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Question For Bluepilltmpjb/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/14 11:06 AM
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Question For Bluepilltmpjb/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/14 05:12 AM
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At low levels of strength, you can gain muscles without a caloric excess. Losing fat while gaining muscle is possisble for noobies which I think op is. She doesn't really need a toned core if she is training for health though.
/r/RedPillWomen08/12/14 01:05 PM
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Lol the girls here don't understand where this guy is coming from. But I'm also a guy and I can definitely see where OP went wrong. We are often told that women are attracted to guys with money, who are stable, and who are kind. Even in /r/theredpill attraction is LMS - looks MONEY status. He is trying to say that the money element matters more than confidence. The thing is that money doesn't really influence attractiveness unless maybe it's enough to convey status. So he is less attractive than…
/r/RedPillWomen29/11/14 04:28 AM
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I am very curious as to what they are going to use the money for. Are they going to use it like an octopus uses ink by throwing money when they harassed to make an escape?
/r/TheRedPill28/10/14 08:53 PM
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Lol the definition of anti-feminism is super biased. BPers will say feminism is about equal rights, but virtually everyone agrees with that. The feminist movement doesn't stop there. They are behind things like affirmative action, yes-means-yes law, and even things like wanting to balance gender ratio in engineering but not trash collecting. I can't really get behind much of anything they say so I would say I am an anti-feminist, but that definition makes me out to be some religious believer in …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/14 02:18 AM
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Oh, lol. I don't even care what people think of me so it didn't even register.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/14 01:46 AM
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Make a fake okcupid account and just list some accomplishments on your profile. Women don't a fuck. They are at least as harsh on appearance as men are. Putting on make up is a whole lot easier than making millions or climbing the corporate ladder.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/14 12:29 AM
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Entitled is a strong word, but I think sex (by either partner) should be something that is done just for the sake of the marriage just like taking care of kids and financial support are. and entitled is too strong of a word. both from my first post. I don't know how to spell it out any further for you. you said You aren't entitled to anyone else's body. You just aren't. I know it sucks for people who believe sex is an entitlement, but doing chores isn't the same as having your way with someone e…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/14 02:06 PM
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I specifically said no one is entitled to anything, but it's good for the relationship. Learn how to read.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/14 01:42 PM
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It's more of a culture thing rather than a logical one. If it was correct simply because that's how most people view things than the BP perspective would by definition always be correct. Duty sex is simply a certain amount of work in order to keep the relationship healthy. Doing chores is very similar in that is a work that is expected by the other and helps maintain the relationship. If you add some undefinable wrongness towards duty sex then yeah it's "wrong" to ask for or even expect it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/14 10:56 AM
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That was beautiful. Entitled is a strong word, but I think sex (by either partner) should be something that is done just for the sake of the marriage just like taking care of kids and financial support are. If one spouse decided to not work anymore once they got married then people would find that highly manipulative. Sorta wierd how people don't have the same view towards sex. There are certain expectations going into it, but entitled is too strong of a word.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/14 02:18 AM
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So maybe redpills LMS (looks, money, status), should just be looks and status. I tried to tell them that but they got mad at me lol.
/r/RedPillWomen12/10/14 10:35 PM
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Lol when proofreading my comment I was like I should take this out because it's going to derail things. I've literally asked this question like 200 times to women in real life and somehow it never gets a straight answer. A woman puts on a revealing dress -> more attractive. A woman puts on high heels -> more attractive A man wearing expensive shit -> more attractive? plenty of stuff on the mainstream media pushes this idea that a girl will check out a guy's nice sports car and go hnnng. I am not…
/r/RedPillWomen12/10/14 09:50 PM
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It's very easy to see that money makes you more relationship material, but does it make you more attractive? On TRP they cited studies where they showed a girl a paper with a guys face and income and said that income made them rate the guy higher. I'm not exactly sure how that can be true and it doesn't really match my personal real world experience. I feel that chasing money in order to compensate for looks is only going to hurt you. I know my own parents tried to encourage me to go to med scho…
/r/RedPillWomen12/10/14 09:26 PM
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Yeah I had to learn that the hard way. I've started a thread on askwomen where I had a very long argument with a woman who said appearance didn't matter at all and I really had to corner her to win lol.
/r/RedPillWomen12/10/14 02:50 AM
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:O you may have answered a question of mine that i've asked a million times The thing I can never get answer to is does money make you more attractive or is it just a practical consideration. Like if you: saw a male model on a magazine then rated his attractiveness then read how he has a successful business then rerated his attractiveness would it be higher? Maybe not a perfect test, but I am a man so I can't sense anything. I read the okcupid blog on relationships and it said women 18-22 don't …
/r/RedPillWomen12/10/14 02:15 AM
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The thing I can never get answer to is does money make you more attractive or is it just a practical consideration. Like if you: saw a male model on a magazine then rated his attractiveness then read how he has a successful business then rerated his attractiveness would it be higher? Maybe not a perfect test, but I am a man so I can't sense anything. I read the okcupid blog on relationships and it said women 18-22 don't really discriminate based on money. It makes sense once they leave school an…
/r/RedPillWomen11/10/14 02:47 AM
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Oh, I see. Actually I follow that sub and everytime there is relationship advice threads mentioning sexual incompatability (like he won't go down on me) they say END THE RELATIONSHIP lol. I thought people there would relatively normal because everyone could use some tips to be better in bed but I think they are a little out there.
/r/RedPillWomen07/10/14 08:31 PM
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Except that it's easy to see a direct relationship between satisfied sexual needs and relationship satisfaction. Sex, esp. for men, is a very large component of the relationship and the guy feels like the girl is doing her part which increases likelyhood he will do his. Another test would be to take a submissive women who didn't have sex and I can just imagine that would old very quickly. But, in general, men like submissive women and women like dominant men.
