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Ignore the haters, I like the long-term and step-by-step way you approached this. I think a lot of people who don't understand the situation will just give advice like "give her an ultimatum and if she doesn't submit then just dump her ass"
/r/MarriedRedPill14/11/21 12:31 AM
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I know i'm overanalyzing here but it seems both sides (should react vs. shouldn't react) have a point. The most alpha move would have been don't say anything but then do something behind the scenes like get Leo fired from his next film role.
/r/TheRedPill11/11/21 04:44 PM
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Agreed. ok, good things to keep in mind for next time
/r/askTRP05/09/20 05:30 AM
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Yes, I do realize I'm autistic, that's why i'm on here asking for advice XD thx
/r/askTRP05/09/20 05:29 AM
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Stop being a sad cunt and start being a sick cunt I love this. thanks
/r/askTRP07/08/20 12:39 PM
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You havn't grow at all, and so ur mind is still at the crime scene, looking at the blood everywhere, just leave, go somewhere else (figuratively). These words are so fucking true that it hurts. She is not the best you will get, she's not even close. You're ideal woman wouldn't of drove past you right? So she's not the one, she didn't see it, thats her loss. I appreciate everything you said, but I can't agree with this, she drove past me because I was a thirsty bitch. Driving past me doesn't make…
/r/askTRP06/08/20 09:08 AM
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Thanks. I'm already doing #2 and 3. Masturbation is more so that I can go to sleep. I don't know how I would be able to without. I don't want to drink either... spent many nights drinking myself to sleep
/r/askTRP06/08/20 09:04 AM
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Thanks. It's been so long since I've came here and it's so fucking nice to hear some real shit
/r/askTRP06/08/20 09:04 AM
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Lol I read this and am just thinking. what the hell is wrong with me for forgetting this. I even know this, yet cannot seem to live it. Conversely... if you're not in an LTR and you're trying to get with "this one girl", and you've not fucked her on two separate occasions, then she is nothing more than an option. Treat her as such. She might have boyfriend, she might hate men, she might hate you. I guarantee she has a whole load of stuff (good and bad) going on that you know nothing about. You c…
/r/askTRP06/08/20 07:52 AM
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Thanks. I needed this.
/r/askTRP06/08/20 07:48 AM
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TRP is gonna work differently for every guy and its up to each man to read it, try out some aspects of it, see what works and what doesnt for THEM. The 6’2 guy is going to have a much different TRP experience than the 5’6 guy. The married or LTR guy is gonna have a much different TRP experience than the college kid. For me TRP is like a supply store. After getting the initial supplies (knowledge) I go off on my own to use them, adjusting them to my needs and figuring out what works for me. Then …
/r/TheRedPill01/01/20 02:53 PM
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Agreed, and also as a guy the older you get the more people judge you by how much money you have/earn.
/r/TheRedPill24/12/19 07:27 AM
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You gotta surf and turf. that was genuinely hilarious
/r/askTRP05/11/19 03:27 PM
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Oops, I forgot to run my comment through the 'banned buzzwords' filter list. Hope you're not too triggered buddy
/r/TheRedPill04/11/19 05:57 PM
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Noted, but I'm not interested in the whole toxic masculinity / manosphere fight and restraining my word choice just so that I don't offend a few mens rights activists. I'll use whatever words I want. And for me the most abusive person in the world was my bitch of an ex, so there's no gender discrimination here ;)
/r/TheRedPill04/11/19 05:54 PM
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This - especially on askTRP some of the advice can be truly idiotic and sometimes blatantly abusive. People who ask questions are looking for genuine advice about a girl they like, yeah they might not have memorized the sidebar but everyone has a slightly different situation where just having a TINY bit of genuine third party input helps. I remember once I asked a question about my situation and half of the people chose to bash/mock me instead of giving advice.
/r/TheRedPill04/11/19 03:19 AM
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How can you tell if a potential LTR is not a whore without digging through her past history? Like what are the signs of a whore vs a relatively clean girl?
/r/askTRP03/11/19 04:03 AM
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We're not equal if I've slept with a bunch of girls and you've slept with a bunch of guys. It's not some feat to open your legs. That's a really fucking good way of putting it. Girls complain about being slut-shamed while guys with high N-counts are mostly accepted, even admired in society. The difference is as a chick you can get sex like going to a soup kitchen, while the guy has to at least go through some effort to get laid.
/r/askTRP03/11/19 04:01 AM
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I assume it's chicks you meet through IG, same as any other online dating app
/r/askTRP03/11/19 03:47 AM
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Next time, while making out guide the girl's hands onto your dick, if she's DTF she will start massaging it. Start with the outside and then if she keeps playing with it then unzip and let her hold it directly. Usually at this point i just proceed to making her blow me. Once your dick is in her mouth for a few minutes she is usually ready to fuck and will help you take off her clothes. This works way better for me than trying to take off her clothes 1 by 1, which bitches are super sensitive abou…
/r/askTRP02/11/19 03:30 PM
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Then I turned into a cuckhold; I was buying her food at times, getting water for her, all just for the attention and validation Welp, the sun rises in the east and water is wet, turns out women don't like attention-seeking, needy nice guys. You went full beta on her and are wondering how TF she lost interest in you?
/r/askTRP02/11/19 06:24 AM
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Honestly the main sub is kinda intimidating to post in lol, everyone who posts there is either a pickup legend or an elite EC or some shit. Maybe we should have a sub for just field reports like this one
/r/askTRP01/11/19 11:51 PM
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ok. So basically what you're saying is it's impossible to maintain your own frame while still following another's frame.
/r/TheRedPill01/11/19 07:15 PM
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You don't covertly imply non-exclusivity, you outright say it. "I'm not ready for anything serious at the moment" as soon as the conversation comes up. Don't lie and be upfront about everything. Covertly implying anything leads to misunderstanding which leads to unnecessary drama. Girls are gonna catch feelings no matter what you do or say. If it's not you then it's gonna be some other guy who's going to pump & dump her.
/r/askTRP01/11/19 05:21 AM
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Well basically you're asking if it's good to be more like Saudi Arabia or whatever super religious muslim country. Hell fucking no. Commoners get jailed for having extramarital sex while the royals are on their yachts having orgies.
/r/askTRP01/11/19 04:50 AM
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What would you advise for business/social situations where there is a clear AMOG whose authority you respect (e.g. a fancy dinner where the host is a CEO?) How to maintain frame over your date or the chicks around you but still follow the AMOG's lead?
/r/TheRedPill01/11/19 01:14 AM
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They cannot love any man who is not their father or son. Including me, including you. When was the last time you heard of a woman BLOWING HER BRAINS OUT with a GUN, because her boyfriend or husband left her? Not to be a downer but literally on this sub a few weeks ago a guy posted about his ex gf killing herself after they broke up.
/r/askTRP31/10/19 11:07 PM
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I'm asian too. You're suffering because your expectations is not meeting reality, your expectation is that you can get the same amount/level of pussy as the other guys in your dorm. Life isn't fair. Some guys are just gonna get laid more than you. The 6'1 white or black guy is going to get 10x the amount & quality of pussy as you in life, unless you either 1) become jeff bezos or 2) hire hookers. The hot college girls that you spend all night fantasizing about are at this minute sucking down Cha…
/r/askTRP30/10/19 10:41 AM
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You're right. I simply don't have abundance but in this case I need to just push her away at this point.
/r/askTRP29/10/19 10:06 PM
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I tried imagining her getting fucked by other guys, but that ended up just pissing me off but didn't lessen my obsession.
/r/askTRP29/10/19 10:05 PM
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Yeah there are way better responses than the one I gave, that's a good one
/r/askTRP29/10/19 06:10 PM
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Great post, but I have a question. What would you advise for handling long-distance plates/potential plates where you might go 2-3 months without seeing each other? (Yes, I know to forget about her and game other girls, but honestly this is the #1 hottest chick I know and is willing to fuck me, no other chick within my firing range even comes close). So far I've tried withholding attention and we chat a few times a month, I usually keep my texts short. No matter how hard I try, I can't stop myse…
/r/TheRedPill29/10/19 06:05 PM
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This. Once I had a date who told me, I was the worst date ever because I didn't pay for her drink. I said "well you didn't seem that interested so why would I pay." then she wouldn't stop hitting me up the next week lmao
/r/askTRP29/10/19 02:46 PM
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Lemme ask you something, if an ugly bitch texts you and then a pretty bitch texts you, who do you respond to? Deal with it. Life isn't fucking fair. Get braces, hit the gym & get shredded. Get lasik. Up your SMV and earn a shit ton of money.
/r/askTRP29/10/19 07:06 AM
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Lmao, what do I care if "no one" cares about my family continuing? I care, and that's the only person that matters. Me.
/r/TheRedPill28/10/19 05:36 AM
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think about it this way. the more you drive her the less investment she's putting into being with you, and therefore the less attracted she will be over time. It's human nature to become attracted to things that we've already invested in. She'll also take you driving her for granted which basically makes you her chaffeur. The first time you tell her to drive herself she might not be too willing or be slow in responding. That's fine - give her time to think it over, don't pressure her and she wil…
/r/askTRP24/10/19 05:12 PM
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wtf do you not know where breast milk comes from??
/r/askTRP24/10/19 04:06 PM
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One thing to remember is this happens to every guy at some point. So don't feel like you're a weirdo. Condoms suck - I've heard that you should just get the large size or magnums even if you have a regular sized dick. For me the regular ones always clamp down my dick so much that I lose all feeling. Beyond that, try to get your hands on some cialis (at your age you don't need viagra). Don't take it, just have it nearby as a "backup" - just having it as a backup will help you less anxious and you…
/r/askTRP24/10/19 03:52 PM
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I don't think there's much benefit to being a man whore besides some self-esteem boost if you're sensitive in that area. I also believe in quality over quantity. For me, 1 HB9+ is WAY more valuable than a HB8 or below. I'm at the age where my sex drive isn't that great anymore and so I just don't have any interest in fucking anything that moves. So I'd rather fuck 1 HB9+ over 100 HB6s, or 10 HB7s. (HB8 maybe 4 and HB8.5 maybe 2 lmao)
/r/askTRP24/10/19 02:21 AM
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Ok. I don't care about the 1950s family dream, but all I really want is some kids so that my family name continues. So knocking up someone else's wife isn't an option. I'll take the risk of my future wife losing respect/fucking other guys/leaving me. In fact, if it happens then who cares, I'll be able to go back to fucking new chicks. But at least I'll have kids of my own and they won't be bastards (and I plan on DNA testing the shit out of them to make sure I am the father). And I trust that my…
/r/TheRedPill24/10/19 02:10 AM
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Agreed, that's like 90% of the MGTOW crew. They act like they don't need women but then the minute some hot young pussy comes within sniffing range, they forget their previous declarations instantly.
/r/TheRedPill23/10/19 06:45 PM
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So what would you suggest then for somebody who wants to have kids but still wants to live an RP life?
/r/TheRedPill23/10/19 06:43 PM
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I don't blame them, I'd be pretty pissed. It's one thing if they're a fatty and just need to shed a few pounds, but if their face is fucked up or if their torso is out of proportion even at low BF levels?
/r/askTRP23/10/19 01:15 PM
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You should just hit on them. It may creep them out enough so they start avoiding you.
/r/askTRP22/10/19 01:42 PM
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Dont tell me you are writing “redpill” or anti-feminist shit on your papers.
/r/askTRP22/10/19 01:38 PM
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Chances are if you saw what some of them look like, you'd run for the hills. Google "reddit meetup" and you'll know what kind of chicks post on reddit...
/r/askTRP22/10/19 07:01 AM
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Block, change your phone, change your email. Consider moving as soon as you can or transferring out.
/r/askTRP22/10/19 06:59 AM
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Nice troll post lmao, pretty creative
/r/askTRP22/10/19 04:50 AM
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OP, you cannot ask this kind of question without telling us how tall you are and how you look face/physique wise. The difference in cold approach game for attractive vs unattractive people is like playing candy crush vs. dark souls.
/r/askTRP22/10/19 01:33 AM
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good advice! thx. ppl looks promising.
/r/askTRP21/10/19 01:14 AM
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PPL program Ok, that looks cool. Why would you leave 2-3 reps in the tank for compounds - is it for better recovery?
