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| – | Dont stick your dick in crazy (serious)"I know we can't be in a relationship but god I wish I could have fixed her." This is your problem. You think YOU have the power to FIX someone. You DON'T. Therefore you are drowning yourself in regret. You are not responsible for another person’s life or happiness. The both of you have been through a very traumatic experience. If you can’t get over her by yourself, I would seriously suggest counseling. This woman has been in your life for a very long time. If you can’t get over her, your “bagga… | /r/seduction | 29/08/16 09:21 PM |
| – | Letting classmate know my intentionsCould you explain the current relationship between the both of you? There's little to no info. | /r/seduction | 24/08/16 10:50 PM |
| 1 | An Analysis of Myself“ I know none of this is inherently game related, but I feel like I need to like myself before I can get women to like me. “ Blue342 This is only a Bird’s Eye View Summary… All of THIS is PRECISELY game related. Liking yourself is THE MOST IMPORTANT fundamental part of game. If you can’t enjoy your OWN company, how do you expect others to enjoy your company? So, your instincts are right (as they should be). Game is about understanding YOUR HIGH WORTH as a man as an UNWAVERING CONVICTION deep wit… | /r/seduction | 24/08/16 10:10 PM |
| – | How do I give value?Giving value = Being Valuable The guy that people WANT to be around. The guy that women WANT and are EXCITED to talk to. These people VALUE YOU therefore YOU are GIVING THEM VALUE. Don't know who invented the term, but I wish people in the community would just keep it simple. PS…there are no experts here. There are only trained and untrained. Good Luck. | /r/seduction | 23/08/16 05:10 PM |
| 1 | What science has to say about whether you should be experimenting or theorisingDon't know. A lifetime of self-improvement I guess. When you improve yourself and look back at your old self, you realize that YOU are not your SKILLS. YOU are what YOU HAVE ACCEPTED your skills to be. | /r/seduction | 23/08/16 04:30 PM |
| – | What science has to say about whether you should be experimenting or theorisingSocial and Dating anxiety can stem from many things. But MOST cases are not extreme. Most cases usually involve • Low self-esteem. • The lack of understanding of social norms. • The lack of understanding of when to BREAK those social norms. “those men and women who see their dating anxiety as something that’s beyond the domain of treatment? “ This happens because these men and women have “warped” the reality of the situation. Dating and Social interactions are simply SKILLS. But to these men and… | /r/seduction | 22/08/16 05:31 PM |
| 4 | Where do you get so much energy/power?In order to give AND NOT FEEL DRAINED your cup NEEDS to be FULL or OVER-FILLED first. You need to find someway to continually FILL YOUR CUP and stay away from people who drain YOUR CUP and NEVER give anything back. Even the strongest person will lose strength dealing with an emotional vampire if they don’t RECHARGE. People with an abundance mentality are ALWAYS RECHARGING...and...stay away from things that DRAIN their abundance mentality. Good Luck. | /r/seduction | 22/08/16 04:47 PM |
| 18 | What do you think about the ''Fuck Yes or No'' attitude written by Mark Manson?This is an important aspect of what being the PRIZE means. This is one of the FIRST things you should have learned when learning seduction: self-value/ valuing yourself first above everything else. This is YOUR life. | /r/seduction | 19/08/16 03:44 PM |
| 2 | Better odds offline!I understand where you're coming from. But what happens if Tinder (or any dating site) shuts down? A lawsuit, financing issues, etc? What happens to your guy who has no game? He goes back to being frustrated? Is that progress? Game is not just offense. It's defense as well. Game teaches you how to fish ANYWHERE. And the benefits far outweigh just getting laid. Getting laid is only the beginning. | /r/seduction | 18/08/16 08:28 PM |
| – | Better odds offline!Not really. What happens to ALL the women who are not on Tinder? What happens when you are surrounded by 13's at a modeling shoot? Or you turn the corner and run into a 10 who wants to talk to YOU? Those are all opportunities wasted because of lack of game. Like I said, the lack of understanding (innergame / yourself/ your role as a man) eventually always catches up with you no matter how far you think you've come with the seduction process. | /r/seduction | 18/08/16 08:06 PM |
| 3 | Request: getting the girl that every guy is after?You answered your own question. Boys chase girls while women chase men. | /r/seduction | 18/08/16 04:41 PM |
| – | Better odds offline!You're right. Dating sites (social media) should only be an EXTENSION of your game, with one caveat: Your game needs to adapt to your circumstances. If that means your circumstances cause a NEED for dating sites, one needs to fish where the fish are. But online should never be used as a crutch. NO ONE can run from learning inner game. The lack of understanding eventually always catches up with you no matter how far you think you’ve come with the seduction process. But I wouldn't be too harsh on … | /r/seduction | 18/08/16 04:12 PM |
| – | What did I do wrong here?She was seeking attention. You gave her what she wanted. She left. You do realize that 99% of the guys she messaged gave the same equivalent response to "you're hot". What makes your response so unique that she would respond to you? She now hopes that you follow her on Instagram with the hope of one day talking to "YOUR GODDESS". This is how "hot" women build up their social media following. Simple answer: You got used because you allowed yourself to be used. Lesson: Don't get used. This may sou… | /r/seduction | 17/08/16 05:57 PM |
| – | Suffering from really inconsistent Tinder text game and need to improve it. Seeking frank feedback.Always remember this. Women are on Tinder for five (one or a combination of) reasons: To get attention To get into a relationship To hook up To get a free dinner To find a (part-time) sugar daddy Your objective is not to impress or entertain her with your wit. You WILL get thrown into potential categories 1, 2, 4,5 . Your objective is to make her FEEL good. Good enough to want to meet you and hook up. She’s not REAL until you meet her in person. You’re the PRIZE, right? So why would the PRIZE in… | /r/seduction | 17/08/16 05:34 PM |
| – | To all nice guys: Please give up facebookI have never understood the need for MEN to post their entire life on facebook. Most women are natural attention seekers who have a deep need to be in the spotlight. But many men have taken on this characteristic and wonder why women don't find them masculine/attractive. | /r/seduction | 16/08/16 04:53 PM |
| – | Women giving conflicting seduction advice?Women tell men... Only what they think THAT PARTICULAR MAN can handle sexually and emotionally (unless they're fed up and don't care) What keeps THEIR story consistent with who YOU think they are. Different types of men get access to different parts of her personality. “So is their advice more specific to their personalities or relationship goals? Or are they tailoring their feedback to me specifically and their interpretation of what women (they) perceive me as?” Both. You answered your own que… | /r/seduction | 12/08/16 10:34 PM |
| – | Epiphany in the Ikea AisleYou simply put her on a pedestal. What makes a woman you don’t know, even if you consider her a 10, more special or deserving than you?...Nothing. In that moment, just because you found her gorgeous, you threw away all of your manhood / confidence / value…because you forgot that YOU are the prize. Be the man that a 10, or a 15, would not only want to talk to, but be honored to talk to. And if you fail, who really cares? | /r/seduction | 12/08/16 03:57 PM |
| 2 | Looks and leagues...there are no women out of your league...the only women out of your league are the ones YOU put on a pedestal. The real question you should be asking yourself: How do I STOP putting women I find highly desirable on a pedestal?... | /r/seduction | 11/08/16 07:12 PM |
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