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| 2 | More prostitution discussions..Escort here. Plenty of my clients are babes Right. And I've never slept with a big girl off of Tinder. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/16 02:45 PM |
| 15 | How to properly handle the "how old are you?" questionOld enough to know better. Young enough to do it anyway. | /r/seduction | 03/07/16 02:09 AM |
| 1 | A survey on sexual perspectives and experience.What is your pill? I'm pretty much in the middle. Maybe slightly more blue. Do you have casual sex on a semi-frequent basis? Yes. Daily. Have you ever had a one night stand? More times than I would care to admit. Have you ever been to a night club? Yes. Have you ever been drunk before? Surprised I am not drunk right now. Have you ever smoked weed or a different illegal drug? Yes. What is the shortest amount of time between one you have met someone and when you first slept with them? 30 minutes. … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/16 03:07 PM |
| 1 | How to pickup female McDonald's employee whilst I'm dining in?/thread | /r/seduction | 27/06/16 04:04 AM |
| 9 | CMV: Female incels have it worse than male incelsno thanks on game and whatever. Just like a male incel. Don't want to fix it. Just want to complain. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/16 03:21 AM |
| 3 | [FR] A Newbie is Born - First Night OutI want to point out that Tommy very likely had a blast even if he didn't close anyone. Outcome independence. | /r/seduction | 18/06/16 06:27 AM |
| 2 | Would you still consider a guy "nice" if he is sexually bold and assertive?You and I have clearly had different experiences. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/16 10:22 PM |
| 1 | Would you still consider a guy "nice" if he is sexually bold and assertive?then why the hell would he be talking about sex to me? Because he isn't your boyfriend yet. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/16 10:06 PM |
| -1 | How to tinderCan't normal dates happen? A normal date for me is hooking up. So yea, I'm projecting my experience on you. Sorry friend. | /r/seduction | 22/04/16 11:26 PM |
| 1 | Q4BPW: Have you read Surrendered Single or Surrendered Wife?This is where language fails us. Able to be a dom != dominate personality. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/16 08:21 PM |
| 1 | Q4BPW: Have you read Surrendered Single or Surrendered Wife?the beta-ist beta who ever beta'd, crushed under my booted heel. First, that's really cool you tried that experiment. From reading your experiment, I'd venture to say your "Gentleman" had no idea how to be dominate. Of course it would make him uncomfortable. Sounds like you like "crushing" him and he likes it too. More power to you both. He is gonna be a sad sack if you ever leave him though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/16 08:03 PM |
| 3 | Girl Pretty and Guy Pretty? Can a girl be beautiful to other girls/women and hideous to guys/men?I'd venture to say straight hair is more popular, but that's like saying guys care if you wear high heels vs. flats. We mostly don't. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/16 07:09 PM |
| 1 | How to tinderBecause I am a soft 6 at best in the looks department and I do really well. | /r/seduction | 22/04/16 07:06 PM |
| 3 | How to tindercasually meet new people I don't know what you think hooking up is, but it for sure starts with casually meeting new people. | /r/seduction | 22/04/16 07:04 PM |
| 1 | Girl Pretty and Guy Pretty? Can a girl be beautiful to other girls/women and hideous to guys/men?hypergamy is immoral. Naw. It's just inconvenient for short, weak, poor dudes. Or tall, strong, and rich men who don't want to put up with infidelity or communicable diseases. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/16 07:01 PM |
| 6 | CMV: "Don't ask fish for advice on catching fish, ask a fisherman" is a flawed analogycoercing someone into having sex with you by definition rape? Yes, but saying "I'm Bill Gates!" isn't coercion. Even slightly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/16 04:51 AM |