/r/askTRP20/10/19 10:01 PM
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Chances are your social skills are complete shit and on top of that you are super insecure and self-centered, which makes people extremely uncomfortable to be around you. You lacked a father figure growing up and so you have really no idea what it means to act like a man. You constantly seek the validation of others while freely giving away your own validation, therefore everyone takes you for granted and eventually lose interest in you. I was like you when I was your age, always alone and wonde…
/r/askTRP20/10/19 06:45 PM
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Good for you man, that's what TRP is all about, being able to think for yourself and respecting your own values and beliefs, and not being a bitch. Maybe you won't get laid with those 2 bitches who probably followed the herd and now are ostracizing you, but guarantee you will find even hotter chicks who have respect for a guy who not only stands up for himself but also for others. That being said, you can't really be getting involved in everyone's fights - what you did is good but don't get into…
/r/askTRP19/10/19 05:59 AM
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IDK, I feel especially bad for my bros 5'5 and under.
/r/askTRP18/10/19 06:37 AM
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I fucked it up lmao
/r/askTRP18/10/19 06:32 AM
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My ex was a girl I wanted to marry, and still would even post-TRP. She was gorgeous, confident yet submissive, always letting me lead. She would put my interests before hers as long as I was leading like a man. She had tons of orbiters but shut them all down and dedicated herself fully to me. She didn't want a superstar life or a rich life, her dream life was to just have a stable home, prepare breakfast every morning, pack lunch for me to go to work, and then cook dinner for me when I got home.…
/r/askTRP18/10/19 06:26 AM
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Not being upset, angered, or flustered or moved by not getting your way immediately. She's used to guys being pissed when they can't smash so quickly This. Don't be a sperg and start acting butthurt when she rejects your kiss or escalation. One thing I like to do when my advances get rejected is just laugh and go "darn it! you ruined my evil plan." this kills the awkwardness right away.
/r/askTRP18/10/19 05:39 AM
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Ladies and gents here we see the living embodiment of a sperg next autistic question: "I believe that girls will not want to fuck if I pull out my dick. change my mind"
/r/askTRP18/10/19 05:12 AM
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No need to lie to yourself. Abundance is something that can't be faked. However, you must act like a man who has abundance in front of women. It's actually not too difficult. Never text girls back right away, leave them on read for a few hours. This immediately shoots up your value in their eyes. Never compliment chicks or seek their approval. Keep reading TRP philosophy and apply it.
/r/askTRP18/10/19 04:12 AM
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if she talked a lot thats a good thing I don't think it's necessary to escalate given the logistics of her having to leave. You established yourself as a non-creep and nobody gets dumped into the friendzone after only 1 date. The main thing you should do better next time is get the next date setup before you guys leave. Chicks are much less likely to flake on the 2nd date if they already verbally agreed on details, and it's so much easier to coordinate the details in-person by checking each othe…
/r/askTRP18/10/19 03:50 AM
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good shit lmao ​ But seriously, if she was hotter, would you still do the same?
/r/askTRP18/10/19 02:49 AM
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Dude, back when I was billy beta I was in an abusive relationship with a bitch who controlled/mentally abused me for 8 fucking years. I could have fucked so many hotties during that time, but every time my jealous ex would shut down that shit right away, she'd look through my phone every week and question every contact, and I simply sat back and let it happen. You have it good compared to others if that's all the fuck that happened to you
/r/askTRP17/10/19 05:32 PM
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That's only in a few select examples and most likely for low paying jobs or small offices where the receptionist is one of the few employees. I interviewed and hired many candidates back at my old finance gig, NEVER did we give a shit about what the receptionist thought of the candidate.
/r/TheRedPill17/10/19 05:09 PM
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I don't give a shit what your boss said. The fact is the girl is going to think you're a pussy ass bitch for saying that someone told you to ask her out.
/r/askTRP17/10/19 05:44 AM
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Girls give their numbers all the time, because it's fucking awkward to reject someone in person. Ghosting is the de facto rejection method for the vast majority of chicks. And you are a bitch ass for saying "my boss isn't gonna let me back up". Like wtf, you can't ask a girl out on your own?
/r/askTRP17/10/19 05:22 AM
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Not only do you not LTR her, but start actively watching out for signs of her trying to manipulate you. Women who cheat like this and play their boyfriends are extremely manipulative and WILL try to guilt you into a relationship with her "I left my boyfriend for you!!"
/r/askTRP17/10/19 03:49 AM
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6'2, attractive, (most likely white) guy wonders why TRP is a thing.
/r/askTRP17/10/19 03:41 AM
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It increases your SMV and can make you feel more alpha but a girl would still rather fuck a broke alpha than a rich beta (for the rich beta she will offer the bare minimum amount of sex needed for rewards).
/r/askTRP17/10/19 03:37 AM
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Honestly any guy even betas can be sociopathic. It's just no bitches want them so they end up turning into nice guys and therefore deemed acceptable by society. Society ostracizes alpha behavior as "sociopathic" because the people in power (business leaders, politicians) want followers. Therefore beta traits like being emotional, being agreeable, chivalry, etc are all heavily promoted.
/r/askTRP17/10/19 03:11 AM
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I've had women take 5 hour bus rides, flights from another city, drive through hours of traffic to see me. I've realized, seducing bitches is the easy part. The hard part is keeping them at arm's length - not letting their devotion and extreme efforts guilt me into reciprocate or feeling bad when they inevitably start crying at how I'm neglecting them. I was raised a nice guy, so that beta side will always be in me.
/r/askTRP17/10/19 02:50 AM
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nah this isn't manipulative. manipulative is shit like "Remember that X thing you said 2 months ago? Because of that I ended up doing Y for YOU and now you still HAVEN'T done X. And I can't believe that you are still doing Z, when you know that I don't like it. How can you live with yourself treating me like this?"
/r/askTRP17/10/19 02:41 AM
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She has a really nice skull. Lmao. No but seriously, if your bitch is getting in the way of you pursuing your goals, cut her out or demote to plate. Quit being a bitch, bitch.
/r/askTRP16/10/19 03:55 PM
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She must be hot as fuck for you to start acting so needy. Don't worry this happened to me too. I fucked a 9.5 and then afterwards I started thinking about her almost nonstop, to the point where I was texting her and providing her attention almost every day after. She started withdrawing and then I soon realized too that I was killing her attraction. Didn't talk to her for 2-3 weeks, then she starts hitting me up again. Now I ration my attention extremely carefully, even going out of my way to li…
/r/askTRP16/10/19 03:35 PM
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Better to be a pain in the ass than a doormat
/r/askTRP16/10/19 07:26 AM
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If I break up I'm pretty sure I wouldn't be able to attract anyone of value for a few months. Not saying that's a bad thing but what's the harm in just investing less and living life normally until she swings or I'm back to my weight? It seems you've already made up your mind so why are you even asking this question? Being unwilling to be seen in public with you is a clear sign of disrespect and unworthy of LTR. If you are OK with that, then by all means go for it. If you are keeping her around …
/r/askTRP16/10/19 07:10 AM
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Revealing stuff about yourself is fine - just make sure you always keep a little mystery. Girls act like they wanna know all your secrets but they actually don't.
/r/askTRP16/10/19 07:00 AM
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Next time, try your best to fuck with the girl's emotions. Make them angry, sad, ecstatic, scared, frustrated, whatever - anything is better than "oh, this is just another boring date" feeling.
/r/askTRP16/10/19 06:55 AM
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In other words: what not to do to get a woman into bed. Women don't want a man to show her love when he hasn't even fucked her yet. That dries up the pussy like the sahara desert. But after the fuck? They want some love. Not a lot, just a little to make them feel like less of a slut.
/r/askTRP16/10/19 04:09 AM
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This. Everything went exactly according to her plan - come over, make pancakes, make out. There was no excitement, no sense of wonder or uncertainty. A big part of the first fuck is primal, the struggle for power, the chase - some girls want to put up a fight before she gives up her pussy to a man worthy of claiming her.
/r/askTRP16/10/19 03:36 AM
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Hopefully it's as easy as it seems but sometimes you might stumble upon a bitch who insists on being professional since she actually wants you to sign up for her bullshit class.
/r/askTRP15/10/19 03:07 AM
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All of the situations you mentioned would be resolved by you approaching the chicks outright. What you're feeling is called being a pussy. Life is tough being a pussy - "oh no, what will X person think of me? What will Y person think of me? I wanna do this but I'm too scared of Z person's judgment." Approach the girl, strike up a conversation and all of those worries will disappear.
/r/askTRP15/10/19 02:43 AM
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Rent a car for a few hours, I think that's your best bet - take her out of the city into queens or jersey, find an empty parking lot
/r/askTRP15/10/19 01:06 AM
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hold frame, apply dread and demote to plate if necessary
/r/askTRP15/10/19 01:01 AM
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1) get hard 2) find hole 3) stick dick in hole
/r/askTRP15/10/19 12:59 AM
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LTR is additional requirements on top of plate/fuck requirements. Plate/fuck requirements: hot/gorgeous/sexy, keeps herself fit, submissive, lack of slutty behavior LTR: presentable in front of family/friends, easygoing, decency, does not curse, does not complain about random shit, values her family, motivated & disciplined for work or school, can cook or clean
/r/askTRP14/10/19 09:26 PM
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Exactly - girls will say anything for ASD but the next minute turn around and do the sluttiest act imaginable. I forgot who wrote it but basically there is the headbrain and pussybrain, headbrain controls the words that come out of their mouth, but the pussybrain ultimately controls which bed they end up.
/r/askTRP14/10/19 08:49 PM
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You should read "no more mr. nice guy". One of the nice guy traits is that they are afraid to express themselves sexually. I was one and most of my life people in my family made sex seem like a sin or weird (for example every time we watched a movie and there was a kissing scene, it would be fast forwarded). This led to me feeling like any outward expression of sex would be met with disgust and ostracization. A big part of TRP is embracing your own sexuality, accepting that you have sexual desir…
/r/askTRP14/10/19 08:39 PM
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Your response sounds bitter/defensive af Dw passing shit tests takes time and practice
/r/askTRP14/10/19 07:43 AM
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Shes not expecting much. She knows her SMV is lower than yours and so shes fine with being your side bitch. Plate her if you want, or dont, since clearly shes not hot enough for you to give a fuck about
/r/askTRP12/10/19 01:51 PM
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No. No girl will ever unmatch because you are taking too long to respond.
/r/askTRP12/10/19 01:42 PM
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If i know im gonna fuck then i dont fap all week, i enjoy the feeling of getting so horny that i cant even stop thinking about sex. Some weeks tho I have dry spells and so just have to nut it out :(
/r/askTRP11/10/19 03:15 PM
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If theyre unmatching you before you talk it doesnt matter what you say, you have no chance. Improve your smv
/r/askTRP11/10/19 03:11 PM
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Lmfao
/r/askTRP11/10/19 02:44 PM
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holy shit, if a girl talks to me like this I will dump her ass in 2 seconds
/r/askTRP11/10/19 07:42 AM
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Reach out now. This happened to me too. She said she was feeling sick so I said feel better. 4 days later: "Feeling better?" Her: Getting better Me: Good to hear. Doing anything fun this wknd? H: Hanging out with friends and relaxing. and u? Me: Oo nice. Going to a music show later. H: Cool! which one? etc etc, met up a few days later, smashed right away
/r/askTRP11/10/19 06:27 AM
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This. it's too late. hard next
/r/askTRP11/10/19 06:22 AM
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No one in my life knows she even really exists lol. Good shit, be glad this happened before you started introducing her to fam
/r/askTRP11/10/19 06:20 AM
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She's 44 and she would have fucked you even if you said bluepill shit like "You're gorgeous" and "I love you." She was craving 26-yr-old cock and you somehow managed to fuck that up. Next time, ignore everything she says, park the car, grab her by the hand and lead her straight into your bedroom. And for god's sake stop wasting your time with 44 year olds, you can bang them when you're 60 and need viagra.
/r/askTRP11/10/19 06:11 AM
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Nah, I'd say if you don't go for the kiss for the entirety of the date, don't bother going for the kiss at the end when you're about to part. Only kiss if you have the opportunity to escalate later that evening.
/r/askTRP11/10/19 02:47 AM
1