/r/RedPillWomen07/10/14 08:21 PM
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some pretty vague ass answers lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/14 10:56 PM
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Don't just ask right away that is going from zero to 60. Start a casual conversation to see if she is into you first. If she isn't then no amount of confidence is going to make her say yes. If she seems someone open then invite her to join yous somewhere.
/r/TheRedPill05/10/14 10:20 PM
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Oh god not sex god method recommendations again... Just be very specific and what you want him to do. He is probably not very confident and would rather perform well than please himself. Start off with a compromise by teaching him how to be dominant than just expect he knows how. Here's a good guide https://www.reddit.com/r/sex/comments/13tu08/my_howto_guide_for_men_on_how_to_dominate_a_woman and then after that he should feel more confident in doing what he likes that will also please you.
/r/RedPillWomen04/10/14 10:13 PM
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Wow you lasted for 4 months! Man, what a trooper.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/14 07:49 PM
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Well if the girl is expecting the guy to pay for the date then the cost of staying is A LOT lower.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/14 02:32 PM
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I don't think her saying I am uncomfortable is too much to ask for.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/14 02:38 AM
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Some girls just lay there... This would be so much simpler if the girl just had to take a modicum of responsibility.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/14 02:06 AM
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Well the story goes she was wet while spooning, and not expecting penetrative sex. I guess you can get wet for no reason sometimes like how men get erect for no apparent reason but that's not the case here. Also not one person has explained how to go about getting consent.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/14 07:44 PM
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I've heard that as a reason for why men can't be raped so it should work the other way around.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/14 07:42 PM
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I've heard before that men can't be raped because they have to be aroused. Isn't this the same deal?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/14 07:39 PM
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First time you've heard feminists say sometimes yes means no? your not very up to date are you.l,,
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/14 12:32 PM
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She was wet down there that's a way bigger cue than body language.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/14 12:32 PM
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She was wet down there supposedly so yes that should mean she wanted it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/14 12:31 PM
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Him slipping it in without asking for consent in unambiguous terms is now considered an abusive relationship? lol jesus christ. If he was like hitting her or keeping her away from her friends/family then yeah that's obviously abusive, but shit like this I can't take seriously.
/r/TheRedPill29/09/14 10:20 PM
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I'm not an expert on lawyer on rape or anything, it just seems odd to me that someone would continue to be with their rapists for months afterward.
/r/TheRedPill29/09/14 02:54 PM
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Not really about "shit testing" it's more about power. Whoever is more willing to leave the relationship has power over the other. He has a level of independence where they need him more than he needs them and so he withdraw support until things change. A more common example with this is where wife doesn't feel like having sex like they used to so she can demand favors from the husband in exchange for sex a few times a. week. This is probably the main reason marriage is bad because if you encoun…
/r/TheRedPill28/09/14 07:46 PM
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lol you need to change your username
/r/TheRedPill27/09/14 09:27 PM
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working out properly requires an absurd amount of time; I know because I've done it before. Going to the gym for at very least 3 hours a week, and following a strict diet meaning cooking meat (extra time). And you can never quit because all your gains will evaporate in no time plus risk on injury. I guess if you had the 1g/lb protein intake already working out can be worthwhile, otherwise i'd stick to sports and working on career.
/r/TheRedPill27/09/14 08:37 PM
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I didn't even write "working out" I said getting buff. You lost a lot of fat and boy that does wonders -- congratulations. But if you have a bmi in the normal range, the affect of adding muscle isn't nearly big as many men think. Also most men tend to think that bodybuilder physique is attractive to women when studies have shown it's repulsive to most. As for myself, I put on a little bit of bulk, but I'm mostly doing it to get better at calisthenics.
/r/TheRedPill27/09/14 02:37 PM
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Getting buff isn't going to make you attractive automatically, it doesn't matter THAT much. Only women can raise their attractiveness level significantly. Proper makeup and staying thing, well you would have to be very ugly to not even make average. But do try your best.
/r/TheRedPill27/09/14 10:13 AM
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Sex God Method is shit written by an incel. If you want advice on sex check the /r/sex wiki (not the top posts). Women each have a certain amount of how much they want to be dominate and be dominated that you have to figure out with good communication.
/r/TheRedPill27/09/14 06:28 AM
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Did you think I was growing out my hair and learning to cook? lol No I guys ask questions in there all the time plus they say what their SOs do which gives me some ideas. No I don't browse it religiously.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/14 08:16 AM
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Yeah are you even reading what I am writing? I don't even take red pillers advice on 'getting women' I just strike up conversations and if she seems interested I escalate. Works fine for me. The thing is that if you ask women in real life what they want they will just say smart, funny, and kind. Those are nice things but they aren't really the truth so I look around on the internet where people can say exactly what they want without appearing shallow.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/14 04:38 AM
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The thing I am wondering though is why isn't there a RPW-like sub without all the redpill talk. Where else do they talk about nagging, captain/first mate dynamic, shit testing, the wall, or whatever? I've posted things I'd like to see which is what a RPW would probably do and boy am I downvoted for it. So I have to come to the conclusion that they do dislike the advice or else there would at least be some alternative to it elsewhere. So I try to figure out what's wrong with the advice if no one …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/14 11:07 PM
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Umm well I do look for and heed advice given by RPW. Not sure we are on the same page. Everyone is a little different and I don't force the girls I am dating to be RPW. Couldn't even if I tried really, but ideally it's something I would want.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/14 10:44 PM
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Yeah TRP are definitely overconfident with their predictions. They should be very humble considering that people are pretty much the most complex thing we study and the scientific studies haven't made much progress. I asked on RPW sub how do I get a girl who's like you and they said "RPW are made" meaning I just have to be alpha and take the lead and everything will fall into place. I try to tell them that the girls I've dated are not interested in this stuff and I can't really change them, but …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/14 07:53 PM
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LOL I've asked them the same thing. Why not just make a sub that lists some things that men like or could help your relationship. Getfeminine looks like more about feminine things rather than about achieving something like a captain/first officer dynamic and only 334 subs wow lol. But yeah you're right about their wierd association with TRP. If they truly believed in alpha fux, beta bux then one would think they would be sharing advice on how to cheat without getting caught. Instead they are som…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/14 07:29 PM
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I've noticed these problems too, but what about the actual advice given? I mean even Hitler said some good things about freedom and democracy that doesn't discredit them. A lot of the advice they give actually isn't very common. Where do you find the traditional, submissive boards if you don't mind me asking?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/14 06:25 PM
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Yeah that may be true, mods tend to fall in the extreme regardless of sub. But I was really asking about the advice they give which not many people seem to be addressing. Some said they were offended by it, but not whether it was objectively wrong or right. Particular offense was taken at the recommendation to marry young, but it really should be common knowledge that younger girls have more options and well marriage is for life (supposedly anyways).
