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Inner Game theironboyz/r/seduction07/10/24 05:57 AM
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Inner Game theironboyz/r/seduction18/07/24 01:37 AM
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But they swore on their life that they are natty when asked about it in their comment sections and q&a videos
/r/seduction28/05/25 02:59 PM
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In your opinion do you think the natural powerlifters champions like Russell orhii and SSJBobb (Bobb Matthews) are on peds or no?
/r/seduction28/05/25 01:33 PM
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https://www.instagram.com/p/BkLI_AtHmIV/?igsh=OTh4Mnk2aW9lOTk1 Look through his instagram and study his style. I have the same style, i look similar to this guy and similar hair style
/r/seduction13/12/24 08:59 PM
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No i just post regular selfies on my profile. I dont even show my sneakers. But heres one thing thats consistent in all my pics. I always have a fresh cut (low taper) and a fresh line up. I get my line up/shape up every week and keep it that way In my bio i post nerdy shit like "i like anime ". Basically the persona that i created in my bio is that i'm a friendly down to earth non threatening chill guy. BUT i just happened to look like a gangster lol you catch the theme yet? "Look gangster, but …
/r/seduction13/12/24 07:32 PM
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Ok honestly i cant comment on dating indian or arab chicks But i can give you advice on black girls and hispanic girls. I'm a 5'5 29 year old Chinese guy and i been with over 200 black girls/hispanic girls from dating apps Heres my advice. DO NOT try to act hood to them lol. Don't be that white boy that tries to impress them by acting hood because it will look corny and gives off "pick me" energy Instead, act the opposite of a hood dude and be friendly and nice. This is why When you act hood, be…
/r/seduction13/12/24 06:34 PM
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How in the world did you place arab girls into this category lol? I grew up in nyc and i have never met a hood arab girl. They all come from decent families Alot of Hispanic girls are hood for sure but arab girls do not fall in into the hood category Arab girls are like indian girls. They come from strict middle class religious families. Now maybe you're referring to the wanna bes that try to act like a hispanic chick lol
/r/seduction13/12/24 06:02 PM
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No i do the fucking
/r/seduction10/10/24 02:26 PM
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Im curious and wanted to try something new and she look like a normal girl
/r/seduction10/10/24 02:19 PM
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Because you never lived it doesnt mean its fake. People like you are so close minded
/r/seduction10/10/24 04:17 AM
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But i already stopped chasing. We havent talked for like 3 weeks and i havent heard back from her
/r/seduction10/10/24 02:41 AM
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Well shes trans so she can't get pregnant
/r/seduction09/10/24 09:18 PM
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Well she did mention shes going through alot mentally but i feel like thats just an excuse. And when we hung out in person she seemed normal
/r/seduction09/10/24 08:22 PM
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We were supposed to meet up the following saturday for her birthday celebration and planned to spend the night together but she ghosted me 2 days before her birthday
/r/seduction09/10/24 07:56 PM
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I didnt expect a trans girl to be like that though since they face alot of discrimination and fetishsizing. I thought she would be more appreciative and grateful that i genuinely liked her and wanted a relationship with her considering that they usually only get proposed for sex
/r/seduction09/10/24 06:24 PM
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It just doesn't make sense because she was texting me things like "i wanna make you happy and stay by your side and be your wifey" and alot of similar things like that. I mean i was reciprocating the love bombing so it seemd like we were perfect for each other What does she gain from suddenly ghosting after the love bombing?
/r/seduction09/10/24 06:12 PM
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Why do you look at it as braggin? I put that detail in there to highlight and emphasize my reason for being confused. Why do you make everything negative? Everything is not a competition or dick measuring contest. Im asking for advice because im genuinely depressed
/r/seduction09/10/24 06:01 PM
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Well in my case i was always respectful and sweet to my fwbs. Never had any arguments. Its like they just dissappear one day randomly and it always comes after like a really good sex session
/r/seduction07/10/24 03:04 PM
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But why dont you just tell him and give him closure instead of ghosting? Like a proper good bye, that way both parties are clear about it
/r/seduction07/10/24 02:53 PM
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I had the same experience. I've been wanting to get with indian women for the longest but they always ghost me meanwhile i have no issue getting latinas and black women
/r/seduction07/10/24 08:01 AM
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Yeah i just look at it like. I was trying to give yall game and you repay me by calling me a fraud so im just gonna move out the way and let y'all stay stuck as bitter virgins for being ungrateful lol
/r/seduction08/08/24 06:50 PM
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I had a few post but i deleted them because of jealous haters accusing me of lying
/r/seduction08/08/24 06:30 PM
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I agree the handsome guys that also pays for sex ruining the game
/r/seduction08/08/24 04:07 PM
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Ask anybody that dm me. I dont have shit to sell you they can vouch for that because there is no magic secret. When i said seeing the light. I meant i stopped being a pussy and put my self on the dating app and swipe right on every girl. And who ever matched with me i just try to take all of them to bed to the best of my ability. Theres nothing to sell you nor is there a secret trick But what i have done is lift weights 6 days a week and went from 140 lb to 180 lb.
/r/seduction08/08/24 04:07 PM
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You must love sex workers lol
/r/seduction08/08/24 01:06 PM
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Thanks bro, btw i never said i didnt have any serious relationships. I actually had 5 serious relationships that lasted a few months each and 2 of them lasting 1 year. I shamefully admit i cheated on all of my exes. I would see my exes once a week and go see different women on the rest of the week. But we're are all players here in this sub so i expect a judegment free zone. We're supposed to back each other up and share advice. Some might call it humble brag. I call it confirmation. I proudly a…
/r/seduction08/08/24 05:52 AM
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Yeah i've been on a insane run for the past 4 years, Skeptical people that accuse me of bragging or making shit up don't understand the crazy feeling that i'm experiencing The crazy feeling of not gettting pussy during your teen years and early 20s and then suddenly found the light at 25 years old and going on dates with 2 to 3 different women every week. Its like im finally living what i've always dreamed of in my teen years. Thats why its hard not to talk about it.