Why does she want to make you better? Because she doesn't think you're good enough? If she thinks you're good enough, why would she spend time trying to make you better? Why not just spend time appreciating you and following your lead in life?
/r/askTRP10/10/19 09:55 PM
6

No, this is manipulative behavior and not good LTR material. A decent LTR woman who respects you will accept you in all your flaws and weaknesses.
/r/askTRP10/10/19 04:56 PM
1

That never works for me. Full 100% makeout with tongue if Im going for the first kiss, gets them excited right away.
/r/askTRP10/10/19 04:38 PM
2

If she's meeting you 1 on 1 it's a date. Game her as usual. Be prepared to lose the friendship.
/r/askTRP10/10/19 04:09 PM
1

Fuck bitches who try to control you. That will always end up poorly. They will manipulate you by trying to "help you" so then you feel like you owe them. In a few years, she will start feeling like she "owns" you. Every time you have even the slightest argument, she will bring up how much help she provided you during your job searching phase, how everything good in your life is happening because of her, etc. If you try to break up with her, she will go CRAZY, saying how you owe all your success …
/r/askTRP10/10/19 03:59 PM
1

Both but mostly it's me initiating because I like to reach for HB8.5+ chicks and they usually have their calendars pretty packed. I'd rather put in some effort for a higher tier girl than have a HB7 or lower initiate on me.
/r/askTRP10/10/19 07:06 AM
3

This isn't the brad pitt method, this is standard TRP practice - always assume attraction, lead the interaction, etc
/r/askTRP10/10/19 06:59 AM
1

If by wrong type of girl you mean the hottest bitches I've smashed in my life, one of which is taking the bus 3 hours just to see me, I'll take it. Woe is me.
/r/askTRP10/10/19 06:53 AM
1

Both. Better to be sexy than funny but if you cant be sexy, at least try to be funny.
/r/askTRP10/10/19 05:38 AM
3

Damn, feel bad for her LDR because you are definitely not the first guy she has brought into her bed lmao
/r/askTRP10/10/19 05:36 AM
14

Do wild animals have dating apps? No, they have to fight and kill everyday just to survive. The strongest male fights off all the other competitors and then still has to chase down the female in order to mate. Modern society is already beta as fuck. Rules like monogamy ensures that every guy gets a chance. The only difference is who gets the used up post wall gutters and who gets the tender hot yoga bunnies. So stop being a pussy and go approach like a man.
/r/askTRP10/10/19 05:31 AM
1

Weak men create hard times?
/r/askTRP10/10/19 05:00 AM
2

Agreed. A 20s aged 8 would easily be getting a couple messages a week from orbiters even in a LTR, which is enough to keep their confidence at a healthy level.
/r/askTRP09/10/19 02:25 PM
3

It doesnt matter what Id do. This is your girl. TRP has plenty of answers for when the girl is losing interest, But no one can tell you how to handle a girl who is talking to you like this. Its completely up to you whether you like her enough or not. Personally I wouldnt keep a girl like this, unless I REALLY like her. Even tho I like submissive girls, I prefer chicks with confidence. I want them to be a badass in front of everyone else, confident, successful, smart. But in private completely su…
/r/askTRP09/10/19 02:21 PM
9

Honestly this isn't a comfort test, this is just sad. She seems a bit depressed and potentially suicidal - this is outside of TRP territory.
/r/askTRP09/10/19 05:46 AM
1

This is a rough period of time. I broke up with my ex last august, took me until June to get over her and start hitting the apps. So many failed dates, catfishes, ghosts, etc. I basically gave up. Then, suddenly like a miracle, the right timing, the right girl came along. Finally broke the dry spell exactly 1 year after my last one. HB 10, met her through IG, hottest chick I've ever smashed (and my worst performance ever) So hang in there, keep working on yourself and the right girl will come.
/r/askTRP09/10/19 04:54 AM
4

This is retarded. Approaching is the man's job.
/r/askTRP09/10/19 04:50 AM
2

It's mad hard, probably the hardest part of TRP. But you know what, after talking to a completely unknown girl, then getting her # after, that puts me in a good mood for at least a few hours, and makes me feel like a badass. Next step: go for immediate date and try to close
/r/askTRP09/10/19 01:39 AM
2

For shit like this nothing beats "hey" and dont overthink it
/r/askTRP09/10/19 01:13 AM
2

If you're genuinely interested or have a passion for it, go for it. But don't ever do something with the sole purpose of picking up chicks - it will be painfully obvious to everyone in the class and they will ostracize you.
/r/askTRP09/10/19 01:09 AM
1

Why do you still talk to this girl? Seriously, is she the hottest you can get? I hate stupid bitches like this, they are soul-sucking, life-destroying, manipulative pieces of shit.
/r/askTRP09/10/19 01:04 AM
11

It's obvious you don't have enough SMV and also that's fine, go ahead and disbelieve TRP, seriously nobody here gives a fuck, go try all the beta and BP tactics you want and see how well that works out LOL
/r/askTRP08/10/19 07:07 PM
27

"Let me see if he is a pussy and I should leave sinking ship." spot on, yours is better lmao
/r/TheRedPill08/10/19 06:32 PM
252

Truer words were never spoken. In addition, a woman's words will often contrast polar opposite with their actions/feelings. Words: "What's wrong baby? Just tell me everything, I'm here to listen." True feeling: "Omg, I thought you were a real man, instead you are here bitching to me?" "Let me see if he is a pussy and I should leave sinking ship." Words: "Why are you so selfish? You're treating me like shit when I do so much for you." True feeling: "Are you a bitch and ready to submit to my whini…
/r/TheRedPill08/10/19 06:05 PM
7

You don't have the time or energy to deal with this kind of manipulative, crazy bitch. Plenty of other chicks out there who will fuck you well without any drama
/r/askTRP08/10/19 04:15 PM
5

Nope. In this case it's better to learn from Trump. Deny everything and people WILL forget, or at least stop caring.
/r/askTRP08/10/19 04:14 PM
9

"I don't want to be the centre of discussion" Too late Deny everything. Say "OMG I was so drunk. What you said we were making out? I don't even remember that. Wait which girl are you talking about? I have no idea who that is. All I know is I somehow made it back home safe. Never getting drunk again, that was very unprofessional of me." Meanwhile start sending out resumes.
/r/askTRP08/10/19 04:04 PM
33

The fact that she pays fully is a little worrisome to me for the stability of the relationship. This shows she thinks she has low value compared to you and that she REALLY wants to lock you down. I'd let her go not just for your sake but also for hers. Women's SMV quickly drop over the course of her 20s and she should find an older guy who's ready to settle down. At age 24 you have so many years to pump and dump as many chicks as you want, but she does not.
/r/askTRP08/10/19 03:30 PM
1

Is it really a good idea to call chicks? Agreed texting is shitty af
/r/askTRP08/10/19 08:29 AM
1

This is an autistic post/question
/r/askTRP08/10/19 08:27 AM
2

don't see anything wrong with this. when the girl suggests a date, that's basically 90% of your job done for you sweat up a storm and fuck the shit out of her afterwards
/r/askTRP08/10/19 07:38 AM
15

No, this isn't a shit test. Just roll with 10pm.
/r/askTRP08/10/19 07:00 AM
1

Haha, the biggest logistics challenge of all is getting the girl into a private place for escalation, so the fact that she did that for you is like a free gimme
/r/askTRP08/10/19 05:45 AM
2

Damn she must be a lot uglier than the pics lmao. Just ghost and forget about her, she'll find some beta bux soon enough with or without your help She's not stupid - she knows exactly how pretty she is compared to other chicks. She's targeting the kind of guy who doesn't know his own SMV, been a momma's boy his whole life, and would settle for the first chick who smothers him with attention. You're not that guy so don't rub it in her face.
/r/askTRP08/10/19 04:57 AM
2

Honestly it could be any one of the 4. Women's hamsters go crazy and probably will oscillate wildly with any of the 4. Just proceed as you would any normal 2nd date and fucking close this time. Don't take her attraction for granted - avoid triggering ASD at all costs
/r/askTRP08/10/19 04:49 AM
8

Yep. Guys usually aren't posting pics of their average gfs either. This can also be seen IRL - if you see a couple out together and one of them is constantly taking pictures of the other, you know which one is the prize.
/r/askTRP08/10/19 04:24 AM
9

I'm fine with shit like this out there. Too many idiots think seducing is just saying a few lines, negging the bitch and then she somehow ends up in your bed. True RP philosophy is about inner mission, outcome independence and abundance, things that are deeply attractive to women but impossible to fake just by watching a few YT videos.
/r/TheRedPill08/10/19 02:32 AM
1

Curious, how do you meet younger girls usually?
/r/askTRP07/10/19 03:31 PM
16

Lol this is true but most of the time girls are very good at asking questions acting like they want to know you better. The instant you tell them everything they get bored. Pillow talk should mainly consist of comforting and asking them questions about themselves. If it's the first fuck then they need a decent amount of comfort so that they don't feel like you're treating them like a pump&dump slut.
/r/TheRedPill07/10/19 03:25 PM
4

