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| 2 | Cracks me up EVERY time.A white guy once made a joke to me about Asian men having small dicks and I later told him an Asian man could probably f*ck me harder than he could. The look on this white guy's face! It was like I had physically hurt him, lol! He could not believe it, and told me no one had ever questioned his "jokes" (it wasn't funny) like that before. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/20 06:23 AM |
| 77 | Man once again panicking after getting a reality check about open marriagesHAHAHAHAHA. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/20 05:51 AM |
| 1 | The audacity of a LVMYikes. Does he use that line with all the women he talks to? It's not working, dude. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/20 05:46 AM |
| 8 | Me: “if you’re interested in me romantically we should go on a proper date.” Him:He took all the time to write that and still thinks he doesn't have time for one meal. Wow. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/20 05:15 AM |
| 2 | My ex collage!I need to give this an award! Beats dick more than he brushes teeth is too real! :( | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/20 04:33 AM |
| 2 | Update from guy who asked me why a walk wasn’t a date. Who’s gonna tell him? 🤣OMG yes lol. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/20 03:09 PM |
| 18 | Scrote want to have sex with a prostitute because his wife refuses to submit to a painful sex act. DIVORCE HIM.🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/09/20 05:07 AM |
| 1 | Remember ladies, if he wanted to, he would.I physically can’t imagine a guy doing this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/09/20 04:14 AM |
| 6 | Just a reminder this is a representative from the other 50% of the world population. God bless the woman who got away from this creep.BLESS 👏🏼 YOU 👏🏼 QUEEN 👏🏼 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/09/20 09:17 PM |
| -4 | Why are guys so obsessed with pictures?If they’re not asking for nudes, it could be innocent enough, assuming this is a guy you’re already with, i.e. your boyfriend or husband and not just a random guy. I also ask the guy I like for selfies of him because I like to see his face. It’s natural to want to see the faces of people you care about. If you’re not into it though then he needs to respect that. Just say “Hey, I’m not going to send selfies, but you can call me or text me.” There’s also FaceTime too. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/09/20 09:13 PM |
| 9 | 10 Types of Guys You Should Immediately Block If You Have An Anxious Attachment StyleEvery guy I have ever dated has been at least one of these. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/09/20 09:06 PM |
| 7 | Another reason to delete OLD: His dating options are “short or long walk” 😂I have 100% had guys I barely know ask me to make dinner for them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/20 11:58 PM |
| 6 | Another reason to delete OLD: His dating options are “short or long walk” 😂The way he said “short or long” had me laughing out loud. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/20 11:56 PM |
| 58 | Another reason to delete OLD: His dating options are “short or long walk” 😂He wants to take us on a walk like dogs! 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/20 07:39 PM |
| 4 | Don’t wash a mans shoes on the first date. Why would he wear those? Her page is about cleaning which would make her a target for men who want to use herOh no babe what is u doing. He supposed to be a grown man, not a stray puppy. 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/20 07:29 PM |
| 93 | The pictures you post are inconsiderate, the problem is definitely not the pornsickness I possessShe probably doesn’t even follow him and doesn’t care in the slightest what he thinks. Get a life, dude. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/20 01:02 AM |
| 11 | I know my comment is about to rain down hate upon me (fb screenshot).Small little gifts like plants can be very nice, but I agree the standards are low to nonexistent. Met a small business owner recently whose husband did purchase and renovate an entire historical mansion & property for her. Now that’s relationship goals. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/20 04:05 AM |
| 17 | The “Let’s Grab A Coffee” Outfit 🤣💀Hahahahahahahahahahahahah I love it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/20 03:54 AM |
| 3 | It only takes you 2 min to changeGo off queen!!!! 👏🏼 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/20 03:50 AM |
| 39 | Where is the lie though???👏🏼 👏🏼 👏🏼 Exactly. Compliment less. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/20 11:14 PM |
| 1 | Found an old cringey pickmeisha conversation of mine. Long but worth it.All these clowns want threesomes and they literally can barely satisfy one woman. In traditional cultures that actually practice polygyny, the men are extremely wealthy and generous, and the practice is still rare! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/20 10:57 PM |
| 4 | Woman wonders why FWB doesn’t care about foreplay. She’s so close to getting it, as well. 🤦🏾♀️It’s not even really sex at that point but just a guy just using your body as a living fleshlight to masturbate. These guys don’t care. #KickHimOut2020 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/20 05:51 AM |
| 94 | Meanwhile, he’s still active on OLD, and *trying* to sleep with other women.Sooooo many guys are like this. It’s almost funny at times. Like no, sweetie, that’s not how any of this works. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/20 02:46 PM |