/r/seduction08/08/24 02:39 AM
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Well the older ones start asking for money after i make it clear that i want a casual relationship. It goes like this "What are you looking for?" Me - "i'm looking for someone i can be passionate with. We can start with a casual relationship and develop into a serious relationship if we develop feelings for each other" Her - " so you just want free and easy sex? Nothing in this world is free. I charge for sex"
/r/seduction08/08/24 02:32 AM
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Venezuela, colombian, dominicans, ecuador and peru. To be fair i've met sweet colombians , dominicans and ecuadorians that want a genuine relationship. But every Venezuelan and Peruvians women that i met were on some straight cut throat prostitute shit. In my experience. Mexican women are the least materalistic and most genuine and loving out of all the latinas. They are perfect wifey material Puerto rican women are also not that materialistic but they are the most promiscuous lol
/r/seduction08/08/24 02:27 AM
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Monday and thursday- Squat 14 sets of 5 reps at 80% of one rep max twice per week Tuesday and friday - Bench press 4 sets of 10 reps at 70% of one rep max twice per week Overhead press 2 sets 10 reps at 70% of one rep max Barbell rows 5 sets of 10 reps at 70 % of one rep max Wednesday and Saturday- Barbell curls 5 sets of 10 reps at 70% of one rep max Sunday - rest day
/r/seduction08/08/24 01:11 AM
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Yeah they sound delusional as hell. Sometimes i wonder. Do these hookers understand that plenty of men get laid for free all the time on dating apps or do they live in their own little bubble where they assume that the entire world pays for sex?
/r/seduction07/08/24 11:32 PM
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I dont blame them prostituting. I blame them for doing it on a dating app.
/r/seduction07/08/24 11:15 PM
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Dm me
/r/seduction07/08/24 10:41 PM
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I have the right to get mad at prositutes using dating apps. Dating apps are for dating, not for prosititution. They should take themselves to backpage or some escort site if they wanna sell pussy
/r/seduction07/08/24 10:39 PM
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Yeah i love milfs and gilfs man. Especially because they cant get pregnant. Im tired of buying plan b pills to be honest
/r/seduction07/08/24 10:05 PM
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It's usually some middle age 40-50 year old latina migrant that just arrived recently to nyc. They usually ask me what im looking for and as soon as i make it clear that im looking for something casual and not a serious relationship. They immediately hit me with the "So you just want free and easy sex? Nothing is free honey. I charge for sex" Funny enough with middle age latinas on the apps the ones that i've successfully had sex with was through the method of pretending like im looking for a se…
/r/seduction07/08/24 10:00 PM
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But like is there self esteem that high? Im not talking about porn star looking chicks Im talking about 40-50 year old latina mother/grandmothers that look like they work in a bakery shop.
/r/seduction07/08/24 09:54 PM
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Yeah or the "my phone bill is due today and i get paid on tuesday. Can you please lend me $50?" Shit like that makes me sick to my stomach
/r/seduction07/08/24 09:51 PM
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There is, i've reported quite a few of them but what does that do? They're just gonna make a new account lol It's just mind boggling because these aren't your classic "hookers" with the traditional hooker appeal. These are normal looking middle age latinas from ecuador/venezuela that just recently migrated to nyc and look like someones grandmother/mother. I just happen to have a milf fetish and hit on alot of them. It just throws me off when they try to charge me, i'm like bro im the prize in th…
/r/seduction07/08/24 09:49 PM
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I mean if they're using it to date thats fine because dating apps are for dating. But most of them are using it to sell pussy. People go on dating apps to get free sex, not buy pussy. If people wanted to buy pussy they would've went to backpage
/r/seduction07/08/24 09:39 PM
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I mightve worded it incorrectly. What i mean is the cool calm collected demeanor is me. But thats only a portion of my personality. It seems everytime i show the vulnerable and emotional side of me is when the attraction dies down. What i want is a soul mate type relationship where we can be emotional and cry together and trauma dump on each other with no judgments. Basically when shes hurting im hurting and when im hurting shes hurting type of bond. Like the type where we would take a bullet fo…
/r/seduction18/07/24 07:17 PM
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That makes sense logically but it just doesnt feel like what "love" suppose to be. Its like i know the rules and stuff but i just feel like theres a emotional void that needs to be filled when im constantly maintaining the nonchalant laid back vibe.
/r/seduction18/07/24 05:35 PM
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So theres no such thing as bulletproof love?
/r/seduction18/07/24 05:28 PM
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I dont need emotional outburst But i do want like a soul mate who i can cry with and be sensitive and vulnerable with. Basically she has my back and i have hers and we take a bullet for each other type of love
/r/seduction18/07/24 05:26 PM
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But what about those couples where they can be emotional vulnerable and act like goofy idiots together? How do they usually come about? I have no issue maintaining the cool clam and collected demeanor but it just feels a bit empty sometimes. Like theres a void that i need to fill
/r/seduction18/07/24 03:26 PM
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I think you responded to the wrong person. Hes not the OP. I am. Anyways Maybe i worded it incorrectly but i dont mean literally pretend to be something. What i mean is i cant show my emotional and sensitive side. Everytime i do, the attraction seems to fade. What i'm inquiring is how do you obtain those ride or die relationships where you can cry together and act like idiots together with no filter. Basically a no holds bar type of relationship where you dont have to be your "peak" self. Like i…
/r/seduction18/07/24 03:17 PM
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Maybe i worded it incorrectly but i dont mean literally pretend to be something. What i mean is i cant show my emotional and sensitive side. Everytime i do, the attraction seems to fade. What i'm inquiring is how do you obtain those ride or die relationships where you can cry together and act like idiots together with no filter. Basically a no holds bar type of relationship where you dont have to be your "peak" self. Like if you broke your leg and disabled for the rest of your life she still lov…
/r/seduction18/07/24 03:13 PM
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Mentioning plan b during intercourse will 100% kill the mood, i guarantee based from my real life experience
/r/seduction17/06/24 04:54 PM
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Ok thank you, this is the explanation that i was looking for So basically you're saying prior to me giving them the plan b, they thought that i dont usually do bareback with other people. And after i give it to them, they come to the realization that this is frequent occurence for me due to the fact that i already have the pill ready in the car and makes them paranoid of stds? The girl is CNA by the way, so i thought her being in the medical field. She would know the risk anyways. She was the on…
/r/seduction17/06/24 01:55 PM
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Your mindset is disgusting. Everyone that doesn't have your mindset is considered "stupid" or a "troll" I bet you think you're the smartest guy in the world. Mr know it all. Have you use common sense and thought if i knew why they get upset by a plan b pill, i wouldn't be making this post in the first place?? Wheres your common sense? Why bother making post on reddit when they only advice you will get is "you're trolling"? People like you think you're giving advice by talking in riddles. How abo…
/r/seduction17/06/24 11:29 AM
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Of course you wanna call me a troll because i'm not a potential customer for you LOL Im already "sealing the deal" on my own without buying your books
/r/seduction17/06/24 11:10 AM
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You have no life if you think i will take time out my day to troll about a plan b pill. Go touch grass instead of being a make believe coach
/r/seduction17/06/24 10:43 AM
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Hows it insult to injury? You do know the cumming inside them was consensual right? Read my description before you talk
/r/seduction17/06/24 10:39 AM
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I always give them a bottle of water You know what kills me? The fact that some of y'all think i have the time to come on reddit to troll about a plan b pill. I can't believe some of you are delusional enough to believe people had time to lie about dumb shit like that. Its obvious im here to seek real advice. Read my fucking post history. Do i sound like a troll?