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/14 05:22 PM
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A lot of posters here act like the sub has "this is how all relationships should be" as the title. It's true that no one can really prove that most men want a RPW, and I don't even know how you would go about proving it. I want it, and pretty much every guy I know would say something along the lines of 'wife material' if they saw a girl act that way. I mean it's a very significant number. I think a lot people think of submissiveness in terms of like a samurai's wife where they essentially act so…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/14 05:14 PM
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Everyone here is shaming you even though redpill is supposedly about handling hard truths. All I can say is when you swing branches make sure you have a place to land. Eventually you are going to have to settle because your SMV will decline and all your options will be worse than your current one. As a guy, I am not even mad lol and I think hypergamy goes for both genders. Very attractive women could be a little nice to us and then we think she is an amazing angel even though it's just our brain…
/r/RedPillWomen19/09/14 10:38 PM
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Serious question. I thought a big part of RPW was getting men to be more alpha? (e.g. various encouragements, no shit testing etc) Or is this talking about specific stuff like take out the trash?
/r/RedPillWomen03/09/14 07:39 PM
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Trying to get my question answered... what did you think? Tempest almost answered it but everyone else seems to either put words in my mouth rather than answer or are more interested in me than the question. If you must know, I'm trying to get my relationship (which isn't a LTR yet) more redpill to try it out. Sounds good on paper, but I'm starting to have doubts.
/r/RedPillWomen26/08/14 07:00 AM
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Yeah one in 100 posts. And the comments wouldn't be helpful either. I've been posting there for like half a year. I thought my question was simple and clear, but everyone just reguritates the basics or tells me to gtfo so there is some failure in communication so whatever.
/r/RedPillWomen26/08/14 06:45 AM
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lol wut, you inferred all that from my comment. Maybe your the one who should visit trp then because their discussion obviously isn't focused on LTRs...
/r/RedPillWomen26/08/14 06:24 AM
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Yeah I know the kind of leader that you girls want here. The problem isn't about competency, it's about differing values. The path she wants to take is very different than the one I want to. So I do listen and try to accomodate, but they differ so at least one of us ends up disatisfied. I don't like changing people so maybe I should just find someone else. I kinda took on these ideas to improve the relationship not end it. Maybe I'll go back to the old way of doing things.
/r/RedPillWomen25/08/14 03:40 AM
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If she has chosen to accept your leadership, then she should accept it and encourage you but not step in and correct you; she isn't your mommy. Bi Umm not sure what was wrong with my question. I just hear a lot of RPW disatisfied with the way their SO does things and I was wondering how much do I sway between having the final say and following her advice despite me disagreeing. I guess I have to be the best decision maker I can be and hope she is satisfied with that. it can be hard when we our p…
/r/RedPillWomen25/08/14 03:33 AM
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Guy here. What if she doesn't like the way I am leading? If she has to sorta correct me when when we disagree doesn't that make her the real leader?
/r/RedPillWomen24/08/14 06:12 AM
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"the solution is always just to be smart enough to recognize that both sides are too reductionist". Sounds to me like he's saying no one really knows and therefore the theories are incorrect rather than just being too extreme. I interpreted "PPD is really just the sober version /r/TheRedPill. And it's a place where people from /r/TheBluePill can also get sober. So... this is like a drunk tank. But for it's effectiveness, you had to have been drunk first." as saying ppd removes the extreme views …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/14 07:17 AM
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I think by he's saying that TRP is wrong so purple isn't between either red or blue. I've pushed for alternate explanations such as alpha/beta just being women who have to sacrifice on attractiveness to get a guy who would make a good husband. Not a believer of trp but huma sexuality is an interesting subject I like to think about.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/14 05:55 AM
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It could be good advice if the counseler says, "you're not attracted to him, but don't worry you can divorce him, find someone else, and still come out ahead".
/r/TheRedPill23/08/14 05:04 AM
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Wasn't denying the wall existence but everyone will agree it seems to come at different times and intensities. You wanted a fit guy who doesn't smoke or party a lot so I inferred you lived a similar way. The average amount of time people spend together before marriage is 1.5 years so add that your age and a several months looking for someone. The problem is the looking part and only you know your situation well enough to fix that. Just from my personal experience a 28 yo 7/10 rpw shouldn't be ha…
/r/RedPillWomen22/08/14 08:18 AM
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I ask because your post reminded me of this thread. http://www.reddit.com/r/RedPillWomen/comments/23kakq/i_swallowed_know_the_truth_but_now_i_dont_know/ I've heard girls all over reddit say "The guys I am attracted to aren't attracted to me" a million times. It's really just a veiled way of saying I don't want to settle for guys my level. Your demands aren't unreasonable at all, so all that's left is to put yourself out there more. Don't worry about your age it's not a problem. I know a lot of g…
/r/RedPillWomen21/08/14 11:33 AM
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You said you were a 7, and yet you can't find a man who is good enough for you. You really should tell us your checklist because if it's a well hung, 10/10 billionaire then you are destined to fail.