| 13 | CMV: "Don't ask fish for advice on catching fish, ask a fisherman" is a flawed analogyor that they do know and they are deliberately lying They are deliberately lying. Because they don't want 500 thirsty neckbeards crapping up their inbox with shit. "I'm clearly the best option!" they shout via an anonymous message on a shitty forum. Women want what every person wants. Food, sleep, and a quality fuck. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/16 04:46 AM |
| 2 | 100 Days if Seduction Day 635. | /r/seduction | 18/04/16 03:15 PM |
| 1 | 100 Days if Seduction Day 6I realized I'm on year 9. It's gotten a lot easier. | /r/seduction | 18/04/16 09:44 AM |
| 10 | CMV: TRP and TBP cannot debate each other because they have very different definitions of what is considered "successful" in the dating and sex market*you're | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/16 05:21 AM |
| 12 | Pretty much all seduction / dating / 'manosphere' advice that I've seen is completely useless for introvertsYou can't just call yourself an introvert and absolve yourself of all responsibility. That is really all there is to say. OP can be happy with the status quo of his life or actually take the time to figure out why people even bother typing words in /r/seduction and change up his life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/16 07:05 AM |
| 2 | Bluntness vs. SuavenessTotally depends on what she might say. I attempt to make everything she says a sexual innuendo. She might say "Wow, that is direct!" so I'll say "Then you'll be understanding when I ask for your phone number later." It's hard for me to give examples because I will just riff off anything. Just takes practice. If you can't think of anything to say immediately, just stand there and look pretty. Thing of a good response for what ever she said later. You might hear it again a different night and you'… | /r/seduction | 19/03/16 07:13 PM |
| 15 | Bluntness vs. SuavenessPersonally, I am exceedingly blunt. All my friends know I'm prone to start talking about my wang any minute. However, my night game pickup line is "Hi, my name is thedonkdonk." Stick out my hand for a quality handshake and ask "Having fun tonight?" If that goes okay, then I will say "I had to come over and flirt with you because I like <what ever the reason is she caught my eye>." Frequently, I will say "because I like your big booty." I have a type... Anyway, I think it works for me well becaus… | /r/seduction | 18/03/16 06:55 PM |
| 8 | Tinder and you: a brief guide to successIf you are Zyzz level physique you absolutely should. | /r/seduction | 22/02/16 12:34 AM |
| 2 | I rarely ever show interest in a girl until I know she is interested in me. This narrows down my options; any advice on showing interest/ initiating relationships?What if that pretty girl was hoping you would come up and chat with her? You should go chat with her to find out for sure. Just assume interest until you find out otherwise. | /r/seduction | 20/02/16 07:28 PM |
| 5 | If you think cold approaching girls is intimidating in the slightest, then you need to do more with your life.I have TIME to think about all the ways this could go wrong I see it as I have TIME to think about all the ways this could go right But seriously, don't stop and think. Just act on impulse. A lady catches your eye for some reason. Don't stop and think. Just go tell her that reason. "You have the best ears I've seen tonight. My name is thedonkdonk." works out okay. | /r/seduction | 09/02/16 05:55 PM |
| 5 | Here's how to start a conversation on TinderI'd say OkCupid has way more attention seeking that Tinder. Women have to actually be active on Tinder to get any kind of response. OkCupid has so much room for people to prattle on about how much they love to travel. Tinder makes people actually message back and forth to get to know each other. | /r/seduction | 22/01/16 08:48 PM |
| 3 | Scientists say there's one quality in men that women find even more attractive than good looks: selflessness.Holy shit. Actually read the study. Of course any person with any sense of morality would pick a cave troll that "decides to jump in the raging river to save the child." over even the most handsome person who "chooses not to try to help the child." | /r/seduction | 16/01/16 07:26 AM |
| 2 | Bootcamp students be likeI thought of programming bootcamps first... | /r/seduction | 07/01/16 09:26 PM |
| -2 | Any good hookup sites besides tinder and Craigslist?This site is pretty good. | /r/seduction | 08/09/15 03:22 PM |