/r/seduction17/06/24 10:38 AM
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Why would i risk getting them pregnant and paying child support?
/r/seduction17/06/24 10:35 AM
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Should and will is two different things. People break rules in real life all the time Dude, they literally tell me to cum inside them. You act like i did it against their will. Read my entire post in detail and then get back at me because its clear that some of you dont read the description of the post
/r/seduction17/06/24 10:35 AM
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What are you 12? You never heard of a plan b pill?
/r/seduction17/06/24 10:28 AM
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How is it rapey if the sex was consensual? We literally cuddled and took a 4 hour nap before i dropped her off
/r/seduction17/06/24 03:31 AM
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So what is the best way to handle it? I dont wanna pay child support but at the same time its a bummer when they go from lovey to cold in a split second
/r/seduction17/06/24 01:41 AM
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You're the fucking troll. Im asking real life questions and you're trying to down play the seriousness of it. What is wrong with you?
/r/seduction17/06/24 12:16 AM
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Yeah but i didn't tell them to take it in front of me. I just gave it to them as they are leaving the car. I did it smoothly like that to make it less awkward for them
/r/seduction17/06/24 12:14 AM
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We didnt talk about the pill beforehand. I just have it in the car in case i need it. But i thought its pretty obvious to take a plan b pill after i came inside them? They act like i did something wrong. Its not like i asked them to pay for the pill or something
/r/seduction17/06/24 12:11 AM
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I seriously dont get it. I came inside them with their permission and they're still fine afterwards. Its only after i give them the pill that their face changes
/r/seduction17/06/24 12:09 AM
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But i came inside them
/r/seduction17/06/24 12:06 AM
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I mean it's a plan b pill, i thought its pretty standard after a hook up?
/r/seduction17/06/24 12:04 AM
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To be honest, forget about a dime. I live in nyc, the most populated city in the u.s and throughout my 25 years of living here, i have never ever witnessed a normal guy cold approaching a women on the street. The only cold approaching i ever witnessed are the 40 year old hoodlums that stand outside the corner of a deli whistling and cat calling on every women that pass by. But an actuall full on intentional cold approach from a normal guy to a women, i have never witnessed it. Sometimes i feel l…
/r/seduction31/05/24 04:29 PM
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Good shit bro, is that your base or is that with over time? You almost making the same amount as a doctor And how many years did it take to reach 180 k?
/r/seduction20/05/24 09:37 PM
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180 k is insane bro. Are you a nurse?
/r/seduction20/05/24 07:33 PM
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Dude im not rich
/r/seduction17/05/24 09:41 PM
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I think men that freely give women money ruins it for the rest of us men that dont prefer to use money to attract a woman because they're enabling them to the habit and entitlement of women asking for money. I personally never give money, how every i've lended money plenty of times but even that makes me very uncomfortable and anxious and i always question my decision
/r/seduction17/05/24 06:38 PM
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Yo dm me bro, you wont believe what just happened
/r/seduction17/05/24 05:11 PM
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Yeah i heard the gas money one too But whats your take on it? Where do you think they learn these scams from?? Thats what im curious about. Its almost like a rehearsed script But how can these women that dont know each other at all and live in different cities have the exact same script? I facetimed them so i know they're real people and not bots
/r/seduction17/05/24 04:29 PM
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I have a question, how do these women come up with these scams? I noticed that alot of them used a scam called the baby sitter scam, which is they ask you to hang out but need $50 for the baby sitter. Obviously i never fell for this scam but i'm just wondering how do all these women use the exact same phrases and the exact same scam? Its not like they're bots either, i have their address and they have videos on social media with family and everything that dates back to like 2009 and they're all …
/r/seduction17/05/24 04:13 PM
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Alot of them are on section 8 with no jobs and some of them temporarily live in the homeless shelter and some of them are migrants that just recently arrived here from the dominican republic and rent a room
/r/seduction17/05/24 04:11 PM
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Nah i wouldnt share it for privacy reasons. Not because i care about what guys on the internet think but more so because i don't want women that i'm currently seeing or potentially will see in the future to be able to trace back to my posts and i dont want my face out on the internet like that. Just because i fuck alot of women doesn't mean the women that i'm fucking know that i'm fucking alot of women. The last thing i need is the drama attached to them finding out and them suing me if they cat…
/r/seduction05/05/24 01:44 PM
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It's because in recent years Korean-pop music has become extremely popular in the u.s amongst the female audience. They sell out stadium concerts in the u.s lol. So now alot of American woman have a new found interest in asian men and i'm just reaping the benefits off of it. You would be surprised, most of the demographic of women that i've dated are hispanic and black girls from the Hood, you would never expect them to be into k-pop but they are lol
/r/seduction04/05/24 03:11 PM
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Its called paranoia
/r/seduction04/05/24 01:48 AM
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Because i want to prepare for the worst. What if one day the dating apps stop existing? Im gonna fall into a great depression if that happens
/r/seduction03/05/24 07:31 PM
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Just force yourself to be more touchy. As long as she doesnt say no, you'll be fine. Obviously dont grab her tits lol but do things like hold her hand and her waist
/r/seduction03/05/24 03:28 AM
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Just ask them questions about their life and then after the date ask them if they wanna cuddle for a bit. That always usually leads to sex lol.
