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In India, is it really so taboo to walk up to someone and start a friendly conversation? Yep. But I'm testing this out myself, so let me see how this goes.
/r/seduction05/09/13 02:09 AM
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Definitely a first experience! But I'll go for more first experiences next. Like a date. A kiss. Sex!
/r/seduction04/09/13 07:28 PM
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That's definitely the way I see it, even though I'm a tad bit disappointed.
/r/seduction04/09/13 07:26 PM
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Thanks, dude. That really was some very good painkiller :)
/r/seduction04/09/13 07:26 PM
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Absolutely, man. I would have been mad if I had not asked her out and she had left the company or something like that. I already missed such a chance with another girl before.
/r/seduction04/09/13 07:25 PM
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This whole seduction thing is somewhat of a numbers game. I'm slowly beginning to understand that truly, even though I've read that a million times.
/r/seduction04/09/13 07:24 PM
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This one time I opened up two girls in a day. I was too much of a pussy back then to go for the number with either of them, but I noticed a strange thing. I was just thinking about myself, like what I didn't wrong, where I could have used some clever angles, but not about the girl herself. It's definitely about having more than one option that'll make a guy truly outcome independent and free from oneitis.
/r/seduction04/09/13 07:24 PM
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Thanks, dude.
/r/seduction04/09/13 07:22 PM
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That's certainly a possibility, but something tells me what she said was genuine. Also, I didn't really want to be a backup guy.
/r/seduction04/09/13 07:21 PM
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Thanks dude. Totally agree. Just need plenty of experience. Also, when I interrupted her mid sentence, it was just me asking some boring bullshit and her trying to be nice and answering it. I cut her off because I realized she didn't have to answer. Rest assured, surely she didn't find it rude.
/r/seduction04/09/13 07:20 PM
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Thanks, roger40. But I need to keep improving to better my chances in the future. All I need is to open and talk more. Practice.
/r/seduction04/09/13 07:15 PM
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Thanks, yensterrr.
/r/seduction04/09/13 07:14 PM
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Hahah, thanks man. I just wish I had this courage 5 years ago.
/r/seduction04/09/13 07:14 PM
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Yep! Can't wait for this weekend. Hopefully, I'll have the same energy and it won't fade away when it's Friday.
/r/seduction04/09/13 07:13 PM
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Let me give you some tips. I think you've expressed too much interest too early. At least it's better than professing your undying love, which is waaay too much interest too early, you've improved but you need to do one better. Try building up your expressions of interest little by little. For example first smile and say hi, then on another day give her a compliment. Thanks eablokker for the excellent tips. Really appreciate your time in writing this. I did all of that you've mentioned except fo…
/r/seduction04/09/13 07:12 PM
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That's a super awesome quote. I'll remember this when I'm afraid the next time before I approach.
/r/seduction04/09/13 07:06 PM
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Thanks for the tip, man. Being a naturally social person is one of my goals apart from getting a girlfriend. I must say, pick up definitely made me a better person for good even though I've not had any success.
/r/seduction04/09/13 07:06 PM
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Totally agree now in retrospect. I wish I had this advice like a couple of days ago.
/r/seduction04/09/13 07:04 PM
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Sure, man. I'll try, but I'm not gonna worry if that doesn't happen. I'll keep talking with her as if nothing happened.
/r/seduction04/09/13 07:03 PM
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Hahaha, yes, the old me would have just friendzoned myself.
/r/seduction04/09/13 07:02 PM
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I should have added this to my OP. She doesn't work for the same company. We just share an office building.
/r/seduction04/09/13 07:01 PM
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She doesn't work for the same company, though, and we don't know anyone in common, so it wasn't that big of a risk. But I think I would have asked her out even if she was my colleague. But I absolutely agree that I need to hit on girls outside of work. Problem is, cold approaching is risky here in India.
/r/seduction04/09/13 07:01 PM
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Definitely, Siddartha. BTW, I'm an Indian too.
/r/seduction04/09/13 06:59 PM
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True that, my friend. I just need to talk to a lots of girls.
/r/seduction04/09/13 06:59 PM
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True, but I was afraid if I'll start having oneitis for this girl. That's one of the main reasons I didn't ask for a friendly meetup apart from the brainfreeze in that moment.
/r/seduction04/09/13 06:58 PM
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Thanks, Mouthpiece. Yep, I need to keep swinging.