/r/RedPillWomen21/08/14 12:04 AM
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Oh man, can I get a link to those posts from redpillwomen? I searched their subreddit but I can't find anything. Is it in the comments or something? I like visiting there because they reveal womens' most vile side that we rarely see because women keep that shit on the down-low with all their politically correct speak.
/r/MGTOW28/07/14 11:00 AM
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Lol forget mgtow, redpills, feminism whatever and let's just think about this logically. You are making plans to live the ideal life and that should include the whole gamut of experiences like love and companionship. Women can have that without it costing them anything so I don't know why the hell you would avoid men. Men can't have a casual fwb relationship without going down in smv. Women make us pay and essentially force us to put in work to have sex which is pleasurable for both. It is their…
/r/MGTOW20/07/14 04:51 PM
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Attraction is everything when it comes to relationships. We've all seen the shit people go through just to stay to people they are attracted to. And we've also seen how shitty people treat the partners they are not attracted to. No one has actually gave the man advice on either subreddit. The wife is obviously a crazy, dumb bitch and there is no reasoning with her because she fails to see the obvious. I say the guy immediately tries to get some on the side (discreetly) and looks into protecting …
/r/TheRedPill19/07/14 12:24 AM
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he said he already saw the 2/3 stat so yeah daswood and me agree... as for source http://www.unc.edu/courses/2006fall/econ/586/001/Readings/Brinig.pdf
/r/TheRedPill17/07/14 10:49 PM
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It is about 66-70% we can agree on that. Among college educated couples, however, 90% of the divorces are initiated by the woman. A lot of people here fall in that category so with half of marriages ending in divorces, that's a 45% chance of getting fucked.
/r/TheRedPill17/07/14 09:30 PM
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Meh, I think you're wrong. Attraction isn't a choice and if she's attracted she will make up reasons to be with you. Girls know if they will sleep with a guy within 5 minutes of meeting him. Nice Guys have their lives together, that doesn't stop the felon who can't hold down a job from banging her.
/r/TheRedPill15/07/14 06:37 PM
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An 8? Where the fuck do you live lol. 6.5 to me but I'll say 7 to make things easier. Honestly more than half of those guys picures were terrible. Some didn't even show their face. When I made a female acc for tinder the guys were FAR better, so I don't think her standards are unreasonable. Also tinder is for casual shit so of course they can punch above their weight. It's only fair considering mens' willingness to date down if things are just 'casual'.
/r/TheRedPill14/07/14 06:38 PM
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Not really. sleeping in gets old real fast and you feel like doing anything even working to avoid the boredom. Some here say she should work in a field she likes but women don't really have hobbies lol
/r/TheRedPill12/07/14 08:49 AM
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This is only true when the favor wasn't called for. Like you get someone a donut or something then ask for a favor and bring it up. Reciprosity in relationships is natural so people will want to do you favors if they felt you really help them. He did the right thing, but he assumed that she would be grateful which she wasn't. In my experience, women have an expectation that men should help out and do favors just because she is a woman. This means that if you do the favors you come out even, then…
/r/TheRedPill07/07/14 01:01 PM
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I'm not really "red pill" so this will probably get downvoted. But I think that it's not women like bad boys/killers, it's that they are willing to forgive anything as long as the guy is attractive. They always call the murders/rapists/etc "innocent" which doesn't really make sense if they were attracted to such bad behavior. When in abusive relationships, they keep going on how deep down he's a good guy when it's clear that he isn't. I just don't see unattractive guys acting like criminals gett…
/r/TheRedPill05/07/14 05:37 PM
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I don''t think confidence is that important to women. It is often confused with social status and dominance. Showing low confidence tends to portray low amounts of both of these, but doesn't necessarily add to them. For example, if an attractive woman farted on you there would be a loss of the attraction. Saying confidence is attractive is like saying yeah i go don't fart on guys and get all the hot men. What i've seen people do is "up themselves" and approaching "confidently" while having too h…
/r/TheRedPill26/06/14 09:13 AM
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It's not exactly the same because of the dual mating strategy. She essentially told him that I am putting you in the provider role which means you're going to have to work for your sex even though I gave it to other men for free. The male equivalent would be saying "I just want you to put out each time, but you're too bad in bed for me."
