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I’m willing to bet there’s a thousand things you’re doing that are actively working against you getting laid from daygame approaches. But before we get into that ; How many dates are you going on a week and how many approaches do you need to make to get those dates.
/r/seduction20/04/19 05:08 AM
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I bet your not tall ya ? Do you think your dad lied to your mom about his height or did he just birth a pussy.
/r/seduction20/04/19 05:07 AM
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Maybe a hooker might be your speed. You can ask them to say nice things to you. Or you could realize the biggest thing holding you back is your fear of actually approaching a girl. So my question is what is it about approaching that scares you the most
/r/seduction20/04/19 05:05 AM
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You did one approach. You gotta do a lot more. Specific to getting over the feeling ; Did you learn anything from the approach ? Also keep in mind when women shit talk sometimes it’s to let you know they aren’t interested. Take it as a gift and find a girl who likes you to give your time to.
/r/seduction20/04/19 05:04 AM
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I mean. Unless she’s actually an 8 and you have an actual basis for your standards.
/r/seduction20/04/19 05:02 AM
1

So you didn’t go for a number you just creeped on some girl at the gym or am I missing something
/r/seduction20/04/19 04:58 AM
1

While they are asking you questions are you just replying or are they asking questions because you’re not leading and conversations stalled
/r/seduction20/04/19 12:12 AM
1

She literally wants your weeny
/r/seduction20/04/19 12:05 AM
1

Update on my last post. Tf. lol.
/r/seduction20/04/19 12:04 AM
1

She’s totally down bro. Keep blowing up her phone.
/r/seduction20/04/19 12:04 AM
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Bro I’ve been telling all these kids the same thing. They don’t get it. Lol. I get flamed for being too real
/r/seduction19/04/19 09:48 PM
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During the time bridge between asking her out and the date I’d call her and treat that as a mini date to get the confirmation. Also helps you warm up to the date by building easy rapport since you’re now on the phone w a cute girl you have a date w.
/r/seduction19/04/19 08:41 PM
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I bet she gave you some indicator in person she wasn’t really down. And or you didn’t get a real confirmation in person was more of a “let’s hangout sometime” without either party actually committing.
/r/seduction19/04/19 08:40 PM
1

Women like older guys. Difference between 30 and 35 to a 18-22 year old girl is negligible. Have you approached since realizing your limiting beliefs ?
/r/seduction19/04/19 06:04 PM
1

I have a program specifically for this if you’re interested shoot me a pm.
/r/seduction19/04/19 06:00 PM
1

Shoot me a pm
/r/seduction19/04/19 06:05 AM
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Shoot me a pm
/r/seduction19/04/19 06:05 AM
2

Approach in line before you get in the venue. At the very least she’ll social proof you slightly inside. Use this momentum to crush subsequent sets.
/r/seduction18/04/19 10:01 PM
3

Nightgame is sexual. You sssociate night game with people fucking. Daytime it’s plausible deniable. So you’re creating obstacles between nightgame. And fucking. To desensitize id work on getting very good at sexually escalating daygame then transference fhattk night. Or like I said just focus on getting over your fear of nightgame.
/r/seduction18/04/19 10:00 PM
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Inspite*
/r/seduction18/04/19 08:51 PM
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I go to the club solo frequently. Girls think it’s cool because they don’t see it. If I thought it was weird, Inspire the fact girls think it’s cool, I’d probably project some of that weird. Learn to overcome what it is you’re actually saying; You’re afraid of night game.
/r/seduction18/04/19 08:50 PM
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When you get good at game you begin to realize peoples perspectives are shallow and usually not beyond influence. Essentially to use your example the archetype she’s attractive to is malleable. Unless she’s immature and naive. Most girls are open to “the real”.
/r/seduction18/04/19 05:51 PM
1

