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Red Pill Theorytherainydayman/r/TheRedPill01/10/16 04:00 PM
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Starting from the bottom now we here mate. The deeper you get the easier you bounce with the fall. Sleep enough (you need energy, even of you spend first days only sleeping) Cut bad habits (video games, smoking, drinking, porn) Do something to feel like your day wasn't wasted (lifting, reading, learning things, cooking) Your emotions are something you feel, if you feel like you're a piece of shit then prove yourself that you aren't one Fuck the bitches, fuck your parents, fuck the world, we live…
/r/askTRP04/05/17 05:43 PM
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Anger phase is the start. Discipline is what will get you to the top. It's boring ? It's hard ? Bitch of course it is. But you do it anyway and others wouldn't.
/r/askTRP22/01/17 01:38 AM
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And now he's angry and getting shit done, good job mate.
/r/TheRedPill13/01/17 08:42 AM
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This already exist, its incredibly hard to compete with, it won't be as easy as it seems.
/r/askTRP29/12/16 01:28 PM
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Those girls are talking like this to EVERY OTHER GUY : prove them you are better than them, you have options, you are busy and you cannot waste time over the internet. If she's REALLY into you, she will try to get to you. Last time I met a girl over the internet and she was interesting and I knew she had a lot of orbiters it went like this : 1- Meet, get "close" (flirty sexual shit) -> she wants more and she knows you're better than the other guys (you have to be jacked and good looking tho) 2- …
/r/askTRP29/12/16 01:27 PM
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Read sidebar, ask questions here if you havd some. If you just want to discuss go PM people.
/r/askTRP03/12/16 06:56 PM
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Reward system. To do what you actually really want to do, you have to do the things you HAVE to do but don't like first (like homework I suppose). Honestly, if you force yourself to do it long enough, you'll like it.
/r/askTRP02/12/16 06:06 PM
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I'm exactly the same as you. I'm currently fixing this : - use the "leading effect" for social interaction : I asked a guy if he wanted to do some poker, we ended up organizing a poker party with the class. - help people for their work during class so you can socialize with them which will lead to more social options in the future. Do this with girls and you will know when they are attracted or not quite fast, you just have to escalate then. - Your perception of "connection" seems emotionnal, I …
/r/askTRP23/11/16 11:25 AM
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Time to get out of anger phase mate, you're being completly ridiculous.
/r/askTRP06/11/16 10:57 AM
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Doc asap.
/r/askTRP06/11/16 10:55 AM
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That's the physical aspect, there are others such as social and mental.
/r/askTRP06/11/16 10:51 AM
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You might idealize her and as soon as you realise she isn't as great as you think she is you get bored.
/r/askTRP06/11/16 10:50 AM
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IT school, full of betas : By yourself : * lift * read * basically do everything listed by TRP to improve With others : * lead (school projects, class organisation, decisions) * watch them as kids, talk to them as men, it's fun to see their mistakes (especially with girls) * be the best in and out of work, you'll be respected, some will ask for help * socialize about the school and the schoolwork so you don't feel alone
/r/askTRP06/11/16 10:33 AM
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How about using the sadness and pain to be productive and/or lift ? Can't a remember a time when I was more productive than when I was angry/sad about my breakup.
/r/askTRP06/11/16 08:40 AM
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Let's talk in private message so I can understand your personnality correctly and give the needed advices.
/r/askTRP05/11/16 08:06 PM
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"Bye." Full ghost Stay stoïc You knew AWALT
/r/askTRP31/10/16 09:20 PM
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Do searches about BPD. What I can say from my experiences : Huge sex drives (often want to be dominated) Emotionnal rollercoaster Huge fear of abandonment (permanent doubt and trust issues) Self-harm (from injuries to suicide attempt) Sex was great, shit tests were almost permanent. Don't even try if you aren't ready to be perfectly stoic and have a perfect frame (even when she says she's going to kill herself). She will use any weakness you show against you. It's useless to blame her for her be…
/r/askTRP31/10/16 09:05 AM
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Also in the IT field. Looking for coworkers : Schoolwork IT events Internet (projects, forums) Subject : IT stuff, projects, socialize for future work. Looking for friends : Hobbies Gym/Sport Parties Subject : Current activity, transition to your tastes/any subject really and socialize/offer to hang out later. Looking for girls : Cold approach Hobbies Gym/Sport Parties Subject : Current activity/Her, transition to tastes/infos about her and offer to meet later (drink, lunch, bowling...)
