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| 2 | Strange argument tactic. “Incel”Tik Toc used to be called Musically and mostly children used it. It started to take off when it was purchased and renamed tik tok | /r/MGTOW2 | 25/07/21 01:43 PM |
| 1 | If you are unsuccessful with women, it is 100% your fault. You are not a victim. Being attractive is not a static or predetermined qualitylol | /r/seduction | 04/06/21 11:18 PM |
| 1 | I'd appreciate some feedback on that topic. I'm getting the result that I want but I don't like the way I'm getting it.Right that sounded wrong, sorry. Nvm | /r/seduction | 02/06/21 11:12 AM |
| -1 | I'd appreciate some feedback on that topic. I'm getting the result that I want but I don't like the way I'm getting it.Are you even attracted to women? | /r/seduction | 30/05/21 03:10 PM |
| 3 | 18 M first kiss and first time same nightI will def join :) | /r/seduction | 26/05/21 01:55 AM |
| 4 | 18 M first kiss and first time same nightI'm so sorry you're feeling this way, seriously. I'm right there with you. There are some posts on here worth taking note of (because I myself am not very adept in this arena due to social anxiety/inexperience), however, most are worth dismissing. I pick and choose which I follow. Only reason this one caught my attention was because it was about first's which I find romantic haha but that's just me. It wasn't until I read the last sentence that I said to myself sheesh. | /r/seduction | 26/05/21 01:41 AM |
| 10 | 18 M first kiss and first time same nightplease don't think all guys are like this; we do want to learn about you. | /r/seduction | 26/05/21 01:05 AM |
| 9 | Tip For Nerdy Intelligent GuysWhoever is responding negatively / over/critical to this post and the strategies laid out, has some serious issues they need to address and talk to a therapist immediately. Don’t sweat the negative comments OP this was a good post | /r/seduction | 25/05/21 01:56 PM |
| 1 | I'm going to share with you guys the ultimate trick to quieting your mind and stopping mental chatter when talking to women!If by cope you mean not using medication, then yes. My friend says meditation helps. I haven't tried it yet but I will prob soon. Not only am I naturally hypersensitive but I have adhd, so I've taken adhd meds my whole life to "cope" with it. Recently, however, I wanted to try and go about coping with my hypersensitivity and adhd naturally just to see how it goes. I'm 25 and I don't want to be attached medication my whole life. so we'll see how it goes. are you also hypersensitive? physically? m… | /r/seduction | 21/05/21 02:37 AM |
| 12 | I'm going to share with you guys the ultimate trick to quieting your mind and stopping mental chatter when talking to women!Hypersensitive persons, meaning I’m already processing all the information in my peripheral. It’s too much sensory input for especially since I have adhd | /r/seduction | 20/05/21 05:10 AM |
| 9 | I'm going to share with you guys the ultimate trick to quieting your mind and stopping mental chatter when talking to women!I don’t think this would work for HSPs | /r/seduction | 20/05/21 04:12 AM |
| 4 | This girl put her legs up on my chairs leg rest. I jokingly grabbed her legs and threw them off. Then she smiled at me and put her legs back up. Is she flirting?strap ons? | /r/seduction | 19/05/21 05:59 PM |
| 15 | This girl put her legs up on my chairs leg rest. I jokingly grabbed her legs and threw them off. Then she smiled at me and put her legs back up. Is she flirting?so if a girl is literally having sex with you, you still don't know if she's into you? | /r/seduction | 19/05/21 05:56 PM |
| -17 | This girl put her legs up on my chairs leg rest. I jokingly grabbed her legs and threw them off. Then she smiled at me and put her legs back up. Is she flirting?I can't tell if that video was sarcastic or not lol | /r/seduction | 19/05/21 02:50 PM |
| 3 | Caffeine, Alcohol, and Porn: some of the most detrimental contributors to social anxiety are also the most accepted by societyIs telling people you're an alcoholic a good way to not get pressured to drink alcohol? I mean, I technically am an alcoholic (binge drinker) but this was back in college and nowadays (im 25m) I only have a beer or two when I go out. but still I notice how it negatively affects me the next day. I feel bad for rejecting an invitation to drink by using the logic it's bad for you because you're basically bashing on the people that do decide to drink despite it's negative affects. Some people will t… | /r/seduction | 17/05/21 02:08 PM |
