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I agree but you can have game and still get dumped. Me and my pals slay now we are single.
/r/Divorce_Men20/10/25 11:20 AM
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I agree it’s valuable but not that she will stay for that alone. You can be a cool guy with game and she will still leave/cheat/under appreciate
/r/Divorce_Men20/10/25 08:02 AM
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That’s not true
/r/Divorce_Men19/10/25 11:08 PM
0

I get it. What would you like to call it?
/r/Divorce_Men21/09/25 08:44 PM
2

I’m doing fine, most people never had game to start with
/r/Divorce_Men21/09/25 07:37 PM
6

I’m much like the OP, keep fit and work on my game, not bothered about love, happy to keep it casual for now
/r/Divorce_Men12/08/25 07:26 PM
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I’m 47 with a 7yo and I’m slaying
/r/Divorce_Men12/08/25 07:01 PM
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Lol you guys trying to reinvent r/passportbros
/r/Divorce_Men06/12/24 12:24 AM
1

I did this before and then got in a nine year relationship. I don’t regret those past experiences
/r/seduction18/11/24 03:16 PM
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Best pussy I get is sober pussy. Best sex I’ve had is sober sex
/r/seduction18/11/24 10:36 AM
2

Even more insidious you often get Facebook friends suggestions for them if you sync contacts and you get to see more of their reality
/r/seduction18/11/24 10:32 AM
2

I’m on a break between jobs and doing it regularly
/r/seduction17/11/24 11:51 PM
1

Oh for sure I just mean I’m happy to have a bunch of near misses that start wondering what if / get fomo. Come to think of it I should get them onto Instagram and start posting cool shit. But of course I’m still running game on loads of other girls
/r/seduction11/11/24 08:14 PM
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Yeah that tracks, I'll try to leave a bit more tension there in future, rather than being too cuck, but I don't really care if she goes off fucks someone and then comes back to me
/r/seduction11/11/24 07:36 PM
2

I agree, that is the paradox of building attraction, but you still need to stay fit, be a man you’re proud of etc
/r/Divorce_Men11/11/24 09:04 AM
2

Same here. It’s just more honest
/r/seduction11/11/24 12:10 AM
0

Amen brother
/r/seduction11/11/24 12:08 AM
2

I remember her saying all kinds of shit and then I just said “it’s because you don’t find me attractive any more isn’t it?” And she looked massively relieved and said “yes”. All the other shit was her trying to avoid telling me it. She doesn’t know what attraction is or how to fix it. Work on attraction and you may keep her around, ignore her commentary
/r/Divorce_Men10/11/24 06:25 PM
1

Change hostel. Flirt elsewhere. Just go for it.
/r/seduction09/11/24 10:28 PM
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I’m 46 and smashing it online with 22-48 yo women so I agree it’s not over at 45 but prime time is 30s if you have game
/r/seduction09/11/24 09:19 PM
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I’m interested in that data if you have it
/r/seduction09/11/24 09:18 PM
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Exactly girls say they want fun and not boring, they mean they want brave and real, emotional not logical. It’s hard to be brave when you don’t have many options but it’s the only way
/r/seduction08/11/24 05:34 PM
3

I’m the complete opposite, I can make a girl laugh on a call easy compared to text. Goal is to trigger emotions
/r/seduction08/11/24 05:33 PM
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Yeah I struggle with being rough with some girls who like it. Is that porn? Maybe it’s natural ?
/r/seduction07/11/24 10:31 PM
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Nice didn’t know you are a coach. I’m starting to get through the early phase you describe. Now got enough abundance I’m starting to qualify more carefully
/r/seduction07/11/24 04:51 PM
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This is a great list. I can imagine this increasing women’s attraction for you as you ask them qualifying questions too.
/r/seduction06/11/24 08:13 PM
2