Shoot me a msg bro. Big opportunity for you.
/r/seduction18/04/19 04:34 AM
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What was your biggest sticking point when you were approaching
/r/seduction17/04/19 09:50 AM
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I literally said. It’s not impossible. I said don’t encourage him to start later. Start now. Go out and cold approach today. But I forget most of you. Don’t even do that so you’re the blind leading the blind. Lol.
/r/seduction17/04/19 02:57 AM
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You missed my point entirely. I didn’t say it was not possible. I said it’s not positive to regale people with tales of be a late bloomer. You’re not actually helping them. Encourage him to go out rn and cold approach instead of circle jerking each other with we’re all gonna make it bro.
/r/seduction17/04/19 02:12 AM
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Gotcha. Well gl. Lol. Life is short to have only memories of trolling.
/r/seduction16/04/19 11:50 PM
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Oh ok so we trolling
/r/seduction16/04/19 11:08 PM
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Alright op so life is about sacrifices. What are you willing to sacrifice to reach a point in your life where hearing about another mans sexual success no longer triggers you.
/r/seduction16/04/19 10:28 PM
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Except 22 is pretty late in life for learning some basic social experiences. Note I’m not saying it’s impossible just have standards. Especially when later the girls he’s gonna be competing for are literally giving those experiences to younger guys. Life is a hierarchy too many guys don’t realize this.
/r/seduction16/04/19 10:19 PM
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News flash everyone feels that way. So you know how to win ? Don’t.
/r/seduction13/04/19 06:22 AM
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Fear isn’t just fear of rejection. But basically in your case it is. You care what your environment thinks.
/r/seduction13/04/19 06:17 AM
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And you’re still getting upvotes ? Lol Seddit is fucked.
/r/seduction12/04/19 10:26 PM
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Ok you do this one little trick; “Hey, we should go out some time.”
/r/seduction12/04/19 10:22 PM
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Awesome. You’re permitted to ask questions here.
/r/seduction11/04/19 10:00 PM
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Let’s be logical ok. Let’s say you’re right and she’s not down for you. What did you actually lose ? Now let’s say you’re wrong and she might actually be down for you ? What did you lose by not approaching ? Can’t believe I’m explaining this shit lol. You’re like literally self sabotaging.
/r/seduction11/04/19 09:59 PM
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Bro you were meant to hit me up. Let’s fix this shit
/r/seduction11/04/19 08:56 AM
1

