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Pick Up Artists Make Good Husbands

theasianplayboy · 2010-09-04T19:23:09+00:00

My response to the Ottawa newspaper article entitled "Why Pick Up Artists Make Good Husbands":...

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September 4, 2010

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Title	Pick Up Artists Make Good Husbands
Author	theasianplayboy
Upvotes	0
Comments	17
Date	September 4, 2010 7:23 PM UTC (15 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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Blah blah blah. The essence of pickup is many and varied depending on each man and his goals, but invariably it centers around a man becoming the best version of himself not simply to achieve success with women but to be happy with himself. Typically the lack of women in your life is simply another variable adding to your unhappiness, it is not always the primary cause.

The "get girls to chase you" is an admirable goal as it dictates that you design the kind of lifestyle and high value that would be conducive to it. But the majority of those who espouse this theory come from a feeling of being powerless and disenfranchised.

Instead of being proactive in your self-improvement and dating options, you take the lazy way out of not manning up and then later blame it on lack of "Inner Game." It's derived more from a desire to avoid the hard work of building a lifestyle and flirting with women and more of a desire to avoid pain and effort.

Ideally, you do both, both actively improving your skillset as well as your lifestyle. But like in business, 90% of Community guys will fail or give up. Nothing against them, it's just a very difficult pursuit to master.

Just like how 90% of businesses will fail in their first year. Or even how in the second year, 90% of THOSE businesses will fail. Oh, and here we are in our 5th year of business and for this bootcamp weekend alone, the ABCs of Attraction is in San Francisco and Los Angeles and we've got 20+ strong Asian men (and others ;) ripping it up this weekend, representing, and being AWESOME.

Therefore, you sir, are COMPLETELY right about your erudite insights into the many faced nature seduction as well as the Darwinian struggles of a successful businesses.

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