/r/askTRP19/05/14 04:02 AM
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.......I dunno what your point is
/r/TheRedPill17/05/14 08:15 PM
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You're wrong on point 9; race doesn't matter. First it would hard to believe any genetic implications that lead to divorce, but since culture and genetics often occur together i will allow it. Even allowing your premise the census data shows that white male/ black female have HALF the divorce rate of white/white marriages. The rest is pretty common knowledge so I don't know why your putting some alreadyred requirement lol
/r/TheRedPill17/05/14 05:36 PM
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If you think RP is synonymous with asshole then you need to reread the sidebar. You need to be apply amused mastery, dominance/leadership, and push pull. So keep the gentlemanly thing since you don't want to 180 on her. For example, open the door but gently lead her in with the other hand. Be making all the plans for the date and try to invest 2/3rd's as much as her in the conversation. Award with affection only after she shows you some first and do this intermittently. Let her talk about things…
/r/askTRP16/05/14 09:40 AM
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I was using absolute smv not women's version and that includes behavior and social rank. So the son of a lawyer family attending ivy league has higher smv. Maybe I should have used marriage market value instead
/r/TheRedPill16/05/14 05:37 AM
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Yeah I agree but I am VERY curious as to how dualistic their mating strategy is. Can you mix in some beta (provisional) traits to increase amount of sex and quality with girls? So instead of taking her straight back to your place you form a deep emotional connection with her first with something like deep-diving what does it do to her mind. You can easily say it helps get you laid, but you might be put more in a "relationship" category and thus each time you have sex she will expect investment. …
/r/TheRedPill15/05/14 11:35 PM
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I don't believe entrepreneurship is as attractive for men in today's environment. A lot of men (including me) worked hard to gain success thinking that women were at the end of the road. But money doesn't have 1% of the effect on getting women as it did in the 50s. Because in the 50s the family would be heavily involved in who the girl married and warned her against becoming a slut. So if you're not planning to get married it's hard for me to understand why you would take a big risk when mens' m…
/r/TheRedPill15/05/14 09:49 PM
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I disagree with the conclusion you came to from your data. I don't think men are delaying marriage at all. I think women are riding the cock carousel harder than ever. A very young guy who would make a good provider would love to marry someone his age and smv. But what you have is a very large pool of average girls not wanting to settle so they ride the CC with bad boys who are notorious for their unwillingness to commit. We see this trend happening because men can't get married even if they wan…
/r/TheRedPill15/05/14 09:42 PM
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I was talking more about what you said in the OP rather than what was in the video. The vid was 40 minutes long so I didn't watch it and if he was talking about marriage I apologize. Yes there are different "qualities" of women, but it becomes mostly irrelevant when it comes to pick up. Screening girls at bars for low numbers is just stupid, and guys don't care about number nearly as much for ONS and plates. We're guys so it's just self-evident. I've created a rule of thumb for myself which is '…
/r/TheRedPill15/05/14 09:24 PM
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lol 600 hours is only like two years of lifting and that's not including all the diet shit you have to do. It's not enough to learn another language or "a place on any orchestra". I think you and a lot of people are here are the ones who are mistaken. Life is about pursuing happiness and if you were happy playing games, then it wasn't a total waste of time. The problem with video games is that people paint themselves into a corner where it becomes the only fun activity they can do. I've noticed …
/r/TheRedPill15/05/14 08:16 PM
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I think girls sometimes do want to fuck different guys (alphas) for the sake of it. The catch is that they usually want relationships with a guy who has as much alpha as possible. So they are willing to cheat hardcore depending on the situation. You always hear about girls wanting to try out different guys when they go on vacation. I've often overheard girls talking about lists of guys they would like to bang so it doesn't make sense unless they are somehow preemptively accepting rejection. He i…
/r/TheRedPill15/05/14 07:08 PM
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We have instincts that impose gender discrimination. Saying your against "bossy" is the same as the fat acceptance movement. I don't see a way to counter our more primitive nature, but hopefully one day there is a solution. Women in leadership positions may want to take a different approach than men. I have seen effective female leaders and professors that everyone respected so instead of complaining about a problem that is programming into us, i would search for other solutions.
/r/TheRedPill11/05/14 07:51 PM
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MRA is just reverse feminism. Sexism when it supports them and egalitarianism when it doesn't.
/r/TheRedPill11/05/14 12:29 AM
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I hate to be that guy... but how many examples of core TRP concepts do we really need?
/r/TheRedPill10/05/14 04:08 AM
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I find it so interesting when whites use the race card on a black lol.
/r/TheRedPill09/05/14 03:16 PM
1

gaining "insights, perspectives and fun" requires we work from the same premises. Whenever I talk about the theory behind TRP I am always arguing the premises so no progress is made. That's why it is a waste of time
/r/AlreadyRed08/05/14 06:14 PM
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I've used both terms correctly. see more here http://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/1ywequ/mod_on_red_pill_discourse_and_a_brief_discussion/ I'm sorry for assuming in a subreddit named 'alreadyred' that people would have at least read the sidebar esp. the mods... watever
/r/AlreadyRed07/05/14 08:05 PM
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I didn't... Beta – Traits of provision: either providing resources or validatation to others, women (and perhaps men). Beta traits display low value to women if they are are put on too strong or too early in meeting- giving without equity. Beta can be used to describe individual behaviors, as well as people who have an overwhelming amount of beta properties (opposed to alpha). Women want both alpha and beta. That's why they want to turn their alpha into more relationship material. I guess we can…
/r/AlreadyRed07/05/14 03:58 PM
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Disagreed with about everything, but I'm going to keep this short I'm a serial monogamist for pretty much about 2 years as a disclaimer. Beta sexual strategy is almost always taken as giving money for sex. I disagree with pretty much all of your premises so it's hard to see where to start. Money is a modern instrument and has little relevance when it comes to sexual strategy. Beta also isn't a noun as meaning unattractive male as so many have used it. Betas give commitment to women in order to a…
/r/AlreadyRed07/05/14 03:34 PM
1

That's just pickup which is why the order matters. That's not what I'm talking about. Pickup is really just a bunch of tactics to get you from not knowing the girl to f-closing. On a basic level, there is a minimum amount of value that a girl demands before she is willing to buy into you. Like any real life marketplace, it is filled with imperfections that you need to take advantage of to be successful. The most popular products are rarely the best they are just marketed better. Also I think you…
/r/TheRedPill07/05/14 03:07 PM
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Well you said women not sleeping with betas would be really bad for tribal tensions. Which is true and we're starting to experience these effects today. We're also attracted to the same stuff as long ago so I don't see how men could not care if their women slept around even if it was with their extended family.