Hit me up bet we can fix it.
/r/seduction11/04/19 08:55 AM
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I guarantee any “hot girl” you pull off tinder would not hold a candle to a $hotgirl$ from a real approach. Why is this even a debate ? Lol. Guys who only use tinder are toooo pussy to approach irl.
/r/seduction11/04/19 01:43 AM
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Because no one is nice. Nice guys are generally nice as a defense mechanism and to seek approval and avoid conflict. Now let’s assume you were genuinely a nice guy. Abundance mentality and giving back to your environment you would have pussy swimming at you. But you don’t. Hence people around you knowing you’re nice is a facade.
/r/seduction11/04/19 12:34 AM
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Not really.
/r/seduction11/04/19 12:02 AM
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I was at this Denny’s one time and I saw this girl making eyes and giving obvious iois. Not one to let an opportunity go to waste I flirt back non verbals. Fast forward I’m paying my bill and she and her friend are being escorted to the bathroom By what I assume is her date / bf. The guys end up heading back to the table and the girls were left alone for a bit. This is where I go super Saiyan; I tell my wing the plan and he walks over to distract the bfs Me: direct open Her: slight ioi and warm …
/r/seduction10/04/19 11:00 PM
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Too long to really explain here. But in general you want to converse and escalate in a way that will without scarring her off turn her on. There isn’t a magical line that will get her turned on and thinking about having sex w you. She feels that way as a result of her biological agency aka her buying temperature getting piqued. Shoot me a msg if you wanna learn more.
/r/seduction10/04/19 09:40 PM
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Tell me about your last approach.
/r/seduction10/04/19 09:21 PM
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Majority of rejections will simply be her ignoring you and walking away. If you’re getting some verbals you’re probably actually being a creep or some shit. Most girls aren’t out to shame you unless you’re rude.
/r/seduction10/04/19 09:20 PM
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I can help you op.
/r/seduction10/04/19 09:12 PM
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You can’t control every approach so only try to within a reasonable metric. That being said you need to determine if girls are rejecting you or your approach. This is gonna go write over most people.
/r/seduction10/04/19 09:11 PM
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Most men don’t know or have an accurate assessment of the sexual market place. If you knew the ease at which men like me procure new relationships you’d be shocked at how easy it is to become a high value male who slays. Simply put 20% of men fuck 80% of women. Seek out proper instruction vast majority of guys here don’t even approach.
/r/seduction10/04/19 09:10 PM
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Who cares. But do you approach ?
/r/seduction10/04/19 09:07 PM
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Congrats. But don’t post till you’ve approached.
/r/seduction10/04/19 06:45 PM
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Do u even cold approach wtf is this
/r/seduction10/04/19 10:06 AM
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Guys I’m scared to approach girls. Terrified actually. If I use tinder and I meet a girl do I still have to interact w her in person or does my pee pee go into the phone ?
/r/seduction10/04/19 01:02 AM
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I’m scared. Can you help make me less scared seddit?
/r/seduction10/04/19 01:01 AM
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Key word effort lol.
/r/seduction09/04/19 04:54 PM
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You dumb. It’s not about morals. It’s about effectiveness. But ya keep circle jerking to your fantasy of Nigerian prince scamming girls lol. If op wasn’t a pussy he’d be cold approaching. If you weren’t a pussy you’d be living instead of existing vicariously through this shit.
/r/seduction09/04/19 04:54 PM
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Social acuity. It’s a skill set. The type of people you described lack this. The catchy 22 is pickup doesn’t necessarily teach you social acuity.
/r/seduction09/04/19 04:51 AM
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I bet I could pull three girls this week from your college. There are no routines. You just talk to people. Lol.
/r/seduction09/04/19 04:50 AM
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There are quite a few solid coaches in the San Diego area. If you’re serious I’d consider looking into that. Sounds like your sticking point is staying present. If the girl is vibing and not making any overt indicators she’s out; Feel free to stay in the game. Learn to plow through the set. Sometimes meeting people, yes even people who are interested in you is awkward. So don’t assume anything. Pro tip: Before you go do you think we have a pretty solid vibe ? Before you go how awkward was this c…
/r/seduction09/04/19 04:49 AM
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Ok so the problem is no female is gonna appreciate the level of effort it took for you to lay poon using this method. More over once they find out this is your game they gonna be mad mad. You’re better off turning this into some kind of Nigerian prince scam cause this ain’t it chief.
/r/seduction09/04/19 04:44 AM
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You’re over thinking it.
/r/seduction09/04/19 04:42 AM
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Lol you don’t get it. You’re asking a hypothetical because you were afraid. Since were on the topic of fear approaching ; What do you have to lose if you approach
/r/seduction09/04/19 03:46 AM
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Do you even approach ? I just see whining here.
/r/seduction09/04/19 03:33 AM
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Reluctant to recommend direct approaches for you as I’m gonna assume you’re not very calibrated. But alas that is the path forward for you. Lingering in the forest of indirect questions pussy will not find.
/r/seduction09/04/19 03:26 AM
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Learn how to approach without approaching.
/r/seduction09/04/19 03:24 AM
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The thing is the vast majority of people on this forum will never have success through pickup. Not because it’s not possible. But because they’re afraid and unwilling to address it. After that comes the acknowledgement that they’re behind and there is a learning curve. I guess what I’m saying is the ego that comes w the community of men who don’t approach yet frequent and discuss a forum about approaching is pretty laughable.
/r/seduction09/04/19 03:23 AM
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Pretty sure you’re trolling cause there’s the answer champ.
/r/seduction08/04/19 08:48 PM
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Do you ask them out? I talk to your mom all the time. Doesn’t mean I’m flirting w her.
/r/seduction08/04/19 08:43 PM
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Thanks for approaching. Now do that 6 to 10 more times. A day. Check back in w your results then.
/r/seduction08/04/19 08:41 PM
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So do you even cold approach or I don’t understand what you’re asking lol.
/r/seduction08/04/19 08:35 PM
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Lol. Sovictim another man can keep you from approaching.
/r/seduction06/04/19 11:11 PM
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Ain’t that the truth. I just made a threat about this bull shit. Lol
/r/seduction06/04/19 07:25 PM
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Lol
/r/seduction06/04/19 07:25 PM
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Remember when you couldn’t walk and talk.
/r/seduction03/04/19 07:22 AM
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This part. Shame 90% of the forum too dumb to ever take this approach.
/r/seduction03/04/19 07:20 AM
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Let her peg you.
/r/seduction03/04/19 06:53 AM
1