Sexual anything over text should be saved for chicks you're currently fucking. Otherwise the possibility of triggering ASD is just too high to be worth any kind of "feelz" you think might be achieved by sending it.
/r/askTRP07/10/19 06:38 AM
8

ROFL, that's hilarious. Hot chicks get so many texts it's insane. And they love it too - its like a constant supply of validation throughout the day, dopamine hits as they meet up with their friends "omg look at these 10 guys texting me, so annoying".
/r/askTRP07/10/19 02:23 AM
19

The mentality thing is harder than it sounds to develop. I think that comes from actual results and abundance. Right now you need straight up tactics. Dont tell the girl she's cute. Find something else, anything else to talk about besides her appearance (clothing is fine) Never double text unless it's a month later 1st text after meeting "hey, it was cool meeting you today." Don't ask for a date right away, exchange 1-2 texts about random shit. "how's your day going" is always a great text to se…
/r/askTRP07/10/19 02:10 AM
3

that's the best goddamn use of the word myopia ive ever seen
/r/askTRP07/10/19 02:02 AM
2

What happened after? did you guys break up right away or try to make things work for a bit before calling it quits?
/r/askTRP07/10/19 01:29 AM
19

I'm like you, broke up last august, and it took until june of this year to fully get over. Still I think about her a lot with fond memories. I talked to her recently and she says she finds it hard to date anyone else because she doesn't think she will ever find someone with the same connection. I wouldn't get back with her though. What you're missing right now is the feeling of true happiness you felt when you were with her. But realize that if you did get back together, you would never achieve …
/r/askTRP07/10/19 01:25 AM
3

Nah. That's a stupid way of thinking about it. Dating is actually a lot of fun and honestly some of the happiest moments of my life were spent with my ex. Moments that I wished would last forever. When you find a hot but decent girl the first months are just unending sex. 3-4 times a day, in every position. She took the pill so obviously raw dogging is the shit. Sure I paid for some meals but no prostitute is going to offer you that much sex for such a little amount of money.
/r/askTRP05/10/19 07:25 AM
2

Be glad this happened to you at this age. Seriously, be glad you experienced this. I'm guessing you're in high school. Give no fucks, talk to as many girls as you can, try out all the TRP literature. Once you're in college, it's a clean slate and you'll have a shit ton of experience under your belt, you'll easily slay the most pussy out of anyone in your dorm.
/r/askTRP05/10/19 03:01 AM
13

This is a great answer, and is pretty much why I skipped the whole "anger" phase of TRP. Beta me didn't have anything to offer these women. I stayed home playing computer games, worked at a job I hated, let people walk all over me. I always had this insane fantasy that once a female truly got to know me, she would fall in love with my inner self (which is heavily ironic because throughout this time I wouldn't date an ugly chick no matter how beautiful her inner self) When I discovered TRP 3 mont…
/r/askTRP05/10/19 02:32 AM
1

Chicks get emotional. If you guys fucked then she definitely missed you and now she's afraid she's going to catch feelings for you again.
/r/askTRP04/10/19 06:01 PM
1

Yeah thats definitely on the short side although not that bad. Wear platform shoes next time you go out and hit on shorter chicks.
/r/askTRP04/10/19 03:17 PM
1

Chase and lead the interaction. Most girls love being pursued by a high value man
/r/askTRP04/10/19 03:15 PM
1

How tall are you and whats your ethnicity Lifting and game can only take you so far. If you dont have the genes then you need a massive boost of money and social status to make up for it. Id channel that anger into your mission and become a badass motherfucking boss
/r/askTRP04/10/19 06:57 AM
7

Next her by making an advance. Clearly this girl is so fucking hot that you cant bring yourself to next her on your own, so just hit on her, let her reject you, and move on with your life.
/r/askTRP04/10/19 06:48 AM
2

Usually if you match, a few messages is enough when you strike while the iron's hot. In this case, the girl clearly lost interest and is probably talking to another guy, which is why I advised to go back to regular texting. The standard RP advice is to next. However, this advice will almost always fall on deaf ears because most of the guys here do not have abundance and it is almost impossible for a low SMV guy to "next" a hottie.
/r/askTRP04/10/19 06:30 AM
1

Procrastination != laziness. Procrastination comes from fear of failure. Fear of failure comes when you have undefined, overwhelming goals or projects that you haven't broken down into little manageable pieces. Work on one goal at a time. Break it down into small, 5 minute pieces.
/r/askTRP04/10/19 05:21 AM
1

Go back to regular conversation for now, she's way too low interest. The logistics only rule mainly applies to girls who are already interested. For OLD you have to do some text game. Try to figure out some mutual interests, get her talking. Pushing for a date right away just puts you in the same bucket as the 30 other thirsty tinder guys doing the same thing.
/r/askTRP04/10/19 05:09 AM
1

Good advice. Definitely gonna stop leading this girl on.
/r/askTRP04/10/19 04:57 AM
1

Good feedback.
/r/askTRP04/10/19 04:56 AM
1

Asking for social media is a good move when getting the phone number for whatever reason is too awkward. I was talking to a low interest chick (response every 3-4 days) on hinge and could feel that pushing for a phone # would have gotten me ghosted. So I moved to IG which separated me from all the other hinge fucks messaging her. Her IG page was literally empty - you'd be surprised how many chicks just use IG to follow celebrities or shit instead of trying to get orbiters. Immediately after movi…
/r/askTRP03/10/19 07:27 PM
11

Yes, not 100% of the time but maybe 95%. It's very evident on dating apps like CMB. Every time the app shows me a girl who liked me first, they are almost always not up to my standards. The only girls that I like are the ones who get liked by every single guy so they never have to swipe on a guy who did not like them already.
/r/askTRP03/10/19 07:19 PM
2

If she notices and asks just say “you should have seen the other guy”
/r/askTRP03/10/19 05:15 PM
1

Imo if the woman is rich or rich family then usual hypergamy rules dont apply.
/r/askTRP03/10/19 07:05 AM
10

All bitches are needy when they're infatuated.
/r/askTRP03/10/19 03:43 AM
12

Call her out on it? that's an autistic move Usually you wanna match or be longer than their pace but in this case you can reply within 24 hours and it should be ok. I'd try to give you more advice but given your lack of experience and how much you're oneitising this girl, you're probably gonna fuck it up anyway.
/r/askTRP03/10/19 03:40 AM
3

NP. LMK how it goes. And agreed, it's kind of sad really. For a HB 9+ I'm willing to literally fly out of town to see the girl. For a HB 7 or below I can't be bothered to meet unless it's within 2 blocks of my apartment.
/r/askTRP03/10/19 03:33 AM
19

I'm nowhere near your level but every girl I've dated gets obsessed with me and this was even before I discovered TRP. I think it's because when I'm genuinely interested in the girl, I have this weird natural charisma in the way I interact with chicks that they just can't get enough of. Just chill and enjoy being god's gift to women. Fuck them all and fuck them good but remember your mission should always be #1.
/r/askTRP03/10/19 03:27 AM
-2

I don't understand how saying to her "Hey I don't like this picture. Can you archive it?" is going to lose you frame. Any loyal girl will immediately understand what you're saying and follow your direction.
/r/askTRP03/10/19 02:12 AM
1

Got it. It's definitely gonna be hard, but seems like this chick is worth the effort. I'd try my best to amp it up as much as possible. Spend time talking about the parties, cool events, music, etc. Tell her about some live music happening that weekend... chicks love music. Don't spend too much time trying to hold her hand - they actually get turned off when you try make it easy for them. Once you get her interest then she'll most likely book the ticket on her own and not ask you for help.
/r/askTRP03/10/19 02:06 AM
1

You didn't mention what this girl's status is. Did you guys fuck yet or no. Also i'm guessing you guys are not in the same city because otherwise you could just plan the trip together.
/r/askTRP03/10/19 01:53 AM
5

Unlike everyone else here I'll actually answer your question. For whatever reason your joke definitely failed, yes she may be retarded but with that kind of shit response I'd say she is likely to ghost you within the next 1-2 texts. "How's your day going" is the absolutely #1 line that will get you a response when the girl's about to ghost you. Pretend the previous joke did not even happen and reset the convo.
/r/askTRP03/10/19 01:35 AM
3

Next time, just say "get on your knees bitch and suck my cock", this line works 100% of the time.
/r/askTRP03/10/19 01:28 AM
1

What exactly are you asking about? Seems like you've already figured out you were responsible for being a dumbass at your school play. How decent twitter following are we talking? In terms of chasing your dreams - only you can make that decision. Be prepared to work your ass off. It's not like 5 years ago when artists could still make a name for themselves selling a unique niche product (book, music, art w/e). Nowadays everybody and their mother is creating art/self producing content. Originalit…
/r/askTRP03/10/19 01:04 AM
3

Maybe you have low T or maybe this bitch isnt hot enough for you. Sometimes once I smash I have 0 interest in seeing the girl again, usually because she was only good for a pump and dump, not even plate worthy.
/r/askTRP02/10/19 06:11 PM
1

I would do that if i had friends that i enjoyed hanging out with lmao. But yeah this is probably good advice.
/r/askTRP02/10/19 06:05 PM
2

Honestly if you're 6'1 you are already in the top 20% of male SMV. you'd have to be a fatass in order to be lower than a 7.
/r/askTRP02/10/19 03:57 PM
1

Didn't see your first post but no-kiss first dates aren't that bad. Some girls are just shy or have massive ASD on first dates and don't wanna put out. Second dates are always good signs. One easy thing to do is when going to a bar, find a single barstool between 2 occupied stools and have the girl come next to you. Sit down, pretend to look around for an empty seat and then say "oh, come sit on my lap." Most girls have no problem doing this and you'll be able to build some intimacy. When leavin…
/r/askTRP02/10/19 03:47 PM
3

Logistics only is always a good rule to follow. I like to first have a standard greeting like "hey! it was cool meeting you today. the park/the bar/whole foods is crazy lol" basically a friendly, not-needy, but not pushy greeting. Let them respond, then judging by the length of time, # of y's they add to the end of "heyyyyy" and # of emojis in their response, you can determine which line to use next: high interest: "let's grab drinks next tuesday" medium interest: "let's grab drinks next week if…
/r/askTRP02/10/19 03:29 PM
6

This. Its more about delivery anyway than the words youre saying. Club girls get at least 15-50 guys hitting on them per night so any opener you can think of has already been used.
/r/askTRP02/10/19 01:09 PM
38

Letting you have sex while she only talks? Lmao, thats the biggest bull Ive ever heard. shes gonna start fucking (or has already started).
/r/askTRP02/10/19 01:06 PM
11

If the smv scores are true then i doubt she was creeped out. She was probably hoping youd ask her out and then was disappointed you didnt, probably felt awkward after.
/r/askTRP02/10/19 06:17 AM
1

I have some musician friends who are all broke af, but they all can score pretty easily. Not exactly your 6’+ chads either. Theyre all 5’9 or under, altho they all have decent IG followings (20-100k)
/r/askTRP02/10/19 06:11 AM
1

