thedandrews Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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2	Some things I've learned about texting yeah, to clarify my opinion is it has to be a mix of logistics and appealing to her emotionally. only going for logistics is not doing it properly, IMO	/r/seduction	18/08/17 03:59 AM
–	Get Sexual With A Shy Girl? Just fucking kiss her. Seriously. Set up a situation where it's the two of you in private, and kiss her. As simple as that. If she likes it, keep on going. Women respect action, so grow some balls and kiss her on the lips. If she's talking sexual with you, guaranteed she has thought about it.	/r/seduction	18/08/17 03:56 AM
–	Some things I've learned about texting Great points here. I'm in agreement. While at its core texting should only be to set up the next in person meeting, it needs to be done right. If the goal is the date or next date, texting is important in the sense that you need to follow these points to get to the goal, but it's also not important because it's a simple goal to get to the next step. To me, texting is like a check mark piece in your game. You need to have it to translate numbers to dates, but can't expect it to deliver anything m…	/r/seduction	18/08/17 03:51 AM
1	Activities of an alpha man / How to form a social circle ? playing any sport recreationally (so that's like 10+) yoga social groups/networking hiking/outdoors running camping dancing toastmasters (public speaking group) so much more. there are tons of things. You need to become interested in more things. Interest drives involvement. My top recommendation is social sports.	/r/TheRedPill	13/08/17 05:53 PM
1	Activities of an alpha man / How to form a social circle ? you need more hobbies. find activities that interest you (not working out) and odds are that there are women who also enjoy them as well	/r/TheRedPill	13/08/17 05:35 PM
1	Activities of an alpha man / How to form a social circle ? do what you want to do. enjoy it. you'll meet people.	/r/TheRedPill	13/08/17 05:22 PM
1	Is cold approach a scam in 2017 make some fake female profile and comment from those profiles on your main profile . One guy from misc got massive success on facebook just by doing this. Personally i am not on fb , so i personally don't know whether it works or not. What the hell man. This is insane haha. We interact and build relationships in real life; don't accept the false pre-tense that the best way to start a relationship is an inherently temporary medium from which nothing can be gained.	/r/seduction	23/07/17 03:19 PM
–	I'm an introvert that knows nothing about girls. yup! must read before you begin. pdfs float around on the internet	/r/seduction	22/07/17 09:17 PM
–	I'm an introvert that knows nothing about girls. Actually, I consider myself to have no female friends. This is a problem, how you can be confident interacting with women on a sexual level when you can't confidently interact on a basic level? well I'm not. I mean I go out for dinner every weekend but I don't engage outside my table. I'd recommend thinking of doing more things you enjoy, in a social setting. I never thought of improving my body language tbh. Search in this sub, it's very important. Non-verbal is almost more important, some woul…	/r/seduction	22/07/17 08:53 PM
–	I'm an introvert that knows nothing about girls. and my self esteem is shit I don't care what others say, there is only one answer in your situation. Focus on developing your self-confidence. You'll never be able to confidently project the best version of yourself to a woman if you don't believe in yourself. Self-improvement is the path forward BEFORE even thinking about attracting women. Concerning your appearance: do you play sports? go to the gym? eat well? dress well? Concerning social skills: do you have lots of friends (male and female)?…	/r/seduction	22/07/17 08:35 PM
1	How do you seem indifferent to someone you really care about? Abundance mindset, my friend. If she's not into you for any reason at all, move on ASAP because there is always another beautiful woman around the corner. Source: a guy who had crippling one-itis for way too long, and has now seen the light of day and truly support abundance mindset.	/r/seduction	22/07/17 08:29 PM
1	A question about inner game and leaving an interesting life yes ^ basically, DO MORE THINGS. It sounds like you're similar to me, in that I don't enjoy "getting drunk" or anything that is associated with that really (to a certain extent, I'll turn it up a bit in a new city). Realize that with alcohol, it's a social necessity to have 1-2 drinks quite often. I don't know your line of work, but I'm in business development and half the job is forming relationships with people over coffee, drinks, or a meal. I would ask: if staying home admittedly bothers you…	/r/seduction	22/07/17 08:23 PM
1	Thoughts and request for advice on mindset what this person said ^	/r/seduction	18/07/17 04:26 AM