What does your cold approach ratio look like rn.
/r/seduction03/04/19 06:50 AM
11

Take your balls out of the jar. And attach your peepee. Then proceed to put it in her vajay jay.
/r/seduction03/04/19 06:48 AM
1

Girls who’s a tv character who may look or act nothing like me but you’d fuck ?
/r/seduction30/03/19 11:35 PM
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Kys.
/r/seduction30/03/19 11:32 PM
2

Here’s a better question; But why should you not ?
/r/seduction29/03/19 11:03 PM
1

They’re not as attracted to you as you are to them. Dm me I run a course on this.
/r/seduction29/03/19 10:59 PM
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In other news stop being a pussy and water is wet. Tonight at 9. Unless your op. Then nothing getting wet.
/r/seduction26/03/19 09:49 PM
2

Say this ; If you keep dancing w me like this I’m going home w you. Thank me later.
/r/seduction23/03/19 08:37 PM
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The problem is for most men a lack of experience talking to strangers is the norm. Socially reclusive with all contact or majority of contact coming from the internet etc. That’s why approaching is even labeled. It’s not normal. Well it is but for a vast majority of men they simply don’t approach.
/r/seduction23/03/19 01:27 AM
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Sounds like you need to hangout w an experienced wing.
/r/seduction22/03/19 12:40 AM
1

Damn op guess you’re a slayer chad now
/r/seduction21/03/19 08:21 PM
1

Umm maybe not on individual levels but taking samples of this across a broad spectrum yes. Yes it is an indicator of how attractive you are. Number one mistake I see on boot camp students have 0 perception of their “personal attractiveness level” And I don’t mean 10 point physical scales.
/r/seduction21/03/19 08:20 PM
1

I drive 30 minutes to game regularly during the week. Is that possible for you?
/r/seduction21/03/19 08:08 PM
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If you saw my life you’d shit yourself. I just put my girlfriends to sleep in our bed and I’m about to eat some sliders and play computer games. What’re you up to ?
/r/seduction21/03/19 08:45 AM
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I’m your dude.
/r/seduction21/03/19 08:15 AM
1

Ok so your problem is there was a formative time to learn this stuff and on some level whether conscious or unconsciously you sabotage yourself. Also as women are attracted to experience and have to use sexual pre selection to observe worthy mates. You should focus on finding out what the major characteristics you exhibit that cause friendzoning. From there begin cold approach.
/r/seduction21/03/19 08:14 AM
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What is your sticking point and what have you tried to fix it
/r/seduction21/03/19 08:10 AM
1

What is your goal and what are you willing to do to get there
/r/seduction21/03/19 08:10 AM
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What’s the issue
/r/seduction21/03/19 08:08 AM
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Cold approach
/r/seduction21/03/19 08:07 AM
2

I have an approach group in la. You should join us sometime.
/r/seduction21/03/19 06:00 AM
3

Right in the vagina
/r/seduction21/03/19 02:48 AM
1

The realization that 80% of people don’t ever cold approach. Like why does this sub forum even exist ? What are you gonna learn from “listening” to other men cold approach. Lol.
/r/seduction20/03/19 04:21 AM
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If you’re a coach and you go to SEA to pickup girls. Please stop coaching. Lol.
/r/seduction20/03/19 02:27 AM
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In one word in what way is she out of your league !
/r/seduction19/03/19 10:27 PM
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Half the guys here have never approached. And the other half are bad. Stop circle jerking each other with placeholders like. Be process oriented. Be result oriented. Make it the goal to get the girl. Not to massage your ego.
/r/seduction19/03/19 11:26 AM
1

College. Supermarket. Coffee shop.
/r/seduction19/03/19 11:25 AM
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Do you even approach bro ?
/r/seduction18/03/19 11:36 PM
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You don’t. You must be gay now. Since apparently your sexuality is only limited to your immediate environment.
/r/seduction18/03/19 11:35 PM
1