/r/askTRP30/10/16 09:31 AM
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Don't waste time on snapchat and other social media bullsit Eat well Sleep well Tell your family you have to help yourself to help them after and stop worrying No contact with girls or only during your relax time but care, relationships take time Reward your hardwork by some breaks to keep you sane Do your mission, everything else is secondary
/r/askTRP30/10/16 09:21 AM
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Your frame will fit with what is natural for you, rebuilding a different frame is long and you will fail more than once because it won't be on point. So it's up to you. You can approach girls by being funny too.
/r/askTRP30/10/16 09:00 AM
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First try to help him : * Talk to him about the good old days. * Ask him if everything is alright, he seems strange/sad/angry. * Tell him he changed, you and other people noticed and want the old him to come back. * Invite him to some activites you would do together before. * Try his current activities, get into "his world" so you can get him out of it easier (being closer like before) If he denies it, prove him he changed and keep offering help. Still denies it ? Confront and explain the issues…
/r/askTRP30/10/16 08:56 AM
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Kinda, but overplaying it make it obvious and they smell it. Just act like you don't care that much about her/tinder dates instead of caring too much about your time.
/r/askTRP29/10/16 08:30 PM
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Pretty much. The first asking was fine, just repeat it another time under another angle to be clear if you don't have any clear answer but being pushy ("not losing time") is risky because it might be difficult to fit with your frame/SMV and/or scare the girl.
/r/askTRP29/10/16 08:04 PM
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Search the terms which you don't feel like knowing (or not enough), you will have a lot to read.
/r/askTRP29/10/16 05:58 PM
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Gut feeling is right, she probably tried to use you for validation : * talking about "her issues" * not talking about meeting in person and potentially avoiding the subject MAYBE she didn't understand you wanted to meet and got freaked outseeing you didn't want to waste time (might sound like someone who wanna fuck and dump fast, it triggered the "I'm not a bitch" mode). BUT if you are really fucking attractive to her, she wouldn't want to waste time either. So about what you "did wrong"... not …
/r/askTRP29/10/16 05:51 PM
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Not sure if you can really stop the hate but you can definitly use it. Whenever you feel angry just lift or do something really challenging and visualize the bitch while you do it, think about what she did, what she does, it will give you a huge boost. I actually lift better when I think about the crazy bitches I met. You end up seeking for those moments instead of fearing them, you dominate them and that's how they pass.
/r/askTRP29/10/16 05:33 PM
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It is a good idea, don't get oneitis, don't try to get back into LTR.
/r/askTRP29/10/16 07:43 AM
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"Hi" Be who you are (funny you said). Finish by "going to X this day, wanna come ?" She comes. Escalate. Fuck. Hard uh ?
/r/askTRP29/10/16 07:31 AM
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Wowowow. The redpill never teached anyone to be emotive. Neither to get bored. Neither to do thing for instant reward. WHAT THE FUCK ? First thing I learned here was : * Control your emotions * Get busy and do productive shit * Work alot, it pays off So either we didn't read the same sub, or you have A LOT of work to do mate. Edit : I'm also a programmer and I'm coding way better since TRP.
/r/askTRP29/10/16 07:23 AM
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You know what you want from life, you know what your mission is, so do what you need to do. If you do everything to get to your goals, are in great shape and you arr attractive there won't be any problem. You are on your mission, why would people opinion would matter ? You do what you have to do, that's it. Who the fuck are those people to judge you ? The little bitch always chitchatting and never working ? The nerd who never do his work and play videogame all day long ? Come on you are (or will…
/r/askTRP29/10/16 07:16 AM
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Not living in an English country and reading books in English.
/r/askTRP29/10/16 07:02 AM
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Yeah seems fine if he likes getting girls and you talked about that, still he has to trust you first, something chill to become his bro might be better before being his wingman imo.
/r/askTRP29/10/16 06:47 AM
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Yeah whatever the activity is tbh.