1	It's all a numbers game folks. In other words, this is structured qualifying. I 100% agree with you that focusing inwards and achieving personal and professional success (outside of attracting women) is the highest level of inner game, and something I can say has worked for me over the past 3 years that I've slowly but surely focused on this inner game perspective. With your post OP, you're qualifying in an escalated way, to truly only pursue situations where there can be a certain outcome. I have a bit of a broader perspecti…	/r/seduction	17/07/17 04:22 PM
11	How I got 40+ dates in 9 months (psychology) The way I see it, most guys don't actually need help with the tactical aspects of game. Humans are born to be social and everyone is capable of killing it in the game or social interactions. Instead, most guys just need the right psychology to back them up while in field. Great post. I 100% agree with this quote and it's how I think of game. Once confident and sure of oneself, learning some psychology is the next step to success. Combine confidence and knowledge of how you appear to a girl in al…	/r/seduction	10/04/17 12:57 AM
–	Cold approach question, expanding social circle? And my Tinder advice What situations do you have success cold approach?	/r/seduction	02/04/17 07:12 PM
1	Building a strong foundation on yourself according to Mark Manson. How do you make friends? become more interesting. sounds like you don't do too much. would you want to go to another country with you?	/r/seduction	02/04/17 09:43 AM
12	A post with quite a lot you should know about seduction This is excellent.	/r/seduction	02/04/17 08:50 AM
11	Boredom is why you're beta outter game	/r/seduction	02/04/17 08:32 AM
–	I'm I Being Needy or Did I Messed It Up on Snapchat? Is there rules against this sort of shitpost? OP obviously doesn't know the slightest thing about women. Now, your actual answer OP is that snapchat has no place in pickup. Your goal in any interaction is to get a number or get a meet up. If it's a number, your goal of texting is to set up a meet up as soon as possible. Game is done in person, and in person only	/r/seduction	28/03/17 04:13 AM
1	Would a guy become hot if he was to go from really skinny and scrawny to more lean and muscular? Yes	/r/seduction	28/03/17 04:07 AM
2	How much of this is really a numbers game? I feel like I'm approaching women in the wrong demographic. I would analyze your body language and tone of voice. Based on what you said, it sounds like a 'feel' thing, which really means it's a comfort thing. It doesn't matter whatsoever if you are in the marines or not, girls always want to have a good time or be in a really good conversation. Provide this, and you win trust and comfort and go from there. Focus and read up on body language and tone of voice as they relate to your goals	/r/seduction	24/03/17 06:35 AM
1	I got really high last night and this idea came into my head regarding physical attraction and confidence I really agree with your approach here! More comments to come. I'm just re-entering the game after 2 years out, so going to post tonight introducing myself to the community and asking everyone my biggest obstacle right now.	/r/seduction	20/03/17 07:49 PM
2	Awesome fucking night! Still need some advice though. Try to convince yourself that she isn't the hottest girl you've ever touched. Act the same as you would act if she was an average/above average girl to you, where you'd like to have sex with her but it's not a big deal if you don't. Being too attached or needy is a turn-off. Girls react to a sense of uncertainty and excitement, and these feelings are diminished if you're annoying her in any way. If you've already had a great night, don't do anything until at least the afternoon tomorrow, maybe w…	/r/seduction	17/03/17 06:42 AM
–	How do you approach girls who probably get hit on all the time? Be different. Most guys don't have the confidence to cold approach in a coffee shop. Be personable, once you open be a really good listener and ask interesting questions that gets her thinking. Guys assume other guys are way better than they are. If you develop a true self-confidence and don't care about getting a no, you're miles ahead of most other guys.	/r/seduction	14/03/17 11:49 PM
–	My personal growth in 1 year: Went from losing my virginity to getting an HB10 girlfriend can confirm the gym + eating more works. I am 5'9" and have been that height for probably 7-8 years (23 now). Just within the last 6 months I've been able to get my weight up to match my height and maintain it. I was 135 or 140 for a long time, now I am 165. Simply eating more (and better), and working out/getting regular exercise, has resulted in me gaining 25lbs and keeping it on. I just got out of a long term (2+ years) relationship and about to get back into the pickup game, so going to see …	/r/seduction	14/03/17 11:21 PM