/r/TheRedPill06/05/14 07:03 PM
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Yeah I've heard of kin selection before and it's very interesting. But I think you're talking more about altruistic behavior through inclusive fitness. It's still a bit of a stretch of my imagination to see a woman sleep with a tribe member just to up his confidence or performance. It's a million times more unlikely when in today's world we are picking up strangers not distant cousins. I think two real world observations can discredit this as a big enough factor to be relevant in the discussion …
/r/TheRedPill06/05/14 04:11 PM
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r u me? You're not going to get far discussing theory in this sub. This sub is a circlejerk for bros and the theory part (which of most of them don't even understand) is done somewhere else. I have a few questions for you though. Survival and replication means through your own line, not your siblings or cousins. Sublings even fight each other over their parents' resources. I read the selfish gene by dawkins and I am seeing a huge disconnect. I think the 'ambivalence' is caused by how hard it is …
/r/TheRedPill06/05/14 12:34 PM
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You don't gain anything by talking about the marketplace by describing how it works in equilibrium. It's not productive to say if you want more then offer more. Even the biggest bluepiller knows that and that is why this whole sub is filled with "jus lift bruuuh". I don't want to make a long post so i'll just throw out a few scraps. We are all out to get the most value, not be the most value. It's just raising your value is a reliable way to get more value. Other ways get you results far faster.…
/r/TheRedPill06/05/14 12:05 PM
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lel looks and money aren't an excuse... People believe what they wish to be true so doubtless the fact they are selling shit influences the message. Everywhere I go it's just half-truths arguing with half-truths
/r/TheRedPill06/05/14 11:23 AM
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Finally a post talking about the sexual marketplace which is what i thought this sub was supposed to be about when i joined. Too bad you didn't get any farther than stating the obvious
/r/TheRedPill06/05/14 11:19 AM
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I said it in parts before, but unless I'm early in the discussion I get ignored. I feel like a sloot cuz i put out and don't get any love. Reddit sucks for discussions anyways and the irc isn't good either
/r/AlreadyRed05/05/14 07:08 PM
1

awww shieeeeeeeeeeeeeet i wanted to debate this but this is 23 days old and this is reddit...
/r/AlreadyRed05/05/14 06:21 PM
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No, go back to bluepill. JBY (and its alternate "just be your best self") is useless advice. Being yourself is doing whatever you feel inclined to do. So if you are a huge math buff and you wish to spend all your free time reading up on it, going to competitions, and taking classes, then you are being yourself. The difference is that when you try to show off your results to women they aren't going to care. So we have identified two actions of "self-improvement" but one yields more results than t…
/r/TheRedPill05/05/14 10:39 AM
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I like how they always say "I take care of him". Bitch you mixed some of my clothes in your washing while I keep you off the streets. SMH
/r/TheRedPill05/05/14 05:13 AM
1

When girls say make them feel beautiful it doesn't mean this shit. It means be better than her friends boyfriends.
/r/TheRedPill04/05/14 05:31 AM
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Well I don't have any system for guys because if I have nothing to talk about with them, then i don't want to be their friend. Guys are simple like that. With girls I like to use daygame and just take them along with whatever i am doing that day (unless its really boring). It means less talking because we are doing other shit than looking at each other and it increases familiarity which is the point anyways. And when we do talk I let her talk about her interests and then I relate a bit and encou…
/r/TheRedPill04/05/14 05:26 AM
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I think this is more effective than relying on some number. I've overheard girls talk to each other about who they are going to lose their virginity too and they start naming a bunch of names. They were sluts before a dick even touched them.
/r/TheRedPill04/05/14 05:18 AM
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Yeah I'm always skeptical as well. But the important part are the responses. Wimminz are always right and even with all the evidence to the contrary, girls will still stick up for their own. Just think of how much of a problem this is in a democracy. It really is no wonder why so many laws openly favor women.
/r/TheRedPill03/05/14 01:33 PM
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From what i've checked out, LetsGetLaid is pretty useless - no sidebar material either. One of the top posts is a woman giving everyone advice on casual hookups lol. PUA, RP and MR are essentially the same. They just reach the same conclusions differently. These 3 movements that form the manosphere are relatively new. Women have always been women, so why does it seem all the new info is shit that people recently come up with? I feel there has to be some refined theories on womens' behavior (not …
/r/TheRedPill01/05/14 07:18 PM
1

Maybe the wrong place to ask, but TRP gets a lot of hate and I make it a rule of mine to see both sides. The problem is that the people who hate it don't offer anything to counter. I go on purplepilldebate and there are only two non-shaming arguments which are NAWALT and that RP isn't scientifically based. If i only believed in info that has been rigorously peer-reviewed by reputable scientists, then I would be able to function. Anyways, where can i go to see some alternative explains for womens…
/r/TheRedPill01/05/14 06:25 PM
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I used to think being manly was fixing her problems rather than just pretending to listen lol. It seems the more you do for them, the less you get.
/r/TheRedPill01/05/14 06:03 PM
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hitting the gym doesn't mean anything. I see so many people do some half assed rocky training montage then go home and eat carbs and empty calories. If you have a nice physique and dress to show off that gym body, then you'd have to be pretty ugly to not get attention. Whenever i read shit like this I just assume it's some guy using the curling machine 5 days a week and dresses like some hipster metrosexual.
/r/TheRedPill01/05/14 05:29 PM
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I've been down the money route, it doesn't help much. It just makes you more relationship material. If you are flashing money to get girls, they all expect you to spend a decent amount before putting out. And I guarantee you it's going to be more money for a less attractive girl than an escort. You should focus on career though because girls are a small part of happiness. Fullfilling career, friends, and family are worth way more. In terms of getting women who actually like you, try gaming diffe…
/r/TheRedPill01/05/14 04:42 PM
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Yeah, this fucking "hit the gym" touted here as some panacea. Everyone is constantly saying 'hard truffs, hard truffs', but they ignore reality constantly. Lifting doesn't work for everybody. It has more of an effect depending on your body type. If you're super short it's barely going to help because your look will improve but physical presence is more important to women. They take this douchebag look (which works very well) and apply it to everyone. Your time will be spent improving elsewhere. …
/r/TheRedPill01/05/14 04:13 PM
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Completely agree. I hope some fat guy doesn't take away from this that he should treat girls like shit and the pussy will flow. His looks and alpha behavior got her attracted and no one else can compare. The takeaway point is that her other options kept having needdy behavior. Neediness is always a negative when you're selling something.