/r/askTRP28/10/16 12:03 PM
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"Same shit mate, here's my number in case you wanna chill a bit, i don't know... do you like bowling ?"
/r/askTRP28/10/16 06:10 AM
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If you shared anything which you both have interest in just start from there : "what's your number we could go to that club/football match/concert someday"
/r/askTRP27/10/16 11:04 PM
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Lift when angry.
/r/askTRP27/10/16 10:59 PM
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Well plate and upgrade or not when screened.
/r/askTRP26/10/16 05:22 PM
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I hate some, I love some, I don't consider some, as every human on earth.
/r/askTRP26/10/16 06:54 AM
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THIS IS AN SJW BULLSHIT ALERT, ESCAPE RELATIONSHIP AS FAST AS POSSIBLE, HER FRIENDS HAVE BLUE HAIR, IS OVERWEIGHT AND THINK SHE GETS RAPED BY MEN WHEN THEY SAY HELLO.
/r/askTRP26/10/16 06:46 AM
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Did you give her your point of view about anything linked to N-count or sluts ? The acting might just be a way to seem like a good girl to get what she wants from men, consciously or not. Which signs are you talking about ?
/r/askTRP26/10/16 06:43 AM
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There is no such things as becoming intelligent. You can have knowledge, you can be reactive, but what does "being intelligent" mean ? Anyway. Low grades ? Work harder. Low knowledge ? Read on the subject, read articles on random wikipedia page, do some searches. Low social skills ? Go bold, get rejected and repeat differently until you dont. I'd say "intelligence" for me is two things : - Memory : pure knowledge - Liking ideas and knowledge together / recognizing patterns Example : talking to a…
/r/askTRP25/10/16 07:11 AM
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Yes, can't fucking stand songs about being depressed, being sad and shit. I found a link tho : When I'm doing things that give me dopamine (playing after work, cheatmeal etc) I don't mind the electro with love lyrics and shit. When I'm hard working, doing important, productive things I need things to boost me, to get me angry so I can do the fucking job, there comes rap and more masculine songs.
/r/askTRP23/10/16 07:26 AM
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The problems : You think wayyyyy to much about being a virgin, girls and relationships. You aren't confident. You want to fill the void inside of you with unreliable things such as relationships. The solutions : If you wanna absolutly lose your virginity, do not rush into tinder hoes. Either wait for a good relationship (plate or LTR) to get good and multiple sex times or get an escort. Realise that having sex is having a sausage between two pieces of meat, it's really not that much, if you foll…
/r/askTRP23/10/16 07:20 AM
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Where the fuck is the question mate ? She probably has the feelz for you, do as you want.
/r/askTRP23/10/16 07:00 AM
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Anger phase. AWALT and you knew it. Revenge isn't the way, won't change anything. Meet up, give her, talk or not, leave. No time waste for the hoe, you have other shit to do.
/r/askTRP23/10/16 06:54 AM
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You can't really change that, you can try to be "the old you" but it will seem fake and akward. Think for a second tho : your buddies should accept you for who you are, or ask you why you changed, if everything is okay. Not reject you because you changed. For me this guy is worried that you're becoming an adult and he's not ready. Some options : Tell him you won't change for him but you still enjoy going out with him the same way as before. ("Sweet") Be clear and tell him that you are pissed off…
/r/askTRP23/10/16 06:49 AM
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Looks like IOI to me, talk to her if you're interested ;).
/r/askTRP22/10/16 06:57 AM
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Don't overcome it, embrace it. Look how you changed, look where you are coming from, this should be a motivation boost, those two girls wouldn't talk to you when you were akward and fat right ? Talk to them, say you don't remember them but it's a new school so why not discovering each other ? I'm not excluding they're thinking about the old you and maybe making fun of it but who cares ? You are on your way to be the boss. Will your past life hurt you ? No. Head up, you know who you are and who y…
/r/askTRP22/10/16 06:30 AM
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Same boat here. Find a reason to talk to her and create a conversation from this. Find something you have in common : band t-shirt ? "Oh you like bandname too ?" Help her if she is in need : can't set the weight at the gym ? Help and introduce yourself. "Do you come here often ?" Catch her eyes, smile and go bold : "Was watching you thinking you seem like a cool girl so let's find out"
/r/askTRP22/10/16 06:22 AM
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This is just her showing she is either needy or using yourself for attention/emotionnal tampon, considering it's a LTR it's probably just her feels. She can and probably will overthink this : "is he cheating on me ?" Yadayada. So yes, in a way it's dread game. So you have some options depending on your frame : Strict : you are a busy man, this will never change and she will have to get used to it. Hamster/Dread (will only work for a short amount of time if it's false) : you are a busy man, witho…
/r/askTRP22/10/16 06:12 AM
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Solid advices. Keep in mind that the girl who left said she wanted to marry you when she was feeling emotions, she isnt anymore so stop thinking about her, she won't come back, it was great but it's done, it's not unique, move on. Todo list everyday for the day and another one for mid-long term goals.
