| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 33 | Why I love being single on Valentine's day | QUEEN SH*T | thesleeplesss | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/20 02:34 AM |
| 24 | Conflicted about a friend | SEEKING ADVICE | thesleeplesss | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/03/20 05:39 AM |
| 11 | Should I start dating or keep focusing on my education and career | SEEKING ADVICE | thesleeplesss | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/19 05:54 AM |
| 2 | Disappointed that a friend is brainwashed | thesleeplesss | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/01/20 05:16 AM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 5 | What does this even mean?Wait, you said you wouldn't want him to "waste" money on you? Why? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/08/20 03:02 AM |
| 2 | Conflicted about a friendThat's so true. I never saw it as abuse, but I can see that it was now. I would never allow a stranger to speak to me the way she did, but somehow I thought she deserved a pass for it. Looking back, it's sad that I actually considered her a good friend despite the way she treated me. You're definitely right about people like that having loose morals and talking trash as soon as you're blunt with them too. We never had any huge fights or arguments, but she would "jokingly" call me awful names whe… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/08/20 02:57 AM |
| 2 | Conflicted about a friendI actually started asking myself the same question after making this post and we're definitely not as close anymore. We don't see each other very often anymore, because I started spending more time working and with my high value friends. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/08/20 02:24 AM |
| 12 | I’m trying my best not to lose my shitHe probably has a kid with her. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/20 12:04 AM |
| 20 | I’m trying my best not to lose my shitWhy? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/20 12:02 AM |
| 34 | Oral is Not equalityAgreed. I've never wanted to give one, never have, and never will. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/06/20 07:54 AM |
| 8 | My dream HVM (Carey Hart, Pink’s husband )I don't think I'm with you on this one | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/06/20 09:04 PM |
| 41 | Good luck, sis.I wish all women would realize that changing a man is always a lost cause. They're unappreciative and stubborn. If I'm feeling charitable, I buy a friend groceries or volunteer at a women's shelter. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/06/20 09:19 PM |
| 74 | 19yo dating a 30yo who still lives with parents...Gross, he's 31!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/06/20 04:27 PM |
| 50 | Some Scrotes Need to Look in the Damn MirrorWhy is this so accurate?! 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/05/20 09:06 AM |
| 8 | El oh el.What a loser. What was he thinking when he sent the foot picture? I hate feet. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/05/20 09:00 AM |
| 47 | Getting a UTI just reading this 🤢Oh fuck no. She needs to leave. This can't be the first time it's been dirty. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/05/20 07:08 PM |
| 23 | Well, Sir, it tells me that your girl is a clownsexual 🤡🤢 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/05/20 06:02 PM |
| 81 | Guy keeps spreadsheets and rates sex with his GF....didn’t fit in the screenshot but he also has spreadsheets of all his ex’s too 🤮🤮🤮 why oh whyyyyHoly shit 🤢 Notice that this psychopath is 10 years older than her. This is why he targeted her. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/05/20 04:03 PM |
| 40 | UPDATE: The scrotes got mad because I commented “men will slide that age of consent as low as possible if we let you” on a post full of men who were arguing why the age of consent should be lowered. Now I’m banned for “pushing a misandrist narrative” that was responding to men’s ACTUAL COMMENTS 😒It should be at least 21 everywhere. How is it okay for grown ass men to date girls who aren't even old enough to drink?!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/05/20 07:00 AM |
| 21 | Same girl asking when to send nudes. I cannot make this up 🤡🤦🏻♀️LT=Long term I agree. The sad part is I don't think she would even mind if he doesn't make it exclusive. She seems so infatuated with him that she'll agree to whatever he wants. She's even okay with him asking for nudes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/05/20 09:19 PM |
| 12 | Can HV traits cancel out LV traits?All of the LV traits you listed are actually NV traits, not to mention that the age gap alone is worth breaking up over. You're closer to his son's age than you are to his! Speaking of which, yelling at children is not okay. This is not a minor flaw and it wouldn't surprise if he's violent behind closed doors. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/05/20 12:45 AM |