Try more “leading questions”
/r/seduction05/11/24 12:46 AM
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I think the way you handle this is you say “I’m going to do this and you should tell me if you want to change it” and then encourage and read her body language Then remember to have a chat about which bits she liked and didn’t
/r/seduction04/11/24 09:43 PM
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Maybe the kiss kills some anticipation, maybe there’s a way to leave her wanting more. I told a girl recently after she left in a message I wanted to put her in a car and take her home, that seemed to leave her hungry to reconnect. I haven’t noticed the pattern you are talking about, maybe your dental hygiene or kissing style can be improved ?
/r/seduction04/11/24 12:06 PM
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How honest are you about the polygamy? I’ve found being honest has helped me. So if they want to have sex with someone else so be it. Ethical non monogamy feels honest and creates a deeper connection I think than ‘fake and unreliable monogamy’
/r/seduction03/11/24 09:10 PM
2

Agreed. Nightclub game is noisy and chaotic. In introvert I enjoy the 1-1 day game, can go on walks in the park and all sorts 😊
/r/seduction03/11/24 09:36 AM
2

Checkout the natural lifestyles on YouTube he always starts with a compliment and it works well. I agree you need to do it in a cool way though
/r/seduction03/11/24 09:30 AM
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The fear exists in animals and is a real threat for them, that’s why it exists in us only the threat isn’t as strong as it used to be in the animal world and so our hormones are incorrectly calibrated. Approach practice shows you that the fears are unfounded
/r/seduction02/11/24 07:13 PM
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Your inner monologue is what kills your confidence. Meditation suggestions are good for learning you don’t have to listen if you don’t want to sometimes. Journals are good, look the next day and you will be surprised at the shit you had running through your head and realise it’s not as important or useful as it seemed at the time
/r/seduction31/10/24 09:38 PM
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I’ve seen women saying “I wish men would approach me” , they will probably tell their friends about it, it’s incredibly flattering if done right. Especially less hot girls, it’s really rare for them. Give them the gift of an approach
/r/seduction30/10/24 08:27 AM
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Pretty sure David deangelo coined it
/r/seduction27/10/24 06:00 PM
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I agree with all this except the end. Girls are happy to treat us like sex toys too. You can imply you are sexually active quickly. You are allowed to say you want to use a girls body. You just need to wait for her to show signs of you picking you first before going there
/r/seduction24/10/24 02:15 PM
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“How do you feel?” “What is the scariest thing that happened to you?” Etc trigger their emotion not their logic
/r/seduction23/10/24 09:24 AM
1

Get on a call every time if you can, so much easier to make her feel something
/r/seduction23/10/24 07:11 AM
3

Great tips bro 👊
/r/seduction22/10/24 06:03 PM
4

I agree but sometimes you should strike while the iron is hot
/r/seduction22/10/24 05:46 PM
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Good answer, I never say I’m looking for casual sex just that I got cheated on and I’m not sure if I want to trust someone again (true)
/r/seduction22/10/24 05:44 PM
1

I get it, but I call them prospects because they ghost me and choose other men. They’re hardly victims in this context. Also I tell them I’m dating other people so I’m not using any one. I’d only use that here to be clear about the early stage nature of it. Perhaps potentials is a better word but that doesn’t clarify the early stage
/r/seduction22/10/24 04:08 PM
1

It’s just sales chat, in what way do you think dating potentials are not prospects?
/r/seduction22/10/24 03:04 PM
1

