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| 10 | The Red Pill told me that competence would automatically lead to dating success. It didn'tEvery attractive woman has dated, and probably been dumped by, a hobosexual. No career, no plan, and she was crazy about him. Competence is real. Princeton research puts it as one of the two things people read when they size you up. You built one of the two. I was a literal rocket scientist. Asian culture taught me good grades and a good job meant women would automagically appear. They did not. The hobosexual is all charisma with no lifestyle. You're drifting to the opposite extreme, all compete… | /r/ExRedPill | 16/07/26 01:15 PM |
| -1 | I don't get it. The only people doing and teaching cold approach and game are redpill types.Not strictly a redpill thing, but look at the replies you're already getting. Most of them regurgitate mainstream dating advice that only works if you're already mainstream, reasonably good looking, white and neurotypical. As a 5'4 below-average-looking Asian man who wasn't raised in American dating culture, I found both mainstream and redpill lacking. Mainstream coaches don't last long because their advice quietly assumes you start with advantages you might not have. Picture a tall, good-lookin… | /r/ExRedPill | 13/07/26 04:35 PM |
| 1 | PUA for men is demonized, yet makeup/provocative clothing is accepted for women, even though both are forms of manipulation/seduction for attracting the opposite sexThanks! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/26 01:31 AM |
| 3 | PUA for men is demonized, yet makeup/provocative clothing is accepted for women, even though both are forms of manipulation/seduction for attracting the opposite sexThe framing of “manipulation” is where this argument loses me. A woman wearing red lipstick isn’t manipulating anyone. She’s presenting herself attractively. A man who works on his confidence, body language, fashion, and social skills isn’t manipulating anyone either. He’s also presenting himself attractively. Both are doing the same thing: becoming a better version of themselves to compete in the mating market. The reason PUA gets demonized is partly justified. There are genuinely bad actors in… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/26 06:10 PM |
| 3 | Why do you think minority men are often more sympathetic to the RedPill?Nah, as an Asian dating coach, while even Asian men who might struggle with women, I can safely say that AMs generally don’t fall into red pill spaces (although yes, you will still find those who do). Partially due to the fact that the Manosphere has a pretty virulent strain of racism throughout the community. | /r/ExRedPill | 03/03/26 10:44 AM |
| 3 | Ex Pick Up Artist Community StoriesNot specifically ex-PUA but I exist in that in between area of the Venn diagram of the Manosphere and Asian community where I’m able to call out both their strengths and weaknesses. Specifically, for your story, how the PUA (much like the Manosphere in general) community has a strain of racism throughout. | /r/ExRedPill | 19/02/26 02:43 AM |
| 3 | Anti-red pill documentary interviewsI exist between the Asian American and Manosphere communities so I might have a unique take on it, seeing how mainstream culture doesn’t really provide viable solutions for AMs, but also how the Manosphere itself is racist. | /r/ExRedPill | 06/02/26 07:06 PM |
| 2 | It is easier to be red pilled than take accountability.Did you answer yes to any of the baseline questions? | /r/ExRedPill | 03/02/26 04:21 AM |
| 4 | It is easier to be red pilled than take accountability.Well that’s the thing about accountability and ownerships, ain’t it? It doesn’t mean it’ll be easy. But let’s take a baseline poll here: are you physically disabled? Are you physically deformed? Are you under 5”? Have you been medically (not self or friend diagnosed but actually by a doctor) diagnosed with any mental disorders? If no, then you already meet the bare minimum of what it takes to be even ok at dating. It doesn’t take much to clean yourself up, but a little bit of cash for a wardrobe… | /r/ExRedPill | 01/02/26 05:35 AM |
| 12 | It is easier to be red pilled than take accountability.I mean, that’s only half of taking accountability. It’s good that you recognize that you have a deficit or facing a challenge, the next step is doing something about it. Whether that’s increasing your fashion, body language and/or social skills, it’s taking ownership of what you can change while letting going of what you cannot. | /r/ExRedPill | 01/02/26 02:01 AM |
| 3 | Reddpill knowledge and it's costsCognitive dissonance. Your brain is processing new information that conflicts with your preconceived ideas. While some of the ideas and observations may have truth in them, believing or ruminating on them for so long can have long term mental health issues and consequences like depression or worse. I say just take what helps you and ignore what you cannot change. Take (sexualized) racism for example (me being a 5’4 Asian American male with below conventionally attractive looks). Understanding ho… | /r/ExRedPill | 29/01/26 01:02 PM |
| 3 | I feel like the RP did have a point on “cold approach”PUA was in many ways very anti-red pill and anti-blackpill given the nihilistic philosophy of them both, although there was obvious adjacency to RP. The thing to take away from pickup was that it has a proactive stance in your self-development, that you do have control over your own progress, and that things are not hopeless. But moreso when it comes to infield work, think of it as a very fast way to rapidly condense social experience into just a couple of years (a lot like going to night school… | /r/ExRedPill | 26/12/25 07:08 PM |
| 2 | Why do incel extremists shame ethnic minority men and call them creeps when they literally are creeps themselves?The broader manosphere definitely has an undercurrent of racism against Asians. | /r/ExRedPill | 25/12/25 06:39 PM |
| 10 | Hoe math and how you guys left this kind of thinkingIf you go on Twitter, HM is a full on neo-Nazi advocating for exterminating minorities. | /r/ExRedPill | 21/12/25 05:30 PM |
| 2 | Ex PUA/Red Pill guys — why do you think it’s toxic?Pickup can be toxic, but in and of itself not intrinsically toxic. Like martial arts could be used for good or bad, it’s just codifying dating behaviors that happen naturally in the wild so the average guy can learn himself. But the Red Pill and Manosphere generally has a very big strain of racism which I would label as toxic, being an Asian man myself. They may want a “return to traditions” but that includes a social hierarchy where white men are at the top and other races are at the bottom. | /r/ExRedPill | 01/10/25 10:32 PM |
| 68 | How do I cope with being an Indian American manAs an Asian American myself, I want to be real with you: Redpill rhetoric doesn’t just ignore guys like us, it is actively racist against us. Their version of masculinity is centered around being white, tall, and dominant in a very narrow and toxic way. It’s a system that was never designed for us to win in. That said, I’m not going to sugarcoat it: dating as an Indian guy in the U.S. can be tough. There are racial hierarchies in dating and media that subtly condition people’s preferences. But t… | /r/ExRedPill | 03/08/25 09:53 PM |
| 1 | I have read a good comment on YouTube regarding the so called dating coaches. But one question thoughThe problem is, there’s no barrier of entry, so the industry is flooded with scammers or unqualified people. But there actually are legitimate dating coaches… You just have to look deeper: how long have they been around, what are their verifiable results, what are their credentials? For example, I’m a 5’5, mid-looking Asian guy who used to weigh 201 lbs. I’ve since not only transformed my own life, but I’m also the only dating coach in the world who’s officiated a wedding between a client and th… | /r/ExRedPill | 11/07/25 06:51 PM |
| 1 | How to know which dating advice is the true one?A lot of what you’re asking depends on context and nuance. For example, what works for a tall, good looking, white male is not the same thing for a short, unattractive, Asian guy. The first could do the entire nonchalant, dress average approach because there’s already attraction in the first place while the woman backwards rationalizes why she likes him even though he displays little to no personality, and attributes it to being “mysterious.” For someone like me, 5’5 mid looking Asian guy, and f… | /r/ExRedPill | 09/07/25 05:11 PM |
| -3 | I went deep down the PUA rabbit hole and can’t seem to fully pull myself out despite how much I’ve moved away from red pill as a whole. Any advice?I get where you’re coming from, man. This is a common struggle when you start approaching – you can end up hyper-focusing on it to the point it dominates your social life and mindset. It sounds like you’re burning out, not because you’re doing too much, but because you’re doing it without a solid system and realistic goals. One of my former students, Jared, was in a similar spot. He’s a doctor who struggled with his confidence and social skills, especially as someone who was formerly obese. But … | /r/ExRedPill | 19/05/25 05:37 PM |
| 1 | I Asked 20 Women Why They Slept With Me: Their Answers Changed My GameIn the example I gave in the video, I essentially created an aura of status. Between my hair, fashion, exoticness (only Asian in the entire club), cold approaching two sets, merging both groups of girls, and then getting invited up to the main stage where j befriended the DJ, a 20 year old blonde had started checking me out. Pretty sure that was just an excuse for her to approach me because I stood out and appeared to be a “somebody” even though I had manufactured status out of nothing. | /r/seduction | 06/02/25 02:24 AM |
| 0 | I Asked 20 Women Why They Slept With Me: Their Answers Changed My GamePG receipts. | /r/seduction | 06/02/25 01:39 AM |
| 1 | I Asked 20 Women Why They Slept With Me: Their Answers Changed My GamePG receipts. | /r/seduction | 06/02/25 01:39 AM |
| 1 | I Asked 20 Women Why They Slept With Me: Their Answers Changed My GameI look like a short, 5’5, mid Asian | /r/seduction | 06/02/25 01:38 AM |
| 0 | I Asked 20 Women Why They Slept With Me: Their Answers Changed My GameMajority of girls I date, approach and hookup with are non-Asian. | /r/seduction | 05/02/25 11:40 PM |
| 1 | I Asked 20 Women Why They Slept With Me: Their Answers Changed My GameYeah, that's not why he's upset. /u/Ok_Potential359 is moving the goal posts and backward rationalizing. This is an age old strategy I've seen from other fly by nighters who are trying to position themselves as the anti-coach in any given market or industry. His first post was about my Best Friend story, l"ol 😂 your best friend wanted revenge sex? And you tell this story to get laid? Dont be a fuck boy." Which can't be generic because it's literally MY story. So that refutes that point including… | /r/seduction | 05/02/25 10:14 PM |
| 1 | I Asked 20 Women Why They Slept With Me: Their Answers Changed My GameIntro to hip hop and/or salsa. Hip hop will give you a sense of rhythm and at least show you how to look cool and not out of place on the dance floor. Salsa gets you used to kino escalation, touch and an easy excuse to isolate her to the dance floor. You don’t need to be an expert, just enough rhythm so you don’t look like you have CRD. | /r/seduction | 05/02/25 09:39 PM |
| 1 | I Asked 20 Women Why They Slept With Me: Their Answers Changed My GameI prefer meal prepping rice paper shrimp rolls, higher protein lower calories. | /r/seduction | 05/02/25 09:38 PM |
| -3 | I Asked 20 Women Why They Slept With Me: Their Answers Changed My GameIt’s almost like you don’t understand context and nuance. Like you watch a video on how to make bean soup and then ask “What if I don’t like beans?” What if you’re at a nudist colony, what is good fashion going to help out then? Of course it isn’t. You dance at clubs and bars and the like. What brain dead mayocel would think it would apply to the middle of a grocery store? | /r/seduction | 05/02/25 09:15 PM |
| 1 | I Asked 20 Women Why They Slept With Me: Their Answers Changed My GameTrue, you have to know what makes a good attraction story. So identify the 3 attraction switches in the story. | /r/seduction | 05/02/25 09:06 PM |
| 1 | I Asked 20 Women Why They Slept With Me: Their Answers Changed My GameIt’s my job. Also my privilege to go to my clients 10th year anniversary to celebrate him, his wife, and two kids. What’s your excuse? But thank you for signal boosting and directing traffic to my college talks. | /r/seduction | 05/02/25 09:00 PM |
| 2 | I Asked 20 Women Why They Slept With Me: Their Answers Changed My GameYou’re literally on Reddit posting on a sub called seduction. | /r/seduction | 05/02/25 08:43 PM |
| 1 | I Asked 20 Women Why They Slept With Me: Their Answers Changed My GameI asked your mother, she was #20. | /r/seduction | 05/02/25 08:33 PM |
| 1 | I Asked 20 Women Why They Slept With Me: Their Answers Changed My Game🙏 Women have all different types of things that they find attractive in men. So it’s important to embody multiple aspects of your personality and exude. | /r/seduction | 05/02/25 08:29 PM |
| 0 | I Asked 20 Women Why They Slept With Me: Their Answers Changed My GameI go into more detail in the video, but it was a combination of my hairstyle, fashion, exoticness (literally the only Asian there), I merged two groups of girls together I had cold approached, befriended the DJ, and this 20 year old blonde girl started noticing me and then approached me. All that added up to the idea that I must have some sort of “status” and that just happened to be her excuse she used to approach me. | /r/seduction | 05/02/25 08:28 PM |