| 7 | Planned to go horse riding Thursday. First date. Did I over react?No, always trust your intuition. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/05/20 06:06 PM |
| 8 | I saw this in another group, would you consider this a LVM? Or it’s not his fault?This is absolutely a LVM. He's bad with money and spineless. He was young, but he wasn't a child so he doesn't get a pass from me. I'm 21 and I've been able to say no to my mom for years. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/05/20 08:43 PM |
| 6 | Wifey Level Request from a Standard BF PackageThat'd be unacceptable coming from a husband too tho. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/05/20 08:29 PM |
| 7 | Open box of condoms? How to handle?Why are you already sleeping with him? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/05/20 05:43 AM |
| 11 | Respecting religions that degrade women.You're right. No religion is above criticism and I've responded to a post about christianity before too. This post just happened to be about Islam and I agreed with the OP. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/05/20 12:43 AM |
| 18 | Respecting religions that degrade women.I agree with you. I don't know why anyone thinks religion is above criticism. I think it's fine to criticize ideas, not people. I grew up Christian, and I don't know much about Islam, but I have a bone to pick with any mysoginistic religion. I've read the entire Bible, and I don't respect it all. I can't stand it when people disregard all of the horrific sections and cherry pick the harmless parts to defend it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/05/20 12:04 AM |
| 23 | Haven’t you been paying attention? I’m not interested!This is vile. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/05/20 08:07 PM |
| 52 | this porn sicko wants everyone to know he controls her, she's worried he will leave her if she doesn't obey.Poor woman. I highly doubt he's not beating her :( | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/05/20 01:10 AM |
| 3 | queen stuff, TAYLOR SWIFT NEEDS TO STOP GETTING HATEI completely agree. I got really into Taylor Swift when I was in middle school and even though I'm more of a radical feminist now, I think she's a good influence. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/05/20 07:11 PM |
| 3 | My female friends don't like my the guy I'm interested inYes. Hating your friends when they look out for you is pickmeisha behavior. It seems like you're already attached enough to defend his honor even though you haven't even started dating yet. I don't understand why it's getting to you so much. My friends and I disagree about guys' looks all the time and it's a non issue. I appreciate it when they tell me that a guy I think looks flawless isn't attractive to them because it puts things in a different perspective. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/05/20 04:17 PM |
| 17 | And here is an example of a scenario FDS has trained me for...any newbies care to list the reasons why I will not be responding to this text?Eww because he's desperate and doesn't even bother hiding it. Who is this? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/05/20 07:04 AM |
| 23 | Lvm tells pickme to love herselfOuch I hope she actually took the advice tho | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/05/20 02:19 AM |
| 8 | What’s the difference between a LVM and a NVM?It's short for negative value | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/20 12:05 AM |
| 8 | Red flags immediatelyOoh how do you go about asking or insinuating that in a classy way? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/05/20 12:29 AM |
| 10 | So if I get correctly a girl either swallow cum or rub it on her face,while being grateful for it????Wtf this is nauseating. So if I don't suck dick am I not making love?! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/05/20 12:43 AM |
| 8 | “Can we be fwb after quarantine?” NoWhat a moron😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/05/20 12:03 AM |
| 57 | Husband is upset that his wife had a double mastectomy due to breast cancer, is masturbating to big-breast porn, and is pushing her to have breast implant surgery DESPITE THE FACT THAT SHE IS NOT IN REMISSIONThis is so sickening. I read stuff like this every day but male depravity never ceases to disturb me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/04/20 07:51 AM |
| 10 | LVM husband showers in the morning, gets in bed at night and sits his smelly ass on the pillows. AITA tells her she is overreacting.Yeah he probably was, but maybe they weren't living together then? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/04/20 07:26 AM |
