How to tinder

IANAPUA_Yet · 2016-04-22T14:45:14+00:00

Firstly, when I get a match on tinder how do I open the conversation in a way that leads to a hook up?

That question reminds me of this old joke about how to draw an owl. There are about a thousand steps between opening the conversation and hooking up, yet you talk about them as if there's a direct connection.

Any opener can lead to a hookup. Any opener can bomb. They're all gonna fall somewhere between a 1% and 99% success rate.

But to give you a couple breadcrumbs, keep it simple. Bonus points if you can make it interesting.

And if the person stops replying what should I say to rekindle the conversation

Just start from scratch with any new opener. Keep it short. Bonus points if it's interesting. It doesn't usually work, but there's no harm in trying anyways.

I just get alot of conversations then the girl literally stops messaging

The whole point of tinder is to create dates. Chat less. Ask her out sooner.

redinkinc · 2016-04-22T20:20:02+00:00

I'm not someone who thinks looks are absoultey EVERYTHING, but with social media dating, it kind of is. I've pulled girls who are away out of my looks league in real life, but never on tinder. Also, I think it did used to be a 'hookup' app, but what happens is, something becomes very popular, then too many people use it, and the girls turn it into another 'dating site' where they have all the power and the guys have to jump through hoops to impress them.

Best wait for the next 'hookup' (not dating) app to come out and get on it early like the people who filled their boots with tinder sex before it turned into another POF

Slashkid4 · 2016-04-22T15:59:08+00:00

Thanks for the tips. The idea of less talk more go is the idea I know will work :p.

reddiot666 · 2016-04-22T22:27:24+00:00

I never had any success with that app. I've been striking out 9/10 times in the past 3 years with women, after many years of success. I feel like someone sprayed sex repellant all over me and within a 2-foot radius of every woman I dehydrate her vagina, and she can only relubricate it with my wallet, or with my severed penis in her hand. I never liked THE GAME to be honest. They were always much more willing to stomp on my face with their heels than to reciprocate attraction.

PutMyDickOnYourHead · 2016-04-22T15:21:00+00:00

Literally the only step is be attractive.

I got 2000 matches (no bots since I removed them all) and some of my friends struggle to get 10.

You don't have to be a great conversationalist if you follow step one.

Klarkson1273 · 2016-04-22T13:42:44+00:00

You need to get her number sooner. She's likely getting hundreds of matches and lots of guys talking to her. You need to separate yourself from the crowd.

italk2planes · 2016-04-22T22:37:23+00:00

I met my gf on tinder. Open with something better than "hey" have a brief light conversation and make the end goal to get a date.

redwormcharlie · 2016-04-22T16:08:23+00:00

For a guy, there is only one answer and it suck to here.

Be good looking and have abs.

Anything else doesn't matter.

yokhai · 2016-04-22T14:45:27+00:00

"If I was on fire, what object do you have around you that could put me out?"

BasedWalden · 2016-04-22T20:36:11+00:00

How to tinder?

Step 1: don't.

sup3r_saiyan · 2016-04-22T20:49:58+00:00

1- Be good looking 2- Don't be ugly

That's it really. That's the world we live in and if you don't like it, then /r/MGTOW

Title	How to tinder
Author	Slashkid4
Upvotes	37
Comments	36
Date	April 22, 2016 1:12 PM UTC (10 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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