| -2 | I Asked 20 Women Why They Slept With Me: Their Answers Changed My GameJust say you’ve never done pillow talk. Imagine instead if you had asked every girl when they’re at their most honest about what made her attracted to you in the first place… and then you kept repeating it! It’s almost like you have empirical evidence of what actually worked for you so kept doing it started getting consistent results. | /r/seduction | 05/02/25 08:26 PM |
| -11 | I Asked 20 Women Why They Slept With Me: Their Answers Changed My GameIt’s almost like you need to know how to tell a good story. | /r/seduction | 05/02/25 08:10 PM |
| 2 | I Asked 20 Women Why They Slept With Me: Their Answers Changed My GameYale - https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PL640B1DBB4DEA94C9 Harvard - https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLBB942AABADB97521 Wharton School of Business - https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PL364CAFCB2FBD1A8A University of Chicago - https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLEAE45250AB02CB9F | /r/seduction | 05/02/25 07:57 PM |
| -1 | I Asked 20 Women Why They Slept With Me: Their Answers Changed My GameIt’s almost like I translated her pillow girl talk into guy talk. | /r/seduction | 05/02/25 07:46 PM |
| -17 | I Asked 20 Women Why They Slept With Me: Their Answers Changed My GameAh, so you’d sleep with a girl who’s drunk? Noted. LEO should take note of this man too. | /r/seduction | 05/02/25 07:45 PM |
| 6 | I Asked 20 Women Why They Slept With Me: Their Answers Changed My GameYou first have to be able actually sleep with a woman to be able to do that. | /r/seduction | 05/02/25 07:44 PM |
| 3 | I Asked 20 Women Why They Slept With Me: Their Answers Changed My GameDid you take a look at what I actually look like? I’m a 5’5 mid looking Asian. | /r/seduction | 05/02/25 07:28 PM |
| 3 | I Asked 20 Women Why They Slept With Me: Their Answers Changed My GameI have my Cool Asian Mom story detailed somewhere, but it basically shows me opening up to my mother, traveling the world, and her being open to her so. having non-Asian relationships. Attraction wise, it has the world traveler but also inherently people understand it can be hard to integrate into an Asian family as Asian parents can be discriminatory, it opens up the possibility that she, a non-Asian, would be accepted. Curiously, one girl literally said that it was when I told that story to he… | /r/seduction | 05/02/25 07:17 PM |
| -28 | I Asked 20 Women Why They Slept With Me: Their Answers Changed My GameAh yes, the “Asian Male Fetishization” universal attraction trigger. | /r/seduction | 05/02/25 07:13 PM |
| -10 | I Asked 20 Women Why They Slept With Me: Their Answers Changed My GameThanks. A lot of times it wasn't what I originally thought made her attracted to me. The most important thing I learned is to use actual real empirical data I got from my successes and just kept repeating them instead of theory crafting. | /r/seduction | 05/02/25 06:03 PM |
| -64 | I Asked 20 Women Why They Slept With Me: Their Answers Changed My GameI tell the female best friend story in full in the video. It's at 04:20 Basically it's a true story about how I was helping a friend of mine who was going through a bad breakup. Later she wanted to have revenge sex, but I politely turned her down and made sure she got home safe. | /r/seduction | 05/02/25 06:00 PM |
| 13 | How would you approach winning back a girl that had a crush on you at first but you ruined it by being too needy?Getting out of the friend zone means making her reevaluate you and see you in a different light. Right now, she has you mentally categorized in a space that isn’t sexually attractive to her. The easiest way to disrupt that is for her to see you with other attractive women. This is social proof, or in psychology, it’s known as mate copying—where women reassess a man’s value based on the interest of other women. If other attractive women want you, then she subconsciously starts questioning if she … | /r/seduction | 05/02/25 05:25 AM |
| 4 | Is my opinion about dating the reason I'm having trouble getting laid?You’re acting as if attraction is binary, that it’s either on or off. That she wants to marry you or not. It’s a lot more nuanced than that. Plenty of women can just want to fuck and be attracted to the body / fun vibe with absolutely no desire to know you as a human being. In fact, that’s what makes feminism so great. Plenty of women are willing to have sex with zero emotional attachment. But the point I was I trying to make is that you seem to be putting the cart before the horse. If you aren’… | /r/seduction | 02/02/25 09:34 PM |
| 0 | Where do you guys get the endurance?Endurance in dating comes from discipline and commitment, just like fitness. If you’ve built the habit of going to the gym regularly and eating well, it starts to feel weird NOT to go. It feels weird NOT to have your muscles ache. The same applies to socializing—when you make it a daily part of your life, it becomes second nature. Building social endurance is about consistently putting yourself in situations where you’re engaging with people. Just like in fitness, where progress comes from pushi… | /r/seduction | 02/02/25 08:55 PM |
| 8 | Is my opinion about dating the reason I'm having trouble getting laid?It’s sounds like you aren’t even getting her attracted to you, so it’s quite the jump to think you’d make her emotionally attached to you. | /r/seduction | 02/02/25 08:52 PM |
| 14 | Whats the proper way to cold approach?Cold approach absolutely works, but it requires a combination of physical, verbal, and mental game. If you haven’t practiced it from an early age, it’s easy to get wrong. And on top of that, it requires calibration, because not every situation calls for the same level of directness. It sounds like your “social gathering” is more of a lukewarm setting, meaning it’s not a true cold approach environment like a bar or club where nobody knows each other. In a house party, networking event, or similar… | /r/seduction | 02/02/25 08:50 PM |
| 13 | How are yall seeing iois and interest from girls you don’t know?As a 5’5 mid Asian guy, I can’t depend on looking for IOIs because, let’s be real, I’d never get them. Instead, I create attraction after I approach. I don’t wait for permission, I don’t wait for “signs”—I make it happen by leading the interaction. That said, if you’re someone who gets IOIs (Indicators of Interest), here’s what to look for: 1. Eye contact: Some women will hold eye contact for a second longer than usual. Others will keep glancing at you when they think you won’t notice (gyms with… | /r/seduction | 01/02/25 10:34 PM |
| 1 | How can I stop feeling jealous of dudes that don’t have to put in any effort?It sounds like you’re experiencing what a lot of guys—especially Asian guys—go through when they compare themselves to the “genetic lottery” winners. I get it. I used to compare myself to my taller, better-looking, white friends too. My closest wingmen back in the day? A European male model, a bodybuilder, and a hip-hop dancer. Girls loved them, and I was constantly measuring myself against their success. And yeah, at first, they were getting more results. It was frustrating. But while they reli… | /r/seduction | 30/01/25 08:03 PM |
| 1 | Tutorial For Tinder, Hinge & Bumble: How To Take Better Photos And Getting More Matches On Dating AppsConsidering I’ve literally seen one of my guys go from 0 matches to getting 50 with new photos, I’m going to choose real world results over mental masturbation. | /r/seduction | 24/01/25 06:33 PM |
| 12 | I don't understand how people are attracted to personalityDo you believe women can be attracted to a man’s wealth, lifestyle, status, etc? A nontangible, nonphysical thing? | /r/ExRedPill | 24/01/25 02:54 PM |
| 2 | How does a guy navigate being short(er) in todays dating world?I get it, being tall, dark, and handsome might seem like the jackpot in today’s dating world. But I’ve learned to settle for being short, stunning, and smooth. There’s a big difference between being born good looking and knowing how to look good. One is luck, the other is skill, and skill can be learned. I can’t count the number of times I’ve sparked a conversation with a girl and got her genuinely interested, not because I’m tall (I’m not) or conventionally attractive, but because of charisma, … | /r/ExRedPill | 24/01/25 01:12 AM |
| 2 | Tutorial For Tinder, Hinge & Bumble: How To Take Better Photos And Getting More Matches On Dating Appshttps://www.bustle.com/p/whats-the-best-type-of-photo-for-a-dating-app-profile-travel-pictures-may-boost-your-odds-says-hinge-72138 | /r/seduction | 23/01/25 06:06 PM |
| 0 | Tutorial For Tinder, Hinge & Bumble: How To Take Better Photos And Getting More Matches On Dating AppsBro, I’ve literally done that for myself and students. My average score was like a 4.1 on Photofeeler before I learned how to take better pics. | /r/seduction | 23/01/25 02:41 AM |
| 1 | Tutorial For Tinder, Hinge & Bumble: How To Take Better Photos And Getting More Matches On Dating AppsThanks for calling me attractive. I assure you in real life I’m not, but I know how to look good, which is different than being good looking. If you can do that, you can at least start evening out the playing field. | /r/seduction | 23/01/25 02:40 AM |
| 4 | Tutorial For Tinder, Hinge & Bumble: How To Take Better Photos And Getting More Matches On Dating AppsIt depends on your natural SMV, for sure women start distrusting men when they reach a certain “above average” level of good looks. They inherently know that a man who is extremely handsome or have a lavish lifestyle is going to have his pick of women and most likely to cheat. So you also want something humanizing, thus the pet or niece photo. But if you’re an average to below average looking guy, let’s say someone like me who is short and not handsome, then we have to give ourselves an edge. It… | /r/seduction | 23/01/25 12:55 AM |
| 2 | Tutorial For Tinder, Hinge & Bumble: How To Take Better Photos And Getting More Matches On Dating AppsI've never overly depended on them as I prefer in real life interactions, but it's an easy way to add more women into your lineup and roster depending on what you're looking for. | /r/seduction | 23/01/25 12:23 AM |
| 4 | Is Europe A Dating Paradise for Asian Men?I mean, most of the modern white PUA gurus made their claim to fame because they went to Asia or had inordinate amounts of success with foreign Asian girls. Easy mode. 🤷♂️ | /r/seduction | 13/01/25 07:44 PM |
| -7 | Is Europe A Dating Paradise for Asian Men?French girls were pretty receptive in my experience, could have something to do with the Viet-French war. But yes, Europe (as I noted) has racism, but nowhere to the same magnitude as it does in the USA. | /r/seduction | 13/01/25 07:14 PM |
| -4 | Is Europe A Dating Paradise for Asian Men?Hard mode is when the women (both the majority and even your own kind, ala Asian girls) are racist to you and the men also try to cockblock you with racism. In the USA, that happens happens on occasion as a non-white man. | /r/seduction | 13/01/25 07:12 PM |
| 2 | Is Europe A Dating Paradise for Asian Men?West, Central and East. I dated a London model for 8 years and had successes in the Scandinavian countries. Sure the more east you go, the less the anti-Asian stereotypes, but compared to the USA which is like gaming on Hard mode, Europe (all parts) is like gaming on Normal mode. | /r/seduction | 13/01/25 06:57 PM |
| -6 | I guess looks are almost everything when it comes to datingI went through something similar, but in my case (5’5 Asian) I had 3 good looking white wingmen: hip hop dancer, European male model, and body builder. I ended up with those guys because I had practiced game so much that I was literally better than the 99% of other wingmen I had auditioned. Almost none of them could keep up with me and hold down a set. Except for those three guys. They all had some sort of expertise they concentrated on in addition to their looks (cocky & funny, direct, comfort … | /r/ExRedPill | 26/12/24 05:33 PM |
| 27 | Speaking with a more attractive voiceDeveloping a deeper, more attractive voice is about conscious training and muscle memory. A high-pitched voice often comes from speaking out of the upper throat due to tension, shallow breathing, or nerves. A deep, resonant voice comes when you project from your diaphragm, which not only makes you sound confident but also more masculine and grounded. Here’s a quick tip: • Start practicing diaphragmatic breathing. When you speak, take deep breaths into your belly, not your chest. • Focus on relax… | /r/seduction | 18/12/24 11:01 AM |
| 1 | Mode 1 and the lack of ballsDirect game is generally more of an intermediate level skill set because you have to have your nonverbals a bit more practiced as well as having decent SMV. Indirect tends to be good for newbies because it helps you manage AA, learn crowd control, and bantering. With more referential experience, which reading between the lines of your post is what you need, you could then be more effective with direct. | /r/seduction | 13/12/24 11:01 PM |
| 2 | Advice Needed on Approaching Women in Real LifeDaygame and nightgame each have their pros and cons, and choosing where to focus your practice depends on your goals and readiness. Nightgame is perfect for beginners because of the high volume and the fact that mistakes aren’t as costly. If you mess up or get rejected, it’s a non-issue since the environment resets the next day. It’s also less personal, so you can take more risks and refine your technique. Daygame, especially in lukewarm settings like libraries or workplaces, has a higher likeli… | /r/seduction | 12/12/24 06:19 PM |
