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So your suggestion would be that I would push her hand away and put mine back at her crotch? That seems...not okay.
/r/askTRP30/11/14 07:44 PM
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No, I didn't ask her (other than in front of my house, which is more of a leading question). I TOLD her what I wanted, and she complied. Seems like a palpable difference there. And yeah, in the bed thing, she was grinding on me heard, but at the moment of contact with my hands, she would pull them away and keep making out. Pretty clear she didn't want me to like "ravage" her or whatever.
/r/askTRP30/11/14 03:12 PM
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Thanks, great insight here. I guess the "respect" and "treating her like an adult" thing didn't come out of nowhere. I said it in response to some bullshit she was saying as a way to end the conversation, but I should have just turned the phone off and walk away. RP has a lot of rape paranoia on here, so when there is a suggestion of this kind of thinking on the part of the female, it almost sets up a wager - do I continue to act alpha and put this girl into "he took advantage of me" mode or do …
/r/askTRP30/11/14 02:58 PM
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Thanks man, yeah I asked that on the steps pretty smugly. I thought it was slick but maybe not. Curious - do you pose these things as commands or do you not even feel the need to do so?
/r/askTRP30/11/14 05:03 AM
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Thank you - can you describe a little more what "you didn't polarize her properly" means?
/r/askTRP30/11/14 05:02 AM
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Do you have any ways that you could radically improve your SMV? Writing/wealth/celebrity/power? Joe Pesci probably slams pussy
/r/askTRP29/11/14 06:26 AM
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Nm
/r/askTRP23/11/14 03:41 PM
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Loved the pun as well.
/r/askTRP22/11/14 03:45 PM
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FWIW, your posts and the posts of others in /r/asktrp have helped me a lot. I feel like it's my primer spot before I start having the insight and action to post here. So thank you.
/r/TheRedPill11/11/14 05:55 AM
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Yes, I have decided that it's time to start respecting myself. I will initiate no more contact unless she reaches out to me. Until that time she is a disappointment. I hate to ask because it's sort of like asking what a Zen Koan means, but could you flesh out your first paragraph more because it's very interesting to me. What might be an example of how this might play out?
/r/askTRP06/11/14 05:54 PM
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Wow. What a helpful and encouraging response. Yeah, I never knew I had it in me. So still no call today and have been having some feels about rejection and all that, keep telling myself that I have to keep my mindset in abundance. In the meantime, I'm keeping it up at the gym and with the diet. If no call by later today I may shoot a text and tell her to come over, but I need the day to think it over...do I really want to give any power up that way? Think I still may be able to reach out while s…
/r/askTRP06/11/14 07:18 AM
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I don't think calling a woman a slut is ever part of any successful strategy to get laid. My own opinion. From what I've learned on here, A&A rides the lines between teasing and absurdity. Like carrying their sentiments to an absurd point to demonstrate how ridiculous it was to bring it up to you in the first place.
/r/askTRP19/10/14 03:36 PM
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fair advice. thanks.
/r/askTRP17/10/14 11:58 AM
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I don't know about emulating, as a lot of comedians are either bitter and insightful (Doug Stanhope, Louis CK) or topical and acerbic (Bill Maher), but Chris Rock spits some very RP stuff a lot, and many popular comedians can give you insight in timing and playfulness. George Carlin, is of course, an all time great. I personally recommend taking an improv comedy class. You can meet lots of people - men and women, and it will do great things for your cleverness and spontaneity.
/r/askTRP17/10/14 02:39 AM
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Will abide.
/r/askTRP17/10/14 12:29 AM
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Yes, I'm sure you're right. Seemed like a good idea in my old mindset, especially as I was in a new city and didn't know many people. My work was my social circle.
/r/askTRP16/10/14 11:34 PM
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Yes, I agree. I gave her ammo when I didn't know the stakes. I just feel like placating her just enough would still be responding to her texts, but not right away (or occasionally at all), and when I do, giving a very lukewarm response. Otherwise she will take it as an act of aggression (two years dealing with this has given me thorough insight into how she thinks).
/r/askTRP16/10/14 11:16 PM
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I don't think I can act like I acted before and continue to improve. I would get myself so wrapped up in whether or not I was meeting her approval, I couldn't even think about myself. I would like to get to the point in which I don't care how she "scores" me, but I have to fake it til I make it. Because I still feel threatened by her.
/r/askTRP16/10/14 10:26 PM
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Awesome, what about texts? I feel like going complete radio silence when she texts me would be seen as a sign of passive aggression. I want to placate her without pissing her off, that's the idea I'm getting here. So I just give a lukewarm response and don't respond immediately?
/r/askTRP16/10/14 10:23 PM
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This is actually hilarious and totally accurate.
/r/askTRP16/10/14 09:57 PM
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Quote from comments: "He is an addict, he's just now pushed his addiction to self control. Now it completely effects your life, and my suggestion is that he sees a therapist immediately." HAHAHAHA Addicted to self control. That's a new one. Like being so happy you're depressed?
/r/TheRedPill15/10/14 11:50 PM
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We are all products of the emotional environments of our upbringing and experiences. RP is teaching me that history ≠ future. Hoping to stick by this and make changes. In monk mode now.