So you’re getting cucked and you’re asking if it’s beta to tell her you don’t wanna be cucked no more. Did I get that right ?
/r/seduction18/03/19 09:29 PM
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She thinks your a beta and sees you as fulfillment for the side of her that actually deeply craves real dominance. If you’re content to know your women will never be satisfied w you yes please allow women to court you.
/r/seduction18/03/19 09:27 PM
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Best place to start. Go outside. Yes this works anywhere. Find a public place and look for attractive women to converse with. Your parents didn’t study pickup for years.
/r/seduction18/03/19 09:26 PM
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Women want both. They just know male porn doesn’t appeal to that aspect so they create their own atmosphere. Please try courting women like female porn. Lol.
/r/seduction18/03/19 09:25 PM
1

But forreal who’s mom is this trying to be a bustdown tatiana.
/r/seduction13/03/19 11:08 PM
1

What’s your sticking point. How often do you approach rn
/r/seduction13/03/19 11:06 PM
1

Do you cold approach
/r/seduction13/03/19 11:05 PM
1

First thing you do. Go out and game until you get a solid number. Next thing get two more. Call all your numbers. If you don’t get a date then they weren’t solid. Next begin small contact w your ex. Just text calling comes later. I don’t know circumstances but some ex are; Items. Pets. Plans. Family events Hopefully you’ve been escalating w your “solid numbers” Nows a good time to set up a date. Use your best first date play. While on the date call your Ex girlfriend. Run your best emotional esc…
/r/seduction13/03/19 06:43 PM
1

Lemme ask you this. You’re positive they wouldn’t find you attractive right ? Imagine this; You go up to them. Approach. And literally lead w, “So I’m gonna be brutally honest to you and I want the same thing from you; Hot girls like you are never attracted to guys like me and I’m not bitter about it but I’d like to know if there’s anything I can do to change that ? In your opinion. Of course. Oh and I’m fully aware that this whole conversation so far is probably #22 on some list but I had to co…
/r/seduction12/03/19 02:32 AM
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So basically we could give you advice. But that’s almost as bad as what happened at the concert. Lemme ask you this; What do you wish you’d of done ?
/r/seduction12/03/19 12:14 AM
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Learn how to cold approach in public before approaching in a private area such as a gym, class, etc.
/r/seduction11/03/19 08:15 PM
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You’re either a very lucky natural or you’re not even minimally blessed at self observation. Everyone has sticking points.
/r/seduction11/03/19 06:05 PM
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So in your frame or reality it’s not possible. Then guess what it isn’t. I have 5 ltrs at the moment. All but one is from cold approach pickup.
/r/seduction11/03/19 06:04 PM
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Learn how to approach outside of state. That being said your best approaches will usually be state related. So it’s a question of accepting the mediocrity that does the job or pursuing the thunder that you can’t control.
/r/seduction11/03/19 11:12 AM
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Yooo you’re so pretty I’m forgetting how to talk. Eli5 how do I do this again ? Ya successfully seduce the pretty babe who’s too cool to talk to me and has 300 million insta followers. Jk I know you’re a fraud. It’s all paid traffic. How many poor people from third world countries do you use to fuel your social media empire Kim?
/r/seduction11/03/19 11:10 AM
1

I agree not to overanalyze. Especially as a beginner. You have no references to compare to etc. But in this case I’d focus on her rejections. To do a successful cold approach requires her to imagine that she’s not being picked up. Not being sold on something. And not being tricked. She has to feel like it’s her idea. Easier said then done especially if you’re a sub par cope cel etc. but that’s where you learn game to fill in these gaps. My point is I can tell based on the limited dialogue you pr…
/r/seduction11/03/19 11:02 AM
1

You can find Tokyo specific forums w way more actionable advice then seddit. That being said if you have any game in your native country you can play the foreigner card and that should be enough. What specifically do you think is a sticking point that you have or may come up specific to Tokyo. Might be able to help out.
/r/seduction11/03/19 10:57 AM
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What’s your sticking point and how often do you cold approach rn.
/r/seduction11/03/19 10:55 AM
0