I skipped the anger stage, idk why. Id say im on a mix between stage 3 and 5 right now. Still feel like theres some good ones out there.
/r/TheRedPill01/10/19 05:09 AM
7

Girls always say they wanna be equal but in reality they don't. The whole feminist thing. But deep down inside, they want to be submissive and follow men. They want men to tell them what to do, where to go, who to talk to, etc.
/r/askTRP27/09/19 09:42 AM
1

No you're not fucked up. I can't even get hard if I'm fucking an ugly or a fattie. I'd literally get nauseous. However I think my brain's damaged after years of watching porn. At the very least I expect thin waist, if they have any kind of noticeable flab in the stomach area I immediately start losing interest.
/r/askTRP27/09/19 07:49 AM
3

I've noticed that when making out, putting the girl's hands on my dick works way better than trying to take off their clothes. They always start playing with it. The whole kino escalation thing never works for me, they recoil more often than not when I'm taking off their clothes or touching around their skin. Also when the girl says "let's slow down" I always just put the blanket over us and cuddle like we're going to sleep. Eventually she gets turned on and escalates herself. Basically I think …
/r/askTRP27/09/19 07:38 AM
3

HAHAHA ikr? The thing is I'm leaving town in a few days so pretty much have 0 time for another date. I knew she wanted to fuck, but her ASD radar was on overdrive lol.
/r/askTRP26/09/19 05:58 PM
3

Agreed, the problem is always ASD isn't it lmao What are some other non-needy lines you'd use?
/r/askTRP26/09/19 05:53 PM
1

I forget honestly. And I used those lines, didn't work because immediately she started saying "i want to go home then" It was genuinely hilarious. She said "I wanna go home" every single time I said one of those lines. but I think the "need to pick up a coat" line that some ppl are recommending is good.
/r/askTRP26/09/19 05:40 PM
1

Good advice. And yeah it was cringey, idgaf I'm tryin shit out lmao before all my lays were 2nd+ date closes and those other lines worked easily. so my focus was always on other parts of the date rather than this specific point.
/r/askTRP26/09/19 05:35 PM
2

You problem is talking with her about going to your place. Don't do that. While you are there, you'll quickly go inside to grab a sweater / drop something / go to pee and she comes with you. This is gold. Thanks.
/r/askTRP26/09/19 05:33 PM
1

Ok. Good feedback. I agree I'm pretty bad at being the tease, that's definitely something I need to work on. Thanks
/r/askTRP26/09/19 12:49 PM
3

How are they responding to kino? If a girl isn't talking much but being ok with kino I'd just bring her home and escalate. Talkers are annoying anyway. They will try to figure you out, shit test you, find out your flaws trying to ruin their own attraction for you. If they bothered to show up to the date, assume attraction.
/r/askTRP25/09/19 03:47 PM
1

What exactly are you saying and exactly how are you saying it? It's important to open up with a neutral question that does NOT have anything to do with the girl. Imagine if it was a guy, would you open up with the same line on a fellow man? Also you need to sound confident and chill while saying it, and then act like you just noticed her "Oh do you come here a lot?" And go from there. Basically you have to be smooth as butter in breaking the ice and segueing into a conversation. Unless you're re…
/r/askTRP25/09/19 06:08 AM
2

Honestly I wish I discovered TRP at age 20 because a fully red pilled 20 year old can slay way more quality pussy than a 30 or 40 year old. Way easier to get jacked too with high metabolism. At 50+ you pretty much have to go the route of seekingarrangement. "B-b-b-but what about this 1 guy who's an exception?!" Sure there are some oldies on here who are killing it but keep in mind that those who don't are NOT posting and bragging about it. That's one thing you have to remember when reading this …
/r/askTRP24/09/19 10:25 AM
4

Same reason why you'd never touch a girl that's HB 5 or below. Girls want to fuck guys that they can show off to their friends or feel good about. Game can help you score higher than your actual value but only to a certain point. Fortunately as a guy there's many things you can do to improve your SMV, whereas ugly chicks only have surgery as an option.
/r/askTRP24/09/19 10:17 AM
3

Some other ppl already gave great advice. I'd advise less talking in general, especially about your "relationship." Remember girls will say anything to feed their ASD and then 30 seconds forget everything they said. If you already kissed her you are already on her radar as a potential fuck. The problem seems that you've given her waaaaay too much attention on her emotional issues. That kind of attention satisfies her validation-seeking desire from you, and lessens her desire to fuck. Next time s…
/r/askTRP24/09/19 10:08 AM
3

Besides what other ppl said, one move that always works for me is ask the girl to sit in your lap before going for the kiss. For some reason girls are super comfortable sitting in guy's laps. This is a smooth move that takes away a lot of the awkwardness of the initial kiss. Usually I'd say something like lemme show you smth (an interesting video or whatever) on my computer and sit on my usual chair. They'll be standing next to you, so open up the video and after a few seconds just say hey you c…
/r/askTRP24/09/19 09:51 AM
3

you're both right... Low male SMV + high female SMV = super high flake It's the motherfucking market economy. Everyone knows what each other is worth in this market. Until you actually get a chance to talk to her you will always just be a score on her radar and if you're not the highest score then expect that shit won't go the way you want.
/r/askTRP23/09/19 10:34 PM
1

I genuinely think it's good advice for guys with low SMV and non-stellar game. Unlike you I'm not out here to prove how alpha I am. Every girl I kissed on first date ended up ghosting me and every girl I didn't kiss, I got second dates and all my f-closes, so sue me for sharing my own fucking experience. F-closes on first dates especially for hotties is a reach for most guys. Unless you have massive SMV advantages over the girl, going into the date with that mindset is just gonna mess you up.
/r/askTRP22/09/19 05:54 AM
1

Well, its based on my own experience. I think i have pretty decent SMV/frame but i still cant close on first dates. Ofc, id love to be proved wrong.
/r/askTRP22/09/19 01:14 AM
1