| 18 | How to I regain my dignity after texting my ex?Block his number and pamper yourself! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/04/20 06:56 AM |
| 74 | Woman (19F) is dumped by her BF (19), who "wanted space to figure out if he loved her". She immediately texts & kisses another guy 2 days later. BF comes crawling back, is desperate to "get the love of his life back". LET THIS BE A DAILY REMINDER TO TAKE ZERO SHIT FROM MEN!What a loser😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/04/20 06:25 AM |
| 12 | I used to think my boyfriend was HV but now I’m not so sure. I need to know if I’m being too harsh.Yikes he's 35!!! Wow, I was not expecting that, he's not changing for you. This is a LVM with no ambition or drive. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/04/20 07:07 PM |
| 11 | Would you give an unattractive guy a chance?No | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/04/20 03:04 AM |
| 13 | Christian men freak me outI'm with you. I grew up in a Christian household(well only my mom was religious but I was still forced to go to church) and they scare the living shit out of me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/04/20 11:50 PM |
| 195 | How did he turn this around into his girlfriend’s problem?What a piece of shit. I'd take his money and still expose him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/04/20 03:57 AM |
| 3 | He can make a cup of tea ladies.I'm surprised he's still not off the market!! I've searched high and low for a man who can cook tea LMFAO | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/04/20 11:06 PM |
| 203 | Is this a joke?Oh god, why the hell are women involved with stinky men? She should burn everything he's touched and kick him to the curb. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/04/20 03:38 AM |
| 8 | I nEeD aDvIcEI'd react the same way. She didn't even know if he was in the mood or ask how his day went. To me, she acted like a man and I can't feel too sorry for her. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/03/20 08:51 PM |
| 108 | Am I the only one who is weirder out by this?I've noticed it too and it upsets me so much!!! This is part of the reason men think relationships are all about sex. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/03/20 01:17 AM |
| 19 | FDS Opinions SoughtDon't date hvm you're not attracted to. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/20 11:39 PM |
| 22 | Any real life experience with men changing for the better?Nah they just get better at lying | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/03/20 11:17 PM |
| 4 | Wanted to share a HVM during COViD-18Hmm I'm conflicted about this without any context. How long have you been seeing him? When was this date planned? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/03/20 01:22 AM |
| 6 | When you have to motivate your husband into talking care of his OWN kids and his OWN house. Couple goals🥰Idk but I'm with you sis. I could never degrade myself like that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/03/20 08:09 AM |
| 38 | When you have to motivate your husband into talking care of his OWN kids and his OWN house. Couple goals🥰No fucking way. This can't be real. I'm telling myself this is fake and created by a man. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/03/20 06:49 PM |
| 36 | Disgusting cumbrain would like us to wait until self-isolation is over for petition to shutdown pornhub. Bonus: his display picture is of him with his young baby girl. LVM have ZERO shame.Ewww🤮 Who is having kids with these pieces of shit?!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/03/20 02:52 AM |
| 47 | Would you date a guy who has had sex with hooker or used to date one ?Absolutely not. That is not negotiable. I'd cut off all contact. I wouldn't even associate myself with such a NVM(negative value male). | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/03/20 08:06 AM |
| 11 | Ex's Bestfriend IsOh okay, so then he's totally in cahoots with your ex on this. I don't think you should trust him at all. Imagine you're talking to your ex every time you speak to his best friend because that's who he's reporting back to. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/03/20 05:21 AM |
| 11 | Ex's Bestfriend IsYour best friend is a guy? How long has he been your best friend? It sounds like he's been playing wingman and is better friends with your ex than with you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/03/20 04:04 AM |
| 62 | She speaks the truth. 😂😭Nah they might ask you to be their gf and it's not even on the table for boyfriends for me lol. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/03/20 01:06 AM |
| 32 | Is a HVM worth adusting your standards for?No. Clearly you're crushing hard and want this to work. This is part of the reason we set our standards before meeting someone and we never lower them. You can always raise the bar, but once you lower it you lose muscle and get weaker. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/03/20 07:43 AM |