/r/seduction04/09/13 06:57 PM
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Absolutely, man. I wish I did this 5 years ago.
/r/seduction04/09/13 06:56 PM
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True, man. I know all of this, but I just don't have reference experience. I know what to say, but I just don't say it in the moment. I need practice. Lots of practice.
/r/seduction04/09/13 06:55 PM
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Thanks, Brokim. But still a long way to go, brother.
/r/seduction04/09/13 06:54 PM
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Before asking her out, I had a plan on what to say if she says she has a boyfriend. But right at that moment, it just didn't feel right, because I was afraid if I'll end up having oneitis for this girl.
/r/seduction04/09/13 06:54 PM
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Haha sure, I'm definitely not going AFC on her. I'm gonna talk like nothing happened, except I'll not be asking her out again unless the situation changes.
/r/seduction04/09/13 06:53 PM
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I sort of repent for not doing this 5 years ago when I was 22.
/r/seduction04/09/13 06:52 PM
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I agree. She doesn't work for the same company, though, and we literally know no one in common, so that's why I went for it.
/r/seduction04/09/13 06:51 PM
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Unfortunately, cold approaching is very risky in my country. I'm from India.
/r/seduction04/09/13 06:51 PM
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I've been trying on OkCupid. 30 messages so far. No response. But that really pushed me to ask this one out in a way because I feel online dating is very painful for a guy who's not that attractive.
/r/seduction04/09/13 06:50 PM
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And I can't wait for it!
/r/seduction04/09/13 06:49 PM
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Haha, thanks a lot, dude. You're awesome too!
/r/seduction04/09/13 06:49 PM
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I definitely feel more confident than before. Probably that's the biggest takeaway from this.
/r/seduction04/09/13 06:49 PM
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I've missed a couple of girls before by not asking them out. So I wasn't going to miss this one out at any chance. Too bad it didn't turn out in a favorable way, though.
/r/seduction04/09/13 06:48 PM
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Appreciate your opinion, man, but I think this girl was honest or like I said, she doesn't want to go out with me. If I wanted to push, I should have pursued then and there, but I lost that chance because of my brainfreeze. But hey, there's plenty of fish in the sea, and that's one of the main aspects of Seddit thinking, isn't it?
/r/seduction03/09/13 06:28 PM
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It'll be good find a source to support your theory. Has there ever been a study done on this? My mother has sobered a lot in the last 5 or 6 years, but she was pretty damn strict when I was a kid. Exactly like you described your mother, OP. Add to that, I studied in an all boys high school, so when I went to college, I saw women as some different species and never really spoke to any of them because I was just too fucking scared. I'm trying to break out of this shell now, and your post brings up…
/r/seduction03/09/13 04:02 PM
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Hi, I'm 26.
/r/seduction02/07/13 04:06 PM
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My friend and I met at a supermarket this weekend. We were planning on hitting the pub later, but we needed to buy something for him, so we went there first. My friend asked me to find out where the milk section is with the store employee who was standing behind me. The store employee was talking to another person and I was waiting for him to be free. Then I asked him and found out where the section was. As I was about to tell my friend, "Hey, it's over there", I noticed him laughing a little bi…
/r/seduction01/07/13 05:58 PM
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In my opinion, forget the smile experiments and just open. Just open? To a newbie like me, it's not that simple. In fact, that's like magic to us. Take these scenarios: I'm in the streets, I see a girl, I go up to her and say "Nice shoes." She says, "Thanks", and walks away. I'm at a bus stop waiting. I see a girl, I go up to her and say, "Is the bus to Hitec City late?" She says, "I don't know." I try to keep it going, but she either nods or smiles or gives me a one word answer. Now, it feels d…
/r/seduction04/06/13 05:54 PM
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There have been multiple times where I have waited, and it turned out significantly better. I get nervous the longer I wait. AA gets the better of me. I'm working on it, but approaching immediately is the only way I feel I'll be able to if I don't want to sound all nervous. At least till I make a ton of approaches that the nervousness just naturally goes away.
/r/seduction02/06/13 07:05 PM
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Thank you, mate. How are you doing yourself? Do you cold approach?
/r/seduction02/06/13 06:59 PM
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"What do you think?" How about this instead of answering it straight away?