| 14 | What were your biggest lightbulb moments from dates/ relationships that went wrong? For example, small things you easily overlooked in the beginning but in retrospect you realise were warning signs he was manipulative? Lets discuss!His workplace was also like 98% white as far as I knew. 🤡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/20 06:38 PM |
| 31 | What were your biggest lightbulb moments from dates/ relationships that went wrong? For example, small things you easily overlooked in the beginning but in retrospect you realise were warning signs he was manipulative? Lets discuss!He told me he thought white men are oppressed and that he almost lost his job for not being “diverse” enough. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/20 04:25 PM |
| 10 | Got it twisted when I called him out on his overly sexual flirting with me. Then I get this at 5am. Now he's going to have to wait longer now bc that's his "making it up to me"“Want you back” Pshh did he ever even “have” you? These guys are delusional. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/08/20 04:44 AM |
| 7 | Required to drive Y’all around? No inappropriate touching (slapping butt) in public?A guy slapped my butt in my own house and I didn’t like it, but he was not my boyfriend and he was being creepy. He didn’t understand either that it was harassment and tried to act like it was no big deal. With a partner I would probably be okay with a hand held there, but a smack or a slap? Oh, hell no. That’s incredibly disrespectful. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/08/20 03:01 AM |
| 7 | Won’t someone think of the poor menz who are now *sometimes* expected to do their fair share?Okay, my take on this, 1) Men are NOT expected to be breadwinner anymore, two income households are now standard—taking a woman out on a date once a week and paying is NOT the same thing as being the only income earner in a household, and 2) Women still do the vast majority of housework and cleaning, not ONLY at home, but also in the workplace. At my job, we have new cleaning standards for covid, the male workers still do NOT clean unless forced to do so. There’s even studies showing men have lo… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/20 02:43 PM |
| 9 | Why it's unacceptable for boyfriends to like sexy picsI have known LV guys who follow 4K+ women on Instagram and have ED, are poor, and are unattractive. It’s similar to pornsick, limp dick. It’s honestly just sad. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/20 01:58 PM |
| 3 | Won’t someone think of the poor menz who are now *sometimes* expected to do their fair share?👏🏼 It’s sad but true. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/20 01:34 PM |
| 5 | Won’t someone think of the poor menz who are now *sometimes* expected to do their fair share?Wow. I have no words. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/20 01:29 PM |
| 5 | another day, another LVM bullet dodged ✨So true. He radiates LVM & small dick energy in just a few messages. 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/20 07:19 AM |
| 6 | another day, another LVM bullet dodged ✨If you’re not interested in someone enough to commit to a proper first date, maybe you’re just not that interested in them. Like I’m not dating to “make friends” or “meet new people,”—I have my jobs, volunteering and groups for that. 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/20 04:34 AM |
| 5 | another day, another LVM bullet dodged ✨😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/20 04:31 AM |
| 13 | another day, another LVM bullet dodged ✨I was at a coffee shop today and overheard people who appeared to be on first dates. They sounded so awkward and it just seemed overly platonic. Coffee is definitely for colleagues and friends. Plus, a lot of the only restaurants open in my area right now are food trucks and casual outdoor spots, like Mr. Coffee shop guy literally can’t even afford that? What on earth? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/20 04:29 AM |
| 8 | This was just so ridiculous I had to post itSEND NAKDE PIC!!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/20 04:17 AM |
| 7 | This post and the majority of the comments are absolutely terrifyingThe “(despite the fact that she cant [sic] legally give it)” part!!! He already knows at the beginning that this sort of behavior is illegal, and he’s still doing it anyway, and posting about it publicly! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/08/20 05:03 PM |
| 13 | I was deleting pictures off my phone and I found this gem. So glad I deleted my OLD profiles. It was just too much effort.Some of them can’t, or won’t!! #theaudacity | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/08/20 05:01 PM |
| 20 | This man around my age. Enough said.Literal neo-Nazi and white supremacy talk. Did his girlfriend see him post this? I hope she breaks up with him immediately. Your main concern for your children should be their happiness and health, not their skin color and eye color. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/08/20 04:55 PM |
| 13 | He THOUGHT he was doing somethingVomit 🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/08/20 04:51 PM |
| 41 | My NV ex moved out last year. I converted his old gaming area into an art studio for myselfQUEEN SHIT 👏🏼👸🏼 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/08/20 04:47 PM |
| 17 | Sex and the CityI enjoyed Sex & The City in the earlier episodes, but yeah, as Carrie continues her abusive relationship with Big, it gets less entertaining. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/08/20 04:45 PM |
| 39 | I had not texted him back for over a week, he sends this message todayI should have added, “...with you.” 😂 I’m open to a relationship, but definitely not with that guy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/20 09:55 PM |
| 3 | How disgusting! This douchebag really thinks the world wide web revolves around him. 🤮What the hell. #LVMlogic | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/20 09:49 PM |