/r/askTRP15/10/14 07:36 PM
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I get confused here when you say "next this bitch," don't respond to texts/calls/whatever and act busy (which is alpha behavior), and then be beta around her. I can't reconcile those two things. I feel like I've spent the last year "being beta" to her by "doing the right thing" and being friends with her because that's what all my (mostly female) co-workers said "would be best." I wasted my time trying to get in her good graces which never happened, and made me feel like shit 24/7 with no payoff…
/r/askTRP15/10/14 06:59 PM
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Made my first PCP appointment today in five years. Gonna get my thyroid and T levels checked. Thanks for the suggestion/reminder.
/r/askTRP15/10/14 05:16 PM
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Yes, it's called a "variable reward system" (as you probably know), and it is exactly how my father was. Cold, distant, shunning, and then one day really nice and attentive, then the next day cold again. Conditioned me to suffer through long winters for only a few hours of summer. Well, no more.
/r/askTRP15/10/14 05:15 PM
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Awesome, thanks.
/r/askTRP15/10/14 05:12 PM
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So, I've actually thought about this very thing. Even in my depths of anger and resentment toward her, I always admired at how "effective" she was at living her life. She spoke to people when she wanted to speak with them, she did things when she wanted to do them, and she got what she wanted. She seemed to have complete control over her emotions. I was so weak and ineffective compared to her. But then I think about all of the stress and misery that she inflicted on people around her. The way sh…
/r/askTRP15/10/14 03:16 PM
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Thanks man. Appreciate the support.
/r/askTRP15/10/14 03:05 PM
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Really appreciate this, man. I have already started dieting and Starting Strength - I will read it all the way through.
/r/askTRP15/10/14 04:34 AM
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I'm 5'11" as well. This is a good start. I lifted for sports in HS but always for bulk. I think at this point any exercise plan is better than none. I'll just have to experiment and get more comfortable. Thanks.
/r/askTRP15/10/14 04:33 AM
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I did read the sidebar, just didn't immediately register the acronym (there are a lot here), and needed some clarification. Thank you for your response.
/r/askTRP15/10/14 03:34 AM
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Thank you. I actually have a hard time grasping what that is. From shit tests 101: "Agree & amplify is usually the preferred method because they're often fun (read: stimulating) and non-reactionary. In my experience you'll get better mileage out A&A as well as it's less likely to blow up in your face/have a negative outcome than the other methods since context does still matter and the others are easier to misapply." So this is basically just reacting to a provocative statement with an immediate…
/r/askTRP15/10/14 03:32 AM
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Thanks man. I'm looking for a good lifting plan this week. Plan to start next Monday. I don't want to get too technical with it, but I'd love some place to start. Any recommendations? I've never really lifted before and I don't even know how many days a week to do upper body/lower body/etc.
/r/askTRP15/10/14 03:21 AM
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Sorry, I'm new here. What is A&A?
/r/askTRP15/10/14 02:48 AM
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Is this just generalized advice or is it specific to my scenario?
/r/askTRP15/10/14 02:32 AM
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Thank you for your positive and helpful response. I've always been a "heart on my sleeve" kind of guy (read: someone who is emotionally available to everyone at all times). A consequence of that is that I have a hard time giving moderate responses to things. I want people to know my whole methodology for my thoughts. I am a truth addict. I need to change that addiction to the "objective" truth rather than the ephemeral truth of any given fleeting scenario. Thanks.
/r/askTRP15/10/14 01:57 AM
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Well said. I have many times thought about taking the leap, but two things have held me back. I've always been a runner. I've run away from two jobs in my life because of toxic relationships. I ALWAYS RUN and I ALWAYS find myself in these shitty scenarios bc of my low self-esteem. Something about this makes me want to dig in my heels and stand up, face my fears. I fear that it is my anxiety that would convince me that the threat is too big to overcome. I don't want to misjudge the threat and aba…
/r/askTRP15/10/14 01:54 AM
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Not ignoring you at all. This, I think, is an important point. I think about when I first met her...I wasn't attracted to her at all. Seriously. I remember telling my friend when I was first even considering dating her that I was willing to overlook her middling level of attractiveness. It wasn't until the mind games started that I was hooked. I was addicted to the highs: some days just having her recognize my presence was an ego boost. Somehow made me forget the misery of being shunned. A compl…
/r/askTRP15/10/14 01:50 AM
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It's this plausible deniability shit that gets me. She's going head first into a situation where she is going to (or at least has strong potential to) fuck this guy, and OP isn't allowed to be mad because it is "plausibly" just a road trip with friends to see a musician that they both like, after all! Losing weight? Guest passes? Slaps in the face. She might not be consciously scheming to fuck this guy but it's there in the recesses of her subconscious. She is opening herself up to this situatio…
/r/askTRP14/10/14 04:21 AM
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Seems like a tangential method of solving some sort female existential angst to me. She recognizes the disparity in their attractiveness, while simultaneously benefiting from this disparity. Tries to hook her friend up with someone to resolve this dissonance. When this friend is rejected, she cries foul and labels you a pig/asshole/prick. Existential crisis solved, friendship duty fulfilled, return to hamstermeostasis.
/r/TheRedPill11/10/14 07:04 PM
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I think the twist here is, if her friend was more attractive than her, she wouldn't be trying to set her up and would be offended if you took interest in her.
/r/TheRedPill11/10/14 04:13 PM
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