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I Know exactly how you feel Now, Imagine someone pulls in front of you doing 60 mph & hits the brakes. Totals your vehicle. Then you have to walk back & forth for 2 months till you can save enough to buy something else Then 2 days after you get it, it gets stolen. You still have a roof over your head, a vehicle you can drive to see your kids & get back & forth to work? Then you're doing good. It's all about perspection my friend. It can ALWAYS get worse, till it can't. Then that is when every ma…
/r/Divorce_Men09/04/25 01:48 AM
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I "knew a guy" who's ex was from small town up by Denver. Her family was from there & she left him because he walked away from his family & wouldn't be receiving the inheritance. Everyone knew she used him to get the money & when he walked away from it she got pregnant & left him after 7 years. She took him straight to court & hasnt talked to him since. She lives in a big house, drives a new car & has full custody of their child. Meanwhile hes homeless, has no car & the last I heard he lost his …
/r/Divorce_Men30/11/24 01:55 PM
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Yes I did. And it was bull shit. It didn't turn out good for her at all. But even though they couldn't find one thing to keep my son away from me they made it where it couldn't be brought up in court ever again. It was a complete waste of time. In fact the investigator asked me why her family hates me so bad. It made her look bad. If your in Elbert county I would suggest getting a lawyer from somewhere else. Try the advocates.
/r/Divorce_Men28/08/24 03:33 PM
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I'm curious what county you're in
/r/Divorce_Men28/08/24 03:20 PM
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You have to look at this as a business transaction and your children as assets.
/r/Divorce_Men28/08/24 12:35 AM
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Don't fall for anything she does or says. The best thing you can do is act like youre living you're best life & that youve made peace with her moving on. She may have come to the realization that in 5 years she is going to be the divorced older lady & that men are the ones that typically get better looking as we age. Oh well, she made her bed, let her lay it.
/r/Divorce_Men26/08/24 11:35 PM
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She went through everything & got rid of everything that we had together. I really wish I had went down & copied every picture we had onto hard copy, put them into an album for our son to see later. I will say, when I found out that she just tossed all the pictures of our wedding into a 50 gallon trash bag, it cut deep.
/r/Divorce_Men22/08/24 08:59 PM
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Ive been divorced 2 years, separated for a year before that. I tried dating 3 different times. First time, I walked in, paid for the drinks, told her what was going on & that I had made a horrible mistake. That it was WAY to early. A year later I was asked out so I decided to go. Half way through the date I sent my friend the "get me the fuck out of here without looking like a asshole" text. 5 minutes later I was in my truck, heading in the opposite direction. 6 months ago I ran into a girl I ha…
/r/Divorce_Men19/08/24 05:57 AM
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Throw your phone in a river. Cancel all your credit cards except for one & haul ass. Good luck brother. You'll be glad you did it. I know I was.
/r/Divorce_Men05/01/24 06:08 PM
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I was supposed to have my son this Christmas but couldn't because of the weather. Couldn't get over the pass to meet at the designated exchange location. 2'nd year in a row now. My son's 3 years old. Count your blessings brother. Sorry to hear you're going through this. It sucks. I moved out of the city to give him a better life in the future, I'm not looking at the present. I worked all weekend & today. When she told me she was divorcing me I asked her for a second chance, she told me to make h…
/r/Divorce_Men26/12/23 02:09 AM
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First go out. Put yourself out there. Don't talk about what happened. That's in the past. Nobody gives a shit. There's nothing that can be done about it so fuck it. What are YOU doing? What can YOU bring to the table?
/r/Divorce_Men03/12/23 04:00 AM
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Nicely articulated.
/r/Divorce_Men02/12/23 12:59 AM
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I don't. I can't. After what has happened in the last 2 years I'll never be able to trust another woman as long as I live. My banker is a guy, my Dr is a guy everyone who is important in my life are men. I'm not sure how that's going to work when my son starts preschool but we'll cross that bridge when we get there.
/r/Divorce_Men26/11/23 02:04 AM
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Take her for everything she has. Flip the script on her. She'd do it to you. And DON'T GET MARRIED AGAIN!!
/r/Divorce_Men17/11/23 03:07 PM
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This is a place to vent & comfort guys. Granted, a reality check is good once in a while but not a kick in the balls
/r/Divorce_Men16/11/23 10:59 PM
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Oh no!! Definitely not women!! Don't get me wrong, I'm a straight, white, conservative male. Yea, I know. The only type you can legally hate on & not get in trouble for it, but that's what I am. I'm staying as far away from those soul sucking creatures as possible & I plan to teach my son just how horrible the system is rigged against men long before he gets trapped in it.
/r/Divorce_Men16/11/23 02:15 AM
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I signed the divorce papers yesterday. I poured my heart & soul into a marriage/relationship for 13 years & a gold mine for 9 years that was ultimately supposed to be handed down to me that was the demise of that marriage in the end. When it was discovered just how profitable the mine was going to be it was pulled out from underneath me , you can follow along... You're going to miss things about her. Maybe A LOT of things!! What you miss is the predictably & the comfort. The one thing that stays…
/r/Divorce_Men16/11/23 02:06 AM
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Damn right I am. People like you move to my state & try to change things. Stay the fuck where you are. Don't move. Stay where you are. Keep you're ideas there.