| 3 | Questions I Cant AnswerAs someone who has dated carpenters and woodworkers, some of them are also terrible and literal rapists, just saying. Some are drug addicts too. Still vet handyman types heavily. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/20 04:40 AM |
| 5 | LVMs confuse trauma with the consequences of their actions. Reserve your sympathy for the deserving.I’ve been accused of being “verbally abusive” to a guy who lied about cheating on me. Like, no, not really. 🤔 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/08/20 11:37 PM |
| 5 | Cultural differences in what you consider low/high value dates?American guys are usually too “friendly” with me, is how I might put it? Like they don’t treat you like a lady in the way foreign guys tend to. This is a massive generalization though, of course and not always accurate. Many other languages are also more gendered than English, so maybe that contributes to it? Like I want to be treated as a woman, not as their bro. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/08/20 05:19 AM |
| 25 | Cultural differences in what you consider low/high value dates?I feel like in a lot of cultures too, you have misogynist guys who want to pay for everything because it makes them feel like they own you. But then you have cheap scrotes who refuse to pay because “feminism” or they’re literally poor. It’s rare to find a genuinely HV guy, and most of the ones I know personally are already married to my HV female friends, because I think HV men don’t tend to stay perpetually single. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/08/20 07:35 PM |
| 8 | *long, exaggerated, justifiable sigh*WHAT IN THE HELL | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/08/20 06:35 PM |
| 145 | Having to explain the novel concept of a dinner date to a 36 year old man...Hard agree. I want you to ask me out— if I’m planning the entire first date myself, how is that fun for me? I could literally just take myself out and probably have a better time by myself, if I’m planning everything anyway! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/08/20 06:32 PM |
| 47 | Cultural differences in what you consider low/high value dates?Some of my friends are from Nigeria (West Africa) and they said paying for dates was more expected there. I also spent some time in Costa Rica, and although Latin culture has a lot of machismo, which can be both good & bad, the men did seem a bit more into traditional dating. Like a guy buying a woman a full-course meal, entree, sides, dessert, coffee, drinks, seemed pretty standard, as well as things like holding the door open, going dancing, etc, and the guys actually know how to dance. But of… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/08/20 06:24 PM |
| 11 | The real reason FDS pisses people off so muchSame here. I used to let LV types ruin my day, and I have not found any of the women on this sub to be hateful at all, but rather very supportive. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/20 06:03 PM |
| 10 | The real reason FDS pisses people off so muchYES. This. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/20 05:42 PM |
| 11 | On a post regarding "marriageable" womenSo he's describing himself as lazy? What? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/20 05:31 PM |
| 1 | “A walk isn’t a date?!”😂😂👏👏 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/20 04:34 PM |
| 3 | “A walk isn’t a date?!”He is very much a sadboy, lol. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/20 04:30 PM |
| 9 | “A walk isn’t a date?!”Yeah it’s honestly pretty bad. He’s also an American originally raised in Japan, and trying to use that as an excuse to not take me as a date, and also said “all American restaurants are shitty.” While I don’t doubt the food is better in Japan, that still sounds like a weird excuse. I think this guy just likes to be alone and doing his own thing & isn’t ready for a relationship, + possibly has some bad attitudes and pain surrounding women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/20 04:25 PM |
| 3 | “A walk isn’t a date?!”He still doesn’t seem to get it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/20 04:22 PM |
| 3 | “A walk isn’t a date?!”He also just made a public post about this sharing my screenshots, whining that he’ll “never find a girl because he wants to go on nature walks.” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/20 04:21 PM |
| 5 | “A walk isn’t a date?!”Lol, I can’t even 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/20 04:36 AM |
| 19 | “A walk isn’t a date?!”Honestly, I’m not surprised. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/20 12:57 AM |
| 146 | “A walk isn’t a date?!”Backstory is this man and I matched OVER A YEAR AGO on OLD, I unmatched him because he kept suggesting “walking around” dates. I recently met him in person by accident. He finds me on social media, sent this message today, and is STILL trying to get me to “go on a walk” with him. I need to block him everywhere, I guess. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/08/20 08:49 PM |
| 68 | “A walk isn’t a date?!”😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/08/20 08:41 PM |
| 3 | Yellow dick paste the revolutionising antibacterial goodness🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/08/20 08:16 PM |
| 1 | He just wants someone he can abuse (Original post from another sub)This 👏 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/08/20 05:34 AM |
| 0 | He just wants someone he can abuse (Original post from another sub)Some of these are fine, but,” Must do everything I say”?? This guy sounds like a sociopath. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/08/20 05:31 AM |
| 3 | Being single would be much easier (and healthier) if our culture prioritized platonic relationships as much as romantic relationships.Very true! Preach. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/08/20 05:16 AM |