The thing is you need to date a lot to find a girl who is a good match, you are searching for a good sexual chemistry as well so maybe it’s necessary?
/r/seduction22/10/24 08:26 AM
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Nice, I’m doing dinner dates first but I should jump to movie night
/r/seduction22/10/24 08:25 AM
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I use voice notes and calls and try to avoid texting. If you have text ask emotional questions not intellectual/factual ones
/r/seduction21/10/24 09:07 PM
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Lunch times in the city or just away from major train stations catch people walking away from the trains (if they are going to they will be in a hurry) seem ok but I’m just getting started
/r/seduction21/10/24 10:12 AM
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The lack of feedback is incredibly frustrating. Ultimately you start to pattern match across a large number of interactions. That’s the only answer. I think journaling might help slightly but I’ve never tried
/r/seduction20/10/24 11:17 AM
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I guess my point is the embarrassment rate is high but so is the speed of dating including often an instadate drink. People need to commit to 10 approaches and they will likely end up with a stupid grin on their face
/r/seduction18/10/24 11:26 PM
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Follow back is some sort of positive signal Great start You’ll need to plant a few more seeds than that to get a harvest though, some of your prospects won’t work out
/r/seduction18/10/24 11:20 PM
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Sorry I’ve never done that many just giving an illustrative example but I’ve approached at that rate before just hanging around borough market in london so it is feasible
/r/seduction18/10/24 11:18 PM
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The thing is 10% success rate sounds bad until you realise you can do 10 approaches in 30mins and have a date
/r/seduction18/10/24 10:39 PM
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Meh if you went for the kill they’d be telling you to get her in the phone book and then get more numbers and play the slow game Truth is in the middle as always Can’t control much other than what you did. Well done
/r/seduction18/10/24 09:46 PM
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She did at first but I told her not to until she has been with one for a while and that I want to meet them too. She accepted. Define your boundaries before anything happens, if you can
/r/Divorce_Men18/10/24 03:47 PM
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I wasn’t worried about sex, but I was bothered about a man being around my child and I still am. Thankfully, she hasn’t really tried to introduce anyone to him yet.
/r/Divorce_Men18/10/24 01:10 PM
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It’s more pay to play than it used to be, there are subs for each app, join them for tips. It’s not as good as it used to be but we are older so ..
/r/Divorce_Men18/10/24 09:49 AM
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In my case: When the sex isn’t what you hoped
/r/seduction16/10/24 12:37 AM
1

Whats your loss rate when saying this ?
/r/seduction16/10/24 12:35 AM
1

Research inner game
/r/seduction16/10/24 12:32 AM
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Any time you feel like saying no to something social say yes, that’s the beginning of learning social dynamics (which turns girls on)
/r/seduction16/10/24 12:32 AM
1

I think reading all the stories has the advantage of drumming the concepts into your head Ava painting things from didn’t angles. But yes there’s loads of overlap between all the different content
/r/seduction16/10/24 12:21 AM
1

I think the point is you are not invested, the language may be off here in that regard
/r/seduction16/10/24 12:06 AM
0

I agree it gives you an edge to approach but they still have very good options on the app
/r/seduction14/10/24 09:28 AM
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Those are good numbers. I agree with the adage “if you want get over someone, get under someone” worked for me
/r/Divorce_Men14/10/24 08:18 AM
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Because this provides no useful guidance
/r/seduction13/10/24 09:41 PM
2

Does that mean you have to basically get them to cheat? Leave their man?
/r/seduction13/10/24 09:34 PM
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Not a modern phenomena! 😅
/r/seduction13/10/24 09:33 PM
1

There may be ways to signal value like this without having it. This is essentially what mystery method etc are about right ?
/r/seduction13/10/24 08:35 PM
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I agree but women are flakier now even in that scenario because they have so many perceived options
/r/seduction13/10/24 07:41 PM
2

Yay. Maybe the line can live on, in a bar.. (although tend to avoid bars). Thanks for the encouragement, it’s fun coming out of retirement
/r/seduction13/10/24 09:27 AM
2

When you see someone you want to talk to you have to act in three seconds or you will over think it and not act or get worked up and act poorly. After I saw a girl checking her self in the window and said “you look great” as a quick three second thing
/r/seduction12/10/24 06:09 PM
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Great analysis. Thanks for the write up. I agree it does imply I’ve prequalified her and that I might be terminally online. I guess I hoped it might be fun for women to swipe in real life since so many of them complain about the apps and not being approached . But I can see it breaks a few fundamental rules that have never let me down before now
/r/seduction12/10/24 06:07 PM
1

Thank you, I’ll look into the best friend test . I agree I put them in a spot where they needed to come up with a clever response / manage my feelings. Should have made it more playful/cheeky
/r/seduction12/10/24 06:02 PM
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Oh you think I’m trying something here. Nope. Just trying to get something useful other than downvotes
/r/seduction12/10/24 06:00 PM
2