| 1 | Indications of Interest (IOI's)Spotting Indicators of Interest (IOIs) is all about understanding subtle body language and social cues. Key signs to look out for: 1. Eye Contact: If she holds your gaze longer than usual or glances at you repeatedly, that’s a strong IOI. 2. Smiling or Laughing: Genuine smiles or laughter, especially if it’s frequent, are clear indicators she’s enjoying your presence. 3. Physical Proximity: If she’s moving closer to you in a conversation or leaning in, she’s likely comfortable and interested. 4.… | /r/seduction | 12/12/24 05:44 PM |
| 1 | Dating coachHey, I’m JT Tran, America’s #1 Asian Dating Coach, and I specialize in helping men, especially minorities, succeed in dating with actionable, real-world advice. It’s one thing to learn game from a tall, good looking white guy… it’s another thing entirely to learn it from someone short, Asian and not conventionally attractive. So it you’re looking for motivation and guidance, check out my YouTube channel where I break down strategies and mindset shifts that work: https://youtube.com/@abcsofattrac… | /r/seduction | 10/12/24 02:41 AM |
| 1 | What is being sassy as male and is it a turn off or a turn on for females?Examine your body language and your tone of voice (is your octave high or low) as, when applied to men, sassy connotes non-heteronormative attributes. | /r/seduction | 01/12/24 04:55 AM |
| 1 | How much does a great body help in attracting females?I’ve gamed both skinny, overweight (201lb at 5’5) and I now have 6 pack abs. Skinny was actually probably the hardest level of game while being extremely fit has had only minimal impact. Granted I’m something of an outlier as I do this professionally so I never really depended on being good looking to help me. I compensated with style, optimizing my SMV in other ways, and a shit ton of game. But having a 6 pack isn’t something that is noticeable when you’re suited up. Also I do have an upper lim… | /r/seduction | 29/11/24 05:24 AM |
| 7 | Can’t dance, and won’t do itTaking intro to hip hop so you understand rhythm and can look semi-cool and not out of place and then salsa to learn sexual escalation. No need to be an expert but it’s useful for isolation and sexual escalation. Also women unconsciously judge your sexual ability by your rhythm and ability to dance. | /r/seduction | 28/11/24 03:18 AM |
| 7 | I'm too afraid of approaching girls!Hey man, it’s totally normal to feel hesitant after facing a string of rejections. It can shake anyone’s confidence, but the key is to break the cycle and take control of your mindset. Here are a couple of practical steps to get back on track: 1. Start Small: Approach anxiety often comes from putting too much pressure on the interaction. Instead of diving straight into high-stakes conversations, start by doing easy approaches. Compliment someone in passing, ask for directions, or make casual sma… | /r/seduction | 13/11/24 11:27 PM |
| 1 | Any tips for guys who aren’t attractive?Here’s the reality: there’s a difference between being “good-looking” and “looking good.” Most men can get above a woman’s “fuckable line” if they put in the effort, even if they’re not naturally handsome or tall. Trust me, I know – I’m 5’5” and not traditionally good-looking, but I’ve found ways to stand out. Here’s how: 1. Develop a Standout Style: Style is like a silent introduction. If you can cultivate an edgy, unique look, you’ll set yourself apart from all the other guys out there who dre… | /r/seduction | 13/11/24 05:27 PM |
| 0 | Have you ever picked up a girl that was grinding on another guy?Yes | /r/seduction | 10/11/24 08:05 PM |
| 0 | East Asian guys who get laid in Europe, how?Hey man, welcome to Europe! I totally get where you’re coming from—dating as an East Asian guy in a Western country can feel like uncharted territory, especially with the different cultural dynamics. Here’s the good news: European women are often much more open and curious about dating Asian men compared to what you might experience in the States. They’re not bogged down by the same Hollywood stereotypes or racial biases that we see in North America, so your “baseline” here is neutral to positiv… | /r/seduction | 08/11/24 09:23 AM |
| 2 | What do you guys think about the height increasing insoles ?The stigma against elevator shoes is mostly a Western thing as it feeds into the hierarchy structure of the social pyramid: tall guys don’t want the competition and women don’t want to dilute the pool of dating partners. In Asia, it’s super common. The irony is a LOT of male shoes have built in soles to give height boost, but no one talks about it. Yeezy’s for example and a ton of basketball style shoes give on average 2-3 inches of height. Oh, did you think they were that tall naturally? And th… | /r/seduction | 21/10/24 07:09 PM |
| 1 | How to approach someone when crossing the street in opposite directions?There is such a thing as using common sense in game. In this case, you don’t. If either one of you stops in the middle of the street, no amount of attraction is going to stop a car from hitting you. Figure out the approach from one side of the street or the other. | /r/seduction | 14/10/24 07:54 PM |
| 7 | Older men approachWhen approaching as an older man, keeping your appearance fresh with good skincare, styled hair and dressing in modern fashion is essential. Acting young at heart will make you seem more approachable and less “creepy.” Confidence comes from owning your age and focusing on shared interests rather than the age difference. Remember, attraction isn’t just about looks but also energy and attitude. To get more insight, check out our video on dating advice for older men: Dating Advice for Older Men Ove… | /r/seduction | 13/10/24 11:00 PM |
| 10 | Seeking cold approach adviceWhen you’re getting back into the cold approach game, especially after a long hiatus, the key is to avoid overthinking and waiting for the perfect opportunity. That moment rarely comes. Start by being in the moment and engaging with women in low-pressure ways—asking for help with a product at the grocery store, for example. The goal is to build momentum and confidence with small interactions. Don’t worry about perfection, just get the ball rolling with simple, easy asks. Here’s a couple of psych… | /r/seduction | 13/10/24 09:49 PM |
| 29 | how to break into the top percentile of women?Lifestyle, inner game and access. Amateurs think tactics while experts think logistics. Half the battle is logistics. So getting access to social events, parties and the like where every single woman is 8-10 is the biggest hurdle and weeding out mechanism of most lesser men. Lifestyle is what gives you that access. So a millionaire might naturally get access to it because he has high net worth friends who invite him. Inner game is what gives you the ability to take advantage of it. That same mil… | /r/seduction | 13/10/24 07:38 PM |
| 3 | Gonna try going to a bar completely solo this Friday. Mid-30’s, a bit shy, any advice?When going to a bar solo, it’s common for the night to pick up around 10 PM and go until 2 AM. Start by socializing with the staff or other patrons to get warmed up. This helps lower your social anxiety. After that, try using the Kickstarter “Cheers” opener, where you raise a glass and say “Cheers!” to those around you. This opener works well because it’s tied to social etiquette and has a very low rejection rate, making it easier to break the ice. | /r/seduction | 13/10/24 05:34 PM |
| 2 | First time going to a bar, recently (24M)Sounds like you’re off to a good start! First, remember that introducing yourself is crucial. Next time, try to break the touch barrier early with something light like a handshake or a playful light kino. Focus on being present and having fun without overthinking the interaction. You can also warm up by casually talking to everyone at the venue (bartenders, people nearby) before you engage someone you’re interested in. This helps build social momentum, which makes flirting feel more natural. For… | /r/seduction | 13/10/24 05:29 PM |
| 3 | 26M Maximizing the chances for success based on location. Where do you meet single women?Run clubs, pickle ball, dance classes. | /r/seduction | 13/10/24 05:23 PM |
| 1 | Losing Weight?I can relate to what you’re going through. Despite losing 60 pounds and getting a six-pack, my success with women didn’t skyrocket because attraction isn’t solely about being fit. When I was 201 lbs, I still pulled women due to confidence, game, and fashion (being 5’5 and Asian). The truth is, while fitness is important, it takes months to see results. Meanwhile, game and fashion can increase your SMV in a weekend. Ideally, aim for both but don’t overlook what you can do right now. Check out my … | /r/seduction | 12/10/24 05:27 AM |
| 1 | What are some ways to appear taller as someone who is 5’ 6-3/4”?That never happens. That hypothetical situation is all in your mind. | /r/seduction | 11/10/24 07:30 PM |
| 2 | What are some ways to appear taller as someone who is 5’ 6-3/4”?As someone who’s 5’5 myself, I get the struggle of feeling overlooked because of height. Here’s how you can appear taller: • Posture: Stand straight, chest out, and shoulders back. This can give you a couple of inches in appearance. • Footwear: Elevator shoes or boots with a thicker sole can subtly add height. The stigma is more specific in the west as they’re very popular in Asia. The irony is that a lot of sneakers, like Yeezy’s, give you 2-3 inches but no one ever says anything about that. • … | /r/seduction | 11/10/24 07:28 PM |
| 6 | RejectionDid someone call you a Gook or a chink? Did you get a drink thrown into your face or a boyfriend called up to beat your ass or policeman to arrest you? | /r/seduction | 09/10/24 08:41 PM |
| 10 | How can you improve your talking? I cant say things I want to say infront of girls , family , strangers?To sound more attractive, masculine, and authoritative, start by controlling your breathing. Breathe deeply from your diaphragm to give your voice more depth and resonance. Slow down your speech to project confidence and prevent coming across as nervous or rushed. Lower your pitch slightly as deeper voices are generally perceived as more commanding and attractive. Use deliberate pauses to emphasize key points and show you are comfortable with silence. For more tips on tonality, check out our vid… | /r/seduction | 09/10/24 08:09 PM |
| 1 | Tone of voiceTonality plays a large part in attraction and seduction. It conveys energy, friendliness and confidence. While pauses and a deepness of voice can be seductive and a turn on. It sounds like you haven’t learned how to control your tonality and voice yet. If your voice is high and flat, yeah, no wonder you’re getting friend zoned. I literally just put out a video on this very topic this morning: https://youtu.be/wn2mHHiZQKU | /r/seduction | 07/10/24 08:26 PM |
| 14 | I am 40 and starting to learn gameWhen you’re diving back into the dating scene in your 40s, especially after a long-term relationship or marriage, it’s completely normal to feel overwhelmed or even lost. The key is to stop overthinking and to embrace practice over theory. Instead of letting the fear of rejection control you, aim for small wins, like simply starting conversations and building rapport. It’s about progress, not perfection. You have qualities that can work for you—your ability to connect, make jokes, and your youth… | /r/seduction | 07/10/24 08:07 PM |
| 6 | When approaching a woman within a group of women…You charm the entire group and win them over before focusing on your target. Here’s an infield of me approaching a 10 set of girls: https://youtu.be/BIbMKCVMBrU | /r/seduction | 06/10/24 06:06 AM |
| 5 | Whats the simplest setup I can master to increase my cold approach confidence?When you’re out at a bar or in a nightlife setting, try the Kickstarter opener. It’s as simple as holding up your drink and saying, “Cheers!” This works because it’s part of a well-known social ritual—people will automatically respond by clinking their drink with yours. This bypasses the typical mental block of “what do I say?” and gives you a simple entry into conversations without triggering a potential rejection right away. And if you want more tips like this to crush approach anxiety, check … | /r/seduction | 06/10/24 03:10 AM |
| 1 | Clueless beginner needs dating adiceFirstly, when you’re talking to women, think of it as moving from neutral into flirtatious territory by injecting playful banter. Don’t just stay in the “friendly” zone—test the waters with teasing and light challenges. Compliment but in a way that’s not desperate, e.g., “You’ve got a nice smile, but you’re definitely trouble.” It’s all about creating some fun tension. Next, make sure you’re giving clear signals of interest—don’t overthink it, just escalate in small ways like touching her arm du… | /r/seduction | 05/10/24 08:37 PM |
| 1 | How do you deal with LMR?Handling Last Minute Resistance (LMR) is all about preparation, calibration, and trust-building. There are three main strategies I recommend: Pre-emptive, Hot, and Cold tactics. Pre-emptive tactics involve building trust and comfort early on, making sure the woman feels safe with you emotionally and physically. Hot tactics are more about increasing the sexual tension balanced with foreplay. Cold tactics involve backing off at key moments to avoid triggering pressure or discomfort. If you want a … | /r/seduction | 05/10/24 05:54 PM |
