throughalfanoir Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
2	Online dating will not decline in popularity because women aren’t receptive to approaching or being approached does your definition of "being fun to have around" equal "having sex with you"?	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/06/24 11:38 AM
-1	Online dating will not decline in popularity because women aren’t receptive to approaching or being approached Why would you stick around? Because you value her friendship and her as a person and wasn't only being friends with her as a shot for a relationship?	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/06/24 08:36 AM
4	Online dating will not decline in popularity because women aren’t receptive to approaching or being approached The problem isn't when friends approach, it is when they dissolve the relationship after bring rejected/the woman getting an other partner/the man getting an other partner - because then it is clear that this wasn't a friendship from the man's side in the first place, which is hurtful	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/06/24 05:58 AM
8	“Don’t bother a woman at [location]. She’s just there to [do activity].” context, context, context what is the location? what is the activity? how is her overall vibe? (as in, someone clearly busy with something might appreciate being approached a lot less than someone who us just waiting for time to pass) is she with other people? when you approach, does she react openly or visibly annoyed? etc etc. "don't bother women in public" is a blanket statement with zero nuance. but also, as others have already said, when you approach someone, be ready to deal with the conse…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/01/24 09:14 PM
19	Women who believe their “platonic” male friends aren’t in fact orbiters; why do you think they aren’t attracted to you? number 1 is often that they are taken already connected to that, number 2 is that I'm clearly not their type, looks- or personalitywise (think, all their gfs are skinny and blonde while I'm plus size and dark haired, or all their gfs are more of a calm type while I am always doing sth and moving around, maybe their gfs are the homemaker types while I'm career driven instead - nothing wrong with being either of these, but it's not hard to find someone who is a good friend but lifestylewise we are…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/05/23 12:21 PM
2	Is “I want a smart man” the socially acceptable way of simply saying “I want a rich man”? I mean... Depends on the one saying it tbh. I consider myself to be quite academically intelligent (currently at the tail end of my STEM mastery, going to pursue a PhD, hoping to live as a reasearcher) so I'm looking for someone who is somewhat of an equal. That doesn't necessarily mean pay, I would date an academic researcher or teacher who is paid pennies, if I like them otherwise - what matters is that 1.: they have some kind of a job so they are not just rotting away at home all day 2.: they…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/03/23 06:12 AM
26	Average men gain nothing from being sex positive and against purity culture. fucks around in the early years to gain experience marries the comfortable homemaker type when is ready to settle down This is the behaviour men shame women for (i.e. "riding the cock carousel") while doing the same? (For clarity, I don't wanna take a side on whether either gender does this, I just wanna point out the hypocrisy)	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/03/23 11:12 AM
1	Being single as a man outweighs being in a relationship life expectancy of married vs single men begs to differ also do you think this only applies to men? why?	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/03/23 10:58 AM
5	CMV: You can't claim that women are as capable as men if you support menstrual leave policies pain meds don't work for all people, or they might work for a while but then you build up a tolerance and they don't... (also, the comment you replied to didn't mention it, but period symptoms aren't limited to pain, some get a wide array of other bullshit on top of it, like digestive issues)	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/02/23 01:16 PM
2	CMV: You can't claim that women are as capable as men if you support menstrual leave policies the detail that is commonly missed is that you need a doctor's diagnosis and a paper signed by them to qualify for this leave (and if Spain is anything like other European countries, that's not gonna be easy to get). so it's more like a comparison between a "normal" person and a person with diagnosed IBS who needs to take time off every now and then when their bowels flare up. yes, obviously, this is not going to make them more employable, but the issue isn't necessarily gender-specific more lik…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/02/23 01:08 PM
1	How are men supposed to meet women these days? it is all situation-dependent, people aren't saying don't do these things at all. let's see: I would personally prefer if no guys did this but I am not the majority and I know some of my friends have been picked up this way. There are some key things, mostly: read her! Does she seem like she is open to be approached? If she has headphones on, seems immersed in a book, on a phone call, god forbid talking to someone irl - don't approach them, they are doing sth else. How is her body language after…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/01/23 05:10 PM