Sorry is this group for approaching women or what?
/r/seduction12/10/24 12:18 PM
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Yeah. I suspect the headline has caught the attention of feminists and white knights who are brigading me
/r/seduction12/10/24 07:55 AM
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How do you feel about being approached?
/r/seduction11/10/24 08:37 PM
0

Mum was loving it, daughter was mid 20s
/r/seduction11/10/24 08:36 PM
2

Yeah, I agree, it felt a bit forced in the end. I normally find something contextual but in my head it seemed like a fun thing to try, and if it worked I could use it anywhere. I thought it might depersonalise it/make it more lighthearted but actually it’s quite a heavy question because you are asking them to validate you immediately.
/r/seduction11/10/24 08:24 PM
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Look in the women’s subreddits the advice is always ‘leave them’ and then loads of confirmation
/r/Divorce_Men11/10/24 07:02 PM
-48

Have you got field reports? I’m here to learn
/r/seduction11/10/24 06:54 PM
3

For sure, this stuff is like a ladder and I’m just climbing out of the swamp of a past relationship
/r/seduction11/10/24 05:51 PM
1

The one that used to beat him? 😅
/r/seduction11/10/24 04:09 PM
8

Women don’t want helpless men
/r/seduction11/10/24 10:47 AM
1

Well I’ve got my kid on the weekend so suits me if I’m getting some action
/r/seduction10/10/24 03:52 PM
1

Yeah that’s an interesting dynamic to experiment with. I guess the more special they seem the more risky it seems
/r/seduction10/10/24 03:12 PM
1

Thanks. I like this perspective. Can definitely see how that is empowering as well. Truth is I want both and I think that having flings makes me more confident and hence attractive. So as much as I’d like to not indulge and let people go more I don’t seem to feel as confident (because I’m thirsty)
/r/seduction10/10/24 03:11 PM
1

Sounds like it strikes the right balance between respecting yourself and not killing opportunities. Thanks
/r/seduction10/10/24 10:41 AM
1

I agree so how would you deal with that when it comes to settling the bill?
/r/seduction10/10/24 10:40 AM
2

Yeah I skimmed models, I’ll have another go, but I agree once these books give you something to work from it all comes to down experimenting from there on. I like your story but it still doesn’t give OP the tools they need in my opinion to actually change. I think the books and techniques give you drills that help you break patterns. Simple advice alone like “be yourself” can’t genuinely transform someone
/r/seduction09/10/24 11:45 PM
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Thanks, I qualified her loads and got the kiss out of it but you’re right subconsciously I chose the restaurant to try to match the value she projected. If I really believed in myself I would take her somewhere modest or even ask her to pay?!
/r/seduction09/10/24 11:42 PM
1

Thanks makes sense. Looking back I think I chose somewhere fancy to eat because her profile was all about her being a lawyer and luxury stuff . I’ll try to be more creative (cheaper) next time !
/r/seduction09/10/24 11:39 PM
1

I mean it was like $220 of food and drinks. Maybe I chose too fancy a place in retrospect. But yeah I think it will pay off. But I bet the players here don’t pay that much
/r/seduction09/10/24 11:02 PM
1

The reality for many of us is advice of “just be yourself” doesn’t get us anywhere. The mystery method gave me away of finding myself by giving me exercises and things to try until I was a natural. Do you have books/resources you can recommend?
/r/seduction09/10/24 11:00 PM
1

Game is for the rest of us
/r/seduction09/10/24 10:54 PM
1

I mean to be fair isn’t that what mystery method etc are ? I think focussing on having fun is easier when you understand how to give women a good time which methods can help with. Women ARE judging. You’re probably many levels ahead of this guy
/r/seduction09/10/24 10:49 PM
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She was going to try to get you to bring up his baby if he bailed. He probably stepped up
/r/seduction09/10/24 10:44 PM
6

Meh my cousin has a beautiful wife who had him the friendzone for a long time
/r/seduction09/10/24 03:10 PM
2