| 1 | Gotta have standards beyond looks.awww gotcha. I'd get a little heated if she told me that. most of my friends are women some of them I'm attracted to. I can't believe she called you a dick lol that's basically the equivalent of calling a woman a cunt. | /r/seduction | 11/05/21 04:16 PM |
| 2 | Gotta have standards beyond looks.Im like what? We met on a dating app, you don't want to even go on a date, I said ok and i left. Why are you mad at me? what did she say to that? I'm actually really curious haha I fell for the hot girl simp trap recently but she was actually willing to meet. | /r/seduction | 11/05/21 01:52 PM |
| 1 | The one shit test that will make or break youIdk the way you said that seemed too scripted tho, like you’ve been practicing that saying in the mirror. Can’t girls sense that inauthenticity? I mean I would act like I wouldn’t know what she’s talking about. For example, “would you be mad if I did that?” and I would say “why what do you mean ? You do you !” | /r/seduction | 11/05/21 04:47 AM |
| 4 | I think I’ve found a cheat code for getting girls out on datesThis may have some validity. I got a girl's number at a house party I was at. She was drunk but still remembered giving it to me. a few weeks later I ended up calling her straight up, and ask her out to get lunch or something. She was def caught off guard and asked if she could call me back with an answer. maybe 15 min later she called back and said she'd to go out with me. We ended up having lunch at Panera. no connection unfortunately. so we both went out own ways. but yeah I think calling or … | /r/seduction | 10/05/21 01:47 PM |
| 2 | Crippling Anxiety around attractive girlsI already have approach anxiety. being sexually assaulted by a group of women in high school doesnt help edit: girls* | /r/seduction | 08/05/21 05:05 PM |
| 1 | Had an incredible first date but now she’s gone coldOk now.. does that go the same for women? | /r/seduction | 08/05/21 07:49 AM |
| 1 | Had an incredible first date but now she’s gone coldOk does that go for men too ? | /r/seduction | 08/05/21 06:45 AM |
| 1 | Had an incredible first date but now she’s gone coldDoes that go the same for women? | /r/seduction | 08/05/21 05:55 AM |
| 1 | Had an incredible first date but now she’s gone coldRight exactly, so she should want to say because you don’t need her energy in your life. | /r/seduction | 08/05/21 05:37 AM |
| 0 | Had an incredible first date but now she’s gone coldShe probably went cold because you don't really need her energy in your life. Isn't that why women like men? if I needed her energy for my life, then I need to work on myself because I'm being codependent, right? | /r/seduction | 07/05/21 05:52 PM |
| 1 | No amount of notches or flags will fill that hole in your heart.how did you balance social life, work, time alone, etc. with this endeavor? I can barely manage my work and social life. how much time and effort and planning did you allot? | /r/seduction | 07/05/21 01:39 PM |
| 1 | No amount of notches or flags will fill that hole in your heart.attracted like physical attraction. like have you ever had to resort to sleeping with someone you weren't attracted to as a result of being rejected by all the women you were attracted to? | /r/seduction | 07/05/21 01:13 PM |
| 1 | No amount of notches or flags will fill that hole in your heart.out of all the girls you slept with, how many of them were you not attracted to? | /r/seduction | 07/05/21 12:48 PM |
| 1 | How do you keep your cool when you fall in love with someone?I would just remind yourself that it’ll be over soon and you’ll be back to your original state of mind | /r/seduction | 07/05/21 12:06 AM |
| 1 | So, I‘m a woman and just got approached by a guy.I would humiliated | /r/seduction | 06/05/21 03:33 AM |
| 2 | Crippling Anxiety around attractive girlsPractice makes perfect I guess. But it also sounds like the equivalent to getting kicked in the stomach over and over again until you can't feel anything. By the time someone says yes, my feelings would be numb and my heart will be cold. | /r/seduction | 04/05/21 09:01 PM |
| 1 | Are some settings off limits?Right, makes sense. What is usually considered "sexual" because "sex" to me is a concept (noun) where as to most other people it's the physical/biological act (verb). | /r/seduction | 30/04/21 09:46 PM |
| 1 | Are some settings off limits?Ok yeah I get it. I just find it strange that nowadays "sex" or "attraction" are considered not safe topics lol | /r/seduction | 30/04/21 08:16 PM |
| 1 | Are some settings off limits?Ok maybe take sex/attraction out of the equation? Maybe something like asking their opinion of my wardrobe? I used to be a wardrobe consultant so I mean clothes/style might be something one of also likes, yeah? | /r/seduction | 30/04/21 07:12 PM |