-1	It's insane how the other gender refuses to recognize their privilege. I know that argiung with a purge post is pointless but some of the criteria in guys basically amounts to the same that is asked from women when they are asked to not be a landwhale: take care of your physical appereance and health (be somewhat sporty, somewhat low body fat, do basic skincare and hygenie - applies to both genders) I am not even gonna start going into why the rest is incorrect...	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/12/22 10:20 AM
5	Have you ever met a man that you instantly were sexually attracted toward ? Are you me? Lean, kinda rugged, nice cheekbones, dark eye circles are pretty much my type. It helps that I rly appreciate people who style themselves uniquely with some personality which is more common in alternative people And to answer the original question it has happened a few times but nothing ever came of it	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/12/22 08:12 AM
1	You have the opportunity to marry or be married to a billionaire , but you have to become a stay at home wife, would you do it? fuck yes I'd be a volunteer researcher enroll as a student in the university where I want do this so they can call me part of the institute and then just put my life to research literally a dream	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/12/22 07:24 PM
2	Men are more likely to divorce a sick wife. Idk if that has ever been studied but pancreatic cancer (or the associated suffering) absolutely fucks with your brain too and turns you cruel and bitter. Happened to my dad too. (Not relevant to the topic just wanted to mention)	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/08/22 06:03 AM
2	Height statistics from Bumble; Is this your exp in OLD I'd argue that, it's just that for men height is an easily quantifiable metric. For women weight (BMI maybe?) could be one but as weight stigma has been talked about a lot, putting this option on dating apps would be met with a lot of backlash. Nontheless, if this was an option I believe we'd see a similar cutoff at 130 lbs(-ish, 60 kg is generally what I hear)	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/07/22 07:12 AM
6	A cool psychology article about how women underestimate men’s romantic interest in them and men overestimate women’s interest in them. https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/dating-toxic-or-tender/202206/why-first-moves-go-unnoticed Or attractiveness level	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/06/22 05:50 AM
1	The censorship of TRP uses the guise of it being some dangerous extremist ideology to forbid us from discussing what most men experience, and Big Tech has a monopoly on public discourse so men are essentially left with nowhere to vent. Noone's gonna point out that FDS has been private for a while? PinkPillFeminism and GenderCritical got banned just like MGTOW? (I haven't seen FLUS in a while either, and that isn't even radical) Both radical sides are getting the censorship (which is problematic, but unfortunately it is the trend with the mainstream media being controlled by corporate entities which will inevitably lean in the direction of not offending the general public), let's not pretend its just men	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/05/22 07:12 AM
11	Men are shamed for wanting women equally or less attractive than them and acting frustrated when these women act like they are out of their league, yet women act entitled to men far more attractive than them all the time This is a nice way to put it, thank you for finding the right words! I struggle a lot with the idea of being sexualized but this gave me the clarity that yes I do want it, but in the right context (from the right people)	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/04/22 05:04 AM
6	Men are shamed for wanting women equally or less attractive than them and acting frustrated when these women act like they are out of their league, yet women act entitled to men far more attractive than them all the time Yup, a lot of conservative guys going for alternative, liberal girls and conversely, a lot of liberal, weed/alcohol using dudes going for the uptight, conservative girl around me. And then they wonder why it doesn't work out (I mean yes, there surely have been exceptions but usually when people are fundamentally different it's not gonna be a great time)	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/04/22 05:02 AM
2	The basic grievance that young men have -- especially with the advent of dating apps --is that "single" for a woman of childbearing age is not the same as "single" for her male age peer. The "single woman" is still getting her basic physical needs met in a way the "single" guy cannot. if a woman fulfills her sexual needs by ONS/FWBs but a man needs to be in a relationship to have sex then who are these women having sex with?	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/03/22 10:08 AM
6	Do overweight women struggle attracting men? I was chubby and ugly, then turned into a butterface. I do get more attention now, but less than chubby girls with symmetric, pretty faces (also depends on how you carry your weight) sooo... Take this however you'd like	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/03/22 04:27 PM