Volunteering, sports, clubs, online dating
/r/seduction08/10/24 10:22 PM
2

They are trying to depress you because they think you will get hurt. And they are right, but if you can push through that pain you can become empowered to meet women whenever you want . There are other ways to meet people than cold approach but it’s a skill worth exploring in my opinion if you are ready to
/r/seduction08/10/24 05:09 PM
4

Don’t you just decide based on the context?
/r/seduction08/10/24 08:46 AM
1

Yeah I do all those things at the end and it kills it. So hard to bluff it when I just want to move to the next stage. Thanks for spelling it out
/r/seduction08/10/24 07:30 AM
2

Yeah I think I’m calibrating, and each girl is different. This was a Chinese student who is 20 years younger than me, probably easily scared
/r/seduction07/10/24 10:56 PM
1

Wow that’s something! I’ll give it a go. Sounds like a crazy strategy but I definitely believe in the preselection. I try saying I’ve got lots of options in online dating but it doesn’t seem to work
/r/seduction07/10/24 10:55 PM
2

I agree but how do I follow up on a girl and get a date with her if I don’t chase a bit ?
/r/seduction07/10/24 09:07 PM
1

Out of interest were you getting laid a lot in between?
/r/seduction07/10/24 09:05 PM
1

Is definitely not good when it happens, maybe 30% save rate
/r/seduction07/10/24 03:58 PM
1

Disagree. When this happens I dig in and turn it around
/r/seduction07/10/24 03:24 PM
2

Ok thanks. I guess I’ve had quite a few dates where the women have been a bit lazy and I’ve had to drive the date forward (to success). When I’ve been more passive and let them lead it seems to die
/r/seduction07/10/24 02:45 PM
4

I often hear they should speak more and genuine interest but how do you avoid being a nice guy simp when you are sitting there nodding along like a bore ?
/r/seduction07/10/24 12:24 PM
0

It doesn’t get much better. This is what all the hard work is for. Get in there son
/r/seduction06/10/24 11:25 PM
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They’re probably women
/r/seduction28/09/24 06:24 PM
3

Got it. What do you think it is?
/r/seduction26/09/24 11:26 AM
1

It doesn’t always work but it’s like doing approaches you learn by doing , it can also speedrun compatibility checks
/r/seduction26/09/24 07:12 AM
3

For me it means taking a risk and saying something wacky or saying something that shows my vulnerability sub communicating my confidence (which can often be a form of self deprecation or observational comedy). Too easy to just state facts or ask boring questions
/r/seduction26/09/24 07:11 AM
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Are you making them feel anything ? Laugh? How about on the phone? I would work on your phone game. Take some risks . Say stupid shit.
/r/seduction25/09/24 04:25 PM
1

Trying to learn new techniques to add to my experiences
/r/seduction25/09/24 04:13 PM
2

That doesn’t work that well in my experience , I have more luck ignoring the test and maintaining frame / bringing them with me to a more fun place
/r/seduction25/09/24 07:29 AM
3

The old kino
/r/seduction24/09/24 09:24 PM
3

How does that connect to shit tests
/r/seduction24/09/24 07:50 PM
10

I wouldn’t assume a 9 or 10 bangs more than a 7 but what do I know
/r/seduction23/09/24 04:35 PM
3

It’s been great. I’m not distracted trying to deal with her melt downs so I’m 100% present for my son.
/r/Divorce_Men22/09/24 11:55 AM
0

You think you’re intimidating women? They act disturbed when men lack confidence not because they don’t like being approached . The irony is if you care about their opinion less they’ll be less disturbed
/r/seduction21/09/24 10:45 AM
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Missing that life isn’t the same as missing you. Or she feels sorry for you. Either way you don’t need it
/r/Divorce_Men20/09/24 09:59 PM
1

Best way to get over someone is to get under someone
/r/Divorce_Men20/09/24 08:50 PM
3

Ha yeah that happened to me. They were so far off the mark it was comical grasping but still kinda sad
/r/Divorce_Men16/09/24 08:20 AM
4