| 1 | I wanna know what’s the thing that’s holding people back from being confident person , the person who talks to everyone in a cool way being loud enough to be heard not shy or hesitant to speak in that way rather than speaking in a soft way , talking to everyone , being themselves with everyone“Heal” is a vague word. “Healing” can also mean to cure / to treat. That said, is trauma and mental illness curable? I’ll answer that with another question: do we have a cure for cancer? Is trauma and mental illness treatable? Of course, but you’ll basically need someone to hold your hand for the rest of your life (aka therapist) and the other trade off is that you’ll never live a normal life. So yeah it’s treatable / healable but the “living tax” becomes much more expensive compared to those wi… | /r/seduction | 30/04/21 06:35 PM |
| 1 | Meeting people without dating apps these days?Why I disagree is because of this: science and the information age. Everyone knows that chronic illnesses like breast cancer, etc. can and do get passed down to offspring. We now know that chronic psychological illnesses also get passed down to offspring as well. It doesn't matter how well-adjusted you are, it's there and in your head for good. We like to chalk it up to "character" and "coping strength" but those are intangible qualities that are immeasurable which therefore means I can, at any … | /r/seduction | 30/04/21 02:47 PM |
| 1 | Women will respect your courageThe entire progressive movement is about fighting reality and basic biology because "adaptation" is essentially regression, speaking in sociopolitical terms. I'm progressive too, I want true equality as much as your most radical feminist, however, everyone needs to practice what they preach. That's what I do! I'm an androgynous person who leans feminine so I enjoy things women like to do (i.e. talking, wardrobe, art, reading/writing, watching emotional films/shows, etc.) more than what things me… | /r/seduction | 30/04/21 02:10 PM |
| 1 | Don’t be a “Justin Case”Then why don't men reprimand women as much as women reprimand men? for leaving someone on a hook | /r/seduction | 30/04/21 01:43 PM |
| 1 | 8 Surprising Ways To Beat Approach AnxietyRe No. 4: “warm up” as you put it, sounds incredibly sociopathic. Being social should be natural | /r/seduction | 30/04/21 12:34 PM |
| 1 | How My Night At A Bar WentI’m going to start “shit testing” girls and assert my moral authority/opinion on them because that’s what they do right? Edit: because you’re basically saying “lay down on the train tracks as she insults you and if you allow yourself to get run over then she’ll see that she can make fun of you and you still like her” | /r/seduction | 30/04/21 12:18 PM |
| 1 | Don’t be a “Justin Case”Why is it ok for girls to leave guys on the hook but not the other way around? | /r/seduction | 30/04/21 12:07 PM |
| 1 | Is she really out of your league..or have you been neglecting improvements? GREAT READI know how to act confident and happy out in public, but as soon as I’m alone I’m bitter and sad. | /r/seduction | 30/04/21 12:03 PM |
| 1 | Are some settings off limits?What if I went up to them and said to one of them “hey I just got a call from your boyfriend,” as I’m holding my phone as if I was just on a call, “he says he needs to talk to you ASAP” so I guess I’m hoping they would say “I don’t have a boyfriend” rather than “you’re a stranger and you don’t even know me” would that be witty ? Is that wit? Idk | /r/seduction | 30/04/21 11:45 AM |
| 1 | Are some settings off limits?What would I say to a group of women when approaching? All I can picture is the lame guy going up to a group of pretty girls then getting laughed at. | /r/seduction | 30/04/21 05:14 AM |
| 1 | A Five Minute Conversation Is All You Need To Get LaidHahahahha I really hope you’re exaggerating | /r/seduction | 30/04/21 04:28 AM |
| 3 | A Five Minute Conversation Is All You Need To Get LaidChick was jus drunk | /r/seduction | 30/04/21 04:26 AM |
| 1 | Crippling Anxiety around attractive girlsHow do you know what your worth is? | /r/seduction | 30/04/21 04:21 AM |
| 0 | Crippling Anxiety around attractive girlsIsn’t “being there for yourself” narcissistic? I mean if you’re they’re for yourself why is she even with you? If a girl told me while we were on a date that she is here for herself and not me, I would immediately think “wow ok... do u even want me here lol?” But it doesn’t matter what she says because I already lost interest because she lost interest. And even if she says “yeah I want you here” I would just think she’s being nice and socially cordial; a lot of women feel pressure to mitigate an… | /r/seduction | 30/04/21 04:16 AM |