| 9 | Taking a girl to a bar/club and ordering drinks.Last summer I established a usual. A $3.50 beer. Always left $5 for every single one. Always friendly when the bartender was slow. Never expected to get ahead of the line when it was busy. Eventually all the bartenders knew my name. First drink of the night started being free. Before I could get to the front of the bar, it was already poured. I don't remember a lot of last summer. | /r/seduction | 02/06/15 11:09 PM |
| 1 | Got a girl's number when she had a boyfriend. Whats your favorite response to "I have a boyfriend"?It's good you have a backup in case this doesn't work. | /r/seduction | 03/04/15 01:56 PM |
| 2 | Asking a new girl at work tomorrow.If you get a yes, then escalate quickly. If you get a no, then just say something like "Well, I had to try." with a big smile. | /r/seduction | 29/03/15 02:12 PM |
| 11 | Infographic: Where the Singles arehttp://jonathansoma.com/singles/ | /r/seduction | 31/01/15 02:14 AM |
| 5 | My Special Rapport Builder Weapon.Good stuff. I skip straight to "It's so hard to make friends as a grown up." Everyone over 25 knows exactly what I am talking about. Suddenly have a new friend. | /r/seduction | 29/12/14 08:09 AM |
| 10 | "OK, but I won't have sex with you" - how to respond"Oh. Okay." | /r/seduction | 02/09/13 11:09 PM |
| 0 | How the hell do I get a fuck buddyhttp://www.reddit.com/wiki/faq#wiki_how_is_a_submission.27s_score_determined.3F Please note that the vote numbers are not "real" numbers, they have been "fuzzed" to prevent spam bots etc. | /r/seduction | 25/08/13 08:31 PM |
| 6 | This subreddit has made me not trust men. Help understanding your mentality so I can feel more comfortable?When I'm going out wanting to flirt I wear red lipstick, Victorias Secret hair and when a guy I'm interested in is talking to me, I touch his arm or whatever- but all that is just natural. It's part of human nature to preen for a mate, and enact physical connection. You learned this some where. Probably when you were young. That's why it seems natural. I didn't learn how to flirt until I started reading about this topic. Just like learning math or how to play the piano, some people pick it up ea… | /r/seduction | 10/08/13 08:10 PM |
| 26 | Rookie here. When is the most "receptive" time to approach girls in a club? Also, I feel unnatrual going from canned lines to small talkConsidering you tried something you are doing better than most. | /r/seduction | 31/07/13 09:03 PM |
| 4 | [FEMALE PERSPECTIVE] Signs that a girl will be receptive to approachThe answer to that question is always "I go up to 11". | /r/seduction | 24/07/13 10:38 PM |
| 8 | [FR] HB9 friendzoned me.http://www.djbible.classicalgasemissions.com/book_of_pook.pdf was what helped me make major changes. | /r/seduction | 15/06/13 03:45 PM |
| 2 | Red Pill/Seduction knowledge implementedTry more harder. | /r/seduction | 05/04/13 12:44 AM |
| 3 | Is this video just pure luck? Or is it fake? Or scripted?If you can't believe this guy can do it, of course you can't picture your self doing it. That's why you failed. The part you are missing is the whole year where he fell on his face and got rejected a million times. Seduction is just a skill, like math or drawing, that some people have natural aptitude with and some people need a lot of practice. | /r/seduction | 20/03/13 08:58 PM |
| 2 | How I seduced a girl without intending to & If you have a crush on someone, read this!Continuing with the pedestal euphemism... You can set her on a pedestal higher than other women, but it should not be higher than the pedestal you set your self on. | /r/seduction | 06/03/13 06:50 PM |
| 2 | What is your true ultimate goal in seduction?I want someone who will remember all the adventures we had together when we get old. | /r/seduction | 26/02/13 04:59 PM |
| 2 | My life philosophies on becoming a better manI don't know about the 70% number but, physical activity by itself is not going to make and keep you thin. | /r/seduction | 25/02/13 08:27 PM |
| 1 | As a woman with a mediocre appearance, how to do I attract and seduce men who are appearance based?Be different. | /r/seduction | 18/02/13 11:39 PM |