I’m increasingly feeling like relationships are for youngsters who want kids etc I’m not that bothered . Bit of sex work now and then
/r/Divorce_Men14/09/24 12:43 PM
1

I think females have to make a clean break because evolutionarily it would be safer to move to a new male whereas males want to keep their females around and feel like they may get killed by a new pack leader if they lose their female(s) Our evolved instincts can’t keep up with our modern brains and life Looking back is depressing, thinking about the future brings anxiety, live in the moment and realise this animal shit doesn’t really matter
/r/Divorce_Men11/09/24 09:08 PM
6

A hot woman is going to have a lot of messages , she might just be overwhelmed, nothing wrong with cutting through imo
/r/seduction10/09/24 09:22 PM
4

What next, run away from shit tests
/r/seduction10/09/24 08:30 PM
2

I mean I can get laid that way but it’s still way too much bother and risk of getting sucked in again which I’m not in the mood for
/r/Divorce_Men09/09/24 10:18 PM
4

She only controls the narrative if you don’t speak to those people, in which case, they don’t matter. Don’t post and also connecting her cheating to boundaries makes it sound like you were complicit and you were not.
/r/Divorce_Men09/09/24 01:45 PM
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Sex is cheaper than a date these days
/r/Divorce_Men08/09/24 08:12 PM
3

I used to think red pill was evil bad and conservative in cells but actually I’ve started to realise that there are some genuinely useful tips within that community and it’s not all toxic masculinity
/r/Divorce_Men02/09/24 05:29 PM
5

Why?
/r/Divorce_Men02/09/24 11:22 AM
4

My one threatened to leave so much I didn’t marry her and told her I wouldn’t until she stabilised. I’m so glad I didn’t after 8years she is gone. Sometimes I think ‘if I married her she would have stayed’ but then reading posts here makes me glad resisted the temptation
/r/Divorce_Men02/09/24 09:43 AM
1

Read r/deadbedroom this issue kills people
/r/Divorce_Men27/08/24 08:20 PM
1

It certainly gives me consistent explanations for things that are otherwise shocking and confusing. I would actually like us to be taught about our evolutionary basis and programming in school so we can recognise when to override/ignore it
/r/Divorce_Men27/08/24 05:47 PM
1

You might be right, your partner doesnt want to hear it l, but it doesn’t mean it’s wrong and it might even make them feel valued perversely
/r/Divorce_Men27/08/24 05:46 PM
1

Definitely agree that the modern life and laws move us further and further away from an evolutionary programming that is essentially unchanged throughout. Are there cultures where marriage is more free market ? What are the happiness/divorce properties / stats of them I wonder ? Hypergamy (and height attraction) is another example of something that makes sense in evolution but is much less relevant in modern life but haunts us still.
/r/Divorce_Men27/08/24 05:45 PM
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This change to marriage could fix a lot of issues
/r/MensRights27/08/24 09:48 AM
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Here’s a different take. You’re an animal. Your human skin is thin and you are feeling guttural animal instinct that another male is “taking your family”. In times gone by you might have been cast out, the new male might even kill your kids. The feelings are real brother, I get it. But don’t forget they exist for reasons that don’t really matter anywhere near as much in this modern life. I also believe this is why being with people, lifting weights, and sleeping well are all also relevant and op…
/r/Divorce_Men26/08/24 07:45 PM
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This is a thoughtful post, and a banger 🤩😎
/r/Divorce_Men26/08/24 07:41 PM
3

I seem to struggle to get causal dates but loads of women want relationships with me. You make it sound easy
/r/Divorce_Men23/08/24 10:19 PM
11

Any examples of what extreme misogyny is ?!
/r/MensRights19/08/24 04:07 PM
-5

Like saying burn the mosques ?
/r/MensRights18/08/24 08:05 PM
3

I guess first arrest then hit the comfort food until court day
/r/MensRights13/08/24 07:12 PM
2

“Value exchange”
/r/MensRights13/08/24 07:11 PM
1

So this is like “you’re not hot but you probably won’t cheat or you let me play video games and don’t complain” or something . See how she likes that. No man would be so stupid to say it even if it’s true
/r/MensRights08/08/24 04:25 PM
1