| 1 | What girls think about hand kisses ( questions for girls)🙏 | /r/seduction | 04/10/24 01:30 AM |
| 2 | What girls think about hand kisses ( questions for girls)I do it all the time, easy and early way to introduce sexual kino and judge by their response. Generally works 9 out of 10 with positive responses including giggle, smiling, and hugging themselves. You can see me do it in some of my infield reels: https://youtu.be/S8I9wo5JZCg | /r/seduction | 04/10/24 01:20 AM |
| 0 | Why The Red Pill Is NOT For Asian MenNo, I literally take groups of Asian men on EuroTour and LatinTour who range in all ages and looks. While we optimize their dating profiles and in person fashion, we generally slay in the attraction department where everyone gets literally hundreds of matches as well as in person romantic success ranging from both short term and long term relationships. Asian guys, so long as they know how to both optimize their SMV as well as in person confidence, do very well at the international level. It’s t… | /r/ExRedPill | 02/10/24 07:45 PM |
| 0 | Why The Red Pill Is NOT For Asian MenThat’s just a perception in the Western world, more specifically USA. If I go to Europe and Latin America, Asians are considered significantly more attractive. For example, while we were on LatinTour, one of our Asian guys literally got 600 matches in just two weeks and he was a 49 year old guy. | /r/ExRedPill | 02/10/24 04:52 PM |
| 11 | How do I pick up signs from woman!?!?!?When you’re in situations where you’re unsure of a woman’s interest, the key is paying attention to small indicators of attraction or what we call IOIs (Indicators of Interest). Instead of waiting for her to approach you, recognize that these signs often appear in body language, tone, and how she interacts with you. A few things to watch out for: is she maintaining eye contact with you or finding reasons to be in your space? Does she touch her hair or subtly mirror your movements? These subtle s… | /r/seduction | 02/10/24 03:12 AM |
| 1 | Why The Red Pill Is NOT For Asian MenThank you for watching 🙏 | /r/ExRedPill | 01/10/24 02:57 AM |
| 6 | Why The Red Pill Is NOT For Asian MenYou’re exactly right—Asian men need to stop playing by the Red Pill’s “rules.” The problem with the Red Pill is that it’s built around an outdated, toxic model of masculinity that doesn’t work for us. Instead of trying to compete in a system that wasn’t designed for us, we need to embrace what makes us unique and powerful in our own way. Nerdy? Own it. Shorter stature? That doesn’t define your masculinity. True masculinity comes from being confident, unapologetic, and authentic in who you are, n… | /r/ExRedPill | 30/09/24 10:46 PM |
| 16 | Why The Red Pill Is NOT For Asian MenYou’re spot on with your experience of oversexualization. It’s a whole different beast for Asian men though—we’re often desexualized, especially in the West. The media loves to paint us as weak, submissive, or just plain non-sexual. You rarely see an Asian guy as the romantic lead, right? We’re either invisible or portrayed as nerds, never the one women swoon over. That might not seem much (“Oh you’re just angry because girls don’t think you’re cute”), but if someone cannot be loved, then by def… | /r/ExRedPill | 30/09/24 06:51 PM |
| 1 | Journalist (Ex-Red Pill) Looking To Interview Other Ex-Red Pill/Manosphere (can be anonymous)I’m in that cross section of pick up / manosphere / and the Asian American community where all aspects of it are helpful, but ultimately fail Asian men. In the case of the manosphere and redpill, it’s that combination of long term toxicity as well as underlying racism. So if you want to talk about it from a racial perspective from a veteran in the scene of over 20 years, let me know. | /r/ExRedPill | 30/09/24 03:18 AM |
| 31 | How do you guys handle girls fishing for drinks?Only after she’s passing sexual compliance tests. At that point, attraction has already been established, so now you’re working on letting her act uninhibited because it gives her plausible deniability for acting sexual with you. | /r/seduction | 28/09/24 07:30 PM |
| 3 | How the hell am I supposed to succeed being neurodivergent?I get it—being neurodivergent can feel like a weight in the dating scene, but there are practical, actionable steps you can take that I’ve taught to both my neuro- and culturally divergent clients to succeed: 1. Embrace Your Strengths: Instead of trying to fit into a neurotypical mold, recognize your unique strengths. Maybe you’re highly analytical, detail-oriented, or have deep passions—these can make you stand out. Own them and use them to your advantage in conversations. Women are often attra… | /r/seduction | 27/09/24 08:50 PM |
| 14 | Any former fat guys that have gotten through it?I totally get what you’re saying, man, and I’ve been there too. During COVID, I was at 201 lbs (I’m also a short 5’5 below average looking Asian), but I put in the work and the discipline and lost 60 pounds. Now, I’ve got a six-pack, and while that’s a great personal accomplishment for my health, I can tell you that having a six-pack does not make women magically attracted to you. Even when I was heavier, I could still attract women. It wasn’t the weight that was stopping or helping me, it was m… | /r/seduction | 25/09/24 09:48 PM |
| 3 | [VIDEO] 13 Indicators of Interest (IOIs): How to Tell if She’s Attracted to YouGreat question. If you’re dealing with a more reserved or conservative girl, it’s essential to play into both the C-Phase and D-Phase of the ABCDEF System. This means focusing on Compliance, Comfort, and Connect, but also using Dominance, Direct Intent, and Disqualify when needed. When she’s not giving you clear signals, but is still sticking around, it’s a good sign she’s interested. At this point, run compliance tests—simple requests like moving her around the venue or asking her to hold somet… | /r/seduction | 24/09/24 01:26 AM |
| 6 | What do you say when a woman asks for clarification about what you'll do in your room?“Get your mind out of the gutter girl, I’m a virgin and saving myself for Jesus.” | /r/seduction | 23/09/24 06:01 PM |
| 2 | After 300+ Cold Approach Rejections. I think my Self-Confidence has gotten even WORSE (Self-Reflection and mini Vent)Hey man, I can feel where you’re coming from. When you’re hitting rejection after rejection, it messes with your head and self-esteem—especially after putting in so much work on yourself physically and mentally. But here’s the thing—based on what you’re describing, you might not even be “sticking” your approach well enough to stay in the game. When you open, that first 3-5 seconds is absolutely crucial. If your body language is off, if your energy is either too low or too eager, or if you’re mis… | /r/seduction | 22/09/24 08:56 AM |
| 3 | Legit ways to break the AMOG's frameWhen dealing with an AMOG (Alpha Male of the Group) situation, especially if they try to break your frame, the key is to stay calm, maintain control of your emotions, and avoid getting into a direct confrontation that escalates the situation. The AMOG BIT method—Befriend, Ignore, Tool—is an excellent approach that works in these scenarios: Befriend: Instead of fighting back or getting defensive, you engage the AMOG in a friendly manner, making him feel included. This reduces his need to assert d… | /r/seduction | 22/09/24 08:49 AM |
| 0 | Wearing sunglasses at a club. Weird?This can be both a good and a bad thing in that it’s a form of peacocking which is going to make people notice you even more. So you might get approached more, but it also breaks rapport when you have sunglasses on if you’re talking to people. Also some are going to think you’re high. | /r/seduction | 20/09/24 06:56 PM |
| 1 | [LONG] The Inner Game Iceberg: A Blueprint for Understanding and Managing Your Emotions, Identity And Lifestyle🙏 | /r/seduction | 19/09/24 08:59 PM |
| 1 | [VIDEO] Dating Over 30: How To Use Age To Your AdvantageHey, glad you’re in LA too, I’m in the Hollywood area, what about you? I’m open to connecting, but it’s best to start by joining one of our events or signing up for a free consultation first. That way, you can see how we work and whether it’s a fit for what you’re looking to improve. Feel free to check out the upcoming schedules or shoot me a DM with more details on what you’d like to discuss! | /r/seduction | 17/09/24 05:19 PM |
| 1 | [VIDEO] Dating Over 30: How To Use Age To Your AdvantageI mean Andy is 49 and sleeping with younger models. But you’re right, the effort to have those kind outlier results does require the kind of discipline that most normies can’t muster. | /r/seduction | 17/09/24 05:17 PM |
| 4 | [VIDEO] Dating Over 30: How To Use Age To Your AdvantageSure it’s her job, but it’s also an opportunity to practice socializing as you’re not really expecting any other outcome. Down the road, you can play hired gun game where the real indicator of interest from them is when they’re willing to lose money for you (ie gaming the waitress/bartender to flirt and stay with you over taking care of her other customers). But that’s down the line and not for newbies. | /r/seduction | 17/09/24 03:28 AM |
| 1 | [VIDEO] Dating Over 30: How To Use Age To Your AdvantageHigh end grocery store here in LA. Charges $30 for asparagus water. Ridiculously priced but it also means the hot bougie girls go there to shop and have lunch. | /r/seduction | 17/09/24 03:00 AM |
| 6 | [VIDEO] Dating Over 30: How To Use Age To Your AdvantageHigh end grocery store that charges $30 for asparagus water. Ridiculously pricey but all the hot girls go to grocery shop and have lunch there here in LA. | /r/seduction | 17/09/24 02:59 AM |
| 5 | [VIDEO] Dating Over 30: How To Use Age To Your AdvantageYou’re already taking an important first step by asking how to improve. At 35, it’s about working smarter, not harder. You don’t need to waste time figuring out what works when you can leverage the right resources. Here’s where to start: Get social practice: You don’t need to dive into deep conversations immediately. Start with small, low-stakes interactions—ask the barista how their day is going, chat briefly with a coworker or someone in your social circle. Try out night game and go to a loung… | /r/seduction | 17/09/24 02:29 AM |
| 1 | [VIDEO] Dating Over 30: How To Use Age To Your AdvantageGood suggestion, I’ll put it on my to do list. Thanks 👍 | /r/seduction | 16/09/24 08:46 PM |
| 9 | [VIDEO] Dating Over 30: How To Use Age To Your AdvantageTaking care of yourself, especially as you age, is more than just about hitting the gym or eating well—it’s about investing in your presentation and lifestyle. Good skincare, grooming, and self-care routines add up over time. When you’re in your 40s, not only do you have more wisdom and life experience, but you also have the means to “buy time” in terms of how you look and feel. Fixing your teeth, losing weight, and even getting a high-quality haircut are all part of the game to stay sharp and a… | /r/seduction | 16/09/24 07:55 PM |
| 16 | [VIDEO] Dating Over 30: How To Use Age To Your AdvantageSounds like you’ve already recognized some missed opportunities—and that’s a good start. A lot of guys overlook signals or don’t act when a chance is right in front of them. What you need to do is train your awareness and build your confidence so that next time, you don’t miss out. Here’s the thing: women often won’t directly tell you they’re interested, but if you can learn to read the subtler cues—her body language, the way she talks to you—you’ll catch it. Start small, practice being present … | /r/seduction | 16/09/24 05:53 PM |
| 2 | If you follow a system/guru, be consistent and stick to itYou’re right that people often overlook the power of sticking to a single system. But here’s the thing—people don’t perform at the level of their expectations, they perform at the level of their preparation. No system will do the work for you, no method is a magic bullet. It’s about putting in the reps. Whether it’s the Misery Method, my ABCs of Attraction, or another system, the key is to stick to one and practice it relentlessly. You won’t improve by passively consuming knowledge—you get bette… | /r/seduction | 16/09/24 02:57 PM |
| 4 | What do you guys think of the way I’m dealing with my fear of approaching?Hey, don’t chase her down after she walked away. That’s when it crosses into creepy territory. You did great by making the approach, but let it go when she isn’t interested the first time. Chasing her just makes it worse. You mentioned facing your fear, and that’s key. Check out our video on Destroy Approach Anxiety with These Two Science Backed Techniques (Unlock GigaChad Confidence) — it’ll break down how to confidently approach women without second-guessing yourself or ending up in that awkwa… | /r/seduction | 16/09/24 02:32 PM |
| -3 | Best Infield Videos for first/second datesOur online Academy program has Tinder/Hinge date to pull infield videos. Comes with a 30 day free trial. | /r/seduction | 13/09/24 07:51 PM |
| 0 | Dating coaching - too pricey?Sent you a chat request. | /r/seduction | 13/09/24 05:44 PM |
| 0 | Dating coaching - too pricey?The prices you’ve been quoted are fairly standard for boot camps across Europe, but I completely get that it can feel like a big investment, especially when you’re 35+ and looking to make real changes fast. Think of it as an investment in yourself—the right coaching accelerates your progress and gets you the results you’re after without wasting time. I’ll actually be in Europe this October for my EuroTour, which includes in-field training just like the programs you mentioned, but you can join at… | /r/seduction | 13/09/24 11:36 AM |