27	If 90% of men died, and the 10% were average guys, would they be highly sought after? If 90% of men died we'd have bigger problems than "dating" Sperm banks would probably see higher traffic though, provided they function, considering about 45% of the people of working age disappearing would be catastrophic, even if we don't factor in how this being all men affects it	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/03/22 07:57 AM
7	Obesity has decimated the dating market in America. 1 in 4 being overweight isn't that much, as the lower limit for overweight (BMI 25) is pretty easy to reach (for example weight gain after childbirth will easily push someone beyond it, just to say one example that's not that much genetic) 3.5% obesity is very very low	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/03/22 08:26 AM
6	Obesity has decimated the dating market in America. Depends really on how you carry your weight and how much of it is muscle (and how you dress) but I've been 68-69 kg with my 1.69m height (150lbs/5'7" I think) and I looked chubby but not "wow she's overweight" (but I was at the higher end of widely available clothing sizes, EU size 42 sometimes 44) But also highly depends on where you are, from what I know in the US in some areas with that shape you'd be considered skinny, while in Japan for example you'd stand out by being one of the fattest. (…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/03/22 07:01 AM
8	To the women who get upset at bitter men what's your longest dry spell? 4 years without any kind of romantic touch with someone I like (random guy trying to kiss me at party or grabbing my ass doesn't count), 5 years without any sexual activity (23/F) somehow I haven't turned truly resentful towards men and even less expressed that sentiment online... I am understanding with the struggles of lonely people but maintain that in many cases it is at least partially their fault (as it is for me as well). Empathy =/= accepting it's all others' fault edit and if I may add …	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/03/22 07:35 AM
1	Women who do not get abundance of male attention. Why? Facial deformity + I don't think I have an inviting and open vibe, I don't necessarily conform to the bubbly, sweet, feminine persona that many women have and therefore they seem more accessible, so they are chosen more. not saying I'm a rude person or anything, but yk, even the slight difference is enough. this is kinda proven to me by that in situations where I'm the only woman or the others are inaccessible for some reason (taken, age difference, etc) I suddenly get more attention...	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/02/22 09:16 AM
5	Men are blamed for everything >men drop out to play video games I mean idk who else to blame on this one and for the others: no, men aren't blamed for chasing/not chasing woman but the manner they act about what they do. men aren't blamed for earning a lot/not earning a lot but more for their attitudes towards how much they make/what lifestyle they can make out of it on their own or while having other people they are in financial contact with (both dependents and people who support them)	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/01/22 07:10 PM
5	Women in a nutshell I tried LDR without meeting, then meeting twice every year (distance/lack of funds), tried to make it work for 5+ years. In the longterm, it doesn't work, and not only because of the lack of physical contact, but also you are simply not as likely to be able to be present in the other's life (meeting friends/family, having shared experiences, spontaneity, in many cases there is language/culture barrier) and that's destructive to a relationship. it may work for some people, on the short term If a …	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/01/22 08:55 AM
1	Most Onlyfans girls have Borderline, which is the real reason no sane person should have a relationship with them. It's a psychological red flag a lot of this sounds... suspiciously specific this may have been your experience OP, but you're projecting it on every girl who does OF, without considering other circumstances (for example whether higher suicide rates among sex workers are bc they were mentally ill to begin with or their job didn't help their mental states...)	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/12/21 04:11 PM
5	Are women really chasing after guys out of their league? I agree with that. My general (may not be true for everyone) experience is that us, women, see who seem to be interested at first and then choose from those options while men see who they like first and pursue those. Women rarely openly pursue guys they don't think they have a chance with (guy didn't show any previous signs of liking them) while men rarely openly pursure gals they are not absolutely (physically) attracted to (Ofc exceptions exist and non-hetero relationships have different dynam…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/12/21 07:49 PM
4	What’s the average experience for unattractive women? 1.: no, I had men come up to me to tell me I'm ugly though (strangers. and also one of my university professors) idk if that's in public, but I had a few men hit on me in social settings where people generally go to with explicit goals of picking someone up, like uni parties. but I also watched those men use the same tactics on every girl in the room, one after another so... 2.: makeup and good photos help a lot there, plus a witty bio. I'm a part-time photographer so I believe I know how to tak…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/11/21 04:25 PM