FWIW my granny said this kind of thing was going on in world war 2 too, it’s a story as old as time
/r/MensRights04/08/24 11:24 PM
0

It’ll be a robot war anyway
/r/MensRights13/07/24 10:36 PM
7

Didn’t people have guns during the Vietnam war when they were conscripted? Good luck with that unless you mean suicide
/r/MensRights13/07/24 09:12 PM
2

Feels like it’s lost all meaning at this point . Does it just mean they were spoiled growing up?
/r/Divorce_Men13/07/24 09:02 PM
9

Weed and video games
/r/Divorce_Men07/07/24 04:38 PM
1

I’m getting back on the apps after 8 years out. It’s good. I take selfies and reconnect with ways in which I can be attractive or not. I quickly move matches to phone calls and flirt like crazy and try to say things that scare me. I date and go in for a kiss. I’m closing in on my first night of sex. 6mo post 8yr together with kid. It’s not easy, read about pickup then go try and fail. It’s very validating and rewarding to find out your market value after all these years and better understand all…
/r/Divorce_Men26/06/24 06:33 PM
1

Thankfully I don’t live in the land of cowboys and Indians I live in UK. You guys have some depressing murder stats. Happy Father’s Day
/r/MensRights17/06/24 08:32 AM
4

Assuming you can be attacked all the time sounds exhausting. I’ve not been attacked for twenty years. So that’s twenty years of being happy and not worrying
/r/MensRights16/06/24 02:12 PM
3

When she said she was on birth control and then said she was pregnant on date four. I didn’t marry her. She has some cheated and bailed. Near miss
/r/Divorce_Men12/06/24 07:21 PM
5

They should come up with a name for it, they could call it Gold Digger
/r/Divorce_Men11/06/24 01:04 PM
1

Not tempted to get vaccinated?
/r/MensRights10/06/24 07:13 AM
10

She’s an ugly career woman who is jealous of other women and doesn’t respect her boyfriend
/r/MensRights09/06/24 09:35 PM
0

Seems like genders are polarising (possibly due to international misinformation campaigns) into their respective sides. Devise content rules
/r/MensRights09/06/24 09:06 PM
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Haha I posted something similar recently. It’s really wild. And to think she has knowingly put herself in this position by leaving me as well; nuts. I wonder are people just hooking up some other way? Maybe it’s just nature doing it’s thing; we have our kids, unless we want more why do we even need to have sex? Maybe it’s fairly pointless
/r/Divorce_Men03/06/24 06:44 PM
4

Wait I can sell that piece of shit ring she gave back ?
/r/Divorce_Men03/06/24 08:14 AM
5

Only her retirement saved so far, sounds like she’s just starting
/r/Divorce_Men01/06/24 03:40 PM
1

Good advice, I’m not actually married so it feels a bit cringe to say “we broke up” on Facebook. Does sound like a good tactic though. Yeah I’ve detected that neediness and co dependency kicking in and I don’t like it. Feels like all the women are “looking for something” though so we will see.. don’t want to mislead anyone
/r/Divorce_Men01/06/24 08:44 AM
2

That’s a short list! Thanks
/r/Divorce_Men31/05/24 12:39 PM
1

How do you meet chicks on Facebook?
/r/Divorce_Men31/05/24 09:56 AM
1

They know the science 🧪 feels like people are too scared to talk about it in general media
/r/Divorce_Men31/05/24 09:37 AM
5

Settle down does not have to equal marriage. Marriage adds all kinds of laws and injustices sometimes in fair of men but unfair nonetheless
/r/MensRights29/05/24 07:32 PM
26

Well this really highlights the importance of men working together on this then
/r/MensRights27/05/24 09:27 PM
7

It’s because they practice telling their victim narrative to their friends and rack their brains for reasons why they can break the family and cheat
/r/Divorce_Men27/05/24 05:59 PM
5