/r/seduction03/05/24 03:26 AM
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If i can summarize my style and demeanor. Its basically look like a gangster but purposely act like a nerd lol This creates a mind fuck effect where the women always think i'm "harmless" but at the same time so secure in my masculinity that i'm pretending to be a nerd if that makes sense. Every women that i ever met says i look like a asian gangster or drug dealer but are mindfucked with how i constantly say "i'm a good boy" they find it funny lol It creates the opposite effect where the more i …
/r/seduction03/05/24 02:14 AM
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My text game is pretty simple, i basically text them with alot of heart emojis, my style is "basically love bombing lovey dovey style". I don't really say anything too profound but i do add alot of heart emojis and kissy emojis to my text messages Some girls respond really well to it and think im the most romantic guy in the world and some girls think its cringey. Results vary based on the individual girl
/r/seduction03/05/24 02:10 AM
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I'm on the same boat tbh, usually i have sex on the first date and occasionally second date at the latest. If it doesnt happen by the second date, it usually never happens. I dont know why but thats just the way it is LOL
/r/seduction03/05/24 02:07 AM
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My rizz is nothing special. I just say all the things that a "simp" would say except i say it with a playful tone so the women think i'm being sarcastic. For example, one of my favorite line to say is "i'm a good boy" but because i look like a gangster they get mind fucked and be like " yeah okay you're defenitly not a good boy, you look like a player" Basically i get away with saying alot of cringey things because I have a baby face, i'm 29 but i look 21. So it doesn't come off as creepy on me …
/r/seduction02/05/24 09:44 PM
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Yeah sometimes i wonder if the dating app stopped existing i might fall into deep depression LOL
/r/seduction02/05/24 07:28 PM
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But the dating app girls always say im very flirty during our dates and they said im a smooth talker
/r/seduction02/05/24 06:17 PM
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I wanna master all aspects of the game
/r/seduction02/05/24 06:11 PM
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I lost track but i approach in supermarket, bus stop, train station, at work. Basically when ever i get a chance to I start with compliment and then ask for number
/r/seduction02/05/24 05:31 PM
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Thats true but 0 bodies from real life is just bizarre to me. I have a obese younger cousin (5'3 and 260 pounds) that have a girlfriend through the normal conventional way yet im struggling lol
/r/seduction02/05/24 05:17 PM
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I'll be honest. Alot of the time its because the girls that i've hooked up with never dated an asian before and have an interest in asian culture and some have asian fetish. Add that to the fact that im a asian that looks "hood" and i lift decently heavy weights make a unique combination lol
/r/seduction02/05/24 05:13 PM
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Its really not a brag. I only include that in there to put things into perspective so that i can get more customized advice tailor to my needs. It shows the contrast between 200+ body from dating app versus 0 from real life
/r/seduction02/05/24 05:11 PM
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The thing is i have zero followers on instagram lol. I only have one male friend that i grew up with. I cut off my entire social circle when i started my online dating journey a few years ago. All of my time pretty much goes to into work, lifting and hooking up. In real life i approach them the same way that i do on the app. I start with a generic compliment "I love your eyes,shoes,nails,hair etc" They say "thank you" then i ask for the number. I've gotten alot of numbers but they all ignore my …
/r/seduction02/05/24 05:08 PM
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thanks for the advice brother, most of them are temporary guaranteed if that makes sense meaning they're guaranteed if i consistently text them every 2 days and see them every week. if i slack off on it, they get angry and break it off with me, i only have 4 that i can consistently count on them to be there when ever i need it with no restrictions. the other ones require some maintenance. because they dont know that im seeing other girls. to be honest I'm 29 so almost 30. in an ideal world i wou…
/r/seduction29/04/24 09:44 PM
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Well i defenitely want to hit it but i dont want to quit it if that makes sense. I just wanna add them to my roster of girls that im seeing and then eventually i will try to settle down with whoever is the most trustworthy and genuine
/r/seduction29/04/24 09:16 PM
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Well i'm not sure if i did or not because i always repeat the same rehearsed generic lines to every girl. I act real lovey dovey and like a bubbly person. When they were rude i just played it off and pretended like i didnt notice it. But the warm girls that ghosted me i act the same way and text the same messages but they flake on me multiple times so we didnt even get to go on the first date. We got to know each other really well through text but when it was time to meet, they flake. They even …
/r/seduction29/04/24 09:14 PM
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But i never acted like a jerk towards the women i slept with. I use the same rehearsed lines to every women.
/r/seduction29/04/24 08:19 PM
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Thanks that makes sense. So is it better to dial back on the lovey dovey messages?
/r/seduction29/04/24 07:46 PM
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Im almost 100% sure. If i show you the screenshots. Its always her texting me first every day and shes still texting me right now as we speak. She even talks about seeing a future with me and we're already love bombing each other through text. She talks about going to my house to workout together soon in my home gym and stuff like that. But she always say stuff like "i hope you wont be dissappointed when you see me in person"
/r/seduction21/04/24 08:52 PM
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I just have this mentality of i cant allow someone to have one up on me. I wanna feel like im in control of the situation and not used as a sucker
/r/seduction18/04/24 02:13 PM
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Good stuff brother
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 07:10 PM
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It is a big deal when i have other girls that doesnt require any money outside of gas money.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 04:36 PM
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I didnt say she was ugly, she just wasnt good looking and that was our first date and only date. I left her ass in the dust after i saw her personality and plus i was just trying to fuck. Listen i dont know what world you live in but as a man we dont get to be too picky. As long as shes not hideous or 500 pounds or deformed. I would fuck
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 04:24 PM
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I love the way you break it down, it makes alot of sense. And this is coming from a guy that hates paying for dates. But because of the reality of the situation i suck it up and usually pay for the first date. But i keep a close eye on if she abuses my offer like ordering the most expensive shit on the menu or ordering extra items to take home. I've been on hundreds of dates and i notice that girls that are genuninely attracted to me will keep it moderate and order something thats not so expensi…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 12:15 PM
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I love your strategy bro! I defenitely will be adding this to my arsenal.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 12:07 PM
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what most people tend to forget is, Height and penis size is unrelated, so there are a lot of tall guys with small dicks, I'm 5'5 and 6 inches and one of my best friend is 6'3 and 4 inches. That's the main reason why height has never really bothered me or affected my confidence because for all i know that 6'2 guy standing next to me can have a micro penis.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 06:15 PM
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well here's the thing, everything you're saying is not wrong, but I personally prefer quantity over quality. Also Keep in mind, you're in a "seduction" forum. This is a forum where men come together to share tips and tricks on how to be a better player/man whore and to find the most efficient ways to pick up women and get laid as much as possible We're not here to share advice on how to settle down.