| 11 | Pickmeisha and her LVM in the wild. This honestly looks like something a mother would say to her TODDLER, not even a teenager. 🤢🤢🤢Ewww so now we're expected to bribe them 🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/03/20 07:03 PM |
| 36 | Rejected For Not Putting OutHow is she a "cockteaser"? She makes it clear that she doesn't want to have sex and enforces her boundaries? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/20 08:23 AM |
| 19 | 30 y/o man baby gets his fee-fees hurt 👶 Last week his profile said "Eeic" and apparently he's feeling some type of way, ladies.Aww poor Eric 😢 don't you know people learn at different speeds?😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/20 04:03 AM |
| 19 | 3 degrees of separation. He's been reported.Ewww of course he's gross and broke🤢 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/20 04:00 AM |
| 9 | Taylor Swift’s new “The Man” video exposes the f*ckboy mindset.I love it!!😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/20 05:55 PM |
| 49 | Found this naked LVM skateboarding towards the local high school...Wtf!? During school hours?!😨 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/20 06:04 AM |
| 8 | My boyfriend is still friends with his exSo what if she looks a little rough? That was mean and doesn't even matter. Men will try to have sex with anything so I don't think that should console you at all. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/20 05:04 AM |
| 25 | Could not help myself, these LVM are so entertaining 😩😂Oh god🤢 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/20 12:05 AM |
| 7 | What do you girls think of starting a business with a man ?That's a no from me sis. Things are gonna get ugly if you break up. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/20 04:55 PM |
| 23 | Stop Smiling So MuchYup. I do not make it easy for men at all, but I laugh and smile so easily around other women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/20 02:10 AM |
| 1 | There is another part to this but I don’t know how to post multiple pics or nest pics! Maybe someone else can find this and post it the proper way in full. Anyway- this is hilarious!I know lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/20 05:39 AM |
| 1 | There is another part to this but I don’t know how to post multiple pics or nest pics! Maybe someone else can find this and post it the proper way in full. Anyway- this is hilarious!I need this porn blocker. What is it? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/20 03:21 AM |
| 49 | I have a chance to get out, but have doubts. Brutal advice?Right now: Swallow your pride and ask your parents for help. Living away from family with less than 1000 dollars to your name is dangerous. In the future: Don't let people borrow money you can't afford to lose. Don't date old men. Work on your resume and interviewing skills. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/20 03:19 AM |
| 156 | Both of those desserts taste eager, stupid and devoid of self respect...Eewww🤢 Interesting how both of those desserts are cheap and low nutritional value junk. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/20 08:15 PM |
| 15 | BREAKING NEWS: Being single is better than being with MOST MENThis is so true!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/20 02:57 PM |
| 11 | Entertaining A LVM?Don't waste your time on him. You'd be enabling him by accepting him as a friend. This is part of the reason why there are so many of these. Do you not have any high value women as friends? Why would you willingly spend time with a LVM? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/20 05:24 AM |
| 12 | Giving back giftsThis is on him. I wouldn't go out of my way to give it back, but I wouldn't keep it if he made an effort to get it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/20 06:15 AM |
| 17 | I’ve never related more to a tweet in my life 🤣Same!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/20 08:29 PM |
| 7 | Story time!How was he strict? Was he controlling? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/20 06:56 AM |
| 6 | Would you date a boring man? Does a boring man = LVM?Hmm I'd need you to define boring. I don't drink, I don't go to parties, and I'm initially shy, and introverted. If there's no connection, I'm probably very boring to a lot of people. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/20 04:34 PM |
| 6 | Know your targets. If you have a special feature, make sure you're accessing the right demographic. He wants to be used. Just fulfill his fantasy.You mean guys with certain fetishes for features that we have? Idk if that's a good idea, I hate being fetishised. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/20 03:05 AM |