1	The amount of effort men put into their female friendships is SEVERELY DISPROPORTIONATE to the amount of effort females put into their male friendships I can say yes to at least one of these and I know several women who could say yes to several of them. these aren't exclusive to men (or attractive women, whatever your taste may be)	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/11/21 08:46 PM
1	The amount of effort men put into their female friendships is SEVERELY DISPROPORTIONATE to the amount of effort females put into their male friendships aha, so you don't think a woman has any value besides being attractive to you? that's really sad	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/11/21 08:03 PM
1	The amount of effort men put into their female friendships is SEVERELY DISPROPORTIONATE to the amount of effort females put into their male friendships "Why at all should I spent any time with a woman I am not attracted to" because you value their company and they add something to your life? I (woman) have several (male) friends I'm not attracted to, some single, some taken, that I spend time with (even gasp alone) because we have great discussions, we engage in hobbies together and generally just have a great time If you are only willing to spend time with people you wanna fuck, you are missing out	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/11/21 05:26 PM
13	If MGOTW was rebranded as 'Permanent Bachelors' would people still have the negative view of it? FDS gets an incredible amount of hate, especially in reddit (outside of it I don't think many people are aware of it). Femcels was banned just like incels. Incels do get it as well but they've been around for a lot longer and they had a time to make themselves a bad name. MGTOW just by itself gets a lot less	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/10/21 09:39 AM
3	Proof that guys here mainly chase bimbos and e-thots. based on my personal instagram: fun microscope photos of crystalline structures from my research: 259 likes. mediocre quality mirror selfie of a not even revealing outfit (I mean, my sultry midriff was out): 418 likes. posted on the same week, 61% more likes. the reason you see those photos is bc that gets the most attention and is therefore pushed to your feed (and people will post whatever gathers them the most likes)	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/10/21 02:50 PM
13	Women now make up 60% of college students. The number is expected to grow to 2 women / 1 man in a few years. How will this affect the dating market? Chemical engineering: my BSc had about 35% women but I went on exchange abroad where it was 90%. Bioengineering at least 60% women. My current MSc in plastictechnology/polymer engineering is a roughly 50% (in both countries where I dabbled into this field). Yeah electrical/mechanical still has very few women but the other fields are a lot more balanced.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/09/21 07:02 AM
6	Women have insanely narrow standards when it comes to PHYSICAL ATTRACTION it's the other way around I have liked guys all over the spectrum from sickly skinny to buff, including what I'd describe as pudgy, from slightly shorter than me (I'm average height for a woman in my country) to 2meters+. same for most of the women aorund me. meanwhile the equivalent of this so called "devery depraved niche" does exist even if less relevant: less owmen watch porn still, even less women watch porn made specifically for women, while porn generally caters to male tastes so female-s…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/07/21 02:14 PM
–	FDS contains 0 HVW I don't believe in personality I'm sorry but what do you mean by this? do you not believe women can have personality? do you not believe their personality affects their value?	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/06/21 01:53 PM
–	FDS contains 0 HVW Do you think value is only looks? I think not "conventionally" attractive ppl can easily be HV, bringing up their looks is just lowhanging fruit	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/06/21 06:58 AM
–	FDS contains 0 HVW The people who are subscribed to FDS (god forbid even those who occasionally comment) don't necessarily agree 100% with what's written there. I am subscribed, I comment there once in a blue moon, because I agree with like 60% of the things there... The things you may critique the most about FDS may be things many "FDSers" don't agree with (from what I've seen, the most active participants there are only a handful of ppl)	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/06/21 06:55 AM
1	What are Your Physical Deal Breakers in Guys ? Like a dolphin?	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/06/21 05:16 PM
2	Hard truth: Long distance and/or online "relationships" are not real relationships Big oof. Age 14-19 I was in a relationship just like this. Halfway across Europe, we met twice a year, I had extremely low selfesteem, he was older than me and really not what he projected himself to be... (and afaik nowadays he is trying to pull the same shit on an other girl) All I can say is: don't. LDRs only have a chance of working if it has a defined ending and y'all have known eachother irl previously	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	20/06/21 07:53 AM