/r/askTRP21/10/16 12:36 PM
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Push further, harder Set goals, create challenges Be curious/discover new things and master it Also not "feeling" anything is alright, you (and I since I have almost the same experience as you do) are maybe too much used to dopamine spikes and motivation boost linked to the changes. You don't have to feel great everyday, every seconds, feeling nothing is a fine situation.
/r/askTRP21/10/16 12:25 PM
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No fat chicks.
/r/askTRP21/10/16 05:21 AM
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I'm just sick of the effort Whether it's after I set up a date and I'm excited about it I try to not have any expectations ever but it still sucks. flaked, ghosted, rejected, ignored Some possibilites : You are giving them too much attention/paying during the date, they use you and they leave Your pre-date game (texting I suppose) isn't in correlation with the "real you" (during the date) Your SMV/look is low and you think it's high because of the egoboost TRP is giving you Reading how you descr…
/r/askTRP20/10/16 05:31 AM
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I'm curious tho, keep us updated.
/r/askTRP20/10/16 04:47 AM
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Three possibilities : oneitis : you think she might be special and hiding something but it's your imagination : talk to more girls. you are used to fucked up/others relationships (BDP girls ?) and you don't recognize the pattern you know so you feel lost : you might find out what a sane girl is. She is hiding something : you'll be able to find out what it is soon. You will see which one it is when meeting her, so just do it.
/r/askTRP19/10/16 06:21 AM
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You don't decide to change for girls, the girls come with the change. If you really changed physically and mentally then you should see a difference, if you don't there are 2 possibilites : - you changed but you don't act accordingly : you seem fake. - you think you changed but in fact it's only self-persuasion and ego-boost. Figure out which one is it and work on it. Also keep in mind that the huge motivation boost that comes with the changes isn't lasting long, but the effects on your life do.…
/r/askTRP17/10/16 04:25 AM
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The more you will meet those emotions, the less they will affect you. Understand why you feel in a way, and fix the problem. Example : Euphoric because a girl is talking to you -> you give too much fuck about her, care about neediness, talk to others. You have to get out of you comfort zone, push yourself and understand your pain, not only experience/avoid it.
/r/askTRP16/10/16 12:11 AM
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You answer whenever you want to, if you want to, and if she doesnt't like it she can go talk to somebody else. This will tell you two things : if she really gives a fuck about you and if she's going to be submissive in the future.
/r/askTRP16/10/16 12:04 AM
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A set schedule with everything you must work on Long and short term objectives Do the work Get what you deserve
/r/askTRP11/10/16 11:30 AM
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She's trying to get you back by your feelings, and that's why you're hesitating. Now try a different way of thinking : without your emotions, pros and cons. What was good, what wasn't. Compare. Choose. Also, you might consider working on yourself mentally : it seems like you NEEDED her during your little depression after the tests. You also NEEDED her to send you bigger messages. It really seems like your feelings got the best of you : You don't NEED her, you HAVE her. Asking her to text more or…
/r/TheRedPill28/09/16 06:28 AM
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I also recommend reading "Models : Attract women through honesty", by Mark Manson. Started reading it earlier this week, there is something he calls "The three fondamentals" : Creating an attractive lifestyle / Honest Living, which can be linked to Action and Appearance: Do what you must to feel good both in your head and in your body and pursue your goals. Overcoming your fears and anxiety / Honest Action, which can be linked to Action: Stop being dishonest with yourself, be bold and do what yo…
/r/TheRedPill18/09/16 12:41 PM
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