| 17 | Help me wrap my head around this post. While reading it I thought I was going to have a stroke.Wtf?! Is he serious? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/20 06:17 AM |
| 15 | Would you stay as friends with a guy after you slept together ?Absolutely not. Get a hold of yourself sis. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/20 04:27 PM |
| 8 | Why you must become HVW in order to attract HVM...But how is she a HVW? You just wrote why you think he's a HVM and idk if I even agree with your logic on that. Can you explain why you think him marrying your mom within 10 days of meeting her shows that he's a HVM? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/20 05:21 PM |
| 15 | Friendly reminder that some women CAN have a FWB and never get emotionally attachedIt's just not a good idea because it's too risky. No one plans to fall in love with their fwb but it happens really often. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/20 09:46 AM |
| 2 | Have you been able to help a good girlfriend get away from a LVM?Oh okay! That makes sense haha | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/20 09:44 PM |
| 1 | Have you been able to help a good girlfriend get away from a LVM?"Looks-wise" he's not way out of her league though. Obviously he's physically attracted to him and she's way younger than him. I hate it when people say this and it's even worse because you call yourself her friend. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/20 09:43 PM |
| 27 | He texted "I love you" after 2 and a half months of dating. Is this a red flag?Why are you traveling for him though? I think that's a red flag. Ldr can only work when he goes above and beyond to put in effort. Remember the sperm travels to the egg. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/20 05:36 PM |
| 43 | When did you say, “I love you,” and how did it happen?He should always say it first. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/20 02:09 AM |
| 5 | I wish we’d all grown up with dads like thisI'm so grateful for my dad. A lot of lvm probably feel threatened by the healthy relationship we have and stay away. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/20 12:20 AM |
| 7 | Don't be Cynthia Lennon, be Yoko OnoNah, I don't want to be like any of these people. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/02/20 04:35 PM |
| 32 | Guys your dating paying for you when you’re with a group?I think he should have still paid. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/02/20 07:37 AM |
| 79 | When will they learn?He really thought you would drop what you were doing to "hangout". Why are they so clueless? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/02/20 11:19 PM |
| 34 | I'm trying to read The New Rules but sis... The mysogyny...Wtf sis, seriously? "Less competition" for you? We don't pit women against each other here. Hvw sure as hell don't compete for men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/02/20 07:21 PM |
| 103 | I'm trying to read The New Rules but sis... The mysogyny...Yeah, I don't agree with the idea of dressing for men at allll. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/02/20 07:17 PM |
| 8 | Boundaries aren't truly boundaries unless crossing them comes with consequences that are enforced.I totally agree! What are are some of the consequences for crossing one of our boundaries? So far I've only been blocking and avoiding men after they disrespect me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/20 06:06 AM |
| 47 | r/tinder is a gold mine for pickmieshas, seriously though, why do they allow men to talk to the like this?Ugh, they're so gross but still get positive reinforcement from pickmeishas🤢 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/02/20 03:53 AM |
| 9 | Fooled some butt ugly online dudes once by sending them pictures of another unattractive woman when they asked for a photo.Why didn't you send a photo of an ugly male instead though? I just don't agree with using other women's pictures at allll. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/02/20 01:42 AM |
| 11 | Does being with someone less intelligent make you a pickmeisha?He doesn't sound dumb at all. It just sounds like he's reserved. Being opinionated and vocal doesn't make you more intelligent than a quiet person. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/20 04:10 AM |
| 23 | Bf yelled at me should I break up with himGet out while you can. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/01/20 02:59 AM |
| 11 | I just said no.Nice!!! I never offer them an explanation when I don't like them either. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/01/20 03:48 AM |
| 15 | On saving sex for marriageI agree with everything you said!!! I'm not religious at all and I'm saving sex for marriage because I don't want sex to cloud my judgement. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/01/20 07:05 AM |