3	How much does sexlessness among men have to rise for society to stop functioning? just because I only exist because people had sex doesn't mean that the only reason I exist is TO have sex from a purely biological standpoint you could say the only reason we exist is to maintain the species but I think that now thta we are blessed/cursed with intelligence and selfawareness, we could find a better meaning to living than sex	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/06/21 09:06 AM
16	How much does sexlessness among men have to rise for society to stop functioning? Society hasn't entirely collapsed from events much more serious than that either (plagues, wars, famines... there may have been a crack but in a few years nearly everywhere functional societies returned) Imo the rising number of sexlessness among young people is more the result of the structure of society changing but that doesn't necessarily lead to collapse. And this worldview reduces men to onedimensional beings who only care about sex and also, extremely overvalues sex itself	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/06/21 07:08 PM
11	Being an OF model/stripper/camgirl/sex worker is not empowering, here's what is empowering Sometimes I wonder where I could have ended up if I wasn't hit with a strong wave of disordered eating and depression right at the beginning of high school (and a shitty relationship) Ahhh former gifted kid woes	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	05/06/21 09:22 AM
5	If you're in the bottom 50% of men, dating is not a worthwhile endeavor. This but I'd add something else: OLD, especially Tinder are very centered on visuals (the bio is pretty limited and few people really bother) There are several guys in my life whom I'd have swiped left on based on one photo (esp if it's as bad as tinder profilepics are in general) but actually knowing them personally, they are attractive to me bc of how they are The problem is that this is hard to screen for (chatting is awkward imo), while appearances are easier to judge	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/05/21 06:54 AM
2	Be confident when speaking - don't kneecap sentences Came here to say this, I picked up this habit after having an abusive elementary school teacher who really didn't like me for some reason (I was 8 ffs) and one time I gave some incorrect information to someone and she yelled at me in front of everyone for a good 90 minutes (and this is was only the most memorable incident)... then kept telling me to not think I know anything correctly for the rest of the time she was teaching me so I started kneecapping to avoid seeming like I think I know anyth…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	23/05/21 07:17 AM
4	Don’t change your last name for a man As hyphenated names become more common, I wonder what will happen when two people with hyphenated last names marry and they want a way to combine their last names... 😅	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	19/05/21 07:32 PM
10	Don’t change your last name for a man When I went to get a new ID (old one expired), the clerk asked me: "reason of issuing a new ID? name change, got your doctorate title?" I laughed and asked if that's that common so that it's his first guess, he said no but I didn't seem like the type to change name for marriage I swear that's one of the best compliments I ever received (and I kinda wanna do my phd just to have that as my only name change) My mum didn't take.my dad's last name either even despite that it was considered pretty sca…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	19/05/21 07:30 PM
9	What's with all the stupid guys? When I was a child my parents brought me to a psychologist to get assessed for possible autism/ADHD, where there wasn't a full diagnosis, but they said I was showing signs of possible autism, further evaluation needed... and then my parents did nothing about it It took me finding autism forums and strongly relating to them and talking about it for them to even tell me about that yeah even professionals say I show signs of autistic behaviour but they refuse to accept that bc I'm not "broken". Yea…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	19/05/21 06:00 AM
37	Watch The Way Men Treat Women They're Not Attracted To I'm pretty sure the catalyst to my (second) descent into disordered eating patterns was observing how people around me started treating me as a decent human being as I lost weight...	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	02/05/21 07:28 AM
6	As seen on a law school subreddit: "Accepted at every school I applied but waitlisted at the school in the same city as my husband. It’s an easy decision" My best friend refused two amazing scholarship opportunities by far bc she was afraid bf at the time wouldn't approve of an ldr. Since then neither of them are in her life... I tried to warn her but her family is also pushing this mancentric idea from what I see so... But then again, my shitty relationship at the end of high school and first year of college held me back from so.many things... Thank god I didn't move to go to university with him as I planned (he still hasn't finished any higher e…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/04/21 05:54 PM