| 1 | Getting CoachingI get the skepticism—there are a lot of people out there just trying to make a quick buck. But here’s the thing: not all coaches are the same, and genuine coaching can make a massive difference if you’re looking for long-term growth, especially when you’ve been friend-zoned or ghosted. One thing I’d say is don’t expect magic bullets from anyone. A good coach is going to help you refine your game step by step. They’ll push you to improve your confidence, approach, and escalation in a way that wor… | /r/seduction | 12/09/24 08:47 PM |
| 0 | 2 Proven Techniques to Crush Approach Anxiety (Backed by Science)Thanks! | /r/seduction | 12/09/24 08:38 PM |
| 1 | How do I improve my verbal game?Verbal game is all about keeping the conversation engaging and dynamic, not just a back-and-forth Q&A. One key is to focus on storytelling—share interesting or funny experiences that showcase your personality. You don’t need a script, but have a few stories in your back pocket that are lighthearted and easy to relate to. This builds attraction because it shows your value without feeling forced. Also, banter is crucial—tease playfully, keep things light, and don’t be afraid to challenge her a lit… | /r/seduction | 12/09/24 06:40 PM |
| 3 | 2 Proven Techniques to Crush Approach Anxiety (Backed by Science)It’s just one technique of many in a full toolbox you can use to manage anxiety. Let me know if there are other topics or questions I might be able to cover in the future. | /r/seduction | 12/09/24 06:32 PM |
| 1 | How can I break my fear of cold approach?It sounds like you’re in a great position physically, but what’s holding you back is the mental game—which is super common. One key thing that helps a lot of guys overcome approach anxiety is starting small. You don’t need to make every interaction about a full-on cold approach. Instead, just get used to talking to strangers in low-pressure situations, like asking the barista how their day is or chatting with someone in line. It builds social momentum. Also, remember, the first few seconds of an… | /r/seduction | 12/09/24 05:47 PM |
| 1 | [VIDEO] How I Transformed My Identity To Someone Who Could Attract Women And Then Lose 50+ Pounds and 6 Pack AbsSo you think a 5’5 Asian with a below average face raised in Texas was naturally gifted with confidence? Or when I was obese at 201lb was naturally confident? I’m not saying confidence is a choice, but you can make a choice to choose a new identity. And with that is the daily choice of having discipline and consistency to make that choice everyday regardless of your emotions in order to learn and improve. Because confidence is not learned, confidence is earned. The exception would be if you have… | /r/seduction | 10/09/24 05:38 AM |
| 0 | [VIDEO] How I Transformed My Identity To Someone Who Could Attract Women And Then Lose 50+ Pounds and 6 Pack AbsI do understand where you're coming from. It can feel like confidence is something only the naturally gifted have—whether it's being born good-looking, funny, or fit. But here’s the truth: confidence isn’t about faking or pretending to be someone you’re not. It’s about building the best version of yourself. When I say “choose a new identity,” I’m talking about making a commitment to personal growth and mindset shifts. Remember, I was 201 lbs at one point, and yeah, I didn’t have a six-pack then—… | /r/seduction | 10/09/24 03:13 AM |
| 0 | [VIDEO] How I Transformed My Identity To Someone Who Could Attract Women And Then Lose 50+ Pounds and 6 Pack AbsIt’s not about faking a six-pack or pretending to be someone you’re not. It’s about adopting the mindset of someone who is confident, secure, and knows their worth—traits that are naturally attractive. A strong inner game changes how you carry yourself, how you interact with others, and how people perceive you. Confidence isn’t just for guys with a six-pack; it’s something you can develop by owning who you are. | /r/seduction | 09/09/24 07:55 PM |
| 1 | [VIDEO] How I Transformed My Identity To Someone Who Could Attract Women And Then Lose 50+ Pounds and 6 Pack AbsThanks. You’re spot on, and it’s something I’ve emphasized in my own journey. You don’t need to be a bodybuilder to attract women. Most studies show a lean muscular physique is the ideal look for men. In fact, when I was heavier and not in peak shape, I found more success with women because I focused on confidence, fun, and owning my presence rather than relying solely on my looks (I also wasn’t spending 2-3 hours in the gym like I am now and simply had more time for women). Building a solid but… | /r/seduction | 09/09/24 05:52 PM |
| 1 | Bootcamp adviceWe’ll be teaching in Europe in October while on our EuroTour program which is inner game focused, but we could also coach you on approaching. We’ve been coaching for over 20 years and taught at Harvard and Yale and been on the media like BBC and Al Jazeera. Here’s a video review of clients from last years EuroTour: https://youtu.be/1e4PdE3Ysas | /r/seduction | 08/09/24 08:01 PM |
| 1 | Anyone knows someone who offers bootcamp in Warsaw PL?I’ll be teaching there for our EuroTour program which is inner game focused, but we could also coach you on approaching. Here’s a video review of clients from last years EuroTour: https://youtu.be/1e4PdE3Ysas | /r/seduction | 08/09/24 07:40 PM |
| 0 | What are your favorite openers“You are fucking beautiful.” | /r/seduction | 01/09/24 10:25 PM |
| 42 | Average looking men - What is your medthod of getting laid on a night out??Most guys think that game is all about what you say, but the truth is, that’s just 25% of the battle. The real game is in the logistics—how you navigate the social environment, how you move the interaction forward, and how you plan multiple steps ahead. When I’m out, only a fraction of my brain power is focused on the conversation. The rest is dedicated to figuring out how to disarm the group, move them to a different location, isolate the girl I’m interested in, and make sure her friends are co… | /r/seduction | 01/09/24 03:36 AM |
| -2 | How do you pump your positive energy up before going out?To get in the right vibe before going out, it’s all about finding a ritual that gets you pumped and ready. For me, I watch Victoria’s Secret lip sync videos (something about watching beautiful girls and listening to upbeat music puts me in a good mood), dressing up like I’m going into battle, and be bopping to the rhythm of the music once I’m inside. It’s about getting into that state where you’re ready to have fun, no matter what. Others, like Captain Dan, might jump on a trampoline or do pushu… | /r/seduction | 28/08/24 03:47 PM |
| 1 | How to overcome approach anxiety?Thanks, glad you liked it! | /r/seduction | 28/08/24 06:45 AM |
| 38 | How to overcome approach anxiety?Approach anxiety is something every guy has faced, which means that you can do it too. Even I had to battle through it when I started. To the point, this is basically like immersion therapy to manage your emotions and AA: Start Small: Don’t go from zero to hitting on a supermodel in a single leap. Start by making small talk with everyone, and I mean everyone. Your goal isn’t to pick them up but to get used to starting conversations. Talk to the cashier, the barista, the dude at the bus stop. It’… | /r/seduction | 27/08/24 07:03 PM |
| 1 | Facetiming and voice messages are VERY effectiveTrue. | /r/seduction | 27/08/24 01:21 AM |
| -1 | Is it even worth learning night game?Reading comprehension is tough. It isn’t my job to makeout with them. I demonstrated the approach, inspired my students, pulled them into the set where they could lock in with the girls, and then they got the makeouts. But hey, if you want hook up on your students dime, feel free to. | /r/seduction | 27/08/24 01:04 AM |
| 2 | Has anyone tried professional photoshoot/profile building ?I’ve always been a bigger advocate of in-person, infield training because that’s the fastest way to get good—hands down. But I get it—since Covid, online dating has blown up. So yeah, we made a program for it now too. Tinder can be a more passive way to get dates, but remember, she’s still gotta meet the real you. So, working on your game and personality remains crucial. Key tip when it comes to your photos, think from the female gaze point of view, not the male gaze. But if you’re looking to st… | /r/seduction | 26/08/24 08:59 PM |
| 5 | Does a very attractive and outstanding Asian guy make a differnece?You don’t have to be good-looking to date outside of your race, but you do need something that sets you apart. I relied on game, personality, charm, and confidence (me being a 5’5 below average looking) while others might have height, money, or some other edge. As an Asian man, you’re going to have to outthink, outgame, and just be better than your competition. Good looks are just one variable in the equation to success. You could have them and still be a dating failure. The same goes for money—… | /r/seduction | 26/08/24 08:43 PM |
| 2 | Is it even worth learning night game?Each form of game has its pros and cons. Night game, in particular, gives you a high volume of opportunities to approach beautiful women in a short amount of time, which is perfect for learning fast, experimenting a lot, and getting instant results. Plus, the beauty of night game is that your mistakes don’t matter the next day—it’s all about refining your skills in a pressure cooker environment. However, it’s true that night game can be a much more hostile environment. It’s designed to weed out … | /r/seduction | 26/08/24 10:57 AM |
| 1 | Clubbing: Easier to find a “good spot” or roam?Logistics is what separates amateurs from experts. At clubs, there are three main zones to be aware of: the comfort couches, the wall of men, and the high traffic areas. Wherever I go, I always scope out where I can move a girl to sit or isolate her. Avoid the wall of men—this is where guys tend to congregate, often just lurking around. It’s not a good look and definitely not where you want to be. The high traffic areas are the gold mines but require some form of access or skill to navigate effe… | /r/seduction | 24/08/24 12:02 AM |
| 1 | I want to understand psychology behind girls being drawn to guys who do artHey, first off, I want to clarify something about this whole alpha male concept. It’s a Western idea that doesn’t necessarily apply globally. Different cultures have different masculine archetypes, and they’re all valid in their own right. But back to your question—why are women drawn to men who are artists? It boils down to two types of value: Survival value and Replication value. Survival value is the practical stuff—like money, stability, and a secure job—that women often look for in a husban… | /r/seduction | 23/08/24 06:00 PM |
| 3 | What do you do if a girl doesn't have time for a date right away?Everyone’s response here is off the mark. If there’s mutual attraction but logistics and scheduling are bad (she’s traveling, you’re traveling like I often am), then you need to put her in a holding pattern game. Attractive women are constantly busy with other social obligations, even if they like you, so their attention is naturally divided. To keep her interest, you have to drop in occasional reminders that you exist and are living a life of abundance. For example, if you’re at a Michelin star… | /r/seduction | 21/08/24 08:33 PM |
| 3 | Advice for cold approaching women as a single man?First off, props to you for getting back on track and focusing on yourself. That’s half the battle right there. Now, let’s get into cold approaching. Mindset Check: Before anything else, get your mindset right. You’re not just cold approaching to “not be single” by the end of the year; you’re doing it to build skills, expand your social circle, and ultimately have fun. This isn’t about desperation—this is about growth. Start Small: If you’ve been out of the game for a while, start with smaller, … | /r/seduction | 20/08/24 10:51 PM |
| 0 | Anyone here get good at game in their 30s?Fair enough. If you’re cautious about social circles, cold approaching outside of those environments is a safer way to improve your skills without the risk. I’m actually going to be doing a EuroTour later in October, which could be a great opportunity if you’re serious about leveling up. Here’s more info: https://youtu.be/1e4PdE3Ysas | /r/seduction | 18/08/24 07:39 PM |
| 1 | Anyone here get good at game in their 30s?The danger of practicing in a warm, social circle setting is that you can’t afford to make mistakes because everyone talks amongst themselves. When people are connected, your mistakes or missteps can quickly become the talk of the group, limiting your ability to experiment and improve. This is why, regardless of whether or not you like bars and clubs, cold approaching is so valuable. It allows you to make mistakes, learn from them, and get in a high volume of practice without social consequences… | /r/seduction | 18/08/24 04:50 PM |
| 1 | First thing to say when approaching girls?Read my post, you have to have better SMV and nonverbal body language to consistently stick the approach. It’s like the difference between being approached by Pee Wee Herman versus Brad Pitt. Your friend identifies as Pee Wee Herman and so yeah, he’ll definitely creep girls out. But if you have a decent enough look and good body language, you can stick the approach and progress faster. Otherwise read the material and ignore your friend who doesn’t seem to have much experience. | /r/seduction | 15/08/24 11:00 PM |
| 0 | First thing to say when approaching girls?No, that’s a pretty immature understanding of female behavior. | /r/seduction | 15/08/24 10:57 PM |