| 4 | Saw a post on MGTOW mocking that we never talk about kids. Well sis what's your opinion on having kids?Wait, you wanna talk about kids to appease MGTOW?!! It's just not relevant. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/01/20 01:44 AM |
| 15 | Never Wear the "No Makeup Makeup" LookHuh why? Why should I wear nothing or go all out? I like minimal makeup looks and I'm not changing my routine to appease men or pickmeishas. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/01/20 01:45 AM |
| 5 | Disappointed that a friend is brainwashedYeah I don't intend on ending the friendship because of it but I definitely lost a lot of respect for her. She probably lost respect for me as well since she's very much against radical feminism. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/01/20 05:33 AM |
| 16 | If MGTOWS think that dating women in their 30s is bad, try being a woman and trying date men at ANY point in their life.I couldn't agree more. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/20 08:23 PM |
| 2 | Weighing choosing my LTR with a LVM, or giving a chance with a very young possible HVMOh no, don't go for older guys either! That's actually probably worse. They're usually gross and stuck in their ways. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/20 05:55 PM |
| 22 | I promise to myself I will never ever have unprotected sex again unless it's with a loving partner in a case where we would both welcome a babyYep, I've also decided abstinence is best for now. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/20 07:01 AM |
| 20 | 'Marry-your-rapist' bill set to be introduced by lawmakers in TurkeyI'd rather die than marry a fucking rapist. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/20 05:22 AM |
| 52 | r/AgeGap grooming teenagers for abuse: 18 yo girl in BDSM relationship with 62 yo man.Disgusting. Why are men so gross? How did he trick her into thinking this is okay? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/01/20 02:53 AM |
| 30 | A blazing red flag I overlookedYesss to all of this. I do so much sleuthing whenever a guy shows interest in me and I know it's kept me from wasting time on so many LVM. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/01/20 09:05 PM |
| 12 | I slept with a friend of mine and now I'm taking this step.Why are you posting this here? This isn't fds style at all and you know it. Everyone here has warned you against delivering that letter but you don't listen. What do you want from us? This is embarrassing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/20 05:07 AM |
| 47 | Am i wrong for ghosting him?Your friend is toxic, he's obviously not looking out for you at all. I strongly recommend ghosting him too. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/01/20 10:37 PM |
| 25 | HVM Energy (and she got the job!)Hmm I was going to say I'm not sure, but now that I've actually given it some thought I actually do have an idea as to why. It's partly because I feel strange calling celebrities HVM. We only know what they want us to know and we have no idea what happens behind closed doors. The main reason though, is probably that Prince Harry looks very similar to a perverted teacher I had in highschool. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/01/20 09:50 AM |
| 43 | HVM Energy (and she got the job!)Idk if I'm in the minority here, but I really don't like this couple. Something seems off about them and I never get HVM energy from Prince Harry at all. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/01/20 08:18 AM |
| 19 | Erm, so how do you actually let them know you are multiple dating without ‘rubbing it in their face’?Huh? Not one person said "just lie" though??? We don't owe men we aren't exclusive with explanations or details. It's that simple. Saying I have other plans isn't a lie at all. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/20 02:09 AM |
| 8 | #JustLVMThingsI wouldn't want to date someone who has the nerve to try this on me, so I'd cancel my plans with them on the spot. He should be trying to impress me and taking me out on dates. Frankly, I'd rather be considered cheap than a dumbass. I'd say something along the lines of, "Sorry but I have to cancel" or, "Hey, I'm sorry to do this but I don't think we're the right fit. I wish you all the best", depending on my mood. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/01/20 09:45 PM |
| 27 | #JustLVMThingsI really want to!!! I give her fds wisdom everytime she asks me for advice but she's in pretty deep. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/01/20 07:33 AM |
| 67 | #JustLVMThingsMy coworker just had a conversation exactly like this when we got off of work. She hadn't eaten all day and he was calling to confirm that she was going over to his place later. She told him yes, but that she was craving a burger and asked him if they could eat first and he said, "Yeah that's fine, grab me a shake and some fries on your way over." 😦😦 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/01/20 06:04 AM |