| 1 | Mental Health, Perception of Others and Self Perception.You are way over thinking. Meaning that advice given to one person can be the wrong advice for other people. No, not really. Good advice is good advice. There is an absolute ton of junk advice out there however. Causing disparity between those who seem to be "following the rules correctly" and those who think that they are "not following the rules". Of course there is disparity. Everyone is living a different life. Pickup/Seduction in particular tends to see all women as one in the same Well, th… | /r/seduction | 15/02/13 08:57 PM |
| 3 | How to transition from making out to sex?Totally agree. I won't even bother hooking up with someone I can't trust. | /r/seduction | 08/02/13 08:41 AM |
| 2 | How to transition from making out to sex?No you are not. People are dumb. I have the birth control and communicable disease conversation as part of my escalation. If a girl answers that question then you already know you are gonna get laid. It's pretty fool proof. | /r/seduction | 08/02/13 08:23 AM |
| 3 | For the ladies: A few pointers on how to approach and talk to older, career driven men who want more than to get laid. (Inspired by post inquiring into the existence of male seduction techniques for women)Thanks for posting this. I posted over in the other thread. Amazed by how many "look good" comments their were. | /r/seduction | 08/02/13 12:38 AM |
| 3 | What is the female equivalent to seddit?Damn, there are a lot of bitter-sounding guys in this thread. Seriously. I understand the butthurt but it's not helping anything. When I realized women also some times suck at game it really opened my eyes. | /r/seduction | 08/02/13 12:32 AM |
| 3 | What is the female equivalent to seddit?http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/182hwf/for_the_ladies_a_few_pointers_on_how_to_approach/ | /r/seduction | 08/02/13 12:30 AM |
| 20 | What is the female equivalent to seddit?There is an /r/fPUA but it's pretty dead. I think most other people here will agree that the basics apply to both men and women. Women are always welcome here, but I would caution against giving highly specific advice. However, you are more than welcome to ask questions. | /r/seduction | 07/02/13 05:47 AM |
| 1 | Advice needed. Should I hire a "professional"?I need to get it out of the way so it stops being this big thing If you are in a place where you need to "Boost my self esteem" having sex is not going to do it. Sex is fun but it's not going to solve the rest of your life's problems. I tried that and it didn't work. Just go out and have fun and meet people and enjoy your self. The sex will happen. There are a ton of women our age looking for a decent guy to have some fun with. Entertain the notion that women want to have sex with you, you just … | /r/seduction | 29/11/12 09:21 AM |
| 6 | Is it fair to assume that a 'movie night' is something more if there's been sexual tension for a long while?No. It just gives me more to work with. When I get there I just go "Oh damn, I forgot my toothbrush." with a big grin. The mindset is 'I forgot we were going to bone because it's not the only thing I think about but seeing you reminded me'. | /r/seduction | 20/11/12 02:14 AM |
| 11 | Is it fair to assume that a 'movie night' is something more if there's been sexual tension for a long while?Speaking as a woman, this is probably not the right way to go about it. While I always welcome input from women in /r/seduction, I respectfully disagree. I am always a gentleman, however I go until I get any kind stop signal. It's a rare woman who will say "Yes, I like your hands on my boobs." but it's pretty easy for them to say "No, holding your hand creepy." the girl didn't want to be mean and turn him down bluntly. Women in general are notoriously hard to read. Doubly so for the /r/seduction… | /r/seduction | 20/11/12 12:15 AM |
| 86 | Is it fair to assume that a 'movie night' is something more if there's been sexual tension for a long while?This was a while ago, but I had a lady send me a text: Her: Want to watch Star Wars at my place? Me: Yes. Should I bring a tooth brush? Her: Yes. ;) If you go in assuming you won't get laid you it will become a self fulfilling prophecy. Assume sex, but don't get upset if it doesn't happen. If you don't want to spend time with a lady other than boning you are hanging out with the wrong ladies. | /r/seduction | 19/11/12 07:20 PM |
| 5 | One more thing about confidenceThis is what I do. If I can't move to meeting for coffee after three messages I stop. It works out well. | /r/seduction | 10/11/12 05:35 AM |