This
/r/askTRP21/09/19 08:25 PM
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wait who's older?
/r/askTRP21/09/19 07:46 PM
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Ur overthinking wtf. Dont get sensitive about girls not agreeing to the date and not trying to reschedule. Especially hot young girls who have 58 thirsty guys all tryna fuck, even if youre her #1 choice, she may still respond passively. Just be patient, propose another time in a week and see where it goes. Dont try to rush it or pressure her, thats a huge turnoff.
/r/askTRP21/09/19 07:21 PM
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Hey just wanted to say this feedback is excellent. I knew there was smth wrong with my thinking, for shits and giggles check out the advice i got from relationship_advice. Smashed last night. Turns out once they know your leaving they get obsessed even more.
/r/askTRP21/09/19 07:10 PM
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No. Most RPers don't even come here anymore since they're too busy pursuing their mission and plating without putting much effort into it. Ppl who post the most are former BPers who come here like myself, angry at not getting laid, slowly start learning the truth about women. There's a few stages that begins with anger and ends with acceptance.
/r/askTRP21/09/19 07:01 PM
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Agreed. Having an active sub is actually really important, something we take for granted. If no one's asking questions then no one's around to answer them, creating a cycle of deadness
/r/askTRP21/09/19 04:16 PM
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I totally see your point but to be fair... There's a ton of TRP material. Noobs come here and get overwhelmed. You can't understand everything in 1 readthrough and instantly apply all of it. Asking stupid questions here, getting feedback, realizing that "oh maybe this is the area I'm struggling in let me read that section in closer detail" is part of the process.
/r/askTRP21/09/19 04:14 PM
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I think some of the TRP advice on first dates is unrealistic for non-high SMV guys. There's a lot of survivorship bias here where guys who do score on 1st dates brag about it making it seem like everyone is, but the vast majority of guys do not score on 1st dates because girls have massive ASD for first date closes. In my experience 1st date you should not make a single move (not even kiss). That heightens the girl's comfort, increases their desire to kiss, and removes their ASD. Second date wil…
/r/askTRP21/09/19 04:04 PM
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beard looks good don't get the ear surgery too much risk
/r/askTRP20/09/19 02:52 PM
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why would you wanna miss out on the US college partying experience
/r/askTRP20/09/19 02:33 PM
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Making enemies is a good sign that youre getting somewhere. You know who doesnt have any enemies? Old ladies. Disabled ppl. Nerds who play video games at home. Stop trying to please the 5% who hate you and will always hate you and focus on the 95% who love and support you.
/r/askTRP20/09/19 01:40 PM
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One thing you should know and I'm surprised you don't is that women in the corporate office will flirt more than girls in real life because they know they have multiple layers of protection against thirsty dudes. They enjoy competing with each other to see who can make powerful and attractive guys in the office lust after them. The hot ones know that all eyes are on them and even the average ones try to add a bit extra flirt than usual so they can get some validation. IMO That's pretty much what…
/r/askTRP20/09/19 12:20 AM
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Say lets grab drinks next week. Dont text her too fast. Wait as long as she does when responding. Be cool with rescheduling. Dont try to press her into meeting on X day, youre not the only one asking her and she will ghost if you pressure her. Logistics only, save “you” for the actual date.
/r/askTRP19/09/19 10:21 PM
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Girls are always interested until YOU start acting beta. Then you either have to go on a long break or have a massive increase in SMV to get them wet again.
/r/askTRP19/09/19 08:57 PM
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Society makes violence impossible but if ever society crumbles guess whos going to be on top? The biggest guys. We are all 4 meals away from anarchy
/r/askTRP19/09/19 05:03 PM
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Good. That shows interest at least. Go for the date again. Sometimes the girls that give you the hardest time to get the date turn out to be the easiest to get into bed
/r/askTRP19/09/19 03:25 PM
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Yes you are, the rest of us love getting into LTRs with single moms. Nothing better than raising another mans kids.
/r/askTRP19/09/19 02:20 PM
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Manicurists Looks like a fake profile lmao. Who the fuck is a guy and does manicures
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/09/19 02:07 PM
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Good feedback. Yeah i messed up on that question, later she asked smth similar and i said “yeah and all the guys too” which was good enuff.
/r/askTRP19/09/19 01:09 AM
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Low interest girls typically dont wanna meet up the day of or the next day. Always give them a bit of buffer time when scheduling the day. She has 59 other dudes hitting her up so when you try to get a quick date it adds pressure on her, increasing the likelihood of ghost. Unless you have high SMV, typically all the girls you hit up will be low interest. Just be more patient next time and go for a 3-7 day in advance date. (And for the love of god dont double text unless its like 2 months later)
/r/askTRP19/09/19 12:55 AM
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Her attitude does not sound like LTR material. A decent girl should know better than to disrespect you like that, not even requiring you to challenge her. The fact that you had to challenge her in the first place is a bad sign.
/r/askTRP18/09/19 03:46 PM
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good for you on rejecting the work. Take control of your life and make the decisions that are best for you
/r/askTRP18/09/19 02:41 PM
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No dont. Dont open up. Maintain the mysterious charm. Girls always act like they want to know you better, like youre the most interesting man in the world. That is, until you start revealing shit about yourself that ruins the mystique. Dont fall for that trap. The minute they figure you out is the minute they lose interest. Truthfully they dont really want to know, and dont give a shit about who you really are. Trying to figure you out and scope you as a potential LTR is their brain’s defense ag…
/r/askTRP18/09/19 07:31 AM
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No. Don't do it, what the hell is the benefit here? Even if she listens to you & realizes you're correct, she'll hate you because she wasted the most attractive years of her life schmucking with you
/r/askTRP18/09/19 07:05 AM
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No, my ex got in the way.
/r/TheRedPill18/09/19 06:38 AM
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Long story short, my other ex got in the way and I was too beta to stop the cunt. But it's all for the best, because I"m a better man after breaking up and discovering TRP. I think if we ended up getting married eventually she would have gotten sick of my beta/niceguy shit.
/r/TheRedPill18/09/19 05:42 AM
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Agreed. NAWALT. My ex was the most feminine girl I've ever met, n-count of 1, beautiful face, slender body, genetically endowed with 0 armpit hair or asshair, hard-working, loyal, 100% submissive, always let me choose the restaurants and plan the day out. She did whatever I wanted whenever I asked for it, swallowed every single time, was always wet, would blow me for 30+ minutes at a time and paid for half the meals. And this was all while I was the most beta motherfucker on the planet. I litera…
/r/TheRedPill18/09/19 05:33 AM
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You did the right thing. Ignore the need to AMOG yourself in 100% of situations. There will always be a guy bigger and stronger than you and it's those moments where the intelligent thing to do is to back down. Any girl who's not a total piece of shit (e.g. that MMA bitch who looked down on her man after losing a fight) won't give you a hard time about it and should be wet for you after you give her a good hard fucking to remind her who wears the pants.
/r/askTRP18/09/19 04:53 AM
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get the hanger ready
/r/askTRP18/09/19 04:49 AM
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I cant either. Some here may recommend you to fuck them anyway to develop abundance, but personally i just cant have any interest in fucking someone below my standards.
/r/askTRP18/09/19 12:16 AM
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gym-work-home-close shop Good. Be SUPER grateful she does not know where you live or work.
/r/askTRP17/09/19 10:44 PM
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All the upvotes for uncle vas
/r/askTRP17/09/19 10:37 PM
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That's what they don't teach you in school. There's fucking crazy women out there. I dated one who abused me for 8 years and threatened to kill me multiple times. In the end you just have to run run run, since the law sure isn't going to help you out if you end up hurting her. I'd also recommend getting a gun and concealed carry license.
/r/askTRP17/09/19 10:27 PM
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20 years older?? holy shit. and you definitely stuck your dick in the motherload of crazy. Don't try to appease her, the longer you do the more emotionally attached she will get to you and the more likely she will hunt you down when you do decide to pull the plug. Don't worry, a crazy bitch like this will find another prey soon enough. Don't get in the way of that by trying to appease her. Block her, change your phone #, close the email accounts, etc. Meanwhile lay low for a week or two (best to…
/r/askTRP17/09/19 10:21 PM
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good answer i'd also add that loving what you do is an attractive trait to women, and a good goal to have in life. If you don't love what you do you'd better be making some sick $$$
/r/askTRP17/09/19 10:14 PM
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I think you did fine if your goal is to preserve the relationship, but if you really wanted a threesome then you should have made more effort to make it happen. I noticed threesomes usually dont happen when the girl brings it up and the guy sits back expecting his gf to just magically bring a girl over to share his cock. Everytime i read about a threesome happening its because the guy makes it happen, by 1) finding a girl that the gf likes and 2) seducing the second girl. It sure aint easy so mo…
/r/askTRP17/09/19 07:26 PM
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Nah not negative, its better than nothing but nowhere near as valuable as a 7+. Women know instinctively which one among them has the most value.
/r/askTRP17/09/19 07:04 PM
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shaved. ideally girls should not have a single piece of hair on their body besides long hair and nice eyelashes/brows.
/r/askTRP17/09/19 06:31 PM
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I didn't bother to read the whole thing but you sent an audio of yourself crying?? GG next (the hardest next possible, like diamond-tier next. forget this girl ever existed in your life)
/r/askTRP17/09/19 05:46 PM
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To me push/pull means comfort/discomfort. Comfort means you guys are on the same page, vibing out, high-fiving, giggling at each other and making each other feel awesome. Too much of this puts you into the friendzone. Discomfort means awkward silences, disagreements, saying shit that annoys her, negging her, telling her “i dont like this about girls” (while describing something about her). Girls want a guy who challenges them, but within reason, hence push/pull is the way to go.
/r/askTRP17/09/19 04:30 PM
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Either make it a date or dont text her at all, usually if a girl is replying dry that means they are bored of chatting online but open to a date (if they werent open to a date youd be getting ghosted). Get her number first so you don't have to compete with the other 100 thirsty dudes messaging her on IG
/r/askTRP17/09/19 04:12 PM
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As someone else said dont say shit like “sat is the only day im free” if its not true. It doesnt do you any favors anyway - if a hot girl said that to you youd probably cancel your saturday plans but unless youre chad thundercock/ryan gosling, dont expect the same reaction from girls. Girls in their 20s are in their prime and have a gazillion social options. Friends dinners parties clubs brunches networking reunions bdays etc etc and thats before the 67 thirsty dudes hitting them up on fb and ig…
/r/askTRP17/09/19 03:57 PM
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Autistic post
/r/askTRP17/09/19 12:31 PM
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Nope. Sorry. I cant run the risk of ever having my identity being tied to some of the shit im writing on this sub/the main one.
/r/askTRP17/09/19 12:17 PM
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Nah not providing any details. This is my throwaway alt lmao
/r/askTRP17/09/19 12:05 PM
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Didnt read all your post (nobody got time for that shit bro) but imo the reason why you treat girls different than dudes is because they ARE different. They are much more emotional, indirect, submissive, etc. You can treat them like one of the bros to a certain extent but in the end unless you wanna friendzone them, you have to treat as if they were inferior to you not equals
/r/askTRP17/09/19 11:57 AM
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Honestly it was this feeling like “holy shit i cant believe i fucked this girl” that put me in a good mood for 3 days after, plus the confidence to know that i could bag this level of pussy. Definitely a beta feeling, but still a great one nevertheless. To me her face is a 9-9.5, when she doesnt smile she has model tier looks but her smile looks pretty stupid. However her epic rack and ridiculous hip to waist ratio (all natural) boost her into the 10 category easily. I nutted in 2 minutes and ep…
/r/askTRP17/09/19 11:37 AM
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5x5 stronglifts look into that program, fuck cardio
/r/askTRP17/09/19 11:25 AM
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You're fucking 22. calm the fuck down build your smv and move to a bigger city. women flock to cities because that's where they get the best access to hypergamy
/r/askTRP17/09/19 05:15 AM
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No shit?
/r/askTRP17/09/19 12:31 AM
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If you cant out amog the amog or isolate the girl then play the long game. Fuck up the logistics by suggesting the group move to a location where an f close is unlikely or unfeasible. Help the girl shit test the AMOG as hard as you can and introduce massive ASD into the situation (maybe start talking about a slut who fucked a bunch of guys at the same location). Meanwhile hit on her friend so she doesnt lump you into the betas who want her category, then isolate her next time.
/r/askTRP17/09/19 12:09 AM
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Dragging a huge deer you killed back to your camp probably built muscle. If you were big you hunted down bigger prey and killed the competition who wanted to fuck your women. Over time women who got turned on by small weak men basically went extinct because the guys they fucked couldnt protect them or their kids.
/r/askTRP16/09/19 11:52 PM
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My totally unscientific take: back during the hunter gatherer societies, there were 2 groups of males that had the most sex and therefore the most kids.The alphas (who took as many fertile women for themselves as possible) and the criminals, who were willing to risk ostracization from the group by fucking the most fertile females (the ones coveted most by alphas). The betas (followers of the law set by alphas) got the infertile, widows or nothing. Over time more women who got turned on by crimin…
/r/askTRP16/09/19 11:40 PM
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online dating
/r/askTRP16/09/19 10:41 PM
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You're a typical nice guy... Just fyi, if a woman is super happy hanging out with you, that does not mean she wants to fuck you. If everything you do/say makes her happy or laugh, you're probably in the friendzone rather than the fuckzone. Read some TRP material. Women get turned on when the guy makes them feel a wide range of emotions. In many situations it's actually better to piss off a woman by being a selfish asshole. One simple example I lived through personally: most women expect a guy to…
/r/askTRP16/09/19 10:11 PM
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this is definitely the harsh truth.
/r/askTRP16/09/19 07:20 PM
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Sounds like you need to make some friends. And start OLD. yeah it sucks but it's pretty much your only option anyway, use it as feedback for your lifting progress.
/r/askTRP16/09/19 07:17 PM
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Word. thx
/r/askTRP16/09/19 07:16 PM
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One thing that I realized after discovering TRP is how shitty life is for women. Their SMV peaks at age 18 and then just goes downhill. By 35 their SMV is basically 0 no matter how successful their career is or how hot they were in their 20s, and so at that point if they haven't found a decent partner they'll either have to settle for a beta shit or cats for the rest of their life. Not to mention their chance of having kids is dropping like an anchor simply due to biological reasons. The clock i…
/r/TheRedPill16/09/19 07:07 PM
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and when she asks where? lol
/r/askTRP16/09/19 06:48 PM
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They are rare. I know a 10/10 girl who could easily model or lock down a rich guy and never have to work again. Instead she chose to take out student loans, go to med school and study 24/7, basically wasting away her best years (she's 26 and soon her looks will start to fade). She never complains about anything except for how exhausted she is from studying, but it's never the bitching you hear from entitled women because she knows she chose her own path. No one forced her to. I could be wrong bu…
/r/askTRP05/09/19 05:09 AM
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Fuck, I wouldn't trade 2 billion for 28 of the best years of my life.
/r/TheRedPill04/09/19 10:52 PM
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Sounds like you are super comfortable with your life and need more motivation. I think there's 2 kinds of motivation - internal and external. You clearly don't have much internal motivation. But you can force yourself into situations that create a huge amount of external motivation in you.
/r/askTRP04/09/19 03:21 PM
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HR doesn't give 2 shits about you unless you're either 1) a high value asset to the company or 2) a protected person (minority, special needs, pregnant, etc) who could sue the shit out of the company if mistreated or 3) sexual harassment if you're a girl and ONLY if the guy harassing is not an exec. And contrary to what they say, they especially hate whistleblowers. I'd tell them to drop the complaint asap, but it's probably too late. Just the fact that you'd complain about something so silly as…
/r/askTRP04/09/19 03:55 AM
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Would you say "Ima lick your pussy" to a girl you have 0 sexual interest in? Even the thought of it would repulse you.
/r/askTRP03/09/19 08:51 PM
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I think iron rule of tomassi #2 applies here. But do tell us ;)
/r/askTRP03/09/19 08:35 PM
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Dude, this post is inspirational as hell. As an asian dude ive been having trouble putting into action RP theory and started attributing my failures infield to me being asian or not tall enuff. I started thinking that all the successful posters here on TRP are just 5’10+ white dudes. Recently i just flat out gave up approaching non asian girls since i had this negative mindset. How tall are you if you dont mind me asking (sometimes ppl think theyre short but theyre really just average) Also - do…
/r/TheRedPill03/09/19 04:09 PM
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Man, internet validation can make you feel so fucking good right?
/r/askTRP26/08/19 06:04 PM
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Ty
/r/askTRP26/08/19 02:54 PM
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Are you just here to humblebrag XD but seriously, sometimes too I feel like a fraud. I'm a musician and most of the time the attention I get I feel like I dont deserve.
/r/askTRP26/08/19 07:28 AM
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Reading no more nice guy now. This is amazing. I already knew about this book and knew a lot of its principles through reading TRP. but a lot of the examples in this book solidify a ton of TRP's core concepts for me (before I knew these concepts but they were kinda just floating around my head, ready to be tossed at a moment's notice if I didn't feel like it). Thanks.
/r/askTRP26/08/19 07:11 AM
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Yeah, tbh that's something I'm struggling with recently, I'm not very smooth lmao. what would be something you'd say.
/r/askTRP26/08/19 05:36 AM
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Good advice, I think I just maybe had some shitty luck with bitches who freaking pulled away when I went for the kiss during the first date (OLDs and not even hot ones) so I started being a pussy when it came to go in for the kill. That coupled with lack of abundance, which I think is the thing that's holding me back the most right now. But things are looking up. Before TRP I was in a 10 month dry spell and finally broke it after 2 months so I know things are gonna get way better with some more …
/r/askTRP26/08/19 05:32 AM
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great to hear, mind giving us a tiny bit of details as to what you succeeded at and how exactly RP helped? XD
/r/askTRP26/08/19 05:29 AM
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Nah i understood everything. Just meant it was hard reading since it made me aware of how insecure im being
/r/askTRP26/08/19 04:50 AM
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Thanks vasiliy, yeah my game is weak af lmao but im slowly learning. Never using that line again. And agreed a lot of effort for a 6.5 but this was my first cold approach that i converted into a date so i actually wanted to make it work. Before i had plenty of OLDs, but got ghosted by anyone 7+. Definitely not making this much effort for a 6.5 ever again.
/r/askTRP26/08/19 04:49 AM
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Hmm. Was hard to read your criticism but youre right. And yeah insecurity is smth i definitely deal with And holy shit lol tbh i thought i was good at flirting but i guess not. I think it just comes from lack of abundance, not enough outcome independence. Thanks for the insight.
/r/askTRP26/08/19 04:42 AM
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Noted. Definitely going in for the kiss right away I get her to lean into me next time without saying a word. And smoothly changing the topic is something I have trouble with, but that's definitely something I will be trying next time. The issue is so far I have had 0 success with first-date f-closes. I simply lack the SMV or game or both. Only 2nd date f-closed once. So since then I just stopped going in for kisses at all on first dates, and just going for the home pull/escalation on the second…
/r/askTRP26/08/19 04:29 AM
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Honestly you can get pretty big in 3 months by doing the 5x5 lift. I learned about it back in late june and 2 months later i smashed the hottest girl i ever met and i think a lot of it was due to me looking way better than expected (we met over ig). But yeah as others said, focus on school and gym. Its hard because rn you have low smv and youre probably gonna get shut down by most girls. Honestly i think monk mode is a good idea for you. Keep reading trp but try to make friends with some girls f…
/r/askTRP25/08/19 11:34 PM
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Great analysis, wow. A year ago i would have wrote what that guy did and felt totally great after seeing the girls reply. Whats the original link? Wanna read the rest of the thread now lol
/r/TheRedPill25/08/19 11:26 PM
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long story but tldr is i was such a beta back then. in fact more like a gamma because even betas had more self-respect than i did. we got to a point where she lost all respect for me and wanted to take a 1 month break. during that 1 month i discovered how to respect myself and then realized that i could not continue to be in a relationship with someone who didn't respect me. after that month she actually still wanted to get back together but i didn't. so that was that still, she was definitely w…
/r/askTRP25/08/19 10:19 PM
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my gf was like that too, even when I was a bp beta. she would respond with short texts or just flat out not text me for days, which bothered me at the time (since I was an attention seeking twat) but then when we met up she would say things like "I missed you, just didn't want to bother you." however, weirdly she loved me with all her heart and would have done anything for me, until i showed her how much of a gigantic pussy I was.
/r/askTRP25/08/19 03:05 PM
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lifting weights is like the one thing that is going ok in my life right now lmao
/r/TheRedPill25/08/19 01:19 AM
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I think it's a solid text, but I think you need to be super clear that you want to end things with her, in your paragraph you left a big open "maybe" like, maybe in the future she can still lock you down. Idk if that's the impression you want to give her Breaking up with clingy girls is never clean. Expect a lot of insults and bitching, crying and attempts to win you back, attempts at guilting or manipulating you.
/r/askTRP24/08/19 10:22 PM
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thanks, this is good advice
/r/askTRP22/08/19 02:23 PM
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I think you just need more kino. invite her over to your place to hang out. put on a movie or tv show and then put your arm around her. She should go for that if she's comfortable with you. after a while just look at her and kiss her and escalate from there.
/r/askTRP22/08/19 06:06 AM
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Ty.
/r/askTRP21/08/19 08:17 PM
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What kind of conclusions did you reach? What makes this girl special is honestly the fact that she's exactly my type, gorgeous with a perfect body (yes, I realize this won't last) and she's from a culture where most of the girls are very conservative and submissive, making great housewife material. And the obsessiveness mostly comes from the fact that she's far above any girl I could attain with my current level of SMV.
/r/askTRP21/08/19 06:34 PM
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You learned all the minute details of walking when you were a baby, now it's second nature because you just do it so much. If you never took a piss in your life then you'd probably have no idea how to do it. I think it's a great analogy since the more you do something the more it becomes second nature.
/r/TheRedPill18/08/19 01:25 PM
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Yeah, it might seem unfair but imagine if you were an ugly chick. Then you just go through life completely miserable. Furthermore, once these girls hit the wall their life basically plummets.
/r/TheRedPill07/08/19 12:30 AM
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I think he's giving that advice only for situations like this where OP is already disliked by his friends. in that case just make it awkward since there's no point in trying anyway.
/r/askTRP02/08/19 02:42 AM
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Good post, good lesson learned. Don't sweat this small mistake and yeah next time you know what to do. Happens to me all the time, I say one thing wrong and it ends the whole connection. Bunch of ppl here will say "oh it's because you don't have enough SMV." Well shit yeah I know that lmao, but that shouldn't be the end of discussion. good field report
/r/TheRedPill02/08/19 12:18 AM
1