| 43 | Sorry for all of the DM posts, but the AUDACITY is getting more and more outrageousUgh wtf. He actually thought it was going well too!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/20 11:24 PM |
| 1 | I(22f) always get ghosted.Have you done any of the required readings? Sis you're supposed to refrain from having sex for the first 90 days. This isn't playing hard to get, you're screening him to make sure he's a HVM | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/20 03:27 PM |
| 6 | My boyfriend recently gain 20 lbs and I no longer find him attractive. He still a lot of qualities I like but I can’t be with someone I don’t find attractive. What is a good way to handle this situationIt doesn't matter if it doesn't sound like a lot to you, because it is a lot to her. She said that she's not attracted to him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/20 03:22 PM |
| 6 | My boyfriend recently gain 20 lbs and I no longer find him attractive. He still a lot of qualities I like but I can’t be with someone I don’t find attractive. What is a good way to handle this situationIt's true that he could probably lose it quickly if it bothers him, but there's also a possibility of him gaining even more. I think it's a big deal because she's not attracted to his body after the weight gain and she's uncomfortable bringing it up to him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/20 03:17 PM |
| 8 | I(22f) always get ghosted.Official after 2 dates? That's probably not a good idea. How do you know he's a HVM? You need to do your due diligence and vet thoroughly before even considering exclusivity. I think you're too available Edit: elaborated | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/20 06:25 AM |
| 3 | My boyfriend recently gain 20 lbs and I no longer find him attractive. He still a lot of qualities I like but I can’t be with someone I don’t find attractive. What is a good way to handle this situationHave you noticed any drastic lifestyle changes? Have his workouts or his diet decreased in quality? Ask him about it and make a decision. Twenty pounds is a significant amount of weight in my opinion, and I don't know if I'd stay. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/20 06:13 AM |
| 41 | I've encountered someone who forces his girlfriend to pay into an "idiot jar" every time she "loses an argument." he has exploited her for $750 so far.Hmm let me guess...there's a large age gap between them and he treats her like a child | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/20 05:54 AM |
| 17 | I(21F) need help deciding if I should stay in a relationship with my fiance(28M) or if he's not really committed to mePlease dump him. You've been questioning this relationship on the internet for months now. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/01/20 05:52 AM |
| 46 | Can a guy really have sex with you 20+ times and still have no emotional feeling for you whatsoever?Damn... I can't even imagine how shitty she must feel | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/01/20 01:19 AM |
| 17 | Listen up ButtercupNo, how is it creepy? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/01/20 06:56 AM |
| 18 | When LVM let's you know from jump, they are in fact LVI would appreciate it if they were all this straight forward tho. It would save us all so much time 😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/01/20 06:49 AM |
| 20 | (Opinion) Men take more from women than women take from menI'm not afraid to say I consider this a fact. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/01/20 08:04 PM |
| 16 | Is this worth celebrating now?No. Not even close. This isn't a victory at allll. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/01/20 04:58 PM |
| 53 | Heart breakingWtf. How is he not concerned?! Does he not get a whiff? He shouldn't even scratch his balls around her if they didn't smell foul, but this is beyond disgusting. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/01/20 05:19 AM |
| 49 | No sex until 10k ?Just don't have sex. Don't feel pressured or obligated to do it just because he wants to. They all want to. If he leaves you for it consider yourself lucky because you dodged a bullet. I don't know who told you men have a lot of options, but they don't. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/01/20 07:06 PM |
| 6 | Giving up sorryI know it's not what you want to hear right now, but you need to focus on yourself. Seriously forget men!!! Be kind to yourself, pamper yourself and date yourself. Buy yourself jewelry, chocolates, flowers, whatever you would want a man to buy you. Start journaling, make healthy female friendships, and please get rid of any toxic friends. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/01/20 12:42 AM |