/r/seduction29/06/22 02:39 PM
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to each it's own bro, the pickier you are, the less women you will be able to smash. Being picky is good for settling down and finding the right girl but it's not optimal if you're trying to be a player and get the most body count. I personally prefer quantity over quality. And i never said being judgmental is a bad thing. I'm a very judgmental person myself, but i just understand and learned through my experience that when you're trying to score as much girls as possible, the judgmental mindset…
/r/seduction29/06/22 02:20 PM
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it's just a side effect of me masturbating 3 - 5 times a day, every day from the age of 11 to the age of 25. That really desensitized my penis and made me take forever to orgasm during sex
/r/seduction28/06/22 09:44 PM
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I'm not a super duper feminist by any means bro, I'm just a bit confused because you're on a seduction forum, This is a forum where players get together and share tips on how to become better players and get laid as much as possible and as easily as possible. we're here to master the most efficient ways to get pussy and be the best man whores that we can be. So all that righteous stuff that you talked about is the opposite of the goal of this forum and doesn't align with what we do here.
/r/seduction28/06/22 09:43 PM
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because based on observation of other peoples experiences and overall personal life experiences. The man that satisfies her the most in bed will be prioritized more than the guys with money or a emotional connection with her. If you fuck a women really good, you will be surprised at the things she will do for you and the conventional rules that she would break for you. It's a different type of power that money or status can't replace. I experience it first hand, all the girls that i have been wi…
/r/seduction28/06/22 03:30 AM
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hell yeah bro, especially nowadays, Gas money is extremely expensive. I'm not gonna waste a bunch of money on gas just to end up with nothing
/r/seduction28/06/22 03:14 AM
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to each its own, if living like that makes you happy so be it. I'm quite the opposite Me personally, I'm the type of guy who doesn't give a shit about being cheated on for non sexual reasons. I mean i would still break up with her out of principal but it wouldn't effect me emotionally in anyway. But I will get extremely offended if i get cheated on for her not being satisfied with our sex life. So this shows that I place a heavy emphasis on sex in my relationships.
/r/seduction28/06/22 03:13 AM
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To be honest, there is no secret trick to getting them to fuck on the first date. It's really as simple as just taking them on a date. And then at the end of the date you offer to take them back to your place. They will simply say yes or or they will say no. No overthinking needed. You just need to have the balls to go for the kill and not be afraid to ask. My philosophy is if you choose to ask them later rather than sooner, all you're still doing is delaying the inevitable because articles say …
/r/seduction28/06/22 03:06 AM
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i don't know what you or everyone else here consider a date to be, but in my definition a date simply means meeting up and hanging out. nothing more nothing less. going to the park is still considered a date in my book.
/r/seduction28/06/22 02:59 AM
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that's a very close minded and judgmental way of viewing women.
/r/seduction28/06/22 02:55 AM
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haters gonna hate lol
/r/seduction28/06/22 02:54 AM
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meeting at the bar for drinks is still considered a date in my book. When i said date, it means anything that requires meeting up. I'm not only referring to going to a fancy restaurant. And i do the exact same thing that you do lol
/r/seduction28/06/22 02:53 AM
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hey man 40 ppl is still alot compared to many others, you should be proud of your achievement. i do respect every women i sleep with, i never give them an attitude or pressure them. I just simply say good bye and block them and move on. I just feel like at my age, i don't have the luxury of time to wait for a girl for weeks to decide if she maybe wanna have sex with me and that's not even a guarantee.
/r/seduction27/06/22 09:44 PM
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thanks bro i appreciate it!
/r/seduction27/06/22 08:57 PM
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27, i will even break down my history for you and you will see why i am the way i am. At age 14 i had my first girlfriend. I was one of the best looking guys in my school. Then i started getting severe acne that lasted for 4 years and left me with acne scars. I went into severe depression and isolated my self from everyone, i even cut school for most of my high school years. I lost all my social skills during this time period. I didn't get any pussy between the age of 14 to my early 20s. My acne…
/r/seduction27/06/22 08:50 PM
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to each its own brother, but I'm gonna keep it real and I'm not afraid to admit. I used to be a guy that doesn't get pussy. I just found my stride in the past 2 years. So I'm gonna take full advantage and go for the kill each and every time because i have to make up for lost time. For all those years that I couldn't get pussy, I'm redeeming my self now.
/r/seduction27/06/22 08:45 PM
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i respect that, but at the same time. Some of the most fulfilling relationships that I've had was with women that gave it up on the first date. here's what you need to realize. Just because she slept with you on the first date doesn't mean she does that with every one else. and that is my point. If she makes an exception for you, that shows the level of desire she has for you. one of my favorite ex girlfriends was, i literally went to her house and watched a movie for 10 minutes, and then slept …
/r/seduction27/06/22 08:42 PM
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Listen, every girl that I smashed on the first date always tell me "they dont really fuck on the first date" but then as we keep french kissing and making out, they say "fine, I will do it just this one time" or "your such a bad boy" . That's the kind of lust and passion I need from a potential partner because that's what's gonna hold us together in the long run, through all the arguments and little disagreements during a relationship. The make up sex would fix it all.
/r/seduction27/06/22 08:33 PM
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because every now and then on occasions, there will be girl's that don't want to have sex on the first date. Even Stephen Curry doesn't make all his 3 point shot attempts. I'm just interested in seeing how my fellow playa brothers deal with it. I personally just move on.