| 3 | One more thing about confidenceI have two kids and am divorced. Someone who makes a snap judgement about my whole life based on me having two kids is not someone I care about at all. Their opinion is not a concern to me. You will get shot down, but the person doing the shooting has no effect on your life. | /r/seduction | 10/11/12 05:33 AM |
| 5 | For newbies, here's how strip clubs can help youI'm so glad you didn't say jizz in your pants before picking up girls. | /r/seduction | 04/11/12 12:33 AM |
| 3 | 20 Ways to Be More Assertive and Get What You WantI've been considering writing up a big "seduction for women" guide but that would be like learning how to fish from a fish. I should probably just write it and let reddit decide it's fate. | /r/seduction | 26/10/12 06:47 AM |
| 1 | 22 yr. old female losing sex drive. Please help..Just to throw in my two cents, it's okay to tell your man "Hey, I think my BC is messing with my sex drive. I need you to put a little more effort into the foreplay because I like it and want more." I think it will show you are not blaming him or your self and that says you don't think he is inadequate. Also, like everyone else will say, tell your doctor. | /r/seduction | 07/10/12 09:11 PM |
| 51 | "All you ever want to do is have sex!"Exactly. If you get rejected for saying something like this, then you don't want to spend time with her anyway. There is no loss here, only a win. | /r/seduction | 03/10/12 10:08 PM |
| 1 | Halloween advice? costumes, routines, and tipsEven if you don't have a "typical" Chippendale's body you can still pull it off (pun intended). | /r/seduction | 02/10/12 09:17 PM |
| 20 | How do you initiate a booty call? Any tricks that seem to work?How ever you ask her to play video games is the same way you should ask her over to have sex. For example, this morning I called up my friend. Me: "Want to bone now or later tonight?" Her: "Now is good. I'll be over soon." That's it. If you already hook up there is no need to over think it. As for the "Anti-Slut Defense", you might say something like "Want to come over to play video games? And by video games I mean have sex." | /r/seduction | 22/09/12 09:37 PM |
| 5 | Kind of a lame way to get in state, but I'll share it because it's worked for me EVERY time.I must be doing strip clubs wrong. I don't even get an erection. | /r/seduction | 14/09/12 01:27 AM |
| 19 | [FR] HB 9.5, successes and failuresI was talking to an HB10 (I need to visit LA more) last night. I have pretty long sideburns. She asked, "Do you ever grow them out really bushy?" Me: "Of course! They used to grow all the way to my chest but it was too manly. Women would not stop asking for my number." Her: stunned look Me: "Oh, you were just about to ask for my number weren't you? Hard to blame a woman for trying. It's XXX-XXX-XXX. I better get yours so I know who is calling." | /r/seduction | 08/09/12 06:01 PM |
| 1 | Girls with boyfriendsWhen I had a GF I was never concerned with other guys trying to game her. I knew I would win. | /r/seduction | 06/09/12 06:18 PM |
| 28 | I still live with my parents, how can i get a girl to go back to hers with me?I used this maneuver once because I had an annoying room mate. Turned out "her place" was actually her parents place. | /r/seduction | 30/08/12 04:31 PM |
| 5 | Pickup lines or ice breakers for a shy guy that is in a wheelchair.Damn, that is good stuff. | /r/seduction | 24/08/12 07:47 PM |
| -1 | I'm a girl, and I think some of the PUA techniques are bad news. Hear me out.Agreed. There are at least a hand full of women who have insightful comments in this subreddit. I appreciate them all. | /r/seduction | 18/08/12 07:15 AM |
| 3 | Any tips for "after sex" game?Make that bitch some pancakes. Bitches love pancakes. Seriously, you should always have stuff to make breakfast at your place. Nothing says "good guy" as well as making breakfast. It doesn't even have to be good. You just need to try. At her place? Get up early and make your self at home in her kitchen. It shows you can be the master of your surrounding. | /r/seduction | 17/12/11 12:33 PM |
| 1 | Study says men misread womens sexual cues (xpost from r/psych)http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=D1uaw3WIOlc#t=01m36s | /r/seduction | 17/12/11 11:23 AM |
| 8 | Really nice rejection.Just say something like "Keep trying that! But with someone else." If they need more then that then you have my permission to consider them an asshat. | /r/seduction | 09/12/11 07:01 PM |