| 9 | No sex in a week and its pissing me off.Or maybe she can find someone who already thinks she's hot??? I'm sure plenty of guys would love to have sex with her | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/20 06:21 AM |
| 3 | The dog testYesss!!! I'm gonna do the dog test on some of my questionable friends too | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/20 03:00 AM |
| 81 | Looking for a New Year's Resolution? Here ya go!My personal favorite is no. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/20 02:40 AM |
| 22 | That's a no for me dogI love your response!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/20 02:37 AM |
| 24 | Should I pay for myself on a trip?He invited you so he should pay for the entire trip. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/20 07:02 AM |
| 8 | Should I drop this guy?Yes. Never accept low effort. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/20 02:32 AM |
| 35 | You “guess”?!? HA! Boy, bye....Yesss your response was perfect!!! I'm definitely taking notes! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/01/20 04:29 AM |
| 20 | Types of guys I absolutely stay away fromAll of these and many more are absolute deal breakers for me. My friends say I'm too demanding, but I don't care, I refuse to make any exceptions and settle for less. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/01/20 01:55 AM |
| 28 | How to date when you’re already in your mid 20s and you have very little dating experience? Lack of it makes me feel like some dumb child.I know this sounds whack, but first you have to work on yourself. You need to stop feeling bad about not having lots of dating experience and embrace it. Confidence is key and something I also have to work on. There's a high demand for you and a short supply (only one of you). | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/01/20 08:53 PM |
| 108 | LEAVE THESE MEN IN 2019I hope she cheered too | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/12/19 08:10 AM |
| 11 | Advice needed - Christmas and commitment.So the same guy who doesn't want the bf/gf label put in 10% effort into Christmas gifts? Sis you know this isn't good for you. Cut the cord now. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/19 06:01 PM |
| 33 | Pickmeishas:How do they find this funny??!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/19 07:42 AM |
| 8 | Would I be acting like a Pick-Meisha if....Yes, very much so. This sounds like wifey shit and I actually wouldn't even do this for a boyfriend. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/19 07:12 AM |
| 10 | Woman dates boyfriend for SEVEN yrs, no ring in sight, boyfriend is "house husband", she is proud that she shares her bank account with him, she's helping to pay his degree, no plans for children, although she wants them and has PCOS, and she does the house work as well.Gross. She might as well call herself his mommy!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/19 10:42 PM |
| 3 | Hanging out with LV brothers.I don't feel any responsibility at all. It's not my fault my LVM brother sucks (I'm 20, he's 25). He still lives at home, my mom does his laundry, cooks for him, cleans for him, dogsits, the list goes on... He thinks men are smarter, funnier, and should always be in charge of women. I've spoken to my mom about it because I thought he was just spoiled and hadn't been enlightened yet. Fuck that. He knows he's full of shit and he doesn't want to change. I refuse to engage in meaningful discussions … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/19 10:39 PM |
| 18 | I really need some advice of if I'm overreacting.You mentioned he was pornsick when you met him, but sadly it sounds like he still is. Please dump him. He's abusive, depraved, and a 31 year old mommy's boy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/19 05:26 AM |
| 28 | CRINGE, sister!What did I just read... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/19 03:25 AM |
| 9 | X-post from okcupid thought you ladies would enjoy, guy posts a bogus age on his profile as a superficiality test"Superficiality test" = I'm broke and old, but that shouldn't matter haha | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/19 08:02 PM |
| 51 | Views on anal sex?I say that's an exit, not an entrance. I find it degrading and would dump any guy who even alluded to doing it with me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/19 07:51 PM |
| 10 | Had an old fling hit me up... I had to inform him I'm no longer entertaining bum ass men who put in zero effort and feel entitled to my time and attention. Never apologize for recognizing your worth!!I wouldn't have responded | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/19 06:48 AM |
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