| 40 | First thing to say when approaching girls?The style of approach really depends on your experience level and what you’re aiming to achieve. If you’re just starting out or still battling approach anxiety, an indirect approach (like asking about her shoes or a random question) can be useful. It allows you to ease into the conversation, practice group control, and work on your banter. However, it does take longer to build up the interaction, and the girl might not even realize you’re interested in her unless you escalate properly. On the ot… | /r/seduction | 15/08/24 10:36 PM |
| 1 | Challenges of a Short King: Excelling in Long-Term Relationships, Struggling in Short-Term Flings - Navigating Nightclubs for Casual EncountersHello fellow short king! I totally get where you’re coming from. As a fellow short king at 5’5” Asian male, I’ve been through the grind and understand the challenges of navigating the dating scene, especially in settings like nightclubs. Your height and physical appearance can play a role, but it’s not the end-all-be-all. I’ve found that your success with women is less about how tall you are and more about your confidence, presence, and how you carry yourself. One thing I’ve learned over the yea… | /r/seduction | 15/08/24 09:23 PM |
| 12 | Anyone here get good at game in their 30s?It’s definitely possible to get good at game in your 30s and beyond—I’ve helped many men in that age group improve their dating lives significantly. The fact that you’re more mature, well-traveled, and financially stable gives you a solid foundation to build on. But I also get that with age comes a sense of urgency, and that can add a layer of pressure. One of the biggest things you need to overcome is the pedestalization of attractive women. When you put them on a pedestal, you’re essentially s… | /r/seduction | 14/08/24 11:47 PM |
| 13 | When asking a girl out and another guy joins too?When you find yourself in a situation where another guy (an AMOG—Alpha Male of the Group) joins you and the girl you’ve invited out, it’s important to stay calm and in control. You don’t want to come off as insecure or aggressive, as that can negatively impact how both the girl and the AMOG perceive you. Instead, use the B.I.T. method, which stands for Befriend, Ignore, and Tool. Befriend: Start by being friendly towards the guy. This helps to lower his defenses and makes it seem like you’re not… | /r/seduction | 14/08/24 11:25 PM |
| 1 | Should i cold approach if i am overweight?Yep, that’s me. Been in the game and coaching for, gosh, over 20 years now. | /r/seduction | 10/08/24 10:36 PM |
| -3 | Should i cold approach if i am overweight?Absolutely, you should still cold approach. I’ve been in your shoes—I was over 200 pounds at one point (I’m a 5’5 Asian), and it didn’t stop me from successfully approaching. In fact, I believe it’s crucial to start practicing game no matter where you are in your journey. Check out this video of me cold approaching when I was at my heaviest: https://youtube.com/shorts/bP9tWFmyS4Q It’s not just about looks; it’s about confidence, personality, and how you present yourself. Yes, improving your heal… | /r/seduction | 10/08/24 06:41 PM |
| 2 | [VIDEO] How Nightclubs And Status Works On GirlsYou’ve nailed the different dynamics at the tables. Those with social proof and genuine confidence don’t need to force anything—people gravitate towards them naturally because they create a welcoming and fun environment. It’s all about the energy you bring and how you make others feel at ease, which is why guys in the third category often struggle. They focus too much on the ‘transactional’ side, thinking a table alone will do the work, but without the right vibe and social skills, it can backfi… | /r/seduction | 08/08/24 01:21 AM |
| 4 | [VIDEO] How Nightclubs And Status Works On GirlsIt sounds like you’ve seen the downside of bottle service where people burn money without seeing results. That happens when someone uses VIP status as a crutch instead of a tool. The key isn’t just buying bottles; it’s knowing how to leverage that environment to your advantage—how to build social proof, engage with the right people, and create an atmosphere that naturally draws women in. If done right, it’s not about the alcohol; it’s about the status and the social dynamic it creates. It’s also… | /r/seduction | 07/08/24 11:07 PM |
| 3 | [VIDEO] How Nightclubs And Status Works On GirlsYou’re absolutely right—VIP tables and bottle service can be a double-edged sword. If you know how to leverage the exclusivity and social proof they provide, they can significantly enhance your game and status. It’s about using the space and the environment to create a sense of fun and exclusivity, drawing people in with your energy and confidence. However, if you’re not strategic, they can become a money trap. It’s crucial to remember that these tools are just that—tools. They don’t do the work… | /r/seduction | 07/08/24 11:00 PM |
| 1 | Is making her interested really a thing ?I’m a 5’5 unattractive Asian girl. I am no woman’s romantic archetype. But in 20 years of game, I’ve learned that while I can’t change a woman’s mind, I CAN CHANGE HER MOOD. It’s about breaking her heuristic thinking (assuming you’re not her type) and making her emotionally and physically evaluating you in a romantic way. | /r/seduction | 07/08/24 09:25 PM |
| 0 | [VIDEO] How Nightclubs And Status Works On GirlsAtmosphere models might be paid to show up, but that doesn’t mean they’re not looking to have fun. They’re often bored waiting around for hours and still want to party, drink, and dance—just like any other girl. I’ve taken models home from these environments as the biggest problem, one of access, has solved for you by the club; now you just need the corresponding level of strategy, status and/or lifestyle. The key is not to be intimidated by the club’s setup. Remember, they’re there to enjoy the… | /r/seduction | 07/08/24 07:11 PM |
| 1 | [VIDEO] How Nightclubs And Status Works On GirlsWhat country is that? | /r/seduction | 07/08/24 05:41 PM |
| 4 | I can’t bring girls over, what should I doUse the app Hotel Tonight. | /r/seduction | 07/08/24 03:24 AM |
| 1 | Infield Video Of a Short Asian Man (Me) Approaching a Group Of 10 Girls Ending With Club MakeoutsConfidence is not learned, confidence is EARNED. So building charisma and confidence is about honing your social skills through consistent practice and embracing who you are. It’s not about trying to be someone you’re not, but about amplifying the best parts of yourself. Start by mastering your body language. Simple things like standing tall, maintaining strong eye contact, and having a relaxed, open posture can significantly boost how you’re perceived by others. These non-verbal cues communicat… | /r/seduction | 04/08/24 01:01 PM |
| 2 | What would be a good response when someone says that you are good looking?“Why, do you want to be picked up?” | /r/seduction | 03/08/24 11:29 PM |
| 1 | What would be a good response when someone says that you are good looking?“Was that your best pickup line?” | /r/seduction | 03/08/24 01:05 PM |
| 3 | When 2 men compete for the attention of 1 girlDid you watch the video? To Tool: to put down, make fun of, diminish in some way either verbally or physically. | /r/seduction | 03/08/24 06:16 AM |
| 1 | Need help targeting the focus to the girl of the set I’m actually attracted toOdd sets are the easiest because if you’ve won over the group, you can kino turn the girl you’re interested in and the other two will naturally engage each other and give you implicit permission to talk to their girlfriend. You can see this is in the latest infield video I put out. I approached the short blonde, befriended the group, side stepped and mini isolated the tall blonde while the short blonde and brunette talked to each other and ignored us. | /r/seduction | 02/08/24 10:58 PM |
| 24 | When 2 men compete for the attention of 1 girlWhat’s ironic is how many PUA terms are now in modern Gen Z slang. It just took 20 years: Aura points Rizz Body count Pulling baddies Sigma Flirt to roast ratio Shoot your shot Dating diaries / PowerPoint debrief Simp Mog | /r/seduction | 02/08/24 10:16 PM |
| 103 | When 2 men compete for the attention of 1 girlI get AMOGGED a lot (being short and the type of girls I date, literally I’ve been on dates with girls and when I come back from the restroom I find the waiter trying to get her number) so I’ve had to become sort of an expert at dealing with cockblocking guys. It’s scary for a lot of newbies to think about competing with other men (fear of physical violence, intimidation, etc) so just remember a super simple acronym: B.I.T. Befriend. Ignore. Tool. Really easy. If someone comes in trying to poach… | /r/seduction | 02/08/24 06:35 PM |
| 94 | How to handle a guy interjecting the conversation with you and a girl, taking over?AMOG him. Easy acronym is B.I.T. Befriend, Ignore, Tool. In this case, you say, “I’ve been great man, thanks for asking. But let me get back to you a minute.” And cut off his thread. Otherwise, here’s a full AMOG Drill video with a couple of dozen moves: https://youtu.be/uLhEAFk7CA8 | /r/seduction | 02/08/24 12:45 AM |
| 2 | [INFIELD VIDEO] Plain Clothes, High Game: How to Approach Any Girl ConfidentlyI tend to take a holistic viewpoint to game, incorporating inner game with physical game and verbal game. Your body affects your emotions which affects your mind, and vice versa. There's State > Temperament (long term emotional mood affected by lifestyle) > Societal Conditioning Without getting into the weeds, when you're infield you're primarily concentrated on just state control and emotional self-regulation. There shouldn't be any logical thinking except for LOGISTICS (where do you plan on mo… | /r/seduction | 01/08/24 11:41 PM |
| 1 | [INFIELD VIDEO] Plain Clothes, High Game: How to Approach Any Girl ConfidentlySure, let the admins or organizers know, I'd be down. | /r/seduction | 01/08/24 11:35 PM |
| 1 | [INFIELD VIDEO] Plain Clothes, High Game: How to Approach Any Girl ConfidentlyThanks! | /r/seduction | 01/08/24 11:35 PM |
| 1 | [INFIELD VIDEO] Plain Clothes, High Game: How to Approach Any Girl ConfidentlyWhich in particular? | /r/seduction | 01/08/24 11:35 PM |
| 2 | [INFIELD VIDEO] Plain Clothes, High Game: How to Approach Any Girl ConfidentlyI mean, it's body language. Books are the exact opposite of where you should be learning BL from. Maybe videos, but primarily infield. I do have an online virtual program that has video lectures and infields (approaches, dates, pulls), but I don't want to appear too sales/spammy (moreso than I already am, that is). And the first month is free. Just message me if you'd like to check out the free offer. | /r/seduction | 01/08/24 11:35 PM |
| 2 | [INFIELD VIDEO] Plain Clothes, High Game: How to Approach Any Girl ConfidentlyIt's called Gentleman's Grace and it's all in the body language and telegraphing what I'm about to do. So you go for the introduction, "My name is JT" which socially obligates her to reciprocate with her name. I put out my hand, she's socially obligated to put out her hand to shake. I put my hand at the bottom while very obviously holding strong eye contact while leaning down to kiss it (post-Covid, I don't actually kiss the girl's hand, I just kiss my own thumb that's wrapped around on top beca… | /r/seduction | 01/08/24 11:32 PM |
| 1 | [INFIELD VIDEO] Plain Clothes, High Game: How to Approach Any Girl ConfidentlyMmm, I think it's important to understand the First Principles of tactics. Like people copying the FTC (False Time Constraint) as a tactic, but not understanding that after a certain point in your skill development (namely when you can consistently stick your approach), there's no need for a FTC. More than just what is pecking, but WHY is pecking considered bad? In this case, by sublimating nervous energy into jittery movements (side to side, forward to back motions) it makes you look anxious. S… | /r/seduction | 01/08/24 11:27 PM |
| 3 | Best European Country for Seduction?Some EuroTour results including Tinder matches and closes: https://youtu.be/1e4PdE3Ysas | /r/seduction | 31/07/24 07:51 PM |
| 13 | [INFIELD VIDEO] Plain Clothes, High Game: How to Approach Any Girl Confidently“Hi, my name is JT. Whats yours?” The majority of my game is body language, dominance and action with only a small part verbal. | /r/seduction | 31/07/24 07:48 PM |
| 6 | [INFIELD VIDEO] Plain Clothes, High Game: How to Approach Any Girl ConfidentlyI bowed to kiss the girls' hands to start the sexual escalation with Gentleman's Grace. You can see the effect on the 3rd girl blonde and she lights up. Pecking is the sublimation of energy into nervous, unconscious body language mannerisms that convey anxiety to the girls (rocking back and forth, front to back, unconsciously). Here I'm deliberately doing the lean to the side to get the girl's attention on the approach with the kino turn so she isn't startled. And the bow was a deliberate sexual… | /r/seduction | 31/07/24 06:41 PM |
| 3 | [INFIELD VIDEO] Plain Clothes, High Game: How to Approach Any Girl ConfidentlyThat's not actually pecking. I'm doing that intentionally to get her attention without alarming or startling her. | /r/seduction | 31/07/24 06:10 PM |
| 2 | Short Infield Video Of A Short King Approaching a 6 Foot Tall BlondeMost of the work is done on the body language, facial expressions and energy. Kino turn her around in a non-creepy manner, big smile, used my Amazon opener ("You are tall and gorgeous, I fucking love you."), matched with good energy, did Gentleman's Grace, and then the Silencer to get her to lean in and start whispering into my ear. Contact close near the end there. Easy peasy. | /r/seduction | 23/07/24 03:43 PM |
