Older dating scene

No-Marsupial1823 · 2024-06-01T22:39:52+00:00

We all just need to get in our heads that women are dilusional ppl. And what we need to do is play along with what they believe to get what we want which is sex and then leave them. We are at a point in society where hopes for a successful marriage, love, fairness, honesty, respect, longevity is at an all time low. It’s not even worth wanting a relationship these days.

Both_Kick8629 · 2024-06-01T00:17:10+00:00

I must admit, I find it ridiculous too, but then again adoption is always an option 😬

Specific-Bass-3465 · 2024-05-31T14:51:02+00:00

Ummm…guys have a biological clock that impacts fetal health too. Why not check the selfishness of trying to pounce your old-ass sperm on a younger woman who could be with someone her own age?

CRobinsFly · 2024-05-30T00:50:30+00:00

Bro, don't even get me started on this. Their time to have kids was in the past. Then add on too that they will for sure cut you out of the kids life once they get the amount they want (and you'll pay for IVF and CS for 17+ years). My ex tricked me, got the one kid she wanted and [tried to] completely cut me out of the kid's life before she was even 1yo. I never would have given her a kid if I knew she only wanted one and wanted to use me in this manner (as I would argue after 30, they ALL do). I have told her angrily, several times: you should have just used a sperm bank. Now I got to bankroll her life at 1.2k/mo even with 5050 custody, what a scam.

I've made it my life's mission at this point to "distract" as many of these women as I possibly can and use up the rest of their clock - "yes I want kids, let's date for a while though, you should invest in their father".... except I will never tell them I had a vasectomy and won't have it reversed, ever. So, unless they go through an extravagant song and dance (and send a semen sample off), they'll never figure it out. In terms of the ethics of it? See my first paragraph - is it ethical to play roulette with a child's future? Have a kid with downs? Rack up exorbitant hospital bills (35yo ex was in the hospital for 21 days, our daughter, 96 days) to deceive a father to further your own ends that you should have done earlier in life?

WartimeDad · 2024-05-29T13:28:07+00:00

Yeah people think im a creep for dating young and mid 20s women at my age. But I do date women my age and older. Unfortunately 90% of the time they are in a delusional state.

I just went on a date with a 39 year old who immediately told me she is expecting marriage and a kid within 2 years. I could go on and on. Women who are 35-42 and seeking kids are some of the most delusional people I’ve met. They expect it all and act as if they are a gift to men. But they hate men. And they are disgusted by the dating scene of men using them. It’s fucking exhausting watching them do the mental gymnastics as they seek their oh so elusive “connection.”

Contrast that with dating a woman in her 20s and she’s just wanting to have fun. No pressure. Very little chance of commitment, but quite a lot of fun. No fussing or difficult when a break up happens.

In the end it’s just about impossible to find a sane, attractive, and commited partner.

Joocewayne · 2024-05-29T11:52:27+00:00

Get snipped. It’s easy and not that big of a deal recovery wise.

skepticismlot · 2024-05-29T08:11:08+00:00

modern feminism.

women are being led to prioritize their careers and personal desires over starting a family or relying on a man for companionship.

many will have with this mindset until they hit their 40s and all they’ve got going for themselves is more wrinkles, a good job, and a few cats… yet still feeling very unfulfilled in their lives.

Haunted-Tank-1943 · 2024-05-29T04:12:10+00:00

Just saw a profile on Hinge: "I'm a proud mom to a beautiful 8 month old baby girl. I had her on my own through IVF. Open to the right person to compliment the great life we live."

Had a 45 year old in my grad class do the same thing. I guess their womb begins to scream as their eggs dry and they do this. I sure don't envy them or their fatherless children.

BlazedGigaB · 2024-05-29T03:29:03+00:00

Fuck, I'm so glad a landed a scientist who wants nothing to do with making kids. Like had her tube's tied years ago wants no kids.

She is great with my kids, though they are teenagers and "people"

west-rain-shadow · 2024-05-29T02:11:00+00:00

I look at the 40+ women on dating they almost all ‘want children’

yeah, I see this too. Hilariously, I dated a twentysomething obstetrician. She had a very hard-eyed view of the risks of geriatric pregnancy - yes, that's what it's called when mom is past 35.

Lumptbuttcat · 2024-05-29T02:02:47+00:00

Because they buy into modern feminist bullshit which is just brainwashing in their 20s and 30s. At 35 or so biology kicks in and there’s no feminist crap on TikTok or Youtube that has any chance to combat the instinctual desires to procreate.

Magia-Erebea · 2024-05-29T01:21:39+00:00

Not giving me hope

Dangerous_Item_6879 · 2024-05-28T23:39:53+00:00

They just want another stupid idiot to pay for all their stuff and then eventually take half of his net worth.

Let them continue their search for the moron who will preganatize them.

SelectionNo3078 · 2024-05-28T22:50:16+00:00

wtf. No. No more kids.

TXJohn83 · 2024-05-28T22:48:30+00:00

Solution don't look to date those who are in that age range. At 40 I still pull 25-30 without much work, the problem is that OLD is a joke.

Strict-Front-2375 · 2024-05-28T22:09:12+00:00

Checkout some of the other subs for the older dating scenes, and its pretty comical. On the men side, it's a bunch of unattractive simps shocked that even now, when the women are all older and past their prime, none of them still want them despite the simping.

On the women side, it's a bunch of women who are disgusted by the simps, but are shocked the men they are attracted too don't want to wife them up, and just use them for sex.

skepticismlot · 2024-05-29T08:01:10+00:00

they’re hitting/have hit the wall, that’s all it is.

skepticismlot · 2024-05-29T08:09:44+00:00

modern feminism.

women are being led to prioritize their careers and personal desires over starting a family or relying on a man for companionship.

many will persist with this mindset until they reach 45, with wrinkles, a good job, and a few cats, yet still feel unfulfilled in their lives.

Title	Older dating scene
Author	letsbehavingu
Upvotes	16
Comments	35
Date	May 28, 2024 9:42 PM UTC (2 years ago)
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