/r/seduction02/06/13 06:39 PM
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Listen to this man, OP, and throw away all the negative thoughts, especially crazy shit like ending your life. I was in the same boat a couple of years ago. Every now and then, I still think I'm an unattractive guy, but I've decided to work on that. I hit the gym at least 4 times a week. I'm presently cutting, and I've plans to bulk. I've plans to take care of my crooked teeth. I've plans to get rid of a few skin rashes that have left permanent mark on places like my face and places that are pre…
/r/seduction16/12/12 08:05 AM
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I'm on the same boat as OP. I work at a place where there's only one girl that I can hit on (and I'm doing that); the rest of them are married and way older than me. The place where I get to meet girls is the gym. The problem with gym is that, you'll keep seeing them, and it becomes very awkward for the both of you if she rejects your approach. Also you can't go for another girl (at least while she's working out at the same time) because you'll then look like a desperate guy. The two girls that …
/r/seduction16/12/12 07:41 AM
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How about it coming from a not so beautiful woman? Serious question.
/r/seduction05/12/12 05:25 PM
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Actually, yes. We have several languages in India, and mostly it's okay to default to English. And guess what, English was the only common language that we both speak. She knows Hindi, but I don't. I know a couple of south Indian languages that she doesn't. Not sure why you're downvoted, though. That's a good question only asked because of curiosity.
/r/seduction05/12/12 05:20 PM
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I was thinking of teasing her, because actually, the food is great at my town, but couldn't really come up with anything that's not rude yet in that "negging" range. So I said this: Me: What? Seriously? I thought people will be fine with the food here, but not the other things. What do you think could have been a good neg here?
/r/seduction04/12/12 03:17 PM
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"Is the 7 O'Clock train coming late?" "Oh, it's actually 7:30? Ah, I should have taken the 6:50 one. So you're catching that train, too?" ... and it goes on. And while you're talking, sit down next to her. But walk away if she seems uninterested.
/r/seduction03/12/12 05:02 PM
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I asked my friend's wife if girls like guys coming up to them and talking, because I needed a female opinion on this and I thought she'll give me an honest answer. She said, even if the said guy is not attractive, the girls absolutely love it. If it's a hot guy, then it's a bonus, but even if the approaching guy is not hot, she says it will make their day. But just don't creep them out. Now, I'm in process of making girls their days.
/r/seduction03/12/12 05:00 PM
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I'm an Indian, and I'll try to answer some of your questions: Do women here date? What is their idea of dating? Women here date if you're in a city. How long should l expect it to take for a K-close and an F-close? Will it every happen? Never done it. No idea. But I assume since you're white, if you go to clubs like Hard Rock Cafe or similar, you might get laid. I've noticed licking ones lips signals some sort of sexual advance. I accidentally did this by mistake and got some strange looks. oops…
/r/seduction10/09/12 06:27 PM
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Yes, and so do I, but you don't say it explicitly to the other person here, but you say it to yourself, and fucking do whatever the fuck that you would do if you won't give a fuck. If it fails, then well, whatever.
/r/seduction24/10/11 06:35 PM
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Language classes That's a nice idea. Thanks! I'm also thinking if I should move out of India. My parents are old and they have no one to take care of, and that's my only concern. I once tried moving out to Mumbai, they hated it.
/r/seduction11/10/11 05:22 AM
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I went a little far with the police station bit, but nonetheless it is possible in extreme cases. I was once in a crowded bus station where I saw a beautiful girl. I went up to her and said hi. She just stared at me as if I committed a heinous crime. I got really embarrassed, so I told her something like, "Nothing, just wanted to say hi. You're really beautiful." The girl got really scared. I was just a teenager then, and that was fucking stupid, but anyway, a few people around noticed that ther…
/r/seduction10/10/11 04:59 PM
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I'm a South Indian guy, and I find North Indian girls very attractive. But let's be honest, they generally avoid South Indian guys. I made a few approaches with North Indian girls, and surprisingly, it went better than expected. I expected them to completely reject me, but they only did politely. I can't say it's not an issue now, but with the current amount of confidence I gained on r/seduction, I don't hesitate as much as I used to. Previously, I used to think, "That girl will never talk to me…
/r/seduction10/10/11 02:24 PM
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You and minutestomidnight absolutely nailed it.
/r/seduction27/09/11 04:10 PM
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I've a friend who does stuff I feel are very creepy -- the way he talks, etc. I sometimes feel embarrassed and feel like telling, "Sorry, he's not always like this." But girls absolutely dig that guy. I just don't get it. I sometimes feel like asking the girls, "How on earth did you not find that creepy?" So I guess you can get away easily (may be not all the times) even if you're really creepy but good-looking, too.
