Love bombers that suddenly ghost you

Junior-Sport7376 · 2024-10-09T18:04:06+00:00

The other guy keeps going back

Kidcouger · 2024-10-09T18:21:16+00:00

Girls are players too, Some girls just want a hookup or like the other commentor said she's just using you as a backup

Ballislife1313 · 2024-10-09T19:00:45+00:00

100$ says you're her side piece. She's got an on/off relationship you're yet to discover.

ManaDeus · 2024-10-09T18:57:07+00:00

“She even swallowed my cum”, not great sign on a first date with a ghosting love bomber

carlos11111111112 · 2024-10-09T19:18:29+00:00

I’ve had women use me for sex or attention as well. They say yea they’ll see me again and just block me.

Nikehedonist · 2024-10-09T21:44:52+00:00

she even swallowed my cum. It was the most passionate sex ever, we tounge kissed like there was no tomorrow and spat in each others mouth and more.

No kink shaming, but order of operations matter here.

Amaran345 · 2024-10-09T20:42:35+00:00

Fearful-Avoidant attachment style, they create cycles of lovebombing - ghosting. This can look very confusing to guys that are not aware of how these women operate, their constant switching between anxious and avoidant modes.

This contrasts with secure where the love that she gives is less intense but way more stable, with no ghosting

5thquad · 2024-10-09T20:54:55+00:00

She probably had some other guy ghost her and hit you for the rebound, till the guy came back. But hey you got something out of it so it's a win from you. You don't want such unstable chicks for anything more than a good time.

universalvoid87 · 2024-10-10T09:17:28+00:00

Wtf man why are u going with a trans

girth_worm_jim · 2024-10-09T19:58:17+00:00

Move on. I'm not ladies man, but I'm pretty good at judging others' hopeless situations (probably from experience 😅). You had fun, keep looking for fun, if she hits you up, pough, but keep it casual, don't let yourself get hurt.

Solid-Experience3607 · 2024-10-09T21:00:18+00:00

Is it sensible to have sex with these chicks straight away or people in the Western culture get regularly tested for STDs ? Cuz contraceptives only prevent you to a certain extent, and all that protection goes out of the window as soon as you put your mouths over each others' genitals !

IAMNUMBERBLACK · 2024-10-09T20:37:42+00:00

If its a trans woman, it’s likely she still has a bit of a somewhat male mindset where she can compartmentalize u as a plate and spin others

lolbasic · 2024-10-09T21:11:04+00:00

She has a boyfriend/husband

TerminatorReborn · 2024-10-09T19:51:22+00:00

Maybe because you didn't follow up with another date?

Ruin369 · 2024-10-09T19:54:51+00:00

You were the 2nd guy

Thecenteredpath · 2024-10-09T21:33:46+00:00

Avoidant personality plus other options, it’s a really specific personality trait.

knavishly_vibrant38 · 2024-10-09T22:23:29+00:00

In the car? After eating pizza? Just how comfortable with feces are you?

No-Preference8767 · 2024-10-09T22:42:12+00:00

You got played bruh. she clearly just wanted some dick

Now you know from first hand experience why people use love bombing and ghosting in tandem. The love bombing make the person feel wanted and the ghosting leaves them yearning for that attention. You can love bomb and ghost ALOT of times before someone catches on. And by that point you probably already had sex a few times.

If you're petty you can just do it to someone else to let it out of your system. If you want to be noble, you can refuse to reward that behavior and not have sex with people who are that inconsiderate of your emotions.

brothers1799 · 2024-10-10T05:06:28+00:00

Broken people do broken things; she ghosted you once she will do it again, if she contacts you fuck her again just know it’s only fucking and expect her to do it again. Her actions speak louder than her words. If your okay with it do it just don’t invest in a woman who abandons you twice

only_says_u_wot_m8 · 2024-10-09T20:20:41+00:00

Mental issues maybe? Sometimes trans can be abit all over the place

UnidentifiedTomato · 2024-10-09T20:23:50+00:00

I had a girl with pequenia stamped on her ass that tried to play this w me. If I slowed down a bit I could've just hit n quit but I stayed around for a few weeks

ChrisKamanUrMouth · 2024-10-09T22:46:28+00:00

See it for what it is, a hookup. Don’t develop feelings and always wear protection when you meet this person. Stay safe

IGetBoredSometimes23 · 2024-10-10T04:33:28+00:00

Truth is you won't know unless you ask them. They could be seeing someone else, they could just be using you for sex, or they could have a million different other reasons.

Just know that the problem isn't you. It's her. Move on and if you're worried about catching feelings I'd suggest staying away from her forever.

Long-Review-1861 · 2024-10-10T06:05:10+00:00

Toxic women are attracted to everybody. You definitely weren't the only guy she acted like this with. Might need to get yourself tested bro, women like this are a dime a dozen nowadays

Long-Double · 2024-10-10T10:24:11+00:00

It's weird how people like that keep up with this behavior. I mean she is obviously addicted to this. I kinda feel sorry for her not being able to be emotionally stable and live a normal life. It's like masking depression and emptiness with weekly love stories.

Grim-vs-World · 2024-10-11T01:25:20+00:00

This is a sub for seducing real women.. go ask this sht on a trans sub.

Practical-Macaroon38 · 2024-10-13T23:32:26+00:00

The ghosting makes sense because she did it once before & you tolerated it. She also flaked 4 times before. Nothing should be a shock here.

Just because you guys fucked doesn’t mean that she learned her lesson from ghosting you. She knows that you forgave her before & so she did it again because she assumes you’ll forgive her again.

There’s a very good chance that she just kept you around as an option until another guy that she was more into started giving her more attention. When he stopped, she came back to you. After sex, the other guy probably hit her up again or she lost attraction to you.

Either way. I’d either permanently block her & remove that toxicity from your life or continue this on-off trend of fucking her & then her hitting you up again after a few weeks/months. If you care for her in any way more than just sex then don’t do this. But if you’re indifferent then who cares, just wear a condom because youre likely messing with crazy.

Also it kinda sounds like you might be dealing with a borderline here if there’s an endless cycle of love bombing followed by ghosting. Caution.

ManaDeus · 2024-10-09T18:57:53+00:00

This same post was made by other guy a few days back I guess that’s her method

Viktor2500 · 2024-10-09T17:59:24+00:00

She ghosted you two times to do the exact same thing with some other dude and you brag how you made the most passionate sex ever and spat in each other's mouths 🤣🤣🤡

punktfan1 · 2024-10-09T19:43:17+00:00

This should help out, gets me out of ruts.

https://youtu.be/BT9h5ifR1tY?si=hEc3gNFxQ2s3yicc

casey-primozic · 2024-10-10T04:14:35+00:00

spat in each others mouth and more.

Sometimes I feel like a bunch of posts on here made up stuff by trolls.

Title	Love bombers that suddenly ghost you
Author	theironboyz
Upvotes	30
Comments	64
Date	October 9, 2024 5:45 PM UTC (1 year ago)
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