/r/seduction27/06/22 08:28 PM
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i don't need studies to tell me that 1+1=2 lol cmon bro , we're having a discussion about getting laid and you wanna get all scientific, that's weird
/r/seduction23/06/22 10:11 PM
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you obviously didn't read the description lol
/r/seduction23/06/22 10:09 PM
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yeah but so can the third and fourth girl, and I'm pretty attractive compared to general population, not being cocky
/r/seduction22/06/22 10:34 PM
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you know whats so crazy bro? this is the type of white girls that i get rejected by on the daily https://c8.alamy.com/comp/2C5YT6E/beautiful-chubby-girl-in-30s-posing-in-studio-wearing-casual-white-t-shirt-with-crossed-handslooking-in-camerapretty-young-plus-size-woman-pose-with-2C5YT6E.jpg https://c8.alamy.com/comp/2C5YT6E/beautiful-chubby-girl-in-30s-posing-in-studio-wearing-casual-white-t-shirt-with-crossed-handslooking-in-camerapretty-young-plus-size-woman-pose-with-2C5YT6E.jpg and this is t…
/r/seduction22/06/22 10:22 PM
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ok cool but here's the thing. Everything that you just described, i already do that with all of my sexual partners. All my fuck buddies tell me that i have a great vibe and they feel extremely comfortable around me. And i do have a great connection with all of them. i always talk for hours and have many laughs with them after we finish having sex. the only thing that you disagree with me about, is the use of the word "babe" which is a pretty small issue. And i think you're missing the point of m…
/r/seduction22/06/22 10:11 PM
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I've only slept with 1 asian women. I don't even find east asian women that attractive even though I'm east asian my self. The one asian girl that i slept with was southeast asian, she's Thai, she looked sort of mexican, thick and curvy. we slept on the first date. That's what i'm attracted to. I know for a fact that asian woman in general are even more prudish than white girls because most of my asian friends only date asian girls. they tell me that its very common for asian girls to make you w…
/r/seduction22/06/22 09:41 PM
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read my edited post, and you will understand
/r/seduction22/06/22 09:26 PM
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Cool I understand what you're saying now. Basically the white girls that are into hip hop are specifically looking for black guys. And that the black girls that were already borned into hip hop culture is looking for something new. that makes sense. but my point still stands, white girls, no matter if they're hip hop, emo, goth, regular suburban, or the dumb blonde always respond negatively towards direct approaches in my experience, and by direct, i mean minimal small talk, exchange numbers, se…
/r/seduction22/06/22 09:15 PM
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The thing is, your whole premise conveys a "sex negative" sort of outlook on dating which is what i was referring to in my post about white women. If we boil it down, i was really asking why do white women have a negative out look on sex while black/hispanic women have a "sex positive" out look. the way you describe it makes it sound like you view wanting sex as this "bad" or "forbidden" thing. In reality sex is a "great" and "pleasurable" activity and an excellent way for human beings to bond. …
/r/seduction22/06/22 09:11 PM
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check your message bro bro
/r/seduction22/06/22 08:49 PM
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i think this discussion is much needed because i'm constantly experiencing it on a day to day basis.
/r/seduction22/06/22 08:40 PM
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i just might try that at this point
/r/seduction22/06/22 08:36 PM
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ohh my bad bro i thought you were talking to me, but yeah i agree with you. If anything black girls are the opposite of a gold digger. Black girls will struggle with you and provide for you and support you even if you're broke if they like you. I remember being down to my last 20 dollars in my bank account and this black girl that i was seeing blessed me with 400 dollars. They're very generous and nurturing. Now on the flipside, hispanic girls are a little different and depends on which kind of …
/r/seduction22/06/22 08:10 PM
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I don't find east asian women that attractive to be honest even though I'm east asian my self. The only one asian woman that I have been with is Southeast asian, she is Thai and looks kind of mexican, thick and curvy which is what i'm attracted to. But in general, east asian women are really prudish, even more prudish than white girls. It is very common for asian women to make you wait 2 or 3 months even in a relationship before they decide to have sex with you. That is what i heard from all my …
/r/seduction22/06/22 08:08 PM
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i'm looking for any kind of white women that i can get with, i don't really care what they're into. Also the ones that I have approached don't even seem to be into hip hop. They're regular white girls. Also about the competing thing, all the black and hispanic girls that I've been with are also into hip hop and some of them are in gangs. Yet they still chose me, so what's the difference?
/r/seduction22/06/22 08:03 PM
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yellow
/r/seduction22/06/22 01:09 PM
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dawg i dated over 200 and lost count lol. and i got 5 pregnant in the process and had them get abortions. How can i be getting finessed when they were the ones buying me gifts and paying for the dates? Black girls have been the kindest to me, they provide a motherly nurturing type of love and i can feel it on all levels.
/r/seduction22/06/22 01:05 PM
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yeah i called every women babe, but i also called every guy "bro" and they don't take offense to that.
/r/seduction22/06/22 12:56 PM
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real rap bro, i don't have the patience for it. It's either you're interested or you're not, no time for guessing.
/r/seduction22/06/22 12:38 PM
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you know whats the ironic part about your comment? Female waitresses, government workers, bus drivers, always casually refer to men as"babe" "hun" or "darling" when assisting us. So thats a double standard. if women are allowed to use it with out us feeling disrespected. we should be able to use those terms too. or else its inequality
/r/seduction22/06/22 12:37 PM
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subtlety shows that you are scared to speak your mind. If i like someone I'm not gonna beat around the bush and pretend like i don't. I'm going right at you in a respectful but direct manner, and its either you take it or leave it. That saves the both of us alot of time and as adults we don't have the luxury of time to dance around.
/r/seduction22/06/22 12:36 PM
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you know whats the ironic part about your comment? Female waitresses, government workers, bus drivers, always casually refer to men as"babe" "hun" or "darling" when assisting us. So thats a double standard. if women are allowed to use it with out us feeling disrespected. we should be able to use those terms too. or else its inequality
/r/seduction22/06/22 12:34 PM
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you know whats the ironic part about your comment? Female waitresses, government workers, bus drivers, always casually refer to men as"babe" "hun" or "darling" when assisting us. So thats a double standard. if women are allowed to use it with out us feeling disrespected. we should be able to use those terms too. or else its inequality
/r/seduction22/06/22 12:32 PM
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thank you, i feel like alot of these people live in their own bubble or just don't spend much time around asian people. As a asian yourself, you know there are different categories. There's the nerdy computer game type, The well rounded successful career type, the FOB type, the frat boy type, then on rare occasions you have the street rapper looking types
/r/seduction22/06/22 12:30 PM
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so being 5'5 didn't matter to black/hispanic girls whom are known to have the most masculine oriented culture but somehow it matters to white women? that's strange lol
/r/seduction22/06/22 12:20 PM
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Why would "baby" or "babe" be considered disrespectful? Do you know that older women casually refer to men as "baby" "babe" "honey" "Hun" all the time when I'm asking for directions, asking for help at a store/mall, or ordering food at a restaurant? We never take that as a sign of disrespect, so why would it be disrespectful if we use those same words? that's hypocritical. And for the record, most women of color don't have an issue with it, its mostly white women that get offended. And the funny…
/r/seduction22/06/22 12:16 PM
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facts bro
/r/seduction22/06/22 12:13 PM
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because i generally don't find asian women that attractive from my experience, asian women usually prefer the "take it slow and get to know you first" thing. It's very common for asian girls to make you wait 1 or 2 month before they have sex with you. I know personally, because alot of my asian friends or cousins only date asian girls, i know how it goes with them. 3) Most asian women prefer a nerdy type of look or the K-pop look. I have more of a street rapper look.
