Hi there

Thanks to this community and other changes I made in my life 3 years ago, I'm far more confident with people and women in general.

I'm a 30 y/o, rather tall and fit, I lift 3-4 times a week, I make enough money to live decently. I live in major city with a lot of activities. On Photofeeler, I think I have good marks. Women, and even some men said I'm cute (or handsome), clever, funny, etc... (end of semi-bragging). So in theory, dating would be not that hard.

But I have some problems dating and meeting someone I would want to live with (or at least have a decent connection). I live near my gym and my workplace (like both 5 minutes away). I don't go out so much (I often work late, till 22h or more, and I'm tired). I have not that many friends, although I have a lot of acquaintances. I think I'm rather introverted and shy, but far less than 3 years ago. I can be very confident in parties even I don't know all the people in there.

For now and since the beginning of my dating life I exclusively rely on dating apps, with some success, but not that much (didn't have a date since December, and my last relation ended in November).

I "tried" daygame and nightgame. I said "tried" in "quotes" because I did maybe 3 nights out alone trying to speak to people (and women) and approach women during the day, some years ago, and nothing since, even I know I could do it again.

I'm attracted to gym girls, and I know some of my gym coaches are singles (I saw them on Tinder, and I think they saw me too), but I don't know if they are interested or just polite with me (I don't speak to them that often).

So, I'm a little bit lost. I think I need to expand my social circle, go out more on meetup or else, go to bars alone and doing some daygame even it's frightening (at least for me).

All constructive advices are appreciated.

Sorry for the long post and if it's a bit confuse (it is in my head, so...)

PS : english is not my first language, sorry :)