/r/TheRedPill01/05/14 04:49 AM
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Obviously didn't read everything. The fat black got like a 8-9 guy lol.
/r/TheRedPill30/04/14 09:44 PM
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Pretty funny, but she (he?) missed the token argument "but all he wants is sex anyways". As if that justifies it. And for the record, nice guys are the ones who would love to be in a relationship, not the alphas. They seem to think that the nice guy is some douchebag in disguise with his hat on backwards telling his bros how he gets all the bitches by buying them stuff and taking interest in their problems.
/r/TheRedPill30/04/14 01:15 PM
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I wish guys could fake it. Get some lifts and a bra that turns man boobs into pecs. Even with all the help/surgery in the world most girls still fuck it up lol
/r/TheRedPill29/04/14 08:58 AM
1

haha sounds like a law you could have fun with (theoritically don't arrest me bro)
/r/TheRedPill29/04/14 08:15 AM
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Notice how you said intern (residence). Briffault's law says its directly proportional the amount (docter salary is high) and inversely proportoinal to the length ( almost there ). Your example proves it because no girls are going after pre-med guys.
/r/TheRedPill28/04/14 07:14 PM
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How do you explain only 20% of men being classified as being average or attractive? So if you ugly, but you're her boss then your attractive? I dunno, sounds like there is more to it.
/r/TheRedPill27/04/14 12:12 AM
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I've noticed this when i visited thebluepill. Repeated sarcasm and hyperbole ad nauseum.
/r/TheRedPill26/04/14 10:40 AM
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It isn't that the submissive one gets screwed, women are supposed to be the submissive ones. It seems more like your wife couldn't find a better man to follow her hypergamous nature with. I feel bad for your mother because I wished mine would have lifted a finger once in her life.
/r/TheRedPill26/04/14 01:33 AM
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I read it and it didn't come out as politically incorrect at all. Maybe because I am comparing it to /pol/ lol. The mag is just catering to it's readers and, if it's something I can't change, I'd rather be lied to than face the harsh truth.
/r/TheRedPill26/04/14 01:13 AM
1

I'm sure it helps, but girls are very picky. I saw this post on /r/redpillwoman where the girl was a 4 and she was saying she at least wanted an 7-8 lol. She couldn't even be pumped and dumped so she was a virgin. If you think about all the men not having sex that means a lot of women aren't have sex frequently either. I am just amazed when I approach girls how many of them are single. Men are willing to comprimise, but women aren't unless to get their beta bux. That's stealing IMO but yeah. I j…
/r/TheRedPill24/04/14 05:10 PM
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That's true. All of their poses were shit actually. But I've seen this study done by other universitys quite a few times with the same result. When I was first practicing game, I would give a big smile because in hopes it would make them feel more comfortable. It's probably similar to how some women will act tomboyish thinking that's what we want. Also it dosen't really fit in with the amused mastery strategy. But reality is the ultimate judge. If you switch your strat and get worse results then…
/r/TheRedPill24/04/14 11:01 AM
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Why would you be happy when the reality is so much worse than the fantasy? It's like going on in life thinking you're going to land a good job soon and that you can buy whatever you want if you just work hard. But then, you go on the internet and it says there won't be such a job. The information helps - in that you can better prepare yourself for the future. But I can't see why you would be happier than when you wen't on believing life was perfect.
/r/TheRedPill24/04/14 10:47 AM
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I'm saying you can't repeat the experiments because you can't approach the same woman for the first time twice. OP brings evidence that woman find such and such attractive, and you shoot it down because of your solipsism. It's no different than some /r/askwomen poster asking if being fat is unattractive, and having some whale reply "no, i get a lot of attention from men and it makes my boobs bigger tehehe"
/r/TheRedPill24/04/14 10:42 AM
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Game for attractive people and average is the same... Both are gearing about having abundance, passing fitness tests, and displaying alpha qualities. You can be attractive (alpha anatomy), but if you act needy or you follow BP dating advice, then you're not going to have nearly as much success. Naturals themselves don't know everything and can't put their own understanding to words. Game is useful for everyone and we have seen piles of results for 6's to 10's.
/r/TheRedPill24/04/14 10:35 AM
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How do you know? Do you have a time machine and you repeated your approaches with the same woman with and noticed the same level of success? People believe what they want to believe. Your experencies are subjective while this is a controlled experiment. Their findings obv override yours.
/r/TheRedPill24/04/14 10:28 AM
1

How about just changing it for approaching women, otherwise go on about your life not giving a shit what women think?
/r/TheRedPill24/04/14 10:24 AM
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How do you explain people (like me) whose success rose with an improvement of game while my appearance stayed the same? Game is like makeup, it helps, but if you have the face of a troll you will just be a painted troll. Saying women have a 6th sense that is impossible to fool just negates all of game and thus all of pickup, some of trp, and all the experiences people have had.
/r/TheRedPill24/04/14 06:42 AM
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LOL as a man i find this highly amusing
/r/RedPillWomen23/04/14 04:26 AM
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In practical terms that does "solve" hypergamy. Let's imagine everything is lawless and women have complete control of reproduction. Then they will share an alpha rather than be with the beta. The alpha will be disincentivized to commit to a monogamous relationship. This will lower the fuck out of the birth rates, and the ones who produce won't be the most fit. Their attraction is still obsolete. High iq doesn't matter so you will raise a generation of dumb jocks raised by single mothers and tha…
/r/TheRedPill21/04/14 08:29 PM
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I was asking if the hypergamy top 20% of men was changable. In so far as top 50% could be average or greater. It seems they are comparing guys on in a relative sense thereby causing increases across the board to have zero net effect. To put it hypothetically, everyone except a few are completely redpill self-improvement mode. The people who don't follow it will far way behind, but the girls might still only choose the top 20% rather than having the percentage of attractive people increase.