| 6 | From a chick seddit-reader: Thank you, guys. (And can any other lady-readers comment?)Most guys here are here because we want to be successful at a relationship. We all had to go to school to learn math, some of us need school for relationships. The f-close enables you to go anywhere in the future relationship. All of those "friend zone" guys were too slow to make a move. "We were friends for three years and then I made a move and she rejected me." You never hear some guy saying "Well, we had sex 12 times and then I got 'friend zoned'." However, you do have stories like "We had s… | /r/seduction | 04/12/11 08:56 PM |
| 3 | From a chick seddit-reader: Thank you, guys. (And can any other lady-readers comment?)Yeah, I'd be down to answer questions but I'm usually not even sure what I want. It is kind of sexy when he's a bit of a jerk. But a jerk on the outside, that will be strong and good to you and take care of you You don't actually want a jerk. What is happening is you have a strong will. So, when a guy actually takes the lead you have a slight cognitive dissonance between your self being in charge of you and a guy. So you mentally rebel and think "Jerk" but everyone likes a good leader so you thi… | /r/seduction | 04/12/11 08:43 PM |
| 7 | [For Newbies] Nice Guy Syndrome: What it is and why you should kill it with fire [LONG]I really want to x-post this in /r/foreveralone | /r/seduction | 24/10/11 03:43 PM |
| 7 | Best seduction advice ever - from my great grandmother."I brought my balls with me today. Better act like it." | /r/seduction | 13/10/11 05:47 AM |
| 5 | Best seduction advice ever - from my great grandmother.How do you know you really want it? Already take her out on several dates? Is she really good in bed? | /r/seduction | 13/10/11 05:45 AM |
| 3 | [FR] Got a number and a peck on the cheek from an absurdly beautiful girl.As much as I wanted to, I could not find a natural place for a new paragraph or three. | /r/seduction | 01/10/11 03:10 PM |
| 17 | [FR] Got a number and a peck on the cheek from an absurdly beautiful girl.Fix'd: I felt like the smoothest mother fucker on the planet after class, but I'm sure there are things I could have done better. Anyway, here we are in a 3D animation class, and I'm slightly buzzed cause I drink a lot, and I was pretty disheveled because I had slept the past couple nights at a FWB house, plus I had gone to a pretty wild firefit party in the woods the last night. I couldn't have smelled that good and my face was getting a little scraggily. Anyway, I just didn't give a fuck and m… | /r/seduction | 01/10/11 03:08 PM |
| 2 | Breakfast date: what does that mean?go to breakfast "cause she hasn't heard any of my stories" Wow, awesome. I use that same line often. I works well. Be careful, she might out seduce you. | /r/seduction | 23/09/11 04:58 PM |
| -2 | [FR] First ever OkCupid date, unexpectedly cute girl, f-close.If I tell a girl I thought she was interesting enough to run game on they usually find it a bit flattering. However, I usually talk to women who appreciate intelligence. It also sets up some cognitive dissonance. She thinks, "Sex on the first date. He is good. He chose me. I must be good. He could get any woman. I have to work to keep him." | /r/seduction | 16/09/11 04:48 PM |
| 3 | Differences in the way a girl perceives a guy if she calls him 'cute' vs. 'hot'? (physically)Not sure your definition of handsome is correct. I am often called handsome by random hookups at bars and the occasional LTR girlfriend. I am a long ways from hot, but I am not ugly. Think a chubby Harry Potter. However, I have good game. I think handsome is attractive qualities beyond looks. Just my personal experience. | /r/seduction | 06/09/11 12:56 PM |
| 7 | Don’t Read This…....... Unless You are Serious.So what I am reading is you don't know what kind of hair cut to get or clothes to wear and you let the world own you. I can see why you might have problems. Personally, I look good with shaggy, longish hair and a dress shit with a colourful tie and some proper fitting jeans. How do I know that? I asked a bunch of other people. Also, why not stop letting the world influence you and instead start influencing the world? | /r/seduction | 30/08/11 05:27 PM |
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