3	Flashback to when my exes would ‘compliment’ my labia by saying they were ‘perfect porn star lips’ and I actually thanked them proudly 🤡 Porn Star Tits by Eliza McLamb. what a real song	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	19/04/21 03:35 PM
27	This image circulating Reddit made me peak and go full FDS. I thought these only happened in memes but the beginning of this semester one of my professors successfully exposed "giant tits" as previous search term on his browser... I mean you'd at least expect them to use incognito/delete history like most people	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	19/04/21 07:14 AM
7	For those of you torn about prioritizing beauty and avoiding the male gaze, I wanted to share my solution I saw a news segment on how all around the world women are leaning towards more colourful and bolder prints, especially florals, which can be attributed to the psychological effects of the lockdown, and now clothing retailers struggle to keep up I mean not for me, my jeweltone-based wardrobe has no desire to change but power to everyone who feels like being a colourful spot!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	14/04/21 06:46 AM
18	Abort Mission if a Man Sees You This Way My first bf ever told me he thought I'm a 7.8 (what a specific number) Stayed with him for 3 more years...	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	11/04/21 05:13 PM
130	Muahahaha Small addition to her story: prime minister of hungary keeps referring to her research as the entire country's success, while referring to her with a derogatory term mainly used for old ladies ("asszonyság") It's the lowest behaviour	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	10/04/21 06:12 AM
21	If he’s letting himself go (both fitness wise and diet), it’s over 🤷🏾‍♀️ I’m sure you ladies can guess what the comments are saying 🤮 1 kg of fat is 7700 excess calories (quick google search) so that comes to about 720 extra calories EVERY DAY over the course of two years, which is like an extra jar of nutella every 3 days (converted to nutella bc I love it more than I should) ...which is sadly extremely plausible though I wonder how they didn't look at themselves at one point and say "maybe I shouldn't do this"	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	09/04/21 11:55 AM
33	‘Studies’ showing dad bods are more attractive to women Yeah this! I mean I don't prefer washboard abs and really shredded guys, I like a bit of a belly and a bit softer body if the guy is anyways healthy&active (I'm not a fitness girl myself either, I cycle/hike/practice aikido (before covid at least) which don't build the "traditional" kind of muscle) But distorting this to glorifying rly letting yourself go and expecting women to like your moobs... bleh	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	30/03/21 07:05 AM
58	“There are just some things about FDS I don’t agree with.” *** My journey to the truth. I think there are different "levels" of park/museum dates? Guy inviting you to sit on a bench in the nearest park? Low effort. Guy inviting you to go to a bothanical garden (making the effort to take you there as in drive/look up public transport) because one of your favourite flowers is in blooming season and he looked up where to find them? High effort even though technically it is a park date (one of my friends was telling me about this exact situation a few days ago, I was so happy for her) …	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	27/03/21 08:03 AM
8	The same day that I posted a shot of my scientific publications on my social media, he ended our relationship with this text... This! I don't think his spelling is that bad in the age of spelling check, I'd say it's more wanting to make it look like he is more of a mess congrats on the publication OP!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	25/03/21 01:39 PM
33	Human penises are shrinking because of pollution, warns scientist. Dr Swan believes that the rapidly decreasing fertility rate means that most men will be unable to produce viable sperm by 2045. These chemicals have long been known to cause infertility in women (PCOS), but men affected makes news. I study plastictechnology and my research is (possibly) contributing to getting rid of BPA and analogous additives in plasticware most of my bottles are glass, I never microwave plastic, I use natural fiber produce bags etc etc etc. go figure. it's pretty likely that the compounds currently used instead of BPA are possibly not better, they just haven't been declared dangerous yet so there is that (I wish I knew more tbh but my research is more focused on the material science effects of additives…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	25/03/21 12:11 PM
2	Cultural misogyny at its finest it has been reported many times with languages that are gender neutral, they blame it that the learning algorithms are fed with data that is skewed towards this... I mean I think it's bullshit and wouldn't take much to correct but yea at least now if you put in a sentence with only one pronoun like "ő olvas" then it gives you both "she reads" and "he reads". but also, yesterday duolingo didn't accept "elles travaillent" for "they work" so there is that... also it's Hungary. the country that wrot…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	21/03/21 08:23 PM