| 1 | Crippling Anxiety around attractive girlsWould I have to go to a different city so I don’t run in to them if I get rejected? | /r/seduction | 30/04/21 04:07 AM |
| 1 | Crippling Anxiety around attractive girlsOk you can wordsmith it all you want the feeling is still there. What I think he was asking was how to manage that “excitement” feeling because the feeling overrides his thoughts making him unable to properly function. It’s like when a computer slows down when it’s trying to process a lot of information at once. | /r/seduction | 30/04/21 04:02 AM |
| 1 | If there is one thing that would attract you the most about a woman, what would it be?It’s human natures social collective survival instinct. Could you imagine the population increase in an already overly populated planet? If humans made sex/procreation/intimacy simple and straightforward, they would have gone extinct long ago. Plus you have to take into account the overall social climate and the very fact that the social “tectonic plates” are shifting right below our feet. Meaning old rules are being thrown out but we’re keeping some but it’s not clear as to what those are; we’r… | /r/seduction | 30/04/21 03:07 AM |
| 1 | I wanna know what’s the thing that’s holding people back from being confident person , the person who talks to everyone in a cool way being loud enough to be heard not shy or hesitant to speak in that way rather than speaking in a soft way , talking to everyone , being themselves with everyoneI majored in philosophy so I could have a justifiable explanation for everything I do. Do you have any idea how many different theories of ethics/morality there are? It’s dangerous sometimes. But yeah those are the lengths I’ve gone through so I can justify myself. Didn’t work I still hate myself | /r/seduction | 30/04/21 02:52 AM |
| 1 | I wanna know what’s the thing that’s holding people back from being confident person , the person who talks to everyone in a cool way being loud enough to be heard not shy or hesitant to speak in that way rather than speaking in a soft way , talking to everyone , being themselves with everyoneTrauma, mental illness, etc. Edit: aka cancer of the soul | /r/seduction | 30/04/21 02:48 AM |
| 1 | You're enough: all the confidence you'll ever needLol | /r/seduction | 30/04/21 02:34 AM |
| 1 | Women will respect your courageYo jus stop. This a two way street man. We’re all busy during the day. Women need to start picking up the slack, basic social responsibility | /r/seduction | 30/04/21 01:39 AM |
| 3 | Well intentioned guys are labelled as creeps far too casually these days...I got socially ostracized in high school because I told a girl I like her but she called me a creep and told everyone else too. So yeah no I don’t approach women anymore. I’m 25. I’ve also been sexually assaulted in high school by a group of girls. So it’s hard for me to open and be authentic around women at all tbh High school wasn’t the best time | /r/seduction | 30/04/21 01:27 AM |
| 2 | Girl came up to me at a bar and it ended as I expectedI've learned in my life that strangers shouldn't be underestimated. TBH I would've dismissed her from the start lol she grabbed YOUR phone made sure she followed herself from your account so that she could gain more followers lmao and after you texted her she's probably thinking fuck I don't want to lose another follower, I had to listen to this guy ramble on for god knows how long (because I was drunk) | /r/seduction | 29/04/21 10:53 PM |
| -2 | (FR) Hot girl invites me on an instant date (but I got her number and set up a regular one instead)Well good for you. I used to be socially natural until about 8 y/o when I was forced to take ADHD meds. I dont know who I am anymore and I don't know what "natural feelings" are because I've been artificially stimulating them my entire life. so good for u | /r/seduction | 29/04/21 10:47 PM |
| 0 | (FR) Hot girl invites me on an instant date (but I got her number and set up a regular one instead)Social interactions are supposed to feel natural. If they don’t, you’re not being your true self. Ok but that still begs the question: is our true self cultivated (Kongzi - Confucianism) or de-cultivated (Lao Tzu - Daoism)? I've always been a Daoist at heart so natural and organic social interactions are negated if you "warm up" as you put it. Because to me, it sounds like your "warm up" is to channel your shadow personality traits, hence being the exact opposite of your true self. I only know t… | /r/seduction | 29/04/21 10:33 PM |