/r/seduction22/06/22 12:12 PM
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yeah bro white girls are definitely different, they be on that subliminal indirect type time
/r/seduction22/06/22 12:08 PM
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thats a lie bro, I see hot white girls with a out of shape beer gutted white guys all the time in my city
/r/seduction22/06/22 02:18 AM
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spanish girls are the freakiest in bed in my experience, puerto ricans specifically
/r/seduction22/06/22 02:08 AM
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this seems accurate
/r/seduction22/06/22 02:03 AM
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keep hating lol, i masturbated from age 10 to age 25, wtf you think happened in the past 2 years? its 2022 not 2019 smh if i really wanted to hide my post history i wouldve delete it, but people like you looking for any reason to hate
/r/seduction22/06/22 02:00 AM
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i dont have any incentive to lie to you lol, see this is the problem with reddit, when ever i come and ask for advice theres always a few people like you who has to hate on my accomplishments lol its like why do you care if another man dated 200+ women, it should inspire you, not turn you into a hater. but again believe what you want, i have no reason to go back and forth, just wanted to talk you out of that negative mindset.
/r/seduction22/06/22 01:58 AM
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im gonna head to queens and see
/r/seduction21/06/22 11:18 PM
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you're right about that, I'm short. But i didn't think they would care because black and spanish girls didn't care. but it does make sense now that i think about it. Because alot of black celebrities are short (lil wayne, big sean, gervonta davis, floyd mayweather), and a whole bunch of other rappers) so since the males that they deemed as successful and dominant are short, height never came into their equation. maybe this is the reason
/r/seduction21/06/22 11:17 PM
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i don't care if you believe me or not lol, im about to go to another date right now. all i can say to you is this, never hate on another man, congratulate them stay down and wait your turn and your time will come to. thats the principle i stuck to and its paid off. when i saw my cousins getting mad girls and i wasnt getting none, i didn't doubt them like you are doing to me right now. Instead i picked their brain and asked for advice and waited my turn diligently, now im the one getting it. so e…
/r/seduction21/06/22 11:11 PM
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that makes sense bro, so basically i just gotta make my self more nerdier to seduce some white girls lol. idk if i could do it bro, i been swagged out since the 6 grade so i would feel very uncomfortable to wear nerdy clothes.
/r/seduction21/06/22 10:40 PM
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I'm asian and dating black girl and hispanic girl is cheat mode for me lol but white girl is impossible mode, and i dont really find asian girls attractive
/r/seduction21/06/22 10:39 PM
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maybe white girls don't like me because I'm asian lol or they want me to fit the nerdy look because i look too gangsta
/r/seduction21/06/22 10:32 PM
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i love my blacks and latina women but i need to try every race out
/r/seduction21/06/22 10:31 PM
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bro I'm asian, i've been with over 200 black and hispanic women, 0 white women, and 1 asian woman. and i was praising black and hispanic women for being compatible with me. white women are being difficult for no reason
/r/seduction21/06/22 10:30 PM
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you basically agreed with my post. Basically my question is why do white women need levers and a delicate process while other races don't?
/r/seduction21/06/22 10:28 PM
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I'm asian but not the nerd type. i look similar to this guy https://www.instagram.com/patrick\_quan/
/r/seduction21/06/22 10:27 PM
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I'm asian but not the nerdy type. I look similar to this guy https://www.instagram.com/patrick\_quan/
/r/seduction21/06/22 10:23 PM
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yeah bro I've been fiending for a white girl
/r/seduction21/06/22 10:21 PM
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more than 200, i stopped counting after 200.
/r/seduction21/06/22 10:20 PM
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i'm from new york city, the most diverse city in the world, yet I've never been able to get a white girl. but black girls and hispanic girls have been good to me.
/r/seduction21/06/22 10:19 PM
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lucky you bro, i need me a white girl. I'm in nyc.
/r/seduction21/06/22 10:18 PM
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asian but not the nerdy kind that they show on tv. i look similar to this guy https://www.instagram.com/patrick\_quan/
/r/seduction21/06/22 10:17 PM
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it doesn't affect my behavior because i do the exact same thing with every women. lets just say once upon a time, through years of trial and error, i finally struck gold and found a specific formula that worked, so i adhere to the saying "if it ain't broke, dont fix it". therefore after my first successful date, i just repeated the exact same formula that i used from that date towards every women that i approached, and the success rate has been extremely high with black and hispanic women. But t…
/r/seduction21/06/22 10:00 PM
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thank you, this was the answer that i needed
/r/seduction21/06/22 09:56 PM
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my results tend to disagree with your opinion. If white women are easier, i should've been able to date alot of white women. and what ever self awareness that i lack, i still had enough self awareness to consistently get dates and reach the finish line with hundreds of black and latina women. So there has to be something different about white women.
/r/seduction21/06/22 09:48 PM
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thank you, that was the explanation i needed and it is exactly what I'm experiencing with white women. I honestly don't know if i ever will get to experience dating a white girl because I don't have the patience or attention span to do the "courting dance" with them, especially not when i have the option to get faster results with black and hispanic women. But i do want to experience dating a white girl at least once in my lifetime.
/r/seduction21/06/22 09:46 PM
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hmm that's strange, because in my experience the black women that i've dated always gave me money and buy me gifts occasionally and offers to pay for the dates and hotel rooms. They provide a motherly type of love which is why i love them.
/r/seduction21/06/22 09:44 PM
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i disagree, I use the exact same approach, same tonage, same text messages, same body language for every women that i approach. Basically I use the exact same lines with every women and those lines don't work with white women at all. i don't show any nervousness because when you approached thousands of women, you already lose that fear. I'm just keeping it real.
/r/seduction21/06/22 09:39 PM
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this makes sense
/r/seduction21/06/22 09:36 PM
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i think the flirtatious dance thing is part of the reason, I'm used to being direct in my approaches. I'm very respectful but i do get to the point pretty quickly and that in my experience has never ever worked with white women. But the results have been incredible with black and hispanic women.