| 14 | Short Infield Video Of A Short King Approaching a 6 Foot Tall BlondeContact close (you can see her cell phone out) and then merged with her group. I get paid not to get laid so I only stayed long enough to demonstrate for my student. He just needed to see it to believe it as he didn't think it was possible to approach her (and he's taller and better looking than me). So after that I had my student approach another girl group set and he ended with a makeout. | /r/seduction | 22/07/24 08:41 PM |
| -7 | Short Infield Video Of A Short King Approaching a 6 Foot Tall BlondeI'll be teaching bootcamp in NYC on Aug 16-18. | /r/seduction | 22/07/24 08:38 PM |
| 26 | Infield Video Of a Short Asian Man (Me) Approaching a Group Of 10 Girls Ending With Club MakeoutsThanks! Being 5'5 Asian guy, there's a ceiling to how much looksmaxxing I can actually do. Whether I was over 200 pounds during Covid or 150 lbs with 6 pack abs, girls aren't going to be able to tell that much of a difference between a combination of style plus your in real life command presence. A lot of people just use looks as an excuse not to do the hard work of improving themselves as it's easy to blame race, height and looks and leave it at that. | /r/seduction | 01/07/24 07:33 PM |
| 1 | Extremely demotivated because of my short height, race, looks, seeking advice/stories from short (asian) men with good frame and philosophyI can't teach height, or being good looking, but you can learn command presence and how to look good. And while there are minor little tips and tricks to make yourself look taller (shoes, hair, posture, etc) if you have the mentality of someone who's small (and this also goes for tall guys as I've seen it often enough in them), it's going to be conveyed in your action and demeanor. Whether it's your insecurities about being short or being Asian, these "tells" will manifest itself in how you carr… | /r/seduction | 09/07/19 05:46 PM |
| 1 | How To Use Tinder Boost For Same Day Pull | PUA Infield Footage Breakdown (Salt Lake City, Utah)Well, it's kind of hard to diagnose without actually seeing you. Fortunately, the fuckable line for guy is not that hard to reach unless you have physical disabilities. I'm a short, average looking (at best), unathletic Asian guy, but I've made myself attractive enough to at least get the initial interest of most girls on approach. There could be a lot of body mannerisms from facial expressions, energy, etc that could instead be giving off a creepy vibe that could be turning girls off beyond jus… | /r/seduction | 05/06/19 10:53 PM |
| 1 | I am an Asian American, and I can't help but hate seeing interracial couples involving Asian women. How do I stop feeling this way?I've had a lot of students in a similar position as you. I'm not going to go into all the racial politics that plays into the gender dating disparity as that's a huge topic in the AA community, but from my experience with my students, once they started getting their own success, they just stopped caring about other people's relationships. Not so much that they don't recognize the general societal level of racism that exists, but that we don't let it affect our individual reactions and our own pe… | /r/seduction | 05/06/19 01:54 AM |
| 1 | How To Use Tinder Boost For Same Day Pull | PUA Infield Footage Breakdown (Salt Lake City, Utah)There's a difference between being good looking versus looking good. The first you can't control, but the second anyone can do. And after you have some attraction, you can move into the next phase of the interaction. | /r/seduction | 05/06/19 01:34 AM |
| 1 | How To Use Tinder Boost For Same Day Pull | PUA Infield Footage Breakdown (Salt Lake City, Utah)Thanks man! Hope some of the conversational techniques come in handy for you one day. | /r/seduction | 04/06/19 02:31 PM |
| 2 | Impending Mass Exodus from RooshV ForumsLOL, honestly it's not the first time I've seen OGs go around the bend spiritually. I think if you don't regularly incorporate some sort of self-actualization in your own life as you embark on your journey as a man, spectacularly burning out is a very common occurrence. That's why there are so few of us left if you look at who's left in the scene after 10 years and 15 years ago. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/06/19 01:29 PM |
| -3 | 15 Fun Tips on How to Kiss a Girl on New Year's Eve!I think that if you try to kiss a girl in front of her friends, regardless of how solid your game is, you're going to decrease your probability of success. You create a conspiracy, the classic Us Vs Them, scenario. | /r/seduction | 31/12/11 01:09 AM |
| -4 | 15 Fun Tips on How to Kiss a Girl on New Year's Eve!And yet somehow, someway, we've used it successfully... It's about discretion. | /r/seduction | 31/12/11 01:03 AM |
| 2 | Text To Sex: The Rapid Sextcalation Ladder90 minutes of bootleg video on everything you can do with smart phone game Text To Sex: Who Is Gareth Jones? (Melbourne, Australia part 1) - http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YYYJIs3DonQ Text To Sex: Purposes of Calling & Texting a Girl (Melbourne, Australia part 2) - http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NPw7nVksqmE Text To Sex: Myths & Text Routines to Avoid (Melbourne, Australia part 3) - http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=36bQ6f-sSiI Text To Sex: How Long Do You Wait Before You Text Her? (Melbourne, Austr… | /r/seduction | 10/11/11 05:58 AM |
| 1 | Text To Sex: The Rapid Sextcalation LadderThen you obviously didn't read it in it's entirety as T2S came about as a way to skip the first date entirely and go straight to sex. The naked pictures part came as secondary benefit. | /r/seduction | 10/11/11 05:58 AM |
| 2 | Lead Instructor Gareth Jones and BenJ from The ABCs of Attraction are here to answer your questions!Here's a lay report (with pics!) by Gareth Jones including the exact texting he did http://www.thegarethjones.com/lay-report-how-to-seduce-women-in-the-airport/ | /r/seduction | 10/10/11 05:38 PM |
| 1 | Lead Instructor Gareth Jones and BenJ from The ABCs of Attraction are here to answer your questions!Not this Sunday, but the one after, Sept 4th at 12pm http://igame.eventbrite.com/ | /r/seduction | 24/08/11 08:31 PM |
| 3 | Lead Instructor Gareth Jones and BenJ from The ABCs of Attraction are here to answer your questions!I'm afraid Gareth has checked out, but you can see a 70 minute lecture on Text to Sex on YouTube: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JZZVQNXZY2g As well as several articles on his blog like: http://www.thegarethjones.com/text-flirting-from-first-text-to-making-a-date/ http://www.thegarethjones.com/text-flirting-understanding-her-hesitation/ http://www.thegarethjones.com/mpua-text-flirting-sexual-compliance-leads-to-sexting/ | /r/seduction | 24/08/11 05:39 AM |
| 3 | [FR] Made out with a white girl (I'm Asian) and now I feel like a boss!!!It's actually sometimes emotionally easier for me to teach Asian FOBs then American Asians because they haven't been as heavily conditioned by the negative media stereotypes and prejudices. FOBs can and are more successful, sexually and dating, in many ways than American Asians since they don't have as many limiting beliefs instilled in them from an early age. I wrote about FOB PUAs vs Asian PUAs here: http://www.asianplayboy.com/2009/02/asian-american-puas-vs-fobby-asian-puas-2/ | /r/seduction | 02/02/11 04:56 PM |
| 2 | [FR] Made out with a white girl (I'm Asian) and now I feel like a boss!!!For a lot of Asians like yourselves (and like me once), half the battle is mental: deconstructing the limiting beliefs perpetuated by both our own culture as well as the negative societal conditioning of America. The other half is learning the habits and skillsets of being an emotionally intelligent person. Once you've had your first white (black, Latin, etc) girl, you realize looking back that it wasn't that hard to begin with. The first step is just doing it and raising yourself up. | /r/seduction | 01/02/11 08:07 PM |
| 1 | 3 First Date Rules That Make You Or Break YouThat's awesome bro. Feel free to hit me up on my Facebook or otherwise let me know when you're ready to sign up! | /r/seduction | 17/01/11 02:39 PM |
| 3 | target asked "Would you bang me?" what would seddit say?"Only if you play your cards right." Field tested, APB approved. | /r/seduction | 08/01/11 05:53 AM |
| 2 | 3 First Date Rules That Make You Or Break You1) Yes. Maybe not the best one though, but it's workable. Coffee dates are better for C-Game (comfort and compliance building), but no so much for sexual escalation and D-Game (dominance and direct). Although there are obvious exceptions to the rules depending on your game and how hard you want to push it, but consider, when does sex happen? During the day or at night? Exactly. Coffee dates are good to build comfort if you didn't on Day 1 or if time constraints are an issue. 2) I wouldn't say "s… | /r/seduction | 08/01/11 05:50 AM |
| 6 | 3 First Date Rules That Make You Or Break YouAnd as to your last point about not being able to make out at the museum: Yes. Yes you can. | /r/seduction | 04/01/11 05:18 AM |
| -3 | 3 First Date Rules That Make You Or Break YouThank you. | /r/seduction | 04/01/11 05:10 AM |
| 7 | 3 First Date Rules That Make You Or Break YouHere's 3 reasons why: 1) It started getting boring for me around date 50 much less date 100. 2) You start to devalue people, women, as well as yourself 3) You become "that bar guy." As in, that's all you go to. Bars and clubs. You never go out and do NORMAL, enriching activities for both mind, body and soul. You never do anything other than go to nightlife venues and sarge. None of which sounds like an appealing lifestyle, does it? | /r/seduction | 04/01/11 05:07 AM |
| 1 | 3 First Date Rules That Make You Or Break YouThank you. | /r/seduction | 04/01/11 05:04 AM |
| -2 | 3 First Date Rules That Make You Or Break YouExactly thank you. It's not about the guru, it's about the info. Judge it by it's content, not by whether or not someone is anti-commercial or follow a certain company. | /r/seduction | 04/01/11 05:03 AM |
| -6 | 3 First Date Rules That Make You Or Break YouOh, I'm sorry, I forgot. Pick up was invented in COMMUNIST RUSSIA. | /r/seduction | 04/01/11 05:00 AM |
| 3 | 3 First Date Rules That Make You Or Break You1 out of 4 of the Aussie Summit was Asian... | /r/seduction | 03/01/11 11:05 PM |
| -3 | Top 10 PUA Blog Tips of 2010Because... there's not a single photo of a person in that blog post itself and no promotions of seminars anywhere (not including the sidebar widget). The blog post itself is a top 10 list of the most popular posts on the ABCs blog that thousands of people have hit up. | /r/seduction | 30/12/10 07:48 AM |
| -6 | Top 10 PUA Blog Tips of 2010Thank you so much for the props, I appreciate it :) | /r/seduction | 30/12/10 07:46 AM |
| -4 | Top 10 PUA Blog Tips of 2010It's me. | /r/seduction | 30/12/10 07:17 AM |
| -1 | Top 10 PUA Blog Tips of 2010It depends on what you have available. Depending on my mood and how I qualified her, I can go either the culture route or the adventurous route. No girl wants people to think that she's uncultured and uneducated, so I'll send a text like, "Be Dora to my Explorer, let's make a day of the museum and have our fill of culture." or something along that lines. LACMA here in LA is actually a lot bigger than you think. To this day, I have yet to actually explore the entire museum. We go through half of … | /r/seduction | 30/12/10 06:41 AM |
| -3 | Top 10 PUA Blog Tips of 2010Are you talking about what NYE party to take her to? NYE party ideas include: 1) House party 2) City ball drop 3) Night club / large party 4) Cruise Or are you talking about first date in general? | /r/seduction | 30/12/10 06:29 AM |
| -3 | Top 10 PUA Blog Tips of 2010"I once fucked a fat girl in an elevator. It was wrong on so many levels." - Bo | /r/seduction | 30/12/10 06:12 AM |
| -4 | Top 10 PUA Blog Tips of 2010w00t w00t! I like that attitude, soldier! | /r/seduction | 30/12/10 06:07 AM |
| 1 | 4 New Year's Eve Party Ideas & Chat Up LinesThanks! The first part in the series gives 15 tips on kiss closing and whatnot. | /r/seduction | 26/12/10 07:48 PM |
| 2 | 15 Fun Tips on How to Kiss a Girl on New Year's Eve!Part 2, NYE Party Ideas, is up! http://www.abcsofattraction.com/blog/4-new-years-eve-party-ideas-chat-up-lines/ | /r/seduction | 24/12/10 09:25 PM |
| 2 | Gentlemen of higher moral fibre, how do you deal with aggressive and rude AMOGs?The easiest and one of the most effective ways to AMOG a guy is to simply have his target back turn him. Whether you kino turn her away from him or verbally capture her attention from him, just make HER backturn him. That way it seems like she's AMOGGING him. That she's shooting out signals of disinterest. Occasionally, you'll get more aggressive and persistent cockblocks, but those aren't the norm except under certain circumstances. Here's a PUA Video AMOG Drill that lists a bunch of different … | /r/seduction | 24/12/10 08:45 PM |
| 2 | Got any tips for Asian PUA?In my experience, one of the biggest things you need to do is raise your passive, sexual value. The vast majority of non-Asian women I've hooked up with have never considered Asian men as prospective mates. I'm not saying that they negatively perceived Asian men, it's just that never automatically assumed we were potential lovers. If you look around, who do Asian men date, marry and hang out? Other Asians. We also have low sexual passive value in comparison to others. You can blame it on the med… | /r/seduction | 24/12/10 08:30 PM |