/r/seduction27/09/11 04:07 PM
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Wow, those guys on the YouTube channel are insane. Thanks for that. I don't think I can stop a girl in the streets and ask for her number in my city (I'll be simply thrown in jail or get beaten up), but it definitely helps me with the girls I frequently keep seeing.
/r/seduction26/09/11 01:21 AM
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Thank you, Hormander. If you fear rejection, try to be rejected on purpose. I know a girl who has a boyfriend. I find her attractive, but I don't really want to do anything with her. I'll try it with her, since I don't give a damn. With this girl though (the one I called), I kinda had a thing. I'm disappointed it didn't work out, but like you said, I've gained a lot in this defeat; mainly, confidence and conquering approach anxiety.
/r/seduction25/09/11 04:56 PM
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There's nothing better than hard work that will make you satisfied and feel good about yourself. In your case, work really hard and get a date. I'm a guy who's 25 and never been on a date. So every time a girl says no, it's absolutely heart-breaking because I'm still searching for my first one. You, on the other hand, had a girl friend and even broke up with her. You've done it in the past, you can do it again. You just need to heat up your dating engine, man. All the best!
/r/seduction23/09/11 04:44 PM
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My parents are a bit old, so I've to look after them. And that's the only city they are used to.
/r/seduction19/09/11 03:11 PM
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I had a oneitis recently, and it took me 2 weeks to recover. This is after discovering Seddit, and knowing about not falling for oneitis. If I didn't know about Seddit, I would probably be sulking right now. It never helps. Just don't give a damn. What happened is past, and there's nothing you can do that will change it. Be like it never happened, and you'll be happy. I was given this advice: Seek out other women. The only way to get over a woman is to replace her with an even more awesome one. …
/r/seduction18/09/11 04:48 PM
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That's exactly what I did this weekend. I went and did shopping. Now I'm heading to r/malefashionadvice. Thanks for the tip.
/r/seduction18/09/11 04:40 PM
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Ha ha, thanks. I'll repeat it to myself whenever I catch myself dreaming. At least, I'll have a laugh.
/r/seduction18/09/11 04:40 PM
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I'll try to, but getting a date or even meeting new girls is extremely difficult here.
/r/seduction18/09/11 04:39 PM
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Sure, mate. I'd PM you if I come to Bangalore anytime. It's very unlikely 'cause I don't any friends over there, but just in case if I do, I'll let you know.
/r/seduction18/09/11 04:37 PM
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Are you from Hyderabad, too? I thought I was the only Indian on Seddit :) Moving to Bombay is not possible for me at the moment with family commitments, etc. I wish I could, though.
/r/seduction18/09/11 04:34 PM
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Hyderabad.
/r/seduction16/09/11 04:23 AM
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I don't have much idea about Kama Sutra. The average Joe and Jill (or should I say Ram and Sita) don't read them. I haven't read it. I guess it was used in the ancient times by only the royalty, but I could be mistaken about this. Also, I heard that India became much more conservative after the Muslim invasion; for example, women used to be topless before the invasion, etc. Again, these are just things I keep hearing and have no real proof.
/r/seduction29/08/11 05:24 AM
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They do it because they were told not to do it by their parents. It's more like religion, you just don't question and blindly follow. Also, the parents worry about their own social status with their friends and neighbors. Arranged marriages are still the norm here. So if your child goes for a "love marriage", you're pretty much considered a failure at parenting by your peers. It's changing these days, but we've a long way to go. My parents wouldn't mind, I think.
/r/seduction29/08/11 03:21 AM
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You're right about Delhi and Mumbai, and it's slowly changing, but still a long way to go. Even in those places, you can pick up the girl somewhere else and bring her to the bar for a drink, but I still don't think you can come to the bars to pick up girls. I live in Hyderabad.
/r/seduction29/08/11 03:18 AM
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private_joker, you're very funny.
/r/seduction29/08/11 03:15 AM
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You're over-analyzing the situation. You did a great thing (kissed her) which is much more important than walking her up to the car. If she was not in to it and was just shocked, big deal, move on to the next girl.
/r/seduction28/08/11 05:51 PM
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Currently, there is a girl who is aggressively flirting with me. She's very attractive... I'd kill for something like that. What's your problem, dude?