| 9 | "My fiancé infantilizes me and is generally unsympathetic towards my issues. Also, we have two kids together and we aren't married."2 kids later and still just her fiancé? Oh hell no. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/08/20 12:23 PM |
| 2 | He wants her to wear a bra because it makes HIM uncomfortable! 🤣🤣🤣😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/08/20 11:18 PM |
| 5 | He wants her to wear a bra because it makes HIM uncomfortable! 🤣🤣🤣A friend of mine’s scrote FWB always wanted her to wear a bra because “it makes your boobs look bigger.” She looked amazing with and without a bra, for the record, and the difference was very minor. These sorts of posts make lesbianism more appealing, because lesbian couples may not be perfect, but at least they probably don’t have to deal with lack of empathy around wearing a bra or going without! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/08/20 11:16 PM |
| 12 | Scrote Wont Leave My Apt and Im SUPER DepressedA similar thing happened with my (now ex) roommate and her scrote bf. He moved in when Covid began, hardly ever cooked, didn’t clean, barely contributed financially (also makes very little money). Made me repeatedly feel uncomfortable in my own home, hogged the living room playing video games, watched and talked about his porn use. Called me a “psychopath” and wrote posts online personally attacking me when I finally voiced an issue with it. The audacity. They were not even engaged! She had shar… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/07/20 03:35 AM |
| 7 | I just know she is not asking her to wear different clothes in the comfort of her own home because her boyfriend is there. imagine telling a woman you live with to cover up bc your man was staring instead of checking up on her to see if she was uncomfortable bc YOUR MAN WAS STARING.Yessss Queen. This is the damn truth, too. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/07/20 03:26 AM |
| 2 | I just know she is not asking her to wear different clothes in the comfort of her own home because her boyfriend is there. imagine telling a woman you live with to cover up bc your man was staring instead of checking up on her to see if she was uncomfortable bc YOUR MAN WAS STARING.This is insanity. I’m assuming the bf doesn’t even pay to live there! #KickHimOut2020!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/07/20 03:23 AM |
| 7 | My co-worker asked me out?Ugh, I didn’t think of that, but that actually makes sense here. 😒 Maybe they are thinking like who will “get her.” Gross. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/07/20 07:38 PM |
| 4 | “And stuff”I love your response, lol!! So good. 😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/07/20 09:45 AM |
| 2 | LVM HALL OF FAME: Bodybuilder Yuri Tolochko to Wed His Sex Doll Girlfriend After 8 Months of DatingTerrifying. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/07/20 05:01 AM |
| 7 | She literally mothered and fathered him... this cant be real 💀Respectfully.... what the hell?? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/07/20 04:41 AM |
| 2 | This is what I mean when I say we need to call a spade a spade with our girlfriendsShe should press charges if she can. This is why I’m terrified to date. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/07/20 05:45 PM |
| 5 | First time poster long time lurker. This question is intended for women who have dated white men.I’m white and since George Floyd, I have heard a lot of white men saying things about how they feel like there is reverse racism against whites now, and really just wildly ignorant stuff. I also know of a ton of white guys who fetishize WOC, and a white scrote type even complained to me once that “only Latinas like him” because he’s “exotic” to them, and he has no luck with white women (probably because he’s a loser and needs his blue eyes to seem interesting). I think some guys can be HV regard… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/07/20 03:28 AM |
| 6 | Thoughts?I’m not on either 🤷♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/07/20 02:51 AM |
| 17 | Let's stop using libfem language. "Sex Work" is not a thing - the correct term is Prostitution.I've definitely gotten into debates with misguided women about this. "But SeX WorK is So EmPowErInG." | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/07/20 08:46 PM |
| 1 | I asked him what he thinks about #metoo and the wage gap... These are red flags right?!🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/07/20 06:32 PM |
| 20 | Is it a turn-off knowing someone you’re dating for weeks is still actively looking for others?If you’re not in a relationship, you’re not in a relationship. You should be continuing to date others too if he is not exclusive. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/06/20 04:35 AM |
| 2 | What dou you think, is it normal that someone's life basically revolves around her boyfriend?Most couples I know are like this and it’s honestly a big reason I want to stay single for now. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/06/20 04:30 AM |
| 1 | This was painful to watchAlso I saw her channel and wow, her boyfriend is ugly | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/06/20 11:58 PM |
| 2 | This was painful to watchReminds me of two girl friends I had 1) She moved to a totally new state for her bf's new job in hope of getting married, they never did, she passed up a good job for this and had to start over, and 2) She regularly buys socks and toiletries for her deadbeat boyfriend because his socks "have holes in them" and he can't remember basic toiletries... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/06/20 11:50 PM |
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