I think a lot of the red pill terminology is useful in the beginning for us guys who have no idea wtf we're doing and just constantly say stuff that validates women (like we've been taught to all our lives). Getting women to submit to your frame is actually pretty hard for some people to do unless they've just been a natural alpha their whole lives (and therefore had other people submitting to their frame unconsciously)
/r/TheRedPill02/08/19 12:15 AM
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I don't see how asking her what's up is a misstep? Overall good job and honestly the don't shit where you eat is great advice for like 95% of situations, but I think there are plenty of situations that don't apply.
/r/askTRP02/08/19 12:06 AM
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MOST men are disposable. The world only really needs the top 10-20% of males in order to thrive. the bottom 80% are just peons supporting the top 20%.
/r/askTRP01/08/19 08:27 PM
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I had to look up what blackpill is. Hilarious. I'm not sure why you continue to get up in the morning, if you believe blackpill philosophy.
/r/TheRedPill01/08/19 03:04 PM
1

this whole story is really sad. Not sure exactly how TRP fits but I feel like your story is a prime example of how fucking sad it is for the whole family when man of the house is a failure. The woman doesnt respect him, the kids don't respect him, and he ends up alone in a world where NOBODY gives him any respect, and worst of all he's too old to do anything about it. Even worse is if his kids grow up to be failures too. Can't even get his ungrateful family to come to his surgery without them go…
/r/TheRedPill30/07/19 06:01 PM
1

Kinda feel like i'm similar. been on plenty of dates with girls who liked me a lot but never enough to go all the way. Maybe it's just the girls i date are more conservative (all east asian) who just have massive ASDs and I'm not experienced enough to push through those. the only thing i'd say is (most) girls want commitment and guys want sex so you should just stop feeling bad since that's pretty much what the battle of the sexes is.
/r/askTRP23/07/19 09:47 PM
1

Damn what's up with all the hate on this post? It reads like a parable XD ​ I'm just wondering if there could have been a better outcome. I guess it's a win for OP since he truly values his friendship. A big fat L for his friend, however. But then again being BP is just taking L's all day, every day.
/r/TheRedPill23/07/19 09:39 PM
1

My sense of RPW is that it is a safe space for jilted, older and/or unattractive tradcon women that didn't get what they wanted from feminism and womens lib That seems perfect for this lady then since at least she'll be with other women who understand what it's like to be in her shoes. Attractive women and unattractive women lead VERY different lives.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/07/19 06:06 PM
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I assume you know more about RPW than me, since I barely have perused it and it seems like you hang out there a lot. So I'll assume you know what you talk about and let you have this one.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/07/19 05:36 PM
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Hmm, Idk much about the source, but imo if she's 29 and has never had sex, it's quite obvious that she is not attractive to men.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/07/19 05:10 PM
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Check out /r/redpillwomen. Its actually perfect for you. Its all about how you as a woman can lock down a decent guy (and not get pumped & dumped)
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/07/19 04:25 PM
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XD lmao
/r/askTRP22/07/19 02:56 AM
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I did. it's good advice. It's not exactly what you said since she's mainly visiting family here but yeah, I get what you're saying. At this point I'm just gonna take her out for drinks, kick back and treat it like any other date and forget about the whole music performance thing.
/r/askTRP22/07/19 01:57 AM
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>You haven't had sex in months, are living in a drought, are comfortable and have made that your identity Yeah dude you hit the nail on the head. I've gone on a bunch of dates but just can't seem to close. Despite me trying to give as little fucks about it as possible, I feel like girls can sense that I really WANT to break my drought and it's a huge turnoff.
/r/askTRP22/07/19 01:31 AM
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Bash me all you want, but I know it's a fabricated persona. So what? Being fake, appearing better than you really are, that's kinda what being a musician is in today's digital age. You can hate but internet musicians who have their shit together are making BANK through opportunities they would never have had before this era of technology. ​ And nah, I don't think it's detrimental to be fake. After all, "fake it till you make it," isn't that what we're supposed to do?
/r/askTRP22/07/19 01:09 AM
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baller. this is the kinda thinking i needed.
/r/askTRP21/07/19 10:15 PM
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I live in a tiny studio apt but this is a good thought and kinda along the lines of what I was thinking (organizing a small show at a studio nearby) but still feels like a lot of hassle and effort for a girl that I may not even get with. Fuck I just need to have more confidence
/r/askTRP21/07/19 10:10 PM
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wtf.......
/r/askTRP17/07/19 12:14 PM
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WTF were your goals? I regrettably visited your link and in the 2 seconds (now 15 seconds of typing this comment) I couldn't see a single goal in your bipolar rant.
/r/askTRP17/07/19 11:52 AM
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i too didn't have much respect for my father growing up and that really affected me negatively making me a shitty man. i think one way to improve is to find a male figure that you know, who you respect, and try to emulate their actions/demeanor. ​ Don't blame your parents for not being better. They're doing the best they can, heck they raised you all these years and kept you alive (that alone is a fulfillment of their duties, even if they didn't do the best job at showing you how to be a decent …
/r/askTRP15/07/19 06:21 PM
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i love all your posts/. no homo
/r/askTRP15/07/19 03:21 PM
1