If you’re game is good enough. Logistics don’t fucking matter. At all. Literally she won’t care. That being said you’re gonna hate all these skill less fucks capitalizing off of logistics.
/r/seduction11/03/19 10:54 AM
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IMO when she rejected your date suggestion. It should of been the first indicator she wasn’t taking this seriously. All of the other drama simply icing.
/r/seduction11/03/19 10:52 AM
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If you’re getting what you want out of the situation who cares. If you feel like you’re being shorted ask yourself if it’s impacting your ability to feel confident in your masculinity. If so take the necessary steps. Apply and analyze to every aspect of your life and slowly realize you’ve been a walking talking beta.
/r/seduction11/03/19 10:50 AM
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Go to your local clothing retailer. Ask cute girl who was hired specifically because she’s cute and in her 20’s for her opinion as to whether or not you should be a pretty boy. Or a fuck boy. Proceed to apply game in liberal doses while maintaining the frame that you are actually seriously considering changing your entire worldview and life for a taste of that sweet sweet pie. Collect number.
/r/seduction11/03/19 10:48 AM
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Glad to see more community guys interested in daygame and campus game. I’ve got a online discussion group specifically for this. Pm me if you’re interested !
/r/seduction11/03/19 10:44 AM
1

Different stones sharpen different blades. I’m trying to cut w every thotianna from here to Cork.
/r/seduction11/03/19 10:43 AM
1

Sure what medium do you wanna start on or do we just tag each other on here.
/r/seduction11/03/19 09:56 AM
1

Sure if that’s what your idea of day game is. You can simplify everything down to its base parts. At that point it either works or it doesn’t.
/r/seduction11/03/19 09:50 AM
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Anyways specific to your question I think. Getgood at game. Specifically cold approach pickup. Thank me in a few years if you stay down on it.
/r/seduction11/03/19 09:49 AM
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It’s not that virgins are demonized as much as no one respects them(female virgins aside). And in the west a lack of respect for your group usually equates I guess now a days to being “demonized”.
/r/seduction11/03/19 09:48 AM
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Learn daygame.
/r/seduction08/03/19 01:48 AM
2

Hit me up. I have a very large SoCal lair of experienced puas. Always looking for older experienced wings. Cheers.
/r/seduction05/03/19 08:04 PM
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After sex; With a girl I know or has indicated she wants casual. I’ll still take the time to anchor another meet. It just won’t be a date and will instead be to lay. In your situation sounds like you maintained contact between your first lay and now ? You just ask her. Sounds like you’re apprehensive to suggest round 2.
/r/seduction05/03/19 08:04 PM
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Small town right ? Other Hetero sexual males there ya ? Societal norms and a “way of doing things” right ? You don’t need an exposure program. I believe it’s called being friendly.
/r/seduction05/03/19 08:01 PM
1

There is a chance*
/r/seduction05/03/19 07:59 PM
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It’s a choice you can make. She has evidently expressed that she doesn’t respect or see you as high value enough for exclusivity. Since you’re clearly not on board for this I would suggest immediately pursuing other women. And there is a hands this will convince her to reconsider exclusivity. That being said the mere fact youre still considering a girl who’s disrespected your masculinity to this point is an indicator to me of your self worth and skill level. So id definitely suggest avoiding gir…
/r/seduction05/03/19 07:59 PM
1

If you’re not at the point where you can reasonably future project a style and gauge with reasonable accuracy wether or not it is applicable for your current level. Chances are she can tell you’re faking it and there is no bigger turn off. Learn solid game. That is the first step of “game”.
/r/seduction05/03/19 07:57 PM
1

I have a daygame approach group. I think you’d learn a lot. Shoot me a pm.
/r/seduction01/03/19 07:26 AM
1

^ this is exactly how she was using you. My friend I hope someday w more knowledge you return to this post and share in the joy of naïveté.
/r/seduction01/03/19 04:06 AM
1

She either wanted you. Or was using you. Did she want you ?
/r/seduction01/03/19 03:47 AM
1

What kind of approach did you do. And why in your opinion do you think it led to the creep shaming. At what rate is this happening for us to refer to it as a sticking point
/r/seduction01/03/19 03:43 AM
1