/r/Divorce_Men15/11/23 07:47 PM
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I felt that last sentence. As soon as my ex had our son she was gone!! All she wanted was my seed. I do make gorgeous kids. Red hair, blue eyes.. so🤷🏼‍♂️. Yea, as soon as she realized she wasn't getting a gold mine she was out!!
/r/Divorce_Men15/11/23 03:54 AM
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And that's why people like you need to stay where you're at since you like it there so much.
/r/Divorce_Men14/11/23 09:53 PM
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The whole idea behind the corona virus is depopulation.
/r/Divorce_Men14/11/23 09:50 PM
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You're not a tree, MOVE!!
/r/Divorce_Men12/11/23 02:42 AM
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I'm serious, FUCK westernized woman!! Don't even acknowledge their existence. Their soul sucking demons. And they have the court system to back them up in every sense to do whatever they want. Get your passport & go to Thailand where you're being hit on every second of every day. Switch the game up my friend.
/r/Divorce_Men12/11/23 02:42 AM
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Work on YOU!! Fuck woman from America!! If you want a REAL woman, look into going overseas. That's where your going to find a woman that truly appreciates you for who you are. Not some gold digging bitch that sees you as an investment.
/r/Divorce_Men12/11/23 01:53 AM
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ABSOLUTELY NOT!! I'm in the same boat. My divorce is almost finalized after 2 years. Medical decisions are 50/50 & we are against the COVID vax 1000%. No matter if the doctor is for it or not!! Do not get the shot!! Do not subject your child to this. This is a lifetime decision that will greatly effect your child in a negative way. If I EVER found out my ex did this I would be livid!!
/r/Divorce_Men11/11/23 09:57 PM
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Vanilla air fresheners.. are you kidding me? That's a new one. 🤦
/r/Divorce_Men10/11/23 03:52 AM
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I was forced to use my family wizard by the courts. I'm on the 2 year ( going on the 3'rd) because of the details of the custody agreement. I'm not letting ANYTHING get by me. I know how women work. I grew up around 4 sisters, my best friend is a girl, I know how they think, how they operate. This is one reason my stbxw & I didn't get a long. I called her out on a lot of her bullshit long before she ever had a chance to do it. BTW they hate that. I got the holidays down, the drop off location, w…
/r/Divorce_Men10/11/23 03:51 AM
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I wasn't "attacking" him. If anything I was being sympathetic by knowing how he felt about her scheduling these appointments on the days/times without communicating with you first. Im lucky & can take a week off when I get son. I have to give 3 weeks notice & when she makes appointments without telling me Ioose out on an entire paycheck. So I sympathize with you. I'm not attacking.
/r/Divorce_Men04/11/23 07:44 PM
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Zip tie it to her drive line. That way you can still annoy the hell out of her a little while longer. Most mechanics know what this is & they'll just send them down the road.
/r/Divorce_Men04/11/23 07:32 PM
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Zip tie it to her drive line. That way you can still annoy the hell out of her aittle while longer. Most mechanics know what this is & they'll just send them down the road.
/r/Divorce_Men04/11/23 07:31 PM
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My ex wife scheduled our son's Dr appointment on days that fall right in the middle of the week I have him for the month. Does it make me upset? Yes! Is it important that he See's the Dr? Absolutely!! I'll put his health & safety over my wants & desires every time.
/r/Divorce_Men04/11/23 04:38 AM
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As her "well to do" parents have done.
/r/Divorce_Men31/10/23 01:08 AM
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She filed in February 2022. She refuses to speak to me unless it's through the courts. We've said less than 5 words to each other in the last 2 years. It makes it VERY difficult trying to coparent with her, being that we have a 4 year old boy.
/r/Divorce_Men11/10/23 02:54 AM
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Were you married to my wife too? She did ALL the wedding planning, said going on birth control would mess up her hormones & send her into early menopause, kept track of her fertility like it was a fucking ticking time bomb. We were together for 5 years, no protection, not even a scare. I mentioned that I was thinking of getting a vasectomy & the very next month she's pregnant.
/r/Divorce_Men25/09/23 05:39 AM
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Blood doesn't make you family, it only makes you relation.
/r/Divorce_Men18/09/23 11:40 PM
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Oh yea. I went from a three story townhouse with my wife, son, sister, niece & nephew. To living out of vehicle & now living 8 hours away in a shit hole apartment for now. Driving a POS shit truck & nobody gives 2 shits or a f"*(# about how you're doing. I went from having over 300 contacts in my phone to less than 20 in 3 months. I found out who's actually got my back & who doesn't. And it was 3 guys I've known since I was a teenager. Ironically. The same guys who've been there for each other f…
/r/Divorce_Men23/08/23 03:31 AM
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A death sentence
/r/Divorce_Men20/08/23 12:38 AM
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I read the first sentence & couldn't agree more. Best advice anyone could ever give this man!!