it depends. assuming you're serious about this. are you posting shit videos of yourself talking into the camera "hey guys so please subscribe and like and share with your friends my totally idiotic video that doesn't appeal to anyone" or are you making badass content that ppl go crazy over? YT 2019 isn't like YT in 2006, content quality must be INSANELY high.
/r/askTRP13/07/19 02:03 PM
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she seems like an emotionally abusive cunt (judging by what she did while you guys separated). ​ Agreed with the other guy who said to start saving money and potentially move. You need to prepare for complete and total war. A bitch like this will NOT let you go easy. You are her sole source of income and she will do everything in her power to keep you. most likely she will do crazy shit, scream and cry and threaten suicide, threaten to kill you, and even try to physically attack you if you don't…
/r/askTRP13/07/19 12:20 AM
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whether his miracles happened or not, he's definitely an alpha, as all political/religious/spiritual leaders were throughout history. You have to be in order to attract a following, aint nobody gonna follow a beta.
/r/askTRP13/07/19 12:11 AM
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Thanks for this great guide. I think I read an earlier version of your guide where you recommended restarting your profile at some point because of the "noob boost" or a reset of your account's ELO, but it seems like it's not a good idea if they can detect you. ​ What would you recommend to do in my situation - I'm currently on Bumble getting not many matches (yes, i know my picture game sucks) and I'm about 50% on the way to getting a six-pack and at that point I think a shirtless pic would hel…
/r/TheRedPill12/07/19 04:04 PM
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Thanks.
/r/askTRP12/07/19 12:15 PM
1

dont knock youtube lol, so many huge musicians are on youtube nowadays - having a channel with 1m subs (and consistent views) isn't easy, and is easily one of the most valuable assets a musician can have these days. it's like having a passive income generator + exposure generator and a huge audience that will buy a shit ton of merchandise from you.
/r/askTRP24/06/19 02:58 AM
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no thx... keeping this acc anonymous :) and yeah i consider myself above average but definitely no kevin kreider and unfortunately not jacked
/r/askTRP23/06/19 08:35 PM
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awesome advice, and yeah i know asian dudes can do well
/r/askTRP23/06/19 08:34 PM
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haha, wasn't planning to go originally which is why i had the outfit but yeah i know next time
/r/askTRP23/06/19 08:33 PM
1

Good advice. thx
/r/askTRP23/06/19 04:47 PM
2

:D dope advice
/r/askTRP23/06/19 02:05 PM
1

good shit, really good advice. thank you
/r/askTRP23/06/19 01:41 PM
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Yeah, im working on that 😂 and props. Im east asian and the only other east asian guy i saw there was also rolling solo 😅
/r/askTRP23/06/19 01:08 PM
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Word. Thx
/r/askTRP23/06/19 01:06 PM
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Yeah. Youre right. My vibe was off bcuz i was kinda in the “i need to talk to as many girls as possible to get rid of my approach anxiety” mode. It wasnt ideal for sure
/r/askTRP23/06/19 01:06 PM
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Nah i agree. After reading this sub and the main one i thought night game would be easier than app game, but it was an eye opener. 😂
/r/askTRP23/06/19 01:05 PM
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I was enjoying myself but also wanted to work on my game. Thx for the advice 😁
/r/askTRP23/06/19 01:03 PM
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Yeah agreed. Ok thx for the advice. :)
/r/askTRP23/06/19 01:03 PM
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plans for next time - wear better clothes (this time i wore just a tshirt/shorts), stop smiling, just nod at girls instead of talking to them.... since my voice isn't very loud, every time i opened my mouth i feel like these bitches started thinking less of me (cuz they couldnt hear me that well)
/r/askTRP23/06/19 07:41 AM
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Fair enough.
/r/askTRP22/06/19 06:54 PM
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it's not bluepill but it isn't exactly red pill. purple pill maybe? ​ now.... if you started a porn channel, that would be pretty red pill ;)
/r/askTRP22/06/19 06:53 PM
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I think being a real man means having morals, and one of my morals happens to be not cheating if its a monogamous relationship, so sue me
/r/askTRP22/06/19 06:36 PM
3

Look at pete davidson who smashed ariana grande, dont be a bitch man
/r/askTRP22/06/19 05:17 PM
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Indeed you are rationalizing monk mode, which isn't ideal since you can't really work on your frame if you're not going out and meeting girls. If you spend next 3-6 months in full monk mode, you're STILL gonna feel the same beta feelings, lack of frame, etc, that you're feeling right now once you start meeting girls again. (albeit with a bit higher SMV). ​ But yeah do what feels right for you at the moment, just remember that the longer you keep being a bitch the more likely you'll become one
/r/askTRP22/06/19 05:12 PM
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This. just because women cheat doesn't mean we should sink to their level. ​ and at this point OP and his girl are headed for an emotional rollercoaster of a breakup once she finds out.
/r/askTRP22/06/19 02:47 PM
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Chances are she's bad for you but you miss the sex and that's why you're thinking about her nonstop. This happens all the time don't worry, Im thinking you probably don't have any active plates right now which makes it 10 times easier to develop one-itus.
/r/askTRP22/06/19 05:24 AM
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one thing you could try next time is ask her to cook for you, that would establish dominance and get her excited to do smth for you
/r/askTRP21/06/19 06:20 PM
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Fine, alpha up instead? Correct me if i'm wrong, but I thought a principal tenet of TRP is that you should NEVER be afraid to lose a woman. The underlying motivation behind cheating is that you wanna bang other chicks, but you don't want to lose your LTR, so you hide it like a bitch. by this logic then, cheating is a beta/bitch move. (yeah, women will cheat too, doesn't mean we should stoop to their level)
/r/askTRP21/06/19 12:20 AM
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Nah. Imo Cheating in a non-open, serious relationship is a bitch move. Either man up and resist the temptations or man up and tell the woman you want an open relationship.
/r/askTRP19/06/19 10:21 PM
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True.
/r/askTRP18/06/19 11:07 PM
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I really gotta hear what happens then XD just B super careful
/r/askTRP18/06/19 06:25 PM
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Sounds too good to be true. I'd give it a 95% that this is a scam. I'd love to be proven wrong though, let us know how this goes :D
/r/askTRP18/06/19 11:23 AM
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Nah, dude, don't ask her out when she's told you she has a bf, that's a bitch move and you know it.
/r/askTRP18/06/19 11:20 AM
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Why can't you cum with the condom? That's a sign that you may not be that attracted to her. ​ Regardless, no plate is worth you getting an STD or the biggest STD of all, a baby.
/r/askTRP18/06/19 10:09 AM
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Can't hurt to try but yeah at this point you should mentally next her and move on. abundance mentality always
/r/askTRP18/06/19 04:53 AM
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I think this line wasn't great: "I only have a few nights per week that I'm not busy to have fun" sounds kind of lame tbh, and kind of needy, it comes off as even though you're a busy guy, you're willing to make your schedule fit for her & sacrifice the 1 night a week you have free for her. ​ if you wanted to come across as busy just say "alrdy have plans friday, how about next wednesday?" and just don't reveal any more details ​ I don't think you got blown off but at this point it seems like a …
/r/askTRP18/06/19 04:36 AM
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The phrase "envy always tries to mask itself as contempt" seems appropriate here
/r/askTRP17/06/19 11:32 AM
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personally i wouldn't do the same but good for you man, if that's important to you then i respect that. i'd look him up on IG or some other social media channel that allows for anonymous profiles, create one of those and msg him
/r/askTRP17/06/19 10:21 AM
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Smth i realized is Ppl dont like nice guys. Everyone likes nice girls (especially hot ones). But be a nice guy and ppl just treat you like shit. Im not just talking females, even dudes will treat you like shit if youre too nice. I think the reason is being nice is see by EVERYONE as a “low SMV” kinda trait. Only ppl who will be happy to talk to nice guys have low SMVs themselves. Theres also a difference between being nice and being friendly, imo. A nice guy is someone who is going to tolerate a…
/r/askTRP17/06/19 10:05 AM
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that kind of mentality is beta af
/r/askTRP17/06/19 08:08 AM
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most likely both. and also keep in mind these women have heard it all, and they just want your money. they're in "work mode" not "have fun mode"
/r/askTRP17/06/19 08:06 AM
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the day you can't get hard fucking a girl that you wanted because you jerked it in the past 24 hours to some pixels with better tits/ass, you'll understand.
/r/askTRP17/06/19 07:11 AM
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Yeah, well, here's the thing, I always knew I didn't have passion for it, but hell it paid the bills. So I really tried. I read so many books. I took & passed these certificate tests, CFA, FRM, ppl in finance knows them. I really tried my ass off to get good at it. But i never got good enough, and meanwhile I always had this other passion on the side that I never pursued. ​ So my point is, OP reminds me of me. Because he's trying his ass off to be good at something he doesn't have passion for. B…
/r/askTRP16/06/19 03:08 AM
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The thing is she prob gave her # to a bunch of other dudes and theyre all hitting her up rn tryna fuck just like you. So yeah you clearly didnt game her enough, thats why i recommended the concert cuz itll make you stand out and chicks love music. But w/e its most likely a lost cause
/r/askTRP16/06/19 12:25 AM
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Disagree with you that no one gives a fuck about your passion. People DO care about your passion when youre young (age 13-25 or so) and they will wanna support you once you show youre willing to work your ass off. Once youre over 25, then yeah no one gives a shit if you dont have any achievements.
/r/askTRP16/06/19 12:17 AM
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Thats called a sunk cost fallacy which imo is a beta move (i know that sounds mean). I wasted 8 years of my prime life doing finance and yeah i was making 150k+/yr but was it worth it? Hell no. But yeah if you dont have a passion then stick it out bro.
/r/askTRP16/06/19 12:15 AM
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^
/r/askTRP15/06/19 09:59 PM
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fuck lol you remind me of me when i was doing my finance degree. couldn't ever muster up passion for it and ended up getting avg gpa, really hard to get a job even though it was a top-tier bschool degree. ​ dont waste another minute on something you don't care about. fuck the degree, find your passion (no one in life can tell you what your passion is. that's on you bro) and fucking go at it 100%, it's gonna be hard af in the beginning and you're going to get a lot of hate for your choices but on…
/r/askTRP15/06/19 09:54 PM
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i think she lost her interest and maybe even forgot what you look like that's why it's better to try 2 get further than just a number when you're in person. but yeah give it a few days and then invite her out to something fun like a concert
/r/askTRP15/06/19 09:48 PM
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if you don't respect yourself it's not possible for others to respect you, even if you have everything.
/r/askTRP14/06/19 08:48 AM
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