1	Men are entering Academia with the express intent of preying on students. Like most LVM and Predators, they try and infiltrate the ranks of trusted institutions to find their victims and hide their intentions behind the authority of their title. or older professors are really hard to get rid of (tenure status and things like that) and pointing fingers at phd students is an easy way to say they do sth against sexual harrassment (as far as i know that case was also dropped)	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	11/03/21 06:47 PM
18	Men are entering Academia with the express intent of preying on students. Like most LVM and Predators, they try and infiltrate the ranks of trusted institutions to find their victims and hide their intentions behind the authority of their title. My uni has several professors who are 70+ and have had 4-5 sexual harrasment cases against them (asking students out on exams, feeling them up) and they still teach... it's bot necessarily in the interest of the university to get rid of them esp if their academic work is great (They did try to crack down on a phd student dating a younger student in their department which made no sense...)	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	11/03/21 06:45 AM
18	I begged my N-ex to make me a love note (as I would do it often for him) .. I made him a personalized comic book of our life and this is what I got in return. LMAO. Baths are just human soup. Change my mind	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	01/03/21 04:43 PM
16	Image being so addicted to porn that you associate winged eyeliner with being a cmslt... Disgusting I didn't truly believe all this until for the last year, I've been listening all the guys complaining about the noises of children in the background of a lecture when it was a female professor, but praising "he must be a good dad" when it was a male one... double standard much?	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	25/02/21 04:05 PM
9	The fallacy of the nice guy : The men of Big Bang Theory TBBT is such a mixed bag for me... I think the first few seasons are actually funny sometimes and back then the show was a lot more selfaware and actually called out the shitty behaviours of the guys then gradually forgot that... season 7-ish onwards it's an absolute dumpsterfire, but I have a lot of nostalgia to it (and felt represented in Amy when I was younger)	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	09/02/21 08:49 AM
22	Man’s idea of clean is actually super messy. Avoid men who cannot take care of their living space, even when nobody else will see it. His home should be kept tidy regardless of whether a guest is coming over. I'm kinda like that :((( my parents were raised in food scarcity (rural Romania in the 1960-80's) so they are very adamant on not wasting food, and I am weird about food so if there is one pickle leftover or two spoonfuls of mustard at the bottom of the jar, I won't just eat it right there, I will put it back to eat at a later time... this ends with the occasional one pickle/unopened fastfood condiment/almost empty butter staying there for unreasonably long But rotting food? Never. As soon as it…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	28/01/21 08:44 AM
9	Everything you need to know about a man you can learn from his bathroom when I was a broke student living in another country (so I was living extremely minimal in terms of owning stuff), THEN I had only two towels and I still made sure to get a guest one for my friends who came to visit me...	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	26/01/21 07:22 PM
9	Erection does not equal affection, ladies. Someone can desire you who doesn't truly value you. Wait for the one who will truly treasure you, body AND soul. this but also it's hard to recognize real appreciation when the most you get in life is shallow sexual attraction and you have no idea how the other feels in a romantic setting	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	23/01/21 03:25 PM
14	Creepy male teachers not that much in high school, though there were creepy teachers in my high school but I never came in direct contact with them, only heard from others but god, in university there are so many of them (I think I already wrote about this on here) highlights include: -first semester a professor talking half the practice about how I am like the smart girl from the "smart girl and the king" tale and he wants to see me in only a fishnet???? (same semester an other professor leered a lot, he touched ot…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	11/01/21 10:23 PM
9	The delusion. The scrotacity lol why is this such a common thing... my uni is especially kind of known for it at this point, we have several 70+ years old professors who ask out freshmen girls (so, 19 y/o) on dates... in the middle of an exam... (also I had a professor tell the whole class about how he'd like to see me in fishnets and an other one who complimented my "kneeling skills" (on a lab practice, I was kneeling down to see the beaker better))... and also the TA's who date younger and then give them different grades on l…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	06/01/21 08:58 PM
52	It do be like that The knee high socks... Yikes They are a rly cute look but the guy I dated in highschool sexualized them so much I feel weird about it	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	04/01/21 07:42 PM