/r/seduction28/08/11 05:44 PM
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It's kind of the same for me. I live in India, and girls here are very conservative. Meaning, kissing a girl when you meet the first time (or kissing her at all till you're either very good friends or you know you're in love) will make you look like a pervert, and they may even slap you right then and create a huge ruckus if that happened in public. Also, for the most part, we don't have the club culture. I'm pulling this stat out of my ass, but I'm pretty sure 99% of the Indian girls don't drin…
/r/seduction28/08/11 04:38 PM
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Not breaking the eye contact when she looks at you the second time sounds a bit creepy. Is there any explanation for this? (Not trolling, just curious.)
/r/seduction28/08/11 05:14 AM
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It totally makes sense. This thread has made me realize that I should start working on building good conversations with strangers (men and women), and then worry about picking up. It doesn't mean I'm not going to ask the girls out on dates, but I'd be more careful. Thanks for the tip, and the book recommendation!
/r/seduction26/08/11 05:53 PM
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You didn't invite her friend/colleague. Did you expect her to just leave her friend to go chat with you? That's a fair point, to which I've no answer.
/r/seduction26/08/11 05:43 PM
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You're absolutely right, sir, and I realized it after I flunked today. I'll work on my conversation building with strangers by not just talking to women, but men, too.
/r/seduction26/08/11 05:29 PM
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That was my idea, too, behind ask her out for coffee (which we have at our office pantry) than to ask her out for the movies. But the fuck up that I did made seem the coffee as a date, too. Lesson learned, though.
/r/seduction26/08/11 05:20 PM
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What would you have done differently to build attraction? I would have caught her when she's alone (like I did the first time which eventually led to us have lunch together), and asked her out for a movie when the conversation is at a high. How might have the presence of her colleague influence her response? I really don't know. But I feel it might have had some influence. In retrospect, I think I should have done the second time when she was alone. Perhaps, that's just wishful thinking.
/r/seduction26/08/11 05:16 PM
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To be honest, I don't look that great. I sort of look like the trollface guy. However, I try to be clean, and dress well. I've started going to the gym, and have lost 20 pounds recently, which many noticed. I have to start building the muscles. I was complimented today of the way I dressed from someone who himself dresses very well. I do feel shitty at times looking at me, but today was not that day. I felt good.
/r/seduction26/08/11 05:05 PM
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Great tip! Perfect getaway.
/r/seduction26/08/11 04:32 PM
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I sort of understand what you mean as I witnessed it first hand in this situation, but frankly, I didn't know what else to do. I'm still an AFC, just started to recover. I'll not try coffee the next time. May be, the movies. I never liked coffee, anyway.
/r/seduction26/08/11 04:06 PM
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It's ok to be nervous, just smile. I actually made a post about nervousness because I was having too much of it, but I didn't know I'd get a near heart attack 'cause of it. I think I smiled, but I really don't know what I was doing. I get nervous too and stammer sometimes, but what helps me is that I slow down in my speech. That cut down on my stuttering almost 100%. I always read "talk slowly" in many of the posts -- it makes total sense now. I think you may be putting too much effort into this…
/r/seduction26/08/11 03:59 PM
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Thank you, thistooshallparse (very funny user name, and I hope it does, whatever it is that you're parsing). There's another cute girl in our office building, and I really don't mind blowing it up or getting friendzoned. I'll try my slow-and-steady approach on her. Also, all these girls I'm hitting are from different companies. We just share the same office building. Which is really good for two reasons: 1) I don't get to meet females anywhere else, and 2) My colleagues don't talk to these peopl…
/r/seduction26/08/11 03:47 PM
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Thanks, Kumar. Those are some encouraging words I really appreciate, especially today. There's another cute girl who I catch looking at me from the corner of her eyes (my friend says she looks at everyone), but I don't really mind blowing it up with her, so she's next. 1 down on my 100 Set Challenge, 99 more to go.
/r/seduction26/08/11 03:39 PM
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Duuuuuuude, twice in the same day? No, the first one was about 2 weeks ago. The second one was today. Work is no excuse, you work with her I couldn't figure it out the first time if she was really busy because I don't work with her. We work in the same office building (we work for different companies). However, I do agree that I came out as desperate.
/r/seduction26/08/11 03:34 PM
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After reading your comment, I thought to myself, "What a weird fucking question is that? Why are you working on it??? Does he mean how are you working on it?" And then, the light bulb over my head lit. Well played, sir.