/r/Divorce_Men18/08/23 01:28 AM
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I have our (hopefully) last mediation next week. Then a court date to finalize the divorce. She hasn't spoken more than 20 words to me since she filed in February 2022. I took it EXTREMELY hard. I couldn't hold a job, I would break down crying in the middle of the day. I lived out of my Tahoe all last summer & eventually had to move across the state to a warmer climate so I wouldn't freeze to death & back in with my family. Now I've realized that I don't want to be with a woman thatll leave her …
/r/Divorce_Men18/08/23 01:21 AM
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Not having one
/r/Divorce_Men05/08/23 12:32 AM
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I tried to start a business 6 hours away from the city. Start a business where she could be a stay at home mom & never have to worry about money ever again. This was during covid. Apparently she would rather work for the rest of her life & be a single mother. Fucked me in the process. I lost everything I worked for & my family. I'll never get married again. Or live with another woman. They're all evil in my mind. I'd rather pay for it & be done with it. Now I'm fucked for another 15 years. Never…
/r/Divorce_Men25/07/23 04:03 PM
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I've never heard of a marriage warranty
/r/Divorce_Men08/07/23 09:46 PM
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If anything, download them to a USB drive
/r/Divorce_Men05/07/23 06:20 AM
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ABSOLUTELY not
/r/Divorce_Men05/07/23 06:19 AM
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If it's your wife, then yes. If it hurts your kid, no.
/r/Divorce_Men27/05/23 04:51 AM
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They are heartless creatures. I give it another 5 years max & marriage will be a thing of the past. And it will be the female that killed it.
/r/Divorce_Men25/05/23 04:19 PM
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They never take accountability for their actions
/r/Divorce_Men25/05/23 03:55 PM
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I took off & ghosted everyone. 2 weeks later there was a missing persons report out on me. You know what my stbxw did? She went to fucking balloon festival with her best friend. Yea. That's how much they care about you. Not one single bit. So you know what you do? As bad as it kill you inside, you act like they're dead. Don't talk to them. Don't look at them. Don't engage with them at all!! Not one single bit. Not a hello, goodbye, fuck you, nothing!! Try it & see what happens. You'll thank me l…
/r/Divorce_Men25/05/23 12:54 AM
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I'm about to do it. I'm waiting to see what the courts decide. I toldy wife she would die a widow before we got divorced. That I would jump off the court stairs & dive bomb head first right in front of her & she would have to explain to our son why he didn't he have a dad. Well, that days coming soon. so we'll see.
/r/Divorce_Men19/05/23 03:44 PM
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My stbxw filed February 25 2021, we still are not divorced.
/r/Divorce_Men16/05/23 03:04 AM
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I think the way the law is tilted is bullshit all the way. If your a guy, you can almost bet that youre going to get screwed. I was in a relationship for 8 years. Ive had seizures since I was 24 & never been on disability. I've worked & she was well aware of all of my disabilities. 5 years into relationship, I had a seizure, fell & broke my jaw & lost 60% of my memories. I spent almost a year in the hospital for reconstructive surgery. After I was released she wanted to get married. Soon after t…
/r/Divorce_Men15/05/23 02:28 AM
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No, the pain doesn't stop. It's been over 14 months since mine walked out the door with my son & took off with her mom. I spent the first 2 days on the bathroom floor. After that Its just continuously gone down hill. I've tried everything to please her & do what she asked me to & it's just screwed me. So, here's my advice. I know you love her. Ok. But that woman that looks exactly like her, isn't the woman you married. Ok!! Get that through your head & you'll be better off faster. Now, Stop talk…
/r/Divorce_Men27/04/23 03:39 AM
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I have serious trust issues. I can't think about her with another guy. The thought of another guy with my wife & son is almost enough to make me want to go do horrible things. Some people would say insane things. I've lost all drive. Nothing matters anymore. It's been over a year since I've talked to her & I still wake up crying every night. I haven't had a full night's sleep in over a year. Probably never will again.
/r/Divorce_Men18/03/23 02:22 PM
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No, all of you are wrong. HERE Is my advise. Take it or leave it. Go file first. Do NOT move out!!! Tell her that you're willing to do whatever it takes to save the marriage but it has she has put in her fair share of work also!! Read 21 questions. Work on yourself Start doing what you want to do to make you happy again. Start working out. Get yourself in shape. Take dance classes without her knowing & then TELL her your going out on a date. Be more of a man Women like to be led. If she's alread…
/r/Divorce_Men18/03/23 02:03 PM
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Playing "nice guy" will only get you screwed over in the end. Do NOT give in to her!! Not one Bit. I'm at the very end of the divorce process (I think). It's been over a year. She has our 2 year old boy, moved into her parents house 50 miles away, started a job making $3500 a month & I still had to pay her $250 a month child support while I was living out of my Tahoe all summer. Yea, I got fucked. So don't do what I did. I tried to make her happy & did whatever she asked . It came back to bite m…
/r/Divorce_Men18/03/23 03:51 AM
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I am also in Colorado. My stbx got a court appointed investigator to do a home visit. How is this going to go? Does anyone know anything about this?
/r/Divorce_Men15/03/23 10:26 PM
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