10	The tradcon guide for the modern woman honestly, whether they help to clean up after/when they are the last to stay is a good way to judge someone's character, not just for dating, but, like, in general	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	05/12/20 08:40 AM
38	Ladies y’all need to be grateful to go to the SOUP KITCHEN! 🥴😩 exactly my thought, that 50/50 will turn into 99/1 as he manipulates his way into moving in with the woman and leeeching off her income...	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	03/12/20 10:38 PM
6	WHERE’S THE LIE? possible there are some like that, I will admit that my gay friends may not represent the average gay (in a country where LGBT people are widely attacked+college age) but they are generally nicer than the straight guys I know, but maybe I am just lucky have great friends!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	16/11/20 03:07 PM
33	Had a laugh. Thank god my lululemon date days are over!! that's goals (now I only need to be able to afford all the clothes I want and get invited to dates...)	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	16/11/20 09:37 AM
22	WHERE’S THE LIE? I swear there are so many ways gay men are more HV in on average... personal hygenie, interests, not giving in to traditional masculinity... edit: early morning grammar mistakes	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	16/11/20 06:52 AM
9	Don't EVER buy the lie that gaming is a 'cheap hobby' I have an ex who spent like 500 euros on a steering wheel to play racing games "professionally" (and stream them, he claims he will make it with that)... he both doesn't have a proper pair of shoes and has cats that would need regular vet visits and to be spayed but he says he doesn't have the money for it... yea... video games are an okay pasttime in small amounts, but so many 'gamers' are just useless	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	09/11/20 09:25 PM
64	Men with an impossibly long list of "preferences" don't actually require a potential girlfriend to meet every single one, they just want the opportunity to devalue any woman who might date them, and an excuse to always keep one foot out the door looking for someone better this really just reminded me of my ex who straightup told me "I think you are a 7.8/10 at most but I love you despite that" (I should have known he is manipulative af then already but no 16 years old me was a desperate dumbfuck)	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	28/10/20 09:37 AM
4	NEVER AGAIN I love that "starchy" feeling you get from sundried sheets, to me it's refreshing (but you can only get that in places with enough sun, else it just gets bleh) but yea	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	31/08/20 07:06 AM
3	And to think, I used to consider merely having a bookshelf a green flag 🤦‍♀️ Good point on saying just for trying to be edgy, I guess asking about why they like it would filter that out (and in general, if they can't reason why they like a book...)	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	25/08/20 09:13 PM
17	And to think, I used to consider merely having a bookshelf a green flag 🤦‍♀️ I'd say depends on why they like the book, I liked it while being disgusted by it bc it's very well written (to the point where it makes me uncomfortable which I think is the goal) but if someone likes it bc of liking the idea of having their own Lolita...yikes	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	25/08/20 05:23 PM
41	And to think, I used to consider merely having a bookshelf a green flag 🤦‍♀️ was about to say this! if he says Catcher in the Rye is his favourite book and adds that he identifies with the protagonist, just run. run as far as you can. may I ask what's wrong with Goethe though? I enjoyed Werther a lot	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	25/08/20 11:42 AM
3	Why all women should take up BJJ I never tried BJJ hut aikido is very similar in principle, maybe a little less dynamic, it's great and not really physically demanding for those who can't have that! My dojo is full of supportive ladies from all ages so that's also cool	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	17/08/20 07:21 AM
3	Okay. Let’s not talk about how men constantly make fun of things girls like such as princesses, twilight, romance films and books, pink, girl stuffy, etc. okay this is so much on point	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	02/08/20 08:48 AM
7	They just can't pick a narrative and stick to it, huh? No, you are supposed to have perfect skin, eyebrows and shiny eyelids from the day you are born, didn't you get the memo	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	21/07/20 04:13 AM
26	Husband is upset that his wife had a double mastectomy due to breast cancer, is masturbating to big-breast porn, and is pushing her to have breast implant surgery DESPITE THE FACT THAT SHE IS NOT IN REMISSION I am glad that (now) the top comments are telling her that his husband is being a jerk here, hopefully the message gets through	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	29/04/20 11:24 AM
7	“LeT mE sHoW yOu tHe WoRLd” I have an ex whose travels mainly consist of Euro Truck Simulator... says he enjoys seeing the world... yea...	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	21/04/20 06:09 PM