/r/seduction22/08/11 05:16 PM
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I saw a post today titled "Sometimes It REALLY Has Nothing To Do With You." May be it's that, or may be it's what brnagn says. In any way, move on. As a last hope, use this and see if you can get out of the friend-zone.
/r/seduction22/08/11 05:10 PM
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I do something similar but I use it with my friends. For example, me and my friend refer to the girl I'm currently hitting on as my "Parrot." And because we talk in a non-local language which not many know, we get to joke on them and laugh at them even when they are sitting next to us without taking their names. We are very good friends, and we've great time-pass this way. I don't think why I can't do this very same thing with my parrot, too. So not only can you give your girl nick names, you ca…
/r/seduction22/08/11 05:02 PM
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Just like Honey Bunny and Pumpkin.
/r/seduction22/08/11 04:49 PM
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You're absolutely right. I'm doing that to an extent, but I'm a vegetarian and an Indian, which means I eat vegetarian Indian food which is just high in carbs and fat and zero in protein. And those aren't the good carbs and fat. I've tried eating chicken and egg, but I just was unable to. Psychological, may be.
/r/seduction22/08/11 02:26 PM
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I've never had a girlfriend; I still don't. I never had an IOI from a girl ever in my life. I've been working out (just doing running and elliptical, not even strength training) for 3 months, and I had one of the cutest girls I've seen IRL smile at me and initiate contact. First time ever something like that has happened. This is just after putting down 20 lbs, and having a mildly flatter belly than what it was before 3 months ago. Sadly, I've been hit with a viral fever and haven't been hitting…
/r/seduction22/08/11 04:57 AM
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You never tell her you love her. You make her attracted to you. Your body should talk, not just your mouth. Try having good conversations with her. Make her do more talking. And while conversing, make statements that will make her talk more, and try avoiding asking questions -- especially yes or no questions. Ask her out on a date while your conversation is at a high point. Persist if she resists, but only so far. Don't have oneitis for this girl. If you don't know what that is, find out. While …
/r/seduction20/08/11 12:45 PM
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Why? Genuinely curious.
/r/seduction19/08/11 04:05 PM
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It is a command, but if you say it with the right tone (try and make it sound harmless, but at the same time give a "what are you waiting for?" vibe) You nailed it. I was actually rehearsing this: Me: Hi Her: Hi Me: Just came by to your desk to say hello. So... how was your weekend, what did you do? Her: <whatever she did> At this moment, I'm planning on giving a slight pause, a brief smile, and then: Me: Come, let's grab a cup of coffee. And hopefully, during coffee, I can ask her out on a prop…
/r/seduction19/08/11 03:31 PM
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I'll do that, sir. We've holiday on Monday, so I'm hoping I can write a field report on this on Tuesday night.
/r/seduction19/08/11 03:27 PM
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She works in the same office building. She initiated the whole thing by smiling at me, and I had lunch with her once. That was 2 weeks ago, and ever since she's just super busy and I'm getting very less chance to speak to her, though I did pussy out on a few chances. And it's all in real life. I don't even know her second name or phone number.
/r/seduction19/08/11 03:08 PM
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Thanks for the answer. I want to ask a specific question now that concerns me. I'm chasing a girl, and I plan to ask her out. Should I say, "Come, let's have some coffee at the corner store," or "I'm planning to grab a cup of coffee at the corner stone, wanna join me?" She has already refused once, but I guess I caught her at the wrong time when she was busy with work. But I must say, "Come, let's have some coffee at the corner store" sounds like an order.
/r/seduction19/08/11 02:48 PM
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I guess we've just witnessed the birth of a meme on Seddit. "She's not the sex kind of gal."
/r/seduction19/08/11 02:38 PM
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I completely understand what you're saying, and Tofu's point, too. You shouldn't be getting downvoted for stating your opinion, though. Also, that was a fantastic post on vulnerability!
/r/seduction17/08/11 01:44 AM
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Fantastic analogy!
/r/seduction16/08/11 03:58 PM
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We have wireless land lines in our country that can receive and send text messages.
/r/seduction14/08/11 02:29 PM
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This happened to one of my friends, but in a classroom. Me and another friend of mine challenged this guy to talk to a girl on the other corner of the room without going there. He just shouted her name from our bench and said, "John and Mark say hello to you." We immediately ran away from there because we were pussies back then.
/r/seduction13/08/11 07:48 AM
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