She was using you.
/r/seduction01/03/19 03:41 AM
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I imagine she’s thinking something like this; “My male friend is acting weird. Keeps getting close to me some sort of way. I even friend zoned him. Help?
/r/seduction01/03/19 03:09 AM
1

Let’s start w creep shaming can you rephrase this. What is your sticking point regarding creep shaming
/r/seduction01/03/19 01:30 AM
0

What’s your sticking point?
/r/seduction28/02/19 08:03 AM
0

You don’t have a formula for seduction. You’re getting tons of numbers and no dates. The problem is your formula.
/r/seduction26/02/19 09:56 AM
1

If you’re serious about this as a sticking point and not a troll shoot me a pm.
/r/seduction26/02/19 07:29 AM
1

Shoot me a dm I’ve got a couple of frames I can send you that will take you from A to Z with your dates.
/r/seduction19/02/19 07:05 AM
3

Good idea. I’m keen, room for one more ?
/r/seduction19/02/19 03:27 AM
3

For most guys living w mom is a dlv. In your case it’s a dhv. Unless it’s not and your mom is unbearable then yes obviously you’ll be cognitively dissonant because you’re being forced to provide for something.
/r/seduction19/02/19 12:48 AM
1

^ these are all one off lines. Feel free to lmk if you need complete conversational frames to go along with them.
/r/seduction19/02/19 12:36 AM
0

“You don’t get spanked enough” “You better stop” “Someone’s going to get the wrong idea if you keep it up” “You’re doing it wrong, you’re still clothed” “Let me see your kitty next” “Damn and we were doing so well” “-2”
/r/seduction19/02/19 12:35 AM
2

Next time you order a cup of coffee and she drops one of these ioi’s hand her back the receipt and casually say, “You forgot your number.”
/r/seduction19/02/19 12:30 AM
1

Basically you’re just rationalizing the other big fear you have. That no one likes you and you’re a nobody. Either of these realities is as true as you, the one in control, permits.
/r/seduction17/02/19 07:09 PM
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Sounds like you need to find a lair or online group of other guys at a similar level as you to help elevate your game. Helps when you see other people get results or break through your sticking points. On the humble brag in the op. Obviously positive attributes are extremely subjective. Doesn’t matter what anyone else thinks if your own perception is negative. Shoot me a dm if you’re interested in a pickup group. Cheers !
/r/seduction17/02/19 07:08 PM
2

Dig the content bro. Where you located ?
/r/seduction16/02/19 07:55 PM
2

Try daygame next. Less pressure and it seems like you don’t need the crutch night game provides to chat up a bird. Also I’m a big supporter of the daygame rule. Daygame for a veteran pua will always net your best results.
/r/seduction16/02/19 07:51 PM
1

Pssssst cold approach
/r/seduction16/02/19 03:55 AM
1

Depends on her level of respect for you. Below a certain threshold you’re an asshole. Above a certain you’re an asshole; she fucks
/r/seduction16/02/19 03:43 AM
1

Hey bro I was once in your situation. Now I’ve got a decade of experience cold approaching in the game. Spin plates constantly and have over 300 lays. Feel free to shoot me a dm. Also as an Asian male be weary of who you seek coaching from.
/r/seduction16/02/19 12:40 AM
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To get laid without your open place. Have a really tight inner game frame. Also be confident enough sexually to fuck in public. Or Have tight foundational game to the point you’re reaching emotional and verbal non verbal anchors and her interest level is just so ridiculously high you can close anywhere. Etc.
/r/seduction15/02/19 07:54 AM
1

Hit me up. Fix this ASAP
/r/seduction15/02/19 07:52 AM
1

Hey bro I got into pickup coaching specifically to help out guys like you. Feel free to shoot me a dm.
/r/seduction15/02/19 07:52 AM
1

Hey bro I specialize in 30+ game. Hit me up regularly have girlfriends 18-22.
/r/seduction15/02/19 07:51 AM
1

Two are in a relationship w me so there’s that.
/r/seduction15/02/19 07:49 AM
1

About losing my mind.
/r/seduction15/02/19 07:49 AM
1

Honestly ya.
/r/seduction15/02/19 07:49 AM
1

Tell us about the interaction before the number close. If you’re losing in the time bridge. It’s your approach.
/r/seduction14/02/19 04:25 AM
2