| 1 | PUA Advice: You Can't Read Women's Minds!Very good point | /r/seduction | 15/12/10 09:58 PM |
| 1 | Seddit: What songs get you pumped for a savage night out? Do any other Sedditors do this/ experienced this?I like to go with some "pimp n' ho's" or otherwise high fun energy style music in the beginning of the night. Dancing and not caring how you look helps. 1) Club Can't Handle Me - Flo Rida 2) I Like It (feat Pitbull) - Enrique Iglesias (watch the video where he flicks the hot extra's boob) 3) Magic - B.o.B. 4) Do You Remember - Jay Sean 5) Hello Good Morning - Diddy 6) Your Mama - Kennedy (MILF lovers unite!) 7) Love in this Club - Usher 8) Runaway (ie Douchbag Song) - Kanye G6 stands for the des… | /r/seduction | 15/12/10 06:37 AM |
| 3 | 15 Fun Tips on How to Kiss a Girl on New Year's Eve!Its an improv drill that we run during our programs that go progressively simple to more difficult. Basically take a phrase and craft a 30 second story about it. We start with the phrase, "Once upon a time" to get ourselves in the mode of spontaneous storytelling. | /r/seduction | 15/12/10 05:18 AM |
| 2 | 15 Fun Tips on How to Kiss a Girl on New Year's Eve!The ABCs blog is a potpourri of writings from all the different members of my staff. Johnny is a part-time instructor for my company. Go to the link. Johnny Wolf is fully credited, not to mention his picture and his byline show him. | /r/seduction | 15/12/10 04:56 AM |
| 2 | 15 Fun Tips on How to Kiss a Girl on New Year's Eve!Thanks, part 2 will deal with logistics and where the best NYE parties are! | /r/seduction | 15/12/10 03:31 AM |
| 1 | How to NOT Look Like a Random Creepy GuyThank you very much. | /r/seduction | 14/12/10 05:32 AM |
| 1 | Peacocking: You’re Doing it Wrong.Don't beat yourself too much. You don't know what the edge is until you've stepped over it. At least you're trying which puts you in the top 10% of the population versus the placid population at large. | /r/seduction | 14/12/10 03:06 AM |
| 2 | How to NOT Look Like a Random Creepy GuyAnswered | /r/seduction | 14/12/10 02:59 AM |
| 1 | How to NOT Look Like a Random Creepy GuyAnswered | /r/seduction | 14/12/10 02:59 AM |
| 8 | How to NOT Look Like a Random Creepy GuyHere are some solo sarging pointers: http://www.asianplayboy.com/2008/12/the-superior-solo-sarging-guide-by-straycat-2/ 1. Always go early; be part of the early bird crowd. By getting into the club early, you can start socializing right away. Since there is not many people, it will be easier to talk with people inside the venue. Less distractions, etc. They got no one else to talk to. As you make friends inside the venue, you can return to them later in the evening to hang out. Some clubs if you… | /r/seduction | 14/12/10 02:58 AM |
| 0 | Become a Professional Pickup Artist and Coach in 5 "Easy" Steps!I completely agree. Just re-read the article when you have a minute. It's 2000 words of me telling them why most people won't ever make the mark considering how difficult it is. Notice the quotations around the word "easy." | /r/seduction | 01/12/10 02:44 PM |
| 0 | Become a Professional Pickup Artist and Coach in 5 "Easy" Steps!STEP #1: Take a Bootcamp Take a bootcamp. This is absolutely necessary. This isn’t a trumped-up sales scheme; it is a step necessary to show that you want to learn from the best. Do you trust a salesperson that has never tried his product or doesn’t even believe in it? Exactly. We need to know that you have been through the same experience that these new students will be going through so that you can effectively guide them through it as patiently and firmly with as much leadership as possible. I… | /r/seduction | 01/12/10 01:03 PM |
| 1 | (Positive PUA News Article) "Pucker up, baby - and consider yourself charmed"Thanks! | /r/seduction | 13/11/10 08:45 PM |
| 3 | (Positive PUA News Article) "Pucker up, baby - and consider yourself charmed"Here's my vanity quote, "J.T. Tran is the founder of the Los Angeles school ABC of Attraction. With below average looks and above average drive, he has shocked the world with his ability to seduce beautiful woman … according to his biography at least. ''I teach a more holistic style,'' says Tran, who is in Sydney with other famous PUAs for a three-day summit and master class. He says there are many fresher approaches than rehearsed pick-up lines and ''negging'' - lowering a woman's self-esteem w… | /r/seduction | 13/11/10 05:32 PM |
| 1 | Where to Pick Up Girls in: London, UK!CONTINUED http://www.abcsofattraction.com/blog/where-to-pick-up-girls-in-london-uk/ HONORABLE MENTIONS: Sanderson Hotel (Purple Bar & Long Bar) (50 Berners Street, London W1T 3NG): Owned by the same group as the famed Mondrian hotel in Los Angeles (Sky Bar), this place represented the perfect atmosphere of casual lounging that one hopes for. Bar was filled with fashionable 8s and 9s, many of them being traveling models (fashion week!). The men were insufferable and most of our time was spent def… | /r/seduction | 09/11/10 03:12 AM |
| 1 | Where to Pick Up Girls in: Seattle, Washington!Kewl beans bro. We'll be back in Seattle come November, booyah! In the meantime, here are FB pictures from our last adventure in Seattle: http://www.facebook.com/album.php?aid=122497&id=120144066804 | /r/seduction | 06/10/10 12:06 AM |
| 2 | Where to Pick Up Girls in: Seattle, Washington!It's just an option. And quite frankly, there have been times where I've simpled manhandled my way into an area as if I belonged. The most important thing is to have a place to isolate a girl. I mean, if you can't even approach a girl and move her 20 feet to a couch, how the bloody hell are you going to take her 5 miles to your house? Like we say at the ABCs of Attraction, "Amateurs study tactics. Professionals study logistics." | /r/seduction | 06/10/10 12:05 AM |
| 1 | To Everything There is a Season: Kino Turn, Kino Turn…Ok, don't think that should make a difference. But anyways, I was just in the UK. Check out our London bootcamp pics: http://www.facebook.com/album.php?aid=229280&id=120144066804&ref=mf And my personal Facebook pictures with the model I picked up during Fashion Week and dated while I was there ;) http://www.facebook.com/album.php?aid=46349&id=100000148877947 | /r/seduction | 30/09/10 08:29 PM |
| 3 | To Everything There is a Season: Kino Turn, Kino Turn…Personally, I'll go with one of my Kamikaze direct openers or a situationally funny one, depending on my mood. I recommend newbies start with a low-investment, beginner level opener like the Kickstart Opener: http://theasianplayboy.blogspot.com/2009/10/kickstart-opener-simply-easy-way-to.html Before graduating to a Kamikaze Direct Opener: http://www.abcsofattraction.com/community/the-war-room-f34/5-direct-kamikaze-openers-you-can-use-today-t2026.html | /r/seduction | 30/09/10 06:31 PM |
| 4 | To Everything There is a Season: Kino Turn, Kino Turn…Say either the word "Yeah!" or "Cookies!" The words themselves will force your mouth to form a full teeth smile. Learned that trick from a model girlfriend. Here's more on the "Asian Poker Face": http://theasianplayboy.blogspot.com/2006/04/asian-poker-face-ie-we-all-look-same.html | /r/seduction | 30/09/10 06:17 PM |
| 1 | Top 10 Qualities for a Good WingmanIts hard finding both a good wingman and a good friend in one person. | /r/seduction | 29/09/10 03:40 PM |
| 1 | Top 10 Qualities for a Good WingmanLook at my latest post about 10 Wing Rules for Social Circle Pick Up. I've run into the same problem before too. | /r/seduction | 29/09/10 03:39 PM |
| 1 | Where To Pick Up Girls In: Sydney, Australia!Haha. I'm pretty sure it was "Aussie vodka" since that's what I asked for. Local flavor. I think it was like organic or something, I forget the brand. | /r/seduction | 14/09/10 02:54 AM |
| 1 | Where To Pick Up Girls In: Sydney, Australia!I didn't officially compare the alcohol content, but I do remember that I had a half bottle of Aussie vodka which FROZE in the freezer. Which says to me that it was definitely watered down. That and I'm not a big beer drinker myself. And Melbourne struck me as too green and hippie (ie San Francisco) for my taste ;) | /r/seduction | 13/09/10 10:52 AM |
| 1 | Where To Pick Up Girls In: Sydney, Australia!We've got a list for: Sydney, New York City, Seattle, Boston, Detroit, Dallas, Fort Lauderdale, Orlando (http://www.abcsofattraction.com/blog/) TBD: San Francisco, Toronto, London, Chicago And wherever else our feets takes us! | /r/seduction | 13/09/10 10:50 AM |
| 2 | Where To Pick Up Girls In: Sydney, Australia!Thanks, buddy! | /r/seduction | 12/09/10 11:28 PM |
| 1 | Where to Pick Up Girls in: Dallas, Texas!Well, it's simple human nature to form bonds, allegiances and connections and then to follow the group think. Yeah, wow, that was like years ago, but that would be me. I remember doing that one after like 4 straight bootcamps in a row. I prefer to think of me as JT "the Asian Playboy" Tran who was on the ABC TV interview ;) http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=36vl1Q1yUMA | /r/seduction | 11/09/10 07:16 PM |
| 3 | Where to Pick Up Girls in: Dallas, Texas!I think they're voting more on their particular "dojo" or "guru" rather than the actual content of the post. | /r/seduction | 11/09/10 04:30 AM |
| 2 | Where to Pick Up Girls in: Dallas, Texas!That didn't make any sense whatsoever. Pray tell, how am I racist against my own brothers? | /r/seduction | 11/09/10 04:29 AM |
| 2 | Where to Pick Up Girls in: New York City, New York!Just might next time I'm in town! | /r/seduction | 08/09/10 04:38 AM |
| 2 | Where to Pick Up Girls in: New York City, New York!We aim to please. | /r/seduction | 08/09/10 04:37 AM |
| 1 | Pick Up Artists Make Good HusbandsJust go to my Facebook profile for pics of me on the job as well as off the job. Got tons of pictures there as well as my own ramblings and adventures: http://www.facebook.com/asiandatingcoach | /r/seduction | 06/09/10 10:49 PM |
| 3 | Pick Up Artists Make Good HusbandsI would hope so. I've been at this professionally for 5 years and my company has one of the highest positive reviews per program held ratio in the industry. I've been interviewed on TV including ABC, SBTN, & CPRTV; made the front pages of multiple media outlets and featured writer for print publications. That, and you still didn't address the post at hand, the newspaper article about "Why Pick Up Artists Make Better Husbands." | /r/seduction | 05/09/10 12:47 AM |
| 2 | Pick Up Artists Make Good HusbandsBlah blah blah. The essence of pickup is many and varied depending on each man and his goals, but invariably it centers around a man becoming the best version of himself not simply to achieve success with women but to be happy with himself. Typically the lack of women in your life is simply another variable adding to your unhappiness, it is not always the primary cause. The "get girls to chase you" is an admirable goal as it dictates that you design the kind of lifestyle and high value that woul… | /r/seduction | 04/09/10 08:18 PM |
| -2 | Pick Up Artists Make Good HusbandsStill didn't negate my point. Now go KJ somewhere else. | /r/seduction | 04/09/10 07:55 PM |
| 0 | Asian guys - do you find it harder than white guys to pick up chicks? -I also tell them to get laid with beautiful black women: http://theasianplayboy.blogspot.com/2010/06/asian-men-black-women-datings-final.html http://theasianplayboy.blogspot.com/2010/07/i-asked-black-woman-out-now-what-dear.html http://theasianplayboy.blogspot.com/2010/08/blasian-bytch-advises-asian-men-on.html http://theasianplayboy.blogspot.com/2010/08/blasian-bytch-advises-asian-men-on_20.html | /r/seduction | 04/09/10 07:48 PM |
| 0 | Pick Up Artists Make Good HusbandsProof is in the pudding. Can't be that much of a failure if I've got pics and reviews that say otherwise! http://www.facebook.com/album.php?aid=193830&id=120144066804 http://www.abcsofattraction.com/community/reviews-testimonials-f42/starcraft-2-sf-bootcamp-review-by-bullet-t5048.html http://www.abcsofattraction.com/community/reviews-testimonials-f42/san-francisco-starcraft-pua-bootcamp-review-t5043.html | /r/seduction | 04/09/10 07:46 PM |
| 3 | Pick Up Artists Make Good HusbandsWell, DD is the more mainstream version of the PUA community. PUA-lite if you will since a lot of his material is derived from PUA concepts or PUAs themselves. The thing about PUA techniques is, agree or disagree with them, is that they're FIELD TESTED unlike most mainstream dating advice. It's also mostly useful for those guys who need a little tweaking in their game, but not so much for those guys who need a complete overhaul or foundation for their social and sexual skills. In the 5 years I'v… | /r/seduction | 04/09/10 07:43 PM |
| 1 | Asian guys - do you find it harder than white guys to pick up chicks? -Haha, thanks for the pointers, bro! I don't really reddit, but you can catch up with me on Facebook: http://www.facebook.com/asiandatingcoach | /r/seduction | 03/08/10 03:11 AM |
| 2 | Asian guys - do you find it harder than white guys to pick up chicks? -There is, without a doubt, a lot of obstacles in place to make the dating scene for Asian men more difficult. Yes, there are external societal and race issues that play a significant role BUT there are also a lot of issues and factors that we as Asians do to OURSELVES as Asian men. I once gave a speech in Sydney on the topic of manhood in the 21st century. There were 40 Asian guys and 5 white guys. When I asked who still lived at home with mom and dad, ZERO of the white guys raised their hand wh… | /r/seduction | 30/07/10 09:55 PM |
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