied down, they can always walk. If they're not walking, you aren't really forcing them to do much, because they have a choice to leave. On the other hand, I think something that is important is that even if you're being selfish in some ways, you do need to be aware of their needs (noooot what they say they need lol) and take care of that on your terms. How much you do that depends on how much value she has for you...
/r/TheRedPill02/05/16 08:15 PM
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I think outside of deeply fraternal organizations it's tough (for you the military, for me I had scouting until 18). I'm in basically the same boat, lost most of my friends in a messy breakup (I'm sure there's a TRP post in there...) and then moved. Now I have people I hang out with, get along with, but no close friends. Eh, life is awesome in other ways though
/r/TheRedPill01/05/16 07:59 AM
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Do you know how quick and cold we'd tell guys to be in the reverse scenario? If he married a girl and then the bitch wants to stay home all day and not work for 1+ year? While the guy is looking for a second job to keep her and the kids afloat? We'd tell that guy to cut her off yesterday. We'd tell him to give her 1 month to get a job or get papers. I think the hypocrisy people are calling out here isn't TRP but general culture. I had an ltr with a girl, I worked 2-3x as many hours as her, she e…
/r/TheRedPill01/05/16 06:57 AM
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Who's to say he hasn't tried to get a job, but maybe she put him on blast for it not being good enough? M: Hunny I applied for this shop gig. It's only 20k annual instead of the 80k I made but it's work W: No no no that's not enough you're so lazy you can do better than that [time passes] W: Why hasn't my husband got a job? Now I'm not saying this exactly happened but it's plausible and I'm guessing not all the story's coming through. Also as others have said, flip the genders and the man'd be e…
/r/TheRedPill01/05/16 06:46 AM
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Just tell her to wear it and lay out specific consequences. Maybe the consequences are you dump her. If she's not willing, then it's a big red flag that either she's shit or you're shit.
/r/TheRedPill01/05/16 06:28 AM
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I think boys and young men have a strong lack of positive masculine socialization. No or few mentors / confidantes / honest no bullshit advisors / true friends. I think this is true no matter what your personality is like, you can be a geek guy and have people you play games with, be a jock and have your sports buddies, be a bro and have the guys you go clubbing with, whatever... But even if y'all get along, they like you, you like them, it's very difficult and unusual to forge any deeper connec…
/r/TheRedPill01/05/16 06:10 AM
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That there's a red flag (I only know from painful experience)
/r/MGTOW01/05/16 05:54 AM
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Shoot do you know my ex? lol painfully accurate
/r/TheRedPill01/05/16 05:51 AM
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I think this is an epidemic with a few tentacles nowadays, especially for men
/r/TheRedPill01/05/16 04:39 AM
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Yep, after a severe car accident left me almost dead, plus a collapsed urethra + kidney stones + intense catheterization, my fear went way down and my confidence went way up
/r/TheRedPill01/05/16 04:36 AM
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