/r/seduction21/06/22 09:35 PM
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i agree
/r/seduction21/06/22 09:34 PM
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i see what you're saying but i think my statement is pretty accurate in general. I approach women everyday when I'm out and about, not once in a while like most people. I mean literally everyday and everywhere i go, whether if its a restaurant bus stop, gas station, cash register, supermarket etc. Based on my large sample size, my results are always the same for white girls, where as for black and hispanic girls respond positively most of the time.
/r/seduction21/06/22 09:33 PM
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i don't think its racist. I think we should just tell it like it is based on our real life experiences instead of sugar coating it. thats the only way we can truly improve our game.
/r/seduction21/06/22 07:08 PM
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i have no reason to lie bro, I have zero interest in impressing other men lol I only like to impress people that i'm sexually attracted to which is women. sure i'll record it next time, message me bro, lets keep in touch
/r/seduction20/05/22 09:17 PM
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you'd be surprised, a lot of times the pretty girls respond better than the chubby butter face girls, i got rejected by a lot of butter faces before. let me guess you're from philly
/r/seduction20/05/22 09:06 AM
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bro they stare at me, flick their hair, and lick their lips. is that not enough signals? lol
/r/seduction20/05/22 08:53 AM
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makes sense, i guess thats where guys and girls differ, For girls, like you said, its about being in the right emotional space. Me personally as a guy, i don't care what I'm doing, if a girl came up to me to hit on me i would be happy as shit. Also I noticed that women do not like to be fetishized. For me personally, most of my success from online dating is attributed to many women having a new found fetish for asian men due to the rise in popularity of k-pop and korean tv shows. I know I'm bein…
/r/seduction19/05/22 05:30 PM
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to be honest i don't have the time and patience for all that, especially not when i can hit up one of my fwbs at any given moment. i'm just puzzled from how i get rejected by some below average looking chubby girls at the super market that dont look anywhere as good as my fwbs.
/r/seduction19/05/22 04:14 PM
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thanks!
/r/seduction19/05/22 03:01 PM
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listen bro, even the whales in real life reject me, im not even joking
/r/seduction19/05/22 02:44 PM
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im gonna message you
/r/seduction19/05/22 02:39 PM
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no doubt my brother
/r/seduction19/05/22 02:38 PM
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i get what you're saying but heres the thing, the women that i approach a real life looks worse than the women that i get from online dating. So that doesn't add up
/r/seduction19/05/22 02:38 PM
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to be honest that's what i do with my online dates during the actual date also. anyways i messaged you my online template
/r/seduction19/05/22 02:33 PM
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i wouldn't call them low quality women, many of them have great jobs and make 60,000 to 70,000 a year. And they have sexy bodies. actually alot of my friends with benefits from online dating look better than the women that i approach in supermakets. Slim waist, fat ass.
/r/seduction19/05/22 02:29 PM
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lets trade formulas, give me your bar formular and I'll give you my online template brother
/r/seduction19/05/22 02:23 PM
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i have a "prepare for the worst" sort of mentality. I like preparing for "zombie apocolypse that would never happen but just in case. So i like prepare incase they ban dating apps one day. I need to learn how to get laid from real life approaches as a back up plan, i like to sharpen my skills.
/r/seduction19/05/22 02:22 PM
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sure check your message
/r/seduction19/05/22 02:16 PM
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that makes sense, and congrats on the 3 digit mile stone my brother! yeah man the numbers that i get from real life approaches, they seem like the "take it slow" type of girls, i just dont have the patience for that. I'm so used to sex on the first date because of dating apps. But i just wanna sharpen my skills for real life approach too. I wanna master every element of picking up women.
/r/seduction19/05/22 02:15 PM
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i get 5 to 10 matches per day. I slept with over 200 women from dating apps, all black and hispanic
/r/seduction19/05/22 02:05 PM
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i think it's mainly my looks. I don't look like a super model or anything. I'm 5'5 and asian with a decent face. I guess I have features that black girls and hispanic girls tend to be attracted to, I have full lips and i dress like a gangster. side note - i have not been able to attract white women and only have been with 1 asian woman. But I attract black and spanish women like honey attracts bees. i look pretty similar to this guy and i somewhat copied his style https://youtu.be/zwpLCObAGKs
/r/seduction19/05/22 02:01 PM
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sure, here's the template that I use me - "hey you seem like a good vibe, I would love to take you on a date" girl - "thanks" or "sure why not?" me- " what's your schedule for this week?" girl - " I'm free on thursday" me- "down to get some sushi on thursday?" girl - "sure" me- "lets meet at 12 pm at "insert location" that's how all my interactions go.
/r/seduction19/05/22 01:37 PM
5

my setting options are really limited because i don't have any hobbies other than lifting weights and playing basketball and i already have high quality powerlifting equipment in my basement, so there's no reason for me to sign up for a gym membership.
/r/seduction19/05/22 12:03 PM
3

fair enough, thanks for the breakdown. I guess I will keep trying
/r/seduction19/05/22 11:56 AM
12

would it be weird if I go to the bar and only drink water there? the reason I don't do bars is because i don't drink alcohol
/r/seduction19/05/22 11:54 AM
11

that's a harsh reality, so based on what you just said. how do most men in real life get their girlfriends or hook ups? I'm pretty sure most people aren't on dating apps.
/r/seduction19/05/22 11:33 AM
2

I think the issue is, you're probably trying to have a full blown conversation on the dating app. I used to do that and had terrible results. One day I just had an epiphany and kept my messages direct and straight to the point, and suddenly i started to get laid at a rate that's beyond my wildest dreams
/r/seduction19/05/22 11:24 AM
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That's true, a lot of times when i got rejected, they would say "they have a boyfriend". I thought they were just using that as a excuse. If it wasn't for dating apps, i would still be a virgin right now
/r/seduction19/05/22 11:17 AM
41

It might sound shocking but honestly it's just "be direct and don't use pick up lines". My issue is, this directness doesn't seem to work with real life approaches.
/r/seduction19/05/22 11:09 AM
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Yeah I definitely suck at getting laid from real life approaches and it mind boggles me. The thing is, the messages that I send are not even fancy at all. They're brief and straight to the point.
/r/seduction19/05/22 11:04 AM
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