/r/TheRedPill21/04/14 04:16 AM
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problem (for us) in a relative sense. Not saying there is something wrong with Nature. Marriage sort of cures hypergamy though, as the top 20% of men would get hitched rather quickly forced women to settle or be alone forever.
/r/TheRedPill21/04/14 04:12 AM
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Completely agree with everything. I think part of the problem is that having little success with women pushed people even further down and thus further increasing their unattractiveness. But there is something that keeps coming up to mind. Hypothetically, if most men following advice like this would the 20/80 rule still apply. I mean even the ugliest of us as way better off then cavemen/women and they seemed to have procreated fine. Men are in a sorry state these days so you can climb up the lad…
/r/TheRedPill20/04/14 11:34 PM
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You just don't get it. The environment changed before we did. If we lived like 70 years ago, where abstinence until marriage was the norm and women did their fair share, then i would be all for LTRs. The problem is that practically every girl is a slut now AND marriage is a sour deal for men. This makes the white picket fence dream obsolete. So I can either stay celibate until i find a unicorn or become the CC for some free attachmentless sex. I think we all know the logical choice.
/r/TheRedPill17/04/14 10:13 PM
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You're just wrong. If you think having muscles is gunna make up for awkwardness you're going to have a hard time. Both matter and cannot be ignored, the thing is that they each have diminishing rates of return. You need to work on both and work on your weaknesses more than your strengths. Also that job is bullshit and not redpill at all. What is the meaning of alpha fucks, beta bux if the amount of money you earned mattered. Even if you are earning minimum wage you can save for a few nice outfit…
/r/TheRedPill15/04/14 08:03 PM
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AWALT. Just as men are naturally conditions to compete for sex, women naturally manipulate men with sex. Other than your family, coworkers and your plates, there is no purpose in even acknowledging women. Do you have a chance at picking her up? Then approach. Otherwise ignore. They are just terrible, in general, of being useful in any other way. They make manipulative and needy friends. Their advice is fucking always awful. And they are all about changing you to fit them regardless of your relat…
/r/TheRedPill14/04/14 07:09 PM
1

They also lift for sex though
/r/TheRedPill13/04/14 03:57 AM
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Yeah this is the reason i prefer day game. You can just live your life and if you see someone attractive you go for it. I don't force rejection out of them like pick up artists though because even though it doesn't both me it probably bothers them. I am well practiced in knowing if a girl is into me or not, and I can weed those out very quickly. Day game doesn't have the concentration of hot girls so maybe it's more for beginners or lower smv people like me, but I am able to have abundance menta…
/r/TheRedPill11/04/14 06:49 PM
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What about the possibility that a lot of girls just don't want kids? Incentives for kids have been reduced since they used to be a natural consequence of sex. I tihnk what's happening is that girls want companionship, and the pussy pass only goes so far especially when you are being pumped and dumped. I see young women ( usually meh looking ), always talking about being lonely when it's so easily for them to form relationships. Just look at r/foreveralonewomen. I guess they would rather share an…
/r/TheRedPill11/04/14 05:33 PM
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Ah, i see now. Makes perfect sense. You are a woman because I don't think any man could fake woman logic this well. The ol' "i win because im sexy and ur mad cuz ur not i win argument" fallacy. You're right I will never be as cool as you. I'm just here pursuing value and trying to become a successful scientist because that's what get all the girls. Because, you know, pursuing knowledge and aesthetics both have women at the end of the road. You gunna be mad when i'm nude and just covering my junk…
/r/TheRedPill11/04/14 12:50 AM
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They all like it because it's feel good bullshit. JUST BE YOURSELF EVERYONE WINS!!! Tell me one thing: are all pursuits/hobbys/values/whatever equal in attracting women? It obviously fucking isn't which is the premise of your argument. Your hobby is one of the few that does increase your SMV while you pursue your passions and career goals. That's good for you man. I understand that chasing women works against attaining value for yourself. And in other news, the sun is hot! What got me was that y…
/r/TheRedPill11/04/14 12:34 AM
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I am glad I don't have a gun in my home or I would have blown my brains out already. Let me take a look at the reasoning of your post. Men create value Women are attracted to value Therefore chasing value will get you women "Focus on your dreams and creating value. The women will show up after you are a success. It is their biological imperative." You back up this reasoning with the fact that some of the most successful men were virgins. You just simply don't understand that not all pursuits are…
/r/TheRedPill11/04/14 12:09 AM
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Your "thing" has the consequence of increasing your aesthetics. Don't try to extend that other pursuits. It's actually quite unbelievable if you think all hobbies/whatever are equally good in attracting women.
/r/TheRedPill10/04/14 11:21 PM
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I would never drag a woman on like this for material gain. It hurt me inside just reading this shit. The only thing this serves as is a reminder of women's lack of sympathy for weak men. If you work in a cut throat field for a while I can imagine someone being like this, but it seems to be an innate ability from women. People say you shouldn't hate women because that's just nature. Well I think baboons are a creul animals and the world would be a happier place without them. I also dislike cockro…
/r/TheRedPill10/04/14 08:32 PM
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Do your own thing and the women will come? I love this cute posts that turn the sub into r/theredhampster. This is our version of "just be yourself". The evidence you've provided goes against your own argument. Many of the greatest/most important men in history have been beta - just look at scientists and inventors. But they were still beta, or at most beta bux. Attraction is primitive for BOTH sexes! Game is just the art of incorporating other shit women find attractive with your words and body…
/r/TheRedPill10/04/14 07:55 PM
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