Same as any other aspect of the game. Identify winning. And win.
/r/seduction12/02/19 10:54 AM
1

Well for me. If I’m playing games it’s like, “Girl if you don’t grab your girl and get in the car rn.... You can Uber back to my house.” But your mileage may vary.
/r/seduction12/02/19 12:10 AM
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I’m looking to die a man at peace. Knowing I turned the tide of inceldom and truly made America great again by helping your average frustrated trump achieve greatness. If even for that brief moment where he prematurely ejaculates during his first threesome ever. MAGA
/r/seduction11/02/19 11:58 PM
2

Don’t try to copy paste the formulas you see on tv and in the media. Instead try to figure out the shows “dating logic” or it’s “sexual marketplace morality”. From here take the parts that apply to you and slot the types of girls you’re approaching into the appropriate categories. Pua pro tip: Use a popular female archetype ie ; Rachel from friends and let the banter run wild.
/r/seduction11/02/19 10:27 PM
0

I have over 100 threesome lays using this method. Shoot me a dm.
/r/seduction11/02/19 10:21 PM
2

Daygame college campus Thursday for potential dinner dates. Also a good warmup if you shoot blanks; For the club.
/r/seduction11/02/19 10:20 AM
4

Didn’t read all the comments. Avoid online dating. You’ll rely on it as a crutch. Understand most people can’t and won’t go solo. Learn how to push through it or get someone to help you be accountable. If you’re interested in an online pickup group feel free to pm me.
/r/seduction11/02/19 10:19 AM
1

Hey bro if you’re being honest about having recently taken a boot camp W Tod. I’d like to offer you a free trial Skype session. If you don’t double your results I’ll give you two. Cheers.
/r/seduction11/02/19 09:59 AM
1

Be someone of value. Plenty of attractive people who do nothing but take. Learn to recognize value and how to provide it but be weary of overindulging in the favors for favor.
/r/seduction11/02/19 09:56 AM
1

Pm me for the cheat code to this.
/r/seduction11/02/19 09:52 AM
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Sounds like your initial perception of the types of women are wrong. Or you’re not screening in advanced. After you’re at the skill level where you’re no longer worried about maintaining the interaction you should use that time to future project the interaction and begin figuring out what kind of plate she is. In-depth full length text could be written on the definition of manipulative but more to your point you should heavily screen for sluts. Also temporary sluts are an option. These include v…
/r/seduction07/02/19 11:32 PM
2

Campus. Mall. Walmart. Only limitation is in your mINd
/r/seduction06/02/19 10:33 PM
1

Warm up the conversation w coffee or desert. Then continue the spark in the car. Yadig
/r/seduction06/02/19 10:33 PM
1

If you’re a newbie. You can avoid large crowds. Often times to a noob. The biggest obstacle isn’t even the girl ya dig. Lol. But if you’re intermediate or past the initial calibration level ; Stop giving a fuck. Most people are amazed at cold approach irl. Even if they’re not they will still respect the courage. And anyone hating is probably a seddit troll.
/r/seduction06/02/19 10:32 PM
4

If a girl is down. And I mean really down. She doesn’t play no games. So considering this one playing Pac-Man w you. I would consider it mandatory for you to play games on the next dame who you think is “down”. Then update us
/r/seduction06/02/19 10:30 PM
1

Everything about being a tour guide and or sales is E X A C T L Y applicable to cold approaching women. They’re interchangeable.
/r/seduction03/02/19 07:49 PM
1

Hey bro interested in the group. Invite please!!
/r/seduction03/02/19 07:38 PM
2

Yes. It is almost entirely a personality trait. A hot dumb guy is not as attractive as a self aware, not self deprecating*, average looking smart guy. People who have too much privilege in our shallow world often times lack the personal depth to see other world views. Phrased another way. Attractiveness comes from understanding both the beautiful and the ugly in the world. By encompassing this duality we begin to see the possibility of making everything more.
/r/seduction11/12/18 09:05 PM
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