That’s why I didn’t marry her, told her if you can’t work on problems without threatening to break our family apart all the time then I’m not going to marry you. She’s gone now and sometimes I wonder if i married her she’d still be here. Hanging around here helps me realise marriage doesn’t fix it
/r/Divorce_Men27/05/24 05:57 PM
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People are surprisingly indifferent. It’s not shocking and people mostly care about themselves
/r/Divorce_Men17/05/24 08:06 AM
5

Maybe he met someone
/r/Divorce_Men10/05/24 07:55 PM
1

Did you speak face to face with her? Hard to do this stuff over text. I feel for you
/r/Divorce_Men10/05/24 01:50 PM
5

That’s the thing why is anyone even shocked?
/r/MensRights06/05/24 07:50 PM
0

I smoke weed and going through a break up. We weren’t married. Am I at risk of issues because of the weed ? Googling it didn’t seem to be a problem
/r/Divorce_Men05/05/24 11:25 PM
2

Hinge is good, you can filter for ‘has kids’ and people see your status so that gets past a complicated topic upfront
/r/Divorce_Men05/05/24 08:40 PM
5

Check out the married red pill sub
/r/Divorce_Men04/05/24 08:41 AM
3

Love this. What has taught you this and how can be sure you are right ?
/r/Divorce_Men27/04/24 08:53 PM
5

Yeah that’s the reaction any animal would have, you have inherited those reactions. Your brain knows the truth
/r/Divorce_Men20/04/24 01:48 PM
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Yeah they call me woke because I care about people
/r/MensRights17/04/24 09:25 PM
1

Congratulations, sounds like good progress. Your post gives me hope because you undid some deep patterns there on both sides. Sounds like communication was good which is a good foundation. Normally I’m ok with setting boundaries but a bit scared of scaring her off and losing access to my child but I believe I need to call my bluff on this
/r/Divorce_Men01/04/24 12:20 PM
2

To help me respect this comment, ground it in your experience
/r/Divorce_Men31/03/24 10:57 PM
1

Bingo, imagine when we can measure hormones and really prove causation vs correlation. All the attempts to rationalise relationship reasons will look ridiculous
/r/Divorce_Men31/03/24 10:50 PM
1

Err not paying child support sounds kinda awful
/r/Divorce_Men31/03/24 10:47 PM
1

Lol my sweet innocent Shawn
/r/Divorce_Men31/03/24 10:46 PM
2

Yeah man, fake it till you make it. Ultimate expression of love for the kids. I’ll do anything for them, including trying to repair this car wreck
/r/Divorce_Men31/03/24 10:39 PM
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And once they learn seduction they’ll be so jaded they are no longer the good guy
/r/MensRights23/03/24 03:12 PM
1

There’s a lot of broken hateful men on this group, refreshing to read this and hope they/we can find the path
/r/MensRights20/03/24 09:07 PM
-1

Just because she had sex?
/r/MensRights19/03/24 07:12 PM
3

Yeah but that’s happening even if she has no resources to look after your kid
/r/MensRights18/03/24 08:02 PM
0

Good for ensuring the kid has a decent home to live in when you split imho
/r/MensRights18/03/24 02:01 PM
6

This happened to me. Can happen when a girls friend finds out you are with her and she feels embarrassed
/r/MensRights28/01/24 02:56 PM
1

Love this
/r/MensRights09/01/24 10:10 PM
3

I’ll take some Hefner money
/r/MensRights28/08/23 11:43 AM
6

Well can’t blame it on men any more
/r/MensRights28/12/22 09:13 AM
2

Sounds like she did you favour
/r/MensRights16/12/22 11:56 AM
3

I’ve been asking dishes to go in the dishwasher for 6 months
/r/MensRights15/12/22 08:18 PM
1

Evolutionarily why would women need to enjoy sex? Men will chase and fuck, women even if they are indifferent. Sounds like she is telling the truth to me, don't take it personally
/r/MarriedRedPill26/08/18 02:16 PM
3

This sounds like a chemical they are going to ban when they understand it
/r/TheRedPill11/08/18 12:29 AM
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