| 2 | Girl came up to me at a bar and it ended as I expectedyeah but what if she has a lot of sociopolitical capital? I mean who knows what she's telling her friends or other people she knows. Girls love talking about creepy guys because it makes them feel powerful, how easy would it be for her to just fill 20 or 30 seconds of dead conversation with a story about you being all creepy with her at the bar? I mean she was drunk, she could easily just make something up that sounds more exciting that actually was. idk | /r/seduction | 29/04/21 10:25 PM |
| -1 | (FR) Hot girl invites me on an instant date (but I got her number and set up a regular one instead)no the amount of premeditation / preparation before your "sessions". and also these "sessions" themselves. Just sounds like you're subjecting random people to your prey-like social engineering pick-up strategies. I mean fuck me if I'm alone on this haha but I've always thought social interaction should be natural and organic, not calculated and strategic, no? idk | /r/seduction | 29/04/21 10:20 PM |
| 2 | Girl came up to me at a bar and it ended as I expectedleaving me on read... I would be humiliated... also I would be terrified of crossing paths with her in the future | /r/seduction | 29/04/21 10:14 PM |
| -2 | (FR) Hot girl invites me on an instant date (but I got her number and set up a regular one instead)sounds creepy as shit | /r/seduction | 29/04/21 09:50 PM |
| 1 | Help?yeah its pre messed up; you have to be a sociopath to survive these trenches | /r/seduction | 29/04/21 09:47 PM |
| 1 | Girl came up to me at a bar and it ended as I expectedI would've been crushed | /r/seduction | 29/04/21 09:45 PM |
| -1 | 18 Reasons You Should LOVE Rejectionsnope sorry | /r/seduction | 29/04/21 09:42 PM |
| 4 | 3 things you can do to get out of your head so you can increase your success with womenlife itself can't exist without women tho | /r/seduction | 29/04/21 09:26 PM |
| 1 | Meeting people without dating apps these days?Yeah I’m done | /r/seduction | 29/04/21 11:38 AM |
| 1 | Complementing looks vs conplementing her outfitI wasn’t being serious. I did/do/have all those things. My point was that it’s complicated. I could explain it better but I’d need more energy than I currently have to explain it | /r/seduction | 29/04/21 12:40 AM |
| 1 | Complementing looks vs conplementing her outfitYup flunked out of college. Don’t have a degree and don’t have a full time job. | /r/seduction | 29/04/21 12:02 AM |
| 2 | Complementing looks vs conplementing her outfitI hope so too | /r/seduction | 28/04/21 11:26 PM |
| -3 | Complementing looks vs conplementing her outfitIt's not immoral to want to have sex with someone. You are right and wrong. It is not wrong to want to have sex with another human. It is wrong, however, to want to have sex with another human based on the fact that you find them physically attractive. It's called objectification. How am I suppose to go to up to a woman and say "I was just objectifying you over there and thought you are attractive enough for me to want to have sex with you" I mean you can chalk it up with clever wit and "seducti… | /r/seduction | 28/04/21 01:41 PM |
| -6 | Complementing looks vs conplementing her outfitthinking or talking about looks is immoral and makes women uncomfortable. If you tell a woman that she's physically attractive, you're basically saying I deem you worthy enough to have sex with. So you're jumping right into sex. referencing the outfit, on the other hand, still masks your true intentions of you being physically attracted to her but verbally all she KNOWS is that you like her outfit (physical attractiveness aside) it's all about linguistic coding. make sure you say the right thing… | /r/seduction | 28/04/21 01:06 PM |
| 0 | Meeting people without dating apps these days?Yeah it’s sad that baby boomers put so much pressure on the Millennials (me) to be successful academically/professionally. Baby boomers didn’t know anything about psychology so they thought we could just figure this part out on our own. | /r/seduction | 28/04/21 11:40 AM |
| 0 | Meeting people without dating apps these days?I know what you mean. Women are becoming more independent meaning they’re less dependent upon their partners which incentivizes them to break ties when something goes wrong or not as planned. Also, women don’t want guys with trauma or mental illness because they don’t want to taint their offspring with trauma and mental illness. That might sound harsh but you can’t prove it’s not true | /r/seduction | 28/04/21 11:37 AM |
| 37 | Meeting people without dating apps these days?Idk why but for me all of this strategizing feels weird and unnatural. It’s almost like “dating” has become another sort of career. | /r/seduction | 28/04/21 05:48 AM |
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